DATING with MULTIPLE PERSONALITIES!? | Switch Caught On Camera | Dissociative Identity Disorder

[@cyber0198]

Sally: I'm done, I'm going to go grab Nin Nin with no clues whatsoever: What the f--- just happened?

[@valhersa29]

Nin at the end be like: “What- Oh. Oh gosh. ACT NATURAL”

[@DissociaDID]

Haha!

[@jeanvalero1597]

hahahah totally! Made me smile xD

[@dork_mork6953]

I especially loved the zoom in at her side glance xD

[@riverstreets4471]

“Hello everybody” Me, immediately: “That is *not* Nin, who is that? They sound so sweet :)

[@nadiah4315]

My exact reaction 😄😊

[@jordanblack9260]

Same here haha,,,, Sally was so sweet and wonderful to watch!

[@SashyGryphyth]

She really is. I haven't seen her as often as others but she remains memorable and so lovely.

[@aadyasaxena2649]

SAMEEE

[@argos_lucien]

My reactions actually was: That's not Nin, but that voice is familiar. Is that Sally? I don't know if I should, but I'm proud of myself

[@pancake1682]

"You're not their therapist.... I should hope"

[@sweetener1654]

ik BWKDJSBWSB

[@nininyoko13]

That... hit hard

[@Ana-vc3ig]

Me: Want to be a psiquiatrist but watching this video 😶

[@Ana-vc3ig]

@@RE-qk5hy Jeah i get it but i think is funny

[@bluehairedemon]

Dating your patient can be fine if everyone agrees on it, but it's probably not a good idea

[@cosmicnixx7658]

When Nin fronted and was like “wtf was Sally even talking about” 😆

[@kaitlinmcneely1877]

Right?! I was like, “uh! She wasn’t done yet! U could’ve given her just a second longer Nin! Lol!”

[@TheMidwestJess]

@@kaitlinmcneely1877 they can't always control when they switch.

[@Torom002]

Felt like Nin was "Oh! I get to do the kiss to the camera, my time to shine!" :P

[@MellowJelly]

@@kaitlinmcneely1877 Sally did seem exhausted, I know talking about even the subject of trauma and how to handle it is a very exhausting thing. I'm so proud of her and it was so cute how Nin was ready to take over immediately even after switching. Cause it's gotta be so disorienting

[@mishkarae]

Oh man, that moment was priceless. Here Sally was, giving some good, useful information, and suddenly Nin was all, "...Uh, hi? Bye!"

[@Eymologymentality]

Sally: [speaks] Any current stress in my life: aight, imma head out.

[@nocturnenix]

Is Toko one of those current stress?

[@someonesfood4188]

@@nocturnenix stop it. Get some help XD

[@morganl382]

NOT TOGAMI’s TUMBLR-

[@Flurrymurphy]

@@nocturnenix BAHAHAHEBR

[@Flurrymurphy]

TOGAMI’S TUMBLR?! BABSBEHDBE

[@ZoeMikelStites]

I heard the voice and was immediately like "omg Sally is fronting? Good for her!"

[@briandaaranda9735]

Took me a bit to recognize her but it's astounding how the voice and the mannerisms and everything change from alter to alter.

[@homestuckaddict]

@@briandaaranda9735 ikr my alter Lily is 6 and she has some speech problems

[@avakelly7008]

Everything about sally is just ethereal and celestial , we are not worthy

[@DissociaDID]

Awh thank you so much, I'll pass that on to Sally!

[@avakelly7008]

@@DissociaDID you welcome, thank you so much for all of your content, it's helped me massively!

[@ggg91160]

lel

[@turnerd20]

@@DissociaDID I honestly thought Jade or Kyle were about to front, Sally does have a very calming voice though, love you all

[@TeeheeMahn]

Nin: *switches and decided the video is finished* Sally who just remembered something else to say: 👁 👄 👁

[@yuyucontent]

oop-

[@minmani1784]

😭😭😭

[@GabrielSkyles]

Wow, just imagine if you was in the heat of the moment and another pops out. Eww get off me! 🤭

[@mandinewsome-fultz8144]

I’m a system and married. And we are treated different as each of us should be. This video is helpful.

[@KM13760]

This brings me so much hope TwT It's always been difficult for us when dating-

[@anjachan]

this is great :)

[@mandinewsome-fultz8144]

@@KM13760 we struggled greatly. It will eventually work itself out.

[@mandinewsome-fultz8144]

@@anjachan thank you

[@didmysfyts3488]

I'm in a system, I live with my gf. Just last night we were talking about how she doesn't get a lot of time with me or Marcos (mar-cuss) and cried about it. I explained that I am a protector and I am here to protect this body, normally I'd try to be more understanding with this however this is an every day thing. trying to make her happy at the expense of myself or the body. I love her so much though and I dont want to leave her or lose her, bow seriously how can someone be so selfish?? -Danny

[@priddy_101]

I’m sorry but, I love when Nin switched in she was just like, “Uh- Bye!” The awkwardness gives me life 😂

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

That was my favorite part

[@nomadine85]

I was a bit confused because I thought she was co-conscious, so wouldn’t Nin know that Sally was filming? But yes, the whole “Whoops I’m here just to say bye although I didn’t even say hi yet” 😅 was really sweet

[@tobenamed610]

Nin obviously didn't plan on this which means Sally just up and decided to make a video about it. And Nin still decided it was a good video to have. This whole video is kinda golden for that

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

@@nomadine85 co conscious doesn’t necessarily mean they know everything going on. Sometimes it can mean they are just closer to the front and not in the back.

