Dating in Thailand vs The West (Traditional vs Modern)

[@iPaulLee]

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[@John-d5k7c]

Does this cost? & if so , how much?

[@allisonn6027]

As a woman in the West, I can understand why men would want to date abroad. Most here are brainwashed by radical feminist ideology, for that same reason i find it hard to make quality female friends

[@metubenoggin07]

Go ahead and say it, you're a REAL woman in the west. I hope you know much men value you.

[@thefuturAI]

Thank you as a man for speaking the truth 🙏🏾

[@ralpholiver8512]

Whoever you are. I definitely agree

[@woodspirit98]

My American wife of twenty years made me lunch once when someone asked her what did she give her husband for lunch, she pulled out a packet of saltines from her purse and tossed them at me. My current filipina wife takes care of me in ways i never imagined. Makes sure i take my medicine every day, have something to eat every day, actually treats me with love and respect.

[@RollinOStopCEO]

I had a Filipina that took care of me the same way but my mistake was being flexible with her going into the world and even getting a job and making more friends. That was my downfall. These "friends" convinced her she can do better. So she acted on that. That's when the lies and deceit and decline of all the she started doing with me.

[@STRAYD0G187]

@@RollinOStopCEO Sorry that happened to you. Herd this story many times. That’s why I feel it’s better stay in their country where they keep their traditions and values. If they come to the states, chances are they will likely go to work, make friends and learn the same ideology western women have. That’s the sad truth.

[@Arcane_98]

That's great to hear man

[@aniwee17]

Why does it sounds like you are looking for a mom? Not to be disrespectful, but some men do have mommy issue and need a mother like figure in their lives.

[@Frivals]

​@@RollinOStopCEOin Philippines or abroad? Must specify

[@ThailandThomas]

I came to thailand 25 years ago. Married my thai girlfriend after four months. That would never happen in the USA. I would never think about dating a western woman again.

[@mali447]

We’d think this is a recent phenomenon. It’s getting worse, for sure (even in South Africa, where I’m from). Either you had the foresight to notice that 25 years ago, or it was still there but it just got worse in more recent times.

[@anki2451]

@@myyt8006 if I remember right i saw his comment somewhere else and that he married a massage girl. he got lucky in that regard

[@giannilyanicks1718]

cause he has a lot of money

[@normal_human]

​@@giannilyanicks1718Opinions are like assholes.. everyone's got one.

[@SRC692]

I'll never understand why people get so mad at passport bros. If you're not willing to date these guys and be what they're looking for why are you mad for them going to search for what they want specifically? Everyone has their own wants and needs when it comes to a relationship 🤷‍♂️

[@myronbourne6937]

Because they can't do what we do. It's all Jealousy at the end of the day

[@YourHineyness]

Men are not allowed to have wants and needs. That is reserved for females only. Equality.

[@overclocked1290]

No one likes it when the vending machines refuses orders. They don’t want these men specifically as the main course but the occasional snack (convenience). Bit more utility is better than less.

[@SLOBeachboy]

Actually, I did not even know that anyone was mad at them. If they are mad however it might have something to do with the fact that many of these guys are constantly badmouthing Western women, as they stupidly think that their own limited personal experiences with Western women are somehow a representation of all of the hundreds of millions of Western women out there. Instead of looking within themselves for why they are having troubles with women they simply blame it all on the women. Anyway, as someone who has been traveling to and living in Asia for over 40 years now, I have obviously come across many of these guys and personally I never had a problem with them. What I DO have a problem with however is that now that we have finally come up with a name for these types it is something as totally retarded sounding as “passport bros”. In fact, I refuse to even use this term when I talk about these guys because is just sounds so utterly moronic.

[@GinJ1337]

passport bros don't care about criticism from western women. they won't have anything to do with them again

[@dlhanson51]

As a 73 year old who has been married to a Chinese Malaysian wife for 51 years, you are 100% CORRECT!!!!!

[@rufflesal]

Good for you sir!

[@lanhoawild3234]

Your points of view about modern day female entitlement is sadly true. Feminine strength isn't in bashing traditional values; it's representing those values with dignity. That's beautiful.

