"Date Me Or You're Transphobic!" Trans Guy Reacts To Insufferable TikTok Activists

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[@addylikelemon]

"I refuse to believe that I am the problem, because my mental health could simply not take it" Bro just spoke the truth of a whole generation

[@ericgarringer6911]

This is what's wrong the world

[@mh1290]

Exactly!!

[@謎思特異]

I just can't stop re-watching the " WHY ARE U GAE " part XD

[@ninjaartist1235]

Bro almost finished with the denial phase and is headed to the anger phase.

[@CajunGators]

This is the young generation not just lgbt but for anything. Any rejection or critique they can’t handle. That’s why everyone needs tough love real honest people in their lives, not hype friends.

[@jamm7464]

"Don't tell trans people what is transphobic" Don't tell people what they should and shouldn't find attractive.

[@junesmind7325]

Don't tell a woman what a woman is and Don't Tell a man what a man is. Oh god these people are delivering us back to the stone age.

[@sara_4321]

Slayyyy

[@mrgreyman3358]

isn't that sexist and cisphobic, 10 on on the bigot hater phobe ism ist scale?

[@wallstreetbella24]

Woman or not cis chest feeder or baby carrier we are called woman .this shit is crazy

[@demonia2848]

OK I'm going to disagree with a tiny part of your statement the CIS part. Please don't call people CIS. It's hateful and disrespectful imo. You may have a different opinion and that's fine but I am a woman and I hate being called CIS. Otherwise I wholeheartedly agree with you.

[@djarinriduur]

The fact that I am attracted exclusively to biological men, who look like men, and have a functioning penis, is something I, a straight woman, never thought I would ever have to specify.

[@roxanne8662]

Imagine my surprise when i, a lesbian, has to specify i like women, who look like women, and dont have a penis.

[@chhandab]

Or defend… We really live in a dystopian world now. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@wehtawnikrap]

@@roxanne8662 There is a recent trend of feminine trans men. Basically biological women that indentify as men but want to keep their femininity. I honestly forget if these people take hormones because they identify as men but they want to remain cute & beautiful like their gender expression is that of a woman. Hopefully I explained that well enough.

[@notyourregularfairy4332]

​@@roxanne8662 How dare you not wanting to suck a trans womans cock.. As a lesbian xD

[@roxanne8662]

@@wehtawnikrap ok well i like women who look like women who identify as women. Normal women.

[@Andrea-rs4wo]

I’m a single mom and I 100% understand that someone wouldn’t want to date me because I’m a single mom. That’s okay!!! There’s other people out there that would. I would never bully someone or try to “convince” them to sleep with me

[@jamingaming9251]

The only acceptable reason to be a single mum is if your husband died.

[@jamingaming9251]

@@jujutrini8412 a woman wouldn't tell you the real reason he left. But many of the reasons show poor decision making skills.

[@ooblebip]

​@@jamingaming9251lmao anything but men taking responsibility huh

[@jamingaming9251]

@@ooblebip why should men be taking responsibility for a woman choosing to have a baby with a looser?

[@marcelsgroot]

I respect you. My sister is also a single mom and I know that is hard. Your heros for doing everything you can to give your childeren the best life they can have and you are doing it alone. I say thumbs up.

[@all_corrupt_everything]

"Offenses closer to 10 include deliberately misgendering someone" is this person serious???? Wouldn't an offense closer to a 10 be a violent physical crime like beating or un-aliving someone? They seriously think using he/she is close to a 10????

[@JackieOwl94]

I’m not “attracted to genitalia”. That’s gross. I’m attracted to the man attached to it and the whole body, mind, and soul. That happens to be the man I married, and I’m damn happy about it as a straight woman.

[@zabellesax]

When I have sex, I want a meat and two veg, not a coochie, I don't find that a turn on as a straight Female.

[@jensphiliphohmann1876]

You're right the idea of being attracted to genitalia is gross. However, I wouldn't call a man "attached to it" but rather the other way around.

[@fuyukazemi]

3:25 "If you're not trans, please don't tell trans people what is and is not transphobic." I will say the EXACT same thing about what _is_ a woman. If you weren't born a woman, stop defining what is and is not a woman, and applying words like "birthing person, baby carrier, and cis " to natural women. Oh and trans women, you're not allowed to get upset or offended because you're not a cis woman. Just using your own logic boo.

[@pri1134]

They always say "I am a one because I feel like a woman. I identify as a woman." But how do they know what it feels like to be a woman when they have never been a woman? It's all a clown show.

[@wehtawnikrap]

There is gender, gender identity & gender expression. Becuase you one thinks they are doesn't make them one but they can express themselves as one. I also want to drop that apparently the term cis was coined by a pedo.

[@clairehann2681]

Those messed up words for women were invented by women trying to cater to trans identified females

[@thecozyconstellation]

there is no trans or cis. you are either a man or a woman or delusional, in this case LOL

[@darkpoet25]

What gets me, is that someone like Lia Thomas, a biological male, who was ranked 425 as a male swimmer, suddenly is “trans”, and becomes the number one ‘female’ swimmer in the NCAA division. The fact you have trans women, now taking over female sports and dominating the competition, are being praised. Even as a straight guy, I can see that they are reversing the very things the feminist movement of the 60’s and 70’s fought for. Now they go after people like JK Rowling for being transphobic, for speaking the truth. Or someone like Caitlyn Jenner, who spent most of her life as professional athlete, who thinks biological males shouldn’t compete as trans against biological women. So taking away scholarships or sports records from biological females, is somehow ok? These girls worked their asses off to get to where they are, only to have it taken away from them. It makes no sense whatsoever. It’s basically men in dresses, trying to erase womanhood, and it’s being accepted. We are NOT the same, no matter what anyone tries to say. Our bone density, hormone levels and genetic makeup are completely different from one another.