[@nomadine85]

@@TheKatarinaGiselle Oh, I see! Thank you for explaining, I thought co-conscious meant that another alter from the system is in the “front room” and that it’s kind of like there’s a sort of screen they can see what’s happening. Chloe explained it like that once, and especially with Kyle I remember Chloe telling the camera that Kyle, who was co-conscious, is shouting at her. 😅 But I also remember Chloe explaining that she would rarely go into the inner world, so perhaps it’s more common for alters other than the host to be co-conscious, and the host, in this case Nin, being more near the front, like you said, although in the past that’s how it was worded instead of co-con. I remember once when Chloe was opening packages, they said oh, I can tell Nina is close by, and on the screen it said “near the front” so I assumed that when it says co-con that the other alter is not just near the front but like a “secondary pilot” (I think those were either Kyle or Chloe’s words). But if Nin wasn’t aware of what was happening externally, and therefore deciding to switch in (for example like Nina once did in the video with the best friend where she also wanted to be part of the video), then that means that something must have triggered the switch? Or does a switch sometimes also just happen because an alter gets a little tired and dissociated?

[@aarushajv628]

Sally: That is a therapist's job You are not their therapist I should hope.... That cracked me up...Sally is so witty....I loved it!!

[@KTstillexists]

While it is super serious, I did laugh really loudly when she said that 😂😂

[@Dahlia44222]

Same

[@taffydog3038]

Haha yeah, made me giggle a bit

[@gl4081]

Sameeeeeee

[@KateandBree]

Can we talk about how this advice doesn’t just applies to DID people? Setting up rules, making boundaries, asking to talk about a sensitive and see if they’re mentally ready to talk about, and respecting privacy. Really wonderful video, Sally (and Nin, at the end!)

[@GrumpetteJV]

This. I don't have DID but so often relate to what is being said. Such an educational channel. In human interaction. 🖤

[@RainbowKaro]

I agree. Sometimes I am not able to handle other people's trauma at a certain moment, it feels like it is just been dropped on me and I then have to deal with it. Wish more people would instead ask if it's ok.

[@Victoria-_]

@@GrumpetteJV Me too! As someone with severe social anxiety, these videos have been so helpful to learn on how to correctly set boundaries while also learning how to open up to people.

[@LilThreat88]

Yeah, all vital steps in a healthy relationship

[@lexdraws1729]

@@RainbowKaro Yeah true but I also hope you say that politely you can’t handle it

[@kytota1470]

Her voice- is- yes.

[@whitediamonds444]

Yes **chefs kiss** 😙🤌🏾🖐🏾 mwah

[@rachellewis5210]

I love how Sally holds herself she’s absolutely precious

[@bwingbwinggwiyomi]

She seems really lovely and gentle :)

[@LL-tr5et]

she's like the human version of rose petal tea

[@-randomgirl-6062]

She seems so sweet 🥰

[@isabelchmontuenga]

Nin:" so im planning in doing this video..." Sally" its my time to be on the spotlight" Nin "wai-" Sally "to late, already done"

[@DissociaDID]

Hahaha! 🥰

[@savannah9197]

Haha

[@homestuckaddict]

you helped me realize I (think) I have OSDD! I have an alter and her name is Lily- she is obsessed with glitter force and changed all my backgrounds :( how the f is a six year old so smart (by the way this is Kai)

[@yulles225]

@@homestuckaddict Vanessa Carlton - A Thousand Miles

[@averyholtan3488]

@@homestuckaddict Awwww it sounds like you have a cute little 🥺

[@thistlekersh7092]

Can we just acknowledge that everything about this look is *impeccable*

[@ashleyredsheep]

YES OH MY 😍✨

[@Flusterette]

🥰 Yes!!!

[@azul4904]

honestly, major sally vibes

[@staciebanks7935]

Yesss

[@patriciamiller5838]

Absolutely flawless

[@marley2958]

I would hire Sally to do like mindfulness to help me go to sleep. Her voice is so calm and soothing.

[@cheekyookie]

Same like- I can't sleep atm and it's 3.30am TT

[@dragon9261]

Oh my god, can you imagine? That'd be great merch if Sally was okay with it.

[@alitadepollo7984]

Yes! She should try asmr!!!

[@keeshayip8420]

SALLY PLS

[@thaliakalli4207]

Omg me too fr

[@connorw3384]

Sally: *starts talking* me: that's defiantly Sally... Screen: *says it's Sally* me: YES

[@Not.sher000]

ikr I feel so accomplished 😌

[@nadine8525]

Definitely.

[@Bells_Haven]

Same! It’s cool how you can tell

[@marlenadesmet4907]

Yes same 🤍

[@Vaneska59]

same!

[@bluehairedemon]

"You're not their therapist" can go both ways, don't expect your partner to be able to handle your emotional trauma unless they specificlly told you they can

[@skeetsmcgrew3282]

I would imagine most couldn't. I'm way too much of a clumsy doofus to date someone with DID lol. I can barely keep a relationship with a neurotypical woman going let alone one renting out their head to a whole dysfunctional family

[@skai5020]

Well there is a difference of “i care about you whats going on?” and trauma dumping/ using someone as a therapist when they have they’re own issues/problems

[@joana5337]

nah dude, if you make the decision to date someone you have to be ready for all of them. you can't just pick the stuff you think is important and ignore the rest with the excuse that you're not their therapist. sure, they should never treat you as their therapist, as in, they shouldn't be looking for answers to their issues in you, or expecting you to understand. but you should definitely be able to handle their trauma if you want to be with them, it's a part of them. that kind of thinking is why so many people get divorces and break up, handpicking the stuff you like in a person while in a relationship...

