AVOID these 2023 Trends if you are a Short Girl (Like Me)

[@QueenJaneway]

The "on the knee" trend is unnessecary to bring up because we all shorties know that the skirts will end up below anyway XD

[@nikki6030]

I know it yet…. I’m so eager to buy it!!!

[@dptalk9816]

😂😂😂😂

[@IM_ThePurplesloth]

True

[@gwendolynsima2810]

[@reinehonorine6048]

Totally agree. My struggle will be to give up the oversize trend, i just love that trend so much 😅🥲

[@sabahatgulll]

The fact she JUST GETS TO THE POINT is ❤️

[@teru5830]

i’ve been reading blogs on how to wear skirts as a short woman after watching this. (i’m 4’11 and petite) and they’re like “stay away from tiered skirts”.. i began to sweat while looking at my more than 5 tiered skirts. i own more than 20 skirts from all lengths and most of them doesn’t work for me according to the blogs 😅 i personally prefer “mori kei” style which is basically layered, loose, feminine. sometimes i feel like a hanger… but a pretty and comfy hanger when i wear that style 😂

[@M.Clarke790]

I’m petite 5’1 and I completely agree with the big bags-will be wearing small bags forever. I prefer midi, mini, and maxi skirts instead of right at the knee. I disagree on oversized everything. I do love when there is a contrast such as tight top loose pants but I also love just baggy everything. It’s just so comfortable and looks cool not always in the mood to look taller or whatever.

[@bethanyleonardo]

Yep! 4:45

[@nataliavguz]

Agree! I'm 5' on the dot and most of the trends outlined here can be a bit hard to pull off as a petite, but the oversized everything look comes down to energy! You've gotta own the vibe this chic "cool careless" look is asking for. I actually tend to feel taller and leaner when I throw on an oversized top and bottom and sleek strappies or super cute shoes. ( :

[@mytamle]

Hahahah I'm the same. Love oversize and I hope the trend never disappears

[@peachjeongin]

I’m petite but love wearing oversized on oversized, something i find that helps to even out proportions is by having higher waisted pants, and trying to “crop” the oversized shirt/sweater by tucking it into the waistband, or buying a baggy but cropped too to begin with!

[@fatisummer9106]

I find wearing the same color pieces help with oversize everything and it looks adorable

[@niki_bbb]

I like wearing oversize everything, and then I as a petite woman have trouble styling this look, I turn to Japanese women for inspiration -- they way they style absolutely HUGE clothes is immaculate.

[@juniblessing3875]

Can you share the links where you see them?

[@heartforall5853]

Japanese oversized clothes are also made for petite people

[@hifellowhumans8393]

YAS

[@Mariaslowlife]

Yes like the Olsen Twins!

[@a.jpurple6515]

I live in Australia and recently got back from Japan for the first time. The fashion there is beautiful! Even when people are dressing casually, there is something innately stylish and purposeful. It was also the first time where I could actually buy clothes that fit me as a shortie (5ft) and when over sized fits ACTUALLY fit me, and doesn’t eat me up.

[@IWillSayItLouder]

Bethany, I never thought I’d find anything to flatter my petite and inverted triangle shape, but you’ve taught me it’s all about the cut and quality of the clothing that can make all the difference. I can’t tell you how many compliments I get on my outfits now and it’s such a confidence booster. People always ask me where I get my hats too, and it always reminds me of you. Thank you for being such a positive resource for us short girls, and just a sweet person all around 🥰✨

[@lauriejordan2716]

OMG, I have the same exact body frame as you.

[@IWillSayItLouder]

We are not alone! 🫶

[@vanessablah2105]

I have the same body type

[@friedchicken892]

Samee

[@friedchicken892]

what do you suggest

[@ily5540]

I’m 5’1 and I only wear baggy jeans, I hate skinny jeans, they make me look way skinnier than i naturally am. I like to buy and follow Japanese clothing trends, most tend to be very skinny and petite targeted, lots of baggy clothing is used and trendy and I love it!

