Dating In Korea as a Foreigner

[@dionemartins0212]

A black woman: *Looks uncomfortable using the n-word, tries to avoid it* That one Korean guy: N-

[@oshunvenus]

Outside of the Anglo countries, many people are not aware that the N word is considered derogatory. They use it more as a racial descriptor than an insult. So the nuance is lost on them. I know because I was one of those people 😂😂.

[@Roller324]

@@oshunvenusummm NO! Because it’s an American slang word. And prior to that it was NEVER used!

[@LivingEncyclopedia]

@@Roller324 My guess is that people outside the US mostly know it from Rap and Hip Hop. Since musicians say it so often and so casually, they probably assume it’s a regular word. That’s not to say they’re in the right and should keep saying it. It’s still a big cultural sensitivity issue. It’s the United States’ responsibility to let other countries know it isn’t okay and why, and those countries’ responsibility to listen and- whether they truly understand or not- respect that.

[@NeyamStar]

Ikkr

[@trinity_null]

@@Roller324ahistorical blurpblop

[@Itsonyinye]

The interviewer was flabbergasted, he couldn't believe his ears, he had to ask again 😂😂😂

[@dojisatchivi1664]

fr😂 my son was baffled af

[@dojisatchivi1664]

me too😭tbh

[@PaintballBo]

L O L

[@z3nkin]

He probably doesn't want any black kids, too! These bandits don't want anything darker than them.

[@ripsense8064]

nah he asked again cause he was trying to specify if he said “n word kids” or “n**** kids” like the actual word

[@bavumilenkosi9425]

The interviewer got that Steve lacy drip

[@brenmac100]

💯💯🔥

[@oldschoolpanels]

That is Steve Lacy

[@user-xo7vk4vi8p]

ong he do

[@detective.chitzuru4461]

English or Spanish?

[@schanettecampbell5537]

That song Gemini though..

[@fredidelux]

I woulda just left no questions, you’ve said enough for me thank you sir 😭

[@Lukifu]

Victim

[@fredidelux]

@@Lukifu how? I never mentioned being offended lol

[@Lukifu]

@@fredidelux It's just a word, he's not going to you with a knife

[@fredidelux]

@@Lukifu you’ve misunderstood me then. It’s not the word that’s the problem, while it would have some effect to my decision, he quite literally stated he isn’t interested in having black kids. So as an adult, why would I bother taking the relationship any further😭I think that’s reasonable

[@pratkier]

​@@Lukifu and if I don't like the words he's using to describe me I can leave and that doesn't make me a victim

[@user-tp5st7gv3s]

Bro went straight to the bloodline😂

[@biggshoverwelder3690]

That's how most cultures think outside the west, they're focused on setting up for the future while we waste our 20's and 30s in meaningless hookups and situationships.

[@MenOn13]

@@biggshoverwelder3690setup future for what, to die with regrets and then for the next generations to continue the same cycle?

[@lindc1070]

@@MenOn13 Asians dont die with regrets. Most have happy marriages when they marry someone from similar background and race.

[@marusdod3685]

@@lindc1070 no, at least 70% cheat on their spouses

[@yodaichi888]

​@marusdod3685 and u would know it's 70%😂

[@leviticus4848]

She was more afraid to say it than the Korean guy 💀💀💀

[@ricksanchez397]

Koreans didn’t make any exploitation so aren’t them allowed to say?

[@tristc6909]

She wasn't afraid to say it, she was being polite

[@preciouslovi]

@@tristc6909they were joking

[@hamsammich1638]

Based korea?

[@DBlockKTV]

@@tristc6909let the children be children. You know they just say stupid shit on the Internet for a hobby.

[@tactical735]

Bro went straight for it

[@ivannieves154]

Why do people let a word dictate there life like it's going to kill them but they use it themselves against each other promote it everywhere but get mad at others for using it that's such a hypocrite thing to do

[@d1kkgd]

​@@ivannieves154true like even if its wrong to say it they dont needa like get hella offended and flabbergasted by it. Also you can just ask them to not say it if it feels so weird.

[@addictnojunkie]

@@d1kkgdhow are y’all gonna tell someone how they should feel over a word that affected them for generations? 😂

[@vincible5343]

But they say it to each other so they can remember how they were affected...​@@addictnojunkie

[@vincible5343]

So they say it to each other so they can remember how they were affected...​@@addictnojunkie

[@setnogangC-137]

She's beautiful

[@Ronydoo-yv2hs]

Only in America. 😂

[@timcordier9748]

She really is

[@RandomGamerCory]

Average at best lmao

[@jackthemack1422]

I’m saying bro. Tell her come back here😂😂

[@ManhwaJongwoo]

@@RandomGamerCoryThat’ll forever be just *your* opinion my guy 😁😁

[@kd8663]

Don’t pretend they don’t know any better. They understand just fine that the word is meant to be insulting.

[@KaesOner]

Most Americans don't even know the cities and countries of America... what makes you think other countries who dont even speak English know about American history? They only know what they hear and see on American media, and that is black people casually calling each other nigga all the time...

[@chiefdenis]

How are they supposed to know when you use the word like it's going out of fashion

[@justdoinme1234]

@@chiefdenisthey’re not us. The same way he can acknowledge that a mixed child will be bullied because they aren’t like them. He should be smart enough to understand that he can’t say that word because he isn’t like us… 😂😂😂 stop making excuses

[@chiefdenis]

@@justdoinme1234 y'all are the ones making excuses for all your inadequacies, blaming every other race but yourselves, not everything is racist, and if you don't want others to use the n word stop throwing it around like it's confetti every other sentence

[@honeyjoo2039]

​​@@chiefdenisThere are plenty of black people that don't use the n-word. The woman in the video only said it to clarify what she meant but before that she said"n-word" multiple times. What inadequacies?...a word? Just one goddamn word that you can't say and you start pissing your pants about it. You're not a child that is easily influenced by everything. If someone tells you not to say something and you still say it, then that's on YOU, dingus.

[@HLsteppa]

I'm Black/Korean, and even some of my Korean Family members acted stand offish for years, and cut my mom off. Things didn't improve till I was an adult. In hindsight, it was tough for her. Being ostracized, and dealing with racism of the US. Luckily my Black family embraced her.

[@mandalorianhunter1]

I'm happy for you got through that and had a support system

[@Chuks]

The majority of black families will not ostracize you because of your Color.

