Dad Replaced My Mom by Getting Married to His Girlfriend and Kicked Me Out After I Told Her to...

Dad Replaced My Mom by Getting Married to His Girlfriend and Kicked Me Out After I Told Her to Get Out of Our
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[@paranoidboyscout1776]

10 years later...."wHy DoESn'T My DAugHtEr tAlK tO me AnYmoRE....

[@michal31131]

I don't think he'll remember her after the sister leaves the house. He's such a narcissist

[@paranoidboyscout1776]

@@michal31131 I'm sure he will on his death bed.....

[@Joey15811]

​@@michal31131I think Nicole has been pulling the strings. 😊

[@fungithefungi3331]

As someone with a narciccistic parent who is now sick. Yup, this is what happens. They expect their kids to be around no matter how much hurt they have cost and they act like they didnt deserve it. I take care of everyone that is close to me. I care less for her than a stranger, thats what happens. All the years of mental abuse, being thrown to the streets, being used for money by the one supposed to help..

[@paranoidboyscout1776]

@@fungithefungi3331 Sorry to hear that friend. I hope things are better and if they're not, I hope they will be ...

[@Silencer796]

How dare she share personal things to “strangers?” How dare the father pick a “STRANGER” over his kids!

[@Wakutari]

Why are you defending the father in this story? absolutely delusional.

[@thecringecounter5091]

​@@Wakutariclearly someone can't read

[@user-tl9bj9kh4v]

​@@Wakutariabsolutely blind.

[@Silencer796]

@@Wakutari Your calling me delusional? Pffft! You should read properly!

[@unitcharles8278]

@@Wakutariread bro. Read

[@jordanwardle11]

100% there is no money in the college funds, spent on nicole.

[@michal31131]

And the survivors benefits

[@jordanwardle11]

@@michal31131 that is just like child support, it is paid to the parent. it isnt the childs money so much as it is for the parent to support the child

[@HeoBaby24]

​@@jordanwardle11it's the child money either way

[@jordanwardle11]

@@HeoBaby24 no it is not. it is the parents money. there is a massive difference

[@HeoBaby24]

@@jordanwardle11 not really especially when their using that money that ment for the child. The mom wanted that money/college fund for HER children so in any case it's their money

[@gwenrichard7507]

The withholding a therapist is him trying to make sure nothing can be used in court. Start recording now. Get your sister to record. Write down the times and dates of EVERYTHING. Your sister will be turned against you.

[@clearmind89]

She already has been turned, cuz as soon as OP even hinted at going to the counselor, the sister ran crying to either their dad or stepmom, and stepmom has been wedging herself in between the kids and their father

[@mizmiza.]

The father is a giant selfish a-hole . All these time he thought he’s the only that’s grieving and completely disregarded his children’s feelings and started neglecting them. The grandparents are also enablers to this situation . I hope OP finds a way out of this mess and find peace .

[@user-ue5sg9nc5g]

He’s an idiot

[@zekebrix2002]

As a Christian, I’ve had my own mental health issues but when I went to speak of this with my pastor, he did not hesitate to refer me to a professional not try to spiritualize my mental health.

[@RandoWisLuL]

im no longer religious really, but i was part of a Presbyterian church for about a decade. That pastor was the same. He kind of always said something along the lines of " that's not my area of expertise. In fact i might need some therapy too, we all do at some point. Sometimes God guides us in different ways, that therapist might be Gods answer to your current problem" Which always hit home. He said it better than that but that's basically what he said.

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

there ya go. There are some decent pastors after all.

[@DarkEinherjar]

OP needs to get her finances in order and prepare to go no contact with everyone in dad's side of the family. These people are way too toxic and controlling.

[@fonandoozmando5961]

I would've yelled back at my grandparents "Not once did I lie and if you're unhappy on what your son has become you only have him to blame for it, if you hate me for being truthfull then you can abandon me like he did, I will go to my other grandpa who seem to at least are for our wellbeing"

[@nadhindrahakim4761]

As someone has commented before the dad doesn't believe in therapy because it will expose how a shitty parent he is.

[@PMMcIntyre]

No, it's because therapy almost always makes it worse. All they do is convince you to lie to yourself and they don't actually address the issues that are bothering you. It's essentially legalized brainwashing.