[@lynnpetti3817]

I’m a few inches shorter than you and totally agree about the bags and skirts but nothing is going to make me look taller, thinner or younger (77). I love full , flair pants so I just go with it and smile. My body want nothing to do with heals, so I go with loafers, trainers and flats. You are adorable and give good recommendations and I enjoy you site. Never underestimate the value of youth and health, both are transient. Blessings.

[@carlsenlifeafter60carlsen11]

I’m 5 “2 and very petite and I can’t stand the oversized trend. Thank you for all your suggestions. It really helps even though I am 67. I still look classic and minimal every bit helps.

[@_.taranhans]

i am just 5 💀

[@Isana567]

​Same 💀@@_.taranhans

[@Aleatoire9]

Thanks as always Bethany! I'm not short (5'6"), but I do have width in my frame that can easily make me look "squished," cut off, or shorter, so these tips are helpful for me too 🥰

[@esdher]

love u for saying it's all a matter of personal taste in the end, bc i'm never giving up my oversized bags no matter how silly i might look. something i decided for myself when i once saw the tiniest girl wearing a humongous tote bag, made her look like she was sailing away in a boat and i thought it was the cutest thing ever😂♥️

[@bethanyleonardo]

Yes! 4:45 is SO important because that is what matters most at the end of the day.

[@jenniferbrungardt9439]

I loved this video and found it so helpful in figuring out WHY certain styles don't work on my petite frame. Like I can tell when something's not working but sometimes I'm unsure exactly what's making it not work. We are about the same size. Please do one of these for each season's trends!

[@yifatjovani333]

Ask yourself why you don't or do like it, if it's the cut, color, texture... It will help you to have more clarity

[@amulyaa98]

As someone who's 5'1, your tips have helped me a lot... Your channel is my go to source of information whenever I need fashion advice ❤️Thanks for taking time and sharing these tips ❤️

[@bethanyleonardo]

So happy to hear it, friend! 💛

[@janethtugdang2451]

Most of commenter here are 5 '1, while me just 4'5 :( I'm the shorter 😅

[@tell-it-like-it-is8305]

Short people are either overlooked or looked over 😂😂😂

[@miuthub7954]

What do you think of Japanese style, they're on average petite and wear oversize and long extremely well!

[@anja1627]

Yep, and they look good. You can do oversize as long as it's in the right silhouette. The Japanese style is so chic and cool.

[@norahdelagarza775]

Hi Bethany! It's hard to imagine you as barely over 5' because you always look taller which means whatever you are doing definitely works! I never reached 5' but with age, I've already started shrinking. I don't really pay attention to trends because trends are only temporary until the next trend. I prefer style because you can build on that. Love you, Bethany. 🥰 XOXO

[@yifatjovani333]

Yes!! I 💯 agree with all you've said! True personal style has nothing to do with trends, it is expressing our personality!

[@sylgaucher573]

What if I am short and chubby though? Things look different on your short tiny frame vs my short heavy frame.

[@lindseysherwood5376]

This sweater is everything on you!!!! Such a cute effortless look!

[@joanaelaizacustodio6925]

Me being 4'11 and I just can't imagine myself being not fashionable so I'm so obsessed with this video.

[@beth9015]

Does anybody know the name of the cardigan that she’s wearing? I know it’s from the Doen brand, but what’s the exact model? Can’t find it online :(

[@sbyoutub3]

As a hijabi, exposing skin is not the option 😂😂😂

[@vanessapyo7331]

Great video as always, Bethany! As someone who is barely 5’1” & very slender, I have had to avoid certain looks or trends & only adopt styles that look proportionate to my tiny frame. Some of my favorite styles to wear is 1. high waisted jeans, 2. v-neck tops, 3. fitted, tailored looks (can be paired with something “roomy” without being oversized), 4. Small bags, usually between 8-11 inches wide, 5. Belting my outfits to accentuate my waist, 6. Never wearing pants, skirts, dresses, jumpsuits that “cut me off” right below the knee or at the widest part of my calf, & 7. Wearing shoes that match my legs (black only with black tights, beige shoes when my leg is bare, etc).