[@eujinlee9936]

Yeah it's normally not blacks who reject because of interracial relationships, it's almost always the non black parents who do

[@tweedertweeder1625]

@@eujinlee9936not where I’m from

[@kevinmahaley4916]

​@eujinlee9936 because blacks are the bottom rung of the racial hierarchy

[@ozDiim3zo]

I love the level of honesty though, tell me what it is, what it ain’t, and what it’s going to be. Transparency earns my full respect so I can make my non clouded decisions as well

[@blackgirloffgrid1054]

So why was he even on a date with her? ... Sounds like he was just there for a good time , not a long time . Double the disrespect

[@TrevorDiDioC]

Exactly. He was just being honest about the racism in his country. People are overreacting.

[@dookieball4759]

@@TrevorDiDioCvery ignorant

[@1982Geoff1982]

But still why did he use the n word? That is the question 🤔

[@TrevorDiDioC]

@@dookieball4759 The problem with the far left.

[@AyeAshh]

Bro was buggin

[@TotallyNotKanye]

“THAT guy was out of his mind and out of pocket for that” that so the civilized actual people can understand

[@aleeyahbussell1252]

It’s the fact that she didn’t ask him to father her children at all 💀

[@fartmagus]

​@@darkiepoo8949There's no way in hell or in any sound mind that describing a black person requires using a slur.

[@anonymous-kv2oe]

😂😂😂

[@Gokiza]

He knew he was gon smash and dash, and wanted it known he wasn’t sticking around for Baby mama drama

[@chocha4438]

@@GokizaHe knew he wanted too, but too bad for him he never got the chance to (hopefully)

[@tsmith4988]

@@Gokiza even if that’s true, this is the QUICKEST way he could’ve fumbled it 😂 glad he didn’t waste her time

[@PolypheusX]

“Omg there’s so much racism in the US!” Asia: “hold my beer”

[@curtebo]

Yes maybe, but Thailand has been good to me as a black man!

[@sorincaladera936]

Whats racist about not wanting a degenerate child?

[@user-tu2dr3ny6x]

@@sorincaladera936 nice bait

[@curtebo]

@@sorincaladera936 calling a baby the N word by someone not black is inappropriate and extremely rude to the woman. And shows his disrespect and probably racism toward the woman. And before you say but he's asking her out...a racist wanting sex is not new...but I argue NO ONE ESPECIALLY BLACKS should be using it.

[@twentysecondnomad8177]

The problem is that Asians haven't historically had power and oppressed blacks, so the logic of white oppression on black people breaks down in terms of how passionate people are at fighting it.

[@o-gearmalaysia5594]

My yellow boy watches too much Maurie Povich 💀

[@everyotherbar65]

They get straight to the point over seas 😂

[@specsylol7117]

"I'm not racist. I have a black girlfriend"

[@FawkYouGuy]

Well i mean heres 2 ideas JUST GIVING HIM THE BENEFIT of the doubt just cuz its always better to assume ignorance and not malice. He prolly heard a few black people say it, or he heard a few rap songs that said it, or watched dave chappelle. And maybe JUST maybe he thought thats what black people like to go by. Also, he did allegedly say "i dont want them to get bullied" WHICH IS TOTALLY FAIR AND A GOOD POINT. This isnt some cinderella story. Here in america african americans are blessed to be leading the culture. In other countries they are more rare , and for asian countries in PARTICULAR they have very strict rules about dating and tradition and whatnot. THIS IS ALL JUST THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT. Not giving no one a pass! Just saying lets look at all the options.

[@henocksherlock3340]

It's not racist. It means being aware, not disingenous, & anti-"yes-man". Something left-wing loonies tend to always forget

[@painofdon5164]

@@henocksherlock3340you literally have a confederate flag pfp

[@henocksherlock3340]

@@painofdon5164 I wonder in which literal manner that was referred to?

[@painofdon5164]

@@henocksherlock3340 Its just ironic that a person with a confederate flag pfp is trying to govern what is and isn’t racist

[@adetunjifajinmi6088]

This feels like it should be an episode on Boondocks

[@FiveMCity]

Drop the link in their post, I’m sure it will.

[@Nushgala]

Stinkmeaner would have owned his ass

[@memebler846]

That word was pretty much invented and mainly used in America, Koreans don't care with current American nor african american racial issues they have they're own country to worry about with its own problems, they don't care about the history of the n word when they translate the word from English to Korean it comes out to Black American, they had no previous knowledge about the word besides seing it translated in a book or online, in America our history with the n word starts in the 1700s and we know the rest of the story.

[@Sabs215]

Uncle Ruckus: He sounds like a fine gentleman, why the hell is he goin' on a date with you in the first place?

[@roz9315]

@@Sabs215😂😂😂. I was thinking the same thing. Maybe include some racist comment about Asians being smarter so they would know.

[@josephcraig765]

As a person who’s been to other countries black people in America have zero clue how racist some other countries can be to blacks. Openly like people in these countries do not care to let a black person know it too. You think it’s bad here, travel. Of course it’s not that way everywhere but some places man I’m telling ya.

[@DarthMalgus-ud8kz]

lived in Asia for 3 years. It's worse in the US. I'm black BTW.

[@josephcraig765]

@@DarthMalgus-ud8kz I’ve been to 6 countries my wife is black and she would disagreee

[@josephcraig765]

@@DarthMalgus-ud8kz you would also need to live in more than one country. Asia is a huge place and lots of countries so that’s not a very good measure.

[@Boxingbear]

​@@josephcraig765I've heard it is really bad in China.

[@Boxingbear]

Korea lol There is a reason ESL jobs in Japan, Korea, China all ask for a photo with your application. Most of the schools will not hire blacks or indigenous ppl. It's a fact.

[@dalmarka20]

They insult you insult them back, no complains. period!

[@mtasubwaymartasubway]

Agree, they call me the N word and I call them the GK word

[@EmileOBrien]

@@mtasubwaymartasubwayyou have to be careful when you are in their domain they might feel free to escalate

[@Levan-hv8ih]

What does it mean (Gk)?​@@mtasubwaymartasubway

[@maozedong8370]

No proof she even went on a date, people love just taking things at face value don't they? What if I told you I am god? Do you believe me just because I said it? He could have easily said he didn't want mixed race kids which is an absolutely fine preference to have, but I guarantee you the vast majority of Koreans don't even know what that word is or what it means because THEY DON'T SPEAK ENGLISH.