[@bluehairedemon]

@@joana5337 I see your point, and I'm not saying you shouldn't share things with your partner, I'm saying you shouldn't relay on your partner to solve your problems, if you need therapy go to a therapist

[@joana5337]

@@bluehairedemon oh for sure, 100% agree, I disagreed with you because you said "handle"

[@jihafajarmuhammad2115]

Bruh, imagine kyle getting sponsored by Raid shadow legends.

[@somethingnexttonormal]

JihaFajar 211 that needs to happen

[@donnie4836]

Kyle just sitting there like “Living the dream”

[@skeleton2115]

I can absolutely see that lmao

[@thatoneemoboy6621]

this needs to happen

[@yuyucontent]

YESSS

[@ninska1851]

Sally evokes extreme joy and peace in me, it´s amazing how she can transmit that. Also is she wearing a corset?? She looks STUNNING

[@DissociaDID]

Yes we were 🥰

[@madelinetorye9967]

Bet poor Kyle would die of uncomfortablness in that outfit😂 sorry mate but its funny

[@ninska1851]

@@madelinetorye9967 HAHAHAHAH OMGGG just the thought of that is hilarious

[@SamDeFalcon]

@@madelinetorye9967 sorry I don’t know if I’m overreacting but someone’s discomfort shouldn’t be funny. I understand that awkwardness can be seen as funny sometimes but as someone going through dysphoria I know how Kyle could feel. It’s a painful experience hating ones body but Kyle can’t do anything to change the body because it’s a shared one. So please don’t laugh at his pain.

[@christinecannibal844]

@@SamDeFalcon you're right but I'm sure Kyle would have found humor in this as well... But ya know,i could be wrong lol

[@sxturn2357]

my ex knew about me having DID and she handled it well sometimes but other times she would get annoyed at me who is the host not fronting. she would purposely trigger my system out so I would front. she tried to kiss one for my alters and said “so if we’re having sex and you switch out, you expect me to stop?” she damaged all of our mental heath so much that we couldn’t even handle being in her life anymore so we completely removed ourselves. thankfully, my current gf's sister has DID so she grew up being educated and learning more and she’s very good with triggers and isn’t afraid to ask question. she respects our boundaries and shes overall an amazing person to be with.

[@anonxmus]

OMGGG I'm so sorry that is not acceptable at all. She should have been more cautious with you guys. That's not okay for someone to purposely put so much on all of you ya didn't deserve that. I hope you guys are doing better now. I'm glad you are not in that situation no more.

[@FinleyAlice]

I am so happy that you're all in a better relationship now, stay safe, be happy ☆

[@emilyredbird7497]

Also: "What, if we're having sex and something happens, you expect me to stop?" is so messed up. Like, as a singular person with a singular partner, I've had plenty of times where I've wanted to stop midway through because I got overwhelmed or triggered or just wasn't feeling it. I get that it's annoying to have to stop in the middle of intimacy, but refusing to do so is not OK under any circumstances.

[@emilyredbird7497]

@Dione Fernandes They can :) The alters (including the host) have relations to each other and get to know each other, and sometimes they decide to date. Sometimes they become friends. Just like singular people.

[@peachtokkii863]

I want to ask a question but it's a bit weird 😂😂

[@Honey_hivez]

Dating a system has been one of the best experiences of my entire life. They are absolutely the most amazing people I’ve ever met and I was so lucky to be able to meet them. They are my favorite people and my best partners and best friends.

[@Horrorbotyt]

Not me finding your comment babe ✋😩

[@Honey_hivez]

@@Horrorbotyt hehe hi baby

[@DissociaDID]

You guys are adorable together. Wishing you all the happiness in the world 💖

[@Horrorbotyt]

@@DissociaDID Thank you!

[@Honey_hivez]

@@DissociaDID oh wow thank you so much!!

[@justagirl...]

I could tell before sally introduced herself that Nin wasn't in hosting this video! Hi Sally!

[@MusclesandBooks]

Yep, for me it was the makeup. I was like, "Nin definitely didn't do that style makeup!"

[@sunsetskye483]

Yep, her voice gave it away

[@soapytoastpants]

i figured it was sally because of the warm maternal vibes, she's such a wholesome energy

[@justintime112]

fr the second i heard sally start talking i was like "ummmmthats not nin thats not nin stessed out noises" and then she explained that sally is fronting and i was like ohhh ok

[@shiroi201]

Same! The second i saw her and then heard her speak i immediately could tell it was sally 😁

[@whitediamonds444]

I feel like Sally’s just the type to read you a bedtime story and make you a nice tea once you wake up 😊 Edit: omg 2k likes?!

[@Lulu_the_loser]

agreed!

[@inosukehashibira8713]

@@___________________________-__ chloe takes care i think

[@timestamp7732]

@@inosukehashibira8713 Chloe and Nina integrated to Nin. And Chloe I believe didn’t enjoy the inner world

[@inosukehashibira8713]

@@___________________________-__ i think they all do sometimes

[@cameronxmac7420]

Yee, Sally is a caretaker in the system ❤️

[@onnalynn7004]

I swear Sally was a Light Elf Queen in another life/reality. Cause...my goodness. Even the way she holds the body...is completely unique to her.

