THIS is Why the Trans Community Isn't Respected (RANT)

[@OptimusPrime-ln7pb]

"It makes us look like the flat earthers of gender." my god that is on point.

[@mayakyen3695]

Lmfao. Perfect analogy. 🥰

[@tysonrinker5958]

Except the earth is flat and motionless and the sun, the stars all revolve around us. You ain't spinning, and you never will be

[@fabionpettigrew195]

Please don’t use the word god

[@kalen2465]

To me the whole flat Earther versus everyone esle. It's all about ego. Some people literally want the universe to revolve around them.

[@goygoddess2822]

@@tysonrinker5958 thank you!!

[@MizTameRumors]

Thing that annoys about statements like ' trans women are biological women' - beyond it just being wrong - it completely dismisses what it means to transition. Erasure isn't support.

[@XxVirginBabyxX]

Exactly, Thank You!

[@BellaMareeMusic]

Not only does it dismiss what it means to transition, it also dissmisses what it means to be a biological woman. As a currently 37 weeks pregnant woman myself, about to give birth, I can't help but feel like this whole movement is hurting biological woman. It feels like it's dis-acknowledging the amazing abilities of a woman's body, the life we can create, the food we can provide through our breasts, and the pain we have to suffer from periods, to pregnancy and child birth, to menopause later in life etc. It makes me sad to see all of this being dismissed like it's nothing, and same goes for the women in sports who now have no chance to win - which winning is what competetive sport is all about. After everything women have gone through to get to where we are today, it's dissapointing to feel a step back into suppression but for a different reason now. I support trans people, but I don't support them surpressing cis/biological women. There needs to be a distinction still, because there's clearly always going to be differences and no one else in this world can do what we can do with our bodies.

[@darunealbane]

What is messed up .. today probably 80% of trans are not trans but a combo of gay or attention seakers

[@sianais]

The fact that they can't see this is incredible.

[@silverwizardess7921]

Exactly.

[@ebonynaomi1085]

I live in England, uk. I am cis female. Our NHS system, has started ordering midwives and nurses, to stop using the terms "breastfeed" and "breast milk", because its discrimination, and bias against transgender women. This is really alarming and confusing to me.

[@transgoddess31]

How....I can lactate? I never had silicone or cosmetic work and my breasts are fully developed. Why would I be offended by that lol. I wanna remove myself from my community

[@bottleofwater1675]

Wouldn’t it be discriminatory against trans men?

[@icedriver2207]

How is it not discriminatory against biological women

[@Hannah-no8yh]

This doesn’t make any sense

[@ISa-jy8ol]

Yuck

[@milkandblue]

The gay rights movement also never tried to remove people’s language or spaces or shame people for being straight. We also never called it homophobic if straight people aren’t attracted to us 😂

[@andyorbit604]

@Doug Fisher haha funny joke...right??right??

[@andyorbit604]

@Doug Fisher reality check sweetie: idgaf lol

[@andyorbit604]

@Doug Fisher yes REALITY CHECK, just because someone prefers a certain group over another doesnt mean anything bad. Why force people to accept others into their intimate bubble. That shit is PRIVATE and your entitled ass SHOULD NOT have anthing to say about it. And yes im absolutely complicit ig🤣🤣🙄🙄

[@neku2741]

haha I was called a homophobe for sitting away from a gay strangers. I did it for anybody hate being near people, but no one ever offended until I met this gay dude.

[@technoloverish]

That's different though. Straight people aren't attracted to the male gender. That's outside of their control. Transgender women ARE women though, so the idea that a straight person can't be attracted to them isn't true.

[@tezzyteaspoon]

I have a cousin who for a while identified as trans. She started dressing like a boy and had the full support of our family. We even used male pronouns at her request. As she got up in her teen years she talked about wanting to transition. Again, had the support of family who were open to those discussions and her journey to know her truth. Willing to ask questions to understand where her heart and mind was. Authentically. When she turned 17, she said she realized that she was a lesbian with an extreme tomboy personality and said she didn’t really think she was trans. Again we continued to support her because life can be difficult with judgement from others. Today she lives as a woman who dates other women and said she’s glad she didn’t go through with the surgery. I am completely supportive of the trans community and I agree that conversation has been muddled when they are not willing to acknowledge these stories.

[@NiceMuslimLady]

I heard that! I tried for a long time to be a "girly-girl", not to mention that everyone told me I was supposed to be that way. But, what I really am, deep down inside...is a tomboy. So...I seldom wear makeup, I am into hiking, I like trains. I also play GTA, Age of Empires and Truck Sim...a lot.

[@nothanks7063]

The amount of gay people who have been fooled or outright emotionally coerced into thinking they're trans is staggeringly high, your cousing was lucky to realize before she transitioned.

[@raptoress6131]

Your family sounds really great and supportive.

[@NiceMuslimLady]

@@nothanks7063 And that is why someone needs to live full time in that role BEFORE going all the way.

[@summermermaidstar756]

@@nothanks7063 Actually it's not "staggering high", keep dogwhistling terfs you fool.

[@sisteroftherose2040]

When I was at the University of Washington I had a classmate who was non-binary. They told me that if I call myself a woman... it excludes them and is considered a form of violence. So I said, "If you have the right to identify how you want, why do I not get to have the same right?" They had nothing to say.

[@skurinski]

Well he/she is just an attention seeking brat

[@songofthesea6353]

r/thatactuallyhappaned

[@honey25873]

Perfectly said. If they would continue i would have said “you telling me I can’t label myself by how I feel and am is violence , I’m extremely offended”

[@PossQueen]

Top 10 things that never happened #1 you went to college

[@blake6380]

@@PossQueen y’all really love to erase other people’s experience. It’s already a pattern atp.

[@leagreen4593]

As a straight woman, you are breath of fresh air. Thank you for showing me another side that doesn’t make me feel like a bigot for simply refusing to accept non truths. This was thought provoking and balanced.

[@lilyaddy1963]

I agree!

[@TheBAYOUBRAT]

Agree!! Definitely a cut above !!

[@Iam4wine]

Was about to post the very same thing.

[@CMM726]

Yes most definitely! Everyone is just calling each other names in America when we can’t agree and it gets us NOWHERE. We all need to learn to find common ground.

[@emmad6683]

as a trans girl i'm happy that some ppl say the truth (like Blaire), why do we have to accept pronouns like ... tree/tree. In my oppinion there is two or maximum three pronous : he/his,she/her and at the extrem limite they/them ... NO MORE !

[@asavannah7439]

Putting trans women into womens sport to compete, is like me wrestling a 6 year old child. I will always win because I am naturally stronger than a child just like men are naturally stronger than women, that’s just a fact.

[@majlordag1889]

men are naturally stronger than women on average, not all men are stronger than all women though majority are.

[@Tina06019]

Absolutely true, in most situations. The rare women who are as strong as most men (not the strongest men) do not change this fact.

[@N..P..]

There's a reason you hear of MtF trans athletes competing at the top and not FtM.

[@honey25873]

Careful don’t give them ideas, some will come out saying they label themselves as a child and fight to play in children’s sports. Scary thing is … is that we’re not too far from that at all, there’s that grown man than says he’s a “girl “ not a women a “GIRL” aka predator

[@prangprue]

I’m still mad at Lia Thomas

[@Terroreyes-j8l]

I think you nailed it Balire when you said "I am not a woman, I am a transwoman. And I have my own life experiences and challenges that come with that". That is very healthy way for someone to see themselves within society and be comfortable with who they are.

[@D4NIELXOXO]

a cis person congratulating a trans woman on invalidating her own identity LMFAO who gave you the audacity

[@imanepink]

@@D4NIELXOXO how do you know that they're cis? But I think that Blair is a woman (in terms of gender) and a transwoman 🤷‍♀️.

[@familyguyclips-4026]

@@D4NIELXOXO cry about it 💀

[@D4NIELXOXO]

@@imanepink because they’re transphobic lmao? ask them

[@D4NIELXOXO]

@@familyguyclips-4026 why don’t you go and cry about your geometry dash simulator 💀💀

[@carriekube7357]

Let's not forget the whole "if you don't date/sleep with me, you're a bigot" thing as well. People don't like being emotionally blackmailed.

[@boydrewl]

i agree

[@SharonVeeLee]

I've always found that disturbing. "Sleep with me or you're x-phobic" So you want sex under coercion i.e. rape?

[@carriekube7357]

@@SharonVeeLee People who play that card are just scumbags.

[@builder396]

Isnt that also just really entitled? "Oh, Im trans, I want the same rights as a cis people." "Okay, you do (kind of)" "THEN WHY WILL NOONE SLEEP WITH ME! CIS PEOPLE GET THAT; WHY NOT MEEEEEEEEE!!! I bet that everyone is transphobic!"

[@wavyy4723]

i saw a trans tiktoker say the other day that if a female finds out a theyre trans and no longer wants to date them bc they dont have a biological dick then their reason for feeling that way was rooted in transphobia...

[@riina___]

Whenever I bring up those points in my friendship circle I just get called a terf. It's annoying. I accept trans people but not the idea of ignoring sex and differences in sex.

[@sl33pybunny]

Terfs unite 🥺 was exhiled from my friends for saying peace and love for all... it showed my privelege apparently after 3 years of friendship :(

[@KN-ox1fe]

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[@Lavender_1618]

I wish I could be in your friendship circle and back you up when that occurs. And then you could be like "see....my trans friend agrees!! so stfu!" lol.

[@riina___]

@@Lavender_1618 I'd love that :")

[@JoyfullyShea-Marcella]

Didn't something like this happen to JK Rowling?

[@briannab4770]

Trans-woman here: Could not f*cking agree more. I literally think this is your most lucid, cognizant, correct, pertinent video ever. It fully encapsulates how I - and hopefully many others - feel about what's going on in the trans-community.

[@cjgaming3605]

Your channel scares me lol

[@briannab4770]

@@cjgaming3605 - Haha! Why?

[@maneskinned]

@@cjgaming3605 LMFAO

[@margaretrangel7223]

Your channel scares me a bit too lol. Sending love anyways lol 💕

[@SagittariusArcherVaperkitten]

Cys woman here .... your profile pic is so beautiful, you are stunning... (my spelling is horrible sorry )

[@BLiNGyourALARMclock]

"Different" doesn't mean "wrong" or "bad". Trans women and cis women DO have their differences both medically and socially AND THATS OK!

[@wanderingrogue3039]

And that's exactly the line everyone should tread. But both 'camps' want to recruit people to extremes. Trans women are women, trans men are men. They can be gay or straight just like cis people. But there are differences. Trans women won't know the pain of childbirth even if they want to and cis women will never know the pain of SRS. Trans men have periods doesn't mean cis women don't. The sports issue needs scientific review and maybe a new non binary category. Like seriously people, talk for more than 5 seconds. Texting is always worse than talking.