[@jeremy2015]

They really think they can debate people into sleeping with them. Sickening.

[@robincasey1700]

A bunch of men trying to guilt trip women into bed, same story different makeup

[@Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer]

That's pretty much what the "trans lesbians" are doing

[@DarkCelestialConsciousness]

Coercion sx slavery and r@pe

[@DarkCelestialConsciousness]

@@kaymillerfromTX lies. Women r statistically not violent

[@DarkCelestialConsciousness]

@@PatricenotPatrick lies. Women r statistically not violent

[@jaxxonbalboa3243]

Telling people what should be attractive to them is the kind of sht that turns them against you. When you're trying to force your delusion on someone else is not going to end well.

[@m_winewood]

It’s crazy how they convinced the world that gender and sex are two different things and now are going to tell us we mean gender, not sex, when we express our own sexual orientation.

[@lil-al]

"Please don't tell a trans person what is and is not transphobic." Then please don't tell me who I should and should not date.

[@AnyOtherName25]

That was a truly ridiculous thing for that person to say, especially as in my country it’s actually illegal to discriminate against someone for being trans at work for example - so by their logic they could take their employer to court over anything that they didn’t like. There’s got to be some sort of definitive definition of actual transphobia or none of this stuff works

[@lil-al]

@@AnyOtherName25 The definitive definition of transphobia is "you hurt my feels".

[@joshcal7370]

While in literally the same breath, called them CIS people, a term trans people made up to call everyone else. The irony they feel they have the right to make up what everyone else is called, while demanding everything call them what they want, and sleep with whoever they order.

[@sweetiespoon5150]

These people are narcissistic & creepy. No one is entitled to another person's body, attention, love, etc...

[@shaiDahan9]

7:20 Can we talk about this men?? He was literally stating who you need to be attracted Peek entitlement and narcissistic behavior

[@nondescriptnyc]

Definitely! You know, the dirty little secret is that, based on my experience, most straight guys would GLADLY sleep with trans women that are HOT. Look at Arsenio Hall. These trans women who are b!tching about transphobia being responsible for their not being “popular” can’t face the fact that they can’t score because they aren’t attractive.

[@bridaw8557]

Reminds me of….pedos saying the same.

[@mara3572]

Pervs and creeps, that's all

[@skated1985]

"Is because they are insufferable, not because they're trans" Laughed out loud 🤣

[@brianchumley9878]

It's really nice to see these videos from you. I am also a transman, without bottom surgery. I choose that because quite frankly, I love sex and don't feel like losing that sensation or living in a hospital with multiple issues stemming from an experimental surgery. I agree with every topic you've brought up, and I just wish we could all mind our own business. Ya know? It's so sad watching these kids push agendas they know nothing about, while not focusing on themselves. Just seeking validation from everyone that doesn't matter in their lives.

[@SistersOfTheWell]

I found your channel a few days ago and wanted to thank you for your voice. I personally don't care who someone wants to love (none of my business anyway) and I am all for people being able to be their authentic self, whatever that looks like. Two of my children are part of the LGB community and I'm completely supportive of them being who they are. With all that being said, lately I feel like we went from a place where we were finally having acceptance and equality, to a place of trying to silence/ replace (biological) women and make them "less than." It's nice to know that isn't the whole community, and your commenters also give me that hope. Thank you for all your voices.

[@purplepills3]

It’s not transphobic to have preferences, what a breath of fresh air you are!!!!!!!

[@joshcal7370]

Have you ever noticed how these terms only every go one way? If a trans person refuses to date a normal person, they're not normal-phobic. They'll also say if you're white but won't date non-whites, you're racist, but if you're black but only date black people, that's preference. All of these phobics and ists only ever seem to apply to the 'superior' groups.

[@gigicolada]

“I refuse to see that I’m the problem.” Wow…

[@derrickdaniels3955]

It says everything doesn't it.

[@13zaphikel]

I mean who wouldn't be attracted to someone who thinks that way? 😬

[@mh1290]

Narcissism is the norm in this community.

[@GrubHuncher]

Pretty sure that one was being sarcastic

[@swish3432]

@@GrubHuncher doesn’t matter bc of how true it is

[@amrf5335]

Wow, it’s so complicated, but yes, if the genitalia is a problem it’s better to say something from the start. I’ve seen men having the worst reactions when they realize they have been kissing someone with male genitalia, getting violent or having a meltdown. For everyone’s safety and mental integrity, mentioning it will help a lot.

[@awordindueseason]

It's not merely genitalia that is an issue in sexual orientation but natural attraction to a specific biological sex. Heterosexual men and women are disgusted by the thought of having been deceived into any form of same sex intimacy because their natural orientation is only toward those of true opposite biology, not just toward anyone who has cosmetically, surgically and/or hormonally made themselves to appear as the opposite sex. There will always be significant differences between the most visually passable trans person versus those who are natural men or natural women because biological sex can't be functionally changed. This is the root cause of the anger and demeaning labelling from trans activists. It is the utmost hypocrisy to cry that trans people want to be accepted for themselves while constantly mislabeling, dehumanizing, attacking, intimidating, non-consensually invading privacy, trying to control, and using slurs against natural men and natural women simply for being themselves.

[@Necrovantic]

just because u accept someone doesn't mean that u have to date them.....some of these ppl are legit predators.

[@lunamoona-o5b]

exactly, I'd like to be an ally to trans people, but that doesn't mean I'd date them.

[@CajunGators]

Rejection sucks for anyone. Men would know since we do most of the asking out/proposing. Demanding someone be with you to appease your feelings is so illogical. Why can’t they find someone who loves them for them and not their identity/politics?