[@abibudgiesisters2406]

Completely unrelated but, GIRL PLEASE DROP THE MAKEUP TUTORIAL UR EYE MAKEUP IS BEAUTIFUL EVERY.SINGLE.TIME.

[@Sofia-zl1cq]

Yes yes yes i couldn't agree more

[@jordynnobelius1099]

I was legit thinking omg what palette did Sally use😍

[@DissociaDID]

We have a makeup tutorial and q&a coming in February!

[@mangalpandey9377]

@@DissociaDID I would love to hear everyone's perspective on that

[@abibudgiesisters2406]

@@DissociaDID OH MY GOODNESS. STOP!! AHHHHHH!!

[@camisthejester]

“Be careful. Be gentle. Be respectful.” Beautifully said.

[@raine2000m]

I don't know why but every time I see Sally all I can picture is her sitting in a field of Flowers with a long flowy dress. Painting a picture of a sunset is it just me, because makes me feel calm and safe.

[@freenorthkorea7317]

ME TOO!! To a t

[@tobenamed610]

I find it really funny that this video probably wasn't planned at all judging by Nins' reaction to the camera being on and Sally just randomly decided this would be a good topic to put up. And Nin still decided it should be up!

[@ellespoonies]

You could tell Nin was like “wait, what’s happening?” haha, I’m sure Sally probably decided to film so that Nin wouldn’t have to worry about it. I wonder if the video idea was spur of the moment or if it was something they had written down in a list of ideas somewhere?

[@UnwantedPopcorn]

It's sponsored though

[@Sophie_Cleverly]

@Elle Marie it was actually the second time they filmed the video! They said on Patreon they had to redo it due to camera lens issues. So maybe Nin did it the first time

[@jamescurfman3284]

The information is no less important just because of who was doing the talking. Depending on who edited (kudos by the way; great job), Nin may just be impressed with how well Sally handled the video. I think it was great! :)

[@melissaoderso249]

Which actually makes me wonder how many videos of different alters got scrapped because Nin (or any alter) didn't upload them for any reason 😂

[@liahansen8291]

When Sally talks, all of the littles in our system sit and watch the video with me. She makes us all feel safe

[@Juxsu]

Aw ❤

[@marialaane172]

That is the sweetest thing I've heard in a while. Sending a lot of love your way!

[@marisafernandes9259]

How sweet! Just imagined a bunch of small children hearing the voice and gathering around a screen then sitting cross legged gazing up eagerly 😅🤣

[@Violet-fk2lf]

That’s so cute! Littles are just the cutest

[@ayasantiago1230]

That's so cute! 💖

[@Games_By_Proxy]

This channel is so educational to someone like me who has no clue whatsoever about DID. I don't know anyone with DID either but I hope that when I get the chance to meet someone that I can treat them with the kindness and respect they deserve

[@InstinctivelyTwisted]

Dude, same! It's funny that I really want to meet someone with DID just to show them respect and love. Like test out how kind and caring of a human I can be haha.

[@Michelle-jy2wp]

I think if you treat everyone you meet this way you'll probably make someone , with or without DID happy, so sounds like a great plan 😊

[@wolfgirl8891]

same

[@chimchim.22]

Well said! 👌🏼

[@zeychonloves5124]

same

[@drm1417]

Omg sally should read audio books, her voice is so calming.

[@edghartheexplorer1601]

She could read the telephone book and keep everyone’s attention. I would definitely listen to that.

[@runner4life551]

I want this so badly now haha

[@faithfulbright3829]

Yes, Sally, please read everyone a book or a short story here.

[@pelanzolana2759]

Totally agree. It’s even better than asmr 😂😂😂

[@cocovcoco]

I could listen to her voice all day. Like an ASMR channel from Sally would be so calming 💜 (no pressure, btw, Sally!)

[@whitediamonds444]

Can we just take a moment to appreciate the aesthetic........like wow 😯

[@rachellewis5210]

her shirt is just ugh i want it

[@avakelly7008]

And the matching Uv lights !!

[@aleesabarker8352]

@@rachellewis5210 I reallyyyyy want to know where she got it! So PRETTY!

[@nadiagoldman5292]

2k like sorry it’s a habit

[@sazari2861]

@@aleesabarker8352 dying to know about blouse too, please share us which one is it, DIDSystem!!

[@yuriblu2321]

Nin switching is like when I’m not paying attention in class and the teacher ask me something

[@allief0598]

Can we talk about how gorgeous their hair and makeup look???

[@alinebozon6798]

How gorgeous they are in general?

[@emmimiax8337]

And dress/shirt

[@juliacleary21]

the second i heard sally's voice my whole body just relaxed

[@ameliahilton604]

Yeah she would be good at mindfulness

[@jamescurfman3284]

She could do an entire ASMR channel by herself. :)

[@nadiah4315]

Trauma: "It needs to be handled with a professional delicately and in an informed manner." Mic drop 🎤

[@PsychoMarta92]

As a therapist, I thank you so much for all this information. Not only for me, but for all people who want to understand DID, systems and everyone in general. I really love your channel, it is one of my favourites ever. Warm hug DissociaDID!!

[@DissociaDID]

Thank you so much, we are so pleased it is helpful! Warms hug coming to you too!

[@quelarte]

At "HELLO EVERYBODY" I already start screaming "IT'S SALLY!!! OH MY GODESS!!! SALLY, I MISSED YOU SO MUCH" *tears*.