[@connellquercia]

It’s a slur in America (maybe other places?) for people from Vietnam, the Philippines, Korea, and other east or south-east Asian countries. Nobody really uses that word anymore though, nor is it analogous to the N word for black people 😆

[@KingofAloha808]

As soon as he said that, the conversation and date should have been over with. I wouldn’t care to delve any further.

[@user-hv6on6dk4j]

Yep, it would have been date over for me.

[@atilla4372]

When there's a certain level of attraction you're gonna put up with it. I looked up her tiktok and saw she makes content about K-pop idols. Chances are she went to Korea specifically to look for Korean men and so it explains why she didn't cut off the Korean man despite his racism.

[@edwigeguerin894]

Yes me neither

[@edwigeguerin894]

​@@atilla4372 yes but she could for one who is less racist. They're probably hard to find but they exist. Selfworth is crucial. Especially when being black in this context. I was once told that they were countries in Africa in which Japonese men who date locals but would have them abort if they ever got pregnant because they didn't want black mixed kids. Just sex. This is the same but you can always find a good person if you don't settle for the 1st ahole.

[@purplegirl8036]

Definitely, I think she was just trying to figure out if he was confused but people play dumb.

[@cakemanLHK]

So, he said he didn't want them to get bullied while he himself demonstrated the prejudice that would result in them getting bullied.

[@MrWarrenRB]

Well he’s atleast honest. People don’t date others based on race, height, nose, forehead, etc. that their children would inherit all the time.

[@user-it6uu1ej6c]

It’s Korea he’s not changing society. I can tell you are American

[@cakemanLHK]

@@user-it6uu1ej6c Nice assumption. Too bad its wrong.

[@niggblehlm5818]

Shauuut up. Not every country has to conform to your dystopian ideals.

[@Bedstuys-Favorite]

If U Naturally Soft Datz How U Would Think😉

[@JHXNLB]

To be fair most people who can say the word would use it casually and that will make foreigners think that they could say it as an adjective or somethin' especially people from Asia. For me personally, I've seen movies/videos of people saying the word when I was like 8 years old and in my understanding it was just like slang for speaking with closest friends.

[@ichigo7223]

Kudos to her for not wanting to even use it. Amazed that happened

[@anyberdilo2659]

The saddest thing is that the kids in Korea will be bullied for any reason, not only because of their race but any other reason, because bullying is such a big problem and it's coming from the parents, I remember when I was a kid watching American movies, my mom was always mentioning how beautiful the African Americans' features are, like plump lips, big eyes, so I am thankful to her for teaching me that everybody have their own beauty

[@Lilbit82100]

Your mom is a wonderful person who taught you the beauty of diversity

[@seraby7151]

They bully their own kind even if they just have a bit of tan and is 100% korean.

[@chelsea_sharks]

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@Havis_Princess]

Your more likely to be bullied for race though since Korea is mainly only Korean folks and most are pale or even when Tam are still on the lighter side since all products have lightening to brightness the skin so it set a standard that anything else is dirty and gross (obviously not all see it that ay I'm explaining cause kids aren't rlly taught different until there old enough to make those judgments on their own)

[@JessicaNevesLago]

Okay your mother is such a beautiful person, actually what you said made my cry ❤

[@palomapenedo]

We all know what he really wanted then🙄

[@suyeesia7770]

What do you mean

[@DaBakaShinobi]

​@suyeesia7770 She's saying he only wants to sleep with her I believe. Nothing serious.

[@nathancasey7712]

​@@DaBakaShinobiI mean if I'm out on a date with a girl I probably want to sleep with heras long as she's cool.

[@croatiankpopfan7709]

@@DaBakaShinobiDoes anyone know why she said “he axed me” instead of asked is that common to pronounce that word differently when talking quickly

[@luciid706]

​@@croatiankpopfan7709it's like how different countries have different dialects and languages depending on what city you're in except here in America there are different states, cities, and sometimes even neighborhoods that pronounce things certain ways, that's all. Just depends where you grew up and how everyone around you says certain words. I was born and raised in Florida so that was super common down there but not so much in the state I live in now.

[@xeccyc]

at least he was completely honest

[@Recstasy]

She sounded like My boy from the city 😂

[@animezzgamezz1322]

Yall don't get just how racist asian countries are. The bullying is also another level.

[@justiceodueze2897]

I was looking for this exact comment bc everyone else is just lost. Asians and Asian countries are almost openly racist. There’s like a 1/100 (and that’s wishful thinking) who might entertain the idea. But if they’re getting interracial, they’re picking white 99.2% of the time. Many surveys and studies. Mainly bc they think white is pure. (Not making this up) you might run into the few who got that fantasy itch the same way a lot of people have said beckie from the burbs do with black guys. But when it comes to officially settling down? Nah, they’re not down for the cause

[@impacc4182]

They better be bullying behind my back because if they say some racisr shi to my face I’ll pepper spray them😂

[@harveydent1731]

Then why go ?

[@thevisitor1012]

@@harveydent1731 I believe it's called tourism.

[@jayb.8460]

The black culture is one of the racist groups😂.

[@nathanxxvii]

To everyone: she aint afraid to say it. Shes being respectful.

[@watamatafoyu]

People these days need it explained that there's a difference between referencing the word and using it against somebody.

[@racky-s568]

​​@@watamatafoyu In the scenario she painted it would be racist for the Korean person to use it. What he actually meant is I don't want black (or mixed.with black) kids. Using the derogatory term to describe black people in that scenario is racist. Unless you are talking about the interviewer or interviewee. Even there Im black and I don't use it either. Both because I don't like the sound of the word coming out of my mouth and because I don't want to indirectly condone the use of the slur.

[@rene280195]

​@@racky-s568 people pls remember that the social rules or the Cultural charge of a Word doesn't magically translate to other cultures, if You are learning a new language You may not get nor care for the cultural background of a Word in a country. For example we latinos say it without care because here the history of racism is different, that doesn't mean it's okay to use it as an insult againts people of said cultures but your cultural rules and yours and yours only, others don't need to follow them in their country.

