"Date Me Or You're Transphobic!" - Trans Activist

[@BlaireWhiteX]

Like this video or you're transphobic.

[@natemarx4999]

Blaire is the absolute f'ing Queen!

[@watchyourprofanity8032]

Girl where did u get that top? I need it in my lifeee

[@quepaso793]

Love u ❤️💕

[@starshipthebunnyrabbit7380]

😂😂😂

[@heatherlove6906]

Much love and support!

[@PJ-zh4sq]

"Straight boys are so cute"... they're not even saying these boys are so cute, they're literally saying that they have a fetish towards straight men. Some people within the community have a sick fantasy where they think they can turn a straight man into something else as if it's a choice

[@kamurotetsu4860]

Predatory undertones in there, definitely. It's embarrassing the article tried to play it off as well. I'm gay, I would never say anything like that.

[@andrielisilien]

That's Jeffree Star right there

[@Teaginski]

Yes yes yes, well put!

[@mamagermany]

Ever hear the line 'spaghetti is straight until you warm it up'? That kind of fetish isn't completely unheard of, unfortunately.

[@Laoshiiiiii]

LITERALLY, I am so sick of hearing phases like that. It’s so wrong.

[@momoteacup]

No one owes you sex or a relationship. Period.

[@ski6712]

exactly unfortunately many cannot grasp this concept.

[@tracytre38]

Yep. The more Blaire spoke, the more I realized that this logic is very similar to the way incels think -- that the opposite sex owes them something, namely, sex. And guess what, they hate women, so...

[@rossmccloskey9879]

facts ^^. i love how they mentioned how they’re not famous as if it matters..? like most straight men don’t want non-feminine ppl regardless of the fame that may come with it. idk it just sounds kinda manipulative and gross to me

[@holidaytrout5174]

They don't but people are built for it. Without it, most people are miserable.

[@trublgrl]

Also, no one owes you sex when you're ON your period.

[@renatobonito1521]

Remember when we all complained that straight guys told lesbians that they could change them? This is so similar, yet a lot don't see it for some reason

[@elioben5810]

Exactly!

[@marckid93]

You know this generation doesn't like protecting men lmfao.

[@murderoustendencies]

@@marckid93 Thing is those people are also obsessively targeting women so that's not really a great call.

[@edenn8452]

@@marckid93 the only people that don't like protecting men are SJW feminists who only fight for equality that benefit them, and are the loud minority.

[@veryimportantperson3657]

same thing is still happening to lesbians. now it's straight guys pretending to be trans, identifying as lesbians, trying to change lesbians.

[@valorie444]

as a lesbian a lot of trans “women” love to gaslight us when it comes to dating and it is a turn off

[@sibel3437]

omg right

[@emmalol8411]

this is so true, I had a guy (not transitioned and then after i blocked him he changed his pronouns in his bio to he/him 💀) wouldn’t take no for an answer and kept texting me off different numbers. he literally did nothing to identify as a women and got mad when i said i didn’t like him

[@flav2689]

As a bi woman I see this as well.

[@flav2689]

@Ana Luisa I understand very well. I don’t think I could do that either. It just doesn’t feel ”right”. Ok, Blaire could be an only exception, ha 😂

[@flav2689]

@Ana Luisa ?

[@wanda-ful570]

Why doesn't anyone ask them why they are not dating gay men? Are they homophobic?

[@ViscountVile]

Little Witch Good point - I genuinely think defining themselves as cross-dressing gay men might be their best bet!

[@sohailape]

I am gay and I won't date them either. Sorry. Let straight dude have them.

[@huntertheheavy]

@@sohailape I dont think this is a gender issue. These 'beauties' look like they just discovered fire. Let no one have them

[@OmniscientWarrior]

Funny thing, they are not looking for trans female to male that are attracted to females. I would call that a masculine or butch lesbian, but with this line of thinking, surely that means they are straight men.

[@marckid93]

Yeah no lmfao. Let them go for straight men cause my gay ass won't be 😂😂 But honestly no gay man with common sense would be caught dead with these two.

[@EmilyRose970]

On Twitter, I saw the saddest post from a lesbian who was asking for advice, because she's in a relationship with a pre-op trans-woman, but she's not sexually aroused by her. At all. And she was saying 'what's wrong with me? Does anyone know why I might be feeling this way, we've tried everything!' And it made me so sad for her, because she felt like validating her girlfriend was more important than her own preferences. She genuinely couldn't wrap her head around the idea that some people just aren't attracted to penis, and that's okay, it doesn't make you a bigot.

[@oliviav.3565]

She's been so brainwashed she can't wrap her head around why she, a lesbian, is not attracted to her girlfriend with a penis.

[@TheEpicnesscontained]

that is genuinely sad and shame on her 'girlfriend' for not pointing out the obvious.

[@CarlosCardoso2amissao]

That's rape with extra steps

[@lucoai153]

I had a similar problem. My ex came out as nb and ... I’m a lesbian. I wanted to be attracted to them, but I literally couldn’t be. I got attacked and guilted for it and it had me wishing I could change my sexual orientation bc they made me out to be so awful. ;;;

[@Lilo_-]

@@lucoai153 Stay strong girl, you can't decide who you're attracted to

[@womp9465]

lmfaoo this is so embarrassing imagine having a whole article written about how you can't get laid

[@gregmarquez8720]

Their poor parents.

[@TG-jm7cq]

Lol I didn't even think of that!!!!!😂🤣😂🤣

[@mitchellbryant328]

This !! I would be like "girl stfu, do not put my name in this" hobestly i knew whk it was about before she brought it up. Its hella sad

[@ljb8157]

C'mon.. did you see the pictures? These guys have no shame

[@harinim6589]

nordic bear Uhhhh no they aren’t.... most liberal men are good looking

[@kalync.8232]

“They look like *this* and are CONFUSED as to why straight men don’t want them.” That got a good chuckle out of me when you put up their pictures. Those two are borderline narcissistic and entitled if they think their ethnicity,not the fact they have a beard, is the reason straight men aren’t trying to date them.

[@SaheeliRai]

As a women with ancestors from India, I can assure you, we have no trouble getting a ton of matches on dating Apps in a predominantly white society.

[@foreverhungry7777]

@@SaheeliRai That was her point. Straight men are not dating them because of their "ethnicity" - they are not dating them because they are attracted tp females, not gay male crossdressers, lol.

[@nathanaelmcmahan872]

Borderline? They're full blown narcissists. Just like any religious nuts, cultists, or leftists, they think their fairy tales should be validated. Their actions are driven by faith, assumptions, feelings, and fairy tales instead of facts.

[@00st307-m]

I always assumed they were looking for gay men? Not straight men smh

[@esunablizzard6482]

One of them has nearly Austin Powers level body hair, and that character has the extreme case of male body hair! 🤣 They want straight men but lack feminine form, lack of body hair, breasts, and girl bits. Basically just men in dresses with makeup and think that's all it takes to look like a woman. If straight men went for what they had, they wouldn't be straight. 🙄

[@lisgraa82]

People: "You have to respect everyone's sexuality!" Also people: "if you're not attracted to a trans person, you're transphobic". Me. o.O

[@maryfranklin7034]

Me: Surprized pikachu face.

[@shadowsa2b]

If the left didnt have double standards...

[@MrsMuffin11]

@@shadowsa2b they wouldnt have standards

[@erikascencen]

Them confederates trynna drag blaire imgrock.net/zfsx9dpltxel/RacistMina.jpg.html

[@worstever2942]

shadowsa2b im leftist but i agree the left has some issues

[@CharlesWarrenOnline]

It has nothing to do with their gender. The guys they desire don't find them attractive.

[@yakuzaman5074]

Just waiting for uglyphobia to start.

[@jessicaloveless7065]

They’re also not women

[@yakuzaman5074]

@@jessicaloveless7065 their "non gender conforming people" yet they want straight men who only like the female characteristics. ok.

[@enchantedByVocals13]

@@yakuzaman5074 i think they said "femme non-binary"😂😂 how tf is that logical?!?!?