[@DasHeiligsteHuhn]

but also lesbe honest. i do makeup myself, and sure i had ugly phases but... WHENEVER I SEE THESE PEOPLE I FEEL SO GOOD ABOUT MYSELF. because i never looked this bad. who would find this beautiful? it takes looks to make me sleep with u. i have standards and dont sleep with whatever the heck kinda makeup you are doing.

[@-12Sided]

Only men would know. Women don’t do shit when it comes to asking. They can’t handle it for whatever reason.

[@yulana990]

@@-12Sided Why be so bitter about it? Rejection sucks, and everyone experiences it. If you're biggest issue in life is being rejected on a dating app, then get a grip. There are countries like Japan where they have valentines day + white day, 1 day where boys are expected to give gifts to their crushes and 1 day for the girls to do it back. Plus, women in many countries can not even reject men, because they are forced into marriages, raped, trafficked and more. There are still countries like India where you can even rape your own wife with nothing stopping you, so rejection is literally off the table. There also was a recent study on dating apps that showed on average most dating apps are 75% male and 25% female in the US, and in the EU its even more extreme with some dating apps having 90% male and 10% female! At that point you can't get mad about being rejected, especially when going on a dating app where the numbers are already so heavily scewed.

[@sayjay26]

Because its easier to go after Men they know will reject them to make their case that the Men must be Transphobic.

[@hollysoup445]

​@@-12Sided ok

[@nickname2935]

Blaire really nailed it 1 or 2 years ago: "You're not entitled to dates or sex. Period." Rejection sucks. I get it. But that doesn't mean the world owes you.

[@nothing-jl2dz]

Yeah, the "period" is strong there, that's literally why we invented rape laws because being forced is traumatic, can't believe that even have to be said nowdays, also it just contributes to people who already have a bad view of lgbt to view us as even more predatory

[@crazysmall.artist]

Yes to this!!!

[@abelglire]

It's funny because when incel men say the literal exact same thing, people hate them (as they should), but when trans women say it, it suddenly becomes some sort of "activism" and they really think that they're doing this to make a "better" society. No, won't date you even if I'm bisexual because I like full feminine and masculine bodies, I'm not attracted to big boobs with a small weird penis (because hormones atrophy it) in bottom.

[@nthgth]

This. It's like, if a woman doesn't want to date or sleep with me - for ANY reason - is she "me-phobic?" No, just not attracted! And she has every right!

[@AmaryInkawult]

I mean it's not like rejection is exclusive to trans people anyways. White, Black, Cis, Gay, Lez, Poly, Whatever. You are NOT entitled to sex... Unless you live in eastern countries where you can end up in arranged marriages. People complain about civil rights in the west don't know jack shit about laws in other countries.

[@CaPaSchMo]

I as a straight male wouldn't feel any difference between you and any other of my male friends, your private preferences are not my business. All I see is a guy that's capable to express his views clearly and make compelling arguments. You are the type of person I would be interested to call a friend. You have all my respect and I wish you all the best.

[@the_once-and-future_king.]

The only thing I don't like about him is that he dresses better than I do! 😂

[@somerandomgirl6093]

Right? If he didn't say that he is a trans man, I wouldn't realise, he looks really masculine.

[@jensphiliphohmann1876]

​@@somerandomgirl6093 Transmen have an easier time to look and sound male than transwomen have to look and sound female.

[@Happpi_Snacks]

I have a few transgender friends and family and they have the same train of thought. "I am who I want to be, and that's ok" and I fully support them. I was there when they were one person and became who they are now, and they don't get mad at me when i accidently refer to them by their former name. Not their "Dead Name". I am always wanting to learn and they would be the best teachers for me to truly understand. There is no judgement or hate, just a student and a teacher. Please keep this going. Learning so much.

[@eiralevp9639]

When a guy hit on me, i always tell them im a transwoman. I never feel offended when they rejected me.

[@ShannonR1969]

I love how we aren't allowed to be attracted to whomever we choose without being attacked by people who insist we affirm all of their choices.

[@weemac4645]

Who says we're not allowed?

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

That whole "community" lol@@weemac4645

[@r0zugorudo]

The whole "date me or you're a bigot" thing is exactly the same as being an incel under the guise of being progressive lmao. How do these people not see that? It's so weird. There is NOTHING wrong with preferences and people can't help what they're attracted to, no matter if it's body type, race, gender, or anything else. You have zero obligation to be "inclusive" when finding a partner. I will die on that hill.

[@pri1134]

There's a reason "trancel" and "transmaxxer" are a thing. Look it up if you haven't heard of it. These people are usually transwomen incels who transition to harass straight men and lesbians. They know exactly what they're doing and try to emotionally blackmail people into dating them by calling others transphobic and publicly shaming them. It's such creepy and predatory behavior.

[@edithguzman7277]

This!!!

[@altheascott9920]

Transgender incels? Could that be a thing?

[@annearly3200]

The thing with so-called Incels. You have guys going for the cheerleader type. But you don't see them asking out the plain looking girls.

[@edithguzman7277]

@@annearly3200 Exactly!! 💯

[@gothica3605]

I'm so sick and tired of being called "phobic" just for not wanting to date somebody. First the fat acceptance movement did it, now everyone else is following it. Dating is suppose to be exclusive. We ALL have our own standards of what we want in a partner. Even people who call you fatphobic for not dating fat people won't even date a fat person themselves. I'm not "smoke phobic" just because I don't find smokers attractive. This whole situation is completely ridiculous.