[@yifatjovani333]

Nice!

[@theisshi9085]

i'm 5'2 and i think i just found out what my style is. i was kinda nervous when you mentioned wide leg pants but luckily, i'm wearing it the right way. i really like wide leg pants (not too wide tho and definitely not flared) with a crop top. i once owned a lot of skinny jeans but as i started gaining weight, it doesn't look good on me. my body shape (inverted triangle) is also becoming a factor. when loose/wide leg pants became a trend, i found myself looking better. but i also started checking the length of the tops that i buy to make sure that they don't go beyond my belly button. i also avoid oversized tops or one with a shoulder line that measure beyond mine. i'm being more aware of the fitting of my clothes now. it's not just about the design nor trend.

[@anushkajadhav5908]

Well said at the end of the video, you don't need to adopt every single trend that goes around if it doesn't suit your style

[@brendarascon9862]

Totally agree on the big tote! But I adore pencil skirts. I find them completely feminine and flattering.

[@TheZeyre]

Always solid advise. It is easy to lose oneself ....in alot of layers and coats and scarves and ...could you do one on layering for petites? The looks are great but how to not get swallowed by them???? Thanks Bethany! Hapoy Valentine's Day! Xo Joanne 🇨🇦

[@hootieq]

As someone who is 4’8 I find really big bags hard to walk with I always end up tripping on big bags so I’ve always stuck with smaller bags

[@kmr8139]

I'm 4'11 so these are wonderful tips thank you 😊 🥰

[@DoeRaeMe]

This is how I found you a few years back Bethany, your short girl series❤ it’s helped me sooooo much ❤

[@bethanyleonardo]

Aw so glad to hear it, friend! 💛

[@ronnie-lynn]

I’m also 5’0 when I was 105 pounds I found it easier to dress to look taller than it does now that I’m 160 pounds. 😢

[@littlemisscerberus]

I’m still growing as I’m 14 ( 4’10 ) so my mom is 5’1 my dad is like 5’6 and I’ll most likely be 5’1-5’2 which I’m fine with at this point. So I will look forward to using videos like these to style looks without making me look like an Oompa Loompa lol

[@WilliamBaker-m2s]

Can you do a video showing us your entire replica collection and maybe shout out some favs and some regrets? I love the pieces you choose! Can’t wait to get mine KKUWAN

[@e.h.332]

Knee-length skirts are the worseeee for my body type lol

[@Vikruiz]

Estamos en el 2023, no sé opina sobre el cuerpo de otras personas, como tampoco se dice lo que podes o no usar! Todas podemos usar lo que queramos independiente mente de como sea nuestro cuerpo...sos muy ignorante dando tan feo mensaje...

[@karenaiime]

4'9" girly here 😂

[@carly9077]

I only wear knee lenght skirts in winter with knee hight boots and tights in a similar color either to the boots or the skirt. Try it people 😉

[@kiranmalaviya8134]

Gawd!!! The entire 2 decades when Indian markets would sell ONLY low waist everything!!! I lost my youth because of commerical arm twisting 😢😢😢

[@benjaminaswad6486]

All of them. Get off ticktock. Be yourself.

[@rachaelwilliams786]

I’m crazy about pencil skirts. They’re so sexy - and I’m 5’1” too. Lol

[@rr-vh3ye]

how about 5 feet and curvy? can you guide about what to wear. your style helped me a lot but i still feel like it’s more for when i when want to dress up and don’t know what to wear to a supermarket run and feel cute

[@Sabina996]

Im 4`11 so im struggle with clothes

[@jadejade5303]

Same here and also with Shoes!!!!! 😢

[@phackdaphish]

The Olsen twins wear the oversized look so well. They just look confident.

[@inang1968]

I love oversized baggy clothes but it makes me look so short T-T

[@GGMKir88]

On a first note, I must say, your voice is so calming and yet engaging. As a petite myself, I appreciate the content. Please keep them coming; we cute sized ladies need a channel to help dress proportionally to our height.

