Dealing With Relationship Insecurity | 10 Tips To Handle Insecurity

[@TheCoberto]

Yep. I am the type to overthink something so much and create a problem that doesn't even exist.

[@TheHammerboy213]

Same here, bro! If you happen to get any advice on how to deal with that, I'll gladly listen to it

[@Elrastaboliviano]

shitttt

[@ChaosWolfNinja]

I overthink things to and I mess up quite often.

[@raduvlad4429]

same here...my main problem,always overthinking everything

[@devendrakadam9788]

Same

[@nads291]

*I overthink situations atleast 36 times per week. Its unhealthy.*

[@SixStringsCovers]

I used to overthink too much before but not anymore. I somehow overcome anxiety and I feel positive and energised almost every minute and don't care of what people think and stopped prove them who I am. When we stop doing this and going on our way and release the negative energy from others, life is going great.

[@codeblackandred2931]

zumzy u fuck you

[@gasscooterdude]

@zumzy u fuck off you waste of oxygen

[@menace2societies]

think less and live more.

[@KlephenTurry]

Pschhhhhh 34 times a day more like for me

[@ninjadude971]

I've noticed that often times I resent someone for the pain they *could* cause me rather than pain they *have* caused me.

[@jeremiah9117]

I know they are many ups and down in a relationship, And spouse feeling insecure about their relationship i refer you to Cyber_Crackers26 on instagram he helped me hack into my spouse phone and got lot of information in her phone, The saddest part was that she was cheating.

[@jeremiah9117]

I know they are many ups and down in a relationship, And spouse feeling insecure about their relationship i refer you to Cyber_Crackers26 on instagram he helped me hack into my spouse phone and got lot of information in her phone, The saddest part was that she was cheating.

[@sagemechling6679]

I felt this comment hard

[@alexporter7379]

Right there with you man. I create entire situations where they COULD hurt me, based on older hurts from past relationships.

[@sharockjones1044]

Damn that’s real

[@emgeevic524]

1. Don't judge your relationship according to your past relationship. 2. Don't confuse imagination with reality 3. Stop trying to mind read. 4. Once you asked, don't keep asking. 5. Your relationship needs to breathe. 6. Relationships aren't all about roses and puppies. 7. Do not snoop. 8. Go with your gut. 9. Nobody else is responsible for your happiness but you. 10. Relationships are supposed to feel good. It supposed to feel better.c

[@Stealthcricket]

EmGee Vic I screen shot this so I can read it til it sinks in.

[@GS-st2sp]

@@Stealthcricket same here

[@Foxsxxy]

👏

[@alanjackson3991]

My wife was cheating on me, I could feel it but I had no proof so I talked to a friend in the mall where I worked turns out he’s been in my type of situation then he suggested benclerkson44 on IG, I didn’t actually think it was possible until he helped me hack into my wife’s phone and all her social media accounts and I got to confirm that what I suspected is true... I feel soo bad but I had to do what I did to know my grounds. Relationship my friends could be soo sickening🤧

[@MiaCarter7]

I get “go with your gut” confused with the rest of them. There is like no more proof that he can possibly give me that he isn’t trying to screw me over but I still get worries and figure it’s my gut. Smh

[@prinsipee6722]

I dont know why but when I watched this the heavy feeling in my chest slowly fades away

[@itstenebro]

I'm glad I'm not the only person that was feeling that 🤦🤘✊

[@isaiasmolina2594]

Bro same

[@aleruchiì]

Same my third time here watching

[@creekin4lifemo313]

Me too bro. Me too.

[@augustinenyeswah8211]

Me too

[@vottgam4953]

1. Don't judge your relationship according to your past relationship. 2. Don't confuse imagination with reality 3. Stop trying to mind read. 4. Once you asked, don't keep asking. 5. Your relationship needs to breathe. 6. Relationships aren't all about roses and puppies. 7. Do not snoop. 8. Go with your gut. 9. Nobody else is responsible for your happiness but you. 10. Relationships are supposed to feel good. It supposed to feel better. (This is not the original comment, I copied it for myself incase i need to come back to this video and i lose the other one)

[@khaiz_________________k]

Anyway thankyou brother ❤

[@reginamcclay6701]

Thank you for making that list. I asked my husband to give our marriage a second chance and he first asked why now. We have been married 22 years . We were under separate roof for ten. But I would go on weekends where he lived to be with him. At this time he was in relationship with his coworker. He didn't tell her we were back together. He didn't delete all the flirtatious messages. Everytime the cell rings I get upset. So now when I go to be with him on weekends he will turn the ringer off because of how I get upset. He says he hasn't texted her and vice versa. I've gotten a little better. But I want my self esteem back. I want to not think about him with this person.

[@abhimanyuverma1274]

These tips are on point. My father gave me another very important tip sometime ago and I would like to share it all you people out there. He told me that you cannot make someone stay. A relationship is about two people being together no matter what. As Aaron said that there will be ups and downs but you stay together. That's a true relationship. The only thing that matters is that you stay true to your partner. You cannot stop someone from cheating by being insecure. You would just be burning yourself inside out. Stay true and stay loyal.

[@beautifuldsire1]

Great advice!

[@kaungmakaung89]

Stephanie Ayala thanks for sharing bro

[@nathansmith8179]

Abhimanyu Verma this comment still helps even a year later ^~^ thanks

[@gabrielfernandez924]

something to feed my mind. Good one man

[@keahililia8208]

Love the advice!

[@zimojiang1632]

Insecurities nearly destroyed my relationship. She didn't reply since 3 days ago,I was insecure and anxious, assuming that she had abandoned me,then I texted something stupid like"you can just tell me if you want to break up.Im moving on." Later I watched this video,then deleted those messages immediately. And texted"are you alright, I'm here for you." Later she texted back:"I was in hospital, badly ill, they won't let me use phone." I won't feel insecure anymore.

[@mingvlogs]

Wow good thing u rethought it! She would’ve felt so hurt

[@שגהש]

Damn bro. I can understand you tho, I'd overanalyze it too after 3 days. But I wouldn't recommend to raise the subject of breaking up like this.