[@Frivals]

8:33 i hate these stupid tests, it destroy any type of connection 🤯

[@bigstick8699]

Refreshing to see women who embrace this truth and not try to bash it. ❤

[@jomontanee]

I can’t say for any Asian women, I can say only for my nationality THAI. In Thailand women work so 80% of households here have 2 incomes. But we Thai women never act like we are superior. We respect our men, treat them well, be feminine and appreciate chivalry. ❤ I find it quite odd that many “housewives” in America act like they are the empresses and their husbands are just peasants.

[@metubenoggin07]

Will you marry me?

[@DonThompson1964]

Lived in USA for 55 years. Loved in the USA for 26+ years and lost 1/2 my stuff. lol. Then all the new girls were too entitled. Moved to Thailand 4 years ago and have a great life and a lovely girlfriend. Just as you described it.

[@iPaulLee]

Losing 1/2 of everything is way too common for men in the west. Glad you found a good life here!

[@TheChadNapier]

@@iPaulLeelosing 1/2 in minimum 😂😂😂

[@DaBooster]

You are fortunate you lost 50% of your stuff. I lost 70% 😂

[@Frivals]

​@@DaBoosterit could go worse, lose 100% and go to jail for some false accusations

[@cjack202003]

Reread your first two sentences

[@dronepilot1840]

You are SPOT ON. I spent 2 months in Thailand this past summer and I now know what a feminine woman really is. I cannot wait to go back and I will retire in Thailand. I do come from the US and until you travel to Asia you will never really understand what we are saying.

[@rishabhrohit]

I am an Indian living in the SF. While living the US improved my grooming drastically which opened good amount of dating options for me but I never connected with either Indian or American girls that I dated. I was in Thailand for 2 months and what an experience. All the girls I met were really sweet and had such a genuine desire for me that I never experienced before. I am seriously considering moving to Thailand in the next couple of years.

[@henry-5676]

Did u go to Pattaya? Thai girls normally dont like Indian men

[@selenaclarke]

I really respect your bravery in making this video. You're right, theres nothing more beautiful than that perfect balance of caring

[@stevef7798]

Paul - very well articulated. Well done. I've been living in and out of Asia for 20+ years, and I've observed women, particularly in Asia, describe themselves as "simple" and "family oriented". Simple being there way to describe themselves as traditional. While a woman in the the West would consider the word Simple as an insult.

[@BenS-z2o]

I'm in United States citizen. Most of the country has lost their damn mind. And 80% of the women are horrible. You're spot-on brother

[@giannilyanicks1718]

you barely explain yourself , toxic miso

[@josephd4066]

HIT the nail on the head man. Dating is miserable here…especially in Los Angeles. Doing everything in my power to get out there permanently

[@tonyariel168]

thanks for being genuine, I can relate what you had shared from my own encounters in Singapore.

[@nobeerlion3991]

Passport Bros has been happening in Europe for over 30 years now, accelerating in the last 10 years. All my buddies are with foreign girls.

[@Cameronnp]

As a Korean I understand what you are saying, Ladies support men a lot in underdeveloped countries but not that much in Western countries, If a man lives in a poor country man gets more caring and lovingness more. I see those phenomenons when Korea grows developing Thailand is the best country that I consider myself a real man and live in happy family as ❤

[@ricepaddyreasons]

Get it, Brother! 100% truth in this video! Keep winning! Passports Up! 🤘 ✈️

[@tronwars7130]

Passport Bro's is actually a new name for an old concept of men finding foreign woman or a life in a foreign country. It's only in recent years that this has accelerated because all western countries and western woman have very little to offer many of these men and so now we are seeing much larger numbers of men do this. Passport Bro's is a handy umbrella term for it all, but men for decades have been actually doing this and it started way before black men.

[@digitalleighton]

Right there with you brother. Was married in the US and pretty much never got a meal made for me by my EX. Dated in Thailand, most of my gfs cooked for me or brought food for me and gifts without asking. I can count on 2 fingers the amount of times I got gifts from any of my western exes put together, much less a cooked meal.

