Do BALKANS Date the Same Way?

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Dating Beyond Borders

Dating Beyond Borders

Күн бұрын

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@inferno0020
@inferno0020 9 ай бұрын
The Turkish dude is very charismatic.
@DatingBeyondBorders
@DatingBeyondBorders Жыл бұрын
Hey everyone! Hope you liked the newest video in the series. We have one featuring Latinas and Latinos coming up in the next few weeks, which will be hilarious. Btw, if you liked the shirt Paula or Alexandra are wearing, you can get it HERE: dbb-shop.fourthwall.com and use the code BEYONDBORDERS for 20% off. Code expires in a week, so if you want to get it the ultimate cheapest price, act fast!
@Kerem-ng8qf
@Kerem-ng8qf Жыл бұрын
I like a lot this series!! Sending much love to other fellow balkan countries
@dogukan7406
@dogukan7406 Жыл бұрын
"When I was your age..." omg so true!! those stories are the most annoying to hear but you hear them as long as you live with your parents :)
@beatjunkybg
@beatjunkybg Жыл бұрын
The guy with the hat is such a balkan type 😂 One of those who spends the day in front of the "block" or under his car
@Noah_ol11
@Noah_ol11 Жыл бұрын
I like how the guys went back when the question was personally , not even them agree with gender role
@henri191
@henri191 Жыл бұрын
Loved that line "I don't need you to protect me , but it's really nice when you care about me" I liked how they all stepped forward
@mctavishomagh7715
@mctavishomagh7715 Жыл бұрын
That's because you are not Balkan.
@ilpaesedelmiocuore2637
@ilpaesedelmiocuore2637 Жыл бұрын
Croatian girl is so beautiful!
@ellobopoderososdl4596
@ellobopoderososdl4596 Жыл бұрын
She is gorgeous❤️😍
@BIGNEM
@BIGNEM Жыл бұрын
I crossed paths with her before. Complete gem of a human.
@ellobopoderososdl4596
@ellobopoderososdl4596 Жыл бұрын
@@BIGNEM wow really??
@supermavro6072
@supermavro6072 Жыл бұрын
she look sicilian not croatian
@OhrMag
@OhrMag Жыл бұрын
Dalmatinka ❤
@mewtwo506
@mewtwo506 Жыл бұрын
It's actually crazy how diverse Toronto is. There's every single ethnicity there.
@AnnieBonanzie
@AnnieBonanzie Жыл бұрын
Love the videos coming out recently! Well done!
@Chahlie
@Chahlie Жыл бұрын
I need a Turkish man. :(
@utku_baloglu
@utku_baloglu Жыл бұрын
I’m here😂
@supermavro6072
@supermavro6072 Жыл бұрын
Go to Turkey
@AnabethalightASMR
@AnabethalightASMR Жыл бұрын
The Bosnian 🇧🇦 guy would be pretty cute if he got rid of his goatee 😂 hehe
@rokopetrovich5406
@rokopetrovich5406 Жыл бұрын
Ahahahahaha it's my trademark 😂
@denkodel6516
@denkodel6516 Жыл бұрын
He is an ethnic Croat from Bosnia (Livno is a majority Croatian town in Bosnia-Herz) He is a Roman Catholic Croat from Bosnia with Croatian & Bosnia Citizenship. Croats are one of the 3 constitutive ethnic groups of Bosnia. If you notice above his name Mate (Catholic Croat name) it shows a Croatian and Bosnian flag.
@Crowleas
@Crowleas 6 ай бұрын
@@rokopetrovich5406 protect goatees at all cost!! If a manly Balkan lad can not nail a goatee, who would?? It's just perfect on you!
@kylesavage4525
@kylesavage4525 Жыл бұрын
Bosnian dude looks like such a likeable person. He seems to be the ideal person u want to chill and drink rakija (or raki as we call it) with the appropriate meze and chat about everything and nothing at the same time. Alexandra also needs to update her perception of Greek views on dating: - Needing the approval to even start a relationship? Absolutely not happening for quite some time now. Only for marriage and only in villages. There might be some subtle influencing from a relative for the person u date but only in extreme cases will they prevent u from marrying let alone dating anyone. We are nothing like the old Greek movies. - Younger generations don't really follow the traditional gender roles anymore. Only the older ones do so. Even if they wanted to most salaries are not sufficient to provide for the house especially if there are kids included. - Women having kids comes before having a career? I knew this was way off so i googled it. Average age of a Greek woman to have her first kid varies (depending on the source ofc) between 30,6 to 31,2. The latter btw is the world's oldest average age for first kid.
@cuorenerazzurro1661
@cuorenerazzurro1661 Жыл бұрын
Greeks are completely different and I don t know why they are considered Balkanic about mentality, traditions or whatever.
@Alexs.2599
@Alexs.2599 Жыл бұрын
@@cuorenerazzurro1661 Agreed, Greeks are more Southern European Mediterranean rather than Balkan in culture and mentality. A little Balkan but much more Southern in my opinion.
@cuorenerazzurro1661
@cuorenerazzurro1661 Жыл бұрын
@@Alexs.2599 similar to south Italians, maybe northern Greeks may be considered somehow Balkans by culture or even appearance for some of them but central and southern Greeks look even more like Lebanese rather than other Balkan countries
@Alexs.2599
@Alexs.2599 Жыл бұрын
@@cuorenerazzurro1661 Agreed, I would say though some Christian Lebanese people can look similar to certain Greeks. Greeks look like Greeks first. Than I would say similar to Southern Italians, maybe a little bit central Italian looking possibly. Than our neighbors: Southern Albanians, some Bulgarians. Than you have some Greeks that can pass as pan European. There are some Greeks that can even pass for Iberian. The more western looking Greeks. There are some Turks, especially from western Turkey, that can look similar to Greeks. We're basically a Southern South Eastern European people.
@caliphofbosnia
@caliphofbosnia Жыл бұрын
@@Alexs.2599 Spain, Southern Italy, Greece and Western Turkey has southern European vibes but I won't say Greece is more Southern European than Balkan.
