Crush Your Fear of Rejection in 3 Minutes (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

[@AugustAdvice]

Matthew Hussey is like that guy you run into in the hallway at a party when you're drunk and crying with mascara running down your face and hes says "Hey, you're special and amazing, F him. Now go back downstairs because there's cake."

[@strawberriesandstuff6638]

August that was spot on lol

[@NicoleElissaLoveCoach]

LOL!!!!!

[@arisgreek8697]

And the one who is not gonna fuck you. No..i dont wanna be that guy, thanks 🙂

[@valuetainer3437]

Aris Greek hahahahha

[@mwashamsa]

😂😂😂

[@AlexPlatinumAdvice]

I love this. My mentor says double your failure rate, the most successful people have a lot of failures and rejections under their belt.

[@lavonnealexander6936]

Yes, do it.

[@tammyc2699]

Your vlogs have helped me so much. Not in getting guys. But in moving my life forward in a great direction.

[@alexandravtensek1216]

Tammy C totally agree. Same here.

[@ViviChiki]

Totally!

[@poesiainazioneutube]

same thing. getting a guy wouldn't be bad though... ;)

[@priyankatheartist8643]

same here

[@spencerdyer4372]

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[@snowman01]

I love Matthew Hussey for the truth he gives to women. It's a skill to give the un-suger-coated truth without driving people away. Don't give up ladies!

[@opandeokoth4827]

striker161 ye

[@karinabradley4734]

Love the walking format, must have been so complicated to film in one take. Well done!

[@kellycastro2003]

“Extras” and “Ending Credits.” He’s speaking my language. Thank you for this shift in the rejection mindset. This actress needed it. ^_^

[@lizzywills2225]

Ok he’s right. I sit here feeling like a complete loser in relationships and he’s right... The men who rejected us aren’t in the end credits!

[@stayroxy]

I have been waiting for this video !!! make more rejection videos , rejection or fear of possible rejections is one of the biggest barriers to achieving success and putting your advice into practice on a deeper level ! MATT PLEASE DO A REJECTION SERIES.. LIKE IF YOU AGREE

[@JustSurvivetoThrive]

Empowering and encouraging!! I never leave your videos without feeling so encouraged and loved!

[@meravbarnathan4793]

"if your dreams dont scare you, they are not big enough" - Ellen Johnson Sirleaf. Im going to go on a new adventure! Im going to move abroad. And even tough I am so scared that things won't work out the way i want them too this is something I have to do, Coz i won't settle to my "fine life" and with my new core confidence Im sure ill be alright :) And hey, you can always come home!

[@SelinaLarissa]

"The guy who is rejecting you today, or not texting you back, that's an extra" - since I work in the film industry I can relate to this expression really well :) great advice!

[@nittayaj]

Wow "you don't get the highlight if you try to avoid the dust" wisdom of the day.

[@deprofundis3293]

Best line and applicable to life in general! "Take enough risks, create enough opportunities, for interesting and special things to happen...and recognize that a LOT of those moments along the way are going to produce duds. *But we don't get the highlights if we're trying to avoid the duds."*

[@Snigelkotten]

Barista #2 ! Hell yeah ! :D Thanks for this Matt, really needed this at the mo . Keep making awesome content , take care and good luck everyone. You are worth so much more! We love you ! xxx

[@stephaniethelovely1]

Ugh so true right now. A guy asked me out, and then just started ignoring me when I can see he's doodling around online. You know the drill. So I'm watching your stellar videos to keep things in perspective.

[@TVrawks301]

I was born and raised with a traditional belief that you should not date multiple guys, but let the man come after you - but i like what you say in this short video. I have some thinking to do! Thank you!

[@dictionarypictionary9872]

as long as you're not dating multiple guys at the same time, there shouldn't really be problem. I mean what if things go pair-shaped with one guy... is that it.. As for waiting for the man, it's kind of normal but things are different nowa days. Women have power and influence and are capable of harassing men, sure they'll taste the bitter rejection but at least they'll have some balls.

[@JK-yn1dz]

TVrawks301 you can date multiple guys just PLEASE let them all know

[@RaquelFerrando]

Literally just what I needed today. We keep foccusing on these people that are not important whatsoever I think because we are scared AF of the unknown, we are desperate to get that future where they won't matter instead of living our lives and getting there naturally. Thank you :)

[@karishmamalkan7830]

that moment when the advice from my dating coach turns into career advice ^_^ so glad i subscribed to you, keep the great content coming. Also, nice shirt :)

[@ikrambaouchouch9511]

Thank you so much Mathiew! This video just so accurate. I have been everywhere single effort to get a guy who I'm so in love with and it's really affecting my personal and professional life as we are coworkers. He is always giving me mixed signals, sometimes he is nice and loving and sometimes he can be the coldest person. What hurts me so much is that he knows how I feel about him but never said how he does actually feel about me or even be appreative of I do for him. I m rejecting like so many guys to enter my life I have even been avoiding my male friends just for him to show him I so fuckingb much care about him but I get is cobfusion. I'm literally lost, but your video let me think of my worth and that what I'm doing is totally wrong. I never been this weak in my whole life, but never again I will just turn the page.... Thank you so much for making me return to the old me ❤

[@sahrah.7590]

it's so annoying scrolling through the comments and I see people commenting on his and camila's relationship. I get some people are curious but it's simply not our business.