[@Frivals]

Married and never got a meal made by your wife? 😂😂😂🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯😂😂😂😂 Tell me he is lying

[@digitalleighton]

@@Frivals sadly, I’m not brother.

[@Frivals]

@@digitalleighton why did you stay married after first day? No logic, what did you get from it? You can get cheaper prostitutes for sex when you want it

[@HenryMeier-d1b]

was it in Bkk or a small town?

[@digitalleighton]

@@HenryMeier-d1b Bangkok

[@carey8250]

Brothah great video, and thanks for posting this well needed video. Just got got from Thailand, and wow, what a difference in the beauty, feminine & kind qualities I experienced there! Now I'm back home in Hawaii, which is about as good as the usa can get, and I'm nonstop thinking of how I can get back to Thailand asap 😅 Appreciate your sharing all the great info🤙🏽 Thai women, are incredible Mahalo

[@metubenoggin07]

The truth should never be controversial. Thanks Paul for telling it like it ABSOLUTELY is!

[@roberttiffany5896]

I'm a second generation immigrant to America. Father was adopted in the late 70s here. My wife and I are working on moving our three sons and our daughter out of America, crazy to think how hard every was fighting to get here and now, we're trying to save our children from it. I don't want my children to be engulfed in the machine. We're going in the Spring to Hua Hin, Thailand to look and see how we like it. Thank you for getting the word out man, your videos are great! Also I'm not an old guy either, I'm 34 and my wife is 30 so lots of time to do lots of things in a happier place.

[@timothyy7]

I'm also a passport bro escaping NYC to go stay with my trad gf in Vietnam. Obviously, I agree with everything you said but the indoctrination in USA is a crazy turn off.

[@martypoll]

When I first visited Thailand, from the San Francisco Bay Area, I very definitely visually noticed that the woman here were more feminine. That is, not the trend toward androgyny in the US. At 60 years old I did meet a wonderful Thai woman and we have been together 6 years and married for 4 years. I have no plans to leave Thailand.

[@AMan-jg8rf]

So much absolute truth spoken here. I am trying to have these conversations with a number of people these days but they certainly don’t like to hear it! Keep up the good work 👌🏽

[@Going2bangkok]

This is the most real video I’ve seen for a while. Spot on!

[@johnosby2257]

Thank you. I am black man married here in the US. An now i am sad because wife has become a partial feminist. but still wants me to be a traditional man. i will not go in to details but leave it at this. Thank you. i showed this to my wife. let say she didn't like any of this.

[@iPaulLee]

Best of luck to you brother

[@AZ-ph4fs]

Hope you find happiness. The double standard here is riduculously even in Aus. I'm assuming it's the same in any western nation. The left has gone too far to the point where men are still expected to hold traditional values whilst women aren't.

[@tedkuan]

i hear you. I'm actually in Thailand now. I moved here late last year.

[@hafadude69]

I can really relate to everything this dude is saying. Glad you were able to find happiness.

[@Exploring_Adventures]

1000000% SPOT ON. Great video and I love your channel.

[@angeloaag]

My boy Paul Lee we literally have a community dedicated to helping men improve their lifestyle and ready to leave the west. I hope I get to meet you someday. Got crazy life stories you’d probably enjoy.

[@PrometheanKitchen96]

My uncle ended up in Thailand and he's married to a Thai girl as well and he's very happy himself and here in the west we call what women play mental games with men like a s*** test and in their view you're not allowed to fail it not even once My uncle said that I should come down to Thailand with him and seeing about try getting a girlfriend or possibly if future wife there instead of here in Canada which is similar to the US when it comes to toxic femininity

[@difference018]

Previously only military/retired men had access to foreign women. Now there is a rise in remote work and countries offering digital nomad visas so younger men can travel without having to take vacation days at their office job or being flithy rich.

[@user-zr2lg8tl9h]

I really like your pacing and delivery. I also appreciate the way you capture your adventures and sentiments. I hope you continue to make content. Thanks

[@iPaulLee]

Thank you! Will do!

