The Battle of the Sexes & Their Role In Relationship | Hot Debate | DailyRapUpCrew Podcast Ep 116

[@DailyRapUpCrew]

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[@ronnellhillman7260]

Enjoyed this episode I really like esmerlin she the mature woman I look for to build with

[@ThomasNdndnsj-bo7ds]

Dear Black People, Holding another Black person accountable isn't a form of hate, jealousy, putting on blast, wrongdoing, etc. It's actually a form of love to help one self correct and mature. We can't get better, as a people, if we can never hold each other accountable. Thanks, A black person

[@arkitekbeatzify]

💯💯💯💯

[@madisynngarner3460]

❤❤

[@theefleur]

Thank you for saying this 🤎🤎🤎🤎

[@ab4444]

💯 say that !!!

[@pgangsta357]

Well said family!

[@biggmixxo]

The lady with the feathers is smart & wise. She's morally grounded💯

[@MariyahBrown-fi4hm]

She sounds like she has low self-esteem

[@wi77iama773n]

And thick af. Perfect

[@mreincome]

The difference in mentality hit different once that age gap comes into play

[@wi77iama773n]

Scary part is the older woman probably found out the hard way in her youth and now trying to be the type men want to marry.

[@misunderstoodkj]

Ya'll were aggravating me with the use of the N-word! We gotta expand our vocabulary. Let's replace that word with "king" or "my man".

[@ShianneB_]

Facts!!

[@StoicEver]

Agree. We probabaly all grew up with it but it makes us look bad on public platforms

[@StoicEver]

Brother wasnt a bad replacement either.

[@Eyecyhu]

I say “uncircumcised Philistine” 😂

[@Daily_Peptalks]

Women think they have more options. Just because a man will sleep with you, take you out and buy you bags doesn’t mean he will marry you. …. God bless these young girls out here. Hopefully more women and men get back to being connected with God. ❤

[@biggmixxo]

I'm still shocked at how many women still act like they can't tell the difference. Short bus riders😮.😂😂😂

[@Daily_Peptalks]

@@biggmixxo Yes it is shocking. But social media adds to people ego. People think all them people sliding in their DMs are serious options.

[@kaneshamorgan9635]

Marriage is not every woman's end goal. Innerstand that

[@Daily_Peptalks]

@@kaneshamorgan9635 k.

[@TomikaKelly]

Women DO have more options. Especially desirable women...🫠

[@Hero-and-Hooligan]

Women want a male leader that will let the woman lead 😂

[@misunderstoodkj]

NOT TRUE! We definitely want our men to lead because we are tired of doing it, in general.

[@Chiefteeth1]

@@misunderstoodkjin theory women want a leader but will have a list of things men better not tell them to do😂

[@truebengalsfan]

Many woman don't want to listen or trust a man so they cannot follow

[@BluEx22329]

​@@misunderstoodkjyall don't lead tho

[@MariyahBrown-fi4hm]

Because both people should be able to lead.

[@jmarcomccray700]

I agree with what Dru said most try to change ppl because they are scared to start over. They feel like they’ve built the person up and don’t want them to be the person they wanted for the next one. But I also think ppl try to change others so if it don’t work out they can be the victim

[@DailyRapUpCrew]

Appreciate that it’s Jeuu btw

[@thurgoodjenkins284]

I’m so glad y’all had a woman with sense up here and spoke with some logic.

[@MrKitts100]

You don’t like something, now you’re a Narcissist

[@devayonlett3321]

Ole girl in the middle said she need a man to bring the woman out of her. 🤢. So what is out before the woman comes out of her? Her man Representative? So men gotta learn how to negotiate with men to get to women now-a-days? smh 🤢

[@Black_Myth679]

I think the sad truth is unfortunately due to social media and music women see that being smart, moral and having a good head on their shoulders isn’t necessary as long as they can make money. While on the other hand men are still expected of these things. I think the entertainment has left a strong adverse on both men and women and we’re seeing the consequences of it

[@jas1565]

You need to get offline and into the real world

[@Black_Myth679]

@@jas1565 you got the wrong guy buddy. I’m not some social media crazed fool I just gave my opinion

[@wolflordbradley7353]

​@@jas1565What dude said was facts. Women don't live in the same world we do but want all the benefits of said world.