[@DissociaDID]

Aw! So glad you enjoyed our video! I'll let Sally know as well 💖

[@quelarte]

I really love you all! I made a huge life changing decision and moved to a small town, so I can have a better life and take a good care of myself. You gyus helped me a lot on my path of realizing I wasn't taking care of my emocional self and making this choice for a simple life. Tank you guys so, so, so much!!!

[@rumanapatel6809]

@@quelarte Good luck with your journey of self care and growth 😊

[@quelarte]

@@rumanapatel6809 thank you! Life is better now and I feel free and inspired to follow my dreams

[@itscaylanotkayla8669]

"This is so helpful. We have DID and one of our alters is a lesbian, and our host's boyfriend is still getting used to it." - Emma , Zeke co-con, of the Euthania System.

[@kayafae]

sally could tell me the world was ending and i’d still be comforted by her voice

[@mollyapteros]

I could listen to Sally talk about anything. She has such a soothing presence.

[@lochlinbly6959]

as soon as i heard the "hello everybody" you could tell it was Sally's voice

[@christinagibson1296]

I still can’t believe that people want to argue and say she is faking. Like it was so clearly sally

[@zeenatmamoogee6054]

Me toooo i was like "i know that voice, sally honey is that you?"

[@lelalu101]

I completely agree. I immediately was like, wait, that isn't Nin

[@girlwanderss]

is it just me or has everyone in the dissociaDID system ✨glowed up✨ during their break?? You're all _radiating_ health, beauty and positive vibes so far!

[@totallyapng7315]

Ouh same pfp, different colors. Let’s gooo

[@ethernal_willow]

(Sally started the video) 00:00-2:12 - Sponsor 2:13-2:28 - Introduction 2:29-2:46 - "make sure you understand your partner's disorders" 2:47-3:06 - "alters are their own ndividuals" 3:07-3:56 - "Define the relationship and who is in it" 3:57-4:56 - "Set rules about dating" 4:57-5:09 - "Safety is key" also about triggers and pay attetion 5:10-5:17 - example of how to ask about personal triggers and such, in a respectful way 5:18-6:01 - talk about triggers and things to avoid 6:02-6:18 -"your not their therapist, your there to help, not take control" 6:19-6:56 - "Know your partners no-go zones" 6:57-7:12 - an example of asking for consent to talk about certain topics that may be hard to talk about 7:13-6:35 - "never share information between alters without premission" 6:36-8:49 - "be polite, kind and respectful to all the alters" 8:50-9:49 - "understanding persecutor alters" 9:50-11:08 - "never treat a child alter as an adult" 11:09-12:24 - "privacy is important." 12:25-12:37 - end of the questions 12:38-12:52 - dissociating 12:53-13:05 - switch 13:06-13:09 - Nin fronts (Female host) 13:10-13:28 - Nin, outro 13:29-13:54 - outro video thingy This took a long time to find and write down so please no hate. i got adhd myself and i find it hard to look at videos and wait till a question I want awnsered or something like that. But have an amazing day! you are amazing, you are loved, valid, and you are you. Dont let anyone tell you who they want you to be. They havent walked in your shoes and dont know what youve gone through. Even if they did, they wouldn't have delt with it the same way you have. Every person/system is diffrent and that is what makes us unique. Have a good day! goodbye -w- (Apologies for any grammar I have written wrong or if something doesn't make sense!^^)

[@DissociaDID]

Thank you, this must have been a lot of work, we appreciate you 💝

[@earthariss]

Thank you so much for this! It really helps a bunch

[@rajaharrag667]

Thank you 🥰 you re so sweet

[@kairo9084]

Everything alright. It looks beautiful

[@coolcat5146]

So much of this outlines the deep kindness one should bring to any sort of relationship, even platonic. Thank you for this, I feel like I've learned something and, I don't know if it was just Sally's voice, but this was really soothing to watch. All the best to Sally, Nin and the entire DissociaDID system

[@GrumpetteJV]

Best comment.

[@River_Katerina]

I love how Nin at the end was just like "Oh uh okay we're doing this I guess" and wrapped up the video like a champ

[@RatchelRach]

@@biancas.281 what's that supposed to mean?

[@Trollestiatumblur]

@@biancas.281 Don’t insinuate things you shouldn’t be insinuating.

[@RavingPandaSkittlez]

Honestly the best “ad” for native I’ve seen, I’ve never seen someone go into detail as to how much per product you’ll be spending 💕 also I love the videos! You’ve all helped me so much with my own baby steps towards figuring out how our system works and it’s a lot less rocky now!

[@DissociaDID]

Wow, thank you!

[@RavingPandaSkittlez]

@@DissociaDID anytime!! 💕💕 your videos have always helped. I’ve been a follower for a about a year now maybe a bit longer and since I’ve found your channel it’s helped click things together for us. It’s been easier to understand, less scary and less moments of amnesia bc we’re communicating. So thank you really! 🥰

[@dman5579]

I have a question if it's okay How do people with DID name there youtube channels normally do you name it after the host, just come up with a name, or does each alter get their own account hope it's okay to ask

[@native_cos]

Woo hoo! 🎉

[@AlannaMarie]

nin’s look of pure confusion after the switch at the end 😂

[@frog_inabog_]

sally is so gentle, i immediately recognised her voice wen she started talking, her presence is so soothing

[@Undownn]

Sally: “Kyle uses-” Me: *orders it immediately*

[@luanunes14]

Lol If you trust his taste... Great!