[@Samsaraindo]

I agree!

[@maxiimillion33]

Nalied it bro, happy you found the right person in your life. All the best from Canada.

[@luisRoma747]

Hello Paul, you described my ex wife, I am retiring in two years and moving to Jomtien, the reason I am moving to Jomtien is I love the beach and the cost of living is so much better in Thailand. I visited Thailand this year for two weeks and love it, I will be going back in Nov-Dec. 2023. Maybe I can invite you to dinner. Thank you for your honesty from your perspective you are telling & speaking 100% TRUTH

[@pigedehekkan]

What you say is so true in so many ways. It's so sad that there are so many hypokritts and that it's not possible to discuss this in a normal way.

[@timocrafunzio]

Very nice video! Great work 👍 I am living here in Thailand since 2010 and have to say that your video is very accurate!

[@bsd1158]

my girl is mixed, half thai half white american but raised in thailand. best of both worlds tbh

[@soulstice69]

All facts my friend and well said!! I have lived in Thailand for 2 years. I moved from here from Los Angeles, one of the capitols of entitled, woke and clout chasing US women. Having moved from New York, I'm sure you understand and can relate ;) Not to stereotype, as there are some wonderful women in the US of course. But overall, the different dynamic in dating you describe here is absolutely true. And I agree that Bangkok is definitely the best city to live in the world for a man for a multitude of reasons (and not just women of course). So glad there is a place like this for guys like ourselves who can think outside of the box and have the balls to start a new, more balanced and happy life on the other side of the world.

[@huthut777]

I love this video! I 100% agree with you.

[@Molloy1951]

As someone who has been living in Bangkok since 2016, I would agree with 95% of what you said, Paul. My only caveat is regarding your extreme optimism on Thai women. If we are talking about educated and good-looking Thai women, they are not needy and don’t want to move in with a foreigner after 1 or 2 dates. And they are not as monogamous as you might think. The game here is a little more complex than that. In any case, thank you for speaking out the truth and for sharing your experience in Thailand with us. Cheers

[@iPaulLee]

Good points

[@natsumittra6001]

The way you talked about your gf is very sweet 🥰 Both of you’re so lucky that you found each other ❤ I wish you a very happy marriage forever. 💕

[@iPaulLee]

Thank you so much!!

[@Retler39]

This video is iconic. You are so on point and it feels great to find someone who thinks and feels like I do. It’s rare. One of the reasons I left the US as well.

[@Dylan-wd1xb]

Very well and sensitively put dude. I have female friends in the UK who want to be a stay at home mum and have the traditional family life but are to scared to due to pressure from this movement. I am all for equal rights but was that not so that women could choose to work or to stay at home and do the most important job of them all and bring up a family. Good job dude :)

[@ChimpsAI]

Well said, my friend. You hit the nail on the head.

[@karlcarloshuderz]

I am a successful man in mid 30s from Vienna, coming from a very liberal viewpoint. Now I am Bangkok since one week and one of the main reason was as "passport bro" and try if this is true what all talk about. Besides I also love the friendly culture and a lot more. I dated in Europe Vienna where I am from so much and had a really good dating life, but I always felt like running after something, with a lot of blood and pain. Dating was sometimes like a job and woman were never satisfied or happy. Even for friends which were really like 9/10 it was a struggle and they were sometimes depressed about it. Here in Bangkok I already dated a few woman in the first week and made so good experiences, caring for me (like I do for them) and it feels just like in another world. Maybe like it should be.

[@henry-5676]

How did u meet them? Tinder?

[@thefuturAI]

Wow what a great video so thoughtful and intelligently put, I agree with everything you criticise about the west and western women. I’m coming to Asia !

[@brucestanley9330]

Great video Paul, very informative. Well done

[@iPaulLee]

Thanks 👍

[@Vantitas]

I recently discovered you from Tribe of Men that covered your video about your transition from NY to Thailand. I’m so glad that I did as someone that’s looking to go abroad someday and appreciate your balanced perspective on this topic. Especially with the amount of truth bombs you dropped that exposed a good majority of western women and the absurd tactics they use on men.