[@racky-s568]

​@@rene280195 I can't believe you wrote that. The racism in South America is just as bad even though I agree, it is different in certain ways. The concept of using derogatory words that you know are, to describe another human being is moral failing. If you are comfortable with that then so be it; but to make it out to be some cultural norm that somehow should be lauded and or accepted is the height of intellectual dissonance.

[@dont_talk-think]

Anyone who has 80% white ancestors and 20% black ancestors and still calls himself black and not white is 100% disrespectful

[@Rude_i_Wredne]

Definitelly proved himself as a gamer

[@CreoleQ393]

She is beautiful

[@rewghob]

He just wanted to experiment. Next....move on!

[@Mii..]

Exactly

[@Nicolee21356]

Yes I had a white man at hooters begging me to sleep with him. He was like “ Ive never been with a black woman so , pleaseeeeee just 30 minutes “. I literally had to tell him I won’t be your damn experience either so have a nice day sir. WTFFF

[@Mii..]

@@Nicolee21356 The fetishization is creepy and disgusting. Must've been hard to deal with.

[@yamap1]

So weird, I remember swiping a white guy on tinder and he said he "never tried chocolate before" like huh? Some really don't see us as the human beings we are 🤨

[@Nicolee21356]

@@Mii.. I was so shocked I honestly wanted him to get tf out. I was more shocked than mad

[@Tamarindosauc3]

It’s so funny cause they will just casually say things like this the first time you even meet them

[@SpicyPepperon]

This is not an isolated incident. Koreans are the Peasants/Rednecks of the East Asian community, and while we’ve been desperately trying to cover it up for a while with our surface level “culture”, REAL Korean culture is racism, xenophobia, prejudice towards non Asians, bullying, child abuse, and suicide. Those are the real staples of Korea, not prosperity and pop music

[@gcc2313]

I love it because people better expose their true self the first time around so you can run. You don't want them snakes creeping in your life gaining your trust, and then destroying you behind your back breaking your trust.

[@nuuhouse]

What we say in black music and what they see on the social media and TV. Make them act this way....in other words he said I'll fyck you only!...

[@shutapp9958]

@@nuuhouse Nah, they know better, not only that but they’re definitely smart and proficient at least in written English.

[@safffff1000]

@@shutapp9958 He see's black people love using that word so he just wanted to be part her culture, n.

[@GregoryFord98]

In a lot of foreign countries they see popular media (songs, movies, shows) and they hear the word constantly so they don't know the amount of taboo or controversy that surrounds it. Of course some know it's some bad word but some are even unaware of that. I've been to Asia and that's how they saw it. I had a professor from Australia while I was in college at an HBCU and his students over seas saw it the same way. They just thought it was a cool word that meant bro, pal, or friend. My classmates didn't understand how people 9,000 milss away didn't understand American culture. He said over there a similarly bad word was "Abo" but my classmates didn't understand that this was a bad word and said it with abandon. Even friends that moved from Europe thought the same thing. I know in South Africa that the word kaffir has similar racial animous.

[@kelb8780]

Yes they do, it’s 2024. Just like they hear it in songs they also hear how offensive it is across social media. Stop handicapping their actions.

[@mtasubwaymartasubway]

​@@snakeyjaakeWhere in the comment, saying any friggin thing about Snoop dog? you tweaking man

[@MsLady309-xs2ni]

​@@kelb8780No they don't because they are looking at music videos and youth culture in America not deep conversations about history or institutional racism. They are looking at black youth greeting each other "Wassup my N..," with a dap and grin. If I didn't speak the language, didn't understand the history behind it, hear people saying it while looking happy about it, I would conclude that this is a friendly, cool and acceptable way to greet people.

[@Harry-et7dc]

​@@snakeyjaakesource: trust me bro

[@joekujoeswimming789]

Europe prolly has the same thing, but i doubt it would be on the same scale for asia. Personally in my country, alot of people use the hard r casually to describe black people (mostly middle-aged) due to them just not knowing any better. Idk tho, this just goes based off of what i perceive. Of course, this doesn't really lessen the severity, but you can't really blame them for not being taught as they should've been

[@JesusDaLawd]

Korea out here with the true equality

[@sesamstraathooligan9587]

Honestly the best part of this video is the interviewer not interrupting her😂

[@ChubbyCheckhers]

I’ve seen jail sentences end faster than she could muster that damn string of words together.

[@RaveN_EDM]

He should've, she basically said the same sentence 3 different times lol, most people do that when being interviewed so it's normal to interrupt politely to keep it moving.

[@jedxra]

​@@RaveN_EDMsocial anxiety or stress can make you struggle to form words or phrases

[@Igmus]

Instead we have the video editor interrupting us by cutting it off before she could tell the rest of his reaction to her saying why couldn't you just say black.

[@sukaenacornelius9285]

Honestly, idk about the Hard R. I went to school in US so I know its a bad word there. But I live in south Spain, the Spanish word is just normal here. That being said, here they actually are far less lenient than Americans when it comes to being black. If you’re black and wear sports attire and alot of jewelry everyone will speak against you or not talk to you.

[@M4ysFu]

“Babe, I’m pregnant” “No, no kneegah kids!”

[@mizterblicky5569]

Bro tell me why i repeated this in my head before i read your comment 😂😂😂

[@MoeiZDaName]

This shit would be comedy.

[@ulisesreyes6023]

😂

[@fidel2xl]

I'm black, and I almost choked on my drink reading this comment...LMAO

[@KeepRCHN4TheSTRS]

Haha, coming straight out of Hodgetwins voice! Be the best

[@AD-yv6uq]

Yo that’s wild must be a Korean thing because in high school we had a lot of foreign exchange students and I was real cool with this one once we became friends I would show up to school and when he saw me he said yo what’s up my nigga 🤣 I was dying totally caught me off guard and he talked like that like he was American hood or something 😂

[@alariciii4963]

If English isn't their first language and they like rap they may just be copying their favorite rappers without understanding the history of that word.

[@MsLady309-xs2ni]

Did you return the greeting with whatever racial slur Koreans are called? He might understand better if you did. Oh and say it with a smile. Let me know how well that goes.