[@wavey2838]

Nah 3 days is too long though. But it was insecurity it concerned and you had a right to that

[@alvinlowery7832]

Yeah bro dont be insecure I lost the love of my life.

[@alvinlowery7832]

@Xeino so did she know u was in the hospital? U said "barely texted her" so did u let her know u was sick in the hospital?

[@theboulder3322]

Tip 1 response: -bold of you to assume I’ve had a past relationship.

[@muskannamdeo6574]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Destybun]

Or one that was serious

[@satvikkarki7230]

😂😂😂

[@radhikapaswan-tk3ei]

[@lin3378]

hello the boulder, how is the earth bending?

[@TheRubberDuckxo]

I feel like I am ruining my relationship because of my insecurities. I am guilty of asking constant questions and I can see it upsetting my boyfriend and I know it will push him away eventually if I do not stop. This video has given more confidence and a strong mind set to change. I don’t want to lose him !

[@chrisinnaabyss]

i can relate to that a lot

[@Aven.Baspholith94]

I wish you good luck. I am trying to build a strong and positive mindset myself but dang it sometimes it’s so difficult and painful to let go of the fears

[@Kevinproducciones2]

Hello how is it going right now with your relationship?

[@ryanturner9979]

@@Kevinproducciones2 its oki feel overly jealous and im thinking so much

[@snehatrivedi8931]

Same situation...He is extreamly good looking nd girl snoopin on him daily

[@Krathor18]

I'm so insecure because I've never felt the love I have for my girlfriend so strongly before and I don't want it to ever end. Thank you for this!

[@ryanbishop7134]

I completely relate

[@hiramgonzalez8668]

Same

[@lihclore]

same man. i am a very very very jealous guy but am not manipulative and controlling i just keep it all in and it hurts. she’s out drinking at parties and doing whatever the hell and i’m the one sitting here like a jackass. we aren’t dating but even when we do (hopefully) i don’t want her drinking 3 days in a row so much with a bunch of guys there and everyone else drunk. just sucks

[@tithychoa8491]

Yea bro I hate this feeling

[@tithychoa8491]

Breathe

[@tonyn2330]

What I take away is that a lot of people are looking for how to not have insecurities but in reality, all we can do is “manage” them. Don’t let those scenarios that your head makes up about your S.O. destroy your relationship. Speaking from experience!

[@jeremiah9117]

I know they are many ups and down in a relationship, And spouse feeling insecure about their relationship i refer you to Cyber_Crackers26 on instagram he helped me hack into my spouse phone and got lot of information in her phone, The saddest part was that she was cheating.

[@jeremiah9117]

I know they are many ups and down in a relationship, And spouse feeling insecure about their relationship i refer you to Cyber_Crackers26 on instagram he helped me hack into my spouse phone and got lot of information in her phone, The saddest part was that she was cheating.

[@ryderzapata7543]

is it me or is this guy a legend ?

[@019andre]

Ryder Zapata one of the realest KZbinr.

[@jaythevillain7684]

Goat status.

[@Gehrber]

When in doubt its this guy that's a legend and not you 😁

[@TheCharismaAcademy]

The internal mental state is so important - remembering that your significant other is NOT the same as your ex is fantastic.

[@randhie9406]

Its very helpful man..thanks alot

[@dhya60]

That's if you have an ex in the first place, or even a significant other.

[@S_Patty0331]

Oh man. Listen up boys! This video hit me hard. When I was with my ex and things were off I sure did ask, but come to find out she always lied to my face. So I decided to snoop, turns out she was cheating on me with 2 other dudes. It was constant gaslighting from her too. I'm in the Marines, and my time is precious. She knew how to mess with my head and sacrifice my little free time for her benefit. My mind and body crumbled. Worst pain I've ever been through, that was almost a year ago and I'm still always going through the hurt. Thanks for listening.

[@macg2431]

i know how that feels brother, currently stationed overseas went through the same bullshit, hope you are doing better man.

[@S_Patty0331]

@@macg2431 I sure am, when I wrote this comment I was 2 months into talking to a new woman. We are dating now, absolutely amazing woman. Very honest and truthful, all around just amazing! Thank you for asking.

[@bradleysebastian9051]

I am not married but I have cheated on my boyfriend but It wasn't actual sex. I regret it still and I will always regret it till the day I die. My boyfriend forgave me. I am always honest with my boyfriend and he knows that. That is one of the reasons why he forgave me. He knows that it wasn't my intention to cheat. I didn't want to It's just I felt pressured. My boyfriend forgave me but I haven't really forgiven myself. I feel so stupid. Being able to forgive and to let go of past hurts is a critical tool in marriage. Additionally, being able to forgive is a way to keep yourself healthy both emotionally and physically. Lack of forgiveness can also wear you down. Being unforgiving takes both a physical and mental toll. Resentment gains momentum and chips away at the foundation of your well-being and your relationship. The act of forgiveness can reduce the risk of heart attack, lower cholesterol levels, improve sleep, reduce pain, lower your blood pressure, and decrease levels of anxiety, depression, and stress. The hurt you have suffered may make a difference. Certainly, it is more difficult to forgive a spouse for years of infidelity than it is for a minor mistake such as forgetting to pay a bill on time. Try to be patient with yourself as you experiment with different strategies. Are you wondering if it is really possible to listen to someone’s call with your phone? if yes, We are in the technology age where everything is possible to do. With this magic code, you can monitor your remotely access your loved ones device to keep them safe. mobilespousespy.strikingly.com

[@reciabowen40]

Think i'll watch this Video everyday, cause right now i have no chill

[@ettajames4309]

recia bowen 😂😂😂 I'm right there with you sistah.

[@ettajames4309]

recia bowen 😂😂😂 I'm right there with you sistah.

[@erica6386]

Same here lol like every day ..every night haha

[@shroomie1166]

recia bowen same 😂👌

[@bdpatton2]

Hahah word

[@ForDollzzOnly]

My boyfriend is insecure, I wanna help him get better because I'm not here to hurt him

[@AL-SH]

I wish there were more girls like you, the world would have been a better place.