[@megauser8512]

@@wanderingrogue3039 Exactly, sad but true!

[@MrNybios]

@@wanderingrogue3039 Yes! This! I have spoken to so many people that can only ever think in extremes. You are either 100% for it or 100% against it, there are no nuances anymore. That is so crazy, especially because it is coming from the same people that love to preach about spectrums.

[@tamsinthai]

Wtf is a 'cis' woman'? You are either a woman, or trying to pass as one, which you NEVER WILL.

[@laceysorresso4680]

@@tamsinthai lol you should watch the video where she gets kicked out of places for going into men’s bathrooms

[@kingdouchbag4626]

Trans activists weren't voted or chosen by the trans community, they shouldn't have the right to talk for the whole community Heyy thankss for 300 likes😃

[@typicalo7406]

true, if the majority of the community doesn't want you to represent the community then you shouldn't

[@fuckamericanidiot]

They have the right to pretend they do.

[@collinkilloran5721]

@2v_5r preach

[@yungkim5834]

@2v_5r no it’s not

[@nothanks7063]

This! Can someone please shut Riley Dennis up?

[@M3g4UBERn00b]

Ngl, I've become less accepting of the "trans community" as a whole this last year or so because they spout so much nonsense I find myself feeling forced to reject

[@doclinny]

I have a friend who went from identifying as trans to being incredibly suspicious and critical of trans people

[@SkaterBlades]

I heavily disagreed with the trans community on a lot of things for years, and in February 2020 i began to dislike the LGBT community as a whole because of some shit that had been building up for a while combined with the crazy ideas. I'm gay, i don't hate LGBT people but i hate the way the community behaves and how they think.

[@barbybubbles314]

Wow! I am sorry to hear that, must be difficult to go through a change like that and not be accepted by people who have gone through the same change that should be someone you could relate to and relate to you. I can't imagine how difficult that is

[@SlightlyPeeved]

@@SkaterBlades As a lesbian, I feel the same way

[@SkaterBlades]

@@SlightlyPeeved I felt like the oppressive stack was heavily leaned upon in the lgbt group i was in. Trans and NB people were prioritised over gays, lesbians and bi people and were usually treated better. They also tried to put me into a box, I'm pretty masculine and they acted like i wasn't gay enough for them. Then it's also full of heterophobia and they especially hate anyone to the right of them. We had an election for prime minister a couple of months before i walked away and some guy was ranting about conservative voters calling them things like cunt (isn't that supposed to be a sexist term?). I didn't vote but i asked him to stop insulting huge groups of people, especially as there might have been people who voted Conservative in the group. Guess who got in the shit. Jolly old me

[@Ash-dy3tw]

As a trans woman, I THANK YOU!!!!! You and I have a very similar framework and I am oftentimes quotes as saying, “We are headed down a very dangerous path of delusion.” We don’t get to just abandon reality and create this alternate universe where you get to be everything you wish you were. It doesn’t work that way! Whew.... Thank you!

[@kaitlinmontgomery2750]

I mean.... technically that is exactly how it all works. The only reason we have words and language for example, is because we made up the sounds and attributed meanings to the them. The only reason a cloud is a cloud... the only reason why I am a she and a human and am wearing a silver dress rn is because those concepts were literally derived from thought and imagination. We very much DO get to recreate reality how we see fit... reality IS malleable.

[@leeconaghan9555]

Just like All, shim just married hermself!

[@K_Cummins]

"I choose real life." Thank you. Pretending that sex doesn't exist erases everyone. If trans women/men are biological women/men, then why is transition necessary to treat gender dysphoria? If sex isn't real, then how is sexism real--and why is there a need for women-only spaces and men-only spaces? If sex isn't real, then sexism (misogyny and misandry) can't be real. Also, purely random: love, love, *love* your makeup in this video.

[@glistening7178]

We live in a patriarchy. Misandry isn't valid. Look up what Patriarchy means and how many societies function on it.

[@wydkatsui]

@@glistening7178 “misandry isn’t valid” yes it is. Just because one form of sexism is used more doesn’t mean that the other isn’t important, sexism isn’t based completely on power it’s also based on descrimination, prejudice, etc. If you discredit misandry then you are in fact a hypocrite and sexist.

[@FrankAndreasLia]

@@wydkatsui You are correct, just like racism IS RACEISM not matter what, color or gender of the person perpetrating the act... @glistening - Look up the word logic, you clearly have no idea what it means. You are using patriarchy as a shield and a bad excuse for being a bigot and intolerant towards men.

[@wydkatsui]

@@FrankAndreasLia Exactly, people should stop using words without understanding the meaning.

[@izzieb.2926]

There are no men only spaces. Radical feminists won't let those exist😔

[@magi12281991]

I made the mistake of talking about my 13 year old daughter who is confused and thinks she may be trans. I had a huge amount of people screeching at me on Twitter that she is my “son.” She isn’t sure and her journey will be her journey, and I will accept and celebrate her no matter who she becomes, but the fact that I’m not going to rush the decision when she isn’t even sure doesn’t make me a bad parent or a transphobe. Let’s face it, transition is huge decision. Screeching at people who are in the early part of this journey doesn’t help understanding or acceptance. The de transition videos run through my mind when I think about rushing to deem her my son. Thank you for this video!

[@kupotenshi]

it's so normal for girls to feel alienated from their bodies at 13, what girl wants to get a mature body and be leered at by men. i think most girls dreamed of escaping that. the best thing you can do for your girl is let her dress how she wants, anyone encouraging permanent changes at that age is not your friend

[@KaidenOZ]

@@kupotenshi most people feel confused by their bodies when they are pushing through puberty, there is a massive adjustment that needs to be made for every person as they move from being a child and adult that comes along from the hormonal and physical changes happening. it is in no way an indication of being trans though, Trans activists are exploiting a confusing time in everyones life to further indoctrinate others into the cult of transgenderism at an age when they are still very open to suggestion from a position of faux authority.

[@jayqwuan]

Honestly, I’m 13 right now and sometimes I have a passing thought of ‘Hey, I really want to be a guy right now’, in which it was more prevalent when I was younger. I’m coming to terms that maybe it was because of all the stuff I’ve been through and the fact that I’ve always thought that being a boy would rid me of all the negative statements made about my body and the trauma I’ve more or less experienced. Why? Because I believed it would make me feel as though I was reborn. Also, the idea of being a guy in a girl’s body influenced me a lot, as I’ve picked up a lot of traditionally ‘male’ behaviours, speech and so on due to not having much of a mother-figure in my life and growing up watching men on the internet. If I were to have told my parents about wanting to be a boy and they were to have allowed me to transition, I feel as though I’d probably never truly feel happy with myself as I’d know that I’ll never truly be a boy. Just make sure to let her know you’ll support her no matter what but make sure not to make any rash decisions, as even now, hormonal blockers are relatively new and there aren’t any known side effects yet, in which one of them could be the potential permanent impairment of the brain. Wish you and your daughter the best! ✨✨

[@magi12281991]

@@jamiehatesyou9175 I don’t even know what that is, so probably not.

[@refinnej5302]

I hated being a girl up until about 15/16 years old. I felt so out of place and awkward in my own skin. I played with "masculine toys," participated in "masculine activities," and hated "feminine clothes." My parents never held me to a feminine standard and just let me be a kid and discover myself on my own, though other kids who actually were trans did not always have as understanding of parents as I did. These days, it isn't any easier on kids because now they're being told that if they don't feel right as their biological gender, they must be the opposite gender, which plays head games just as much when people said that people can't be trans. I never understand why we go from one extreme to another.

[@JustJamieP]

As a trans woman as well, I’ve to say you raised such good points. We cannot ignore reality. Or pretend to only see things from one and ONLY perspective. I don’t know why there is this sense of “cult”. We don’t need to necessarily blend in with the rest of society, you can still hold your own individuality but be aware of the others around you

[@sarahbethjacobs]

I hope you don’t mind me saying but you’re gorgeous! Also I agree :)

[@JustJamieP]

@@sarahbethjacobs thank you :)

[@anunez1979able]

FACTS!

[@arielmartinezguardia9235]

I agree. I'm a trans guy, living a very simple life. I don't really get along with those people making us all look demented. I get respected and treated equally. That's it, really.

[@rachelmazza4079]

This is exactly how I have started to feel about trans people because of that ‘trans women are literally biologically the same as cis women and if you don’t agree you are a bigot’ is where they lost me. Before that, I never thought twice about how to interact with trans people.

[@aaniyahhardwell9237]

This is exactly how I feel. I had a conversation with a group of people about trans women in sports and they jumped on me so fast, told me i’m cis i need to stfu and stay out of “trans business”. So I’m just supposed to be quiet while my sport is taken over, no thanks.

[@Stefengris]

@@aaniyahhardwell9237 *hugs to both of you*, sorry you had a bad experience. The logic rejecters are so loud, and often it's the allies as well who are insufferable.

[@aaniyahhardwell9237]

@@Stefengris That’s exactly what it is! Like you’re cis as well but apart of the LGBTQ+ community, but that doesn’t mean you’re right on all topics involving that. For a while it left a bad taste in my mouth but I’m not gonna let a group of “allies” change how I feel about equal rights for trans people. They’re still people regardless of how some people of their community have treated me. HUGS ALL AROUND!!

[@sarakim1070]

I've always supported the trans community and tried to make some more stubborn people get that there's nothing wrong with that. I started having problems not with the trans community but with the extremist side of the gender fluid/non binary team (i said extremist because the others are usually chill), when they started denying the existence of biological genders at birth and wanted to remove the sex voice from passports/identity cards until someone is old enough to chose theirs, which would make it burocracy wise A MESS. I tried to have a conversation with a nonbinary person about this, explaining how i thought it would make it difficult for governments to identify you, that there are more important battles to get acceptance rather than removing "ladies and gentlemen" from public announcements before even having people knowing what non binary mean (let's be honest, a lot of people that don't spend too much time on the internet dont know what genderfluid and non binary are). This person straight called me "victim of the patriarchy" and bigot since im straight and cisgender, told me that their requests are legit and we just have to accept them, and that if we don't know what nonbinary/genderfluid means it's time for us to get educated instead of thinking that there are only two genders. It wasn't a pleasant talk yeah. I feel bad because i've seen improvements in the past years for trans people but these kind of people are kinda ruining them

[@BrightWulph]

I got told a similar thing and it now makes me double think before even interating with a trans person in case I accidentally offend them with scientific facts...