[@shiannemcpherson8069]

Wow once again you made me cry, this touched me on such a deep level. Thank you, Matt, your advice is always just what I need.

[@eg2783]

Couldn't agree more! I believe This applies to every aspect of life . Every experience and every step we take brings us closer to our goal . We may not see the direct effect of each step we take specially when things don't work out the way we want them to but truth is even when things don't work out ,it still brings us closer to getting things right eventually. Nothing in life comes the easy way. Anything worth having in life is the result of multiple trials and errors , failures and persistence till we get things right. As long as we keep rolling, things do happen eventually or even better things come along the way! :) thank you Matthew for your lovely reminder!

[@thunabs7759]

Thing is I know you're right. Everything you say logically makes sense... fundamentally I'm aware of it. I just wish my feelings would listen to you as fast as my mind. I guess I need more time.

[@marah3298]

I just started crying happy tears? This is life changing information for me, being terrified of rejection, even friendship rejection.

[@gossipqueen2101]

Matthew, you are so wise & handsome. Love your advice. You & Camila both are actually lucky to have each others

[@tinatina3168]

Always up to the point...Concise and full of juice, thanks our Dear Matt🙏❤️

[@TheShangkharee]

This made me smile-cry. Thank you Matt for the reinforcement ❤️

[@onichi2995]

I'm here too change things too Matthew..this why I'm back on your channel. I don't have problems finding

[@annam.3300]

Perfect timing for this message...thank you!

[@kmilsonpt]

I think this is one of my favourite videos of yours so far. Have watched it numerous times.

[@Betterboundariesnowteensupport]

Yes worry less about rejection and more about missing out completely.

[@orangedimension9273-j7z]

I am gonna keep it simple... DO MORE VIDEOS LIKE THIS.

[@PamsPropertyPearls]

I love the analogy! This will definitely help me reframe situations where I’m nervous about talking to or approaching someone new that I’m attracted to! I was painfully shy growing up and it has been a long road to learning how to value myself enough to risk rejection. Now I have a great tool that gives me an extra edge! Thank you for another wonderful video Matthew 😊

[@dictionarypictionary9872]

havn't listened to matt since 2012 but always considered him a hero. it's great to see a guy who's capable of getting through to women in a respectable way, equally refreshing as hearing women telling men where it's really at. Is heartbreaker a dud? I think people are sleeping on that one.

[@aaryalouise6391]

Somehow, same applies to dancing. I am shy and tend to not ask someone to dance with me, because I've been rejected by various guys. Gotta keep your advice in mind, thanks!

[@sungfilmography5418]

The sun light in the back is great!

[@Mary-sp9dp]

Matthew is a type of guy every girl wants. ☺️

[@nicamika3625]

Not me...😂😂

[@maia594]

Thank you! I really needed this! I have been struggling getting over someone who has hurt me a lot. Just used me and left on to another girl. I even let it affect my school carreer. I feel very bad about it. Thanks for the positive message! I just think I might not be so lucky in love...

[@yellababy]

Love the positive uplifting🙌 information in your videos. Thank you 🙂 love anything has to do with growth.👍

[@meganthompson6217]

Sometimes I think Matthew is reading my mind 😱😂 with advice

[@kirandeshmne6165]

I loved the walking video concept...Matt, you say there are side heroes in our lives but every side hero is a potential leading hero until...things don't work out

[@amyjacquelineg.9541]

We learn from our mistakes not only our success. Wish I realised this when I was younger. Barista # 2!! 😄

[@gretaanne6403]

I am always that girl that men doesn't want to get involved in, or get to know better. Been single since birth (surprise, surprise!). That girl who always experiences first dates and no seconds, or thirds. That girl who you can call Miss Seen-Zoned or Miss-Friendly-But-Up-Until-There-Only. Most of my friends would tell me I am smart, pretty, talented, lovely, witty, kind... but I don't even feel like that at all. Maybe because deep inside, what I truly want is a validation, that I am a woman, to be desired by men and in which I have never ever felt. Sometimes I feel sad about it, but then I would think that if I always continue thinking like this-- in this stupid and shallow cycle, then I will never grow. Not just as a woman but as a person. I have stopped believing in love (romantically) and instead focused on other forms of love. Maybe Romantic Love is not really meant for me. People think I am a strong woman, fueled by high career ambitions but heck no! I'm just someone who wants to survive day by day, sing anime opening songs when I'm alone, watch kitten videos before going to sleep... yet in everyone's eyes, I am a strong woman. In my heart, I am still a girl.