[@jennytehlia1724]

ForDollzzOnly at least you wanna help mine just gave up

[@ixii0003]

Can u help me too im an insecure boyfriend :(

[@britten1015]

Wish my gf would think like that I'm insecure i told her and she just laughed

[@chiloi5875]

ForDollzzOnly can I just say as a boyfriend how grateful I am for people like you out there! I hope your relationship lasts as long as it can!!

[@101whoisthis]

My girlfriend and I have been getting in arguments because in the last few months my personal insecurities have been affecting us as a whole. This video is really helping me a lot. I need to play this every morning and night before bed

[@LeRiderOP]

Good luck buddy 😇👍

[@101whoisthis]

@@LeRiderOP we broke up 💀

[@LeRiderOP]

@@101whoisthis Damm.. Dint see that coming.. Hope you are doing good mn..

[@Justokky]

I'm gonna keep coming back to this video whenever i start to feel insecure. Helpful video!

[@jukanator]

@@victoriadorgu3207 dont do that..

[@adameah9333]

True

[@angelineclaudetterebong9218]

Mee too 😍😍😍

[@JAZZSTARish]

Insecure no just smash and dash

[@JAZZSTARish]

@@angelineclaudetterebong9218 you too what?

[@שגהש]

When my new girl doesn't reply for a few hours I start slowly freaking out and accepting the fact that we might break up That's so annoying lmao, gotta start working on that shit

[@DARKWOLF-td1lw]

Don’t simp let girls simp over you

[@alanjackson3991]

My wife was cheating on me, I could feel it but I had no proof so I talked to a friend in the mall where I worked turns out he’s been in my type of situation then he suggested benclerkson44 on IG, I didn’t actually think it was possible until he helped me hack into my wife’s phone and all her social media accounts and I got to confirm that what I suspected is true... I feel soo bad but I had to do what I did to know my grounds. Relationship my friends could be soo sickening🤧

[@OFFTHEDOMEApparel]

I thought i was the only one

[@victorjperez9384]

Bro, fr. I absolutely hate that feeling. I ask myself WHY??? lol

[@riffage1999]

@@alanjackson3991 it’s ok, you deserved to know

[@PlanetMobius87]

I was in a great relationship for almost ten years, but it ended when she passed. I was single for 3, started dating again and getting screwed left and right. Now I'm with someone amazing who is everything I want and need but I have these exact feelings and they're getting worse. I'm glad I decided to search for help and I'm glad I found this video

[@catherinehooks3064]

Dr Steve can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him

[@catherinehooks3064]

What"sapp him

[@catherinehooks3064]

[phone]🙏🏾 🙏🏾

[@LarryLynx]

About tip number 1: The level of trust you have for other people is something that add up from all of your previous experience. You can't just decide to trust people because trust is mostly instinctual. Trust is something you either have or don't, and changing it takes a lot of time and effort. That is why trust issues are hard to work around, unfortunately.

[@aidanjg1]

Thank you. I have been insanely paranoid for a few weeks now, and it’s slowly just been killing me inside. I am more in love with my girlfriend than I ever thought possible. I feel as if I’ve been pushing her away with my paranoia and insecurities - my biggest fear is to lose her. This video really helped me put things into perspective. Thank you

[@fannyjacob8535]

The dude is just not fakeing . The finishes of the goals. Beautiful. Magisterial. Love you *Minslegend!.* .🙏🏼

[@BijoubyBecca]

You deserve my sub bro. Thank you for this. Seriously need it because I'm about to destroy my relationship because of my insecurities. I don't want it to happen. Thank you so much

[@lee645]

+Dizzyallaround96 hello. how is everything now? i am facing the same thing too.

[@son.games_]

+Becca Morgan Same position.

[@heartsrlovable]

I was in the same boat. I went through my bf phone and i told him i did. i felt so bad and sincerely apologized because i was wrong and it was my insecurity that got in the way. he forgave me and i hope our relationship can be stronger from this. i will NEVER do that again!

[@bosschedda_]

Same here. me and my lady just had falling out because of my insecurities.

[@sondrehansen2547]

Agreed

[@إيمان-ل2ج]

*Been with my boyfriend for 4 years, he just broke it off when I started acting jealous again a few days ago. I want him back, I want to change and become secure.*

[@xvoxo3073]

Victoria E. Dorgu that’s toxic as fuck

[@jonsmith8083]

You are the cheater

[@Tadical]

@@victoriadorgu3207 thats extremely not okay

[@ericdunn5018]

@@Tadical she is a bot

[@Tadical]

@@ericdunn5018 oh

[@noahking2451]

Cheers Fellas, Proud of you guys for opening up and sharing. Makes me Happy to be Human again. I was feelin real crazy like I was the only man in the world that struggled with trusting

[@israelramirez6336]

My girlfriend and I are having a break from each other, mostly because i overthought and created a problem between us. There’s a lot more to the story than just “it’s my fault”, but we both agreed we need the time to focus on our own personal issues. I will watch this video every day, until I learn to cope with my overthinking and insecurities. I will get through this. I will post an update as soon as I can, and I hope I better myself. 💪

[@ILikeTrains324]

tell me how it goes man just went through the exact same experience as you, am on break with my girlfriend and am working hard on bettering myself. Also with me, there's more to it than it's 'just my fault'. I have reason to be the way I am but am working on bettering myself nontheless. Cheers man.

[@giodexialamine7914]

So what’s new

[@MIKE-yq1co]

Israel Ramirez did you get better cuz I suffer too bro

[@VenomShotYou]

He died

[@aishwardhan6478]

R.I.P

[@OrbGoblin]

Damn man, you're really cranking out some great content lately.

[@alpham]

OrbGoblin Thanks brother... trying to do the best I can!

[@joshdixon5845]

Totally agree

[@godslove8682]

+alpha m. This really made sense. I keep judging myself and my boyfriend. Girls fall for him like leaves from a tree. I know that he is not gonna date anyone though, however I still fear as I trust him but not the girls around as all are not the same. there are these bf snachers. I duno wot to do.