[@AD-yv6uq]

@@MsLady309-xs2ni that wouldn’t have worked we had calculus together and I remember we had this difficult test he got a 57% on it he was showing me and a few of our friends and going on about how he’s Asian and should be good at it 😂 dude was funny definitely influenced by American culture idk what happened to him he went to college across the country and last I saw it looked like he was into high fashion

[@AD-yv6uq]

@@alariciii4963 that’s really the argument isn’t it even amongst Americans the black community prolonged the use of the world changing it slightly and adding different meaning to it they then brought it into American culture it’s really only been about 10 years now that the word is becoming completely unacceptable I grew up mixed Hispanic and white from the ghetto I had black members of my family too I hung around all Hispanics and we used the word just like the black community we were into black culture as an American there’s just white and black culture we related more to black. It was never a problem with our black friends they talked the same way and black groups are just as racist I remember hanging around in all black groups and they would talk shit about my skin color about who I am it was the black kids who knew me that accepted me and would tell the group I’m Spanish as a way that I’m accepted

[@ZealothXyven]

Man has his priorities straight, nothing is more important than the mother of your children, and vetting her thoroughly is highly important. Some people would never breed with certain people or entire races, that is their preferences. Their bodies are sovereign unto themselves, and only they may choose what is done with and to them.

[@HeisenbergFam]

Imagine dating a black girl and on a date you casually say "I dont want n word kids" right to her face

[@mightquinnable]

Yes

[@cheyb2257]

@@mightquinnablethat’s not normal tf you mean yes???

[@harrisa3128]

As opposed 2 behind her back.😩😂

[@yolandazwane4761]

I think it's just to see if she'll take it so he can continue to disrespect her

[@cashh1004]

Dude is wild for that

[@yaneyrydelfin5959]

I was on a date with a black man once and he said he didn’t date black women bc they were uneducated and ghetto. I’m Mexican but that shit hurt. Blocked his ass, how he gone a be saying that shit when his own momma is black 🙄

[@Psychooncrack8]

The internal racism is strong in some black folks. Particularly black men for some reason or another. Good on you for nipping it at the bud there!

[@brendanskates4life]

@@Psychooncrack8they’re insecure, the white man is preferred in US society.

[@The_Quili]

That clearly shows what he has surrounded himself with. I feel bad for his family.

[@greywitchwanderer9608]

Crazy thing is black women are actually the highest percent of college graduates in the US

[@jazminnicole8085]

thats so dumb. he needs to meet people and get off his ass and shut his damn mouth or else with that mindset he will end up in court with a beautiful black lady deciding the verdict for his life. karma is coming.

[@MrBeen992]

Obviously, the Korean guy did not know he cannot use that word like that.

[@razzaus1570]

An honest man he's a keeper.

[@MoMu00]

Sounds like he's gonna be the one bullying them 😅😂

[@cek128]

In Korea? He doesn’t stand a chance.. unfortunately they would break him mentally.. unless the kid was born here in the US

[@permafrost0979]

The dad. The Korean guy would bully his black kids.

[@KEIR0N]

@@cek128they talking about the Korean man

[@obengsamuel5904]

😂😂😂😂

[@jarek0737]

No, you dont get the fact that in Korea. You are in a country that is not diverse. People are all emotional. No more logic. We can't have a logic thought process.

[@toaster4693]

It's nice when people let you know what kind of person they are so early on.

[@HyperLeChat]

My man, in most languages the N-word is used as a term and is not considered offensive by most.

[@immortalink.9578]

@@HyperLeChatwait who says the n word with a r in they language

[@jaystackz3425]

Most of em racist lowkey not even towards black but everybody thats not their own race

[@Cosmicles]

Exactly

[@spacecake4624]

​@@HyperLeChatwhere did you go to school? Home?

[@erickflair703]

completely understandable

[@Boomier]

Who tf even says “nigga kids” 😂🤦🏾‍♂️

[@bryn1063]

He does apparently 💀

[@davidnelson4347]

Old southern white people

[@ThatGirl409]

racists

[@PyroGothNerd]

Uncle Ruckus

[@mattnoah8309]

That guy apparently

[@hussar7733]

He was like "I ain't gonna sugar coat it"

[@etteosh]

😹😹

[@thequintessentialgamer7514]

That's good, why should you?

[@o_oLISSo_o]

Sugarcoat what exactly?

[@MT-yx5cu]

Are you joking?

[@aliciax5854]

@@MT-yx5cuObviously

[@JesusDaLawd]

Korea out here with Absolute Equality

[@adamg4336]

Dont blame him

[@aya123444]

he's the type to be his own kids first bully. dodged a bullet

[@AlexSummary]

Very bold assumption, but okay. We’ll just believe whatever we want to believe then.

[@CashRules660]

​@@AlexSummaryYeah, we will.

[@melikthegeek]

EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@AlexSummary]

@@CashRules660 Ignorance is bliss

[@swiftumbra2748]

​@@AlexSummaryWhat you think someone who uses a racial slur to describe his future children would be a good parent? Says as much about you as it does about that man.

[@dennismarfo3536]

"They will get bullied..." That guy was at least real and honest

[@Chrisaveri]

And being a bully himself

[@edbrown4800]

@@Chrisaverihe was speaking facts tho

[@Hennessydream]

@@Chrisaveriwho was he bullying? His non existent hypothetical future black kids?

[@danielbattle7620]

@@Hennessydreamhe didn’t need to use the N word. He didn’t even realize it was prejudice

[@Pilafcg]

​@@Chrisaverihow so?

[@xdlol8483]

Dude used an Accompany card from Greed Island

[@PatrickJesp]

Good for him.. Their community clearly doesnt wanna get rid of it either. So why whould he?

[@MrLeFilipfloppyvelarde]

He thought he had the n word pass already

[@RayReyRei]

No, its that alot of asians dont even know the pass even exist 😂

[@jasparta993]

I'm not Asian, nor Black and use this without pass... Word is word.

[@_HOYO]

@@jasparta993a racist word edit: sorry that i offended most of you but i was talking about my country in general not trying to sound rude 👌

[@konom7526]

​@@_HOYOThat ain't racist word in others countries, here in Brazil we say it alot, I'm white and I'm always talking with my black friends using it hahaha

[@alihq1425]

​@@_HOYO you guys make it racist. When we asian say it we just wanna say word that sound cooler. I mean saying the n word is kinda cool to be honest

[@magicskyfairy69]

He probably listened to a couple rap songs, and was like, "ok, I guess that's the word"

[@567Seviper]

Yeah your right. I heard the right way to say Covid was Chinese virus too from a song so that’s what I’m gonna say

[@Kartlos1]

That's exactly what I was thinking when I was a kid! Well, I used to say the n word to address a black person, now I use the n word to be racist.