[@nondescriptnyc]

OMG, that’s true. The logic makes no sense. If you don’t find morbidly obese people attractive, then you are fat phobic. If you don’t date a trans woman that looks like an ugly dude that is dressed as an even uglier woman, then you are transphobic. Gay men that exclusively date men are anti-women and sexist? What about individual qualities? Seriously, I don’t date categories. I date individuals. Why is this obvious fact so hard for some people to related to?

[@Enki1013]

I don't know if it is still a problem or not, but it was such a double edged sword years ago over interracial relationships. If you did not want to do it, you may be a racist but if you did, then you may be a race fetishist. The LGB community had a real threat of being sent to conversion camps, yet there were comments like on that famous Roseanne episode that, "You think you are cool if you have lesbian friends but you won't consider that maybe you might be gay too." Incels crying that women owe them sex but feminism won't let them or something else weird. Now it is transphobic to not want to get intimate with a transgender person. I had forgotten about the "fat acceptance" stuff. What next? Oh you are ageist against senior citizens if you don't want a relationship with someone old enough to be your grandparent? Whoever people want to date is their business, as long as it is consenting adults and the same rules of no misconduct, harassment, assault, domestic violence, etc. Preferences are called preferences for a reason and I have my own preferences just like anyone else. I don't "have a problem with black people" if I have no interest in that drunk black guy that follows me up a sidewalk cat calling me. I am not homophobic if I don't want to go on a date with a lesbian and I don't think there might be "a little bit of gay" in me somewhere. I think incels do come in different forms and resort to this gaslighting or whatever this tactic is called; it is not strictly a problem experienced by men who have become misogynists because they can't get lucky with the ladies.

[@craftsandstuff3349]

I actually tried to have a relationship with a smoker but couldn't hack it.

[@brianniemiec3580]

I've watched several of your videos at this point and, to keep it short and sweet, thank you for the well thought out and comprehensive take in your videos. It means a lot to more of us (viewers) than you may know. I look forward to what you do.

[@marcusdib]

Thank you!!

[@johnnychavez2181]

Marcus, You are such a breath of Fresh Air!!! Thank You.

[@ascendednightingale2456]

Remember when they kept saying that love isn’t a choice? Where the hell did that go?

[@mh1290]

YES!!! I wonder that too!!!

[@skrittle555]

it's giving the same energy as men trying to "turn" lesbians straight. hello people, sexual orientation is not a choice. that's literally what we've been fighting for ffs.

[@jedi.in.christ]

Because radical leftists beliefs and talking points always contradict themselves

[@jmack8767]

Out the window as soon as they stopped getting attention. So they changed the rules to something else.

[@Emmatriaaa]

Conversion therapy works, confirmed???

[@happysugarwaifu432]

''You being attracted to biological men or women is not a preference'' ....Thank God someone finally says that out loud~ ♥

[@klburke]

The guy who stated that men not finding him attractive would be detrimental to his mental health, is the same guy who was rolling around on the bed complaining about his first period cramps. He always looks like he is smiling or smirking, so I think he might just be a troll. Who knows lol

[@prettylillaila7772]

Why won't you call them her? Did she do something? Or you just don't want to call her that cause what she said was stupid

[@spidermonkey9535]

​@@prettylillaila7772 there are people that legitimately have a condition that we can all acknowledge as being legitimate and then there are people that claim to have the condition for the wrong reasons. There's a very different vibe put off by each and the ones that are doing it for the wrong reasons don't deserve to be indulged. They make a parody of what they claim to identify as and the people that legitimately have the condition. This should have been called out and shut down when they started advocating violence against anyone that disagreed with them to any degree but there's no excuse for continuing to support them despite their hypocrisy with Daphne Dorman (trans woman that stood up for Dave Chappelle when he was being attacked for making "transphobic" jokes, causing the mob to turn on her; other trans people and allies relentlessly harassed and attacked her until she took her own life, leaving a child behind; people who have no respect for others don't deserve respect and anyone that supports/emboldens them to bully others really needs to stop).

[@SM-so8hh]

​@@prettylillaila7772 He is disrespectful to women. He mocks women by pretending to menstruate. Why should we respect his preferred pronouns when he mocks what for many women is an unpleasant, disabling and/or painful experience?

[@somethingisoff-ec7gz]

@@prettylillaila7772 it’s a man

[@yuyevon1698]

this guy is just sick and instead of helping him people validate his delusions so here is what happens

[@lastcallbartendingla8849]

It’s refreshing to see a trans person who has a level head & exists in a non delusional state.

[@jforte41176]

The fact that you have offensive in your name and that you are not at all offensive is the best marketing on KZbin. Keep up the good work and God bless

[@nothatespeech]

At this point, the “transphobic” label is being meaningless.

[@nothatespeech]

@L.O.P. we give as many fucks as Harry Potter has living parents

[@sovereigndayyouthkafir3943]

It always was.

[@MargieM10]

They did it with racist first and they just keep going. I'm too old to care what they call me.

[@CajunGators]

Remember when it was “respect peoples orientations” except now straight isn’t allowed lmao.

[@obaoba1934]

It is pointless in the first place

[@elliewillow4556]

I’m a 27 year old bisexual woman. I’ve dated two trans men in my time and both were extremely toxic and didn’t have their shit together at all. Dating a trans person comes with a lot of extra weight that you don’t know until you go through it.

[@TheBaumcm]

I won’t date trans for the same reason that I won’t date someone with extreme issues of any sort. It is difficult to have a relationship founded on one partner supporting the other, constantly, especially when those issues are mental and severe at best or mental and self centered at worst. The one doing the supporting an become resentful and the other just says, you knew what you were getting into.