@papazataklaattiranimam
@papazataklaattiranimam Жыл бұрын
Based Emir
@bercodinglive
@bercodinglive Жыл бұрын
Same
@SpartanLeonidas1821
@SpartanLeonidas1821 Жыл бұрын
You are so Goofy! 🤡🤣
@silveryfeather208
@silveryfeather208 Жыл бұрын
I think my issue with this protector mentality is that it's expected he protects you but not the other way around. Can't we both just protect each other?
@nataliasolita8152
@nataliasolita8152 Жыл бұрын
Who said it's not the other way round? Those are just different kinds of protection: I protect home - do the cleaning, the washing, the cooking, the comfort, I raise kids.. You protect us with your confidence that everything is going to be fine as we women tend to overdo with emotions. I will appreciate it if you protect us financially and physically against the hardships of the world. Balcan and other Slav women work getting at least the same, often higher salaries. So there just should be something they would rather not do themselves - carry heavy shopping bags, open grand doors, fix something at home or not pay at a restaurant. Women of these cultures usually do much more than men, thus at least some manhood is expected.
@silveryfeather208
@silveryfeather208 Жыл бұрын
@@nataliasolita8152 I just don't see why things need to be gender specific. I don't see how being financially secure is a manhood thing. It implies its only for men when really its again not gender specific. Most things are not. I mean, you do you, I just personally don't see it as something that is a "should"
@nataliasolita8152
@nataliasolita8152 Жыл бұрын
@@silveryfeather208 it was not about personal opinions, but cultural issues
@silveryfeather208
@silveryfeather208 Жыл бұрын
@@nataliasolita8152 I'm well aware they are simply speaking about what their culture says. But frankly, even with my own cultures (Chinese and Canadian) I don't quite get it. There's nothing he can protect me from that I can't do. In Canada often, it's a knife attack or a gun. It makes no difference unless he knows martial arts. I know a bit too. But in the end neither of us can fend of a gun shot. So... I don't see why we still have the culture that the man must protect. Protect from what?
@nataliasolita8152
@nataliasolita8152 Жыл бұрын
@@silveryfeather208 I think you have just one meaning of protection on your mind - physical ptotection against enemies. As I mentioned earlier, there are other types too and the one you are thinking of was not even among the ones that were on mine.
@eddyuka23
@eddyuka23 Жыл бұрын
The albanian and Serbian were outside scrapping when they made this vid
@ilhuicatlamatini
@ilhuicatlamatini Жыл бұрын
Hmm…tbh I think that parental pressure about kids and marriage might be universal. 😅 I’m American and we hear it too, though probably not as intensely? I’m not sure, but it feels annoying and stressful to hear regardless lol. Also, that girls “drama strut” was hilarious 🤣
@georgealberto1985
@georgealberto1985 Жыл бұрын
That Croatian girl Damn!!!!
@elcktrail
@elcktrail 26 күн бұрын
Emir abimin karizması 10/10
@MegaMayday16
@MegaMayday16 2 ай бұрын
Turkish guy you have a lover here in Germany Cologne. ❤
@croatianwarmaster7872
@croatianwarmaster7872 Жыл бұрын
I like Mate's shirt
@1985cactus
@1985cactus 16 күн бұрын
Is that Miso?
@MMF1674
@MMF1674 Жыл бұрын
i love how they all come forward together for the gender role questions 😂😂
@bullcraze6302
@bullcraze6302 Жыл бұрын
that 7 km walking to school story from your parents also works in Bangladesh. 😑😑😑😑
@zpruzsinszki
@zpruzsinszki 11 ай бұрын
How did you find these girls speaking fluent English? I guess they're living in the US for a long while. Also their general personality/vibe is reminding me more of an American girl than a Croatian/Macedonian (I met quite a few of them).
@jj4774ns-te5px
@jj4774ns-te5px 4 ай бұрын
God, where are you from, 🙄 whole ex Yugoslav area is very good in foreign languages and particularly in English. I was fluent in English when I was 15. I'm 30 now. School is tough over here, you know. 😒😒😒
@zpruzsinszki
@zpruzsinszki 4 ай бұрын
I'm glad you're fluent in English! However I've never met anyone who speaks a foreign language without any accent and has not lived extensively amongst native people. School won't teach you that level no matter how tough it is...