[@carrienicholasxo415]

Also, I don't ever want my sexual orientation to define me. I'm more than that. If I end up marrying a man... okay. If I end up marrying a woman.... okay. No need to just introduce myself as "HEY, I'M BISEXUAL."

[@notmychairnotmyproblem]

I have a similar experience kinda. I'm a straight cis woman with a cis male husband that openly identifies as gay. We have an open marriage. Big deal. Our relationship and sexuality doesn't define us nor do we wave it around like a badge of honor. We just want to live our lives and start our family in peace.

[@aislinlindsay3950]

@@notmychairnotmyproblem wait, your husband isn’t a cis male if he’s gay, also why be married to a gay man? I don’t understand that. Open relationships are cool I just don’t see the need for it since both of you could be happy in other relationships more fitting to your sexualities, idk enlighten me?

[@cablekar]

@@aislinlindsay3950 Uh yes the husband IS cis is hes just gay because cis doesnt mean straight, cis means they are born as the gender they identify with. What the actual fuck

[@cablekar]

@@notmychairnotmyproblem Just letting you know that commenter is wrong, your husband is Cis, even if hes gay.

[@cablekar]

@@aislinlindsay3950 They're married to a gay man because that's what her and the gay man decided they wanted to do???if it works for them then shut the hell up rather than trying to be some fuckin YT marriage counselor in the comment section. They're happy and that's what they consensually decided to do together. Get over it

[@GuranPurin]

There is a huge disconnect between real-life, normal transpeople, and the trans community of social media. Some people at my university are trans and everyone gets along just fine. No screeching about pronouns, no saying gender isn't real, even a case where a student was accidentally misgendered (because the other person didn't know), they just corrected the person and said it was fine and everyone just went on about their day. Because these people have assimilated into society. Twitter and Tik Tok don't want to do that. They're trying to force society to change for them and that's not realistic. No one is going to change their entire way of thinking and living and societal standards because of your feelings.

[@jupiterisaak1004]

This is absolutely true. It’s just like with religion you can get plenty of religious people who are just normal people. Then you get the extremists. Trans extremism goes unchecked because everyone is afraid of being labelled transphobic.

[@georgeorwell5842]

@@jupiterisaak1004 exactly, these rabid 'activists' do more harm to the wider cause.

[@smolsunikki8043]

EXACTLY- My first experience with lgbt people was online and it was a total NIGHTMARE, so when I met lgbt-identifying people in my real life I got so scared of them but they were the complete opposite. I learned so much from them, looked up to them, and they were so kind to me. They weren't these hot-headed people convinced that I was oppressing them or trying to label me as homophobic to isolate me or forcing ideas into my head and calling me a bigot when I wouldn't yeet my beliefs out the window for them. I wish all lgbt people could be just.. Normal like that. It's so much easier to empathize, learn, and understand them and how we can help them that way.

[@AReallyBoredFlower]

@Brittany Du Yes, because they're a rational human. No one who holds sanity would dare waste effort on a movement that dehumanizes them by calling them a bigot or other insults. Do you spend time learning why those "bigots" hold negative opinions on you or do you just dismiss them as they do for you?

[@GuranPurin]

@Brittany Du No one is transphobic, you are literally proving her point accusing everyone who doesn't bend to the twitter mob of being transphobic.

[@Dem765]

They crossed the line for me when they started involving children, the education system, and laws on language. Trans people should be pro free speech, because it's what got them this far

[@deceasedbyphantom]

"Flat-earthers of gender" lmao, fucking nailed it.

[@shanekeenaNYC]

Yep, and specifically with housing and employment, many landlords/supers/owners/managers need to know if there are any specific facilities that need to be added, if there are any extra costs that need to be sunk to ensure compliance with the updated regulations, like there's a whole pandora's box of potential expenses that may have to be sunk into new compliance, and somehow the trans community just doesn't seem to get it. They could easily get the multinats to put legit money into reforms, they have enough money already, but some smaller regional firms and local businesses need to be able to get grandfathered in.

[@redexexile795]

genders dont exist just biological sex rest it an ideology and it entirely in the mind

[@icursemystarsinbittergrief]

@@Barbiethebarbiechannel Amen ! 😂 (i'm kidding but so true)

[@D4NIELXOXO]

omg you described yourself well done

[@theobserver8]

@@D4NIELXOXO Hey. Do you wanna talk? I saw your other comments and thought that maybe we can have a conversation about this.

[@Sara-nx9tz]

My mom was transphobic before I started showing her Blaire’s videos. Now shes amazing and loves Blaire. Idc what people say online about Blaire being “transphobic”, she’s making tons of people less transphobic on the daily.

[@why8476]

Well, she also does a lot of videos against other transpeople or makes fun of their appearance if they don't pass like she does.

[@cosmicwaves420]

@@why8476 She only criticizes "trans" people that don't even make an effort in passing but then get all triggered when they're misgendered.

[@Soloisbac]

@@why8476 it's funny

[@TigerDragon1001]

How do you know if someone is putting in the effort though? Blaire herself literally attacked another trans woman for ages for “not trying enough” only to find out later she was on hormones and was getting FFS (Riley Dennis). Some people literally can’t afford to transition, and not everyone who can transition will ultimately pass well. Does that mean we shouldn’t respect them? EDIT: I know Blaire apologised, and I knew that when I wrote this post. That isn't the point. The point is that you can't tell from a damn KZbin video if someone is putting in the effort or not.

[@cosmicwaves420]

@@TigerDragon1001 I do understand that not everyone can afford transitioning or transitions well. What Blaire is saying is that if you know you don't pass well, you can't blame others if they misgender you.

[@monopolizeme]

This isn’t a rant. This is truth. This is what needs to be said and heard. Thank you for this.

[@eviealaya]

Period 💯

[@Fodemanga]

It's still a rant...

[@dachers1238]

Love the channel! Can't wait for you to review the S20 from last year!

[@coda821]

They want conservatives to be demonized. If they made claims that conservatives could agree with, then they wouldn't be able to label us as haters. The trans issue is not useful to the left, if it can't make conservatives look evil and stupid.

[@jessicacanter2367]

Yaaaaaas preach

[@Elevatedeyes]

I have never been transphobic. I have been trans confused, trans annoyed and trans misinformed, but never transphobic. You have completely altered my mindset on transgenders. I will never relate to your life story but I want to learn everything I can because of your honest and refreshing taken on it. I am considering altering my nursing path to go into trans health just so I can support individuals like yourself alongside supporting detransitioners. I would hope I could find a way to reduce the number of individuals who find themselves wanting to detransition while encouraging individuals who feel so unstable in their own gender and body. You are super inspiring. Thank you.

[@Ms.MD7]

That's awesome. I felt the same boat: trans-confused and trans-misinformed but never phobic.

[@XXallycat101XX]

My boyfriend was with his group of friends sitting at a table at a restaurant and laughing amongst each other about random stuff about work, and there was a trans woman early in her transition sitting across the restaurant who assumed they were laughing at her so she had her friend go up to them to slap one of them. This kind of thing can really affect how people can see some of the trans community. They didn't even notice her at all but she felt the need to punish them for the fear that they were laughing at her.

[@LS-fe4ob]

Omg 😱

[@ArcaniaSkypirateDen9516]

What the actual hell?

[@DC-nw3uc]

They got them on assault right?

[@beckyfisk7821]

Self-centeredness is prevalent in our society today for all types of people and create awful problems like this. We could all use a bit of thinking past our navel and realizing the world sure doesn't revolve around us and our tiny plight

[@bellagarzia9653]

Oh fuck no she would’ve gotten slapped back

[@cao0323]

I’m a biological female. If I were to be a trans male, I would still have a disadvantage in male sports. It’s common sense.

[@jzargothesnowleopard]

Not necessarily, going on testosterone (especially when you’re younger, 18+) changes the density of your bones, the thickness of your skin, the emotions you feel, and you gain muscle at much the same rate as a bio male would, assuming you work out and eat right for your body type. I would say if a trans male hasn’t been on testosterone for at least a year, then they might have some disadvantage in athletics, but for the most part, most trans men can compete with most bio men at the same level or higher. Testosterone does a lot more to the bio female body than estrogen does to the bio male body. That’s why a lot of trans women have a hard time transitioning if it’s not early on, they are stuck with the permanent changes of testosterone that estrogen can’t really change.

[@joechain7548]

You can chop off the twig, and mutilate the berries, but DNA says you will always be a Man.

[@jzargothesnowleopard]

@@joechain7548 well I mean, yeah, just because you get bottom surgery (FTM or MTF) doesn’t make you biologically male or female, but you do appear almost 100% bio male or bio female which is the whole point of transitioning. Trans people are still men and women, but when they go to the doctor, they usually have to disclose their biological sex to get proper treatment. Doesn’t make the trans person any less of a male or female.

[@tanjalover93]

@@jzargothesnowleopard As someone who competed at a very high level in athletics as a woman and then transitioned and continued to compete as male, I can tell you straight up that you are dead wrong. Sure I took some medals home, but got totally crusched in all disciplines 90% of the time, even after YEARS on HRT.

[@jzargothesnowleopard]

@@tanjalover93 that’s in your personal experience though, everyone’s body reacts to taking hormones differently. There are some trans men who could compete with bio males. Although, I think Blaire has said in the past or someone said, trans people should have trans sports groups, but there aren’t enough to create and ALL trans sports group usually

[@blaertes4976]

As a gay guy I’m starting to feel this anytime someone figures out I’m lgbt. The loudest activists really doing a good job reversing progress.

[@mutestingray]

I feel like coming out is more difficult than ever. You’re automatically pigeonholed into a political ideology.

[@blaertes4976]

@@mutestingray thanks identity politics

[@SubtleStair]

blaertes This "progress" of theirs is something they clearly do not want. These activists seem to want crisis, not progress.

[@morgenstern2603]

Don't know if it helps, but while I'm struggling with my trans support these days, my LGB support never wavered. I'm sure, I'm not the only one. Stay strong. You are not alone.

[@morgenstern2603]

@Brittany Du When you say that people get homophobic, because a gay man doesn't support trans issues enough, then you are saying that it is actually the trans community, who is getting homophobic. Because why would the rest of us care? Is that really the point you want to make?

[@itskitty808]

You are so right about biological sexes. How is biology tranphobic? No, trans community. Biology is NOT transphobic. To say that "saying that trans women are not biological women is transphobic" is lucidicrous and ridiculous because it denies science.

[@StarRising-dh3us]

That's why you mad because it denies science

[@UrieLeviathan]

I'm a trans man and I often get confused when I see "transmasc" people who can't stop shouting that they're trans. If they're comfortable with it, good for them, but sometimes I feel like these people need attention and not gender transition. I'm not fond of being trans. I'd rather be stealth but I can't right now. But damn I know that when I'll feel better and people who need to know (partners, family, close friends) know about it, no one else will ever hear about it. I just want to live in peace.