[@kharinjihaad]

do i have a little crush on kyle.... yea🧍🏾‍♀️

[@juanniefevofizmared2554]

I was thinking about if it's something like banana🤣

[@jessicaguzman1821]

Sally’s voice gives me motherly love vibes

[@mysincerestcondolences]

Same, she seems so sweet 😣

[@charliewizard]

love her

[@lovinlife9147]

Can we just take a minute to appreciate everything they have done for us. For years they have brought us good, reliable content and have really educated many people on the DID subject. Not only that but in doing so was brought into drama that extremely hurt them. But did they give up? No they didn’t. They continue to educate us on this subject. I mean these people are the strongest souls I have ever seen and I hope they know just how loved they truly are.

[@jolieflash8977]

Beautifully said, only wish the best for this system, they are wonderful people.

[@nemaele]

Almost 14 Minutes of Sally Being Adorable, ft. Confused Nin

[@paulipop8816]

She's the deffinition of 🥺

[@susannahellmuth81]

Wow you’re right

[@haliestice8079]

I was just about to say it: she gives me the "🥺🥺🥺" vibes

[@camryn2876]

I have been with my partner for a few months now, but before this we were really good friends and knew about the DID. They are so respectful and reassuring and it's the happiest we have ever been. I am so thankful you made a video to educate people on how to handle this disorder in a relationship. And as one of my alters, Alaska, said "You have been through so much already, don't say you're not deserving of love when that's exactly what you need right now."

[@cheetahtfk7274]

Alaska is so right! You are all deserving of love, safety, and happiness ❤ wishing you and your system well!

[@camryn2876]

@@cheetahtfk7274 Thank you so much! I'm wishing you the best!!

[@blankacct6421]

Wow....what Alaska said is so wise. I've never thought of that before. Can already tell it's going to help a lot of people, including us. 💖

[@camryn2876]

@@blankacct6421 I'm so glad it helped! Alaska is very wise indeed.

[@brenna_marie]

Omg Alaska is such a pretty name

[@masterDjPeanutBrix]

I happy screamed and yelled "It's Sally!" when I heard her voice and nearly cried. I know they came back a while ago but I've missed them.

[@whitediamonds444]

Whenever I see DissociaDID in my notifications a smile always appears on my face. 😊

[@yashiro560]

Same 🥺

[@zadie565]

Yeah! They honestly teach people so much, and I'm so proud that their platform is growing.

[@LPSORBIT]

Sameeeee

[@kpopnoonanikki9211]

Same

[@dothemario8244]

ok

[@tomokischwarz9297]

I have a friend who is a system, many people think he’s “crazy” which i think is very wrong. I always treat them/him equally because i think that’s the right thing to do, his/their parents likes me as his friend because they think that im helping him. Every time his alter went dormant i talk to him and tell him that it’s not his fault (I don’t know the term but his identity is either sleep or gone) i really like his littles because they’re so adorable! before i post this i asked for his/their permission first because i know that sharing his personal life is bad, but he/they allows me. :)

[@Michelle-fz4px]

You're such a sweet person. Sending love to you and them 💞

[@solveig964]

I'm glad they have a friend like you!

[@tomokischwarz9297]

@@Michelle-fz4px thank you!!!! All my friends are hoping you’re safe there!

[@Michelle-fz4px]

@@tomokischwarz9297 Safe and happy. Thank you ❤️❤️

[@marinkelepolo5530]

Alters go dormant. The closest to disappearing besides that they do is splitting or integrating :)

[@sol_sunnyy5472]

Okay a bit off topic, but if I'm not wrong, Sally was wearing a corset over the shirt, and its SO charming💗💗

[@EmotionalSupportChaosDemon]

Nin just immediately going with switching on camera, and being semi-surprised was kinda cute. :P Every time Sally mentioned it being a therapist's job to help fix people, made me perk up. Because within the last month or two, I've decided to do to University to become a therapist/psychologist to do just that. :)

[@e.s.lavall9219]

Good luck in your studies and thank you on behalf of everyone who ever needs therapy, your future job is so important and appreciated 💜

[@DissociaDID]

I didn't intend on fully fronting so that was a bit of a shock. That is fantastic news! We wish you all the best with your studies! ❤️

[@EmotionalSupportChaosDemon]

@@DissociaDID Thanks!

[@devile2610]

Can u give me the time step where nin came

[@EmotionalSupportChaosDemon]

@@devile2610 About 13:04 I don't know how to make it an actual time thing you can click on. Sorry.

[@alejag6614]

She explained this topic perfectly, something that may be difficult but I understood everything she said Thank you as always for sharing this information

[@jamescurfman3284]

It's almost too simple from my POV, it's simply all about respect. The real problem comes in with knowing which alter is which and how to tell them apart... THAT is COMPLICATED! The system would have to know the other person VERY well for a long time before dating starts. Trust would be the biggest hurdle of all.

[@forKyrene]

Sally's voice is just therapeutic to listen to. It's always so calming.

[@MatthewMurraycogswoth]

Bro true

[@nguyenkhanhhailinh1721]

This must have been incredibly hard to film on your system since what happened with your previous partner, you all are incredibly brave and strong and we all love you so much

[@nguyenkhanhhailinh1721]

I'm also really sorry if I brought up any bad memories. I love your content and hope your system all the best ^^

[@DikobrazFilth]

What happened, if I may ask?

[@fa876]

@@DikobrazFilth i would advice you to do your own research so that this comment section can be trigger free.