[@rubendariomena4940]

​@@567Seviperin what song?

[@anonymous-yf6ur]

​@567Seviper but this was a Korean man....

[@jordanyoung6604]

She literally called herself black first, but yeah sure, keep making excuses

[@ajaxmalomimby]

I dont even believe this happened lmao 😂

[@hunnybunny20000]

Boyfriend of 4 years is half Korean half white. His Korean mom can't wait for us to get married and have kids. Honestly so happy that I'm with him and his family is so loving and kind.

[@dewayneadams5270]

Yea for your genetics 🧬 wake up sis

[@cristinamifa6992]

Bro really said, "Don't want you in my bloodline, yeah Just wanna have some good time, yeah" 🎶💀

[@sabrinacarpenter1671]

Underrated comment

[@Patel-Chirag-Gupta]

if he says its because they will be bullied, why are you saying its because of the bloodline? even if its a joke

[@benjaminmudd2071]

@@Patel-Chirag-GuptaThat’s what he said out loud, but that’s not what he meant. It’s very common for people to phrase things differently to not hurt feelings. The N-word in South Korea is not taught as racist.

[@Patel-Chirag-Gupta]

@@benjaminmudd2071 the n word being different in korea doesnt take away the fact he said what he said for the reasons that he said it. he still spoke against having a kid because that kid would get bullied. thats like me saying i wont have a kid in these years because im too poor to take care of a kid. its realization that not being is better than being, but suffering while being.

[@mercyogbee7077]

​@@benjaminmudd2071 Excuses... "Black" is more common than "n-word-", yet he used it....

[@salazar556]

One thing you need to understand is that there is A LOT of racism in Korea, as well as body shaming. If you choose to live there, you need to be careful because trust me, it's a huge culture shock.

[@Yungddhandle]

It's the same "racism" asian people experience in America. It's not racist at all really, you just stand out.

[@BloomBlanche]

​@@YungddhandleOf course you don't find it racist, you haven't experienced it.

[@ThomasSchwietert]

@@BloomBlancheits just a different world i dont think the dude was racist he was willing to go on a dat with a black women. He just knows black people get treated differently and he also probably doesn’t relize what he said was offensive either

[@Jjrd321]

Korea and Japan aren’t “racist” they just never see people that aren’t like them. I’ve worked with Koreans and Japanese citizens multiple times in Japan and in Korea and have never experienced anything close to racism. It for sure is a culture shock but it’s because those countries are very modest culture wise so bringing our culture over there will cause some people to stare cause they’ve only seen our culture online

[@Yungddhandle]

@@BloomBlanche because it's not, it's how you perceive it. Besides that all black people love calling eachother the n word, if ur foreign and u see them calling eachother the n word in a friendly manner you might assume it's a thing you say to friends. You're so unaware, there's a world outside America and not everyone in the world knows the ins and outs of American culture, certainly not what's being deemed as racist or not racist. If it's such a racist thing maybe stop calling each other a word that holds so much weight in your eyes. You're absolutely playing the victim.

[@karl2913]

People forget that the whole world is not America People use that word a lot all over the world much more casually than you would expect

[@ThinkingWoman30]

See and people say “oh they don’t know any better”. This right here shows they know. He said the word not the word being you but the actual word.

[@ORGANPARTY]

Fr, I had a dude come up to me and ask w a big smile if my dad was black American or a n**** I was 12 and was like😟😟

[@dragonleg8700]

​@@ORGANPARTYdamn, sorry to hear that... when I was younger like 12 ,when a white person says go back to Africa and I told to back to Europe, they're speechless 😅😅

[@dondada4L]

@@dragonleg8700funny how when you actually travel to Africa they tell us blacks that we are indigenous to the Americas and that we was already in America before the European invasion

[@jadaw644]

​@@dondada4LSome Black people were, with them being given as slaves or treated like them by other indigenous people, but obviously not all.

[@dondada4L]

@@jadaw644 the not all are mostly island people. 10 million people crossing the Bermuda on wooden ships sounds like bs too. 10 million so called native Americans died from small pox pretty convenient

[@garxgar]

I’m actually dead 😂. They think it’s a regular word because the only time they hear it is in hip hop and American pop culture.

[@bIgMiKeObAmNa]

Why wouldn't they think it's ok when they hear it in pop culture all the time.

[@Prophecy1968]

That word was use far before then.

[@Ghostgaming-rj4sq]

Niga is Korean is you

[@anonymousbo0318]

​@@Ghostgaming-rj4sqThat not what he was saying to her though, goof. Keep up.

[@SPdanig]

​@@bIgMiKeObAmNaThey don't really, American culture is popular over there but not Black Americans. The only time they'll see it is when it's being used a joke in a popular movie

[@_Yoskii]

Respects to him

[@HeisenbergFam]

She didnt dodge a bullet, she dodged a whole nuke

[@cameronlane3567]

So we meet again

[@BrandonOfJapan]

Be gone bot

[@ffreedomvat3737]

they coudlnt tho

[@EnilSsab]

She's lying.

[@EarleTKG]

@@EnilSsabeveryone has a right to an opinion I guess.

[@jccuban1]

They say asians are very direct 😂😂😂

[@darkninjaonizuka]

I be hearing the exact opposite 💀

[@KONEIL1775]

No, no they don't say that lol Easterners in general are the opposite of direct 🤣

[@estelew9496]

Not all of em, but most younger Korean quite racist sometimes. Especially with south/southeast Asian people

[@user-uv9tg6zf9d]

Kinda white ok but black no

[@miti342]

nobody says that.

[@appletimemac]

Okay, I get it’s shocking to us as Americans but that just doesn’t hit as hard in other parts of the world. That’s why.

[@ericrender1986]

Her voice deep at the beginning 😂

[@hotonez4242]

Be happy that there are people who will show you who they really are

[@nuruddinpeters9491]

It sounds like the person was ignorant but perhaps not malicious. Tone matters here. And we dont full context, body language, eye contact etc.