[@stertrack520]

Fact

[@GabrielleHayes1921]

I was always told that therapists would force me on medications or lock me up, and if anyone ever found out I was in therapy or on medication they'd look at and treat me differently. And although the comment you said makes tons of sense, there's still this horrific fear that the therapist might be a bad one and be more harm than good.

[@PMMcIntyre]

@@GabrielleHayes1921 they aren't wrong. You have to absolutely watch what you say to them. At the end of the day, all they care about is a paycheck and they will always put that above actually helping anyone.

[@nadhindrahakim4761]

@@GabrielleHayes1921 That's sort of the reason why one would try to find a good therapist. A bad therapist would cause more problems than solve them. It takes rounds of multiple therapists to get a good therapist.

[@A-Warthog-cc1wm]

Holy crap, no good ending here. Why is EVERYONE against OP? She needs to save up and move out as soon as possible and cut off contact with all these people.

[@HeoBaby24]

I swear it shocked me that the grandparents switched up on her. I don't get how she's lying when she not even living with her father right now

[@kingkemaniLaBorde1691]

It's January so the story is pretty recent it might have more updates in a couple of weeks.

[@blue3532]

Its new story? Story on here usually years old.

[@ladylily]

@@blue3532 It was updated 2 days ago, but this channel keeps deleting the post I made giving the update. SwanAltruistic2129 is the user name to see for yourself.

[@m4x927]

Probably gonna be a month or two minimum before there's an update.

[@user-ue5sg9nc5g]

That dad, grandparents, and Nicole are terrible!

[@DarkEinherjar]

It's not like those people don't believe therapy or counseling... the truth is that they're scared that those will expose them for the sh-tty people that they are.

[@ladylily]

Some religions are very much against "outside interference." They really don't believe in outside therapy and counseling. The fact that the grandparents only allowed their "faith leader" tells me this is what's going on. They are either JW or Pentecostal. I know Catholics and Baptists are perfectly fine with professional help. JW and Pentecostals (I dated one) are extremely closed off to the non-JW/non-Pentecostal world.

[@sarahsmith768]

My God that was hard to listen to. I hope OP will be okay. Listening to stories like this make one feel so powerless. Poor thing.

[@violet9544]

Heres the thing: a lot of people are failing OP and the sister rn bc there's at least half a dozen MANDATORY REPORTERS that this girl should be seeing at school every single day. Mandatory reporters should be reporting every single time she says she's been left alone at home without food for several days. They should also be reprting the fact that she was kicked out of home and is being threatened with homelessness if she reports these incidents to anyone. On top of that, since the college funds are from their dead mother, OP and sis would most likely have legal rights to said money. There's also the matter of calling the cops on maternal grandpa for "kidnapping", this could very easily be dispelled by explaining that they're being neglected to an extreme degree and they left home because the dad is verbally assaulting them for asking for the bare minimum and possibly also for being an alcoholic which could endanger the children. It doesn't matter for even a second what dad is demanding to save his image. Considerimg all of the false or harmful CPS calls sent in for perfectly fit parents, there should be just as many sent in about this father. Maternal grandpa needs to call CPS a dozen times over like yesterday. He should've been immediately reported to CPS about the head injury incident because that was completely intentional as neglect.

[@KageKobushi]

Agreed, but the system rarely works as intended - especially as the sister is terrified and likely to lie on the dads behalf, and the grandparents will lie too. That makes it exceptionally difficult for op to prove her side of the story, especially since everyone is now on high alert.

[@Applestarbaby]

Sounds like a cult not going to lie

[@jonghwabiased8671]

OP's father literally took the gold medal for worst father.

[@ladylily]

OP needs to go to the police and CPS ASAP. I know these days, it isn't the best solution but it's the only solution. At least getting everything out into the open will put the spotlight on the shitty dad, grandparents, and Nicole. This will, also, make sure the baby isn't neglected and abused. The little sister is being manipulated with fear, so she needs to get out, too.

[@RandoWisLuL]

there is a fine line though. The foster system isnt a fun place and often doesn't land the child in the best environment. So you dont ever want to wish that on any child unless its really really bad and other faimly cant take the child.

[@ladylily]

@@RandoWisLuL I know precisely what goes on in those situations. At any rate, the update says police were finally called and the family lied.

[@rogueshark23]

​@ladylily of course they lied they only care what other people think of them rather than well being of the girls.