[@nadiaxantho]

@@yakuzaman5074 and I'm waiting for the ugly acceptance movement lol

[@lemonshawty]

i've said it once and i'll say it again, blaire's natural hair is so flattering and i LOVE it

[@Love25648]

Cutsiwootsi pretty sure she had a hair implant lol and she takes estrogen and other hormones that help with healthy hair

[@niggitadragun9957]

@@Love25648 no she just had the hairline lowering / forehead reduction surgery

[@MetaphysicalMetalhead]

This length is so gorgeous on her 💕💕💕

[@Love25648]

jazlynn austin True but estrogen actually helps with healthy hair she said if before the hair was brittle before hormones

[@Harajukubarbie333]

Ikr my hair is flat and ugly lol

[@mistermarcus4281]

Trans women: "How dare you not to date us! We are women!" Also trans women: Have a beard.

[@Red_Asters]

Fr

[@FrothLyfeSailingNandji]

It's not a crime to have sexual preferences and to not be attracted to someone.

[@KitGW]

It should be a crime to dress like these two, though

[@specialbeamcharlie7250]

Yet.

[@thechrish2o281]

TRUE !!!

[@ScribblebytesWorldwide]

There's a difference between sex and love. There are men who love women but can only have sex with men. They don't call themselves gay. Its their preference.

[@kth5077]

Sailing Nandji - Frothlyfe ... Yeah, not yet...

[@darkydoom9955]

Even if people don't care about what gender another is, they still have a visual taste for their partners

[@madtabby66]

You mean looking so sweaty that I swear I can smell the BO through my phone isnt attractive? *YOU'RE SWINEPHOBIC!*

[@bsmith429]

As a gender blind pansexual, I could not agree more! Like, I don't give the slightest fuck if you're man, woman, non-binary, genderfluied etc. But I still have to find you both visually and your personality attractive for me to fall in love with you.

[@EduardoHerrera-fr6bd]

@@bsmith429 oh so you mean they have to be aesthetically attractive

[@bsmith429]

@@EduardoHerrera-fr6bd Not really but kind of yes

[@fenrisvermundr2516]

For example I like Hairy Muscular Guys with nice beards, and their face can't look too weird. I do also prefer Blue Eyes though that's just cause I like blue eyes. I have found guys attractive regardless of skin color.

[@coolnerd83]

The whole “attracted to straight men” thing gets me pissed off. Stop setting yourself up for failure and rejection. Yes, you cannot help who you’re attracted to, we all have types. But at some point you have to realize what you can get. Sorry, hun.

[@neffyg35]

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[@obvioustroll3736]

Exactly! It also shows they aren’t trans at all and they know this because if they were really trans why are they specifically looking for “straight men” if they’re trying to present as female? I’m trans and I don’t go around saying “I’d like to have a straight man please” like hello, who else am I trying to attract?? If I’m presenting as female, and look like a whole woman, why would I be looking for a gay man? That’s just weird lol

[@platypups]

Me too... and also, straight men + gay men = ...men. Is this not the point they're trying to make about trans men and women being men and women? 🤦‍♀️ the cognitive dissonance is 🤯

[@Juliaissocoollike602]

Yes! Gender non-conforming people need to look for bisexual/pan sexual people. That’s who wants to date then

[@t.thomas8919]

@@neffyg35 If only it was that easy. *le sigh*

[@dawnruhl8405]

I'm an old Christian lady. Straight & have never been attracted to another woman. It hurts me to see some of these people so lonely & desperate that they feel they have to attack someone who isn't attracted to them. It's downright pathetic, especially when you can make yourself more attractive. I dated a guy who literally hated makeup. Is there a phobia for that? LoL Found out about you from the Snowflakes video. Tom sure has opened up a whole new world I was missing. I admire & respect you immensely. Wish you were my grandchild. You're amazing.

[@thinkmirror8507]

So well stated, I feel the same way. She is just a beautiful soul inside and out.

[@7spiritualcompass706]

I agree with you, Dawn. I'm a straight grandma and love listening to Blaire. She's adorable and very intelligent.

[@7spiritualcompass706]

@@thinkmirror8507 Feel the same.

[@meekimations3443]

most makeup men wear is very neutral, Concealers, lip balms to cover acne or dark circles

[@Chellex93]

Blaire has mentioned in an old video she's estranged from her grandma on her dad's side so I'm sure she appreciates this comment

[@Grizzlox]

As a heterosexual man, women aren't my "preference". They are literally the *only* thing I'm attracted to.

[@acerowoodberry1236]

*transphobic*

[@Grizzlox]

@@acerowoodberry1236 I'm not afraid of trans people 😂😂😂

[@acerowoodberry1236]

@@Grizzlox tell that to *Jacob and Alak*😤😤😤😤😤

[@Omar-ly8me]

lol mood

[@kakajara2927]

@@Grizzlox Transphobic means showing dislike to the trans community but go off

[@lostar781]

If you were a lesbian, and a man came up to you and tried to kiss you, even after you said no,how would you feel? Disgusted, right? People need to just respect other people's sexuality.

[@huntertheheavy]

Isnt LGBT about expressing yourself and loving people who you want to love? Well these trans people dont think like that

[@Rayblondie]

You don't have to be a lesbian for that to happen.

[@rikkoyugi8620]

It's all about respect and boundaries

[@charlieminaj2]

That would be sexual assault?🤔 Or unwanted touching?🤔

[@huntertheheavy]

@@charlieminaj2 According to the definitions of such, it is.

[@RCD566]

Remember when the Gay community spent decades shouting from the roof tops, "Being Gay is not a choice!" Do straight people now have to resort to shouting "Being straight is not a choice!"?

[@Shiirow]

they just want their own brand of conversion therapy, to convert all the straight people gay.

[@Crackpot_Astronaut]

Looks like they're probably going to have to, here pretty soon.

[@t.thomas8919]

I still read the word Gay in the old fashion way. The quote reads to me as: Being happy is not a choice... *shrugs* I have no idea why.

[@mickjen]

Hey, don't forget us bisexuals. We get thrown under the "you should want trans/nb folks MORE" bus all.the.fuckin.time

[@ccss9827]

Can yall stop conflating two different groups? Gay people have talked about non-trans preferences and get attacked for it. Gay=/=Trans.

[@carmensandiego5788]

As a Transsexual, I never imagined in a million years we'd see the evolution of '' Non-Binary '' and frankly I support gender non-conformity, but this demand to expect Men who sleep with them is beyond insane. The dating world isn't designed to be '' inclusive '' in the way in which they'd like it to be. We're all going to find different people attractive. I've never gotten so upset if a man doesn't find me attractive.

[@samuelsouza3054]

The irony is that they call themselves as non binary but they put their sex in the app as female.

[@SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj]

@@samuelsouza3054 thats the only thing they can fall on when they lose their smoke of genders and sex and binary fussing

[@tirididjdjwieidiw1138]

@@samuelsouza3054 fr

[@謎思特異]

I have an idea, I can be a " Schrödinger's Transphobic ". When I meet those creepy crazy trans activist, I turn transphobic. When I meet the decent trans who have human common sense , I am no longer transphobic and welcome them to be friends.

[@elenawilliams32]

These same 'women' don't understand why we don't feel comfortable with them in private female spaces either! Delulu.

[@TitusRedwind]

Say it with me: YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED TO ANOTHER PERSON'S BODY!

[@spiritedawayvalley]

Amen!!!!!

[@KM-zn3lx]

For now...

[@justanotherguy469]

@@KM-zn3lx Oh snap! Good reply.

[@valm9462]

Obviously. but being trans is different from say being of certain race. a lot of times you can't tell the person you are talking to or even hving rn in bed is trans. it's a lot of times just a psychological thing more than problem in physical attraction

[@justanotherguy469]

@Alexander Boyer Good point!

[@gingerhills7581]

NB: YOU WON’T DATE ME BC I’M NB! Also NB: I only like straight boys. I wonder why these two NB people won’t date each other....bigots!