[@robertmanes9333]

Why would you date another trans male after the first gave you such a hard time? With all the available men and women out there the odds of you ending up with another trans male is pretty skewed. Not attempting to bash or anything of the sort, just wondering

[@mara3572]

​@@robertmanes9333 then a lot of women shouldn't date men after their first toxic relationship

[@jaegordon25]

@@robertmanes9333 Bruh, toxicity isn't uniquely trans. That's like saying why date ever again after your first toxic relationship. Also, not all trans people are toxic either.

[@robertmanes9333]

@@mara3572 I was speaking statistically

[@darrensimpson4160]

Thanks!…im a Gay man and I’m finding your show very informative thank you so much for opening me up to truly truly understanding the true trans community….will definitely continue following you and supporting your channel ❤

[@merhona3472]

You can see a beautifully decorated chocolate cake at a party, stunning floral trimming in your favorate colours, and sweet looking frosting. You want a peice so badly, you can taste it. But it is revealed to be styrofoam inside, do you still have to eat it! You are allowed to say no thank you, and walk away, a little pissed at the falsehood, and happy you did not take a bite, and go out and find some real cake. And sometimes the beautifully decorated looking cake is full of BS and sometimes just the S!

[@sandymastermind2669]

What i don't get is, why would they think that anyone cares what they think about them ? Nice to hear your perspective on this surreal positions . Eloquent and insightful, thank you and all the best.

[@mmmeow]

I didn’t fight this hard as a gay man for my pursuit of the D to be told I’m phobic for it.

[@jaqenhghar6244]

They call us “fetishists” while they transition just to harass people for s x.

[@fagiolification11]

OmG yOu ArE wOmAnPhObIc!!11!1!

[@alnu8355]

Well said you friggin Chad. You get that D and ride that bad boy to vahalla...

[@sunsetanimator4187]

“Pursuit of the D” love that 😂

[@TheBaumcm]

Yeah, couldn’t you just have been more open minded?

[@LivingTheSpoonieLife]

You are such a breath of fresh air! It's nice to hear and see that logical thoughts still exist in the LGBT community, it's getting rarer and rarer as the days go by. All this is so crazy to me as an "old gay" (lol).

[@crazysmall.artist]

Well ig that i'm a 'young bi' 😅

[@ThroughTheHaze]

@@crazysmall.artist Young bi here too. :)

[@crazysmall.artist]

@@ThroughTheHaze ❤️❤️❤️

[@tini96]

You are lesbian?

[@PungiFungi]

I think it is about time we drop the T from the acronym and switch back to Gay and Lesbian. I saw this coming the day they switch it around to Lesbian and Gay.

[@technicoloryaya549]

Many trans people think if they are the opposite sex, their lives will be different. That it will change their circumstances and alleviate loneliness. When they find out that is not the case, they need to blame all the external issues in their lives and not the fact that being the opposite sex does not change your personality. Nor does it magically make you desirable. Work on you first, then maybe the rest will follow.

[@nicywicy]

I am so lucky I was born earlier then this terrifying trend. I had a 'trans' friend who wanted to date me, mind you they were really messed up. I told them I was not attracted to 'another girl' and they ended up coming back later and trying to bring out a 'character' who was a male, so I'd do it with them. I was really uncomfortable. They are now 'trans' and I know 100% if I had known them in this day and age I would have been forced into a horrible situation because I'd be stuck between being very confused and not wanting to be a hateful person, it'd just be r word. I'd be manipulated into doing it and haunted for the rest of my life.

[@darrencozens3055]

Your a breath of fresh air. I like your attitude towards understanding and freedom of speech. In my experience I found that when people I knew closed ranks and slammed people who didn't agree or judged them with an absolutist ideal. We always had conflict, it was only when I sat across and CALMLY explained things from my side as a gay man that guys who hadn't been at all okay with people like me really changed their outlook. I have a friend now who once upon a time hated that aspect of me. He came to pride with me numerous years and has since stood in my corner. He married another one of my friends and they are expecting. Proof that with the right mindset in my experience, happy endings are possible for everyone.

[@dcfmkyn]

You cannot help who you’re sexually attracted to, and you sure as hell cannot NEGOTIATE THAT!

[@maerhodes8552]

My man, this is a Wendy’s. I can’t believe these people are like this in real life. How do they have friends? Family? Partners? It’s like constantly living with someone who is “holier than thou” AND condescending AND a false victim all at once.

[@jean-louispech4921]

tormentor, victim and savior at the same time , the perfect manipulative triangle .

[@jean-louispech4921]

@Random memes If you think trans as a Block, yes you are. In all case, it looks like this trans in the vidéo, or other vidéos about children are real peoples, and like real peoples they can do bad things, being manipulatives, etc...

[@fairydust9527]

I remember a friend of mine having a crush on a trans woman years ago. When he confessed his feelings, she turned him down because she only liked women. There was no fuss, no shaming, he understood that she simply wasn't attracted to men and moved on. This is how it should be on all sides. I don't understand why this has become a difficult thing to grasp.

[@kennethwright491]

Hey, Brother. Nice of you to break the "unwritten code" and "speak out against your own". Much respect for you.

[@sheilamc3420]

Thank you for being brave enough to talk about this with acceptance and logic! You are so right, and I appreciate you educating people on what all this is about. Things have gotten out of control and you are a breath of fresh air! I appreciate you.

[@shippo481]

Are they trying to guilt trip ppl into dating them? 🤣

[@0000zz2]

They guilt people into dating them but they also guilt people who are only attracted to them

[@jaqenhghar6244]

Yes but they also want to pretend they’re the ones rejecting people left and right lol. If they didn’t have a problem getting a date this wouldn’t even be a subject. The evolution of incel: trans edition.