[@ADITYAGKULKARNIBEC]

+alpha m. Really alpha your work is real helpful to we guys especially when we are in need of it

[@jomelysalas6138]

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[@sbrazenor2]

I only snooped once. I looked at one text message and it was entirely enough to end the relationship. My ex-gf (we had been together over 5 years) had been talking to her friend about finding an apartment, so she could leave me. There had been weeks of clues, things had already been turning downward, and it took a lot to get me to that point. I'm a normally intuitive person, so I didn't expect anything worse. I didn't pussy-foot around the issue either. I just dropped the situation on the table and made no excuses. To this day, I'm sure I did the right thing for my situation. (I ended a toxic relationship.)

[@some105]

SeanFromPVD Congratz bro. In the end it was kinda the best decision and I hope you did it because it was getting to be your last chance. Good luck my friend. You dodged a bullet, really :)

[@SaiF290]

+SeanFromPVD I've never had a girlfriend (about to be 19) but to be honest, these kinds of stories make me so scared to even try to find one. Like I can't imagine wasting 5 YEARS of my life on someone and then something like that happens. 5 YEARS!!! That's awful man, I'm sorry to hear.

[@sbrazenor2]

+Saif S Don't be discouraged by the 'horror' stories. There are a lot of possibilities that will come from dating and relationships. It's a statistics game, really. You have to interact with a lot of girls to find the ones with a mutual attraction, then over-time you determine if your values are aligned, and your goals. (i.e. Do you see yourselves together in 10 years? Do you both want kids; if so, when?; etc.) In part, I should have left the relationship sooner. This is because of drama issues with her family, emotional incompatibility (I'm very logical, she was very emotional and irrational.), and we were growing further apart in our goals and values. If you do the hard digging early on, you can weed out the bad ones (or duds, as I call them) fairly quickly. The best advice I can offer is to have fun. Don't look at dating as a chore, or a means to find 'the one'. If you do, it will be discouraging and feels like work. Instead, go and meet ladies you enjoy being in the company of and see where it goes. As a side point, if you want to have sex, don't talk about sex first. Just show interest in staying romantic, but don't mention sex first. I often allow the woman to come to that topic first, because it allows them to commit to it mentally as a goal, and it feels like an accomplishment for them. (Women want what is not readily available.) If 'you' bring it up then one of two things happens, either you look needy, or they assume you're only spending time with them for sex. (Which they won't give you.) In many facets of relationships you're going to find that in order to get a desired result, you'll need to do the opposite of what should make sense. (i.e. If you want her to spend more time with you, ignore her a bit, so she has to reach out and try to get time with you.) I've been at this 'dating game' since you were a toddler, so trust me, I've learned a lot. Despite being an overweight, fairly average looking guy, I've slept with more than 3X the average partners that a man usually does. I've also dated tons of women. (I can't honestly remember how many, but it's likely over 100 over the years.)

[@SaiF290]

SeanFromPVD Wow dude, thanks for the advice. I consider myself average or slightly above avg looking but I dress really neat, groom myself and stuff like that, i'm skinny fat (more on the skinny side), but i've been working out and really enjoying the process, a lot of older people say I'm really handsome but I think its just to be nice lol, two girls have said I have a really nice smile back in HS and I can talk to girls pretty easily and make jokes with them as long as I know them already (I was extremely socially anxious all my life until I decided to talk to people in the middle of hs, it was painful at first but I made some nice friends). I thought a few girls may have liked me in hs (they laughed at everything I said, made eye contact, whatever), but like next thing you know, they have boyfriends lol. I just find it really hard to be all flirty with a girl that I hardly know, and just deciding whether you like a girl or not based on her appearance. I'm not looking primarily for sex, although I'm a man so of course I want it haha, but what I'm looking for is a meaningful relationship, someone that I can marry later on and now that I've just started college, it seems so unrealistic to think that big because I don't know any girls yet and they just seem so unfriendly and closed, you know? And how am I supposed to date one of them if I can't even get to know them? And like I said, even the ones you know, they always have a new boyfriend. Sorry for the long reply man, again I'm sorry that your 5 years of dedication went to waste.

[@BloodhoundFitness]

Look man, just went through a break-up last week. Real bad. I also felt like I wasted 4 years of my life or better said I misused and didn't take full advantage of that time. But afterwards you start to look at life in a different perspective. We broke up on my birthday by coincidence and I finally feel like I'm past the teenie fantasy bull. It was the hardest reality check I ever faced, and I'm glad it happened.

[@brianlee1028]

you're so laid back and just really straight forward about stuff. I felt like you were actually talking to me in this video lol. everything you said really is what I needed to hear. without a father figure, being an 18 year old guy who was raised by a single mother was tough when it came to relationship advice. I also suffer from mild paranoia. and am very insecure due to being bullied throughout school. thanks man. truly. you just gained a new subscriber!

[@bobbytremmel8078]

He is so right about the snooping. Perfect actually. It is so addicting and becomes a priority after that. You just have to let things pan out. You cannot control what your partner does, anything that does happen will surface. I myself actually found that I gained sooo much trust and integrity in my partner when I didn't go through her phone etc..

[@straycat9967]

I feel like I need to watch this every so often.

[@leosf9751]

Bruh RIGHT?!?!?!

[@carlvincentvingno6778]

I feel so relieved, Damn I overthink everytime too much, I always got jealous everytime my partner is talking or having a communication with someone online or personally but I'm so thankful that I had watched this before everythig is too late.

[@alanjackson3991]

My wife was cheating on me, I could feel it but I had no proof so I talked to a friend in the mall where I worked turns out he’s been in my type of situation then he suggested benclerkson44 on IG, I didn’t actually think it was possible until he helped me hack into my wife’s phone and all her social media accounts and I got to confirm that what I suspected is true... I feel soo bad but I had to do what I did to know my grounds. Relationship my friends could be soo sickening🤧

[@chubbymike3372]

@@alanjackson3991 shut the flying fuck up fricking bot.

