Dealing with Self-Sabotage

[@CarianneRHixson]

"the self sabotage you’re experiencing right now is a direct reflection of the amount of time you’re spending with people who see your progress as unacceptable." wow. perfectly said!

[@KerwinRaeSydney]

Thank you Carianne

[@rachaeldawn1971]

That phrase hit me like a brick. Thank you so much for posting these videos to KZbin and Facebook. I find it really helps me keep perspective just hearing you speak, regardless of what you say, and when I listen to what you say, it helps push me in the right direction. Thank you so much.

[@KerwinRaeSydney]

Means a lot Jonathan :)

[@LucasDanielSantoro]

What if these people live in my house, pay for my food and are called mom and dad? (I'm exagerating, but they expect compliance from me) This is currently a drama in my life becouse I love my family.

[@ComplexPtsdRecovery]

Lucas Santoro perhaps just prioritise your emotional need to belong as second, behind your desire to succeed? Ie I love you mum and dad but I’m busy carving my own path out atm. Emotionally healthy parents will fully encourage you to do this. 😊

[@1lunifyd]

Good day fine sir. I agree 1,000,000% with all you said in this short and powerful message. I’m a recovering addicted from Meth. And thought that nothing would or was ever going to change in my life. I was on the downward spiral and as it seemed no way to look up. The herd I was around kept bring more and more negative. Now understand that I’m a positive person and and have been that way since day 1. And some how it all came crashing down with the substance abuse. So in my travels I met a young lady who changed everything about me. I started to follow the herd she surrounded her self with and slowly I started to get that the people you surround yourself with can and will effect how you behave. So I had a choice. Follow the same crowd or move on to a new one. And I did. I married that young lady and because of her I’ve been sober 17 years. I have a great job. Loving family and really it all because I changed the Herd...

[@KerwinRaeSydney]

Awesome mate. Thanks for sharing 👍

[@BrenMurphy1]

Breaking free from the old tribe is probably the hardest thing you can do at the beginning, because you haven't anywhere to go just yet, all you know is where you don't want to be. #mindfulness

[@KerwinRaeSydney]

Love it Bren

[@janiebrynolf2434]

Priceless. This video is priceless. Thank you Kerwin. I still refer to this all the time.

[@philiplambert6247]

Hello Kerwin, your videos are spot on. I have downloaded many of your videos and are intergrating them into my philosophy of my business. We are a growing business and I am struggling with trying to find the knowledge of making the correct decisions moving forward. Listening to you and using your philosophies is giving me a clear path of what needs to take place. Thank you very much. Phil

[@KerwinRaeSydney]

You've got this Phil 👊

[@BasicHorseTraining]

OMG....where can I immerse myself in your teachings, please? Sooooo what I need right now.

[@KerwinRaeSydney]

Hit up [e-mail] with your email and mob# and i'll get you some info 🙏

[@OneofGodsGiftsiam]

Absolutely right

[@weedermann]

I don't have a herd...most of my time is spent alone...the rest is with "people in passing". Finding good people to be with ON PURPOSE is difficult.

[@KerwinRaeSydney]

A good idea is to find a couple of good Facebook Groups to align with

[@f.vanthoff896]

I recognise this. Where are the people who are honest, loving, caring and have a good intentions and purpose? And do we find them on social media?

[@ComplexPtsdRecovery]

Thanks Kerwin, I so appreciate the understanding of the order. 😊

[@KerwinRaeSydney]

👍

[@kate1519]

This hurts but it's true, sadly...

[@TonalliMaganaGuzman]

Brilliant!

[@TurbochargeMe]

It was a tough pill to swallow but... Thank you.

[@KerwinRaeSydney]

Thanks for watching mate

[@ChrisWakeford]

Great insights here my friend. Its Time.

[@KerwinRaeSydney]

Boom 👊

[@losttwo704]

It is accurate.

[@Cedricsano]

Good point

[@MixTheVision]

this needs more shares

[@KerwinRaeSydney]

Thanks for watching mate 👍

[@jacquicanham4756]

Oh. My. Goodness. I am not sure I heard this right. If you want money... you have to sacrifice... what? Relationships? Spend less time with family that only need your time, and more time with associates which boost your money ego? Surely I heard this out of context.... but it still made my feel like vomiting.

[@f.vanthoff896]

Kerwin Rae, how do I find my good herd/group of people?

[@renarayana4177]

Sir what to do if the words of naysayers still reverberate in our mind

[@KerwinRaeSydney]

Turn to gratitude, usually quietens your ego

[@Osama-kh5iy]

Pleaaaaase what's the name of the background music ?

[@YuvrajGoswami1]

What is this Who am I How is that