[@pharaohperception9031]

And they will show you unprovoked, without asking even

[@courtneyfadipe1]

Exactly

[@azariocomplex9072]

yup ♡

[@stevenharper7118]

Korea has a different culture, black kids are actually treated like they claim they are treated here in America (with utmost racism)

[@lilahdog568]

Most progressive man in South Korea.

[@giogio9247]

When all black persons refer to other black persons as that word, is kinda obvious someone outside the U.S. will look at it as normal😂

[@devontae7262]

Lmfao

[@jemzjems]

​@giogio9247 ALL black people do not, nor have we ever referred to each other as such. Because a small minority of people do, it doesn't make it acceptable. Your narrative is very skewed.

[@giogio9247]

@jemzjems Yeah yeah, it's all over media bruh. Even races that are not black hace start saying it to refer to each other. The word is little by little losing his real meaning because most of youth and media use this word as if it is common. That's why other people outside the U.S. think it is common to use it.

[@giogio9247]

@jemzjems You saying that black people has never referred to each other as such, but is all over media and songs lmao🤣🫵🏼

[@swagg6301]

She’s gorgeous. F the culture 😂😂

[@thekodawolfgaming]

I mean she ain’t gorgeous to me so I honestly agree I wouldn’t want her either.

[@swagg6301]

@@thekodawolfgaming 👌🏾 congratulations.

[@thekodawolfgaming]

@@swagg6301 it’s funny how you’re complaining about a whole culture and don’t see the hypocrisy in just saying she is gorgeous when obviously she has a toxic personality.

[@ExtremeEnthusiast704]

​@thekodawolfgaming which is?

[@swagg6301]

@@thekodawolfgaming Without a doubt, projection of your reality onto others is second to none. No one will look at the video and say she’s toxic. No one will look at my comment and say I’m complaining.

[@usernamesupa8293]

This shouldn’t be surprising… he’s not the only one that thinks that way

[@jerzwhite4548]

He knew exactly what he was saying

[@Rowlph8888]

How the hell the you Know that? He didn't grow up in WesternCulture and the word is not Taboo in movies, it's used everyw. Popular movies, like "bad boys" make it seem like "cool" Slang

[@benji_san]

Not "exactly" their view of black people is formed from music and tv and it gets used frequently

[@avo1590]

@@Rowlph8888 The day you stop acting like Koreans are oblivious is the day I find peace

[@avo1590]

@@benji_san He’s a grown man and should know the difference between the words

[@Rowlph8888]

@@avo1590 The day you stop Assuming what others mindsets are from a completely different culture and stop projecting your desires onto them, is the day you will Find Peace

[@Sashathebully]

That’s the “check please” 😂

[@popwilly3080]

And hurrup with it✌️

[@shanellem6310]

Forget the check. I would have just left the date & went home.

[@nicholejones1189]

💯

[@turtlesage28]

On Buddha...

[@christophercrockett2972]

Yep😂😂

[@jerm3372]

Hell yeah ik Korea was on the get down

[@johnc.reynoso6238]

She looks so beautiful. I would love to date this woman anyday. She has a nice voice and she is physically fit, also seems to be with the good heart.

[@ghostly_00]

If this were Instagram, this comment section would be filled with that one Lego Batman GIF.

[@goose2088]

It would not, it would be rows and rows of people calling her the N word and agreeing with the Korean Guy.

[@collinharris4848]

​@@goose2088 it would be both as well as that gif of fish making out

[@youcantbeatk7006]

lmao

[@cuck696]

couldnt be anymore accurate

[@kristoffer8609]

@@goose2088 Based

[@McQueen1217]

He answered her like she was proposing her ovaries, smfh.

[@HKona7]

And ? Atleast he was honest 😂

[@mankou-hunter]

Dawwwg....not her ovaries ☠️

[@malakhi3836]

@@HKona7yeah, but it was uncalled for and extremely rude

[@galacticalove]

Quoting this the next time I get a chance 💀

[@alexanderbellini2526]

​@@malakhi3836A lot of people around the world dont know that it's a racial slur they just think its slang for black person. No one else other than black people in western or westernised etc countries goes around calling themselves and other people of their race a racial slur. I know foreign people who literally thought it was slang for friend, and they asked why on earth would they calll themselves a slur, thats the stupidest thing they have ever heard of.

[@janthomlaw1407]

He should have never used that word, but he was telling the truth.. especially in Korea.

[@alexesjohnson4229]

Honestly I’m glad she didn’t end up with him bc he would have been his child’s first bully

[@never2muchluther803]

Why would she even go out on a date with this racist in the first place?

[@CrazyLife92287]

This!

[@CellsAgent420]

WRONG!

[@tigerslick1111]

@@CrazyLife92287 the children would have to exist in order for him to be their father. So your statement doesn’t make any sense.

[@jane4670]

Cry more he's right

[@barovan]

I am a English teacher overseas and I constantly have to tell students how unacceptable that word is to Americans. They have no clue.

[@iandavidvillaloboswong5180]

Every country outside of the anglosphere doesnt care about it. Its just another insult like anything else

[@iLikePineTrees]

an*

[@lonefinch2127]

@@iandavidvillaloboswong5180Cultural context is important.

[@Tech-NOOB]

​@@lonefinch2127agrees but black artists use it more often 🙂 for wider spread ?

[@chopsticks7751]

@@Tech-NOOBsome black people view it as a term of endearment but in reality it kinda just makes them seem uneducated

[@trickydxck7520]

I don’t either. Smart man

[@user-xw6mh6pr8d]

The vast majority of the world wouldn’t either 😂

[@ilovelamp521]

The honesty saved her time

[@evalovett]

Omg yes. She dodged a huge bullet.

[@inplane9970]

@@evalovett Dodged a whole nuclear warhead fr.

[@slimydick23]

she still got it on with him though

[@ilovelamp521]

​@@slimydick23 lol well... at least she knew what she was getting herself into😂

[@bespokepenguin103]

@@slimydick23 Imagine putting up with all that disrespect only to find out he got a toothpick. 😖

[@blackout8777]

dude went straight into having kids like bro she just met you 😂😂😂😂

[@jeffm1083]

She asked the question lol

[@o2monte84]

That part!! Lol

[@blackout8777]

@@jeffm1083 oh well damn 😂

[@Twin_Dragon_Fists]

​@@jeffm1083She did not ask him anything about kids. She only asked him about dating black women.