[@t.thomas8919]

Personally everytime I here Non-Binary, I think: 110101110001010101001010101 1010101000101 1011010101010 Like at this rate... date your computer. Got a better chance for less heartbreak until the screen goes blue. Like they go red in rage. *shrugs*

[@TheRubinator13]

They arent attracted to each other 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@margarethe3677]

TheRubinator13 exactly 🤩🤩🙄

[@StewardofAutumn]

Well shit, you broke the code

[@stankythecat6735]

Thank you ginger

[@johnnyfines627]

When did being ugly stop being a reason to not be attracted to someone?

[@omonighoojeaga1820]

Exactly their not even trying to pass as female

[@syfekai654]

Lmao facts 💯

[@steffanyadams8310]

Because they aren’t aloud to feel. “offended” apparently

[@johnnyfines627]

@@omonighoojeaga1820 Right! Look, be whatever you want, I don’t give a shit. But don’t just be a man wearing a dress and then complain that straight men aren’t attracted to you. Last time I checked, straight men are not attracted to dresses, they’re attracted to the women inside them! I don’t care how nice your dress is, if you’re still an extremely ugly man lol, then straight men are not going to be attracted to you. Like, fucking... duh!!

[@teriyakipirate9121]

Since ugly became a trigger word xD

[@avavavavaz]

blaire literally sticking her neck out for us trans women who remember what being trans was. LOVE YOU BLAIRE

[@FrancineL81]

tbh, im trans and i so GO BLAIRE sticking up for tradtrans girls

[@MB-xv7er]

“Women”

[@avavavavaz]

@@MB-xv7er yes we are in fact not biological women, but pardon are you living my life right now? thats SO weird cause i thought I WAS living my OWN life. As a hybrid. Listen bud, it doesnt help you. Transwomen know they are not bio women. We never asked to be called bio women, and dont want to be because we have different needs at different times. Love is important, spread love to those who love, and you can keep out those who are TOXIC to love. No need for trans this or trans that, evaluate the person for who they are. Transness shouldnt count against someones ability to be HUMAN. Love ya pls get with it.

[@MB-xv7er]

@ava farris I don’t have to “get with” the delusions of people who want to change their gender, nor does any other conservative have to accept those delusions either. The safety of our future is in jeopardy because of delusions such as men like yourself thinking you can be a woman. Many aren’t going to ever accept it; deal with it sir

[@drronaldinho]

@@FrancineL81 as a tradtrans man, I stand with you love

[@spoiledmilk1726]

"If you don't date me you're transphobic" I have chosen: Transphobia.

[@vexbanearamori7224]

hey its not so bad being a transphobic bigot is it? i know im enjoying it. rather be transphobic than..................date w/e those are

[@ginny534]

Vexbane Aramori Issa joke

[@elisexoxo8208]

Vexbane Aramori chill😬😬😬😬

[@t.thomas8919]

Yeah... I choose the single life if those are my only options. Yep.

[@quatzxice]

Lol

[@heather_doestruecrime]

*ITS OKAY TO HAVE PREFERENCES.* *ITS OKAY TO HAVE PREFERENCES.* *ITS OKAY TO HAVE PREFERENCES.*

[@curtisyue182]

IT IS NOT OKAY TO MAKE THIS KIND OF COMMENT IT IS NOT OKAY TO MAKE THIS KIND OF COMMENT IT IS NOT OKAY TO MAKE THIS KIND OF COMMENT

[@mirandagamez7868]

@@curtisyue182 buuuut y tho it's an opinion and preference

[@queercowboah8574]

@nordic bear 100% agree

[@spinmaster6995]

Miranda Gamez I THINK VORACITY IS ANTI-CAPS+REPEATING. I THINK VORACITY IS ANTI-CAPS+REPEATING. I THINK VORACITY IS ANTI-CAPS+REPEATING.

[@scientificatheist9381]

Lucifer agrees

[@cubencis]

Maybe I'm going to sound stupid but why don't they just date each other? Problem solved

[@melaninmagic7360]

Underrated comment ✨

[@kcamanda5215]

Cause that would be too easy. Its the year 2020.......everything has to be complicated.

[@joshualuke7003]

Because they both know that the other isn’t hot.

[@angeldeviltears]

it has hAs to be a straight man theyre dating, otherwise its not going to make them VaLid and iMpoRtaNt, uwu!!

[@edithguzman7277]

Oh because they like straight men! And they think that straight men should want to date them even if they have a hairy chest and look more like cross dressers than transwomen.

[@shaegrin2009]

I remember going on the app HER and talking to women, but there was a handful of “trans women” who kept harassing me and making new accounts to send me death threats because I didn’t want to enter relationships with them. Two of them called me transphobic for not wanting them to send me nudes. They drove me off an app I had hoped would be a safe lesbian space.

[@ziigiiziig]

I left, too. Most of the people I came across were transwomen. I'm a masc top, and I like feminine women. Not transwomen who look masculine and don't try to pass. I got so tired of having next to no options besides them, so I just deleted my account. Now, they're banning women for speaking up and saying that they prefer bio women. And their Twitter is one of the most foul things I've seen. They're defending pedos, using nasty language to insult people who disagree with them and sending people notifications on their phones like, "A Message for Transphobes: Time to delete the app. Don't let the door hit you on the way out." I'm not transphobic, but I'm not attracted to most transwomen. So according to them, I'm a transphobe who doesn't belong on their app even though trying to force people to date and sleep with people they aren't attracted to comes off as predatory. And they're being praised for it.

[@elenawilliams32]

Yes! Also, so many of the trans 'lesbians' are autogynephiliacs!🚩 Her have kicked lesbians off the app for putting in their bio that they only want to date biological women... Because they're embracing lesbians now ridiculously being called 'non men who are attracted to non men' - to be inclusive. NOPE! It's getting beyond ridiculous and lesbians are suffering because these morons bought their misogyny and male privilege with them when they put on a wig and lipstick. I'm so tired of it all. My support for the trans community is rapidly dwindling. Take care.

[@livijean1]

The “straight boys are so cute” makes me want to scream. Live the way you want, but being different doesn’t mean you can force others to date you as a political statement. You don’t want us to force you to conform to our idea of “normal” don’t try to bully us into conforming your ideals 😫

[@katmckenziepanpride]

For real.

[@amandamothe5842]

Amen 👏👏👏

[@BadlceCream]

now you know how lesbians feel lol

[@highasduck5282]

yup it's literally the exact same when straight men tell me i'm not a lesbian and if i just try dick once i'll love it. Like bro, that isn't how it woooorks!!!

[@jamierosef9014]

Exactly

[@gatocles99]

Sexual Coercion... bullying or harassing someone into sex... is a felony.

[@crappyaccount]

and I'm pretty sure lying to the person you are pursuing can also become a crime...

[@gatocles99]

@@crappyaccount Yes indeed. Rape by fraud, or rape by deception... has been successfully prosecuted. It is a crime.

[@Aurora-kq7bo]

PREACH

[@m1croninja]

Should men start telling women, "Date me or you're heterophobic?" I'm sure it'll go over well.

[@ALu-nq8rf]

They're called incels. But they also have some members who unnoticeably think girlfriends and wives should be assigned by law.

[@Jenkunka]

Date me or you're penisophobic! // Men have many other ways of shaming women for not wanting to sleep with them, like: you're not spontaneous, you're boring, are you a nun or what, you don't really mean no you just want me to push harder right, do you always avoid funny things, this is the last time I offer this to you, etc etc. It's absurd, haha.

[@1japanfan883]

That’s not the same

[@joeyjointjebaiter1275]

Funny how heterophobic isnt considered a real word but still equality

[@Necromaira]

@@ALu-nq8rf yup

[@chloemobile8344]

I'm a trans female and 100% agree with you. You can't force love and attraction. Who would want that anyways, lol.

[@00st307-m]

Right?! It’s like yelling at the people serving you in a restaurant. Like if it’s that bad - leave and find a better fit. But I’m not risking someone spitting in my food! And forcing a relationship is like that

[@carsonjones6479]

Yeah I have a friend whose trans and she literally believes you can’t force others to be attracted to you

[@RichardPallardy]

These people are literally just incels. With worse taste in clothing, if that's possible.

[@Bakerygo]

achievement unlocked!

[@kiarimarie]

Exactly. Anyone, no matter your gender identity, who thinks they are entitled to a specific person or people as a romantic partner or sex from these people, are a problem.