[@jas1565]

@@wolflordbradley7353 you're right.. I don't live in your world. I live in the real world.

[@wolflordbradley7353]

@@jas1565 Good way to prove your an idiot.Thanks

[@stephen74gc]

93 Likes and 250 watching. Hit the Like yall!! It's free. Help the guys spread the message

[@catslapmasters2635]

Im just gonna keep it all the way funky with you.. The chicks on this panel in this episode is all birds bro..

[@itsKeMonte]

Women need to stop saying they can get anybody they want because if you can get anybody you want then you would already have the person you want

[@matthewstephens8634]

I agree 100% I'm just seeing no class ya feel me

[@jesterarts734]

I like how they always have a quick back and forth coitizing bars before the show. lol Keep it up. I look forward to it. lol

[@johnrobbins3087]

A Woman with Wisdom will always be Undefeated✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾

[@MoeSoNatural]

“Our roles depend on who we choose to mesh with” is the main point. If a woman is with a man who stands in his role that was ordained from the creation of mankind, the woman doesn’t have to enact any form of masculinity (i.e. she won’t HAVE to work outside the home, figure out how to provide for herself, lead him bcuz he doesn’t have a sense of direction etc)….. this is the missing piece- many of the men who want submissive women are subpar men. They didn’t do the work to uphold and maintain manhood and won’t earn a woman who understands and lives in submission to her partner 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@MrBrick68]

Eli, the women's age should be given automatically like other podcasts. Knowing their age helps people understand their perspective better. Ana said an oxymoron, she's an aggressive sweetheart, smh

[@tejtm]

💯💯 can't have your own cake and eat it too.

[@jubei187]

Aye look at this. A mostly sensible woman

[@isaywhatyouafraidto]

Lol

[@MariyahBrown-fi4hm]

She sounds like she has low self esteem

[@mefilmmaking]

Took 37yrs … by 47 she’ll talking like Kevin Samuels

[@RoblEsquire]

Shorty said "was I being a good woman to myself" hahahahahahah WTF

[@anyeastarks8145]

I’m sooo over these conversations!! Do what’s best for ur relationship!…

[@edjohn5114]

stop watching

[@ravongraydon9385]

Damn women can even take accountability in the comments…it’s hurts your souls don’t it🤡😂

[@rjturnr27]

You most definitely can not watch the content! You came here and watched it so deal with it

[@juanderuano8969]

Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[@juanderuano8969]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

[@juanderuano8969]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@janushomer9111]

are you a bot?

[@Iloveschool331]

I’m sorry but that 21yr old is very naive,aggressive & confused…she wasn’t mature enough for this conversation

[@KO-OG-Passport-Bro-1997]

THANK YOU for the Time Stamps!!!!!

[@jinxie712]

I don’t understand the idea that thinking what you are doing is right when it’s not working every time. You’re always single, but all your exes seem to work with their new woman.

[@BlackBiker1017]

Great show... Much love from Detroit.

[@Eyecyhu]

The difference between a young lady and a young man being abandoned at a young age and having to raise themselves is what survival looks like on each. When a man doesn’t have the father but enters life aggressively it’s expected, when your a woman and you behave the same due to the same circumstances it’s viewed differently. Both need their aggression for survival however it’s only respected when it’s coming for a man so learning to be soft as a woman is hard especially in a world that doesn’t want us to be soft submissive etc.