[@waterdrinker4033]

@@fa876 Can you hint to what key words I can use to do my own research for?

[@thegalacticsystem]

@@waterdrinker4033 you can go to Vangelina Skovs channel

[@catmyers9382]

The craziest thing to me is actually watching the switch behind their eyes. Like I can see the moment Sally leaves and Nin is fronting. It’s amazing.

[@SubeTheWench]

I noticed that, too. Sally's eyes were very somber and dark, especially when she started to dissociate, and as soon as Nin looked up, her eyes were lighter and more cheerful.

[@deliriouscheeto]

"You're not their therapist..." *dramatic zoom* "I should hope so" made me chuckle

[@madelineluna2476]

I don’t have DID nor do I know anyone who does, but not gonna lie, a lot of the advice given lately has hit me another level. They’re things I needed to hear and things I didn’t even know I needed to hear. Much appreciation to you all. :)

[@shannonmixon2752]

Absolutely love Ms. Sally! You should totally do audio book readings. Voice is so soothing!

[@DissociaDID]

Maybe one day!

[@Taryn_G98]

Nin's timing of fronting right after Sally said her name was impeccable lol

[@wizemandouglas7128]

Her name could be a trigger to come front, rather than this being coincidence

[@little.prince]

Okay. Sally is so sweet. The moment she says 'Hi' you know she's gonna be incredibly calm, caring, kind and awesome overall.

[@kalamanjo4566]

How do I be beautiful like that? Jeez, I’m a guy and I’m bloody jealous

[@krypti6683]

i'm literally crying right now. I feel so loved and valid when I watch the DissociaDID system's videos, especially when Sally is talking. Her voice is sooo calming and honestly all of the negative energy just feels like it disappears when I hear Sally's voice. It's like magic. Thank you so much. You guys have basically saved my life. I'm only 15 and I feel such a strong connection to everyone in the system, even though we've never met in real life. Just know that I love each and every one of you very very much. Thank you for being so strong. I love you guys. :)

[@rogerdotlee]

Sally was seriously rockin' that color scheme.

[@lovehatefoolish]

I was in a relationship with someone who was not aware of their DID at the time and your channel has helped me navigate and understand my experience (and theirs) better in hindsight. I really appreciate what your system has done here on KZbin.

[@RodrickMarsMoon]

Really? I'm sorry if I'm being insensitive for asking, but... How it was (the interactions, I mean)? How do you realized that the person had multiple personalities, how do you react...?

[@undeadcommander86]

i was in the same position its hard but we can get through it

[@lovehatefoolish]

@@RodrickMarsMoon In full honesty and forewarning that this is only my personal experience and doesn't reflect anyone's story but my own - I didn't understand it at first and thought they were just pretending/faking not remembering things or being someone else. So it was hard and I'm sure I wasn't understanding of it at first (thought it was 'odd' or wasn't as nonjudgmental as I should have been). We had an up and down relationship at times but I loved them very much. One of their alters fronted once when we were having an argument and it was like nothing I'd ever experienced before. We sat and had a conversation and I started to understand bits and pieces. Obviously now I understand quite a lot more to articulate what happened somewhat? The relationship was hard, but also wonderful and I got along quite well with everyone in their system. I just wish I had this information back then so I would have been better equipped at understanding things.

[@gokcelaprincessa]

ok hear me out: ASMR from Sally? Honestly her voice is so soothing!

[@AlyssaFleming]

I literally thought the same thing the moment she spoke. I'd love an affirmations ASMR video from Sally.

[@forgetmenotasmr5909]

I SECOND THIS!😍🙌🙌

[@RainbowKaro]

I really hate ASMR, but I could definitely do with a tape of Sally speaking words of love and encouragement

[@oliviapetrowski4553]

Yes!

[@motsidisirankwe7330]

YESSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@britnell110]

Sally should speak in public about DID or even any subject she can educate anyone on, shes so articulate And informative and her voice and demeanor are calming. I have always liked you this channel and learning about it, I find it super interesting

[@jenessastrong2199]

Sally is so comforting! Her voice, her demeanor...just so relaxing ahaha so excited for this video!!!!!

[@cliopeterson4055]

Sally's voice is so nice and smooth that I sat through the entire sponsor promotion without even thinking about skipping through it.

[@tabbycat2154]

SAME

[@rainetopia7130]

I didn't even realize it was a sponsor until half way through

[@kai-fc1ny]

Saammee

[@Bells_Haven]

Same lmao

[@npc_pigeon]

LMAO NIN AT THE END that was genuinely funny like "ummmmmmmmmmmm aight guess we're filming"

[@shelbyteague7928]

Talking about how “You are not there to fix or change them” is so important for any type of relationship, whether romantic or platonic, with anyone, regardless of what disorders they may have, if any.

[@skeetsmcgrew3282]

I still love my ex so much, but she was not in a place to be in a LTR. She had a lot of trauma that she was actively not dealing with and it hurt me to watch her destroy herself

[@shelbyteague7928]

@@skeetsmcgrew3282 I’m sorry to hear that. It takes a lot of maturity to step back from a relationship when you still care about someone, even knowing that it’s better for them. Hopefully she’ll be more able to prioritize her healing and well-being, and the same for you.