[@samyoung3948]

They prefer the Transcel label.

[@David-jz6bl]

Aside blaire white who has a good point, unlike you she’s not calling them incels, and do you realize that’s similar to a false rape accusation?Have some empathy, this could be you in any moment.

[@tgheretford]

The irony being is that these people who state that they are entitled to love and relationships will be the same people at the fore condemning incels for wanting the exact same thing!

[@notthefather3919]

Imagine how far we would've gotten with LGBT acceptance if gay men told straight men they were homophobic for not wanting to date us. How did we go from people are bad for their sexual orientations to people's orientations are bigotry against a particular group of people? I mean, if you couldn't get dates before you transitioned, it probably won't change afterwards.

[@v.anessa1451]

i just commented the same thing! gay men and lesbians never demanded anyone sleep with them to prove their allyship, so i don't see why trans rights activists think this is appropriate behavior!!

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

Full circle, my dear. Full circle. Now they (the alphabet community) will go as far as guilting lesbian women into being with trans women, etc. They're trying to erase women entirely, go watch Arielle Scarcella's videos on it. It's really terrifying and disturbing.

[@nostalgicfangirl90]

Straight men aren't attracted to dad bods

[@joeyjointjebaiter1275]

Exactly. If you want me to date you, at least look and sound like a woman

[@bright-_]

Lmfao

[@shockawha9]

Even hetero older women don’t like dad bods ewww

[@cmmndrblu]

Being featured in an article for your emotional fragility at reality is also not exactly flattering. It'll attract virtue signaling.

[@pintobeans994]

Lmfao exactly

[@staroromia2597]

"Maybe the fact that you can't get a date is because you are insufferable and not because you're trans" ............. PERIOD! 🎯🎯🎯😭😭😭

[@abioladickson2238]

So lesbian, gay, bisexual etc... Can be attracted to who they are attracted too but straight persons are wrong for being attracted to who they like?

[@rikkoyugi8620]

Well that's the logic some of these incels are using.

[@abioladickson2238]

@Onix Reyes exactly they are saying that, and it's them I was referring too not the majority of the LGBT community

[@Liza11059901]

Circé A. Absolutely true. “Cotton ceiling”.

[@Rayblondie]

Why would a straight be attracted to a man? Then they wouldn't be straight.

[@Rayblondie]

@Circé A. It's like a horror story.

[@Inyourlap]

But why don’t they date each other? Or other non binary people? Aren’t they attracted by gender non-conforming people? Such a paradox...

[@hallaja8338]

True

[@jri5026]

Lol right

[@NetSkillNavigator]

HAhaha

[@UrbanomicInteriors]

Great idea! Let’s matchmake.

[@rydrakeesperanza5370]

Maybe because you find the majority online but not really where they live, at least, looking stochastically on it that 2% of the population are trans, nonbinary and what not together. So maybe it's not easy to find someone. 🤔

[@edhager77]

As a straight man, I am attracted to the female form. For instance, I find Blaire to be stunning physically, because she has feminine features. I do not find masculine features attractive. It’s not transphobic. It’s just personal preference.

[@stefaniefanny9949]

I think it's more like sexual orientation.

[@Rayblondie]

It's how God made us otherwise the human race would not continue.

[@stefaniefanny9949]

@@Rayblondie lmao, we are just evolved monkeys thats why blaire is atractive to straight men and lesbians. Most people's brains sexual orientation works whit a raw form of identification, in some is more presise and has to do whit genitals. But the last thing is mostly learned, not always, is not something can be changed in many ppl, no everyone works exactly the same, we are just mutant mokeys and our brains are different.

[@Rayblondie]

@@stefaniefanny9949 I disagree of course. I didn't descend from monkeys. I don't believe in evolution. We are moral creatures.

[@pintobeans994]

Thank u ! Perfectly said

[@abnerreyesart6625]

In the early 90s I was in a bar minding my own business waiting for some friends and I was called homophobic for turning down the advances of someone Transgender . I wasn’t rude and I kept my manners about me and simply said sorry that’s not my thing but good luck to you . I was literally almost jumped by her and her friends lol it was comical !! it got so bad that for all our sakes it was best I left the bar. I didn’t want to be in the bar when my friends arrived cause things would’ve gone from bad to worse .

[@Static4Thoughts]

As a lesbian. I'm tired of being called a TERF and transphobic for not wanting to date transwomen..because I'm a lesbian.

[@PJCE15]

girl from a fellow gay who won’t date a trans man, let em call you what they want if it means your comfortable during sex. people are insane! i hate this bad image these people give our community. ugh! making us all look like LOONS lol

[@joslyncampbell6851]

genuine question, if they had all surgeries and looked like your ideal partner, but were still trans, would you date them? i'm just trying to understand everyone's point of view

[@layspotatogays122]

Exactly as a straight trans man I’d rather not date a pre-bottom surgery trans woman just because like, I wouldn’t be comfortable with the other person having a dick during sex lmao

[@dmarti11235]

@@joslyncampbell6851 I don't necessarily have a problem with dating a trans person, but if I could play devil's advocate for a moment, I would assume not. Dating a trans person comes with baggage that cis people simply don't have. Psychological issues like dysphoria, physical issues like inability to reproduce as your gender. Physical attraction is only one facet of a relationship. An important one, certainly, but not the sole basis for people's preferences.

[@burnixen8711]

@@joslyncampbell6851 they would still be biologically male, so no. Also, neovagina is far from the real thing.

[@PassionYetPeace]

What people like this don’t understand is that by doing this, they’re basically arguing that your sexuality should be a choice. That goes against everything the LGBT community has been fighting against.

[@Vgy1592]

Kind of reminds me of an article -- think it was published by CNN? -- about how heterosexuality is bad and people need to stop being heterosexual. I just don't get *how* these people think it's a choice, when it's being straight.

[@Teaginski]

Good point!

[@lulu_TheWitchBoy]

Vgy1592 only CNN would say that

[@Laura-Yu]

The LGBT has been turning more regressive lately... I support the TBGL

[@Asdfgh-xr6qw]

And that is why many LGB people want to seperate from the T.

[@ReignRules101]

It’s like when a straight guy thinks they can “turn a lesbian straight” NO. You can’t change someone’s sexual orientation, and if you think you can you are a horrible human being. I love all the double standards 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@olliefoxx7165]

No one actually cares. Perhaps you're thinking to highly of yourself. There has never been a time where it's so easy to get laid by straight women. Who wants the drama and time wasted on some lesbian? Smh.

[@ReignRules101]

Haha I’m not lesbian, it’s just an example 😂

[@Hindu9054]

@@ReignRules101 people can be straight or bisexual. I bet when polygamy will be legalized in US then lesbian and gays will also be in relationship with a bisexual. which will prove orientation can be changed after some years of relationship

[@audiomachine312]

@@Hindu9054 sexual orientation cannot change just because you are in a relationship. It cannot change that easily. It is not possible.

[@1japanfan883]

You are not gay for liking trans people. Trans women are women. Trans men are men.

[@bethannalou]

"Maybe the reason you can't get a date is you're insufferable..." LMAO Spot On!

[@Saidriak]

As a trans girl myself, that body and facial hair is horrifying to me

[@muthascorpio]

Lmaooo omg same AF I’m so triggered by it !

[@wolfetteplays8894]

Yep

[@dominadors4795]

I am not Trans, but I have PCOS so I have paid a LOT of money to get rid of a flourishing beard because....hormones. turns out I could have apparently saved myself buckets of moneys ? XD

[@trublgrl]

I know, right? I can't look at myself if I have any shadow showing. I can't imagine these two want to be feminine at all, they just want to be pretty men. Nothing wrong with being pretty, but guys tend to admire prettiness in women, and masculinity in men, whether they are gay or straight.

[@trublgrl]

@@dominadors4795 No, NO KAT! You did the right thing. Bless you.

[@Raederman85]

Blaire: “I wouldn’t date anyone who is trans.” SJW’s: “Blaire White is transphobic!” 🤦‍♂️😂

[@TheKyrix82]

To be fair, a lot of them think she's a biological woman, so...