[@vondongaming]

I hate when a woman that's 5'3 120 pounds say I'm aggressive.. Oneeeeeee smack an shes a girl again lol

[@marcuswalker6764]

Damn bro. That comment giving me street fighter vibes😂😂

[@truebengalsfan]

5:16 best way to avoid a woman asking you to pay for a baby sitter is to leave single moms alone

[@theotherwise3102]

GOD is missing from the world 🌎 PRAYERS bring LOGIC 🙏🏼 ❤️ Thank you for these debates guys - i dont agree with everyone or everything said (even from the hosts) but its a great listening amd learning class. Mens feelings are truly VALID and I'm a woman ❤

[@Seen_not_heard]

On the topic of paying for the babysitter, offering to pay for a sitter is nice, but not expected (it is a good way to apply pressure). If you give her enough notice of the date (i.e. two weeks in advance) that should give her enough time to find a family member or a neighbor she can trust to watch her kid for "the free". Then you won't need to pay extra for a sitter. In my opinion, there is no expectations until we are married. I don't expect my current boyfriend to pay my bills (if he offers, "thank you baby"). We are not married, he is not responsible for me and if I got hurt, my emergency contact is my mom, not him. We forget THERE ARE LEVELS FOR EVERYTHING. That changes when we are engaged. It changes again when we are married.

[@srgbandino]

I love the shorty holding them females accountable

[@terreciakennedy3265]

He seemed upset about the lady saying she weeding certain men out based on her criteria. Isn't that what men do? When they decide to not mess with single mom's etc that's him weeding out certain females based on his standards. It's his right to not date a woman for whatever reason and vice versa for women.

[@janushomer9111]

no man should want a single mom anyway

[@babygirly217]

having narcissistic traits and having narcissism personality disorder are two different things. narcissism and gaslight are buzzwords these days. but what women that use it loosely don’t understand, is they are actually undermining their own pain when they refer to someone who is not a narcissist as one. so stick w me. NPD or narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health issue you need therapy for. in which you will do anything to get what YOU want and you only see the people around you as pawns. narcissists lack empathy. even for their immediate family or their own children. gaslighting is a common abuse tactic used by narcissists in which they cause cause you to question your own reality. example- you see me eat your leftovers and ask me why, and i respond that i have no clue what you’re even talking about and that you’re acting crazy to minimize your feelings and make you question if i even did eat your food. so calling your ex a narcissist, who was not, is invalidating your experience because narcissism would be an actual diagnosis that explains, (not justifies but is the cause) of that persons actions. so say what it really is, if he was physically, mentally, sexually abusive then say that. those are major character flaws. not diagnoses. i hope that made sense!

[@MariyahBrown-fi4hm]

My husband is definitely a narcissist but he's never been diagnosed

[@flybyky820]

Ima be honest if I don’t have a babysitter I’m just not going out or meeting up. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@DailyRapUpCrew]

That’s the decision that should be made and if the man decides to ask you isn’t a problem just shouldn’t be obligated

[@flybyky820]

@@DailyRapUpCrew no it’s not a problem. It just won’t happen if I don’t have a baby sitter. I’m also not going out my way to get a baby sitter. And no they not obligated. We just won’t meet

[@skills504]

Dope discussion

[@antoniohooks8866]

Yooooo!! The opening scene was pure wisdom

[@openmindchannel1978]

I always ask myself tis question, why so many black American women have this slight native American look, especially when they have little like Asian eyes. They look like a mix of black and native..

[@fliiguy247]

The reason why people try to change people is because they meet someone that they like visually and then find out the person isn't quite compatible but they don't know how to disconnect. They try to make it work anyway, either because of attraction or whatever else. People gotta learn to let things go if it's obvious there is no compatability.

[@valeriecompton777]

I’M SO GLAD I’M NOT IN 2023. NO I’M JUS VISITIN I DON’T LIVE HERE ✌🏿

[@wonhur885]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[@wonhur885]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counsellor, and how do i reach her?

[@wonhur885]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

[@AGYFTFROMGOD]

I know nothing. ❤But Everything happens for a reason or not. This touched me. I can relate. Take care

[@UThobaniDlamini]

Bro, there is more to life trust me😂

[@ijiahpeavy2429]

Stay away from her and don't contact her again, she's probably with another guy already because that's typically how it goes. Based on how you speak, it sounds like this was your first relationship and probably was too clingy to the point she lost attraction and decided to end it. Self reflect, learn what you could've done better, think of red flags you ignored, and move on.