[@derekstone1657]

I feel like I'm dieing internally being in this "relationship" I'm in and it's ultimately draining my energy and mental clarity. The insecurities, the verbal and physical abuse, the overwhelming amounts of stress and accusations on a daily basis I feel has reached it's maximum peak. I'm ready to be free and finally see myself smile again and for once feel a sense of joy and happiness.

[@Itsryann93]

This video helped me a lot. I'll admit I have been being an insecure partner; and I even shameful to say, snooped in their phone. You said it's impossible to stop once you have done that, but I am really trying to take the steps to becoming a better boyfriend. For example today, my partner left their phone in the car while I was in it waiting. I had the opportunity to look through it, but I chose not to. I will continue to refer back to this video whenever I get anxious and feel the need to do something stupid. Thank you!

[@MLGtroll365]

yeah because you will find out that youre not the only guy. trust me. unless you dont care then look all you want.

[@beautifuldsire1]

Going through the same thing right now. Insecurities are a bitch.

[@martimihov]

Same here 😅

[@Mrillsick]

Broke up cause of being insecure just 5 days ago! Congrats on 500k subs btw!

[@Marcos.R.Morales]

***** what did you do exactly?

[@Mrillsick]

***** we decided to take a break and within that break she posted a pic with a dude and had a heart next to his name. Confronted her and yeah...

[@Marcos.R.Morales]

yeah thats a low blow man, probably didnt feel shit for that dude, and just did it to make you mad/send a message , you did the right thing!

[@Mrillsick]

***** and the next day she posted a snap on her story of a dude kissing her forehead xD

[@some105]

***** Bro, trust me, forget her and stop looking at her stuff. Clearly she doesn't care about how you feel, that shit is messed up. You'll find someone better :)

[@apri9601]

I’ve found a really really amazing guy and we’re both crazy about each other but my insecurity almost messed us up about a week ago and we’re better now but I’m really trying to get over how insecure I am for our relationship. This is really helpful

[@DerGuteDisser]

how did it go? i wish you all the best!

[@apri9601]

@@DerGuteDisser He wasn’t as amazing as I thought lol. He became toxic, and I’m pretty sure he cheated on me, because the second we broke up he was commenting on other girls’ posts and following his ex. I got over it and now I have an anniversary in 3 days with an amazing guy and I’ve decreased my insecurities by a LOT.

[@NostalgiaMan]

My Friend you age well like fine wine .

[@karamira7809]

Kindly Contact Mr. Crystal Louis * {WhatsApp /Telegram: [phone] or [e-mail] or Instagram = Crystal_hackers}* He is simply the best. I got full access to my partner's messages, calls, e-mails, and secret dating profiles. The best way to avoid a psychological breakdown after having to deal with infidelity is to make sure you are not just assuming your partner is cheating. Get the closure you deserve, Give your heart a chance to know.

[@jamescowry2805]

I really can't believe that I will have fully access into my wife's phone ,not until I contacted HACKMARVIN1*on Instagram who hack my wife's phone and also unlock my daughter's phone without losing any data you can also contact him on his WhatsApp number [phone] .■■■

[@firetrucklover]

Trt and hgh will do that

[@felicityadj5886]

you kicked me in the ass with that video....thanks bro...appreciate it..

[@abdelmsasi2739]

Yeah too

[@randomperson360]

Honestly what helps me most is knowing wow guys get insecure too? Because I feel like I’m not normal when I get insecure and I worry that I’m the only one feeling it. What helps me most is talking to my boyfriend about it and when he’s open enough to say that he gets insecure sometimes too. That helps me a lot and feel closer and connected with him. Because both sides get insecure both sides worry and staying in open and healthy communication is honestly the best thing to do with those worries instead of creating images and scenarios in your mind and looking for things to be worried about. All these tips are so true and so helpful. Thank you!

[@mikeangelofernandes2489]

I am a better guy today because of him 👆🏻

[@joshgarcia6339]

I'm so jealous and I can't help it it's so hard I'm a fool I need help

[@thetacticalexperience]

Josh Garcia wat u need?

[@mostwatchnasavedeos]

Josh gv it a time bro jusy imagin let people do what they want and see what happens afte they do it just thing did somthing happen no nothing evrrything is alright u can do with out him and if he r she gets bettr still its okay there r so many people doing bettr things and r bettr face them and than tell yourself u r okay it did nt effect you and you faced it successfully the more you will face it the more you would b ready for these all things

[@amari5435]

Ikr

[@albedo9617]

The comment above you?

[@cam_nvnn]

Girlfriend went through my phone, found a 6 month old message and overreacted to it. There goes a 4 year relationship and the women I love. Always communicate with a person!

[@taniacristinagrant]

I'm a little confused by this comment!? If it was a four year relationship and she found an incriminating message from 6 months ago then this implies that something inappropriate was exchanged with someone outwith the relationship 🤔 There is no statue of limitations in committed relationships

[@ambreblood]

You got FUcKED bro

[@animeshtiwari9385]

I've been watching this channel since i was 16...and boy when i need some serious advice i return back to this channel...

[@TheLocochico]

Watching this a little too late

[@jennytehlia1724]

TheLocochico same here

[@andrewchr]

same here :p but hopefully not that late

[@mikeg2326]

me too man

[@extraspiceyy7408]

Andreas Christofi same

[@aquarianselarom2515]

Sad.

[@savannahlashelle7801]

I over think almost everything too and am insecure in my relationship. and have trust issues. Then I lash out at my boyfriend and get angry at him and don't believe what he's saying, I can be mean to him and say things I know aren't true. And yet he still stays with me and understands and helps me through my insecurity, which I'm so blessed to have. It's hard to change, even though I know I'm hurting him Everytime I get angry and lash out. If someone is insecure and struggling with that, don't leave them for that. They can't help it and they need help overcoming it. They need someone who loves them for them and can be understanding. 💖

[@Grandcathedral]

my boyfriend is like this and im so lucky but I have the same issue , which is why im here ; - ; I wanna be the best version of myself for him its just my brain and it sucks . I snoop and question and make faulse accusations and I know im not all that yet he is still with me uuuuhhgggg I just scared he gonna leave . Why the hell would you stay?