[@Raederman85]

TheKyrix82 That’s why she would never have a problem attracting straight guys like me. 🤷‍♂️

[@TheKyrix82]

@@Raederman85 Super attractive, but the whole 'male anatomy' downstairs is still a deal breaker. Not that I'm remotely in Blaire's league to begin with

[@tracytre38]

@@TheKyrix82 ahh, but you see TheKyrix82, Blaire's fiancee "isn't in her league" either. Blaire's league is a little different because she's trans, which is a "blemish", right? So there's the beauty of dating a transwoman. Get to date up, to someone not normally in your league! 😉

[@jadziajan]

They already think she's transphobic. I recently shared my thoughts about one of Blaire's videos on instagram and some guy who's never watched her asked me to "not give Blaire a platform" (take a wild guess who has a bigger platform to begin with between me and Blaire) because she's actually transphobic. He then linked me to a video by Contrapoints when Blaire literaly had just made a video mentioning Contra has similar opinions to her and encourages her behind the scenes.

[@milohmorley]

I’d just like to state: Genitalia preference doesn’t make you transphobic

[@movielover6840]

Yeah

[@madihaignitezzz]

THANK YOU I was called being transphobic for not being attracted to the person's genitalia like chill I don't hate you I'm just not attracted to you you can't force someone to be attracted to them lmao !!! Sooo ridiculous!!!?

[@therapy1442]

say it louderrr

[@ViscountVile]

MM - good luck with convincing trans activists of that!

[@milohmorley]

Daenerys Targaryen Actually if u purely aren’t interested in them sexually because they are trans and not because of their genitals then it’s pretty transphobic as ur only reason is “they’re trans” and not “I dont like dick/vagina”

[@whatever5401]

Those people look like THAT and they expect straight men to like them? I'm a straight girl and I'd rather date my female best friend than those people

[@konobuzoggu239]

"why won't my friends get laid?", i think those pics solved the mystery

[@Owdaks]

Having that lack of self awareness is concerning

[@NinaGormanShock]

🤣🤣

[@bl00dsuckingfreak]

Lemme look away Chile 💀👀

[@mannys7304]

For real! Don't dismiss the obvious! Let's not complicate things.

[@publius6942]

Jesus- 😂

[@aperson8934]

"I'm nonbinary and therefore don't identify as a woman, but straight guys are so cute!"...kinda creepy and predatory but okay

[@obvioustroll3736]

That’s exactly my thoughts.....

[@Goat.Cheese]

Same. It felt creepy and predatory to me, too. Like they're trying to "turn" straight guys away from their natural sexuality. Ew

[@t.thomas8919]

If either gender said that and acted like these two... hello 911?

[@Wraiven22]

@nordic bear meh, they're the extreme and in no way represent the huge variety of people who are leftist. I'd rather be on the side of people like this than actual fucking neo-nazis, science deniers, and mass shooters, but that's just me.

[@stankythecat6735]

It’s exactly why bathroom laws were passed. I feel bad for Mz. White . She is sane , rational... these guys aren’t trans , they are attention whores

[@kadz3597]

it's funny how they have multiple sexual orientations: homosexual, heterosexual, asexual, bisexual, pansexual, demisexual and so on but doesn't acknowledge people who are attracted to one particular gender and people presenting as such gender

[@Kat.Grinin]

Not everyone is like that, tbh.

[@mrmr4622]

@smok How can they want to be seen as female if they are identifying as something that is neither

[@susieaintyourfr]

Yeah if in their mind it’s so easy to control sexual preferences then why wouldn’t they make themselves to be attracted to somebody who they’d find very easy to be with and not straight guys

[@StewardofAutumn]

Because gender is a construct😬

[@SkellaBella]

Ecktor ..’amaspecialsexual’ 😳...🤭.. 🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣😭😭😂... 🤣😂🤣😂😂.. sighs.. Damn I needed that. Thanks, lol ☺️

[@kalienjvalentine4529]

As a trans girl myself that body and facial hair is horrifying to me. I just cantttttttttttttt !!! I’m with you girl @blaire

[@FrancineL81]

ikr, im trans and that hair freaks me the hell out

[@MissEddieBlueKawaiiKrafts]

Ikr!!! I’m a bi woman, or pan whatever you wanna call it. I’ve dated men, women & had showers with super hot trannys back in the 90’s😋 but I wouldn’t touch those freaks with a 10 foot pole!!! Like eeeewwwww!! They are NOT TRANS!!!!! Trans means you represent as a man OR a woman, not a flipping man in a dress like wtf omg smh 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@MarthaAnthony]

Lol. I'm heterosexual and quite like male body hair but that has the same effect on me. Just no. Grooming is a thing.

[@babee3231]

When girls reject me, I... get over myself! They're allowed not to want a boyfriend without a peen. Or not want me for ANY OTHER reason. Imagine wanting to date a person you guilt-tripped into liking you. I'll pass.

[@BadlceCream]

I almost did that as a kid and when I look back, it's one of the worst feelings in the world.

[@poisonedcupcake6860]

Thank you for being a logical person. Best wishes dude.

[@juliamarlin5612]

Exactly, i'm bisexual and attracted to people regardless of their genitals but I can still understand that sex can be a deciding factor in who to date for a lot of people.

[@lfrancis8980]

This person has also said that “little white girls are kinky” in the name of intersectionality. Edit to link: pbs.twimg.com/media/CgfAb97WQAAbtCC.jpg

[@DickDawsome]

Jesus Christ....

[@Shasha-jo5iv]

I mean are we surprised? he is so gross.

[@janelkaram]

🙄

[@wyvernnymph5757]

Ew

[@sarahbarabe8470]

I mean damn if you wanna say things about yourself and your own gender and sexuality and etc sure whatever but holy shit don't bring children into it

[@Blister_in_the_sun]

I feel like the term “ phobic” has been so misused and abused that, at this point, it’s basically inert 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@707bear3]

True

[@Rspsand07]

It's quite useful, if someone still uses them unironically, you know to avoid them.

[@anniegoulaheee8025]

I am desensitised to the word phobic now.

[@blindtherapper2470]

@@anniegoulaheee8025 you're sensitisedophobic

[@Neo_Geisha]

@@blindtherapper2470 Lmao

[@johnb9573]

As a trans guy I’ve also never had a problem finding straight women willing to date me. I don’t know why the trans community cares about the people who won’t when there’s no shortage of those who will without hesitation.

[@GailRDelaneyNovelist]

I"m a CIS straight woman... I'm attracted to men, but I'm not attracted to every man I see. That doesn't mean I'm biased against the types of men I'm not attracted to. It's, in my opinion, the same thing. You are drawn to what you are drawn to, but it doesn't mean you are repulsed by or biased against those you're not. It's such a circular, illogical argument. :-(

[@poison1vy]

Exactly!

[@Meleena2218]

@Me Too I think what she meant was she wouldn't date a certain guy because of A, B, or C (biased due to outside of biological influence?) Instead of being unbiased due to an engraved biological influence. So like as a female, id pick a mate that has good health and a strong physic because that was what my biology looks for. Instead of picking a mate that's a certain race or has a certain colour of hair or hobbies? Idk I think I know what she meant but I suck at explaining things lol

[@stepintothelight1437]

You are not cis. You're a woman. End of/

[@aminamercy8179]

@@valoxsen6003 what info does cis add? She is woman and straight

[@XoXoXo-wq4yg]

Omg. I’m trans and don’t expect all straight cis men to date me. Do they know I’m trans if I don’t tell them? No they don’t. But I tell them cuz it’s the right thing to do. What if they want biological children. I can’t do that. I’m sorry but I don’t see either of those persons as representatives for trans people.

[@rach2111]

It's safer to be honest, there have been many cases where a man finds out the woman he is with is trans and loses his SH!T and murders her. It also shows that you're a good person. Honesty is a virtue.

[@gilchamame]

these two are making a mockery of it. you're doing the right thing and selecting for the right kind of partners by being honest

[@lindacauso4952]

@@rach2111 your right it is dangerous, I think that if your going on a date with someone you should text them that your trans so if they get angry your not in danger.

[@ThimbleFox350]

@@rach2111 There have also been lots of cases where a man already knew his partner was trans and he murders her when his *friends* find out...so fucked up.

