He forgave his wife for cheating and stayed.

[@dituri3127]

Cheating is the most lowest form of disrespect!!! 😢 it’s painful AF !!!

[@paulahayes428]

Yes. I went through t too!!!

[@shannonh2291]

It’s sooo painful! Your heart really hurts. I know that pain too.....

[@shannonh2291]

@@paulahayes428 I’m sorry for your pain sister queen......

[@flo-dd5sw]

Trust me, it's not the lowest

[@gemmacharles6416]

But forgivable

[@Mano_jc]

Cheating should be the end of the relationship

[@Mr.McCann978]

That only applies to people who have respect for themselves,dude in this video clearly does not

[@John-yh3je]

Nah

[@jamesrobinson3rdCoast]

When women cheat it's HIGHLY intentional. She WILL cheat again.

[@ananardelli]

@@Mr.McCann978true

[@jabulanij.mabika6298]

How long are these two going to milk this for 😂

[@GT-mc9eg]

The Bible says divorce is acceptable under adultery. Please don't leave that part out.

[@_hartwellfit]

Didn’t leave it out you just have to watch the full episode to see it

[@thSonk-vp3js]

The Bible says you have to divorce your wife if she cheats. Not doing so is sin

[@jaredmiller194]

Jesus said It was because of their hardness of heart that he allowed divorce. Matthew 19:8

[@jaredmiller194]

@@thSonk-vp3js please tell me where it says that

[@thSonk-vp3js]

@@jaredmiller194 read the next verse simp

[@Abigail-00]

He has a good heart and deserves someone better.

[@Locopueblo]

People cheat for a multitude of reasons. Cheating doesn’t make you a terrible person. It makes you a human being. Offenses come but they can be overcome too. I think it’s cool that he didn’t throw her away like trash after cheating. I hope she is treating him better now

[@Abigail-00]

@@Locopueblo Loyalty is one of the foundations that hold a relationship together . Once that’s broken that relationship will forever be broken. Why would someone stay in a relationship knowing that loyalty has been breached. They are prone to doing it again and again.It’s a toxic cycle.Life is too short to be wasting on people who can’t stay committed to you.

[@nolanbaptiste358]

​@@Locopueblo No cheating does make you a horrible person.

[@eugenechelseafc89]

@@LocopuebloPathetic.

[@st.toussaint4632]

@@Locopueblonah it makes you ignorant and terrible. Lol get out of here so murder makes you human too?

[@willdabeastdavenport1558]

She got that still cheating face 😂

[@saucykeyzpls]

😂😂😂she really does

[@unbiasedtv6525]

‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@mindfullytransformed448]

I can’t believe you said that 😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@twenty3_v777]

I said the same damn thing when I seen her face

[@Laoriginal718]

FACTS

[@Billiard-cp1my]

To me cheating spells the end of a relationship. There is no going back because the trust is gone.

[@bigdogg1206]

Exactly, put her back in the streets where she belongs. You can still forgive her, but she would be gone 👋.

[@sonyap8253]

as a person who has been cheated on in the past and have seen it in others relationships, there is always a reason and 99% of the time it is an insecurity. communication can heal that, but some people (especially ones struggling with inadequacy/insecurity) really struggle to talk about the ugly stuff or voice their needs. you can absolutely get through it and grow into better versions of yourself. I will also add I have NEVER been cheated on by anyone who has a sound relationship with their momma. deep rooted maternal trauma lasts a lifetime and shows in how men view, respect and handle all the women in their lives moving forward. just my 2 cents...

[@success2089]

​@@sonyap8253 Men and women are not the same

[@MichaelTheDon25]

@@success2089yes Thaaank you

[@CeeSparks]

​@@success2089 who said they were? However, we're more alike than different. Cheating hurts men and womrn alike. Both parties have feelings and feel betrayed when cheated on. We go through anger, denial, (even sadness), frustration, etc. Me personally, I would leave someone who decides to stick their d&$k in someone else. I would never trust them again. It's not only disgusting but selfishness and outright disregard for me and my health. Pffft.

[@CA-br6nq]

“I had to make that decision with God” that’s all we needed to hear! When you are following God, it doesn’t mean there won’t be a storm, it means He will be in the boat with you!

[@linnag3117]

Amen this is very true a lot of people seem to want the calm without experiencing the storm

[@NM-yh5ek]

Sometimes there are too many storms and you have to get out to save yourself.

[@bigdogg1206]

She's for the streets. He needs to dump her back on the corner.

[@CA-br6nq]

@@NM-yh5ek I think what he was saying, respectfully, is that God and him made that decision. If God had a say in it, and he stayed, then staying was the for the best.

[@marcusjackson7515]

We(men) don't forgive...we just push through accepting and understanding that we can't let this break is nor change is. If he's a good man he desires to stay that way regardless.

[@motivate668]

I believe I could work through anything except infidelity!!

[@jeffbrown6533]

Amen!

[@yungcash8800]

FACTS

[@victoriacrudup3477]

I agree 💯 I just don't see anything happening after that. I feel forgiveness can happen overtime but that doesn't mean we have to stay in a relationship.

[@jerushandungu6580]

Word!

[@Laoriginal718]

Facts.

[@Jdeals14]

He's in for a lifetime of anxiety

[@Belladonas]

So are majority of women in for anxiety too😅

[@Ra-vi7eu]

A lifetime of anxiety, nightmares, and triggers.

