Dating in Mexico | Looking For Love in Mexico | My Own Personal Experience

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

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[@JoseArteagaTravels]

@Zodiac Dracula Yes thank you so much! I actually just got great news the other day that i don't need surgery after all! I started taking it easy on my knees, other stretches and physical therapy and rest and taking things like glucosamine has been helping tremendously! I have already lost close to 80lbs but i definitely need to lose some more and well just continue my treatment and most likely won't need any surgery. I know of the dangers of surgery and always try to find alternatives. I only had 1 doctor out of the multiple I've seen out here recommend it and it was a doctor with close ties to the US. But all Mexican doctors offer better alternatives and treatment. Right now everything I'm taking is organic and natural and it's working wonders and was all prescribed by a surgeon. Anyways thanks again i already follow many of the procedures you mentioned and yeah at the end of the day there is no magic pill just patience and doing the right thing. 🙂

[@earthmancometh7416]

Hey Jose, very well said. And to add on to your high opinion of Mexican girls, it's that they are not afraid to show you that they are interested in knowing you, as it's natural to do. It's a great feeling when a girl smiles at you and says "Hola!" ...and it makes it easier to approach them. Back in the states that's considered to be an old-fashioned, anti-feminine sign of desperation, or even just some chick looking for sex...hence the reason relationships are so f'd up back home. And thank you for sharing real and important information...it's good stuff! Peace.

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Yes that is a great point! Women out here will let you know immediately whether they are interested or not! 😅

[@LOREANN-NAVARRO]

Bonito matrimonio usted y su esposa, cuídela mucho 🤗 Great video, great info ! Love being 100% Mexican 🇲🇽

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Muchas muchas gracias!

[@KB-oi8km]

Excellent topic and video Jose. Yes as an American I can say through experience that dating in the states is a monster especially with my generation and younger. Not to say that there are no good women in America but it is very slim. I met my girlfriend and soon to be wife in Mexico and the experience and love is like no other I came across.

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Awesome brother thanks for sharing your story! Viva Mexico!

[@KB-oi8km]

@@JoseArteagaTravels Viva Mexico!

[@delac9864]

I feel offended. I do not consider myself a bad woman

[@MotivationalMovements]

Amen brother...so true. It’s like night and day...for the better!

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

You know it!

[@ImprovingAbility]

Wow that was the most deserted street scene I’ve seen in a while! (not counting the lockdowns) Greetings from Saigon, Vietnam

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Yeah I filmed this a long time ago during the middle of the pandemic and on a Sleepy Sunday thats why no one is out

[@Tina23Taurus]

great topic as so many are looking for the love connection...especially in these times! Seeing you both in a happy relationship is warming to the heart! May you both forever be blessed in your connection that is divinely guided. Im 50 plus and I have no desire for companionship other than with the Divine, as one grows older desires can change...I feel happy as an independent woman walking her path. Bless.

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Thank you so much for the kind words!

[@Tina23Taurus]

love is a beautiful thing, I just did the dna testing and found out if have ancestry in the state of Jalisco! Im so looking forward to exploring this homeland!

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

@@Tina23Taurus Awesome! congrats! You might be able to also get your Mexican Citizenship as well!

[@Tina23Taurus]

@@JoseArteagaTravels that would be amazing!!!!

[@mjc42701]

Love the green screen. I'm married so..but I agree, the way society is in the U.S. it makes it harder for men (that's what she said) to date or find a real partner, tell me if I am wrong but I think women in Mexico feel free to be what they want and still be a woman, they still want family and still take care of their husbands but let a man be a man and not emasculate him, just as the men there respect their wives, it can still be found in the U.S. but it's just uncommon now.

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Yuppers that's basically it!

[@brayansanchez9428]

Good shit ! Excuse my language but this was so insightful

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Glad it was helpful!

[@hannaha4305]

I think you may see a difference in younger generation compared to a bit older generation in both men and women, their expectations and even cultural changes. It may have happened a bit slower in a place like Mexico that is heavily Catholic influenced still. I'm happy you found your person there and wish you many years of happiness.

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Thank you for the kind words and thanks for sharing!

[@myinspirations777]

I enjoy everything you do so just do your thing.

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Thank you! Much appreciated!

[@wg6377]

Great topic bro , always great videos , cheers

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Thank you!

[@BobbyinPSP1]

This was a VERY NICE video Jose. I really enjoyed your purple hair & beard and the blue/green screen with all the homes as you drove by; very enjoyable content and I enjoyed your story of love and respect for Christian. Very nice. I also love the culture of Mexico and Central America; the family unit. And the food; you know, you should be selling hamburgers or hotdogs with chili or sauerkraut outside at the edge of your driveway; why not? Everybody else is and you are a good cook. Think about it; maybe it's about time people came to you for something good to eat. I'll bet your neighbors would love it. The idea is making me hungry! And it would give you more time to rest your knee. The other thing I really enjoyed was how everybody had pride in their home; as a master gardener, I love to see how people landscape their yards. Question: Where was that neighborhood? It was very nice.