@jj4774ns-te5px
@jj4774ns-te5px 4 ай бұрын
@@zpruzsinszki it depends on a teacher, how long have you been exposed to content in English (most of our TV programme is heavily imported from anglosphere) and from what is your native dialect. However, I will argue there is a factor that beats them all, which may surprise you. :/ I can talk without foreign sounding accent, but as I was spending extensive amount of time talking with foreigners, I realised why my university teachers, some of which completed their PhD-s in Oxford and Cambridge, had a very, very hard accent when they would be speaking English while hosting foreign guest teachers (they absolutely didn't need them, they spoke more than 4 languages some of which had distinct accents and they were great in them). Only then I realised why they were "allowing" themselves to do this (only when it comes to English). Well, the thing is, a typical southern slavic person *can* imitate accents, pronunciations etc very easily, since we have a variety of accents and dialects on very small area and it's fun to imitate them growing up - especially for a speaker of official dialect Croatian and official dialect Serbian ones, because they are very flat and can be coloured into anything. But... When it comes to languages like English or Dutch or whatever language has that sound (r pronounced in English pronunciation) and the gluttal stop... It just tires us down. After a while it literally starts feeling like you're choking. My throat hurt only after an hour first time I spoke with my Canadian colleague in neutral sounding English. But it really starts to be bothersome after a while, when this experience repeats. I found that after that point, I often can't relax because I'm losing breath because throat is literally in pain. Ask any southern slavic who had experience of lengthy talk in English. It just feels like choking. We have r that rolls and that carries a lot of sound on "it's wings", and the sounds are very clear, which makes it possible to talk very fast. (draw into memory typical Russian talk) Although I can talk fast in English, it's nowhere as efficient as when I disregard intention to sound neutral. In this sense, it's really wiser to just quit that and just talk with stresses or accents like we're used to do in our own language. It's faster, it doesn't slow down the thoughts, it's more efficient, and most importantly, unlike in many languages where length of a vowel may change entire meaning of the word (including in our languages) - it's still perfectly understandable. So chances are, those people you met were capable to do neutral accent and pronunciation, maybe even mastered British accent (like one of my teachers who had degree from Oxford) - they just didn't feel like doing it. I think these people in the video spoke as they did because some of the following : - it wasn't a long time that they spent talking so they could show their best - they found a way how to talk for long without burning their throat because it became a life saving skill in new environment and they wanted to present themselves as respectful to the environment by not twisting the sounds, when they already are able to do it right ... In general, southern slavs are most adaptable immigrants, including in picking up foreign accents, even among the slavic branches. Eastern slavic, for example, have melodic accents and some sounds which are not clear, so it's much harder for them to do the same. Western slavic are better at it but lesser number of people speak English well there than in the touristy Balkans, where German and English education starts at age 6. 🤷
@kenmasters2034
@kenmasters2034 Жыл бұрын
The akward moment when you read Alexandras t-shirt... Meanwhile...no one is sitting😆
@konstantinosconstantine
@konstantinosconstantine 9 ай бұрын
By the way, this Turkish guy is gorgeous
@supermavro6072
@supermavro6072 9 ай бұрын
g🌈a🌈y🌈g🏳‍🌈a🏳‍🌈y
@konstantinosconstantine
@konstantinosconstantine 9 ай бұрын
@@supermavro6072 😆
@Crowleas
@Crowleas 6 ай бұрын
Seems that Constantine wouldn't mind an Ottoman invasion :p Yesss, empress! Good taste there ;)
@kaan_isik
@kaan_isik 3 күн бұрын
​@@CrowleasYour first 2 videos explain a lot 😁
@drummachine5787
@drummachine5787 Жыл бұрын
Paula can definitely tell me what to do anytime
@SwissArtillerie22
@SwissArtillerie22 9 ай бұрын
Balkan is a Türk word
@DavidF8969-ks2tj
@DavidF8969-ks2tj Жыл бұрын
Alexandria is back👀
@elvanamaraj7290
@elvanamaraj7290 Жыл бұрын
North Macedonian girl has so much fun haha ❤️ must be great as a company
@bobbyolsson7956
@bobbyolsson7956 Жыл бұрын
There are Macedonian people, Macedonian nation, Macedonian ethnicity. South, North, East, West, doesn't matter. They're Macedonian.
@vasiliyt8600
@vasiliyt8600 Жыл бұрын
@@bobbyolsson7956 No.
@angrybirdo
@angrybirdo Жыл бұрын
@@bobbyolsson7956well if you keep changing your ethnicity’s name it’s natural that people would be confused. To my parents and grandparents you were Bulgarians
@vanmars5718
@vanmars5718 9 ай бұрын
​@@bobbyolsson7956 Without all due respect but of course it's not like this. South is the Greek region of Macedonia and thry are Greeks. East is thr Bulgarian region of Macedonia (this tiny part) and the people there are Bulgarians. So don't come here trying to change thr nationality of all other people ebo have been there with these nationalities for centuries while this distinct "Macedonian" ethnicity is actually from the 20th century onwards. Wr all accept you as hou are but please keep it real and keep it respectful.
@Yalbou
@Yalbou Жыл бұрын
I got the impression in bosnia, albania and macedonia they are more conservative. While girls in romania and bulgaria are more open and liberal ;)
@SpartanLeonidas1821
@SpartanLeonidas1821 Жыл бұрын
North Macedonia*
@golden7811
@golden7811 8 ай бұрын
"North" or not "North", it's still Macedonia, and you still have to write the name Macedonia. So I can go buy you some tissues if you. want to cry
@benjaminflash1108
@benjaminflash1108 2 ай бұрын
Im a Turk . I've lived in Romania for 6 months. I've been to Bulgaria and Serbia as well. I was 23 at that time.From my personal experience, I gotta say Bosnia and Albania have the most conservative marriage focused women. Most of the women that I met in Romania were westernized liberal women, Although there are so many conservative woman that I met but they were older than me. I met one Albanian and she was very very conservative family oriented. Greek adn Turkish women that I met in Romania also very westernized and liberal. But they carry their roots and their culture. so it was a eye opening for me to see the other cultures :)
@wonderlandian8465
@wonderlandian8465 Жыл бұрын
Alexandra!! 😍
@tomislavgrgurevic4274
@tomislavgrgurevic4274 9 ай бұрын
As a Croatian guy (Southern Croatia) , I don't relate myself and my family traditions at all to this new, over-simplified and romantic picture of the 'Balkan' culture shown in this KZbin series. I am afraid that my opinion will be unpopular one. I don't say this does not exist, it's just one face, and just one face, a one dimension of Balkan that is lately becoming more popular and more suitable for generalization, and thus more acceptable for the new Western tastes trying to replace the old stereotypes. In the past Balkan was seen almost exclusively as a primitive, wild, uncivilized, mountainous backwater of Europe. Nowadays, the Balkan becomes a land of beautiful, authentic family ties and pastoral traditions, a land of warm, kind, loyal and empathetic, but strong, energetic and brave men and women eating grilled meat and drinking rakija that, after the wars, discover mutual similarities and become best friends....so many new stereotypes are trying to be created. Balkan is much more diverse in terms of culture and traditions, food, language, religion and music. In Croatia we are very much aware of that and because of that we experience an everlasting national identity crisis and a a lot of misunderstanding between our own people, not to mention between our closest Balkan neighbors. There is a many beautiful things about the mix of cultures and traditions in the Balkans. In some of those cultures, alcohol brings out good emotions and good vibes...it's connecting people. But too much alcohol sometimes brings out dark and violent forces buried within one-selves, within the families, within the neighbors, within the regions of the same country, and between different nations and countries....these dark forces won't go away just like that
@tomislavgrgurevic4274
@tomislavgrgurevic4274 9 ай бұрын
I have to add that I don't drink rakija and other alcohol drinks at all. I have a big family and, while growing up, I never saw any of them drunk even tho my grandpa had a big vineyard and was producing his own vine.