[@success2089]

​@@Belladonas Women deal better with cheating unlike men. It is something hardwired into a man's psychology

[@MichaelTheDon25]

On bro

[@tonytoni1303]

​@@MichaelTheDon25ESPECIALLY with her. Shes the one that cheated not him. So she doesnt have nothing to worry about until he steps out of line. Its her ungrateful ass thst needs to be WATCHED 👀

[@Zayn913]

Takes a different level of strength to forgive someone for cheating especially as a man because the shot to our pride is overwhelming. I hope she’s treating him right and learned her lesson and remains faithful.

[@hexicanx]

Women lose respect even more for the man when the man takes them back after cheating, she would find him more attractive if he grew some courage and left.

[@Zayn913]

@@hexicanx A lot of men do leave the woman that cheated on them but as time grows and the separation settles people who truly love each other do return to union sometimes. There’s nothing wrong with this. People make mistakes. If you want to reunite with someone who is the love of your life sometimes things get dark and mistakes are made. Especially after a lot of fighting and years of dissatisfaction with the current state of the relationship. People also sometimes need to time to grow. We are human. But if both people are humbled, they are committed to working on themselves, the marriage and heal what created the mistake in the first place than I don’t think it should be demonized when two people put their egos aside to make something beautiful happen by returning to love. We are beings of flesh, full of fault, imperfections, etc. even if you leave and never look back the next relationship will surely disappoint you in some way down the road as well. NOBODY is perfect. The only being who is imperfect and will never let you down is G-d. We are all children ultimately and children make messes. Doesn’t mean you stop loving the child. Now if the love is continuously taken advantage of then yes leave, but in the event their is sincere remorse and disdain for one’s own misguided actions you don’t have to be so prideful.

[@OO9O9]

​@@Zayn913as woman if a male cheated on me I would hired a hit man like my grandma or poisoned his food. The mere thought of him looking at another woman let alone sleeping with her would've made me take a wrong decision, it's the reason I don't these males.

[@slovelyyx7718]

He’s a simp.

[@adier1234]

I would add a lot of men get cheated on and they stay, there just to embarrassed to say it.

[@BeverlyAdaeze]

I was just thinking this.

[@DarknessFalls29]

For sure!

[@mafamac4069]

WHAT NO!!! THOSE ARE NOT MAN stop confusing Real Man WITH INSECURE BOYS. a lot of men don't stay.

[@pReCiOuStHePiMpCeSs]

@@mafamac4069 that's not true honey. Majority of divorces are started by women. I would say a boyfriend would be the fastest to leave but not after a man has said his vows. Especially since most men are dumb enough not to get prenups.

[@querlinestsurin]

True

[@Godchaserforever1973]

I know them from TikTok. This man really loves her. I can see it, I can feel it. It's real. She must have been truly sorry and repentant for him to take her back. She's blessed that he gave her another chance and she knows it. I see it all over her face.

[@marymac1972]

Whatchu said!

[@followGreatness]

I think he already knew she was going to make a mistake or more . He is truly blessed with wisdom. I think he also knows he even when he wasn't married to her , he should never have left her side. With the help of God and the holy spirit he truly rationalized her behavior. But also what would make a married woman go and cheat? We should try to be guarded at all times. Cheating in some cases can bring a curse upon two peoples lives. Man or woman. It's really a foul thing and people normalize it.

[@reginawheeler966]

God is Good, Glory!!!❤️⭐🦋

[@joypyne3467]

Amen

[@joypyne3467]

Young man your heart is beautiful. You exemplify godly behavior. So proud of you.

[@barrybetts7960]

For any man that wants to forgive there wife for cheating think of this. She helped him put it back in when it slipped out. Someone save this brother

[@MichaelTheDon25]

Yes I said the same thing these niggas obviously had to make guidance

[@Telvo24]

😂

[@gritgodtv5101]

Dang that hurts

[@Finesser-94]

😂

[@dank5219]

This Ninja is crazy MAN😂😂😂

[@peggychristman5878]

Forgiving is fine. Staying with her taught her you will forever allow her to disrespect you.

[@DaughterofZion-24]

Not always

[@treasurearhewoh327]

That's not true If she values his forgiveness and wants to make it work as much as he does, then it will work and she won't disrespect him again I wish them all the best

[@Janeonthebrain]

@@treasurearhewoh327she didn’t value him when she was giving mega dome to her side nlgga

[@JacodyJohnson]

@@treasurearhewoh327 yea most people don’t change…. if she cheats once there’s a high chance she’ll do it again

[@GodOfMySalvationIsYeshua]

Not if she had a change of heart and seeks to recommit. Then it's grace.

[@themessage6114]

He was cheating the whole time 😂

[@MadAudi]

Don’t get married if you can’t keep to your vows. No shame in it. Stay single.

[@missp8527]

Marriage must be tested dear,read your Bible. Trials and Tribulations, Temptations love are for our good,he passed the test.

[@missp8527]

Even when you are single , meaning no sex,no kids etc. But I'm sure u r single and sinning judging God's kids

[@gracefollowsme6314]

I'm sure the she didn't intend on cheating stuff happens

[@MadAudi]

@@missp8527 If you think adulterous behavior is ok.. that’s your interpretation of Gods word. It’s not my interpretation. Believing in Gods word is not a sin dear and calling me a sinner in comments, a woman that you’ve never met…that’s judgemental. You’re clearly not Jesus dear. I’ve prayed for you.