[@EnglishItalian1]

Well said brother. Subbed 👍

[@tcarter603]

Great video. You express the views of many American men who are tired of American women.

[@dzllz]

On point with everything you said! Also your dog is adorable. Can you do a vid on your workout regime? Keep it up!

[@GRmasterpiece]

I pretty much agree with all of the points. The only thing I might add about partners and political beliefs is this - NO ONE should be labeled just because they align themselves with a specific politician, however, I do think it's normal for women or just people in general to not like you based on your political beliefs. It can be hard (SOMETIMES) to get along with someone when you have opposing political beliefs, especially with how politically divisive the US is at this moment in time. So along with looks and status, women will also filter men out based on their political beliefs too, which I think is fine.

[@MartinMisk]

Into the point - great video! Thank you.

[@henriksorensson]

Very well spoken. You nailed it.

[@Dano.book-em24]

Exactly, this was right on the money. And I mean accurately conveyed and explained. Passport bros exist for a good reason. Even animals go where the land bears more fruit.

[@jovimusique]

Awesome hearing your perspective and the ending was great! hahah, anyone reading this don't cancel this guy please

[@iPaulLee]

Haha appreciate it 🙏🏼

[@yourijevriend730]

Thanks bro this give me a better visualisation of what i want😄

[@ethansaltmere]

bro i love you. love the videos

[@dksoulstice6040]

Great video man. Also, I'd watch an entire video of your dog just being a dog haha.

[@simong7735]

Great video Paul. Nah you’re not getting cancelled for that 😂 but you did gain a subscriber lol 🙏 when I move to BKK in Oct/Nov let me buy a coffee 🙂

[@henriquemonteiro3403]

Thanks for the very detalied breakdown! I´m looking forward to spending some time in Thailand.

[@galaxyofcorgi]

Dating and marriage in Asian countries are different. Yes, western women are less feminine than eastern women. However, they do not expect you to have a house, car, and lots of cash before they willing to commit to you and the family. Maybe next time, you should ask a native Thai man in term of dating. The content feels like the pro of dating in Thailand from a successful passport bro. Good job at attracting more passport bro to Thailand.

[@Sagan_Starborn]

Who doesn't expect whom to have a house, car, lots of cash? The Radfem Western Women want the 6-6-6. 6-figure job, 6-foot tall, 6-inch appendage.

[@sped1987]

Good for you dude i glad you found someone especially when you wasn't necessarily looking for it, that way of it happening also tends to be more natural and a nice surprise.

[@jasonkemp3515]

Spot on brother we’ll said ❤

[@juanrincon8777]

Barely found out about your channel today, great content man!

[@iPaulLee]

Thank you bro!

[@EnglishItalian1]

love you bro 💪

[@JeanCharlesEvrard]

A lot of facts were spoken in this video

[@doyoueatrocks]

Paul will do well in Thailand, very respectful and articulate guy. 13 years global travel and Spent most of my time in Thailand since 2017 and he is accurate and naturally, it is a good 80:20. Still have to be selective but not hyper selective like in western countries. Side note ** Wise to heed the typical warnings though and stay out of the red light areas and avoid Pattaya entirely, Some of these guys spend all day in the red light districts and complain about being scammed or having bad experiences, would you expect anything less anywhere else in the red light??

[@aspiringadventurer7410]

The saddest reaction from western vvomen for me to the passport bros is bashing vvomen in other countries saying they are uneducated and poor. I grew up in a developing country and found the vvomen more intelligent and not poor. Hard to have an intellectual conversation with western vvomen because they see themselves as victims. I see them as so entitled that they feel oppressed. They have no idea what oppression is. Western vvomen are free to be strong and independent, they shouldn’t expect others to go along with it.

[@BoycottHollywood]

When I was in my 20s and 30s I moved around to different countries and dated. Got engaged once but she cheated on me when I was out of the country. In the end at age 50, I ended up back in the US and married an amazing very conservative woman - and glad I did. But I had a great time through the years.