@daintydalmatian
@daintydalmatian 11 ай бұрын
It’s funny how they claim to agree on so much yet they hate each other jfl
@HyperManSP
@HyperManSP Жыл бұрын
Based on the North Macedonian girl's tattoos (I don't like tattoos), I thought I was gonna disagree with her the most, but she's actually quite agreeable. The Greek girl however... she just comes across as an insufferable liberal. I guess I should have expected this from the good people who brought us democracy... Though she does say that she doesn't represent the values of her country, which means Greece must be alright... whatever, the Croatian girl is my favorite.
@baranataman4049
@baranataman4049 Жыл бұрын
emir abim ne yakisikli adammisin be bizi sahane temsil ediyorsun hll spr dvm
@Derpat0n
@Derpat0n 6 ай бұрын
In Balkans when it comes to dating/marrying, the worst is the family (your parents, siblings, relatives and even friends), they will kick your arse to get married ASAP but are still extremly PICKY especially when it comes to age difference, if you are 25 and want to marry a guy 40 (who is super handsome, athletic, has stable economy/job, never had a relationship and all that, you wont ever find a 25 year old guy like this!) they will go against it despite not knowing the guy and not even want to know the guy and refuse to see how that guy is better for your daughter.... "Nah, just marry that 25 year old burger switching farmer here, its a good boy, we know his family".... i hate this about Balkans..... so if you marry the other guy anyways you are basically ending the relationship with your parents etc.
@IwillEndureToTheEnd
@IwillEndureToTheEnd 3 ай бұрын
Then end the relationship. I grew up in a Serbian abusive home. I have no contact with them today.
@i_vision_iconic
@i_vision_iconic 11 ай бұрын
That Croatian woman in the blue 🔥🔥🔥🔥
@zamatif
@zamatif Жыл бұрын
I said like 7 years ago that i'd date the Greek girl, and she's still as pretty as always
@worldcitizen677
@worldcitizen677 Жыл бұрын
Where is Serbia in all of this? 😮
@htfcm
@htfcm Жыл бұрын
It seems like the general consensus is Traditional Man = Good / Tradtitional Woman = Bad.
@lauryncovic9938
@lauryncovic9938 Жыл бұрын
I'm croatian and..you often put croatian people in these videos but they're not really croatian..they obviously don't live in croatia and maybe never have...i just think you should try to put someone truly original (like Emir is totally bosnian, we are similar in a lot of things- language, mentality...and he is wearing Mišo Kovač shirt ✨️)
@lauryncovic9938
@lauryncovic9938 Жыл бұрын
Also- we don't consider Turkey as Balkan...
@paulavuk2045
@paulavuk2045 Жыл бұрын
I’ve lived in the country, am there every 6-8 months, and speak fluently. 😊
@sucram1018
@sucram1018 Жыл бұрын
​@@lauryncovic9938 Hell, Turkey is not even European either.
@emirhan3922
@emirhan3922 Жыл бұрын
@@lauryncovic9938 even balkan word is turkish word and you say turkey isnt balkan? all your food and culture is from turkey. you have good dishes thanks to turkey
@denkodel6516
@denkodel6516 Жыл бұрын
Croats who live outside Croatia are still Croats. Just because they had to leave their homeland for a better life doesn’t make them any less “Croatian” Croats who live in USA stick to their roots, have families and homes in Croatia, visit every summer and speak the language as much as they can. The guy from Bosnia is a Bosnian-Croat Catholic from Livno and his name is Mate (distinctly Croatian name for Matthew) his name is NOT Emir. .
@salmarcano4057
@salmarcano4057 10 ай бұрын
As a Greek my self I don't really feel familiar with the Balkans
@vanmars5718
@vanmars5718 9 ай бұрын
Most Greeks don't, but people tell us that we should...so 🤷🏻‍♂️ why kot
@salmarcano4057
@salmarcano4057 9 ай бұрын
@@vanmars5718 No matter what other people say, we must separate ourselves from the Balkans 😉
@vanmars5718
@vanmars5718 9 ай бұрын
@@salmarcano4057 I don't want to separate myself from the other people of the Balkans, I just haven't been grown up feeling a particular connection per se while recognizing the similarities. Idk maybe that's because Balkans were closed up due to communism, so today it's more easy to reconnect.
@salmarcano4057
@salmarcano4057 9 ай бұрын
@@vanmars5718 I grew up the same I mostly feel familiar with Italy, Slain, Portugal, Cyprus and France
@lizelantt
@lizelantt 8 ай бұрын
We are both Balcanic and Mediterranean actually
@Fatherland927
@Fatherland927 Жыл бұрын
Men will always be the protector and provider 💪
@Fatherland927
@Fatherland927 Жыл бұрын
@shangyang6808 I respect you, but my wife is a housewife. I was raised in a patriarchal family too.
@γιουργια
@γιουργια Жыл бұрын
No, absolutely fucking not
@Fatherland927
@Fatherland927 Жыл бұрын
I love my wife and daughter♥ I feel very manly
@AnabethalightASMR
@AnabethalightASMR Жыл бұрын
👏 👏 bc women and male relationships can never be 50/50
@chrystianaw8256
@chrystianaw8256 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. A man who refuses to do that is abnormal
@matthewmann8969
@matthewmann8969 Жыл бұрын
A gteat combo of Slavic And Mediterannean as well as Dinaric, Armenoid, And Atlanto Med together.
@caliphofbosnia
@caliphofbosnia Жыл бұрын
What?
@Alexs.2599
@Alexs.2599 Жыл бұрын
@@caliphofbosnia He's referring to Phenotypes.