[@MadAudi]

@@gracefollowsme6314 “I accidentally had sex with that man. It was an accident.” That’s not an accident. It’s being unfaithful and not taking responsibility for your choice. Are you joking?

[@s.n.9485]

When you get cheated on, the hole it leaves in your heart can never be repaired. If you stay, you and your relationship will never be the same.

[@funkmonster]

Yes it can be the same dude: you people catastrophize everything.

[@timothykinoti7768]

it cant come on@@funkmonster

[@bernadinetoussaint6176]

That's not true. Sometimes the relationship ends up being better and stronger

[@lmierl]

Bullshit once they cheat it’ll always come back up someway somehow. It’ll never be the same

[@paulanicolethomason7252]

​@bernadinetoussaint6176 A relationship made stronger by cheating lol. The level of denial in these cases is sad.

[@marilyn8653]

I love this channel. It's a positive direction for a change. The men are so refreshing.

[@paulahayes428]

Me too🥰😚🤗

[@christopher7071]

Cheating in a relationship will destroy the foundation of what a relationship is supposed to be built on and so on. To be able to work through issues regarding infidelity is to Number (1) Being open and honest with your significant other about the act that was committed ( Acknowledge) Number (2) What factors that may have and ultimately played a role in stepping outside of the relationship that led to the cheating in the first place.Number (3) Honesty is always the best policy even when it is painful because that is where the process of healing and forgiveness begins which in turn can start the process of repairing and rebuilding the trust that was betrayed and broken among other things as well. Finally. For any relationship to survive, its foundation has to be a strong one which begins with TRUST, then all the other pieces will over time fall into place.

[@bey976]

Stop cheating

[@marinpecheur9128]

Pffffffff Simps

[@1bbyte97]

why is this glamourized i don't get it

[@zohebpasha96]

So how many times she can cheat and its forgivable? Its the ultimate betrayal, lord help this man, he deserves better.

[@dcfal817]

He rightfully wouldn’t have been wrong if he left. Adultery is breaking a commandment

[@cewilliamsable]

He should have divorced her... cause I bet she's STILL cheating

[@sterlinghines1240]

Stop being negative damn it’s cool when yall do it, they worked it out

[@cewilliamsable]

@sterlinghines1240 But I don't do it, and he didnt do it... thats why he should divorce her.

[@cewilliamsable]

@@sterlinghines1240 never accept a cheating woman

[@sterlinghines1240]

@@cewilliamsable ok I see your point, but why he can’t have forgiveness in his heart

[@cewilliamsable]

@@sterlinghines1240 because the heart is deceitful above all things and desperately wicked...

[@joyandpeacefullaughter5307]

That man looks broken. This woman has been publicizing her affair all over tiktok. She is loving the clout at the expense of her husband's self esteem and manipulating him with God. He already forgave you, keep it to yourself.

[@jleezy612]

I don't think cheating by either sex deserves forgiveness. That's a conscious decision to hurt your significant other to their core. The trust would never be there again. I'm moving on regardless.

[@bigdogg1206]

Exactly. Forgiveness is fine, but she's going back to the streets. It's not ok for either to do that mess.

[@AckeeandSaltfish]

That’s me too. Cheating is a deal breaker for me.

[@roznichols371]

If Christ offered forgiveness to the woman that they were about to stone for infidelity and the woman at the well for her indiscretions and we also want to be forgiven why wouldn't you give your spouse one more opportunity to make it right? This is how Christ treats His bride (us). We don't deserve the second chances we are given, but He gives them and we sure take them and continue to mess up daily.

[@bigdogg1206]

@@roznichols371 Back to the streets she goes. One time too is too many.

[@yellowlemon5936]

​@@roznichols371This is exactly why I have forgiven my husband. When we seek God for guidance, he can restore marriages beyond our comprehension. There's nothing God cannot do. These verses really made my decision on forgiving my husband and praying over him. 'For we are not fighting against human beings but against the wicked spiritual forces in the heavenly world, the rulers, authorities, and cosmic powers of this dark age.' - Eph 6:12 'The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full' -John 10:10

[@ssticcfloe7408]

Broddie stay with the bro code💪🏾... never take a bird that feeds everywhere! Rat with wings! Pigeon! She cheated before she WILL cheat again if the opportunity presents itself. Sneaky and disloyal are traits that a being has just like honesty and confident are. Loss of respect also comes with it. I kno because i cheated on someone before. It never heals. I personally hate cheating now, i hate how it made me feel after the fact and my heart does not allow it anymore

[@peytonsmith-bauer2203]

😂😂. Maaaaan, your parents ain't teach you that.

[@ninafernandez7339]

I feel what he’s saying but why wasn’t SHE held to that standard..why must we forgive people when they make it clear the vows and commitment WE made didn’t mean anything to them?

[@victoriacrudup3477]

I agree with that because the whole time I'm thinking yes but she's still also made that commitment and said those vows so why didn't she stay loyal to it?