[@fuckamericanidiot]

They sure do love them labels!!!

[@Beast121126]

Not judging those who live this way by any means, but i really dont understand trans people who dont want to pass. Like, someday i want to be stealth and have as little people know about me being trans as possible.

[@UrieLeviathan]

@@Beast121126 I can understand that they don't feel societal pressure on how every gender 'must' look to be perceived as such. Honestly that's really good for them, I wish I could be as careless about it. I want to be stealth because of dysphoria but sometimes I'd like to have a little more fun with my looks. Not comfortable enough ATM though. Maybe when people around me will be acting naturally and when I'll be "done" with the changes I need I'll feel confident enough to have fun with make up again sometimes or stuff like that. I'm into LARP and can't even use a little bit to do my faun make up. Too dysphoric even for that. I'm really glad some people feel safe enough to express themselves however they please. But the snowflakes who make everything about being trans and warcry when you misgender them when you can't have a clue... I can't stand them. People who drown others in their insecurities make me wanna hit them with a brick.

[@luketownsend391]

i truly hope there is a day when you can genuinely feel that way and live your life quietly in peace as just a person. ya know part of the herd, no matter your coat patterns. peace, love and power to ya!!

[@reececoventree9849]

I'm with you, bro. I just want to be seen as an anonymous man. I'm not a poster child.

[@norahe1953]

I respect everyone regardless of gender or how you identify. But my experiences as a woman will ALWAYS be different from a transgender woman’s experiences . It’s not transphobic. My experiences as a woman get muffled when trans women make this argument

[@evasmileyyy]

All individual humans will have a different experience in life. Its not a competition anyway. But i wanna mention this. Me myself is a transgender woman, and the public society see me as a woman. Therefore, my experience can be quite similar to a "real womans" experience. It just depends u know.

[@louisee782]

@@evasmileyyy yes, in a social sense the experiences can be similar, in most cases socially, trangender women have a lot more to deal with for example murder/assault and just an overall lack of respect for women like you. I feel like the movement today got clouded by other parts of the lgbt and the push of what I would consider bio women replacement/competition, such as language changing breastfeeding to chest feeding, pregnant woman to pregnant person or replacing the word mother even the new developments in bio women's sports is defintely pushing the movement back. The main focus should be transgender awareness/safety and just the right to be treated like a normal human being when it comes to work and opportunities. Regardless of that there are physical experiences like menstruation/pregnancy/certain health concerns that are unique to bio women that should be allowed exclusive to us rather then changing the spaces or names for inclusivity which creates hostility gradually for both sides.

[@norahe1953]

They can be seen as similar. However, transgender women choose to transition to be viewed as woman. You want to be seen and identified as a woman and I respect it. But I was viewed as a “woman” without choice and sexualized as such by society before I even understood what sexuality meant. Transgender women and biological women have both had to fight, true. However they’re fighting from 2 very different angles

[@bahahahahahhaha]

@@evasmileyyy no.

[@Beast121126]

Very transphobic comment. I have a femalr body, not a woman thanks. Or did you want me in the woman's restroom with a beard?

[@itsthatonechickagaincallth7843]

It's just sad that they actually think they're helping people.... Edit: I'm talking about real people who genuinely believe it, not companies trying to profit or the "I'm better than you" crowd.

[@gimygaming8655]

Say it louder for the people in the back 👏🙌

[@itsthatonechickagaincallth7843]

@@gimygaming8655 lol

[@OatMilkLatte...]

I disagree. This movement isn't about helping people. It's about power and money. Big pharma is raking it in.

[@thekindred999]

@Brittany Du You mean the truth?

[@FlabbyAbi]

@Brittany Du it's not a conspiracy. It just is what it is. Money money money

[@emildegas4213]

You are literally a blessing for the trans community

[@flav2689]

And others as well.

[@mutestingray]

Being anti-science isn’t the solution. Having a real *dialogue* is the answer. And you can only have dialogue if two parties can actually listen to one another.

[@Nakia11798]

Tucutes will never listen

[@anyaj5171]

blairs the anti science one tho she doesnt even do her research lmaooo i bet she cant even spell science

[@mrboost4186]

@@anyaj5171 Says the individual who "can't even" use capital letters or apostrophes.

[@greatdude7279]

@@anyaj5171 No no Blair is pretty pro-science because in hard science such as biology for example your biological sex is not defined by the very narrow criteria gender fluid people use. "But muh chromosones" 5 things are used to determine your biological sex and your chromosones are only one thing on that list. "Wait are you telling me that scientists who know about evolution being imperfect process are not actually using classifications on the notion of 100% purity ?" Yep. A biological male with few % of female biological characteristics is still a biological male just like how humans with Neanderthal genes are still classified as Homo Sapien Sapiens and not Neanderthals or "hybrids". I mean for fuck sake we humans share over 90% of the genes with Chimps and that doesn't make us Chimps. Going the route of LGBTQ community when it comes to biology would mean we not only would have to create thousands of different BIOLOGICAL SEXES but also new biological species for every living thing.

[@Rschaltegger]

but you can`t have a discussion because the wrong word can cause to be called bigot, hater, anti-trans etc.

[@esportsnoob]

I’m trans and I include myself to 0% with the trans community. Every time I read articles or see videos about the topic trans I always see these loud an annoying people who thinks they deserve better because they are better. They built their whole life about being trans and have to show everyone „ look I’m trans, I’m special.“ and that’s the moment I say no. I don’t identify with you. I don’t want defy myself with the term trans. Yes, I am trans but I don’t want that everyone knows it. I just want to live without any labels.

[@Dyonivan]

So many people in the LGBT community do the exact same thing. I know far too many lesbians that 99% of the jokes they tell can be responded with, "Ha ha ha it's funny because she's gay." Their entire personality is wrapped up in their sexuality or the community in general.

[@MarekzAnglii]

@@Dyonivan I agree 100%. Members of the LGBT community can do absolutely everything that straight people can, they are over-represented on TV and in fact they often have even more privileges than straights when it comes to gaining employment and also within the workplace, but they're constantly on Chat Shows complaining about homophobia!

[@nikkijack911]

I think it's all about timing, the age we live in with the whole "look at me", and searching for and creating injustice where there was no malicious intent. Personally, I don't take offense if I'm called sir or maam, since most of the time these terms are meant to address a person in a respectful manner. I do correct some ppl some of the time, but I never attack anyone who is just being kind, some ppl are so provocative and then play victim upon another's reaction, like children sometimes do. Demoralization is not evolution.

[@nikkijack911]

Same here with the labels, it's funny that the ppl who have slapped the most labels on me in life or the ppl who tell me I can't identify a certain way or that I'm wrong, those ppl have always been from the lgbtq+ "community" or they've been ppl in position of power with some major control issues. I even spent time in public schools in rural areas down south as a teen with minimal issues compared to the cattiness of the "community"

[@MarekzAnglii]

@Alex Paul Yep! As I said in another comment regarding a similar subject... "The ones who shout 'tolerance' the most, are often the ones who tolerate the least!"

[@oddbobproductions781]

“Don’t have any heroes who aren’t trans” Dang I guess I can’t have heroes who are male since I’m female.

[@userequaltoNull]

Ofc not, it's literally impossible for girls to relate to men. Kathleen Kenedy told me so.

[@nicholethereadingmomma9050]

@@userequaltoNull lol

[@lollylunar393]

um excuse me, "male" and "female" are just oppressive labels invented by white men to discriminate against trans folxs 😉

[@natb9919]

omg don't you respect women at all? Wanting a male role model is so misogynistic, you just don't realize it because you're brainwashed by the patriarchy! (this is sarcasm!!)

[@nicholethereadingmomma9050]

@@natb9919 lmao

[@mogwest9016]

Tiktok is rife with these kinds of trans-activists, and you're right, it really does make it hard for me to want to accept them into society, or in general. I constantly have to remind myself that this is not the whole community, it's just certain individuals. The last thing anyone needs is to be lumped in with people who go overboard.

[@megauser8512]

Exactly!

[@DennisNeijmeijer]

I just stopped including the T+ just LGB until they stop being so confused

[@LetholdusKaspyr]

Being courteous to people about their feelings of identity is one thing, and everyone should be on board. Insisting that those feelings should trump biology and language for the entire population is an altogether different thing. It destroys any goodwill that otherwise could be gained.

[@jacksonmcnuggets7488]

Well said 💙

[@annastarichenkova2101]

I agree 100%.

[@sevenproxies4255]

No, you may ASK me to come aboard. You have no right to DEMAND courtesy from me.

[@LetholdusKaspyr]

@@sevenproxies4255 Yeah, it's more a "manners" kind of thing, rather than "scream bloody murder and demand social exile."

[@spuddibuddii]

Yes...exactly.

[@gracey3537]

If everyone was like Blaire, we probably wouldn't be having this conversation at all

[@LaDeeDah]

Facts!

[@WinterStones]

@Brittany Du and how does calling out issues within the lgbt make her those things?

[@FoundWanting970]

@@WinterStones Because questioning the alphabet people is bad and makes you a bigoted nazi

[@mishmish9103]

Blair doesn't have autogynephilia so that helps a ton. The movement is led by autogynephilic males for whom any reminder of their biological reality crashes their s3xual fantasy, therefore the whole world is expected to play along with their fetish

[@alnthevalley1]

Don’t be a kiss ass, there are plenty of us out here trying to say the same thing 😎

[@joeyd.6172]

How about the trans women who say they can menstruate...I can’t...they’re hurting the cause, not helping it. I don’t understand why facts are so insulting to them.

[@GedenWilbur]

I always thought they meant trans men when they mention that.

[@misojimo2154]

right... like, they LITERALLY cannot menstruate. it’s science

[@raydraiz1859]

Are you talking about that heifer/heffer(grossly obese) man that tries very little to look like a woman from Canada that hates Rebel News and girls above 16 yrs old?

[@rainbowdashsailormoon6005]

Are you sure that isn't trans guys, or the symptoms trans women can get that are similar to a period if on hrt?

[@ebonynaomi1085]

I live in England, uk. I am cis female. Our NHS system, has started ordering midwives and nurses, to stop using the terms "breastfeed" and "breast milk", because its discrimination, and bias against transgender women. This is really alarming and confusing to me.