[@bsamy]

Eli he was right he knew that shit was trash

[@eroberts0476]

Who pays for the babysitter when she goes out with her girls?

[@janushomer9111]

her simp

[@masonhull9400]

I like the panel of women on this episode, even the aggressive one. Each one of them were actually listening and I understand their point of view this time.

[@kelvinshorter2990]

Does that make sense if a man has custody of his kids and he expects a woman to pay for bbysitter in order for him to take her out??

[@jesstheromantic]

My goal in 2024 is to be on this couch ... these topics are super though provoking

[@joshuajackson7050]

Women have more options but I can gaureentee 90 percent of the guys they don't want.

[@marcuswalker6764]

Meaning women don't really have as many options as they THINK they do for that very reason.

[@janushomer9111]

they always feel like they are "too good fro them" until they have a few bastards

[@TheeRJMiller]

Well needed conversation

[@truebengalsfan]

13:31 this woman wants 50/50 then will probably complain about 50/50 later

[@Guilla4Life]

It seems like hip hop music has made women more aggressive and masculine….

[@DanteviousLars]

That man ace said "40?!?!" 🤣😂🤣😂

[@zayyd.n.]

How they make the question about them ???

[@londadon_bx]

Eli my guy you need to do something about that Charlie Chaplin mustache. Cmon bro I’m sayin it outta love.

[@zayyd.n.]

Nga in the lakers hat on point

[@979djyoungc]

That "cook" shii is IRRITATING 😂 WTF you people do when you by yourself? Do yall starve to you find someone to replace ya momma or McDonalds smh

[@janushomer9111]

if he brings in more money than her, she will cook or gtfo

[@fliiguy247]

NY just aggressive. It's a point of pride for them. It works in NY but nowhere else. It's very off putting 😅

[@Huhn-Bruh]

Mfs aggressive everywhere

[@flybyky820]

Jeuu the shower rod? 🤣🤣

[@DailyRapUpCrew]

Lmaooo some ladies be creative out here

[@wblue812]

How successful is the last lady that's a business woman? Is she actually creating cash flow from her business!

[@mh59551]

Eli on his narcissist ish with the thumbnail lmbao😂😂

[@stonelord100]

Is no one behind the scenes paying attention?? Mics way messed up & 1 woman you can't hear at all!! Love you all stuff, just damn

[@casono]

I completely disagree. My closest friend I've known since gradeschool and we speak regularly about everything. If you feel like you need to gain something beyond "friendship" with your "friends" that means you were never really friends to begin with.

[@shantajahjohnson7368]

This is great guys !!!

[@OthoWilliamsJr]

This BETTER go #Viral With *FINALLY* a _Woman(ESMY) on the show❗❗👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Tinue watching🍿

[@OthoWilliamsJr]

13:50 - NOT a Nixxa telling you what to do. That's the Man that your Dealing you with. See when we make Sense or Speak with *_VALUE_* In the Future till I'm 40, she want to Buss it open with NO RECOURSES.... Blaxk Men, Young, DON'T Be the Next Package Back Up Man. That's why I'm 40 & Single, I DON'T want to Be a Backup Plan to No More Blaxk Women. Blaxk Men BEing #1 in Step Daddy is OVER❗❗❗❗

[@OthoWilliamsJr]

20:53 - Women DON'T have Competition Men have BEEN thy same since Forever Women think her Degree Attract Men💣💇🏾‍♀🤦🏾‍♂🤯

[@D-Will2k]

I want my woman to be my equal. That’s just me. If we can contribute together then we should be Content.

[@PACMAN9]

Listen how the lady in the middle of the couch always saying "me, me, me"

[@keepingupwithkye]

It’s her life…

[@RRoss5035]

The exact reason why brothas travel abroad to find a wife.