[@LouisianaGoon337]

I feel like she was using him for financial gain she ain't really love him like that

[@emmanueljohnwest9016]

Are u Christian? How many times have u prayed and asked God for forgiveness and he forgave u. U pray to God and u promise to do better but u still find urself doing the same shit and his Mercy continue to abide. Just return the favor to ur spouse

[@timothykinoti7768]

There is a reason why God allowed divorce incase of infidelity...Actually it was the only reason he allowed divorce. Even God knows infidelity cuts too deep. You must forgive as God commands but the trust may never return...God knows that and He understands and that's why He allowed it even though He hates divorce.@@emmanueljohnwest9016

[@aaronmiles2802]

@@emmanueljohnwest9016Was your father in your life?

[@ladiesofiron]

Amen. This is HUGE. “For better OR For worse” Maaaan whew💪🏽🙏🏽

[@hsand8178]

Thank. You. My. Brother. For. Speaking. Truth.It. Goes. Both. Ways Each. Individual. Makesure. Mistakes. Keep. The. Most. High. At. The. Center. And. He. Will. Fix. Anything. All. Praises👏 To. The. Most. High.

[@AryanHomeland]

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[@tripledo.g.2551]

But we see she didn’t honor her Wedding vows so what’s the point you right thank you brother for making men look like simps… you cheating on someone for years isn’t a mistake you knew what you was doing

[@tatianadaniel3569]

​@@tripledo.g.2551Same goes for men but apparently they don't care when theyre cheating on us.

[@jkashdamoneyman5870]

Nope, Bible says you can leave an adulterous man or woman, one time is more than enough, no need to work through anything

[@J3anie]

I'm in the process of going through a bitter divorce after my spouse was unfaithful and trying to work through it with counseling and prayer. Sadly my story didn't end on good tome, but it's so liberating to see people accepting human fault and allowing God to step in and provide opportunities for forgiveness and to move forward under the covenant each of these people took with him. I'm loving this channel and the mature conversations it's inciting in an otherwise selfish world. Keep it up💛

[@ralphmiranda2077]

Dude's making men look bad AND setting us back!!! DON'T RAISE YOUR SONS TO FORGIVE THIS!!!

[@arionwilliams5548]

Facts

[@wetradeoptions]

Men are just not men anymore, women do not cheat on men they love and respect this is a fact. Once they do he is a dead man walking.

[@success2089]

I can see the pain in his voice. He should leave. Men never get over cheating unlike women

[@TomikaKelly]

They most certainly do. All people cheat simply because they want to.

[@TomikaKelly]

​@@success2089 Women don't get over cheating...🤡

[@laurencameron3150]

@@jesusistheonlyway6978If this were reversed would he be facts?

[@polokiller2489]

This. Lie! This bullshit! Women cheats on you even if she love you or not! Like nigga stop cap, the bullshit! The is marriage. And you don’t know what he going on in close door. You don’t know how long they been marry. Like let say she was marry for like 8 to 9 years. Like maybe she got bored. Maybe idk but yo. It just the fact that what can you do to make things better with her. Like I’m not trying to say I’m simp because I’m not but let say y’all been together for a long ass time. It not easy to just leave like come on but yeah 😊

[@frankbrown917]

Blessings to you and your family my brother. It takes a man of YAH to have this much strength. Good luck.

[@AbronHawkins]

I wouldn’t forgive her. That happened to me 25 years ago. I’m still not married and I still don’t trust women for that reason

[@YasminYoruba]

Why do you think women are so forgiving then?

[@olaakinlade4362]

Then you've hurt yourself twice.

[@dvn.pod.2023]

I'm sorry that this happened to you @AbronHawkins, and that you haven't been able to trust again after that situation and let it go. I just hope that you don't let that one experience shape your perception of all women and your future relationships. Someone I dated in the past was cheated on by his ex. Because that one woman cheated on him and he couldn't get over it, he constantly accused me of cheating and got super possessive to the point where he wanted to isolate me from others, and started to display random signs of anger and aggression toward me and others. He had some unresolved trauma from his previous relationship that he didn't handle, and subsequently brough that into our relationship. Ultimately, we ended up parting ways, but it was not because either of us cheated. I hope you can find the healing you need, but not all women are like that.

[@BigCrossVita]

You should've just married her in that case...

[@olaakinlade4362]

@@BigCrossVita hmm?

[@Sarah-xd4zi]

Her smile looking at her man talk about how he forgave her pisses me off. She feels no regret or consideration for her man’s strength to forgive her. She just looks happy like “yep you’re dumbass forgave me hehe got you!” If I ever betrayed and destroyed a person, I could never smile as they talk about it. I don’t care if it’s years later, I will always be remorseful. And grateful that he’s even still here with me.

[@shmellyhandsprod]

This is satans whispers I promise we can't tell or say what's running through there minds trust they dealing with it crazy pain its about YHWH'z plan all is put in place and falls exactly the way it should this is from experience satans after the KIDS step #1 split parents up 🥲🙏🏽🤙🏽🤙🏽

[@olaakinlade4362]

Yeah see, that's the thing. It's not a great place to be. Most people would keep it under wraps, giving their spouse unsuspecting haymakers and uppercuts from time to tome when they are at their happiest and preferably in front of the kids. Wringing out a lifetime apology that reverberates far into the future and deeply into the past, cooking everything in its wake, drying the most luscious place and leaving arid conditions where emotional thirst is denied and never assuaged. Now this fella here has taken his skidrow accoutrements and is examining them closely, with members of the public. He is therefore as dense as molasses or as runny as treacle. Neither is good.