[@Solace_System]

"[The gay rights movement] was a message of a desire for assimilation rather than deconstructing society to fit around the gay community." THIS IS THE FUNDAMENTAL PROBLEM, YES! Beautifully, succinctly said, Blaire: A++++ - Samuel

[@Cany0n_]

not me looking at her shirt the whole time trying to figure out how the sleeves connect to the "body" of the shirt... like seriously wtf is that shirt and is it in three pieces or not

[@itsmexena4727]

Yeah it's like a little shrug or something but yeah 🤣

[@angelskysilver5219]

I think they connect to the back of the shirt

[@jomay78]

I was fascinated too. Looks amazing!

[@W0X42A]

Spent the whole video looking at her shirt, never noticed if it had sleeves or not.

[@aguineapig3292]

Booba

[@goddessofdragons1996]

Unpopular opinion: I hate being called “cis”.

[@madilynn_0660]

Me too!!

[@lauvasquez7198]

Yup!

[@1779Raven]

Fucking same

[@chrispnano]

Username checks out

[@anonmon8550]

Agreed. Many wm didn't consent to that label, and didn't choose it for themselves. I kind of feel like, if I can respect someone's pronouns, why can't you respect that I don't want to be called that, or that I don't identify as that term?

[@nikkidarkangelpnope8400]

I think the biggest issue is the people who want to pretend that dysphoria isn't a part of being transgender and make up new genders to, quite frankly, explain personalities that don't conform to "gender norms" which ironically is the exact thing my mother's generation taught us didn't matter. There used to be an acceptance that girls and boys could have varied interests now if you don't like the things "assigned" to their gender you are suddenly trans regardless of dysphoria or not and that is just idiocy. It takes away from the genuine experiences of people like you while putting society backwards when it comes to just letting you live your life as you want and that isn't ok.

[@morgenstern2603]

@mi pájaro me esta buscando When I read someone identifying as the moon for the first time I thought it was a joke. But no, they mean it.

[@NatureLover-pj2qe]

You don’t need gender dysphoria to be trans. Some trans people only have gender incongruence or gender euphoria instead.

[@Duke00x]

True and This is also why "non-binary" is a growing thing. It is a way to make any behavior into a gender and gain benefits from it. And it is a way to have "trans" people without having to have

[@nikkidarkangelpnope8400]

@@NatureLover-pj2qe Prolonged gender incongruence is a literal clinical definition of GD and autogynephelia is a fetish not a gender hon.

[@morgenstern2603]

@@NatureLover-pj2qe One could argue, that GD comes with GI and GE, and that GD quite often is the consequence of GI, but I don't really think that is what the OP is going for. It is more that people think if they have some behavior that doesn't fit their sex, that they are transgender. For example, I wouldn't like Chicks Flicks and instead watch sports with the guys, drinking beer. My parents taught me, that it is absolutely fine to do that, while one is told today, that one is trans. I'm not trans, however I took three tests I found on Google. I made the first ones Google spit out, because those are the test a kid wondering about it would take. I answered honestly. One test told me, I might just not like being pressed into a gender-role (which is correct), one said I'm at least non-binary and should talk to someone about being trans, and one told me to get onto testosterone right away. This is harmful.

[@michaellobre]

Blaire, I’ve watched many many of your videos and I think this is hands down the best one I’ve seen yet. You are so well-spoken, level-headed and I really wish the trans community could get it through their heads that if someone ever says to them “take me to your leader” THAT SHOULD BE YOU! I am a 48 y/o gay man, who grew up in the midwest and lived through and personally experienced many of the struggles of the gay rights movement and you hit the nail on the head when speaking about the differences between that and the trans movement. You guys are in sore need of a REBRAND and these emotionally stunted ‘angry teenagers’ that are running the show now need to just suck it up, own their mistakes, walk it back and decide to try a different approach. People are really getting hurt by all this, both in and out of your community and cooler heads need to prevail because things are only going to get worse. The gays didn’t get it right just out of the gate, we had to adapt and make compromises along the way. It took many many years for our movement to mature and make it out of our ‘angry teenager’ phase, but we did it and you guys can too! You are so awesome, so courageous and I respect the hell out of you, KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK!

[@Yayofangamer16]

Because it became a cultural cult. Just without any kind of spirituality in it.

[@Longshanks1690]

Religion Without Redemption, as a friend of mine put it.

[@Yayofangamer16]

@@Longshanks1690 Redemption? More like ONE OF US. ONE OF US. ONE OF US. And the typical behavior of grooming children

[@themplar]

spirituality only means that people believe their fantasy is real. Spirituality isnt real.

[@aricm5973]

It's the mobb mentality for me

[@Yayofangamer16]

@@themplar You forgot your fedora buddy. OH WAIT. What's THAT? *SUI CI D.E STATISTICS COMING IN*

[@nummers6337]

Love this. I had a person in a woman’s group online tell us to stop genderizing birth and pregnancy. They said we should be called “birthing people” or “vulva people”. Someone made a solid point that women should not be reduced to a single function of their body or a single part. Nobody’s identity should be reduced to a single organ, which I think is what the trans movement used to be more about.

[@meganhill453]

I hate it when people use those terms. They’re just yucky. I’m not a “birthing person” I’m a woman

[@Obsidiana_99]

"Birthing Person" reminds me of Handmaid's Tale

[@cheong-santhebaddest6891]

Birthing person? Hell nawl

[@Primalxbeast]

Vulva people? Does that make it ok to call transwomen penis people? They come up with such demeaning and insulting words for biological women and then demand that everyone treats them with respect. It feels like they're just men finding a different way to control women. How can people who hate women so much claim to be literal women?

[@marynoonan6111]

Vulva people? Are you kidding?!! How dare they.

[@AmericanToucan]

Because when you compare it to religion. A lot of them, not all, are the ones demanding you follow their opinion OR ELSE

[@trooperodst6880]

Well said.

[@itsthatonechickagaincallth7843]

I agree. I'm religious and seeing other people forcing my religion on others it makes me super upset...

[@georgeorwell5842]

@Brittany Du oh my, you're on quite the roll aren't you! It's borderline painful to watch you shove your foot in your mouth repeatedly!

[@itsthatonechickagaincallth7843]

@Brittany Du cult like behavior is cult like behavior, no matter what it's about.

[@MissMalevolent]

@Brittany Du Imagine being so dumb you think calling leftist idealogues religious zealots is ONLY talking about transgenderism.

[@neonmaple5259]

What set me away from the movement is the Trans vs Gender Non-conforming discourse. I've been shamed and told off I'm "secretly" Trans for simply wearing makeup and looking feminine as a male. And the moment I call them out on their hypocrisy and underline hate, I get called a "Transphobe". Yeah so much for 'acceptance'

[@CalThePaladin3733]

Seriously. They're out there saying they're really progressive, but they can't even conceptualize women being masculine and men being feminine. There "must" be a hard line between the two apparently, as if we will stop being a woman or a man the moment we pass it

[@sunnysodapop]

Isn't it transphobic to view transwomen as just men in dresses? Or misogynistic to view makeup as a must for women as though tomboys don't exist? How did they not see the misogyny and transphobia in their own statement??! If you don't mind me asking, what exactly did you say for them to conclude transphobia? And I, too, am sick of this gender nonconforming stuff being muddied into being trans. Like the ideology is so hypocritical and has re-introduced gender stereotypes as facts.

[@tula1433]

We are going to see a huge landslide of gay male detransitioners soon. They are telling these gay men that liking make up and glam means you’re trans, and that you don’t have to even hate your body or genitals to be trans! Add in the desperation many femme gay men feel when it comes to dating (since gay men want masculine men) and they see that transsexual women are desired by men, and they crave that attention, and pretend to be “trans” to get it. Soon all these gay dudes who would of just been flamboyant campy gays will end up detransitioning. Just watch. It’s already begun.

[@danikaflorence444]

As a trans woman, I entirely agree with your points. I’ve had other trans women say that there’s no way I’m not cishet because I criticize our community for the same things. I’ve been ostracized worse by fellow lgbt members than I have by cishet friends and family.

[@loislois3526]

Evaluation, criticism, research, etc. Are all needed to support the trans community in my opinion

[@megauser8512]

@@loislois3526 Yep!

[@kaitlinwilson]

Same I have left the lgbt community because I cannot talk about anything when I'm an lgbt minor from UC Berkeley. They shut me down if I don't go along with their insane homogenizing ideologies. Trans politics has taken over politics. It's enough.

[@TheAcad3mic]

I hope youve stopped calling them cishet. Makes you sound like a dickhead.

[@talyahr3302]

As a lesbian, I say fuck those weirdos in our community

[@alanaballantyne2559]

This was the argument that made me realize that the trans argument went against women’s rights. Harvard University and other birth/female focused healthcare providers and charities have started using birthing bodies, bleeders, and cervix havers for women during panels, posts, information packets, and activism regarding pregnancy and birth. That’s incredibly dehumanizing. The realities of women’s lives must be able to be spoken in the public square. I would think the trans community would want to uplift women’s voices and acknowledge the differences in our experiences. But that’s not what’s happening.

[@BellaMareeMusic]

😣

[@samanthas6073]

Bleeders? Cervix havers? You have to be freaking kidding me. And what are men referred to as? Still men I’m assuming?

[@Karasuno86]

@@samanthas6073 of course, because only women must be super inclusive and accepting uwu. It's okay to call women menstruators, but god help you if u say something like "prostate bearer"

[@alanaballantyne2559]

@@samanthas6073 Of course.

[@dreamclaw00]

But being called a woman if you're a trans man having a period ISN'T dehumanizing? You think the needs of cis women should be lifted up above and beyond any other minority with less protections and less visibility? Your arrogance speaks for itself.

[@acbennett7]

How do we get this reasonable perspective more mainstream? Why is it that even any talk that goes against the narrative that activists insist we accept, gets shut down and censored? It’s extremely concerning!

[@jupiterisaak1004]

Because certain people think any criticism of trans ideology is transphobic. Just like they think any criticism of Islam is islamaphobic.

[@jammadan]

Mainstream? If Blair is accused of being transphobic for speaking up, us non trans folks don't stand a chance. And to answer your question, the truth has no fear of exposure, only if you're trying to gaslight society, then you need to suppress the truth with threats and censorship

[@coda821]

First the totalitarian media has to go bankrupt, then reality can become relevant again.

[@mutestingray]

@@jupiterisaak1004 agreed. legitimate criticism of trans people is, in fact, a good sign. Hell, “transvestites” were just next level cross dressers in the mind of the public 20 years ago. Being part of the public discourse shows the progress that’s being made.

[@QueenBee-kx3sg]

Children transitioning kind of makes me feel sick. A lot of times when a new baby is welcomed to a family their siblings will start to act as the opposite sex to get attention!! When my little sister was born I went from truly believing I could grow up to be a circus dog to pretending I was a boy to be different from my sisters and maybe get some attention. Lol it didn’t work, my mom let me dress like a boy and I got the same amount of attention. Then I was just a farm girl Tom boy and grew up to be me, a woman who enjoys androgynous activities like every other woman I know!!!!