@darklight8549
@darklight8549 Жыл бұрын
Please explain and get into the details.
@supermavro6072
@supermavro6072 Жыл бұрын
non look dinar, they all look mixed race to me
@todobienrico
@todobienrico Жыл бұрын
mediterranean my balls
@jorge86rodriguez
@jorge86rodriguez Жыл бұрын
the balkans and Latin America seem very similar culturally
@rogerjosuefuenteslima4931
@rogerjosuefuenteslima4931 Жыл бұрын
some points. but not at all.
@caliphofbosnia
@caliphofbosnia Жыл бұрын
In terms of warcrimes and genocides, yeah, kinda. But overall, i won't say we are that similar.
@paulohalderic2322
@paulohalderic2322 Жыл бұрын
Yes. Both regions were assimilated by big empires at some point. Also, religion.
@antek-vj5ey
@antek-vj5ey Жыл бұрын
Not really. We are europeans. You are amerindians
@jorge86rodriguez
@jorge86rodriguez Жыл бұрын
@@caliphofbosnia you guys seem very conservative like Latin America, not saying is a bad or a good thing but most Latin Americans would answer the questions similarly regarding dating and gender roles. Of course we are not the same and our cultures, cuisine and history are dramatically different. But I see a lot similarities regarding dating and family values
@dan4eto89
@dan4eto89 Жыл бұрын
Where are Bulgaria and Romania? We are Balkans too...
@Zocky73166
@Zocky73166 10 ай бұрын
Bosanac je lik (bosnia guy is interesting person)
@konj11
@konj11 Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to be so blunt (even though this video generally says "we" are "always blunt"), but as a person from an urban environment in Croatia, I must say the "Croatian" girl (how many generations in diaspora removed from contemporary Croatia?) describes people who would be described as "seljačina" where I live. Google it. This is Croatia her grandparents that moved across the ocean remembered, not real Croatia where people today have as few children as late and with as many divorces as basically any western country, and where women are managers (in all of my job until now most of my bosses were women lol) and politicians (even the last president). Anyway she's describing rural areas 50 years ago, but basically, even people who live in rural areas just don't have most of these attitudes today, at least not as aggressively, and in the cities your grandmothers won't have any idea who you're dating and won't care anyway until you present your partner in a long-term relationship, and most people born after ww2 won't stand for hardcore gender roles etc., there's some of that sometimes, but come on...
@distar7471
@distar7471 Жыл бұрын
Right. I've never heard of anyone having kids at an age before 31.
@Србомбоница86
@Србомбоница86 Жыл бұрын
@@distar7471 that's way too late
@1985cactus
@1985cactus 16 күн бұрын
​​@@Србомбоница86no, it's not. More like too early
@Nerpdude12
@Nerpdude12 Жыл бұрын
🇭🇷❤🇭🇷❤🇭🇷❤🇭🇷❤🇭🇷
@lightworker_7170
@lightworker_7170 8 ай бұрын
The greek girl being so shady with the north macedonian on "do they though?" at 10:19
@eclectic505
@eclectic505 6 ай бұрын
It's because we fucking kill each other every 30 years
@Limpi43
@Limpi43 Жыл бұрын
1. man be the protector and provider Why suggest that without a man she cannot be successful? That she NEEDS a man? In real life, in a relationship any of them can be the protector and/or provider. 2. approval from family Do you choose your partner for your family or yourself? Who will live with him/her? You should choose who do you live with, not your family. It's YOUR life. 3. gender roles Why there are gender roles, in the first place? Who decided (and when) what are the gender roles? In a relationship there are two equal persons. Any and both of them are able to do anything. Nobody could name a household chore that only one gender capable of doing it. 4. drama and jealousy Why do you need any of that??? How on Earth do any of that make both of your lives better? It's like saying in a relationship you need tragedies and diseases. 5. man leads, assertive and dominant In a relationship there are two equal persons. Nobody (should) dominant or lead the other. 6. family and children before career Why can't people do the other way? Or choose career over family and children? Whose life is it? It's another suggestion that you MUST have family and children. In real life, many people can live without any (or both) of it. Have you noticed that many times however they stepped forward, actually disagree with it? But many times they are act that way because of their familes? And except #4 (drama and jelousy) all the others are backward-looking ideas? Old fashioned, outdated and not progressive. The only reason why they are still here is because for thousands of years on, men have been enjoying the benefits of it and been oppressing women, and there are still areas of the world where it's been forced to people act (and think) that way.
@jaja2536
@jaja2536 Жыл бұрын
My god, I have trauma now, I've barely forgot how they make me marry my wife. Entire family decided and organized everything, only person who asked me was I sure was my priest during confession before marriage, He knew me most of my life and tried to save me. He failed. We even have a saying when somebody scams you : oženio me :P
@nouman0596
@nouman0596 Жыл бұрын
Cool 🎉
@cycleTheHike
@cycleTheHike 11 ай бұрын
This family into dating...sooooo much either friends or family 😂
@samsonching4372
@samsonching4372 9 ай бұрын
Croatian women are gorgeous 😍
@supermavro6072
@supermavro6072 9 ай бұрын
These are Latin woman not slavs
@sonh788
@sonh788 Жыл бұрын
Yes they do. Only within other eastern Europeans or north Europeans
@BigBear59
@BigBear59 Жыл бұрын
You make great videos….Alex🇬🇷
@idrisshasni-w9f
@idrisshasni-w9f Жыл бұрын
i think all mediterranean countries have all of that in common .
@miculp
@miculp 11 ай бұрын
Balkans is human garbage . Full of loudly choleric conflictual stuff at every corner, everything is done with stress, every minor aspect is done with stress. And I m from there
@Xeneon341
@Xeneon341 Жыл бұрын
Are these ladies from the Balkans? Why do they have Western accents? You might get differing viewpoints by bringing on women from those countries.
@Alexs.2599
@Alexs.2599 Жыл бұрын
I think a few of them are diasporan, not directly from those countries.