[@desiree5895]

She's smiling bc her husband is speaking. She is being grateful he's still with her. She started shaking her foot when the guy interviwing them started talking ab it. I must still weigh on her conscience. She talks ab it more on her TikTok (Idr what it is).

[@sharellmorning2118]

How long is she supposed to punish herself…

[@krxstian_9863]

Better man than me she would’ve hit the curb real quick😂

[@EdeSands-do6st]

She cheating in her mind right now 👀

[@TenOfDiamonds]

Them vows also said you promise to be faithful. You said that in front of God. 😳

[@zhouwenhola]

Hoo....it was deleted I think...if you not fine with the relationship,divorce respectfully and move on...it's better that way

[@carolnichols2869]

Very true. It is the only reason Jesus said divorce is valid. However, there is nothing wrong with him choosing to forgive. It will take time to fully trust her again, because she broke the vow, and the trust.

[@dlrowadkcuf]

That part

[@SpokenIntoExistence]

You know their vows?

[@aprilchow-chee5281]

​@@carolnichols2869 he could have forgiven and still left her

[@sarahhobson5263]

You can tell she still feels shame. I’m praying for the both of them.

[@Therealgiantslayer]

This couple is the exception and not the rule. They are amazing and have a solid foundation. Their love for each other and God is so pure. This is a true example of forgiveness, love, compassion, honesty and Godly wisdom. They have come through so much early in life and beat the odds. What would this world be like if people allowed themselves to heal within their relationships instead of taking their brokenness into another relationship to subject them to become an EMS.

[@Ghesh-kg4dr]

So when she does it again or he stop pretending it doesn’t bother him I’ll be looking forward to part 2😂

[@leratomusi4595]

She's gonna do it again and have the same expectations from hubby 🤣

[@veraaddoyobo8482]

I hope this young lady knows how blessed she is

[@Ginab3001]

Oh yea, perfect wife now she looks truly sorry.😲

[@sameer-up6yv]

​@@Ginab3001 perfect wife she is the worstest

[@angelawestby9178]

Apparently she doesn't! Because it would have never happened in the first place.

[@tjc2824]

She doesn't!!

[@BigCrossVita]

Yes Lord

[@mirabanxx9218]

There's for better and for worse. I agree. But there's also boundaries that are non-negotiable and infidelity is one of them for me. I will not tolerate toxicity, and I refuse to believe God wants me to suffer for the sake of tolerating other people who have shown they arent trustworthy. You want to take a cheater back, be my guest. But people have no right telling other people they're wrong for protecting their peace and choosing not to be associated with someone. Because surprise surprise, you can forgive someone and cut contact. ✂️

[@Meandyouisnus]

💯 agreed for better for worse does not include infidelity

[@GT-mc9eg]

@@Meandyouisnus even the Bible speaks against adultery. And that you may seek a divorce for that reason.

[@eddiewakes9425]

Maybe your opinion, but it’s not biblical. Even if you choose to divorce, scripture is very clear; if you don’t forgive others of their trespasses, God will not forgive you.

[@mirabanxx9218]

@@eddiewakes9425 ok. You can choose to forgive someone AND cut contact with them. Forgiveness doesn't mean tolerating toxic people who have no respect for you. Doing that just makes you the cause of your suffering at that point.

[@sparky81181]

I feel like I had to search way too far down these comments for this.

[@yvetteclarkjames1808]

Ba-by… he’s a rare one though most men who cheat would want that same forgiveness. Girl tighten your game.

[@Angela-cd9bj]

Yes, this male is Extremely Rare on this matter. Majority of marriages end due to cheating among other things with no chance of reconciliation. Definitely a rare Young Man featured here

[@LexRuger718]

@@Angela-cd9bj Disagree, finances are the main reason for ruin marriage

[@kokolatte825]

Yes that's what I was thinking. She cheated on that big fine man with little feet!? She better get her life together

[@Sandrinarhonda]

@@kokolatte825 😂😂😂😂 lorddd

[@querlinestsurin]

Most men stay they just don't publicize it

[@Misterkennedy04]

I have no respect for that guy this woman showed him the ultimate disrespect and he forgave her so you deal with the consequences of your dumb decisions.

[@caseyparks3954]

This dude isn’t getting played. He’s just playing himself.

[@LtDLong]

😂😂

[@Rasheens-Story]

I couldn’t do that to a person I supposedly loved and then be with them after it would be a constant reminder of what I did to that person even if they forgave me.

[@SpokenIntoExistence]

That’s called guilt. You need guilt because you did something wrong. Live with it! And grow from it, to become better. You don’t run from your lessons, cause you run the risk of doing it again. So if he accepts you back stay and learn how to be better deal with the shit your actions caused.

[@layconbad5279]

#Divinelovespell02 can help you bring back your husband. He helped Me and i am a living testimony[]{}..{}{}

[@wingknight7132]

What if u were forced to?

[@kunntakentay]

Exactly

[@DamianBurns-z9u]

Could NOT be me. Cheating is an instant game over. No it’s what’s or buts. That is the highest (or lowest) act of disrespect you can possibly do to your partner

[@Josh_Livi]

This man has no self respect anyway, taking back someone that screwed you over is the highest level of self disrespect

[@juanmatias41054]

I wonder if he knows once a woman cheats and you stay she has a roughly 300% chance of doing it again.