[@tempoaccla4041]

but he was honest was he supposed to just get into a possible relationship with her and tell her later that he doesn't want black kids?

[@playingwithkash2134]

Damn her voice deep af

[@jerzyotulakowski6984]

That one is the goat 😂

[@mynameisjeff5267]

On the bright side, he let you know straight up that he wasn't serious about you

[@laugomes7266]

What you mean Bright SIDE ? 🤣🤣🤣

[@Shmaples]

​@laugomes7266 meaning she did t waste any time on his racist ass. The best red flags are the obvious ones that send you packing. The worst are the ones you find later after you develope feelings and a relationship with a person.

[@laugomes7266]

​@@ShmaplesHumm you right 💯🎯

[@MightBeNoir]

@@ShmaplesIon think you got the joke buddy

[@justaturky2890]

Uhhh

[@almightysosa3007]

He said “I don’t want any basketball people sorry”

[@broswagonist1768]

I’m done 😂

[@strai.]

Why doesn’t he want any lego 11031 kids?

[@maxexist4763]

Why have I been seeing the words basketball people be used so recently now And I've only seen it in like racist comments sections under shorts that are either endorsing or attacking race

[@nxmx6ix]

Nice, he was very clear about it.

[@leaveleague3491]

It's just a word. Cry about it. I'm korean and I say it all the time

[@kingbreezy300]

Sound like one of them transmissions

[@toontownbradley9618]

Bro I'm currently in Asia as a black person watching this 😭 🤣

[@Etendard1708]

Avoid East Asia, go to Southeast Asia they will accept you gal/bro

[@VijayThakurMD]

Act normal don't loot or disrespect others.

[@discardedlotus1014]

@@VijayThakurMDyeah i get the crime stuff, but you’re aware that any race is capable of being disrespectful just as much right, like you with your back handed advice?

[@Kingwalkk187]

@@discardedlotus1014fr wassup with dude😂

[@toontownbradley9618]

@VijayThakurMD same advice goes for you too fellow human being

[@user-hv6on6dk4j]

He knew exactly what he was saying. He did not deserve any of that ladies time.

[@linkonabe220]

Korea is not the US. The US has a history with that word, not Korea. In addition, Korea takes heavy influence from US entertainment where black *and* white artists use the word. So, who are they suppose to listen to here? If it's fine saying it in a song, to your friends, on the block, what's the problem? There's no consensus in the US about using the word. It's not owned by anyone. Not even a majority of black people care when others use it You can't make up rules and use r-ism to say one race can say or do something, but another can't It's either an okay word to use or it's not. Right now, the US is all about using it in every bit of the country, regardless of race, while playing the PC game of "respecting black people" in front of cameras by insulting those who use it, even though they took part in the culture for decades. It's a game, and the ones losing are the ones playing If you want to be a clown, joining it is all you gotta do The rest of us just go about our day and do what we gotta do, ignoring those who think a words the issue with what's going on rather than the lack of education, food and shelter that many people have. But keep playing. The words the issue here. Right? Not the other things that truly affect us all. Money, food, shelter, cr*me. There are not real things to be concerned about.

[@PaperParade]

@@linkonabe220Just as you wish someone wouldn’t speak for all, you probably shouldn’t do the same. Also, you don’t know the majority of black people. Unless you can show me studies that prove the majority of black Americans don’t mind it, I don’t think you should go making that claim.

[@vOID-fh1qt]

@@linkonabe220American media is HUGE in Korea. They know what that word means, they aren't stupid.

[@thecrow4597]

Nigghur is not inherently a bad word it is simply a description. Stop projecting.

[@linkonabe220]

@vOID-fh1qt Key words "American Media" American media is not America You people don't understand the vast differences between media and life. It's Americans who claim it to mean American media represents them when it does not. Does the media reflect who you are? Does it reflect your beliefs? Does it reflect what's going on in your life? Does it reflect what happens with American people from their day to day? Does it reflect American values and traditions? Does it reflect American ideologies? Or is it just a form of entertainment to watch and consume in order to escape what you're going through? If you honestly can say that American media reflects your life, it is a lie. Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat etc all is what they consume and they follow the celebrities. The media lies every ten seconds, and Korea is not consuming American news outlets. That's not what that means by "American media" They consume the entertainment system in American and watch what the American entertainment system puts out. Keep in mind, Korea is also far from PC. They do not spend time consuming woke American media. The majority does not subscribe to that broke ideology. It is the American media that is classic and timeles that they follow American hip hop and shows alike. Those showing both black and whites using the word. Why do you think kpop is based so much off of hip-hop?

[@bigcookwilburn3981]

she's beautiful btw

[@Neo-fb5ry]

marry her bro, what is stopping you

[@baluchon2505]

​@@Neo-fb5ryRemember guys, you have to marry anyone you find beautiful

[@Yikkoofficial]

It’s crazy how intensely colorist Korean culture can be sometimes. I’m sure I would be considered “dark” out there too.

[@jennifertiller6937]

The interviewer almost grabbed his pearl necklace in shock 😅😅😅

[@alexanderbellini2526]

*It's really not that shocking, a lot of people from other countries don't know it's a slur* I know people from other countries who think the word means friend.

[@JhurzaEugene]

@@alexanderbellini2526I’m not trying to have no “friend child”

[@sdust251977]

Ok, English is the guy second language, but perhaps he doesn't know the weight of the N word. You only know the true meaning if you live in America, and I mean TRUE meaning.. Sorry, but she lacks awareness.

[@peterporkeresq.2817]

@@JhurzaEugene 😅 These idiots will say anything won't they?

[@brianstevensii938]

​@@alexanderbellini2526STOP IT!

[@DarkDS0ul]

I salute that Korean for not backing down 🫡

[@izzyrawlings4070]

I love people who let others fully finish what they’re saying before speaking.

[@ChubbyCheckhers]

I’ve seen jail sentences end faster than she could muster that damn string of words together.

[@geo3014]

@@ChubbyCheckhersso did you copy paste to comment this multiple times or did you fully type it out again

[@StarcatMkV]

​@@geo3014 Does anyone but you care?

[@luckytiggertalia]

​@@StarcatMkV i care babe

[@joestar5113]

Me neither

[@ambrosiusmalachai5403]

its crazy people expect everbody to have the same culture and ideas.

[@allthingsfootball3450]

Love her voice. 💯♥️