[@RandoWisLuL]

@@ladylily Having experienced it though I'm not 100% certain you do or you arnt disclosing the fact that what i said is true. Its one thing to know about it but to actually know what its like is another. You could have a masters degree in this subject and still not understand what its like. You furthered my current point by saying " its the only way"

[@thiefpotato2759]

​@@RandoWisLuLIdk if it's the same with grandparents as it is with parents, but she could avoid the system by having her grandpa take her. It happened with me since my dad came to pick me up when my mom lost custody. I was never in the system due to that.

[@DDs878]

Just looked up OPs Original post/profile. She's in hot water and at risk for being found out. She also asked for her story not to be shared on FB TikTok etc. Her so called gradians lurk those sites. Guess that was redacted in this video :/

[@DJpoony]

Whose OP? Can you add the details

[@destineblack2938]

@DDs878 What’s the profile??

[@TrueBlunty]

sounds like the grandparents were involved too but played the "oh why would he do that to u. we love u" munipulation. seriously the whole family is evil

[@gordybrown3667]

There was an update 2 days ago. Don't know why it wasn't in this video and why comments with the update are getting deleted, but I'll try adding it anyway. Hi everyone, I’m only making a mini update. During the meeting with the counselor and police officer, my father knew to expect a wellness check. In fact, he’s been home early every single day last week which is unlike him. My sister texted me last Tuesday that our father came home early from work and told her to behave. She was panicking and freaking out, so I called her to help her calm down. I explained to her that a police officer might come over for a wellness check, and she should answer the police officer’s questions honestly. I again don’t know specifically what transpired during the wellness check, but my sister told me that the officer came to ask my father some questions and asked her if she was ok. I asked her what she told the officer, and she told him that she was fine. Nothing has come out of it. As soon as my sister texted me on that Tuesday, I tried sneaking out to go over to my dad’s home before the officer comes, but my grandpa caught me. He brought me back inside, and we had a yelling match to put it lightly. I yelled at him saying he doesn’t care for my sister and I. He yelled at me saying he was tired of my spoiled ass and that I should be grateful that I still get food and a bed after “the foolishness” I recently pulled at school. I left in the middle of his rant to calm down in my room. My grandma came up shortly afterwards to check on me. She said that your dad and grandpa are going through a lot to figure out this mess and to please not make it worse for her sake and for mine. I asked her what she meant by for my sake and hers. She said that I need to mature and act like an adult and to not cause her stress. Then, she said, “ You need to stop stressing Nicole. You know, the poor woman has been calling me crying about what you did. She’s scared for the baby.” After she said that, I did not have the energy to enter into another yelling match, so I told my grandma that I needed some space and left. The counselor did not follow up with me during school last week. Also, I think it’s for the best right now. My sister had a panic attack last week. They almost called paramedics because she couldn’t stop hyperventilating. I know she is suffering and doesn’t need anything else placed on her mentally. I also don’t want to break her trust again after going to the counselor. She is the type of person to keep things to herself if there isn’t a strong rapport. If she is going through something, she will not tell you unless you force her hand. I still want her to feel safe and open when she speaks with me. I’m still evaluating my options and trying to find the best path forward. Side note: I keep getting questions about this in my dms 1) My father, as far as I know, currently does not drink excessively or do hard drugs. 2) No, Nicole is not my stepmother. She is just engaged to my father. 3) I am not going to run away. I'm not careless enough to do that given everything

[@LNPragathiesh-ef9dz]

What kind of a dad is this wreck. No way he just forgot the daughter's mother death it as if it was some bad memory. Even though its hard to go through them and get over it, choosing a complete stranger over your daughter is a huge red carnival.

[@DoctorFoot.]

Little update I found!! Her father was arrested for neglecting her sister and kidnapping op from school essentially. They went to arrest the father and went through his phone and saw CP material. The also found nicole to have CP material on her devices as well. A looot has happened in ops life so I just wanted to give a tiny update.

[@Justyn_Lim]

Where can I find this?

[@ytuser2272]

Woah! Talk about unexpected news.

[@b1gbreezzzy718]

So can you tell us where to find this post

[@C.G.Gaster]

Ops situation doesnt get better from here. Their sister is breakingndown mentally cause she is too worried about upsetting their father. The grandparents want op to "mature" cause its causing stress for them. Nothing came of the wellness check cause thensister said she was fine. Op cant gdt out till they are 18, cant run away either due to too many eyes watching them. Its a sad and hard situation, i hope op doesnt break from this, cause its horrid.