[@TomikaKelly]

Said NO proven statistics EVER. 🤡

[@McFrappin]

You already know.

[@juanmatias41054]

@@TomikaKelly here you go. Surely you can do the math. You need me to hold your hand while you read it? Maybe I can read it for you. Let me know. Someone is three times more likely to cheat if they have cheated in the past. A person is two to four times more likely to be cheated on if they have been cheated on or have suspected cheating in a prior relationship. Men and women are equally likely to cheat or be cheated on. University of Denver

[@TomikaKelly]

@@juanmatias41054 Simply SAYING something came from the University of Denver doesn't mean that's where it came from. 🤡

[@tatianadaniel3569]

​@@juanmatias41054Whats the study called?

[@dunkinpinderhughes7140]

It’s hard to take a woman back from a situation like this because women are emotionally attached to the man they cheat with. I say this because a woman doesn’t just open her legs to anyone.

[@kumailmehdi1005]

Bitch is so chill and calm like hearing the question upfront didn't even phase her but props to this guy man has a very big heart to accept that kind of a women back into his life

[@Mad-UpperCuts]

She's knowing she'll cheat again and again. She can get away with it and be forgiven. Nothing to lose

[@xii592]

​@@Mad-UpperCutsFacts.. he can forgive her but she gots to go 💯

[@tripledo.g.2551]

That let you know she gonna cheat again any women that was truly sorry would be in tears 😢the whole interview she is to chill to be sorry

[@tripledo.g.2551]

He’s a Str8 Simp

[@avaliausd.]

​@@tripledo.g.2551That's kinda dumb thinking though. Why would she be crying on the podcast? They already hashed things out. You act like this podcast is the first time he discovered that she was cheating. She was probably doing all of the crying when she first got caught, not now.

[@lakithagoss897]

I wonder how she could have had the heart to cheat on him. He seems so caring and kind.

[@TomikaKelly]

Sex is pretty amazing.

[@chodycho]

That’s women for you

[@hwillis8]

That’s why she did it. She didn’t truly care and only took her needs into consideration. She’s selfish.

[@daninwangabia6270]

Some when are used to toxicity. So they'll always seek chaos outside of a loving relationship

[@lisagoode6888]

THIS right here is amazing! Love and forgiveness goes a long way ♥️🙏🏾 #keepGOD1st

[@Sophia-cd6sk]

I hope the woman appreciates it. Sucks

[@sameer-up6yv]

I hate women who cheats.. I'll kick her out without a question

[@lunnalocca9376]

I can forgive but trust would be extremely hard to get past. I might give a second chance but if the trust isn’t being worked on, they aren’t remorseful anymore, acting like it’s not a big deal but was just begging for forgiveness and they’ll do better then I have nothing else left for that person. I’m not the one who broke it. I do think overcoming struggles is beautiful. That’s unconditional love to forgive a person for every mistake they’re going to make no matter what. However I can’t imagine most people being able to take the necessary steps to making it right, rebuilding trust and following boundaries

[@gabrielalohan728]

So here's the thing about cheating for men that I'd like to say. 1. That you send her away and probably remarry doesn't mean new wifey is incapable of cheating. 2. If you decide to forgive (which I highly recommend for your sanity) her, it must be from a place of understanding; does she genuinely want the marriage AND is ready for the bitter road of recovery. 3. You must understand point 2 because some women really don't want the relationship and will be in denial, some want the relationship but still can't work on it, and there's those that want it. (Understand where she belongs with patience, time will reveal all motive) 4. In essence, forgiveness is thin-line different from recovery. So recovery is highly based on her ability to put in the work; if you do not sense this in her, then dissolving the marriage is fair. 5. She cheating will most likely not be your fault, but there's always that room for assessment to see if you were a minor or major contributor. But many times often it ain't your fault. 6. If your wife cheats, it's time to concentrate on your wellbeing in order to face the social construct of shame, irrespective of your decision to stay or not. With time you'd see that the embarrassment/shame is useless. Just keep being you and enjoy yourself. 7. You must understand point 2-4 is unconventional for some women, because they've to actively be in pursuit of you. What you do with this understanding (in line with point 3) is up to you. Shalom.

[@juliejohnson7996]

He loves his wife, he chose to stay and I respect that.❤❤❤❤❤

[@dilondavis8264]

I just couldn't do it, I don't care who the woman is. If she cheated....it means you are not enough and she's looking for your replacement

[@MsBdoll87]

That’s not the only or sole reason people cheat.

[@dilondavis8264]

@@MsBdoll87 women cheat when they are ready to leave, period

[@queenlight1264]

@@MsBdoll87 Exactly! Every situation is not the same.

[@success2089]

​@@MsBdoll87 That's the only reason women cheat. If you really respected your partner, you would never cheat

[@12savage68]

​@@MsBdoll87so why did you cheat?

[@greatvaluebleach1]

That hat alone lets me know, she ain’t sh!t 🤣

[@johnathanabrams8434]

Pretty rough conclusion to cover to just off of that but this statement is hilarious. Most black men have an ingrained inner simp that was facilitated by momma. Momma always right.

[@juvi4371]

Thought it was just me, she did not dress supportingly

[@Michael0409]

I bet she’s still cheating, she’s just slicker. Never take back a cheater, they will continue to cheat. Period.