[@Sasquatch10]

I agree completely. I live in the UK an still the most feminine women i've met are eastern european.

[@BobGoodi]

Paul...watch your back because if l see you out in Bangkok this coming year 2024...dude lm so buying you drinks. 😂

[@iPaulLee]

haha sounds good man!

[@blobby.the.fat.dinosaur]

Thank you so much for sharing 100% agree with you

[@WinnerTube]

I got a good thai girl too 😎

[@iPaulLee]

We’re lucky bro 😎

[@MrCoolbeanstogo]

👏👍👍100% correct. It would be awesome if you could make a video on how to meet quality Thai girls.

[@iPaulLee]

Good idea!

[@gprufino]

100% true bro!

[@DarronSmithBahamianMillionaire]

You are totally right Bro and they will never admit it but all the men know that is the truth! We are not willing to put up with it either the women who want traditional provider men and they are far from traditional! I cannot wait to come over Bro! The peace of mind and the saving will be a breath of fresh air!! You only work yourself to death and never own anything in America!

[@siam9578]

Want to have a good wife? Recommend Laos, Thailand, Cambodia, Malaysia, Singapore, Myanmar, Vietnam, Indonesia. Because people in this region have a society, father, mother, brothers and sisters, they will take care of you. like family members Western, no family So I don't understand how we have to look after each other.Freedom, equality has alienated Westerners from their families.

[@MadMax-lm1vn]

100% agree with everything you said 👍

[@yellowjoe.2000]

100% agree with you and respect!

[@machinized]

West is done and gone. Lived in Asia for last half of a year, got back home to finalize things and Im gone. In approx 20 years West will absolutely start to collapse.

[@cryptocrusader6078]

it's collapsing now

[@machinized]

@@cryptocrusader6078 Absolutely my man. I meant, the cities infrastructure, services, everything. Housing. Its going to be absolute implosion of everything we have built so far. But on social level, yeah - its already gone.

[@myronbourne6937]

In 2020 I said the US will be unrecognizable by 2050. Time will tell

[@snakedogman]

@@machinizedMuch of Western Europe will become dominated by Islam too. The past weeks since what happened in Israël have been disturbing to say the least. If I was a Jew in Europe now I would get the fuck out while I still could.

wow man, you are treasure, i really appreciate for the information on this video, thank you

[@jampeldorje7703]

Totally agree with you

[@TeamBi0HaZard]

Philippines or Thailand? Which one is best to find a wholesome girl?

[@bobgoodi-jd4dx]

Your spot on bro.10/10!

[@cundinamarca8]

That’s great, congrats.

[@flowerpower2726]

Your channel rocks

[@bria-maine]

I agree with your commentary, however I wonder what options US feminine women moving abroad or specifically to Thailand have. Is there a place where American women can be submissive and feminine? We have to take the environment into consideration, and the US is tough unfortunately, very competitive for men and women. As a woman moving to Thailand from US I wonder if I can embrace my more more feminine side. Thank you for your content 🧡

[@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149]

A feminine person is feminine by default. Same for masculine. You'll never hear a masculine man say he needs to be in an environment around women he can be masculine around. And most western women struggle dating overseas. Not many make the money Western men make. You'll have to accept a downgrade financially.

[@onponnoy5403]

The less stress life in Thailand will melt you down. ❤

[@rufflesal]

Im a passport bro and am now happily married.

[@mesamis144]

I am Thai, I cant cook, I dont do house cleaning and i dont want a bf because I think single life is my preference 🎉

[@28alpaccino]

Im your fan men, thank you for speaking out for all

[@natechisley]

Amazing video!!!!

[@xWhitechapelx]

Not just going overseas to find love, in some Asian countries the cost of living is lower and draws in a lot of people. Do your research, if it's for love and or life in a new land. Make a plan.

[@TheChadNapier]

Hey bud, this is not the video for this question, I did live in Thailand for one year and I’m coming back in 1 month. What agency did you use for your education visa?

[@e.l.5402]

that video is on point

[@Jaceace87]

Nice thank you bro

[@KhrisAsaurus]

🚀Good points man! 🚀