[@coolcat6341]

Just be careful ans safe xx

[@natemarx4999]

It's never Blaire White looking trans that try to bully you into dating them.

[@XoXoXo-wq4yg]

No. It’s a bearded man wearing a wig and some lipstick trying to say he’s a woman. Totally ridiculous

[@mattyk1lls]

Absolutely true

[@nishkaghzala762]

I'm deceased 🤣🤣🤣👌

[@Laura-Yu]

TRUE😂

[@Roverosable]

I can't decide if that would be a movie genre or a fetish category. Either way it would find it's audience.

[@Natasha_bazooca_mommy]

THIS IS A WEREWOLF! Where are the Winchesters brothers to capture it?! OMG

[@MalcomJuliaMorgan]

if you arent getting straight dates, maybe ask yourself: "am i ugly as both a man and a woman?"

[@jamikatechaos9972]

Exactly! Literally lol!

[@readbluelock6713]

Or ask yourself "maybe these people dont fucking like me and I'm not their preferred sexaulity"

[@kallejahrollins4668]

That maybe the reason for transitioning

[@avafan-hx4lk]

well thats not even the case though, even the most ugly people can find someone eventually, it usually isnt super difficult. its honestly just about your personality and character. taking care of yourself also plays into it

[@8rr725]

@@avafan-hx4lk Or maybe it's because they like straight men?

[@caitlinb1657]

“Date me or you’re x” is such an ugly look for anyone

[@malulu1947]

YES. THANK YOU. no one is entitled to another person’s body or time or affection

[@cheong-santhebaddest6891]

"Straight men are so cute." HUH?!? This homosexual obsession with straight men is just too much. . . As a member of the LGBT, I've always been one to reject the stigma about LGBT men being predatory toward straight men, but at this point I'm seeing more and more evidence that contradicts. You can't expect a relationship or sex from ANYONE, regardless of your orientation, and especially if they have a different orientation are just aren't attracted to you. So weird

[@ThisNameIsVeryClever]

At the end of the day, no means no. That's literally the golden rule of consent - arguing past "no" is an attempt to disqualify that. It doesn't matter what the reason is - you don't even NEED to present a reason. Don't fall into the trap of feeling like you need to explain your lack of interest - you've already declined to consent, and anything the other person says past that is harassment at the bare minimum.

[@Drdiagnosis19]

This is the most true thing I ever seen

[@ninjasylph]

I would argue only yes means yes instead of no means no. What bothers me is these non binary people's going for an audience that is not open to them and getting upset they're not accepted by their preferred audience.

[@raulnatokapa]

I heavily dislike this, this is the same as straight guys trying to convince a lesbian to try them, even gay guys drunking men to r#@% them. Being an uncomfortable creeper is something beyond sexuality/ gender identification, and in any was it should be called out. I know that transpeople have issues with dating and stuff, but that doesn't mean they can push people or someone to like them, that is not how getting likeable or attention works.

[@caitthecat]

Exactly. Creepiness is a personality trait, not a feature of a certain gender or sexuality.

[@imafake2807]

YES. and when men do it to lesbians are demonized. The depth of their hypocrisy is infinite.

[@AnaGalloL]

But hetero don't said lesbian are hetero phobic because don't want them

[@raulnatokapa]

@@AnaGalloL true, but they invalidate lesbian women's preferences by saying things like, "don't worry I use fingers too" or "you haven't been with a real man". The point of my comment is that people shouldn't mess with your sexual/dating preferences.

[@8rr725]

@@AnaGalloL That's true. But they have said that Lesbians hate men.

[@barneysumner1417]

I'm a straight man that harbours no ill will to trans people, having said that I draw the line at dating somebody with a hairier chest than me

[@crappyaccount]

lmao

[@poisonedcupcake6860]

You are allowed to have attraction preferences dude. Don't let anyone bully you otherwise.

[@nothankyou6840]

Lmao. I mean, that's a very fair standard

[@Shae_Butter]

💯

[@smat7388]

I cackled 😂

[@angeleyes3386]

You wanted to live your true self. You got that! Now don’t be mad when don’t want you. Find someone that does.

[@sourgummiez]

Do these guys not just feel comfortable calling themselves gay cross dressing men??? Why do they pretend to be trans when they are cross dressing, not living their lives as women like a trans woman

[@veledwin1]

Well a lot of these idiots are just straight men in drag too, like Jessica Yaniv

[@cocoapuff_x]

Sam. [샘] they’re trolling luv

[@rose-de6ns]

@@Justdance6336 i think theyre being sarcastic

[@kacymackey502]

bearbear cuter and "cuter by the day" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 go get em tiger! I'm sure you'll make that man very happy one day!

[@RedLotusWarrior]

This^

[@spee6826]

To be honest, as a straight guy, you have to look and act as feminine and fun as Blaire. Then you'll have a good chance. 0% chance if you look like a hobo clown wearing a chewbacca suit.

[@HippyMetalhead]

🤣🤣

[@crappyaccount]

hey! what did I do to you lol

[@spee6826]

@@crappyaccount hey you can wear your hobo clown chewy gear, I'm all for getting on down with your bad self , just don't expect me to say yes if you decide to ask me out. Lol

[@Nightwatcher20]

That description of them is screenshot-worthy for laughs for years to come 😂😂

[@laurenava8744]

Omg the last part of ur comment has me dying 😂😂😂

[@waywardlaser]

Always find it funny when someone refers to themselves as a “non-binary lesbian” or something similar. Isn’t calling yourself a lesbian conforming to a binary?

[@guknhguhcrujbcd3962]

@Nerdish what about 'lesbian' transwomen ? They are not physically women but they 'identify' as lesbians

[@Darlinarana]

Ezgi Arslan Female can be defined both as a sex and gender. So that’s why calling yourself a lesbian won’t be limited to just one or the other. Hope this helps! :)

[@Otakutori]

Because non binaries are using the term lesbian male enbies are using it too if they lean on the fem side which pisses me off so bad you have to be a woman who refers to herself as a woman and is ONLY attracted to other women to be a lesbian

[@justinm2697]

@Nerdish You can physically be a man and 'identify' as a non binary lesbian. It doesn't make any sense but apparently you can do it.

[@bawoman]

@Nerdish ok but how does sex matter all of a sudden?I thought sex was irrelevant and gender is what matters

[@ZeusKing17]

As a lesbian, I’m very offended by the fact that they completely disregard my sexual orientation in an almost homophobic way. Our fight was and still is for people to just accept that we can be attracted to whoever we are attracted to, and there’s nothing you can do about it and no one can tell me otherwise, and they just throw to the trash decades of fighting by the gays. it’s also very predatory and violent to just expect sex from anyone.

[@SheValentine]

I really don’t understand why you get so much hate, you’re one of the very few people in The LGBT community that actually has some common sense. Honestly keep up the good work!

[@nirajsingh8403]

This is why because they don't like people with common sense

[@Zenaidafromthemoon]

Have you read the article

[@angelvoltage]

Exactly!!!!!!!!

[@Jim87_36]

She doesn’t fall in line with the narrative.

[@Zenaidafromthemoon]

They never said that in the article

[@jayjay-et2rt]

I get so frustrated as a lesbian most people that are “lesbian” on tinder look like this. I did try to just accept it and be ok with it but it was low key traumatizing. I just can’t force myself to be attracted to these non-binary amab people. It reminds me too much of my abusive ex boyfriends and it’s actually triggering. Edit: this blew up overnight a little and I woke up to all these notifications oh boy. Obviously no one forced me to date these people but I forced myself because I thought if I didn’t I was a bad person or a bigot and I thought there was something wrong with me. I was taught that if I wasn’t sexually attracted to them then I was a bad person and I wanted to do my best to be good and not one of the “bad” lesbians and I wanted to just support my community. I had to give up and stop just because it got really triggering and reminded me too much of past trauma.

[@crappyaccount]

Damn dude I'm sorry. You seem like a nice person for trying to be accommodating, but no one should have to force themselves to do something

[@cassixpeia3324]

Damn that's intense, but I get where you're coming from

[@unconcernedcitizen4092]

Speaking Truth Yep, and they’re trying just as hard to erase the G.