@caliphofbosnia
@caliphofbosnia Жыл бұрын
@@Alexs.2599 Exactly and even probably disconnected diasporans.
@Alexs.2599
@Alexs.2599 Жыл бұрын
@@caliphofbosnia Yeah I agree.
@eed1228
@eed1228 Жыл бұрын
I'm from Croatia (born, raised and to this day living in my country) and I can switch from thick American to British and then Australian accent with no problem😉
@Alexs.2599
@Alexs.2599 Жыл бұрын
@@eed1228 Hahaha yes, but I think three of the ladies were probably born or maybe raised in North America.
@SteaksOnSpear
@SteaksOnSpear Ай бұрын
These are american women not real balkan women, all balkan women would be proud to say they cook and take care of their man
@ozguryuksel5242
@ozguryuksel5242 Жыл бұрын
Some kids wrote below as Turkey doesnt belong to the Balkans. Now let me straight things up for you; - Over 12 million Turks live in Thracia region of Turkey alone. We are still the most populous ethnicity in Balkans. And i would happily add Bosniaks,Albanians,Pomaks,Gagauzes,Turk Balkan diaspora to this sum. - All the foods (börek,kebap,yoğurt,köfte)-drinks(raki)-deserts(baklava sütlaç) you proudly mentioned is brought to Balkans by Turks. Yes ,Original Bulgars were Turkic so they might have their own yoğurt recipe. Or Pecheneg,Cuman tribes settled in Balkans might have introduced some nomadic foods earlier but not that widespread. - Balkans get its name from the Balkan Mountains in Bulgaria which is named after the Balkan mountains in Turkmenistan because of the resemblance. Yes Ottoman Turkmens imposed the name of the peninsula. - Music,instruments and folk dance of the Balkans are heavily influenced by Turks with middle-eastern vibes. Balkan slavic music/dances has nothing to do with their Polish,Chech,Russian cousins but Turks. Same is true with Greece/Albania and South Italia (originally inhabited by greeks and albanians till antiquity) which were seperated only few miles apart by the Otronto strait. - Good portion of every Balkan language's vocabulary is imposed by Turkish. - As a conclusion ; Turks maybe not belongs to the Balkans only but Balkans definetely belongs to Turks. - One last thing , Why did you people start to loose your moral codes , family values ,traditions as soon as Otoman Empire collapsed? Why arent you culturally like your grandparents anymore? We still are.
@mattlathrop5930
@mattlathrop5930 Жыл бұрын
Enjoyable and real. Marina you are a "Slavic Girl" why you not have 12 babies yet. Приємно і по-справжньому. Марина ти "слов'янка" чому у тебе ще немає 12 діточок. Приятно и по-настоящему. Марина ты "славянка" почему у тебя еще нет 12 деток. Agréable et réel. Marina tu es une "Slavic Girl" pourquoi tu n'as pas encore 12 bébés.
@magdabak5797
@magdabak5797 Жыл бұрын
Living in Croatia now I'm shocked how soon People have children here. Same in the city and in the villages, you met someone younger than you (I mean 20/25 or sth) and they would propably be parents already.
@ellobopoderososdl4596
@ellobopoderososdl4596 Жыл бұрын
Wow really they have kids early??
@croatianwarmaster7872
@croatianwarmaster7872 Жыл бұрын
My friend is 23 and he already made 2
@konj11
@konj11 Жыл бұрын
??? What, who, where do you live, what do those people do? I live in Zagreb and large majority of my friends at least went to some college and in mid-30s don't have children, even if they would like to have them one day (including me), like in most of developed world, just of a big series on millennial angst... When I go to my cousins in the countryside people there also mostly have children after 25-30, maybe they start a bit younger, but at 20? Maybe 20-30 years ago. And almost no one younger than 50 has more than 2 children.
@YourD3estinY
@YourD3estinY Жыл бұрын
How is the fertility rate only 1.4-1.5 Children per woman then? It might be just your bubble.
@magdabak5797
@magdabak5797 Жыл бұрын
@@YourD3estinY where did I Say that all of them have children? The one I met are very Young, but I have a lot of friends or members of my new family that are chlidless. We live in a City and I'm working with Kids So have different view on the subject.
@technoviking3266
@technoviking3266 Жыл бұрын
👍🏻
@persephone8960
@persephone8960 4 ай бұрын
got to know a greek guy and he wanted 50 50
@sianefer-ptah1258
@sianefer-ptah1258 Жыл бұрын
Such great American accents 🤔
@x_Arone_x
@x_Arone_x Жыл бұрын
En sağdakine verirdimm
@Marsase
@Marsase 8 ай бұрын
The Balkans have more countries. This is a joke.
@unutulmazsozler
@unutulmazsozler Жыл бұрын
Greek girl is very very very beautiful and so cute! I think I fell in love.
@supermavro6072
@supermavro6072 Жыл бұрын
you need sight aid
@unutulmazsozler
@unutulmazsozler Жыл бұрын
@@supermavro6072 Why isn't it so beautiful?
@supermavro6072
@supermavro6072 Жыл бұрын
@@unutulmazsozler You have low standard of beauty
@wonderlandian8465
@wonderlandian8465 Жыл бұрын
@@unutulmazsozler Don't reply to that guy, they are an Albanian troll under any Greek related video saying stupid shit
@Kbmm406
@Kbmm406 6 ай бұрын
Tipik türk erkeği
@bigtony7210
@bigtony7210 Жыл бұрын
As a Croatian, couldn't disagree more with the Croatian girl.
@dusanradin5868
@dusanradin5868 Жыл бұрын
Srba nigde..šta smo mi,banane na Balkanu?
@BIGNEM
@BIGNEM Жыл бұрын
Batice najveći video na ovom kanalu je o Srbima
@NoName-yw1pt
@NoName-yw1pt Жыл бұрын
Banane
@dusanradin5868
@dusanradin5868 Жыл бұрын
@@BIGNEM Znam al vidiš da sad nešto emamo predstavnika?Otkud?