[@b.johnny369]

Never mind being petite (5ft), my neurodivergent brain cannot handle rummaging around in a giant bag to find things. 😵‍💫

[@_________________._._._._]

I’m short and I want to look short hehe

[@Lyblue707]

Thanks Bethany for sharing and advice to what style to wear for petite 5'1 like me.🥰💖

[@nyxaraviolette]

Please make a video about what to wear for upcoming summer and how incorporate colors for summer. It'd be so helpful. Lots of love.

[@stephaddiction]

I'm 5ft! More clothes and vids for petites!!

[@RealisticMon]

LOVE IT!! So many people think “petite” is being skinny 😂😂.. so that’s actually why I checked this video out…. I can’t tell tot how many people I have seen on online shopping reviews in the petite section claiming they bought their normal size but the clothing is too small lol… well dear it’s because you are 5’6 and in the wrong section 😂😂😂

[@elfriedeschmidt4033]

Another very informative video and with all your expertise, could I ask you to please consider doing a video for us petites about layering? Our winters here in Canada are long and I’m hoping you have some tips to keep our style interesting without looking frumpy. Thank you in advance 🙏💕

[@rosaramos7399]

I'm 5' 21/2" and always loved the way pencil skirts looked on me, of course when I was younger and slimmer. Now at 68 years young I wish I could still rock the pencil skirt 😕

[@Meagan0624]

Me, too! They've gone from "chic" to "sausage."

[@pamelanoya4776]

I agree with the big bags. I’m 5’1, and very hard to decide to have a tote bag. I’ve been eyeing goyard st louis for years but cant decide to have one, instead i end up bough a poleene cyme mini for smaller tote bag. Your short girl videos always helped me! Thank youuu and Happy Valentine’s day

[@farah9995]

can you do modest outfits (not showing much if at all any skin) for petite girls.

[@ZeoArgentine]

I can't stand the oversized clothes trend!😭 Everyone just looks so frumpy. Great video and Happy Valentines Day Bethany 🥰

[@asdellera]

We have the same height but Im fat 😢

[@k.shamma.blink1202]

as someone whoes 4'9 3/34 feet at 15 year , i really did find alot of things in this video , even though i really love and adore wide pants clothing or big bags .

[@debrazawlocki3975]

This girl speaks truth. With fashion, proportion is key. 1. Wear only 1 oversized item at a time. 2. Bags are personal. Vogue can K.I. 3. I wear A-line or wrap-styled skirts 24" to 29" long...nothing else.

[@penultimateh766]

No matter her numerical height, our host's poise and style make her seem tall!

[@redsquare4835]

Although I do enjoy oversized clothing, I do so because it’s comfortable. But I want to branch out these days and embrace some more feminine looks, on my top half at least. My style persona is begging me 😂😂 So wish me luck as I venture into that, I want to discover more fitted and slim tops that work for my body shape 🙌🏻

[@GwennyWinkle]

As someone who carries a lot of stuff, i cant stand small bags. But i also hate large bags so i try looking for bags that looks “standard/normal” size but can fit a lot of stuffs in. 😂

[@porchecayenne13]

4’11 here😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@rhenaissancepoet]

I'm 5'2 and these tips definitely helped! Thank you so much!

[@lynndupree1205]

Im 5'3" and the very best way for me to look taller is a pair of high waisted, slightly wide leg pants paired with a short, slightly structured or fitted top. Add pointed toe shoes and suddenly I look and feel much taller. Keep the whole outfit in a similar color tone. Short over long does it every time. Mile high legs are the optical illusion here.

[@shepov9705]

Being 5'2, have big bones and inverted triangle🙂

[@gutbites947]

Hi i'm 150 cm and pear shape. I really love your channel and always see your videos. I am a hijabi. I want to embrace the oversized clothes and pants but I look so short combining both top and bottom. You mentioned that you can show some skin where you are comfortable, but can you give suggestions what to do for a hijabi? Thanks!