[@auntiecreeps1414]

The whole world has gone insane with all the activisms. People yelling at you and thinking that works. People thinking calling you a name will change your mind. It’s not just trans activists, it’s all of them.

[@yomanyohan6828]

You’re absolutely right.

[@Gypsywandering400]

It’s the behaviour of abusers you are describing

[@karinavargas2026]

@Booger Balls You described my parents... they’re gaslighters x(

[@andreaduncan1042]

This message really needs to be out there. I’m trans myself, but integrating into mainstream comfortably. Yes, I’m fortunate, but proper integration does mean facing up to certain realities. Thank you Blair. I think the transgender community needs to assess itself, define exactly what it wants. Yes, basically acceptance, but acceptance can only come if it’s within the bounds of rational, acceptable mainstream behaviour.

[@nowwhat1434]

Some of the people are not really trans. I think trans issues have been co-opted. Some people are just looking for a community and happen upon gender stuff.

[@Loukious]

Whats your thoughts on some of the calls for MtF trans to have their own "division" of sports to avoid the situations we are running into? Fallon Fox, the runners in Mass (I think) and situations like the indoor biking (one of the pics Blair used in the video was from that.) and the weightlifter? I'm a former medic with the military and have done research into male and females (part of our training to make sure we use proper dosages of drugs) differences.

[@horsewithnoname12345]

Regular trans people (with legit gender dysphoria) probably just want to live their lives in peace and be accepted like everyone else. “The trans community” doesn’t want that. They appear to just want attention and notoriety? ‘Trans women are biological women’ & the Jessica Yanivs of the world.

[@andreaduncan1042]

@@Loukious perhaps there are times when ‘like against like’ has to be looked at. Certainly if it has been shown constructively that the treatment regime allows an advantage, or indeed a disadvantage to trans people, then surely alternative arrangements should be made.

[@andreaduncan1042]

@@horsewithnoname12345 generally speaking, as someone diagnosed as having gender dysphoria and fought it for years, I would suggest you’re right. Personally I feel you have to do a lot more than put on a dress and some slap to be ‘accepted’ it’s hard, very hard, especially if you can’t conform easily to an accepted model. However, there’s no such thing as a free meal. I still cannot conform easily, but I work at it and find the best compromise I can. I must be doing ok, I transitioned while working in an educational environment, and, while not perfect, had nothing but support, care and love directed at me. Yes, I’ve got problems, but then so did the old me!

[@TheDarkHaff]

Great video. When I hear or read story about kids transitioning, I can't help but to think back about my childhood. By today's standard I was trans, I used to dress up as a girl, played with my sisters' dolls, put towels on my head and pretend I was a girl, play mostly with girls, play with my mom's makeup, etc. However, as I grew, I slowly lost interest in all that and, although I am gay, I am very happy and comfortable being and living as a male, especially, my beard 😉. But, at that age, had someone asked me if I wanted to be a girl, I would have said yes.

[@beatrixlozach4840]

Ugh you’re not a girl you’re a gay man so don’t compare yourself to ACTUAL trans women.

[@MsCwarrior]

@@beatrixlozach4840 You are not listening just attacking. Please listen.

[@Sleepystera]

@@beatrixlozach4840 you had a pretty pathetic comment seeing as how you missed the entire point of the OP. Out of here with your nonsense.

[@sashasanchez9992]

Wow girl I'm a cis straight woman and for the first time I found a trans woman youtuber saying exactly what's the problem for us to understand you guys. Thank you for being so understanding. You have a new subscriber!

[@jameskaib6407]

You hit the nail on the head. Too bad there are more Jessica Yanivs than there are Blaire Whites representing you all.

[@ashleyk8406]

Not really there are many people like Blaire they are just not as loud

[@saranguyen2788]

@@ashleyk8406 Yep, I’m from LA and there are lots of Trans who agree with Blair but wouldn’t dare say it publicly

[@bobbiechristine]

No there fucking aren't. Blaire look what you have these people believing

[@brandontaylor6594]

@@bobbiechristine sure about that? Have you opened up tumblr pr twitter or been in high school in the last 6 years?

[@Slimelapses]

No the jessica yanivs are just alot louder than the blaire's of the world

[@FGuilt]

Why are people turned off to trans people? Because "IT IS MA'AM! IT IS MA'AM!!"

[@Chelsea_._]

lmao, honestly a perfect example

[@ahahayeah9930]

why do you feel the need to diagnose communities that you are not apart of

[@FGuilt]

@@ahahayeah9930 why are you assuming I'm not part of one or the other community I mentioned? You don't know me. The comment was stating people are turned off to the trans community because of its worst examples getting a ton of press. I think that's pretty obvious.

[@CMCAdvanced]

@@ahahayeah9930 better stay in your lane from now on, don't talk about ANYTHING you aren't personally involved in. Yeah, seems stupid, right?

[@lesliecurtis8073]

I love that she's NOT afraid to tell the TRUTH!!!

[@gimygaming8655]

Same

[@straightuphating1013]

Depends on the truth ,everyone is in a perceived delusion labeled as their reality for them the truth is what they think it is ,to say you can be objective is false but yiu can get to the truth through perceived facts but whether yiu accept it as undeniable is hard to tell, so what is your truth

[@femboyrules7594]

@Brittany Du you're a delusional lefty

[@georgeorwell5842]

@Brittany Du oh dear, the irony of YOU calling others delusional! For pete's sake have a snickers or something already. It's not like you even attempted to post an actual rebuttal yet.

[@user-br7bg9ld9k]

@Brittany Du you have to be trolling 💀 she literally explained what they were in the video and how they are real scientific things. You're just a hater. Nothing she said was wrong. Stop embarrassing yourself for the love of god.

[@showtime2629]

The problem is the Trans "community" demands acceptance. Not just tolerance or to live and let live. They should get whatever they want or you are a bigot.

[@lbo6050]

shes such a rare person in the sense of she sees and lives in reality and not in some made up magical fantasy people create. I personally experienced a situation where my son had a boy in his class in his Kindergarten year. next school year comes and he is no longer a boy... he is now a girl. no one made it a big deal although some parents were upset about the school allowing her into the little girls bathrooms so they allowed her to use the classrooms with bathrooms in them. other than that.. it was completely normal. fast fwd to 5th grade and we have a Halloween party at the house for my son and the classroom kids. naturally the kids lumped themselves into 2 groups, the girls were hanging together and the boys were hanging together. 4 separate times I had to ask the group of girls to calm down. I asked them as a group so she didnt feel singled out but it was bc she was much larger than the other girls her age and was playing *VERY* rough, tackling them, jumping on their backs etc. now mind you, the boys were wrestling around but the girls were not. she was the only kid in the girl group that was rough housing at all so it was very clear she was behaving more like the boys. and ultimately I had to single her out bc she ended up hurting one of the girls, making her cry and I had to call the hurt girls mom to come get her bc her arm was a bit swollen. point is.... the athletes that are trans should not be allowed to be in that group to compete with.. they just shouldn't. its not about them personally it is about biology and fairness.

[@xoxoPinkVoltage]

I absolutely agree!!

[@kazikek2674]

Problem we've reached with the sports side of things is that we've simultaneously reached a level where a lot of countries at once declare : 1) Women are as capable as men in *everything*. Some women are extremely physically capable, but this shouldn't be treated as a rule. This means skeptics to feminist views lose any sympathy for women being beaten at their sports, while those that do follow said views, well, can't get out of this one without sounding as hypocrites. 2) Transwomen are women. Except for the fact we do need to discuss the sports issue, this is not a bad thing. 3) A lot of states have very lax situation on who is considered a transwoman (and thus a woman) due to the 'self-identification' wave. Combine those three and really, what else can be expected but transwomen dominating women's sports?

[@maddiemaydew3176]

thats a massive generalisation tho, plus that girl will probably never go thru male puberty so hormonally will be the same as the other girls her age

[@andreil1313]

@@maddiemaydew3176 even if, it’s not the same. There’s studies about it. Of course without male puberty is a lot better in that sense, but still not as a female. I truly wish it was not the case, but it is.

[@eonstar]

To be fair. Before puberty there is little difference in strength between boys and girls. Now that doesn't mean that a larger child won't end up hurting a smaller one. But regarding strength that's probably more of an issue of size rather than sex.

[@dianmichaelis]

You nailed it Blaire. I grew up in a very diverse and accepting area (Seattle) and it wouldn't phase me to know someone was trans. Now with having all this progressive and politically correct crap shoved down our throats 24/7 it leaves me feeling not more accepting but, repelled for all the reasons that you mentioned. When were suppose to deny what's right in front of us, I'm specifically speaking about trans male to female athletes, it discredits the trans community. You know there is a distinct advantage, it's a like asking someone to compete in a races that's fixed against them and calling them a bigot and an asshole for wanting a level playing field. By forcing people to agree and support ideas that are obviously not right you become more disenfranchised not more accepted.

[@Jsteiner1974]

Remember when trans people just wanted to blend in with the rest of us and not make a fuss over their trans-ness? Pepperidge Farm remembers.

[@aislingmairead4939]

Thank you Pepperidge Farm for thinking of me 😂

[@marichu899]

What happened in pepperidge farm?

[@jae-ds2ot]

who is making a fuss over their transness. do you mean trans people proud of their story and experiences as trans speaking about it? or people who don't conform to gender?

[@Jsteiner1974]

@@jae-ds2ot anyone who makes a point of declaring that they're trans when it doesn't matter.

[@jae-ds2ot]

@@Jsteiner1974 example?

[@boobaby5051]

We need more trans people speaking up like you instead of being bullied by the culties.. also I hate being called cis, hate it. Makes my skin crawl watching people try to eliminate my gender like it doesn't exist.

[@vechnoezabvenie]

I'm confused, how does it eliminate your gender? I know I'm a cisgendered man, have always been and am ok with it. It doesn't mean I'm no longer of any gender, what are you talking about?

[@alyxander1024]

i think it becomes an issue when we have to acknowledge that someone is cis in every circumstance. it exists as a word to be used in certain situations and debates when differentiating trans and biological men/women. a woman is a woman, we don’t need to add “cis” before we say woman every time when referring to a biological woman. it’s not a category of womanhood, and it should NOT be used as one.

[@MrLuke255]

If all trans activists were like Blaire... I guess there wouldn't be so intense social tensions. Which makes me think... do some people actually like to watch the world burn?

[@nerdstimeprime9091]

Some men don’t want money...some men just wanna watch the world burn.