[@BoyceAvenueiLOVEYU93]

I'm the exact same way ! I dont deserve him. He stays and fight for me! I break up with him so much because I'm insecure and always looks for problems to leave

[@nunu1948]

We will get through this!!

[@barsalimbu8626]

@@BoyceAvenueiLOVEYU93 damn i couldn't agree more.

[@runningsocal00]

Great point about "reading into everything."

[@allie7585]

I'm a girl but I love this channel haha. he gives amazing tips which cross over to a woman dating a man...plus he's pretty handsome :)

[@kimberleykooijman5848]

Haha, Same here :) +

[@amateruss]

You're pretty handsome too.

[@abdullahkhatri226]

Wow Aaron, I'm speechless. Let me take a moment to say how much I appreciate your values and the way you express them. Absolutely beautiful. Every point has a deep meaning behind it. Your wisdom is really respected. Not surprising you've got a half a million subscribers. :)

[@David-fl4xw]

Whenever you think of a situation in your head or a scenario, your brain can’t actually tell the difference between it being in your head and actually happening. When I realized that it really helped me to stop worrying about it!

[@abellengyel3398]

You can just say "partner" instead of "girlfriend or boyfriend or whatever you're into"😂

[@samfiction8830]

We said that for my friend who's into goats

[@KuraiVll]

This video is old

[@abhijeetrai2173]

@@samfiction8830 is he muslim

[@mahyargharehdaghi9383]

@@abhijeetrai2173 he's my brother

[@Irene-gq4jr]

My fiancé and I use each other's phones and computers all the time, tends to be we pick up whichever gadget is handy to look up info on the web. This works because we know each other's friends, neither of us has anything to hide and we fully trust and tell each other everything, yet we're resepectful of each other's right to have private conversations with friends and family. Conversely, I think it's pretty suspicious if someone doesn't let their phone or laptop out of their sight and flips out if you go near it.

[@fsxanas90]

Irene thnk u

[@istandaloneroronoazoro5188]

Irene very true! Like Alpha said in his video, "You can't mind-read" and find out when somebody cheats on you and there is no human who will EVER admit to cheating no matter how many times you ask! I have not been cheated on (yet), but I see it around the world and want to prevent it before it happens to me! And I am jealous of you, when I proposed her to start showing and registering all events we are going to, she thought it was crazy and weird! Your relationship is amazing and its the only thing I see to have 100% chance to succeed compared to mine, which only has 99%; that 1% that everyone omits could be what makes and breaks it for people. And people shouldn't judge ill a person who knows about their sensitivities and try to prevent suffering from hurting them!

[@Walkinjoy]

Nick Ger probably bad selfies lol

[@breerivera8865]

My ex husband did all of that yup cheated and porn ... All men hide the aame things nothing different out there.They are superficial. My man was hiding porn amd denied sex from me. Now I dont trust him and lost interest. What else are you hiding? Yeah can't believe you anymore.

[@JAZZSTARish]

Except it gets redundant and you become clingy.

[@javierdsanandres9879]

This advice works if you've gotten into a relationship where you and your partner are on the same page. Where communication about topics that could be difficult like our insecurities are met with care and respect mutually. Hopefully you two are both mature enough to have these conversations about boundaries and insecurities in a healthy and team-oriented way, making compromises or Win-Win's that help yourself and your partner grow. We are not in the relationship business to watch our insecurities and deepest wounds/fears flare up because we are choosing an incompatible partner. The two of you may not necessarily be bad people, but y'all could be unhealthy for each other. In a healthy relationship, both of you will support each other's insecurities well. If you have serious issues though or you're really being unfair/unkind to your partner, go get more support from psychologists and friends etc. Otherwise, ideal relationships in my opinion are balanced and are two-way streets. Last thing I want you to do is to gaslight yourself into thinking You or your insecurities are the primary problem in the relationship. It might just mean your boundaries are being crossed or you're not enforcing them. Take a hard look in the mirror. Strengthen and Love yourself to the point that you can walk away from an unhealthy situation. Prioritize your psycho-emotional health, safety and security. You know what you deserve and need to lead a safe, secure, and fulfilling life. Peace!

[@elniemoor2152]

"Come on, little tree!" That cracked me up! Great content!

[@JAZZSTARish]

Hug trees

[@marisasthename]

Thanks for this video! it really helped me realize "OMG, Im insecure and need to work on myself". I feel like a loser but i guess its my flaw that i need to overcome.

[@themantrawomankey8514]

That is the spirit sista. :)

[@radhikapaswan-tk3ei]

uss gotta work hard tbh

[@QuyenNguyen-cp4eq]

I like this “calmer” version of Alpha M. No ads or product pushing. More thought into the advice given.

[@iiinsvn3xmonsta617]

Everything thing this man has said is real.

[@awongabroad5520]

Wish I could have watched this before my ex left me

[@KelzBernard]

david wong everything happens for a reason David. Don't beat yourself up brother.

[@themantrawomankey8514]

Awesome advice.

[@Unknown1rx]

Same lol

[@trevorhenchey1388]

My fiance of 4 years just left me and now looking at this video I can see why I feel like a P.O.S and I can see why she left me but it hurts so much

[@LieutenantJanei]

Oy 😔

[@kurtlawrence4879]

everyone should be paying attention to 5:14. "Don't just freak out. Keep nurturing, keep working and eventually it will work itself out if it is supposed to" Thanks, Aaron, for voicing this out.

[@PaulKazann]

I discovered this channel and Aaron 2 months ago, didn't care for it at the beginning, i thought it was a little too much but i decided to gave it a chance, here i am now, watching all his videos, right now im catching up with his older stuff, Im very glad that I did, his videos are from the most part very solid, but really im very happy to have discovered and amazing person, a great guy with principles and integrity, thanks man, you have made me a better person

[@ycfuxo8046]

I snooped and got my feelings hurt ):

[@davidmtz75]

Snoopers gonna snoop

[@ycfuxo8046]

Me 5 years later, I now not to trust women

[@jesse20245]

I am so glad I found this, i was doing the complete opposite and almost ruined my whole relationship. I was snooping, no breathing space and just always wanted to know where she was and with who and just kinda realized I got a problem. Thank you so much man👌🏼.