[@skeetsmcgrew3282]

@@shelbyteague7928 I have a feeling she will need to fall a lot further before she gets the help she needs. It felt kinda like a twisted fate because I've been in her same position, thinking I could just keep plowing forward and everything would eventually work out. It was like looking in a mirror of my past, that was the only reason I knew so completely I couldn't save our relationship. Took everything I had not to try to get back with her

[@shelbyteague7928]

@@skeetsmcgrew3282 sorry again to hear it. Hopefully it works out for the best for each of you

[@LowkeyLonely]

What should you keep in mind when becoming friends with a system? What should be handled differently when being their friend vs being their significant other?

[@justme-ro9of]

One of our alters is in a relationship with a girl who the rest of us are great friends with. It's really just about respecting everyone as an individual, was it a romantic relationship or not. - Comet

[@abilevitt3334]

I think it's the same things, just some things like about monogamy versus polygamy aren't relevant... But checking in about conversation topics, understanding times they can't be around as much, checking if there are triggers you should know about are all good for friends too. But you can also ask them and most importantly just respect them and be kind and caring towards all their alters, and respect their privacy and space. And take care of yourself too.

[@bonanahh]

The crops of Nin’s confusion after switching are KILLING ME WHO EDITED THIS

[@TeacupBooknerd]

Nin's confused smile and look off into the distance almost like she's asking Sally what was being said made me chuckle. Love you, DissociaDID and I hope you guys are taking care of yourselves!

[@amieperkins4933]

Merch idea: beanies that say "Babes" on them!

[@broccoli444]

Amie Perkins yes plz I will buy the full stock

[@marizaflorence1621]

Yesss I'm so down for that

[@Red_riotttt25]

i would buy it

[@ninarugeles8688]

What is the other phrase Kyle says when greeting? Something like "hey gays, daisies and..?" I forgot 😰 that'd be a cool idea too!

[@cannoneermike]

A better idea - baseball caps with babes on them

[@laurentiare]

When Sally was going through a switch, I immediately said “It’s alright take your time, there’s no rush”. And then when Nin fronted I was like “Hey Nin, Sally just got done filming a wonderfully made video for us while you were away. Might I add your outfit is absolutely slammin’!” 😂

[@DissociaDID]

Ah thank you, thats lovely!

[@laurentiare]

@@DissociaDID You're very welcome! It looked amazing on you ^^

[@sophiatroanska1432]

That’s a perfect reaction but Lauren... the people in the bright box can’t hear you 👁👄👁

[@L0rdOfThePies]

@@sophiatroanska1432 FKJFJFBF 🤣

[@thechristmaswitch7323]

@@sophiatroanska1432 lmfao

[@skyloveslanguages2564]

I really appreciate the advice. I'm currently in a relationship with a DID partner. I try everything I can to understand them and help them. Thank you Sally/Nin. By the way, you look as beautiful as ever as always. Much love! I also have been doing “research” on them. I like to ask them questions about what they like and what they dislike and learn more about them to get closer. I want them to be as comfortable as possible.

[@amritnalam9994]

You definitely are a big voice for the DID community. Glad I came across your channel. So much to learn

[@Jesswithlessstress]

They are the best!

[@goldfish1633]

Nin at the end just like: I have no clue what's going on but Imma just wrap up video anyways 😂

[@voixe.ultima]

Nin looked so awkward at the end of the video haha. She must be like "urgh headache..eh? why is there a camera recording in front of me?" haha. Lots of love, you all. Stay safe ❤

[@DissociaDID]

I wasn't intending on actually fully fronting hahaha it was a bit of a shock! Lots of love to you all too!

[@katinkasofie7574]

Her voice feels like a warm hug:)

[@foxyluxe1967]

Sally is the type of friend you want present when you are about to receive the worst news of your life. Such a beautiful and calming aura.

[@giovanamelo2527]

SALLY I MISSED YOU SO MUCH I’M DYING I LOVE YOOOOOOU

[@RingtailRecords]

Came here as fast as I could! You are loved dissociaDID, and I speak for everyone here 😊

[@user-jq8wo3tw1n]

Yesss

[@mattimoodle]

Absolutely 💙

[@oceanstar9462]

I agree!

[@anastasiacurnel6126]

you're so brave to make these videos, i couldnt ever be this honest. i hope you know the world is proud of you

[@priddy_101]

That top is everything! I love you sm! Keep being amazing 🥰

[@EightTai1z_]

I agree. I want it lol!

[@charlottepeters5212]

To everyone scrolling through the comment section! I hope you find someone who loves you for who you are! Someone who makes you feel safe! Someone you can connect with on every level! Someone who makes you laugh! Someone who makes it all better! And if you haven't found them yet, keep searching. They're out there waiting for you! Lots of love everyone! 🥰💙

[@charlottepeters5212]

Thank you for hearting my comment!💙

[@whatamidoinghere9494]

I've found them and they're my best friend, whom I have liked for the past 2 1/2 years-

[@Nehu_22]

I wish the same for you Charlotte, we need more comments like this on youtube

[@lotteboer7132]

That's really nice to hear, thank you! I hope you find it too!

[@mariapatriciaespaillatcama2756]

Thank u, Charlotte. Sincerely, I have the same wishes for you; one of the most important things in life is to be happy, love and feel loved by your loved ones. Lots of love for you! 💖

[@yuyucontent]

omg Nin's awkwardness at the end is why the world is a better place

[@marvelsparadise9598]

Sally's voice is so gentle, calming and ADORABLE 💕

[@marvelsparadise9598]

I have missed Sally's light, gentle, caring nature x

[@jaxzimmermann260]

Sally is the most comforting presence of all time, she needs to be a voice for audio books!!