[@imcloud305]

If everyone in the LGTB community was like Blaire LGTB community wouldn't suffer this much Nah who am i kidding ya all are useless in the eyes of religions

[@D4NIELXOXO]

@Tigreal i hope one day that you discover from a first person account that cancer and activism actually AREN’T the same thing

[@ryanthomas49]

@@D4NIELXOXO they are though. Real transpeople want to live their lives. "Trans" activists are concerned with things like "OMG, YOU WON'T DATE ME, YOU'RE SO TRANSPHOBIC." It's like feminists who think they're actually doing something for women. They're not.

[@D4NIELXOXO]

@@ryanthomas49 once again, you are trying to speak FOR trans people and decide what is or isn’t real trans activism even though you’re not trans and you’ll never know what it’s like to be trans. and again, it’s ‘trans people’, two separate words. oh, and you’re obviously in no place to speak about feminism either, being transphobic and all

[@christinerocher4874]

I am a Christian and I'm sure I don't have to explain my thoughts on this, but I respect you so much. Biology is biology. Well done for respecting me and other woman.

[@cassandrajavier7158]

same

[@charlesmassey7763]

Being a Christian, and not agreeing, does not mean non acceptance as a person or no respect. I must say you are a breathe of fresh air, transpeople are still people. Thank you

[@StrawberryMilk-p6x]

Omg you’re literally seeking out a transphobic trans women so that you feel validated and can say ‘a trans woman agrees with me so I’m entitled to my thoughts’

[@Tashitoohot]

@@StrawberryMilk-p6x They can agree because what she’s saying is literally true. Ppl need to realize that not everything is transphobic

[@StrawberryMilk-p6x]

@ •MY ANKLES• except Blair literally is transphobic. I’m not saying everything is transphobic I’m pointing out that this person has sought out someone who agrees with them so they can avoid being called a biggot. Blair has made numerous transphobic videos, including ones where she constantly disrespected other people’s pronouns.

[@ingeborg-anne]

LORT. As a cis-gendered woman I'm so relieved to hear this. I stay the hell out of trans questions because I know I'll be burned, eaten up and thrown off a cliff by complete strangers who brand me as an enemy of their reality. I find it scary to address the issue, so I don't - like you said, it turns me the hell off.

[@misojimo2154]

SAME !!! she basically stated what I’ve been thinking in my head. she said it so well, and I’m so grateful tbh I feel like my thoughts are valid and I’m not a terrible person

[@ingeborg-anne]

@@misojimo2154 Oh I *know*. I feel so terrible for not agreeing with people I know are oppressed in everyday life. Like, am I the problem for not acknowledging this?

[@ebonynaomi1085]

I live in England, uk. I am cis female. Our NHS system, has started ordering midwives and nurses, to stop using the terms "breastfeed" and "breast milk", because its discrimination, and bias against transgender women. This is really alarming and confusing to me.

[@ingeborg-anne]

@@ebonynaomi1085 At the same time, the Norwegian government is contemplating removing terms like "birth mother" from official texts surrounding the whole birth process. Gives me a bloody headache.

[@Србомбоница86]

@@ingeborg-anne you people use cis term?? Seriously 😑?

[@jonathansantana6239]

The one problem I have with the whole movement outside of the sports controversy is this belief that under age children with underdeveloped brains can and should make life altering decisions such as becoming trans. That should be a decision made by a fully developed brain . Its why we have alcohol and tobacco and firearms age restrictions. Maturity is important when it comes to making huge life decisions. Emotion without thought leads to mistakes when decision making.

[@seaballads11]

This is why feelings shouldn’t be given this level of consideration it leads people to think that feelings>science.

[@igeogeoi9340]

There is in fact a real world. This is the suprise the tiktok Trans community are not prepared for. Blaire is really doing more to help the Trans community than the radical fringe can currently accept and realize. Teaching reality. Time however, is the greatest teacher and when you are on the right side of things...you stay right. Keep staying correct! Much love Blaire

[@pimd5478]

What you are saying is so true! Idk any trans people in real life, she was the first trans person I followed on youtube and I didn't even for a second hate her because she's trans. But then there are these extreme people calling her a transphobic and stuff... Like she's litteraly helping people understand trans people are normal people by being such a relatable person and they're excluding her only bcs she doesn't share the same opinions

[@Pinkpilatesprincesss]

Right the trans community on TikTok is an entirely different level

[@derpyliciousmiku]

Blaire has lied on multiple occasions and misrepresented trans people on purpose to fit her narrative :)

[@derpyliciousmiku]

@@pimd5478 she literally bullied trans people that don't conform to gender roles and misgneder them, they weren't even nonbinary either.

[@pimd5478]

@@derpyliciousmiku idk about all this. The only thing I knew was like the trans athlete but she did make an apology video for that. Except for that idk can't speak on it bcs idk about it

[@JustJ0nathan]

I am a simple gay man. When Blaire is talking, I stop everything and listen. On the ball per usual. 💯

[@lonelystephy8856]

I’m a trans female and I can’t stand the mainstream trans community… I will always proudly tell people that I am a transgender girl cause that’s what I am I will never try to be anything else.. so whenever I personally face someone saying that I can’t be a girl cause I was not born a girl I’m like yup you are correct I say im transgender

[@technoloverish]

You're confusing gender with biological sex. Just because one isn't assigned a certain gender at birth doesn't mean that they aren't that gender. Someone saying that you're not a woman is bigoted statement.

[@ninvusoogoar6098]

well good for you friend!!!

[@reinasvibez8950]

Agreed

[@heather-bj2nd]

That’s really beautiful. I’m so happy for you.

[@chriswharton]

Good for you. Much respect.

[@neilprice513]

Gay rights took DECADES to get to this point. No one was ever forced into accepting them, it just happened over time. From what I see, from the outside looking in, is that Trans rights activists want complete acceptance and sometimes complete obedience when they have only been about for a very short period of time. Before Transsexuals was just thought to be a different type of homosexuality, or sadly, sometimes some sort of fetish. There isn't even enough scientific knowledge to properly classify Transsexualism and any research is attacked by the very community that it would help. Forcing someone, to do something they might not usually want to do, will only end up with that person pushing back out of spite and you get them to WANT to accept a new thing or concept for lasting societal change.

[@derpyliciousmiku]

Yes they were forced?? Otherwise nothing would have happened

[@tiredofitall9213]

@@derpyliciousmiku You completely missed the message!

[@yaryar5828]

@@derpyliciousmiku Ah yes, people only do good things when forced to by threats from the government, this is why we need socialism.

[@GODCONVOYPRIME]

@just shut up it's the internet oh well.

[@GODCONVOYPRIME]

@Brittany Du you're gay.

[@devika.aaaaaaa]

"It makes us look like the flat-earthers of gender" heard this and immediately pressed like this is HILARIOUS

[@chloem1575]

As a trans women I completely agree, there’s two types of trans people. The ones who are really trans and just want to be who they are and the ones who want attention.

[@soccerchica72]

I love what Blair said at 4:30 about a deconstructed society. It’s 10000% true that gay marriage and adoption etc. is accepted because it doesn’t attempt to change societal standards or challenge the norm but allows for integration.

[@cg9236]

Just so everyone knows, there’s a lot more trans people that think like Blair, we just don’t make videos! 😎 Edit: A lot of people in the replies saying I should make videos like Blair, give me some ideas on what to talk about and I’ll see what I can do 😎

[@jacksonmcnuggets7488]

And let’s not start with the other letters L G B Q A I

[@morgianasartre6709]

And they will say that you all are sucking up to transphobes and have internalised tranphobia too, cause that is the best argument they can come up with 😂

[@TipTheScales27]

You guys should! The trans community has a very loud minority that’s completely taking over the discussions

[@morgenstern2603]

@@jacksonmcnuggets7488 Actually the LGBs are pissed at the trans activists too ;) I also saw a lot of Intersex people not happy with the situation.

[@ArtfulJo]

But most of you don't push back against this crap either.

[@MarkusMeridius]

Part of the issue is trans activism. There are plenty of trans people I've seen (and know) who just want to fade into the crowd. They want to transition so they can just be a regular person, just as the other gender. But trans activists advocate for normalisation and more, and the more is the problem. They often push too far or too hard which lifts trans people onto a podium, and there's this weird worship attitude towards trans people and trans issues. Trans activism creates this really weird, pseudo-religion. Even pushing for blasphemy laws. It's the same problem with woke culture in general, if you look for (insert)-ism, you'll find it. And instead of responding to reality with reason or nuance, or social contract understanding. They hard-line attack narratives that don't conform to their hyper-idealised perception.

[@wanderingrogue3039]

I mean it'd be easier to talk about if people were sensible like you. Some people just won't accept trans people no matter what.

[@skurinski]

@@wanderingrogue3039 but it's also important to respect those people and let them be. We cant please or change everyone's minds, and that's ok.

[@thalia5382]

You’re actually the reason why I’ve come to accept trans gender people, simply because you explain Youre reasoning and cleared up misconceptions.

[@embafreska]

in this case, use "your". "you're" is a contraction of "you" and "are"... is Blaire White a "reasoning"? Of course not.

[@karsonpalmerswork]

@@embafreska oh just shut up man no one cares

[@ArcaniaSkypirateDen9516]

@@embafreska ok

[@violetsavage193]

I feel the same way. I've learned a lot about Trans issues from her and I have a respect for everyone going through a trans journey because I understand more about it now.

[@coraaschnewitz4202]

@@embafreska do you feel better now?

[@aidaofearth]

Blaire you deserve SO much credit for helping ordinary people understand and empathise with trans people. A voice of sense, reason and most importantly TRUTH

[@LTDLimiTeD1995]

when cis women get heckled for not including pronouns on twitter and then start flamewars over putting Boop/Boop/Beep in good fun, there might be an issue.

[@krishernandez7259]

And then gets fired from their show for that and few other things.

[@snow8218]

“If you have to actively ignore certain realities to make your argument work...” this is so true. I just don’t know how you can argue this logic

[@natb9919]

They can use that logic because most mainstream media and social media sites are backing them on it.

[@anyaj5171]

wait i havent watched the full thing did she say that? thats so ironic with her lying in videos lmao

[@fuckamericanidiot]

That's the postmodern Marxist religion for you - a contradiction in terms but they are a 21st century version of Marxists where race and gender replace class, and the postmodernism means they have no human sense of morality and they can play fast and loose with words they want to suit their agenda. A religion without love or redemption.

[@torrieturner7716]

Thank you! I was called a bigot for saying exactly what you said.