[@layconbad5279]

#Divinelovespell02 can help you bring back your husband. He helped Me and i am a living testimony[]{}..{}{}

[@LisaLisaCJ]

He probably cheated first

[@IbraAsha]

How do u know

[@Michael0409]

@@IbraAsha women will never respect a man who takes them back after she cheats, she sees it as he has no other women that find him desirable. So she will stay with him for the comfort, while fkn someone else still. That’s how I know.

[@sensei-sama1410]

​@@LisaLisaCJlol of course you'd back her up... Women never wanna take accountability

[@annettewilliams1986]

When did "Better or for Worst fall into that category.... losing a job,illness,irrvasable sickness is that sort of thing.Cheating is a choice...not something that just you just fall into...

[@Takedownman]

NOPE!!!!

[@lisac9440]

He has a heart of Gold!!! 💛💛Treasure him sis! Keep that bond tight with your man of God!!

[@Ghesh-kg4dr]

Was before or after she jumped into bed with another dude😂

[@THEoneandonlystika]

Because he accepted evil.Be careful what ur saying

[@riettarichardson9485]

How commendable of this guy! I personally can not and will not forgive infidelity; to many unforgiving deceases, this behavior can cause loss of life or physical confrontations...even the production of a child, and for those reason Hell to the Naw!

[@GetaLifeStayOutMine]

Nah. I say divorce her and go find you a real good girl that won't do that to you. Nope. She don't deserve him.

[@hydroblast2209]

The brothers too kind hearted . He has a soft spirit .she doesn’t respect him.

[@tinaj9621]

Yes, too kind-hearted for a woman like her. A decent hearted , appreciative woman would respect and cherish a gentleman like him. Good guy. I hope she doesn't ruin him.

[@HollywoodDeliPodcast]

When the husband was asked what made you forgive her and she looked at him with smile, made me cringe. No where in this interview should she be smiling.

[@DearFutureWifey]

It's called restoration. Many will never understand that.

[@butterflynessxoxo6104]

This was me and my loves situation. God saved me be giving me a man who believed first in him, and forgave me. Which then changed my life overall. God is so good. Thank you for sharing your story

[@damainesweeney4917]

The simpery is at an all time high in this comment section. I see why American society is gone to hell!

[@Kpips99]

homie got no self respect

[@layconbad5279]

#Divinelovespell02 can help you bring back your husband. He helped Me and i am a living testimony[]{}

[@alialshaches6658]

BUGGING he don’t value himself, and that’s his decision to make, regardless of how goofy the decision.

[@CoffeeNotTea_]

I love how men understand that cheating is disrespectful and wrong when it’s a woman doing it but it’s all sorts of excuses when it’s them. Cheating is WRONG.

[@johanprabhu779]

Cry about it.

[@TimHerman81]

It's not always easy. If you aren't willing to bail water while the ship feels like it's sinking rather that putting on a life vest and drifting away than you aren't ready. We went through this same exact thing. I love hearing these stories and I preach about the covenant. Much love to this couple. These things are hard on both sides but the fight is worth it and the more this can start happening the more values will return!

[@leoneranger9348]

Mature conversation for mature people. Wish them all the success 🙌🏾

[@SistaWorksFilms]

We expect God’s forgiveness and we want forgiveness, but we have a hard time forgiving others. He said something very important and people forget, marriage is a covenant with God, not a contract or a piece of paper, a covenant. You don’t have to stay after infidelity, or after forgiveness, but if you choose to then honor it.

[@juliusbrewster]

I don't know what's more disturbing, her cheating or this fool coming on a platform to explain why tolerated such disrespect in the form of forgivness.

[@Laoriginal718]

Shorty is for the streets. Forgiving doesn’t mean STAY. You can forgive and leave.

[@Juju-zl2vh]

Once a cheater always a cheater 😂😂😂😂😂 women’s words exactly

[@shelikessports3704]

Why the hell would she even cheat on her husband I don’t get it 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@God.sDaughter]

Boredom and instant attention can make some women cheat.

[@lilibethnieto55]

Beautiful soul,Love covers multitude of sins and the forgiveness is the bridge to cross over.Thank you for sharing ❤️

[@Phantom6lack]

She probably still cheating.

[@michellestevens6737]

@Lilibeth Nieto Beautifully said ❤

[@success2089]

If he could really forgive, he would be pain free contrary to his voice where he sounds to be engulfed in pain. I understand men never forgive cheating

[@jenniferhaynes8625]

Cheating is a choice.

[@timothyclaytonii85]

There's only 3 things that would end a marriage. 1. Gay...you like what you like. 2. Diseases...you caught something that you can't get rid of. 3. Secret Child...you bring home a child.

[@andrewoladokun4377]

He said he had to make that decision with GOD. There is nothing more to be said. I just hope he doesn’t regret it

[@taneishiacrawford1464]

I suspect he will regret it She has a lot of trauma he thinks he can cover but idk

[@oreballin]

If God gives you a personal guarantee. You CANT regret anything. I wish I was able to be as honest with God as this man. Really ... the difficult things are stuff we are to share with him. God help us all

[@hatefulshade2735]

Cheating is wrong and shouldn't be tolerated from looking at the comments show how many fools there are loyalty, and trust is the bare minimum no wonder society is the way it is now when there is no loyalty there is no trust so then there is no grounds for a stable and healthy relationship

[@Sheewealthy]

She’s gonna do it again bless him

[@Sheewealthy]

@@Mr.Smile3000 You see that smerky look on her face! Then she holding on to his arm like a toddler who don’t wanna be dropped at daycare! I just don’t see the remorse. God help the next woman in his life.