@cansuStBenoit
@cansuStBenoit 4 ай бұрын
Bosnian girls are best
@supermavro6072
@supermavro6072 Жыл бұрын
That croatian woman is Latina/Italian. Neither slavic or Illyrian(which most Balkans are)
@silversun7830
@silversun7830 Жыл бұрын
Wrong
@supermavro6072
@supermavro6072 Жыл бұрын
@@silversun7830 She said, she is from split. Split was coIonized by vencians in 17th century, many ltalians from the south and east migrated there.
@jakobmichael97
@jakobmichael97 11 ай бұрын
how is Turkey a balkan country? 😅 maybe should have invited someone from Serbia, Kosovo, Albania as well. A part from that an entertaininh video :)
@robbiejay
@robbiejay 9 ай бұрын
Yes Turkey is a balkan country
@whatever2206
@whatever2206 9 ай бұрын
​@@robbiejayIts west Asian country, 97% in Anadolia with asian culture and language.
@robbiejay
@robbiejay 9 ай бұрын
@@whatever2206 Trachia is a part of balkans
@robbiejay
@robbiejay 9 ай бұрын
@@whatever2206 Ottomans was a balkan country. Culturally there are many similarities.
@ilknur3291
@ilknur3291 Ай бұрын
@@whatever2206 You make me laugh. Turkey is a Mediterranean country. Our ethnicity is mainly Greek and Turkic. However, our culture is almost the same as the Greeks 😬 so we fight each other. We don’t really have a common culture with people from Central Asia.
@Afer-Dita-
@Afer-Dita- Жыл бұрын
What is turkey doing there, I don’t count turkey to Balkan. Albania instead. Albanians are different then Slavic . Albanians and Greeks are identical culture wise .
@utku_baloglu
@utku_baloglu Жыл бұрын
No one cares if you count or not, don’t worry😂
@Pars1176
@Pars1176 Жыл бұрын
Balkan kültürünü oluşturan Türklerdir Balkan kelimesi Türkçedir Türkleri yok saymak Balkanlar’ı yok saymaktır
@ezgioztekin7362
@ezgioztekin7362 Жыл бұрын
Turkey is also a Balkanian country. I recommend you to read about Turkey's history and check the world map again.
@TylerDurden-kc7dc
@TylerDurden-kc7dc Жыл бұрын
put turkey outside of balkans like a put brazil outside of football. all that balkan things comes directly from ottoman empire. if it was colonial empire u guys would speak turkish rn
@whatever2206
@whatever2206 9 ай бұрын
​@@TylerDurden-kc7dcIts because Ottoman empire was before everything else a Balkan empire and not Anadolian or Turkic empire like it was thought. Even prof. Ilber Ortaylı, a Turkish historian says this.
@antek-vj5ey
@antek-vj5ey Жыл бұрын
Where s the serb girl?
@caliphofbosnia
@caliphofbosnia Жыл бұрын
She removes kebab
@NoName-yw1pt
@NoName-yw1pt Жыл бұрын
Chilling with the Bulgarian one
@antek-vj5ey
@antek-vj5ey Жыл бұрын
@@NoName-yw1pt propably haha
@antek-vj5ey
@antek-vj5ey Жыл бұрын
. I am from central greece and in dna test i tested half greek half balkan. And like me there are many greeks. North and central greece is definitely balkan. Even our traditionnal costumes are the same as balkan costumes . Like greek national male costume fustanella is the same like the as the albanian tosk national costume. Our greek female costume the embroider shirt the skirt and the gillet is the same as other balkan and slavic costumes. Even our food is the same. We have a lot of pies and my grandma cooked with lard not olive oil. olive trees do not grow in our hellinides alps mountains in mainland greece.
@ilpaesedelmiocuore2637
@ilpaesedelmiocuore2637 Жыл бұрын
wow that is so cool!
@antek-vj5ey
@antek-vj5ey Жыл бұрын
@@ilpaesedelmiocuore2637 cool or not that's the truth. Just google fustanella for male greek traditional costume. And google karagounes for greek female
@antek-vj5ey
@antek-vj5ey Жыл бұрын
@@ilpaesedelmiocuore2637 the americans tried in cold war to portray us greeks as middle easterns or as turks but we have nothing with those people. We are close to slavs and balkans and italians. Just they americans did not want us to identify with the slavs and balkans that were at that time communists. So they portray us as turks (who were at nato at that time) which is far for the truth.
@ilpaesedelmiocuore2637
@ilpaesedelmiocuore2637 Жыл бұрын
@@antek-vj5ey interesting, so Greece and ex-Yugoslavia would be the closest of kin. Would you say besides the south slavs that the other slavs (czechs, slovaks, poles) are close to Greeks?
@ilpaesedelmiocuore2637
@ilpaesedelmiocuore2637 Жыл бұрын
@@antek-vj5ey man, Greece is such a fascinating country. One of my favorite countries in Europe next to Spain and Austria.
@FatherOf0fucks
@FatherOf0fucks Жыл бұрын
Oh not this group again smh
@BIGNEM
@BIGNEM Жыл бұрын
Julien Kurac
@malolelei3937
@malolelei3937 Жыл бұрын
Emir is so cute.
@NoName-yw1pt
@NoName-yw1pt Жыл бұрын
He damn well isn't
@user-sb3yq5hi5p
@user-sb3yq5hi5p Жыл бұрын
Turkish man😮
@chrystianaw8256
@chrystianaw8256 Жыл бұрын
He is
@supermavro6072
@supermavro6072 Жыл бұрын
he ain't turkish
@user-sb3yq5hi5p
@user-sb3yq5hi5p Жыл бұрын
@@supermavro6072 is he from singapore ??
@selmasaves
@selmasaves Жыл бұрын
Been loving all these balkan videos! Purchased a few rakija t-shirts as well, great job team!