[@brendabeautiful3096]

Ace is FINE FINE

[@kerrak.7452]

Nah we don’t use it loosely … ppl are narcs… we just have a word for it now

[@LazyeyeTay]

Y'all boys do a great job doing what y'all do but y'all definitely gotta get females that's not from NY

[@terreciakennedy3265]

These conversations are frivolous, because they would have you thinking that men have no expectations of women and are out here being loved unconditionally. Both men and women have expectations of each other. Neither sex is really been given any grace. The black woman have always been the most undervalued, under protected, under loved etc woman on planet earth. That is a fact historically. We need to all heal, and stop dating until we do. Bring back the marriage and family mindset, because this shit we been doing for the past 50 years is b.s

[@janushomer9111]

you are ignorant

[@2020_Visi0n]

Gondor has no Admin. Gondor needs, no Admin.

[@it-hurts-r2p]

They will never have a man up there

[@dbears1603]

Someone should tell the 21yr old most of her eggs are gone by 30 and geriatric pregnancy starts at 35

[@poisonivyheart6621]

With her muturity bless her she should wait till 40

[@marcuswalker6764]

She know but women are the more delusional of the two genders. Women IN GENERAL, tend to operate on POSSIBILITIES not PROBRABLITIES.

[@janushomer9111]

she wouldn't care

[@mikeclassic5412]

He took everything from you your gold your women your manhood. We don't deserve no respect. To the winner go the spoils. We not waging a war or doing anything to make them pay or take our stuff back. That's why we are ignored and disrespected and we don't deserve no better. He gets the best of all women for free now

[@lhbnlb]

@DailyRapUpCrew yoooooooooo bring chicka next to Ju back as a special guest star she spitn!!!

[@christina9095]

Where did they find those young girls from? They aren’t emotionally intelligent to handle the questions being asked.

[@feliciaallen6228]

Exactly.

[@ThomasNdndnsj-bo7ds]

A lot of y’all don’t want a good man. Y’all want a trick or a simp!! Y’all want a yes man. A man whose only purpose is to serve you and not himself or goals!! Y’all couldn’t handle a “real good man.” Y’all can’t handle a man correcting you. or calling you out on yo bs and habits and holding you accountable. Y’all want a sponsor. A real man is going to lead and not be led. A real man isn’t going to allow you to have those same habits you been having. A real man is going to stand up for himself and know his worth. A lot of y’all definitions of a good man is a man that y’all can control.

[@tpoppy9303]

I see a future of angry lonely men. Alot of yall absorbing manosphere/redpill bs that says any man doing anything a woman likes is a simp. Thats weirdo talk and guys who repeat this stuff are obviously incels. Us men can tell. Its good women out here but if your level is low then you gonna have to settle.

[@janushomer9111]

Preach !

[@Seen_not_heard]

If you're waiting til 40, you don't want a family. It's called "the 15-year fertility window" for a reason (ages 19 to 34 years). You might not even survive pregnancy in your 40's (especially as women of color). But to be honest, @ 20, I didn't know shit about having a family. I didn't know that was the best time to find a husband. I was still naive and having fun being untethered from my parents. So, I can't blame their ignorance.

[@TheTurk56523]

Raptor Claws is a dead giveaway.

[@Jason-ft8zo]

Poor black women ,I truly hope God help them one day 🤦🏿‍♂️

[@hanifbrown]

Yo if she wanted to be with you she would go out of her way to be with you

[@keepingupwithkye]

😂😂😂😂

[@poisonivyheart6621]

Yhoohoo.. I got a question, why do men treat their boys better than they treat their woman??

[@bcg1634]

Damn every girl an artist??

[@burnthrust]

Women mature faster physically not mentally

[@flybyky820]

Sadly

[@marcuswalker6764]

Yep. Also they start to care about a potential mate's ability to procure excess resources, that's why people say they mature faster since they have a finite amount of time to get the best guy they can, have babies by him and be able to be taken care of long term IF she can't provide the lifestyle she wants by herself.

