DATING AN ASEXUAL!!

[@CookeeMonsterr]

Unfortunately myself and Gemma have been broken up for about a month now but I still believe this is an important video that shows just how possible it is for asexuals to find love

[@nicholasnguyen3979]

It was so courageous for both of you to talk about your relationship and to answer such personal questions. This video was so informative! Alex, I'm so happy that you have found someone so caring and open minded. Gem (Jem?), you are such an inspiration for non-asexuals :)

[@CookeeMonsterr]

Really glad you enjoyed the video Nicholas! Thank you for sticking around :) Both myself and Gemma thank you for your kind words

[@quinoarat2528]

You guys are SO awesome for being willing to make this video and answer these questions! No one should feel obligated to talk about these personal things (on KZbin of all places!), but it's great that some people do. These types of videos could really help people who are trying to figure out how mixed relationships can work. It also gives us aro aces insight into this world we don't understand. :) Gemma, I would love to see you in more videos if you would be willing to talk about these things (or other unrelated things) more.

[@CookeeMonsterr]

Really pleased to hear that you enjoyed the video and found it informative and interesting too!! I think it's important for people to be open too and am really grateful to have a girlfriend who is as open as myself!! I'm sure you'll see Gemma in some videos in the near future too :)

[@hannarebecka6740]

This makes me so so happy!! We've seen you worry about not finding anyone but now you have and nothing makes me happier. I wish you both a long and amazing relationship together!

[@CookeeMonsterr]

Thank you so much Hanna

[@janeensmith2382]

OMG! I'm so happy you found someone! She is so awesome I love seeing that you are so happy! Best of luck hope you guys have a great year.

[@CookeeMonsterr]

Thank you so much Janeen, really hope you do too!!

[@SaraSmiles29]

aaw alex i'm soo happy for youu! ^-^ i still remember your one video (on the coast?) where you talked about a reationship and the the other videos where you were so down and wanted a girlfriend. you just seem so happy now in general! i'm glad you found eachother and also i hope that your problems at work got better! (:

[@CookeeMonsterr]

Thank you so much Sara, well remembered!! Thanks for the continued support throughout the last couple of years!!

[@jyotikrishnamohan7493]

wow!!!!! I am so happy for you both! a couple of years ago there were some videos in which you doubted your future. now you've found happiness. time is the best healer! 😊

[@CookeeMonsterr]

You're 100% right!!

[@raybrooks2983]

I've been waiting for this! I knew this from your live stream! congratulations dude 😊👌 I'm also asexual, I've been with my partner for almost 2 years :)

[@CookeeMonsterr]

that's fantastic, is your partner asexual too? Hope 2017 is treating you well

[@raybrooks2983]

Cookee Monsterr thanks, you too! And...no, he's not asexual so it's similar to you and your girlfriend in a way. You are both so cute together btw 😊

[@thebadgersbookshop151]

I am so happy seeing you happy ! ^^ The two of you are so sweet :)

[@CookeeMonsterr]

Thank you so much!!

[@mlitt1996]

Awwww! I have a tear in my eye! This has been A REALLY good year for you! So happy for you! 😀

[@CookeeMonsterr]

[@MrMasterDebate]

This gives me hope for my ace self xD

[@CookeeMonsterr]

I'm glad!! :)

[@TamsynMiller]

It's seriously so amazing seeing you so happy!

[@CookeeMonsterr]

Thanks for your continued support and sticking around despite the lack of uploads Tamsyn

[@FreeTheDonbas]

"We have AMAZING... conversations"

[@leaharvey5201]

I have a question: Do you have physical interaction, that are not sexual? For example, do you kiss, cuddle or massage each other sometimes? If so, is it part of your "compromise", or an asexual person can still enjoy these things?

[@CookeeMonsterr]

This isn’t part of the compromise. I very much enjoy all of the things you’ve mentioned above. I actually crave a lot of them. Hope this helps 😊

[@niamhrj]

I'm so happy for you two!

[@CookeeMonsterr]

Thank you

[@treebranch2066]

Happy you found each other!! Still don't get why people are so obsessed with whether or not you guys are sleeping together. There are plenty of ways to be intimate without actually having sex so enjoy your relationship and forget what everyone else thinks. I'd be happy just to find someone who I could hang with.

[@CookeeMonsterr]

Exactly!! I think it's what makes our relationship so great!!

[@kathrynholton3081]

I fangirled before I even watched the video. Y'all are adorable

[@CookeeMonsterr]

Thanks Kathryn!!

[@katlovescats]

You guys are so cute together! I'm so happy for you Alex!

[@CookeeMonsterr]

Thank you so much Kat!! Hope you've had a good weekend!!

[@jemimarobinson849]

This makes me happy that you're happy :)

[@CookeeMonsterr]

[@ThePaganific]

you guys are so cute together!

[@CookeeMonsterr]

Glad you think so

[@kateyperry33]

You are so happy! I love it! You two are so cute! I am so glad you two found each other! Sending positivity :)

[@CookeeMonsterr]

Thank you so much!!

[@SophisticatedLunatic]

I'm so happy for you guys! I wish one day I'll find a man who's asexual or who doesn't mind that I am. :3

[@CookeeMonsterr]

I'm sure you will

[@fairy21509]

I'm asexual and with a girl

[@crassenti]

Yay congrats I'm so happy for you guys :)'you're both so sweet :)

[@CookeeMonsterr]

thank you

[@lontabi]

You being so happy is good news :)

[@CookeeMonsterr]

[@georgia7723]

I'm so happy for you :)

[@CookeeMonsterr]

Thanks Georgia