[@Mayankbhattacharya]

Gold. This was GOLD. :D I wish could come up with 10 pointers in my video but god damn I ain't no alpha m.. There is only one. YOU are the one. :)

[@alpham]

Mayank Bhattacharya Thanks brother!

[@whoknows7844]

+alpha m. brother I cannot tell you how helpful this video has been, I was on the verge of ruining something great but after watching this it has truly been an eye opener. do you have any videos on repairing or healing a damaged relationship? that would be interesting to watch. keep doing what youre doing brother! cheers

[@youssefgh2164]

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[@alanjackson3991]

My wife was cheating on me, I could feel it but I had no proof so I talked to a friend in the mall where I worked turns out he’s been in my type of situation then he suggested benclerkson44 on IG, I didn’t actually think it was possible until he helped me hack into my wife’s phone and all her social media accounts and I got to confirm that what I suspected is true... I feel soo bad but I had to do what I did to know my grounds. Relationship my friends could be soo sickening🤧

[@mapd_089]

5:27 - "do not snoop". Me: remembers all the hacking in the middle of the night.

[@JAY-vy6vr]

😂😂😂

[@fairpoor]

😂

[@HailGoggle]

Never felt something so much in my life

[@mapd_089]

@@HailGoggle wanna know something? He was right. She ended up breaking up with me. Wish I would have stopped being jealous when I could.

[@breerivera8865]

@@mapd_089 As a woman, at least for me I could careless if my man snoops! It doesn't bother me I like to prove peiple wrong, you know. I also know that a lot of people get offended. Now if you were continuously looking throughnher phone to find something that is wrong. If I were in a relationship where my man needed assurance at least once I'd give him that 100 percent.

[@kyndylmorgan8470]

I literally almost gave myself a panic attack because I came up with a horrible ass scenario in my head. I have horrible jealousy issues

[@deandreoglesby3512]

I'm cringing because this used to be me! 😭

[@WiscoMTB37]

jcooper140 things that help me with insecurity is doing stuff I'm good at. I know I sounds to simple but it works. I'm good at parkour and when I have a good day of training, that day and the next I feel like a badass even tho I'm no different from when I didn't train. do something athletic/ work out. do like Brazilian jui jitzu, or a martial art. when you get use to having someones arm around your neck, or doing a flip gap or concrete, it's easier to cope with fear and being nervous. but if u don't wanna do athletics, put ur self in scenarios where ur nervous, you can train everything. train yourself to be confident and to ignore your own personal shit talker in your head.

[@isaiahjames93]

"Train yourself to be confident and to ignore your own personal shit talker in your head." Probably best line in these comments.

[@radhikapaswan-tk3ei]

its me rn i gottaa work hard tbh

[@jilliana2917]

These are definitely the tips i needed to hear, I do a lot of what you mentioned. I overthink and create problems in my head and I don't want that to ruin something good just because of my past. Thank you for this.

[@minnumg]

I overthink the smallest and the most insignificant situations so much to the point I end up with a nasty headache! 😢

[@MegaJoshyp123]

Holy shit I fucked up, Wish I'd seen this before I started overthinking. She's gone now :(

[@Fameless5]

JCP I feel you, I lost the girl of my dreams

[@TrueArmenianBoss1234]

Your hair is literally perfect Aaron

[@bootsarmstrong8421]

This has to be one the best videos on relationships. Short and to the point with some humor. Extremely helpful too.

[@chadweissert6858]

Agree!

[@Commievn]

insecure is normal, especially when i am dating a 9.5/10 girl! lol!

[@keenangrant7780]

Yoo same

[@pratikthapa4204]

Same😴😴

[@littledragon7582]

Same

[@I_Am_The_Social_Reject]

Same. My girlfriend is super perfect for me. She's beautiful. Has amazing smile. Perfect boobs butt and thighs. Great kisser. And I we have better chemistry than anyone I ever dated. I'm always scared it's still not enough cause she's still getting over her ex of 2 years

[@pangeadei6650]

RagingRejectTV you don’t deserve her if you love only her body 😉

[@troldudelol]

I’ve screwed up my relationship with my ex by being to insecure. She called me out on it saying I’m not good enough and not manly enough, shit. I couldn’t trust her because she lied to me badly at the start of the relationship.

[@troldudelol]

Winchestah thank u so much mate. The other day she reached out and contacted me and she asked if we could be friends and I said yes. Then one of her male friends who is a big headed twat. Believe it or not his bio on instagram is “not to be rude but you don’t mess with a rugby dude” I know how fucking cringy. He contacted me saying stop messaging jemma (my ex) or I’ll come and sort u out. So I txt jemma saying wtf is going on. The dude (cringy one) somehow knew some really private shit about me that only jemma would know about so I went ape shit with er saying why have u told everyone about this? This cunt gets pissy at me and calls me pathetic for starting beef with her. No way is that pathetic at all she is the asshole for sharing that info with everyone! Can’t believe her honestly. So I called her a fake cunt who dosen’t take responsibility for her actions and she told me to grow the fuck up and blocked me. So overall she is a fucking bitch who manipulated me and made me feel shit about my appearance (because I’m 5”7) and made me feel like a little boy, when actually I’m not and I know I’m not. And she tells her friends fake shit about me so they start to view me as this “pathetic boy”, it’s a joke I did so much for her :(

[@jma4976]

What did she lie about

[@carloscuevas7087]

Trol dead ass me bro dm me bro

[@carloscuevas7087]

She lied to me at the start

[@whiskeyandrum2504]

Trol damn I know this was a year ago but damn homie I would be pissed too. Honestly reasons why I ain’t friends with my exes , I legit ghost out their life afterwards because that segment of my life is over and it’s time to move on plus imo I find it unhealthy to stay friends with them.

[@manulancia4223]

Thank you for this video. It made me feel better seeing that i am not the only one feeling as i do.