[@Carnibee]

Really wish I didn’t listen to this one. Now I’m just really upset.

[@Kofi_Mensahs_BurnerAccount]

Feel bad for the OP. She’s in a tough spot. She’s going to do some forced growing up and that father will later cry when Nicole leaves him penniless.

[@lunafate1792]

I hope one day I can hear what happened. I feel so bad for him and wish I could help.

[@SRKStar]

Damn I need an update 😭😭😭 reading family trauma helps me with mine. Wow I hope the damn best for this poor girl.

[@idoonotkno894]

that's one hell of a fucked up setuation

[@rukiakuchiki6187]

Nicole's is a homewrecker

[@DarkEinherjar]

She can't be a homewrecker if she entered their lives two years after the mother passed away. She and the father did try to erase every trace of the mother from their lives, though, and that's also unforgivable.

[@rukiakuchiki6187]

@@DarkEinherjar still

[@HeoBaby24]

​@@DarkEinherjarhomewrecker isn't just cheating she wrecking the homes

[@jessf.9759]

​@@HeoBaby24Absolutely right. She wrecked the relationship between father and daughter

[@dijango0015]

@@jessf.9759 the father and daughter alone are responsible for the relationship between him and his daughter. Nicole cant do shit if the father had the brain or the emotional intelligenz to actually understand whats going on. Edit: i am not saying nicole is innocent, i am saying that the father completely failed to do what a parent does, protect his children, literally any abusive female he wanted to bang could have fcked over his daughters and he wouldnt have done anything.

[@Chuckakhan]

Report the parents and paternal grand parents to CPS.

[@joelavery1998]

Can we get stories that are actual full stories and not 80% comment replies and backstory

[@rameshchandra1963]

Prepare your finance and consult if your mother left a will and make your top priority to get University while doing study work programs.try to spend weekends with your sister alone and help with her mental health

[@BrightElk]

I lived through a very similar situation like this as a late teen and it was horrible. My husband experienced this situation as well. It has completely tainted our view of step parents and blended families. If marriage doesn’t work out or my husband passes away I refuse to subject my child to a step family. I don’t even know if I would be open to dating. The fact that parents are capable of letting their new partner override everything including their own children and the new partner is just happy to sit back and watch the wilful neglect of the children involved makes me sick to my stomach and I think it’s wrong to date with children still in the home even when widowed now.

[@eyez409]

I'm honestly terrified that this kid hasn't made it to 18 tbh

[@onlittlecatfeet]

I'm so angry right now, and the story stop before any closure make it worse

[@ladylily]

The user posted updates 2 days ago. SwanAltruistic2129

[@penguinpingu3807]

As punishment I am not taking you to the only person you can confide your feelings with.

[@arcadius3257]

Nah fresh fur burger has turned this man into a Grade A tool, his allegiance is to pound town now.

[@paradoxgameenthusiast]

Maybe talking with your neighbours would help telling your situation to them and asking them for any help in the ever saddening story you just happen to be a part of

[@KDannXII]

I hope dad enjoys the nursing home in 20 years

[@stardustdeath2497]

7 min of posting and someone already posting first lol

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

I hope OP does something about those 2 idiots.....

[@grimmlord4211]

The dad and his parents are basically shooting themselves in the foot and gonna be that no one care for them

[@anantgaikwad3528]

How fucked up is this story

[@mokshithgali9318]

Dude everyone except the op her sister and her maternal grandfather is ah

[@80m58]

What is this? He's trapped!!

[@lyra6695]

The op got manipulated by the paternal side family

[@Grey-Spider-]

I guessed he was 17, LETS GO

[@taylordaenzer4852]

Your father is in the wrong here.

[@Isimpforerror]

Anyone has the link to this post??

[@redtalesss]

❤❤❤

[@cathydevilgoddess]

How dare the grandpa yell at him/her his grandpa and dad are assholes with the sister

[@ladylily]

Why do you keep removing the update I'm posting?

[@behiyepalo2985]

is there and update?