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Awesome! Thanks for watching!

[@cpeeps7528]

Senior Black woman living here in the Yucatán looking for love. It feels impossible!

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Check some of the Local Singles Expat Groups 🙂

[@paulbucklebuckle4921]

Sending you a hug from England...

[@Rain-ec4jj]

Hi Jose, if I visit TJ from Los Angeles by car is there a high risk of being rob? Somebody told me I should go to TJ because most people there know basic english. I don't know enough Spanish yet

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Just use common sense and you should be fine

[@squirrelmanager]

@Jose Arteaga Travels, dude! the driving recording behind you is recorded in the Mexican town that I live in! What are the odds, lol!

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Awesome!

[@cliftonbarker9168]

Maybe I missed it, but how did you actually meet Christian? Were ya'll using a dating app or friends hooked you two up, or just saw a pretty girl and asked her out? I didn't really here dating apps discussed in the video, that's what I was expecting. Great channel, love all your videos!!!

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

I met her on Tinder we matched one afternoon, we chatted a bit, met that night and the rest is history 😅

[@ok.fine.]

I’m going to start heavily dating when I get there

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Awesome! Good luck!

[@chriskuk4597]

Amorcito 😍

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Jijijiji Amorchita! ❤️😍

[@joenewontheblock2404]

Te quiero...

[@michaelking4578]

Mexican ladies are lovely.

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Thanks for sharing!

[@hannaha4305]

Good grief your view of women saying they get married to rich guys just to divorce them and ruin their lives, as if abuse doesn't happen from men to their partners in latin countries.

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

When I mentioned that I was talking about the USA where I come from.

[@patriciamoraled2004]

Its true . American women are the worst

[@sweendawg7274]

​@@JoseArteagaTravelstotally!!!

[@humbertgarcia5679]

great vid bud..

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Thank you!

[@jleveque9979]

Power of the pink primo.... love the video. Rub some pulque on that knee and just a pinch of mota. Keeping it real 🍻👊🏽🇲🇽

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Thanks brother!

[@Freebirdjack69]

I just got my new passport In the mail today coming down in about 2 weeks I'm excited for whats to come and finally be out of the crazy US

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Awesome Congratulations!

[@josephurso9098]

I felt like I was on a merry go round watching this vid....Dizzy..

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Thanks for your input! I honestly thought it was tooo slow basically crawling through the City! Lets see what everyone else says!

[@fu6461]

Me 2 lol 😆

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

I guess if this makes anyone out there Dizzy it might not be a good idea to try VR "Virtual Reality"

[@fu6461]

@@JoseArteagaTravels yeah lol. But maybe someone else might really love it tho.

[@earthmancometh7416]

@@JoseArteagaTravels I think it's the angle of the video. Although I didn't get dizzy, it didn't flow in a forward direction and didn't make as much sense. Your bike rides are perfect for seeing the area...and should be simple to do without any major knee issues. Otherwise, it's a great idea!

[@Rain-ec4jj]

I'm a good person and not bad looking but my conversational skill is not as good as others. Will Mexican girl want me? My income is low also. I live in US and I keep getting rejected by American women because I don't make as much as they are...

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

If you are good kind hearted person then you will be fine out here in Mexico 🙂

[@series9193]

How did you meet your wife ? How long were you guys boyfriend/girlfriend? When did you meet her family? Maybe I missed it but I didn’t get any of that !!

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Great Question! I met her in Mexico! We dated almost a year before we got Married in Jan of 2020. Theres more information on my story in this video kzbin.info/www/bejne/i4Taq31urtOfers

[@series9193]

@@JoseArteagaTravels nope just checked another 50 min video you told me nothing other than you met Christian in Mexico great !! Was it at a grocery store ? From a fender bender? From an introduction from the lady who does your laundry? Dating site? Which one ? The title “looking for love in Mexico/ my own personal experience “ you’ve told us nothing !!

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

@@series9193 I met her on Tinder. I thought I mentioned that. My apologies I made these videos years ago

[@series9193]

@@JoseArteagaTravels 👍🏿

[@mp5659]

How does the language barrier effect dating? I speak a lot of bad Spanish but I can communicate. And what about older Mexican women?

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

A long as you can communicate don't worry. If anything it just adds to the charm. If you want to know more about the older dating scene out here I would suggest you check out the Facebook groups for more info. In fact you can see many happy expats with their Mexican partners there as well

[@tonitaromero5558]

Merida esta lleno de mujeres independientes

[@AmericanEmpiric]

In your opinion, what are the best ways to meet women and get dates in Mexico?