[@Tinky1rs]

Try dating in a setting that allows you to be more girly from the start, e.g. comic con or the like? Plenty of guys watching anime, great thing to have in common!

[@Qqaqq1]

@Greta Anne Hey bro girl, I hardly ever comment on youtube, but your comment really touched me and I feel you :) We can talk here in youtube comments whenever, so you dont feel lonely and I am a naturally very talkative person ;) Aleks.

[@jasminegutierrez7251]

I'm trying to learn to stop fearing rejection and take more risks when I like someone. I want to be in a relationship

[@jenniferwightwick5158]

Amen to that, Matthew! One word: Perspective.

[@legibitiqua2]

This is amazing Matthew!!! Gotta have the duds to get the highlights. I needed this message more than you know! Thank you.

[@Gabriela323]

:D! I can always count on Matthew to lift up my spirits and give me hope.

[@suzisaintjames]

I couldn't focus on the your message. Your face made my face itch so bad I had to scratch. Thank God it was a short video. ❤🌅🌵

[@VictoriaMartinez]

Dude! I hope that you treat Cabello like she deserves & I hope that u haven't cheated on her.

[@ravenclawsden2103]

I am so grateful for your wisdom, Matt!

[@seacoast4950]

Mathew, you look great!!! Like your videos. Always great advice.

[@2011work2008]

😥 I’m in tears.. so true, thank you Matt

[@jessyluna9616]

I love you for helping me when I needed the most! God bless you

[@anakarinavargasmata2130]

Matthew help me! Everytime i see my crush he always tells me we should hang out or have a drink, but he never follow through. I'm so over of his speech and i want to say something back at him that is high value and makes him understand that i'm not the waiting kind of girl. :(

[@tflking4916]

ana karina vargas mata then tell him how you feel

[@sidr4157]

How do you tell a perspective about your past when they ask? I hate being dishonest but my honesty is turning, seemingly great, guys away.

[@amandamcdowell]

Hey! You’re in Chicago! So am I! Air and water show!!!!

[@shadow010174]

Just because maybe one day I will not think about the rejections anymore, they won't be easier to handle.

[@Alina-xu7nn]

I'm so sad right now I lost two friends to suicide. Boys who are much younger then me are making fun of me and scaring me. Making sexual comments and I can't take it. I've been on and off of meds and meds. I had to be in a out of hospitals for like a really really long time. And I can finally sleep the mind spirals are better controlled. I love your videos they help me so much.

[@EgleMakaraite]

Why does Matthew look so exceptionally attractive here? Is it just the setting? Maybe he should make more videos in Chicago.

[@emi-bs9rv]

Great video, that 'every guy who kept you casual' part literally spoke truths on so many levels. 🙃🤤 Made me realise I shouldn't need to put up with guys who show no interest in me! P.S. I knew about heartbreaker, and every other song of his...🙄 (But I get the point you're making 😅❤)

[@simonebrady05]

."...barista number 2 " fantastic line !!!!🤣

[@JessieLewis]

That’s how I lived my life! And I got rejected so many times 😹😹😹but finally with Mr. Right-for-Me

[@Battledrone]

If it were only so simple. If you've been rejected as a child, by a parent and your peers at school they were staring in the movie that is your life. It has become part of your identity to deal with rejection, to avoid it basically.

[@3keey]

Loved this....had to watch a few times!!

[@terriesmith8219]

How to crush your fear of rejection: *be handsome or hot af* Hahahaha😂🤣😆😂😂😂

[@V_morales98]

Terrie Smith or be confident and get used to getting rejected and learn from it. I don't know where you'll find someone to ask out

[@terriesmith8219]

*Vicente Morales*~Let's be real honest and not lie to ourselves, shall we. Looks is NOT everything, it is not the end all, be all.....BUT...it is very important. Going by your name, I'm going to assumed you're a male (correct me if I'm wrong) so if a short, obese, ugly woman who has tons of confidence, approaches you and asked you out, you'd say yes? Confidence does NOT attract at first sight. Looks is what attracts first. Attraction is instantaneous, it's a matter of seconds that the brains decide whom is attracted, how you choose to act on that attraction is up to you. Looks determined the likelihood of you getting rejected or accepted. There's always exception but they are not the rules. The rule is....if one is attractive, one is more likely to NOT get rejected.