[@Jetway]

Alpha, I think you're amazing. I've been watching you for over a year now, and this is my favorite video you've made. Thanks for your wisdom, man!

[@jmacsss]

I have definitely snooped. Last one caused my divorce. Of course, she was cheating with her ex and there were pictures, but that means there was a much deeper issues. Im very insecure in relationships now. Im having a really hard time with it. Idk how to trust people now with Facebook and texting...cheating is too easy

[@aldoheredia4568]

jmacsss damn bro . I feel your pain stay up keep it strong . Listen to this advice .

[@derekjeter5388]

Smfhhhhh bitchs ain’t shittt

[@reesyman8354]

Social media makes it so easy, phones allow you to hide messages and man, you’re right... it’s extremely easy to cheat

[@isaacJjacobs]

Sorry that happened to you man. Made any progress with trust since you commented here? When I get involved in a relationship and have strong feelings for them I end up getting paranoid that she might cheat. I don't know why it happens and I hate how insecure it makes me. It slowly ruins the relationship

[@julietorres1947]

Yup, social media makes it too easy...sorry :(

[@zuleicaramirez8826]

it's so draining to constantly be in fear bruh. i wanna get better for the both of us. he's so good to me and hes so patient. i have no reason to be tripping but mannn

[@jdcguitar]

Just need to get a relationship now

[@iwantmyfriescrispynotburnt3981]

Women 10X worse..... this is me. I'm a woman. :/

[@WOLVES2820]

Nah I can tell you just some guy in the picture

[@AJanae.]

Man I don’t just “overthink” I become delusional... *believing* things that really aren’t the case, but I’ve already convinced myself otherwise.

[@yimairacastillo9988]

I guess, I shouldn't be in relashioshships at all.

[@whiskeyandrum2504]

Kelli R. Morris that’s toxic lmao

[@kimtsi]

Really helpful,but what i need is how to get over a previous relationship,would be great if you did this!

[@johnroberts4647]

All good points. Thanks for the helpful advice

[@goldenking4l898]

I grew up without a father your videos really help out alot I wish success on your life brotha 👑👑👑

[@rorkestv4530]

Bro i always think he is a fathet to me

[@SharonNgugi]

Wow, this is the best advice about insecurities that I have received so far..

[@rah_ela_m4221]

I am cursed with over thinking. It’s so bad and I hate myself for creating a problem when there isn’t even one to begin with because of it.

[@jydengraham8890]

I relate to this so much I’m about to kill my relationship by being insecure

[@ATrueLoveOfficial]

Why is this so at some point? lol Honestly, I could really relate to it. I am kinda paranoid and sometimes it does show hahaha So I will indeed keep your advice in my mind and apply it.

[@quchi7232]

Whenever I overthink about my current relationship, I always come here to calm myself down.

[@ermamo8399]

I overthink a lot. I tried my best to trust him..but in the end, he cheated anyway. Soooo?

[@jeremiah9117]

I know they are many ups and down in a relationship, And spouse feeling insecure about their relationship i refer you to Cyber_Crackers26 on instagram he helped me hack into my spouse phone and got lot of information in her phone, The saddest part was that she was cheating.

[@jeremiah9117]

I know they are many ups and down in a relationship, And spouse feeling insecure about their relationship i refer you to Cyber_Crackers26 on instagram he helped me hack into my spouse phone and got lot of information in her phone, The saddest part was that she was cheating.

[@JAZZSTARish]

They are not yours it's just your turn like someone said. And cheating is not just physical.

[@floridakoi]

So what? Accept that he was NOT the right one. Even if you keep him under control, in the end if someone wants to cheat, they will do it and you won't find out. Just be grateful you got him out of your life, even if we all know how painful it is.

[@ermamo8399]

@@floridakoi yeah..thats right. I am so grateful now and i am being someone stronger than before. Yet still hurting.

[@48_ICE]

I just be feeling like I will get left for "someone better" growing up not trusting people is fucking with my life rightnow 😔

[@48_ICE]

@Shadow the girl I was talking about a year ago cheated on me twice bro lmao

[@48_ICE]

@Shadow yeah took me until couple weeks back to fully stop caring smashed her friend for revenge tho lmao

[@48_ICE]

@Shadow money more important trust me relationships just drain people in every way

[@freakboy4554]

Coming back to see this today because ive made a few mistakes along the way when trying to grow. Working to better myself. Been watching for 5+ years alpha

[@Mika-85]

Aaah I'm so glad that there are so many people in my situation 😁 Feeling much better now. I just need to trust her more.

[@SagarHatekar]

Thank you - this helped me get through tonight. 🙏

[@prajwaldjoshi]

Watching this 5 years later! Healing myself.

[@kasandra1641]

I overthink overthinking ! Occupation - stresshead

[@shawingo8757]

Kass_Culo 😫😂😂

[@octeauber]

This video has literally been me these lately nice to know I’m not the only one who’s been fuckin up my relationship with insecurities 😂

[@merisonola]

As soon as she talks to another man I instantly feel like she's giving him the green light. Trying to get passed that but previous relationships have left scars.

[@dAMMDb]

I wish I had a relationship to be insecure about.

[@68_al.468]

Ugh no its so exhausting to be insecure

[@audreygalang6208]

Trust me, you don’t. Insecurity can really take over you. Keep doing you and the right person will come at the right time. Live your own life rn, and be happy with it (yes i realize this post is 2 yrs old haha)

[@alx3296]

No you dont mate

[@allthingsalexia455]

I know you’ve probably changed your mind but being insecure in a relationship is one of the worse demons to have. God will give you your partner homie!

[@roccodimeo5893]

This guys advice is based one the premise "no one cheats, its all in your head"

[@travelinghermit]

Rocco DiMeo They either do, or they don't. Doesn't do any good to fret before you know, nor waste time after you do. You create what you fear.

[@amateruss]

If you think about it every time without solid basis then you'll become a loser. And people don't like losers.

[@veronicaphilips7172]

I try to think of it as whatever is done in the dark will always come to light. You just have to have trust in someone and be happy in the moment