[@ladybug4488]

Yes

[@SDMItch]

I think social conditioning pre transition does play into how dating is viewed. I notice that this topic is heavily discussed by transwomen compared to transmen. It has the feel of when some heterosexual men try to shame and coerce women into dating them.

[@angelasamusements4786]

YES!!!!

[@anastaciazara1787]

There's definitely a category of dude who thinks that he's entitled to a lot of attention and sex from easy hot chicks because of some feature that he thinks makes him irresistible to women.

[@dinky..]

Woooow! What an interesting observation!!

[@jaqenhghar6244]

@@anastaciazara1787 the feature tends to be in his pants and is incorporated heavily into his personality. A feature most of these… women… keep.

[@dudeorduuude5211]

Exactly. Most bio woman would never say such things or be entitled like that. Reminds me of the nerdy red pill guys.

[@dubs3432]

What I am attracted to does not feel like a choice, it feels like a genetic instinct.

[@patrickmusson4571]

Thanks! This is a very good case you put. I couldn't agree more.

[@nyarlathoteporlyeh6158]

I feel like my neurons committed suicide listening to those example arguments. Especially the one with a Joker makeup. You drove your point very well in a most articulate manner. Thanks.

[@oliseyenumdavid1824]

My take on the fourth clip: "I refuse to believe that I am the problem" she strongly accentuated. You see this trait guys, that's what you call a red flag🚩🚩🚩 and whether you're straight, gay, bi or trans, this trait is toxic and should not be celebrated.

[@LoreleiCatherine]

I won’t date any of the several coworkers that have repeatedly asked me out, despite my telling them emphatically no and I do not date coworkers, (not to mention I’m not physically attracted to any of them in any way, shape or form, but I’m not trying to be a jerk) it’s a golden rule I have, No dating coworkers! I didn’t know I was coworker phobic. I’ve got to change my ways right now! Jfc

[@rpersleyrp]

I agree, I can't date a co-worker either. Not going to do it

[@richerDiLefto]

Totally agree. Work is NO place to find dates. It’s a horrible idea.

[@saras.8418]

Its baffling how these individuals, hate on "cis men" ( hate that term btw) yet majority of them seek the approval and relationships with straight men....and when they cant force someone to be attracted to them, they use name calling on Tiktok as their only ammunition?

[@Shmoltiger]

❤ I'm glad you have a platform.

[@curiouschronic582]

The constant contradictions in the arguments on tiktok have me in a constant state of face palm. Thank you again for your voice so few are speaking in a factual and kind manner I truly appreciate your insights❤

[@dlastkatipunero2185]

They don't just demand respect and language control but also your time, love and money- wtf

[@maxpowers9129]

No one is entitled to a personal relationship with anyone else. Anyone can reject me for any reason they want, and I won't shame them for being some type of phobe or biggot. Trying to shame people into dating me would be just about the scummiest thing I could do.

[@TheBaumcm]

Yep, just manipulation from narcissists.

[@ximar0ckstrx]

I was attacked and threatened because I questioned how can a "cis" man be heterosexual if he's with a trans-woman that hasn't had bottom surgery. I asked the question genuinely because, to me, sexuality by definition has to do with sex, not gender. And heterosexual means to be attracted to the opposite sex. I was called a trans-phobe and a bigot for asking the question and was told that I better shut up and "stay in my lane" before something happens to me. So, thank you for addressing this question. I believe the path to understanding is lead by open and honest dialog. But so many zealots refuse to have a simple conversation

[@samanthawhang7498]

Yes, those cis men would be in fact gay. I said this before, but lots of trans women don’t want to date gay men. They need a cis hetero to make their identity complete. A gay man would shatter the delusion, and remind the trans women of what they actually are. So they will insist that their boyfriends are totally, absolutely, 100% straight. The whole thing sounds homophobic to me, but that’s trans ideology for you.

[@kaetispannbauer9082]

I disagree that sexuality has to do with sex and not gender. A man can be attracted to femininity and not care what kind of genitalia is attached to femininity. A man dating a trans woman doesn't make him gay or anything he doesn't want to identify as...when you see a passing trans woman on the street, there's literally no way to know what's in their pants, and a straight man being attracted to them doesn't change their sexuality. I think yall are putting way too much emphasis on genitals...

[@marlarose3105]

​@@kaetispannbauer9082 wouldn't be more likely a mix of both though some people get turned off to the point of gagging at the thought of doing it with someone with a certain set of genitals. There are some who are just attracted to what they look on the outside.

[@jimphilidor9031]

Genitals are the tip of an iceberg on a person. I'm not attracted to genitals but people. I'm attracted to the feminine energy that emanates from some people. If that person has a dick, it's fine by me. Some of the trans-women in this video just look like men to me, so they don't have that energy that would appeal to me.

[@penmaster003]

@@kaetispannbauer9082 Straight people are attracted to the opposite sex, that means opposite genitals. If they are “attracted to femininity” of biological men, they are not straight. They don’t have to call themselves gay but they are not straight. You don’t really get to redefine heterosexuality like everything else in this upside down clown world. The only reason anyone is talking about genitals is because of how unbelievable arbitrary and insane gender ideology is. It’s just complete bullshit.

[@timnunley8358]

You constantly restore my faith in the younger generation Marcus. Thank you for your heroic efforts.

[@clambin89]

Ever met somebody that others find attractive but you don’t ? It’s something deeper than looks or whatever really it’s that intangible thing that makes people genuinely attracted to one other .