[@bigdogg1206]

That smirk said it all. Put her back in the streets bro. Move on.

[@Sheewealthy]

@@bigdogg1206 and this is exactly how good women and men end up writing each other off. Cause they’ll choose this trash. Let her take him through the ringer. Now all BW ain’t sh!t. He’ll have a I hate BW podcast in a minute. Because this girl is trash. She’s finna emotionally and probably financially destroy this man. Btw I know it happens both ways. Because she may be making him pay for something some fool in her past did. I feel bad for this guy! I wish he would leave and heal. Because this is a training wreck waiting to happen. I hope he don’t snap when she does it again. Because she’s gonna do it again. Especially if his seggs or size is trash.

[@scottjarvis1974]

He doesn't listen to others and what fools say its ur marriage.

[@jaysmith9532]

A woman who cheat just look so fucking low lol 😂 like. Omg look how uncomfortable she look

[@pdoe4966]

Crazy as hell. Probably cheating on him after this segment 😂 crazy as hell

[@ljthirtyfiver]

You see how she smiled in his Face like yea “it was bigger too, from the Window to the wall” …. He a good boy

[@footballguy6418]

Aint no way

[@footballguy6418]

Ok

[@user-vi1os8of8p]

This is a problem I’m praying for him

[@sweettreatsoverload4296]

Why is it a problem? he has a right to decide to atay it's sad that you all think it's eight to use witchcraft against this man. Its qitchcrsgt if you try to force your will on a person.

[@tripledo.g.2551]

If he cheated on her believe me she would have file for divorce

[@tripledo.g.2551]

Has nothing to do with witchcraft

[@lushisushiemushi]

Poor guy should've left. NEVER FORGIVE WOMEN.

[@shamanlee111]

Many men get cheated on and stay. They just don't tell anybody 🤫

[@HonestLeighSpeaking]

Facts! But because they don’t tell anyone, they often don’t get the healing necessary. End up resenting their wives and the marriage becomes even more miserable.

[@wealthy4387]

@@HonestLeighSpeaking wife shouldn’t be cheating nor the husband.. this why everybody marrying people out the states because its real love and loyalty

[@TomikaKelly]

Many men don't even know they're being cheated on. 🤫

[@CeeSparks]

​@@TomikaKelly true. Msny women don't know

[@omaramaya2893]

@@izealliaeldridge1901 no because they are simps, Who Tf stays with a cheater 💀.

[@geoditt42]

He's letting her know whatever she does he'll accept it. Stop it

[@akingwithwords2144]

😂😂😂 Imagine holding yourself to a standard that your spouse has already sh!tted on… 😂😂😂

[@AL-sg2jd]

Cheating is disgusting. Forgive then leave and never look back

[@shjakes]

"If you're gonna make a mistake, don't yuh make it twice!!!" 🤔~Gordon Lightfoot

[@johnlmorse9068]

I would have liked to hear from her on why she wasn't committed to her vows she made with God.

[@tonitwitty9529]

She messed up.. ppl mess up but I'm rooting for them especially if children are involved and I hope whatever had her step out of the marriage was addressed. U know this happens a lot especially with men and the woman forgives. Just shouldn't continue the cheating

[@disnalee]

She disrespect God and her husband. He had the heart to forgive so he has more love than she will ever. Hope she realize her error

[@layconbad5279]

#Divinelovespell02 can help you bring back your husband. He helped Me and i am a living testimony[]{}..{}{}

[@malaikahansen]

He is too handsome for her! Too humble for her attitude! Too good for her! I pray that he will wake out of that sleep!!

[@richardannor4114]

Does she even look valuable in his eyes again. She dropped her crown and reduced her self to a peasant. Can't respect her again

[@nnena3631]

Never underestimate the power of a good upbringing and an intact family structure and a father and husband that properly leads his family❤️❤️ Kudos to them! BRAVO!👏

[@cherwallace6026]

ABSOLUTELY!!

[@raquelsmith3725]

Damn he doesn't know his worth🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️

[@reginawheeler966]

That's not true, forgiveness is powerful.

[@raquelsmith3725]

​@@reginawheeler966 so is loyalty

[@LSUB300]

When my brother forgave his girlfriend, she got mad. She wanted a separation and the cheating was just to have a good excuse.

[@wl6279]

yeah this is how women act sometimes, and when they do that, just let them go. Don’t waste your time with somebody like that.

[@derrickhahn3469]

Not to sound rude, but girlfriends don't count. Let'em go. The laws of marriage are from God. They cover a husband and wife. You don't play married.

[@beautifullama9]

She was a coward. Leave instead of cheating.

[@success2089]

This is the thing man misunderstands about women cheating. When a woman confesses her cheating, 100% of the time it means she wants to break up. Because women cheat to end a relationship. Man most of the times cheat for no real reason, we see having sex as a pleasurable thing

[@fantasy_writer_38]

Smh have some respect for yourself dude. And that goes for both women and men, never ever stay with a cheater

[@lucycookson1043]

People can change! If it was a man you’d be saying ‘forgive him ‘