[@ninadavis9529]

I was called a TERF if it makes you feel better 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@sunb5738]

@@ninadavis9529 Tbh nowadays when you say anything middly feminist you get called a TERF even if you support trans people 100%

[@ninadavis9529]

@@sunb5738 it's so frustrating. It's really hard to support trans rights when people don't want to work together, they talk as if no one's rights matter except their own and screw everyone else. Why can't we talk about solutions that work for everyone and bring people together?

[@sunb5738]

@@ninadavis9529 Sooo many people are just so focused on themselves and don't want to see the other sides of an issue... I honestly don't know if it's naivety or just malicious compliance but I guess you have everything. Social medias are a big part of the problem imo, as Blaire said, there's a fantasy bubble that completely clashes with the real world

[@inolaheart]

👏👏👏👏 Thank you. Your vision of this situation is dead on. I want to support trans women all the way but I don't want our born female experiences erase in the name of acceptance and equality which I feel it's happening in sports right now.

[@forelithe]

being pro women and girls is not transphobic.

[@forelithe]

@Brittany Du they are men. they will always be men.

[@forelithe]

@Brittany Du- not for long

[@MyAngelKay]

@Brittany Du have a baby then. Or have a period...

[@forelithe]

@Brittany Du live your best life mate

[@forelithe]

@Brittany Du like seahorses are horses. catfish are cats?

[@InViSiBlEaCcOuNt19]

God, listening to you talk so clearly and serious about these issues is like a wound healing after long time of bleeding, and I need that right now 💛💛💛💛🧡🧡🧡🧡❤❤❤❤

[@gyromurphy]

Just remember that there are people who genuinely... GENUINELY give a shit about you. You just haven't met them yet. Also Keep in mind that it's ok to be sad. It's normal. Everyone goes through it and we end up ok. It sucks...it absolutely sucks while you're going through tough shit ... But it gets better. Always always always gets better. Just keep your chin up and keep focused on what will make your OVERALL situation better ....not just what will make you feel better right now. Put the work in to make a better life and you will have one. Till then... Take care.

[@JordanVolness]

Why do men ^^^^

[@InViSiBlEaCcOuNt19]

@@gyromurphy thank you. I am going through a really tough time right now and this was really nice reading. I know things will get better, I just hope it will get better sooner than later 💔💔 Thank you again 🖤🖤🖤🖤

[@Tom-sm8fw]

@@JordanVolness comment under yours answers the question

[@misojimo2154]

@@JordanVolness why do people like you always say this,,, especially when that man wasn’t harming anyone by commenting. he was literally helping but ok

[@XxpurplezombiexX]

I have never had issues with Trans. I am in the right wing sphere often standing up for transgendered people. However I agree that this new updated movement of the LGBT community turns me off from this community. We need more people like you talking about this and how damaging these new attitudes hurt the LGBT community.

[@Pamlg]

The U.S. as a whole is very much "live and let live" but they are trying to force themselves, their ideology and their beliefs onto us in our workplaces, schools and culture. This is not ok and people are getting fed up. I discovered you in Tom's video. In the comments people were saying you were trans - I couldn't believe it, you're soooo FEMALE lol I came over to see for myself and fell in love. You're as beautiful inside as you are out. Ty for all you do.

[@jessiep3219]

Honestly, I was transphobic until I saw you, a logical trans person. Someone who doesnt believe in forcing kids to transition or understands there is a difference between the sexes

[@gimygaming8655]

Same. And I am trans myself. I was extremely transphobic as well. But I like trans people like Blair

[@anthropomorphicpeanut6160]

It's embarrassing to admit it, but same. Today many of the trans extremists would still consider me one, but I don't think I am. Different definitions I guess

[@derpyliciousmiku]

@@gimygaming8655 you mean trans people that conform to traditional gender roles and bully those who dont?? Blaire bullying and misgenders other trans people for her amusement.

[@gimygaming8655]

@@derpyliciousmiku in this video she is saying that we should change the way you guys advocate for the trans community. By integrating your wants into society. Like saying instead of crying everytime someone misgenders you or refuses, saying "I understand how it may be confusing but we are the same" or "how am I different from you in everyday life?" Not going around saying if you have a different belief you are a bigot. It makes people feel attacked and not want to accept anything. You say she is attacking others, while that may be true same goes for the other side. If someone disagrees about something but still support the community they get called a bigot. It makes people mad and not accept the community at all. Although yes, some people just will never get it or refuse, but that's with everything. But we have got to work on the majority of people, and calling them names just cause they disagree is not how we should go about it

[@zapsurveyssupport4031]

@Brittany Du nah. :)

[@_sofie]

Being called a TERF and worse for trying to argue that I respect trans women’s pronouns and name and identity but isn’t sexually attached to them as a lesbian, is REALLY turning me off from the trans community atm.

[@pineberry7586]

As a trans girl myself, I think its bs that people say, “date trans people or youre a bigot”, somebody’s biological sex is what plays a major role in attraction. Yes, it is upsetting for us trans women to be rejected as a potential partner by straight men/lesbians just for being trans but thats simply a fact of life us trans people have to deal with. For a trans person to go on about why not dating/having sex with them is bigoted really is stupid and not really different from a “nice guy” going on a rant about why women dont have the right to say no to him. Also, you are NOT a TERF. If you respect trans people and their identities, then you are just a lesbian who likes biological women. And there’s nothing wrong with that.

[@bqgin]

I believe terfs are the only feminists in the western world actually fighting for women's rights at the moment.

[@erin8636]

Same it’s super frustrating. It seems like now in wlw spaces lesbians are always having to explain why they don’t want to sleep/be with a trans woman. And if they don’t want to they’re a terf/transphobic. Terf has become such a meaningless word to the point it’s thrown around at someone who gives so much as a side eye. It’s not productive and just makes the community look aggressive.

[@leinanightray4294]

Same experience here.

[@panerican4life]

Does someone mind educating me on what the term TERF means?

[@Alteori]

This message needs to have more exposure. Blaire is like the wise aunty

[@xXLunatikxXlul]

Agreed!

[@jdzspace33]

Hey, I know you

[@Juwlz]

Seems like after all the videos were made about blaire, that youtube has stopped promoting/recommending her videos. I know she lost 70,000 subscribers but that still doesnt explain why her videos went from getting almost a million views, to not breaking the 200k mark. KZbin seems to be supressing her content

[@MomofThree777]

Sad thing is the trans activists hate Blaire. They will still argue. She is really only trying to help their cause. She is thinking like the average person so she knows what’s up. The ones hating on Blaire will never listen until they find a new set of friends and get off tumbler.

[@mooshinu]

I love your videos and your channel!

[@sadiaaa1373]

Thank you so much. As a straight cis girl, I honestly thought I was transphobic because i also had the same opinions as you. I don't hate the trans comm. (Actually one of my best friends is a trans male) and i just hate the way (some) trans people want respect. They don't ask for it like the gay rights movement did, they demand it. And yeah... It really turns me off.

[@beatrixlozach4840]

Isn’t respect a human right? The right to be not murdered by men who murder cis women as well? The right to not be abandoned by their families and support systems for being honest with themselves? It’s about time they demand it. At least gay men and butches always had validity, so they could ask politely for respect, but that luxury isn’t afforded to trans people.

[@jayden5163]

@@beatrixlozach4840 @Beatrix Lozach the thing I feel is no one cares if your trans. No one cares if you want to identify as a woman or man. What you are not getting is the trans community is separating themselves so much its hard to respect them. Being a lesbian or gay can also have family disown you its not just the trans community. But we know we cant just make people respect us. You can't force someone to accept your trans or gay. That's their beliefs and opinions. I'm gonna be real with you. The trans community gets crowned the most because yall aren't realistic. I've met 1 wonderful trans person before. Out of the many I've seen or talked to. Your not going to get respect from demanding it. Just like gay people aren't either.

[@Angelique14189]

I'm a woman and I have absolutely nothing against transwomen. But I agree, tranactivism and its ideology became like a religion or a sectarian system who rejects everyone who doesn't agree with them and it's awful for transpeople and for us because it makes things so weird than people run away from transwomen and transmen! I agree with you about sports and certainly about detransitionners and how the society must be careful with kids! My son is 4 years old, long hair (don't touch, he adores his hair), likes pink and colouring his nails but he never never said that's he is a girl, he's a boy and I was a "tomboy" and never said that I was a boy or a man! Some kids and some people don't live like patriarchy had decide for them, pink and glitters for girls, balls and bicycles for boys! Thank you for your message. I support you.

[@reneeberthedrapeau5791]

Blaire White and Rose of Dawn, they have a brain in their head and it's the reason I watch their programs.

[@michaelparness2896]

Seal of approval while doing housework is a blast!

[@zebruh2794]

@Brittany Du, you’re wrong, they both believe in science

[@kentuckywildcatgobigblue7190]

Love both these ladies

[@FlabbyAbi]

Both are amazing 💕

[@itsthatonechickagaincallth7843]

I love them both so much. ❤

[@o_m525treble7]

When I was in 6th grade my best friend (who was in 8th grade) told me she was trans. She’s biologically female, and told me that she believed she was male. So I said oh okay. And was willing to accept it even tho if it was hard for me to see her as a boy. She had even started having hormonal treatments and her voice got deeper. And now I see that she regrets it and wants to be seen as a girl again

[@wokefromhome7389]

Nothing wrong with that. People have a right to change their mind

[@GLoLChibs]

@@wokefromhome7389 Changing your mind is a far, far, different topic then changing your gender and then trying to change back. The problem with that is when you 'change your mind', you've done permanent damage to your body so there is no going back. Also, saying that people have a right to change their mind is akin to saying that being transgender is a choice, something we have been trying for years to teach people is not the case. Do you realize the harm you do to what progress there is with that one sentence?

[@LightBoltDash]

immature child making immature decisions, nothing new

[@kupotenshi]

girls going through their tomboy phases are making permanent changes to their body, really sad.

[@wokefromhome7389]

@@GLoLChibs no one is saying being trans is a choice but every person can choose when and if they want to present as male, female or something else entirely. That’s why I advocate for non-binary Identities to be acceptable among the tans community. It gives young people a place holder before they feel the need to make drastic live changes. If non binary acceptance had existed when I was in middle school it would have made my adolescences so much easier. Lucky for me non binary identity had gained a foothold on the internet just enough to where I was able to except myself and not feel the need to transition as an adult. If you are truly worried about kids transitioning to early then you understand the need for broader gender classifications.

[@TonySomething.]

My trans friends in real life just want to live their lives and interacting with them isn’t difficult at all but I feel every time I turn around now there’s a new person on til til telling me I’m a even bigot because I’m not aware of some new “thing.” I remember as a gay man no one put much thought into labels, and for complicated situations you can just use queer … now it’s to the point I avoid a certain subset of my own community I actually feel mocked because they’ve became over the top caricatures who think they’re activist.