[@valerie362]

Blaire's boyfriend is ok with the term gynandromorphophilic or gynemimetophilic as his sexual attraction. You're right, no one would say he's gay but there is a term for strictly being into trans people. They did a video on it :)

[@sometimesawful]

I'll say he's gay. If he's male dating a male that's a homosexual relationship. Especially since Blaire is intact but even when they got the snip n flip it's still homosexual

[@fitnessen2860]

@@sometimesawful He’s not gay because Blaire doesn’t look like a man. Gay men aren’t attracted to Blair

[@CynicallyObnoxious]

@@sometimesawful Im gay and sorry bro if it looks like a woman Im not gobblin its hog

[@priscillaspets]

@@fitnessen2860 could it be that it’s just a different type of homosexual relationship?

[@sometimesawful]

@@CynicallyObnoxious and that's normal for a gay man but some are into it. They're commonly bisexual which explains their attraction to feminine appearance but if sleeping with another man that's gay

[@inkdemon64mclemore57]

I honestly just can't wrap my head around using the word phobic at the end. To have a phobia means you're scared if something. I'm not scared, and IM NOT CIS... I'm a woman, mother, and wife. Nothing more Nothing less... I love you Marcus, but some of these ppl are just crazy...

[@jachellelynn3041]

I’m so tired of all this to be honest. There are all kinds of ppl that say I’m not their type (I’m ok with it) and there all kinds of ppl that aren’t my type. It is what it is What kills me is ppl are so focused on who doesn’t want to date them that they are gonna totally miss the ppl that do.

[@PungiFungi]

I suspect they are making these vids is because NOBODY want to date them. Not even those who are into trans because it is obvious all of them have insufferable personalities.

[@TheBaumcm]

Same. I’m a short female with some very masculine tendencies, not every dude’s cup of tea and that is fine. My husband’s first serious dating questions to me were “Are you or have you ever been a man?” and “Are those real?” He was a lot drunk and he tends towards direct and blunt when sober (no filter) but I figured he must’ve had a bad experience, answered him honestly and we’ve been together for almost 20 years.

[@DJRazorgirl826]

Thank you, Marcus, for standing up to the insanity.

[@taylormanfred3489]

This is very refreshing to see and hear!

[@WildZephyr]

When I see these videos, I say "what is THAT?" so many times.

[@meganjones1184]

You are so right. I would feel soooo bad if I was transfobic in any way!! I would feel terrible. But I just couldn't be with someone who didn't have the bits and pieces I am attracted to. It feels very unfair to be judged for that. I tend to have a pretty easy life (sis women, hetero, blonde hair, blue eyed) but years ago I was dating someone very masculine (my type at the time😫) and he told me that he cross dresses. I told him that I will shop with him, I will ve there for him, but it just wasn't something that I found attractive to me

[@trinacook6466]

I really just want to say how much I love you.... It's seldom that you meet someone in your age group that thinks for themselves and speaks for themselves, instead of just jumping on the bandwagon of what everyone else on social media is thinking and saying because they're so worried about how everyone will perceive them... Thank you!

[@bitbcs]

"I'm gonna say, you're full of shh" 💗 That was amazing... you're a very nice and funny person, loved the video. Congrats!

[@DarkVeghetta]

6:16 That made me laugh for a solid two minutes. The self-delusion is off the charts. This is the first video I've seen from this channel and I can already tell I'm going to like it here. Cheers from Romania!

[@yassinazour9850]

I'm really glad there are people like you who can think rationally and don't go with the flow. When I see those weird videos of those psycos I sometimes tend to generalize, but people like you are the reason why I would never do that. They call themselves activists, but you are actually a real activist.

[@s.b.sieber2007]

It's hard to go with the flow when it's a perilous stretch of endless rapids.

[@PhoenixAmar]

I love how thoughtful and logical you are. Your maturity is refreshing, especially as a younger queer person, that's not very common. 🥰 ❤ from Canada!

[@scotthix2297]

Marcus, you’re getting a bit saucy, dude…and I love it. Some things just NEED a dose of side eye and a chuckle. -your fan, Stella Zafella 💋

[@angelacurry5793]

Appreciate your honesty!

[@MatriartNet]

Right. If they aren’t interested, they aren’t interested.

[@lavinayukim6811]

What if a man/women wants to have kids in the future? You can say, “oh they can just adopt.” But what if they want their own biological kid? I don’t think that is such a crazy concept. There is way more to dating someone then just what they physically look like.

[@joeyk5]

I am really enjoying your videos. You are very well spoken Marcus

[@edithguzman7277]

Awwww that last picture of Blaire and Joey is so cute!

[@Shibby27ify]

This is why I don't have a tictok account. Thank you for being a fantastic trans representative for those of use being tired of being preached to and shamed but still want to understand and care an accept the trans community. Your videos actually prevent transphobia compared to these people on tictok

[@adammarx5310]

Thank you for making this.. You are appreciated.

[@stevendunkley8284]

I think that the fact that these people can't find anyone to date even within their own communities who share their own identities, values and politics when there are literally hundreds of others like them their sharing their similar grievances on TikTok and social media is telling. Could it be that they come across as not particularly nice, well adjusted or safe to be around and if you did get involved with them it could be difficult (if not nigh on impossible) or possibly even dangerous to disengage with them if things didn't work out right? If you are displaying more red flags than a communist state funeral then no one wants that regardless of your gender or orientation. Relationships are not a right or an entitlement but something you earn and build upon based on mutual trust and respect which is clearly beyond their self obsessed and narcissistic capacity.

[@KM-oy2dw]

I was thinking the same. If no one wants to date them it's not because they are trans, but because they are crazy and entitled

[@ericvulgate]

Well, but also bc they're trans. Some people are into that stuff why try to guilt the rest of us?

[@Sarah-dq1fm]

They don’t want to date each other, they want to force themselves onto heterosexual normal people for two reasons: A.) It validates that they “pass” and are desirable. B.) it normalizes their weird ideologies and identity/gender politics.