@DatingBeyondBorders
@DatingBeyondBorders Жыл бұрын
Woo!!! 🙌
@johngonzalez4298
@johngonzalez4298 Жыл бұрын
It's Alexandra 😍! Its been a while since I have seen her appearing in KZbin videos. Happy Thursday, Marina! 🥂
@byoken
@byoken Жыл бұрын
Has she gotten bigger?
@caliphofbosnia
@caliphofbosnia Жыл бұрын
Guys, you are doing good stuff. They all have different personalities which is nice for format but they all slightly insecure while behaving as a group. I suggest you to make those people know better about each other and more relaxed and then they will become their best which will be good for getting popular of them, the channel and the balkan culture. Also, the Turkish and Croat/Bosnian dude has a bromance potential :).
@yigitmuderrisoglu827
@yigitmuderrisoglu827 Жыл бұрын
@@gjergjkastriotiskanderbeg2645 it is .
@laurasopalca8433
@laurasopalca8433 Жыл бұрын
Love being Balkan , I had such a good time whatching this video , Thank you Marina 😍😍
@baranataman4049
@baranataman4049 Жыл бұрын
12:34 I love how the Bosnian and the Croation got what the Macedonian said! Their languages are all very similar, it is so cute!!
@BIGNEM
@BIGNEM Жыл бұрын
It's the same language. Macedonian is slightly diff but 90% the same as Serbo-Croatian
@bobbyolsson7956
@bobbyolsson7956 Жыл бұрын
@@BIGNEM Haha so not true. 🙂 It's like Portuguese and Spanish; or Danish and Swedish.
@croatianwarmaster7872
@croatianwarmaster7872 Жыл бұрын
@@BIGNEM no such thing buddy. There is Croatian and there is Serbian. Try translating state documents from Croatian into Serbian and you are going to have a hard time. Yes we understand each other, but that is not the unique criteria to determine if it's the same language. The more complex the subject of the conversation is, the more do Croatian and Serbian differ. In this video Croatian language was spoken.
@etnacro-pf4gb
@etnacro-pf4gb Жыл бұрын
@@BIGNEM Macedonian is 90% similar to Bulgarian, making it very different to Croatian and Serbian. Some even argue that its a Bulgarian dialect... As a Croat I can understand maybe 30% (or less) of Macedonian. Lovely people tho, very hospitable.
@BTL6666
@BTL6666 Жыл бұрын
Used to be one country before no?! Yugoslavia if you did not know...of course they understand each other...they are different but mostly the same! Basic knowledge my man of geography!!!
@temporelucemtenebris5313
@temporelucemtenebris5313 Жыл бұрын
As a Croatian, I have to say that even my Croatian friends tell me I'm too blunt. That part about assertiveness is absolutely true. I comfortably directly hit on women in the middle of the day in front of a few friends, and I have no problem hitting on her friend a few days later if she rejects, but at the same time we're very monogamous. I like that I can do that.
@caliphofbosnia
@caliphofbosnia Жыл бұрын
That is pretty common for Bulgarian men as well but if you are not good looking dude women will ticket you as pervert tho.
@temporelucemtenebris5313
@temporelucemtenebris5313 Жыл бұрын
@@caliphofbosnia yeah, I don't care about that tbh
@paulohalderic2322
@paulohalderic2322 Жыл бұрын
Alexandra was our first crush from previous videos, now it's Paula. 🤣 Also that behaviour that they describe has a lot to do with gender historical roles and religion. No judgement though.
@BIGNEM
@BIGNEM Жыл бұрын
She's my crush too 💯
@ellobopoderososdl4596
@ellobopoderososdl4596 Жыл бұрын
With me it's always been Paula.
@wonderlandian8465
@wonderlandian8465 Жыл бұрын
Still Alexandra for me
@supermavro6072
@supermavro6072 Жыл бұрын
I thought Greeks were only gays, well they lesbian too. Interesting
@5566letslearnEnglish
@5566letslearnEnglish Жыл бұрын
Great video ❤ Thank you Marina
@Hosigie
@Hosigie Жыл бұрын
Uphill on the way there, uphill on the way back. I'm Croatian and this is so true.
@aprendilendo4184
@aprendilendo4184 Жыл бұрын
12:36 the last guy looked so shocked 😂
@stephengeorgieff3360
@stephengeorgieff3360 Жыл бұрын
This whole video is sooo unbelievably on point. 🇧🇬 is represented to an absolute T, without even being there. Also, the croatian girl is 🔥
@ClementePR21
@ClementePR21 Жыл бұрын
The Croatian girl is gorgeous 😍, is she single??.
@DevelopingStartups
@DevelopingStartups Жыл бұрын
why would you want to create drama? no appreciation for peace and love overflowing in the household,? I think people who need drama in their relationship is mentally a wilder beast, like no independent thinking. Also women/couples are willing to spend mony on restaurants to appreciate good food, why not appreciate having the skill for yourself rather than resisting being able to cook just because of some old school thinking: being able to cook brings you a lot of appreciation from many ppl
@caliphofbosnia
@caliphofbosnia Жыл бұрын
From my own perspective, Bulgarian chicks dig for drama as well. It would be wise for man to create some controllable little drama to prevent chance of a giant drama that will be comes from nowhere by her lady in future if he is any experienced with ladies.
@RexDavis415
@RexDavis415 Жыл бұрын
Women like drama, they need that emotional roller coaster. It's backwards logic, but it keeps the relationship interesting.
@danadd7576
@danadd7576 Жыл бұрын
Love this format. Aleays makes me laugh.
@tobiojo6469
@tobiojo6469 Жыл бұрын
Awesome video, keep making more videos like this
@mctavishomagh7715
@mctavishomagh7715 Жыл бұрын
Shame there's some misplaced angst again being a woman here i.e Greek lady
@valerio226
@valerio226 Жыл бұрын
They really said "now let's do one without the gypsies"
@hasancalskan4720
@hasancalskan4720 Ай бұрын
Türkiye balkan değil
@SpencerLowe-kg4rg
@SpencerLowe-kg4rg Жыл бұрын
My wife is Macedonian
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