[@louisdavis6432]

Question#1 It is not his responsibility to pay for your child's babysitter. As mature people, if you talk to him and he states he'll do it with no strings attached then that's fine. Mature conversations are one of the issues with today's"relationships". You can't base what type of guy he is based on him paying or not for your babysitter. A lot of today's immature men will be looking for that booty call if they pay for your babysitter.

[@deekers215]

everybody has more options because of social media. Remember there are more women on this earth than men, so options are in our favor.

[@victorvalentinejr9738]

It's not about me just making the decision it's about making the right decision my wife can have a say so but not the do so

[@majesticnative9693]

Follow me.........where ? Where would you lead me. Peep the wording. I don't follow anyone or anything blindly. You have to offer good leadership and add value.

[@scasimir1000]

If you guys can't do another Mike's stand in that room you're in why not do a cordless mike that touches to the clothing?

[@zayyd.n.]

The fact that she said Ouu is annoying…cuz ik she’s bouta be like “daaamn I never thought about that, well these ngas be outside sooo…women have more options “

[@Baabyac3]

Quality over quantity is so important people assume there’s so much more out there because they are including people with no morals or anything going for themselves into that category 22:52

[@pureblacbeauty]

The roles have definitely changed. The man needs the woman to go out and work now, he cannot provide it on his own. They also expect the woman to come home after a hard day at work and still handle 100 percent of her wife duties. If we are all being honest, it is not fair.

[@isaywhatyouafraidto]

I disagree with the part of 100% of wife duties. It’s not true anymore. More men are active in household aspects now than ever before. To the point where I honestly think women just use it as a excuse now

[@jadamills3243]

@@isaywhatyouafraidto you know you’re wrong in your opinion. Statistics and history are two different meanings. Stats are based on experience which became the history of the progress that has been achieved or ignored by the entire population. I know guys like you rely heavily on statistics, but ask yourself, is stats the true history or people use their opinions to create stats? It’s know in American culture and other culture, women are seen as nurturers, caretakers and suppose to raise children and cook. True only thing the world expect of men are provide and protect. Because many men abandon their kids no matter the circumstances , it’s safe to say that men’s expectations when it comes to marriage is different from their expectations in relationships while women’s expectations for men are the same in both relationships and marriage. Provide and protect those you want respect from.

[@jas1565]

A lot of these men who expect traditional wives aren't traditional men themselves. If your wife works, you aren't a traditional man and there's no reason why your wife should be handling household duties on her own. You both work.

[@isaywhatyouafraidto]

@@jadamills3243 I haven’t provided a stat but ok

[@kmetzgr9594]

Duties in the household are shared if we’re both working hard and coming home tired.

[@thurgoodjenkins284]

But it’s a difference between narcissism and narcissist

[@dorannelson9161]

Having these young airheads on the show no bueno smh

[@CaribbeanPatience]

I didn't like that the guys put an age on when a women decides when she wants to be in a relationship or have kids.

[@marcuswalker6764]

Now I agree on the relationship aspect but many women who want a long term relationship are likely to want kids too, which women have a biological "clock". Menopause is real and women have a finite amount of time to have kids naturally. Banking on invetro fertilization or "freezing her eggs" is a foolish and pretty risky move that USUALLY doesn't work or takes multiple attempts and is also very costly.

[@marcuswalker6764]

A woman can have a career AND kids but she should prioritize kids FIRST if she indeed wants kids and a family. You can always get the career later on.

[@user-py7ub3rh9r]

So she had a good man but realized that she didn't want a good man years down the road....after she got money. Check. Women get money and say I don't need a man. Period.

[@sunsoza8320]

This a vlear non rachet shoe. I support !! Im happy these are non rachet women

[@Wolfinthenorth]

Most women just the yhe woman with the feathers will leave a man bc of their happiness. As if your going to be happy everyday.

[@Cahluvca]

Sins of prior generations that passed down this idealogy that a unions foundation is "happiness"

[@SeanFit]

Smh... all I hear is "me, me, me, me, me" Im good. Yall can keep these women america. Bet not one is in the gym