[@terriesmith8219]

*Vicente Morales*~Btw...im female and I've never had problems with dating.

[@dictionarypictionary9872]

or be filthy stinkin rich

[@atlanticocean711]

Dictionary Pictionary hahaha

[@xdxdxdxd4575]

That's what I needed to hear today! Thanks Matthew!

[@AmatielleSilva]

Trying to draw him near to chase me, and marry me, not be terrified of loving him or being rejected by him but he shows little to no intrest. It will take a miracle.God help me, Sadly, I've not been this vulnerable before.

[@gitanjalibhattacharya2574]

You make me smile Matthew 😍❤️

[@kericorley9387]

I can't even start. I am ready in every way possible to date again (grown kids), except my skin is holding me back from even looking up and making eye contact. It shames me. I have lived my entire life with bad skin that has only become worse with age. Unable to find medical treatment (but still trying) I live with constant breakouts. Violent itching and open lesions on arms and back and a bit on my face that can last for weeks or up too a year or two. Summers I can't cover up so there is no hiding it. Winters I can, yet I refuse to be dishonest mostly because the truth will reveal itself. I'm 54 soon and haven't dated in over 6 years since the murder of my fiance'. I am healed emotionally but I can't imagine ANY man looking past my skin mostly since it seems nobody else does. I don't want to touch me...why would a man?

[@meaghan8740]

Thank you Matthew. I really needed to hear this video!

[@asbaran]

Your hair looks nice not combed back like that. Looks relaxed and chill 😊

[@is.b.1185]

Oh Matthew i love you for this. Thank you.

[@stayroxy]

onehundred percent this is the most important mindset or nothing else will work

[@Anna_Helena]

No failure means simultaneously also no success

[@fatimahassan9098]

I love his words

[@sarahdavies3690]

Thanks for this Matt, everyone could do with a friend like you! 💕

[@Lheensayleen]

This is amazing! Really want that retreat!

[@inperspective360]

My city in the background! Made me homesick

[@ВладаПронина-з4щ]

Should have known this fan was a heartbreaker! Aww

[@1999x9]

What have we done to deserve the angel that you are x

[@itsdrako2675]

Matt you totally need to do coaching for both sex, not just women. I've never related so much on someones love speeches. If only everybody would listen to you the world would be a better place and there would be love for everyone.

[@evavankova4326]

Matthew you are amazing person. Keep going you are doing a great job. ❤👌

[@tephyrula]

is it just me or is Matt Daniel Radcliffe's older brother from another mother.. they have the same face structure, voice, accent and mannerisms!! come on!!!!

[@daenal6153]

Just what I needed. Thank you! I love you💖

[@ashtizzle07]

love this the fakes are just extras but seem so important at the time even cant forget about people from like ten years ago haha

[@musicals4ever1]

A point well made. Thank you!

[@lmd420]

Tomorrow I promise I'm gonna do the next step I'll suggest her to go on a date I know I'm afraid of her reaction and the possible rejection but no matter what I'm now convinced that if I don't do it tomorrow then I will never do it....I know it's hard for me since I haven't done that before and I don't have a lot experience BUT that's the point to begin from somewhere.... I hope that I'll not overthink and do it see you tomorrow....😩😀💪

[@Selectrovert]

Can you please give some advice for women who are abused by men in past, are scared but still want love and the right guy.

[@WuWuGuruWhatsIt2U]

Is that my city I see? Lake Michigan? Can't believe I missed you here. 🙁

[@suerichardson6728]

Hi... I am 47 and single for most of my life. Terrified of being rejected. Depressed from not being good enough. Giving up on finding him. 😢

[@jhsemoxitha3821]

Mathew this was really inspiring thank you so much

[@gbessone]

I absolutely love this video (and i am a guy). Needed to hear this today exactly.

[@elenagalanaki2116]

Now that was a great video! Thank you!

[@laurenharris1436]

Such an amazing point 💛

[@laurenharris1436]

La la la Aww thanks

[@JungianHeights]

‘Think about that guy that never called you’ erm yes of course you do

[@ShawnDavid91]

I know about heartbreaker! OFF THE INVINCIBLE ALBUM. 👋👋👋👋MJ FAN, right here.

[@annaanna-ul8bl]

I w o u l d use this, and I do keep this in the back of my mind, bUT ANXIETY IS LIKE THAT IS NOT CORRECT. BECAUSE, I WANT WHOEVER I ASK TO STILL BE MY FRIEND, AND I DONT KNOW IF THEYLL HATE ME AHHHHH

[@donnah313]

Love the new theme

[@JBeex3]

I needed this!!! Thank you Matt!!

[@AlexMartinez-cc6tw]

it's kinda easy when there strangers, but when you realize you were actually in love with your best friend..... its more dificult