[@antiromantic986]

Tbh the (online) trans or lgbt community is extremely toxic to those who do not think the way they do. And even worse to trans people who side with this stuff and are aware that theyll never truly be a man or woman but have accepted it for was it is, and are living happy lives with this in mind. You should also see how cruel they are to ex-trans/detransitioners, it’s sickening. I’ve seen it many times online, they basically tell the person “you’re no longer trans cissie, so your thoughts and experiences are invalid” it’s really gross

[@margaritamarunyak6269]

These people, just like everyone, finds someone attractive and wants to date them. But normal people when find out that who they like doesn't feel same about them, leaves that person alone snd doesn't pursue. But when it comes to this group of people, they have an understanding that whoever they like must feel the same about them, because they're entitled and they were taught that everyone must accept them and be ok with them, and they feel it has to be the same when it comes to romantically relationships. They seem to think whoever they choose must be with them, because they like them. They don't accept what the other side wants, because it's all about them, snd their wants. That's why they complain, because people don't want to date them, when they do. They feel it's discrimination and not allowed for others to choose. Because they were told everyone must accept them , so they expect to be accepted in such way too.

[@aloo333]

It's actually insane that this conversation actually needs to happen.

[@shaiDahan9]

Imagine needing to literally defend your sexuality, give arguments to why are you this way and explain that it's okay Hmm... remind me of something similar that happened in the past

[@jilliansopko5710]

I’m not a trans person myself so I don’t have much knowledge on the topic, but I relate to your opinions so so much. Every time I watch one of your videos I feel like maybe I’m not so crazy after all ! 😅 And on a side note, I love seeing you get more & more comfortable in front of the camera and showing off the “silly” side of your personality 😊 I appreciate the work you do in order to share this content with us. Thank you for being here !

[@jamiesays5605]

Come be my friend. No, really. 😁 You're the chillest person I've ever seen. Thank you for not being afraid to be you, to speak the truth, and to still be so kind when the world may have given you every reason not to be. We all (meaning the general public) have so many questions, but we are afraid to ask them because we get afraid of being labeled some kind of 'phobe'. I fear no one, but I do like to be informed about multiple issues. Thanks for letting us ask questions and not judging us for it. ♥ 🙏

[@michaelwilkins3050]

Who you share intimacy with is a life given right.

[@pamoua3153]

I love this. It's very refreshing to see another trans person stand up against this ridiculousness.

[@Diggingmounians]

They really worked up to this one. It started with “give people a chance even if your not attracted to them, you might love their personality” And ended with “if you don’t date me because your attracted to biological women, your a bigot”

[@dustinmartin2369]

It's worse than that as they force whatever words you say to be in their "language" which is a system that doesn't work. Woman is an action instead of a state but sexuality is somehow a state instead of an action. Their understanding of the world is totally inverted and only tells lies. It can only cause damage, particularly to a sexually reproducing species.

[@Diggingmounians]

@@dustinmartin2369 I agree, it’s backwards thinking and it’s honestly really sad. It is scary to think about where this kind of thing could lead but I see so many good people still just doing their best and living their own normal lives not getting sucked into this stuff, understanding without having to over analyze, and it gives me faith.

[@MikNickel]

Bless you for being a reasonable human being. You make me feel like there is still some hope for this world. It's sad that these kinds of opinionated people are the loudest voices. These people make the world feel ten times more hateful than it is.

[@ThinWhiteAxe]

1:24 I think another good argument to refute this is that, just because a person is attracted to women, doesn't mean they're attracted to EVERY SINGLE WOMAN ALL THE TIME. Like me, I have a fairly specific type and if you don't fall into something like that type, I'm not gonna be interested. It is the right of everyone to turn down a date from someone they're not attracted to, for whatever reason! 🙄

[@shaiDahan9]

I accept trans woman as woman (after they go through surgerie and present themselves as a woman) But they are not real, biological woman, same for men And thats why I would accept a trans man as a man (that present himself as a man) but the only idea of being with a trans man disgusts me, because he isn't a real man, that's a biological woman

[@hotdog1214]

This 💯. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that jazz. Not everyone is attracted to everyone and attraction isn't a conscious choice, its an instinctive one.

[@ceerod9861]

Omg Loved ur vid! First time watching! Thank you for speaking up and having so much common sense or just sense! You easily smash with logic and debate, unlike the ppl on TikTok ur showing! ❤

[@jdew7777]

Keep calling them out, you give me hope in humanity

[@CoryInThailand]

You are so logical and emotional mature. Keep it up sending postive love your way!

[@Wandering.Homebody]

What even is there to discuss? Anyone can reject anyone for any reason at any point, and that is completely fine, OBVIOUSLY. Because what else are they gonna do once they have lost interest, for whatever reason!? Force themselves to sleep with them, just to appease them for political correctness ' sake?! Who even would want that? Just be straightforward from the beginning about who you are, and not a liar, then this question won't even need to arise.

[@schwags1969]

Thank you for the breath of fresh air in this crazy time.

[@riasgremory5943]

he spitting facts like crazy and at the same time so polite that is some skill

[@Bellia25]

The thing that absolutely drives me crazy about this is that in a way it is saying that their identity is part of their core being and exist but someone's sexuality is not. Which sounds pretty homophobic to me coming from people who should be in the lgbt+ community. It *is* an argument we have fought for so long to get people to understand that for some people sexuality is rigid. They are only attracted to the same sex. It seems so backwards especially since they talk so much about "all identities are valid" I am bi. I have dated men, women and trans individuals. but I stand with you on this.

[@zed9256]

Which is why “abrosexual” is so fucking stupid.