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Learn Spanish and talk to them

[@sweendawg7274]

The strip clubs

[@Ciudadana_Del_Mundo]

I love hearing and seeing how you are in your relationship with Christian, she appears to have a lot of the same qualities I have, I am strong, want to see women succeed and be treated equally, and also like that i’m more interdependent than anything and love the latino family bond, and I love that you allow her to be who she is. I know that this was catered to the wonderful men out there but I was curious if the roles were reversed, do u think a Mexican man would be open to those same qualities in a woman, who wants to be part of his world and culture etc but is strong and has her own life/interests going on? I am curious because I am strong but I still believe that I have all those loving, emotional open qualities Christian has and I mean no offense, I know women have come a long way but alot of men here seem to think that I no longer want to be seen or treated like a woman just because I work hard know who I am what I want and don’t think a man should be the only thing in your world, and I get frustrated...sometimes I think that whole concept of being gentle and feminine and loving isnt even a thing here anymore especially for a woman who knows when its time to hold her own! Wow im sorry if that was long LOL I’m just curious to hear ur opinion if i have one. Thanks for another great video Jose!

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Well all I can say is that i have seen many success stories in reverse as well and all you can do is come out here and try. But I know what you mean, back home its not like the guys you have to pick from are the cream of the crop. But in all honesty Some men out here can handle a strong independent woman and can be a great compliment to someone like you. But like I said all you can do is come out here and try and see how it works for you

[@Ciudadana_Del_Mundo]

@@JoseArteagaTravels Oh ok thats really good to know, thanks for ur input!

[@tonypalomino4253]

"the good stuff" lol

[@dwkeelan]

Do you mind a plug for Single in....

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Of course not! Go right ahead brother! In fact maybe we can do another video together where you can tell everyone all about it and we can discuss the topic even further!

[@Rain-ec4jj]

Are there many Mexican girls that don't want to have kids? I just want be with them and have a good life together

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Yes there are plenty that want to have kids and plenty that dont, I don't have an exact number

[@mirceacluj6539]

Jose, you are young, but what about us, the old hound dogs? We want 18-22 years old! What is the deal, or the last resort is Asia? Cheers!

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Well what you are looking for you can find anywhere on earth, you just need money. Also if that is what you are looking for, then everything I said goes out the window, at that point what you are looking for is more like "paid help, not love" that is not what I was talking about in this episode. No 22 year old wants to be with a dirty old man unless you plan on being her sugar daddy. With that being said you better have more than just your social security check other wise there are plenty of other single retirees out there that would love to hang out with you and play some shuffle board.

[@josephurso9098]

You need to go to Phillipines, Thailand, or Vietnam for unlimited numbers

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

@@josephurso9098 Not in todays world. Even those places are drying up in this internet age. A 22 year old asian girl will already be online and is already expecting a certain lifestyle. Anyone over 60 dating a 22 year old and thinking its pure love is out of their minds. At that point both parties have a mutual agreement as to how they will "support" each other

[@josephurso9098]

@@JoseArteagaTravels either way.. Something sleazy about old expats taking up with young, poor province girls just to have someone wash their socks... Ughhh.

[@joenewontheblock2404]

@@JoseArteagaTravels you are jealous...😂😂😂

[@paulbucklebuckle4921]

Whaaaa...

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

😎

[@ggukrzy]

Dude Jose, I’m singe and I dislike dating here in LA

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Yeah brother I feel you. Of all the places I lived that was the worse for dating by a mile!

[@fu6461]

Single like a pringle 🐦

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

LOL

[@Hitman-tk6en]

The big difference I seen between women is American women are very shut off if you ask them out and your not their type or what they want they shut you off but in Mexico they at least say what the heck let’s go out see if something happens and I’m not saying the American way is wrong but the Mexican way is much healthier cause women are emotional and build attachment by …… been around someone and men build attachment by looks and visuals

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Yes for sure it is very different situation out here

[@pamelathomas6822]

What about a woman in her 50's,on disability moving there trying to find a man?

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

What about them? I spoke about it in the video, you can also find someone out here

[@cocojumbo197]

Try DR, bring cash

[@cocojumbo197]

From what i see most Mexicans have indian blood(Maya, Azteca). You dont get many whites or blacks? Everyone got that uniform look if you know what i mean. They kinda look like Asians, if you see Mexican in Indonesia they wouldnt stand out that much until they open their mouth😊

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

I guess you have never seen real Mexican People lol Plenty of Mexicans are whiter than snow and every color in between. In fact just as diverse as the USA. But i guess since you have never been to Mexico you have never seen that and only see what you want to see which is everyone the same color. Hope you aren't color blind if you are my apologies.

[@chatohead]

Tell them to watch out for the ladyboys.

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

They don't have too many of those out here like in Asia. It it rare to find that kind of culture out here

[@julietschida9114]

Well, your wife didn’t have to worry about that with you right?? Marrying a rich guy and getting pregnant 🤣 Wow

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Yeah if you watch my channel long enough you can see how we met and I was starving out here barely able to make rent. So we met back when we had nothing and actually built everything we have now together. She is my ride or Die

[@pascalfo6014]

Good luck with your nee man

[@JoseArteagaTravels]

Thanks it is much better now! Over 3 years later 😅

[@pascalfo6014]

@JoseArteagaTravels lol apparently did not realize you grow old well lol