[@Gothhica]

Unconcerned Citizen no they’re trying to erase the T and making it ah bunch of bs like these non dysphoric trans and nb people I can’t 😩

[@unconcernedcitizen4092]

Kori Well, I see your point, but I would say they’re redefining the T, while they are, quite literally, trying to erase the L, G and B. You can’t be a gay man or woman who wants to exclusively sleep with biological members of the sex to which they’re attracted without being called a transphobe. That DECIMATES the entire fucking history of the arguments for gay rights.

[@alphasia91]

I’m a straight cis fat woman. I’ve never had a boyfriend or relationship for whatever reason. But I don’t go around demanding people like me or claiming that dudes who don’t like me back are somehow fatphobic (I shudder at the word) or whatever nonsense they make up. The fact is that I’m not super attractive. End of. That’s my fault, not theirs. I get so tired of people thinking they’re entitled to romance just because they “deserve” it.

[@studybuddy.]

I wouldn't say it's your fault, sometimes life just doesn't happen the way we think it will

[@kaulterloli5955]

@@studybuddy. yess

[@alphasia91]

Tonya Antony Thanks! I’m working on it, actually. Just started exercising every day and working on the healthy eating part. So it’s coming along!

[@NadKaSi]

@@alphasia91 that's amazing! good luck!!

[@heath6802]

I really hope someone really sweet and special comes into your life soon! 💕

[@mytyak07]

It went from fully medically and surgically transitioning into a trans women to "I feel like a women" -Bro with a beard 2023

[@BettyWhite2171]

Why would you even want to date someone who isn't genuinely atrracted to you anyway? Aaaaakward!

[@xxx0ox0]

Well when you're attractive to no one you're not just going to give up

[@MrsCurioCheerio]

C D That’s what makes this so weird though. While people shouldn’t give up on the prospects of dating as a whole, pursuing people who clearly aren’t into you isn’t okay

[@criticalbeautyvideos]

I know right!

[@criticalbeautyvideos]

Those guys are transvestites who think they are bonafide transgender people. Not.

[@IratePuffin]

I think it’s a power thing. Sort of like a woman who only tries to date married men. She wants the chase... the power of the conquest, of being able to get a married guy to be with her. Same thing here. They know straight men generally aren’t attracted to them but they want the power and to be seen as attractive enough to flip one of them.

[@caseyratliff8263]

The whole philosophy that anyone OWES you sex or sexual attraction reeks of incel angst and desperation, and it's repulsive. Trans, cis, straight, gay, whichever...no one owes you anything of that sort.

[@jadeuzufanclub]

I like how they contradict themselves in the article “we even started swiping right on everybody” which would imply they were swiping left which means there’s a reason you didn’t want to date the person. Is not wanting to date an older person make you agist? Does being attracted to blondes make you brunettephobic? EVERYBODY has some sort of preference when it comes to dating, you’re not going to be attracted to EVER single person you meet. People need to stop policing people attraction to others because it’s truly none of anybody’s business who I’m attracted to

[@TheFalkia]

I was looking for someone saying "blondes" and I found you :) But yeah, that's my point :) I still wish that liking trans people who present as a certain gender (male / female) wasn't so taboo in my country - and that people were more willing to see them as the sex they were supposed to be - but it is the taboo that makes people who like trans men/women regardless of their history fear or back down that we have to bring down, not the preferences - and that is never gonna happen by hate my dudes,,, for god sakes

[@cassixpeia3324]

This 🙌🏾

[@Mariemarie-uw7id]

Actually I heard a few straight men calling me racist for wanting to only date blonde men since thats my preference...its ridiculous

[@julia_biss]

as a trans guy myself, i am so sorry to all the straight people who have to deal with being called transphobic for this reason. obviously it’s one thing if you identify as “super straight” or some shit, but your preferences are perfectly fine

[@foreverhungry7777]

Calling yourself super straight isn't a slur. It's emphasising to people you are not same-sex attracted. Some have had queer experiences and know first-hand they do not enjoy the experience, just like a gay guy who sleeps with a woman first and than sleeps with a man and enjoys it. If the rainbow can make up 73 genders, folks can emphasis their own preference to counter the absurdity. So tired of this rapey, coersive crap.

[@caitlinprichett2091]

So y’all consider James Charles a sexual predator for being into “straight men” but these people can fetishize straight men and calling them out is “transphobic” ....makes sense 🙂

[@Daisy-zr3qm]

I think that shit is so retarded. If I think a girl’s fine as fuck, I might just go and shoot my shot. Cause I mean, is there like a “gay look” and a “straight look” so I can tell the difference and not “harass straight girls”

[@caitlinprichett2091]

CluelessKomodoDragon exactly why I said “straight men” in quotations because them being straight is up for debate 😂

[@Maddysublime]

I completely agree that these people are stupid but consider that it might not be the same people thinking those two things lol

[@muthascorpio]

James Charles looks more womanly in drag than these individuals on a daily basis LMAO! I meannnn. Hahahah ! I think she’s on Hormones . Under wraps loL

[@caitlinprichett2091]

Maddy Beaulieu I personally know a few people who were a part of cancelling JC but also believe in the argument that not wanting to date a trans person is transphobic and share the same mindset as the two people in this video.

[@cutesound9563]

I'm not the most attractive woman, I've always struggled with my appearance and I also struggle getting dates/sex. I also feel absolutely NO entitlement to those things. If people aren't sexually attracted to me, that is perfectly fine. In my opinion, implying that people "owe" you sex is kind of (if not extremely) predatory. I have also never assumed that because people aren't attracted to me that they hate women? Like, make it make sense.

[@tatjana4503]

there's no sense. that's the problem.

[@notreallydavid]

Big ditto to that, except I'm male. All best, c.

[@11Messalina]

😊👍❤

[@jaylucas8352]

Super predatory

[@y.2734]

this remembered me when a lot of girls in the lesbian community called me transphobic because I didnt want to date a "non binary lesbian"

[@ellam2668]

As a lesbian all I'm gonna tell you is that I've been called transphobic for that exact reason too, also because I wouldn't date a trans woman, it's just a preference.

[@ellam2668]

The trans thing is a preference I mean, non binary lesbians aren't a legit thing, I don't know why someone who is NON binary is using a BINARY label smfh. You can't change the meaning of a label just because it suits you, that ain't how shit works

[@baru8393]

What even is an NB lesbian? That's the same kinda bull as he/him lesbians (not speaking from a historical standpoint) that make this community look as a joke. People just wanting to be as special as they can, cramming as many sexualities and identities as they can in their tiktok bio and then call you transphobic and a gatekeeper of said sexualities and identities

[@maribart4237]

CluelessKomodoDragon that makes no sense. I don’t understand how some of y’all accept such thing.

[@y.2734]

@CluelessKomodoDragon yeah i understand, but your masculinity or feminity doesnt determine your gender. Im a "Masculine" girl and ive spent my entire life since i was 5 trying to break these gender stereotypes that determinte how women and men should look and be. So this nb lesbians who identify as female and "Lesbian" (homosexual woman, by definition) but dont like being called "woman" and some of them prefer masculine pronouns just bc they're "butch" just dont make sense to me, and in some part i think it is like perpetuating gender stereotypes. Im no less woman for being masculine and i see no reason why i should call myself nonbinary if i still identify as lesbian.

[@starmoral5456]

I'm not a man, nor a woman. I dont conform to gender. WHY WON'T STRAIGHT MEN DATE ME?

[@parslipsb]

I'm a liberal straight male, and I have to agree with you that these more extreme liberal viewpoints are not logically sound. You, Blair, are an attractive woman to me. These two look like men, even if they identify as women. I have no issue with them identifying as women but they have no right to expect me to find them attractive. No woman does either.

[@pahtosh]

The thing is that for those people, you have to prove to them explicitly that your claim of finding them not attractive is specific, and not against trans people or non binary in general. To make that clear, you have to scream your support for trans and nb people, and you have to point the finger of scorn to other people who don’t do it, in order to compensate for the audacity of rejecting a trans or nb person. If you do not do all this, you will be automatically suspected of being bigoted in some manner.