[@ladylily]

@@behiyepalo2985 YES! And it's huge! It was 2 days ago. Basically, police got involved, little sis is s**cidal, grandparents are evil and threatening OP ... the OPs handle is SwanAltruistic2129

[@ladylily]

@@behiyepalo2985 Hi! I keep trying to reply to you, but the channel keeps removing my replies. There is an update from 2 days ago. User SwanAltruistic2129 .

[@jennifercrama7082]

Omg where is the update?

[@Dimlor]

what do OOP and NTA mean? I'm not english speaking and have a hard time processing all these acronyms

[@gordybrown3667]

'Original Original Poster' and 'Not The Asshole'

[@Adarkane325xi]

This is barely a YT channel.

[@HeoBaby24]

This is a actually story this time

[@Adarkane325xi]

@@HeoBaby24 No i listen to the stories, that’s not the issue. The issue is that this content “creator” just lifts stories from Reddit and puts them in a translator. They aren’t “creating” anything.

[@HeoBaby24]

@@Adarkane325xi true

[@Extremelybraindeadhumanbeing]

@@Adarkane325xiit puts text to speech so I dont have to read it. Pretty good for shiny hunting kn pokemon or just games where sound isn’t a necessity or needed whatsoever

[@Adarkane325xi]

@@Extremelybraindeadhumanbeing Do you want a cookie? What part of my original observation is untrue? I just said i listen to the stories. This “creator” is “creating” nothing. How am i wrong?

[@ericaBay]

second!

[@user-jb5gv6uu3s]

First

[@santinosalamanca4378]

Such a horrible situation in the video and you think you are special for being first.

[@jaylarkin4331]

Complex situation. How long does a person need to celebrate a dead person's b day?

[@HeoBaby24]

Make it a tradition? The dad agreed to it and it's a way to remember the mother

[@jaylarkin4331]

@@HeoBaby24 maybe I missed that or was an agreement. And obviously the man is not dealing with anything in a healthy way. But he can't change his mind, tho?

[@ladylily]

In most cultures, remembering a dead loved one annually is tradition that carries on for life. Only in American and British cultures is it seen as "ridiculous" to remember loved ones.

[@dragonsanime1503]

How old are you? You are 18 you can live with your grandparents or live all by your and tell your dad what you like or not I am not live with you tell that police the true that my dad did something so I can’t live with him and can you call and text you sister. Just no contact your dad never talk him again.

[@ladylily]

OP is 17 and in high school.

[@kidm0bius190]

soooo fake.

[@Silencer796]

Ahhh just like you eh? You think people haven’t been in that situation or are in it?

[@kidm0bius190]

@@Silencer796 oh, so you're the broken person in the video? good for you!

[@clay5291]

I guess im just raised this way, but this person seems like an extreme pushover. There are many times where I would’ve pushed back. Dude took too many hits and was even scared to tell anyone about it.

[@HeoBaby24]

I mean your being told you'll have no home and people will not believe you hard to trt and pushed back

[@prideguy3233]

They're a teenager with zero support.

[@clay5291]

@@HeoBaby24 true, but kids will always have some type of support

[@HeoBaby24]

@@clay5291 what support? She ain't got none her whole family isn't doing shit.

[@clay5291]

@@HeoBaby24 society provides multiple resources for support. Fear of the father is what stopped them. Been stated multiple times.

[@horsemanadventures955]

Your 17 get a job and leave 🙄

[@chriscormac231]

Dear god it's pathetic how afraid of solutions OP is, breaking down at the slightest thing

[@maple_dm_960]

No shit she a child

[@harpocxy]

its a woman.@@maple_dm_960

[@prideguy3233]

"this child with a dead mother and abusive father is pathetic!". That's what you said.

[@JuanSanchez-rv9xy]

Complaining that a kid isn’t handling a situation mature, really mature

[@Silencer796]

Oh sweet child, you must not have ever been in the same place. Because that isn’t a response most would agree on

[@sababaratashvili8629]

When they write how they cried too many times it seems fake story, but since it's about female it's fine.

[@Barack_Obama0]

OP name is u/SwanAltruistic2129

[@CptKorn]

Thank you @telltales take notes

[@ladylily]

Thank you so much!

[@justsomedangerbigfootwithweb]

You a legend for this, Idk why these channels don't credit the Op.

[@ladylily]

@@justsomedangerbigfootwithweb I'm surprised the channel left this comment up because they keep removing any comments with the update.

[@ericaBay]

second!