[@georgianash6635]

Not even that Blair is beautiful which she is but she looks and presents as a female.If there was a lesser attractive women she still would be desirable for her womanly traits.Straight guys are obviously not going to be into chest hair and facial hair

[@alexbruce7285]

Also, they were looking at straight men, even though they identify as non-binary. Straight men are heterosexual meaning they like, pretty much, exclusively women

[@stephk5797]

Yasss. With women I think our sexuality is for the most part a little more elastic, but with men, straight or otherwise, if pp no up, no sexytimes for you. Pp has mind of it's own, no matter how accepting you are.

[@mrmr4622]

@@stephk5797 Well they gonna say your pp is transphobic XD

[@stephk5797]

@@mrmr4622 I have no pp, so I'm good x'D

[@8rr725]

@@stephk5797 I agree with what you say, except the part about women's sexuality being more elastic. To me, that sounds dismissive of straight women. It's also something female porn stars say. 😒

[@stephk5797]

@@8rr725 well I said "a little more ", it's just a generalisation, obviously straight girls exist

[@luzycuty]

I’m a straight Christian Hispanic female. I’m mainly independent when it comes to political views. But hell is it so refreshing and enlightening to listen to your points of view. I’ve been binge watching a ton of your vids! So keep on doing what you do baby girl! I’ll be here!

[@king_spoon_toons935]

We love a Christian, straight/cis ally!! I'm glad you're getting good information from her and are accepting the LGBT community but not believing the bull everyone wants to pump out 💗

[@cammejia5665]

girl imma b real wit u.. i also come from a hispanic household n so my political views were morphed to be all republican n gross but after doing research i am democrat n i came out as bi last year

[@wineberry6]

Same! Straight Christian Hispanic female, tho mostly conservative. Yet I know it's important to listen to all sides so I started to listen to the trans community more closely, ended up here and was like " common sense yes!"

[@luzycuty]

Camila Mejia I get that. I’ve always been very rebellious though. So I never listen to my family very much. After doing my own research, I became somewhere in the middle. my political views and how I think this country should be run are republicans. Social issues I can agree with a lot of democrat points. But I still don’t think that the government should have that much power. The less they control the better. Many social issues are better run by the people and organizations.

[@dugdoll3295]

Before i date HIM, he must correctly discribe me by my correct Protons, Neutrons and Electrons Synonyms, Atigens and Antonyms

[@aconcept1579]

I’m convinced that in 2016 we all died and are trapped in a never ending purgatory

[@ThimbleFox350]

makes so much sense tbh

[@tamitami7396]

Yes!

[@marisatheuglybitch8584]

ngl that actually makes sense what

[@elperrodelautumo7511]

Makes sense. Maybe 2012 is where humanity is going crazier

[@JD-uo4yh]

Wasn’t James Charles cancelled for doing the same thing on tinder? Alok and Jacob don’t identify as women, so identifying as a woman to pursue straight men seems...predatory? I’m a lot more leftist than Blaire and fully support NB & GNC identities, but lying about your identity to pursue someone who isn’t into you didn’t sit right with me.

[@carlyturner3664]

in in j

[@mohammadmeu]

They have their "trans non binary" label to protect them from controversy.

[@JD-uo4yh]

@@mohammadmeu I don't think so. Trans/NB creator Gem (aka @urdoingreat) was recently "de-platformed" for predatory behavior. People actually convinced them to completely not exist on the internet regardless of their gender. If someone starts calling Jacob and Alok out on twitter this could really ruin their careers.

[@wolfetteplays8894]

If these “trans women” at least made the slightest effort to present female, then they would definitely get matches. I got matches pre-HRT with no makeup on because I made an effort to present feminine. What’s their excuse?

[@daztiny9052]

exactly . i still get called mam with no make up wearing jeans , t shirt and sneakers . i really dont get this at all . seeing all that chest hair poking out of the cleavage of a dress is cringe inducing .

[@tee8839]

But they’re not trans women, they’re non binary. Something they have no problem reminding everyone 20 times a day and simultaneously still want straight men to see them as women. Like Blair say: Make it make sense.

[@wolfetteplays8894]

daz tiny I don’t even get called ma’am 80% of the time in public, but at least people recognize I’m making a token effort to pass, and most people aren’t rude about it.

[@nothankyou6840]

When I was pre T (trans male) I would get called 'sir' or 'young man' at my job so often, and I wasn't even out at the time. I still had my female name and CLEARLY had boobs, but I put in what effort I could and people saw me that way. If you want to be seen as a female, 99.99999% of the time, you're gonna shave your beard... Sweetie... It's you.

[@Adamant_Adam]

@Rasputin Potter lmao I'm sure they do before it ever gets intimate

[@heatherwarner865]

Wish I would have found this a while ago. When I was back into the dating scene after a long marriage, I found out how hard it was as a bisexual woman. I had to call the police on a person who threatened to mutilate my genitals if I saw them in public because I refused to date them. They also had their friends messaging me and threatened to leave me bloody in a ditch because I was a transphobic terf. I told them point blank - it has nothing to do with your gender and everything to deal with you and your friends being psychopaths. Then there were the people that tried to tell me I was non-binary or pansexual...No, just No. I disengaged from the Tinder platform. I thought dating was bad in my 20s, now it's just scary. I'm glad I met someone and happily married now because I think I'd rather be alone than deal with that, honestly scary BS ever again.

[@non4824]

"I wonder why they weren't getting matches" Really... REALLY?? YOU DON'T KNOW WHY. 😑 Lmao

[@skarletcharity]

They know why. They just want someone else to say it so they can bathe in their victimized persecution complex

[@shelbert]

Lmfao some people want to look progressive so badly that they’ll pretend to be BLIND in order to do so.

[@moonlitkitsune7638]

As an asexual aromantic person, does that make me everyone-phobic? No. Preference is preference. No one has the right to force another to date someone they don't like.

[@someinteresting]

Everyonephobic is the next level after mysanthropic. 😂😂😂

[@bridittebargeot2679]

Everyone-phobic 🤣 lmfao

[@hamankarn2804]

There's no such thing as a sexual people there's no such thing as non-binary..

[@Lefthandedginger]

I’m asexual as well. Honestly I try to avoid all people, but that has more to do with my social anxiety lol

[@katieeckler7543]

Exactly!

[@sheeplywaltz5183]

"Straight boys are soooo cute" Bruh, that's a fetish What you have is a fetish Not an attraction

[@t.thomas8919]

I think Taboo did an episode on that ways ago. I want that show back... so much learning from it, but now seen as problematic. XC

[@facely]

"I do not consent." That should shut down everything, because you don't get the privilege of knowing why I do not consent. That's none of your business. If I say "No", that's the end of the conversation.

[@wuachurra]

"Why doesn't str8 men want to date me?" -a nb person. BRXSIS YOU LITERALLY SAY YOU ARE NOT A WOMAN, get your stuff together.

[@crappyaccount]

I think my brain short circuited reading "brxsis" but yes I agree with you lol

[@coisa2758]

Hobostarr180 I read it as ‘Brexit.’ 💀

[@pinkforguys]

this!!

[@jaem0n]

lol yeah, i’m non-binary and i get it if i like someone straight but they don’t like me back. they don’t like me for a reason!

[@wuachurra]

@@jaem0n i'm all in with the trans women are women, but being nb is a whole other story

[@jennahyser7245]

There’s a difference between presenting feminine and presenting female.

[@someinteresting]

And those two failed both.

[@problematicbitch8014]

Thats is so true!!!!

[@ohwellwhateverr]

There’s also a difference between presenting female and being female.

[@problematicbitch8014]

@@ohwellwhateverr i dont agree

[@luvcassie]

@@ohwellwhateverr what r u trying to say

[@majinflaco8353]

They want acceptance from everyone but won't accept everyone for who they are.

[@phlemphlam574]

I'm as straight as you can get, and I never knew Blaire was a transgender lady, but I'd date Blaire in a heartbeat because I'm attracted to the female form and she does it beautifully! I just started following Blaire as of last week and I can't stop watching her videos just to witness her feminine beauty.