[@zlatna_ribica]

I'm 5'4 which is pretty short in serbia and my choice is so limited when choosing jeans for ex.

[@bibimbap9199]

I m 5.1 but i love flared jeans..😢😢

[@bethanyleonardo]

Rock them! Just wear something tighter on top if you want to elongate your frame. 🤗

[@DexterMag-aso]

Your insightful tips on navigating 2023 trends for short girls resonate deeply, and it brings to mind the valuable guidance I received from Lisa Haisha during her transformative retreat in the Philippines. Both you and Lisa serve as my guiding lights, inspiring me to embrace uniqueness and navigate life's trends with confidence.

[@amandarenein8502]

Though I know mini skirts are better for my height, I don't like wearing them that much( I like maxi skirts. I also would like to wear midi skirts, but I'm not sure what length is okay. Is it okay if a skirt is lower the knee (not the "on the knee" trend) ?

[@prencisalessandra7648]

I really loved watching your videos. The ambience is always perfect. Very delicate. Don't know how to describe. Hehe.

[@Bbom_Pink]

"I am short" Me too 😅💖

[@lisagiannoumis3816]

I am average height but I have such short legs, like my mom, and it appears my kids both have short limbs, I'm rolling up their clothes constantly. It's hard to accommodate sometimes, but these tips really help!

[@bethanyleonardo]

Glad they are helpful, Lisa! 🤗

[@tanatom11]

What about boot cut or flared jeans for a petite with shorter legs?

[@Psicrrr-ji3zy]

I need ❤

[@lauriejordan2716]

I love this. I don’t subscribe to anyone. However, I had to subscribe just because this is so different and helpful. Also, odd question; people always swear I am taller than I am. I mean I have had nurses make me stand back to back with her because she swore I was at least 5’6. I’m a little under 5’3. I assume it’s because my legs are freakishly long for my body. I’m not sure though. Does anyone else have this issue?

[@aishwarya2426]

As a 5’11 with short legs, I’m taking notes✍️

[@coolstar7819]

How is 5' short guys?!

[@chantellerognon5037]

I'm always looking to your videos for help with how to dress as a petite. Thank you for continuing to make these types of videos ❤️

[@bethanyleonardo]

Absolutely Chantelle!

[@sanapinon]

Oversize everything definitely is a disaster for me 😂

[@Franklin13kule]

Muito top adorei essa ideia

[@lulubajema8671]

Happy Valentines Bethany! ❤

[@LauraDeVasconcelos]

1:46 ah wish you had shown the length of them. But sure you wouldn't let em cover your shoes hehe

[@bethanyleonardo]

hehe they fit perfect with heeled boots 🙌

[@PoojaTank-dg8wq]

How would you style an oversized tweed blazer for work? I am petite but I love this blazer

[@catalinadelarosa4269]

I’m 4’11😂

[@nikki6030]

1:17 Omg! I love her!!! She said “Show skin wherever you feel comfortable doing so”

[@thesuvdaa]

Dear Bethany thank you very much content. Truly appreciated ❤ Please please let us know what kind of lingerie did you wear inside of the white cardigan. Thank you 🙏🏻

[@surabhimohan2871]

Yeah even I am always struggling to understand what lingerie goes under low cut tops

[@CorinaChirilaArtist]

I am petite and I cannot find wide leg pants that fit my short legs. They are all made for super tall girls. When I want to buy jeans I only find skinnies for my size. Maybe designers make flare only for tall women cnsidering they are not good fost pettites

[@sizzy972]

Omg no pressure…. But pressure!!!!! Make a 2024 one 😍❣️❣️💖😍💓💕🌸❤️‍🔥💓😍❤️‍🔥😍🌸💓💖😍✨💕😍

[@sd0198]

I never did like the big bags, they get too heavy!

[@saidbakhouche642]

Love you i wish i can have your outfits

[@bethanyleonardo]

Much love!

[@MichelGiusseppe-tn8jv]

Where is your cardigan from?

[@premymurry5221]

Dearly Bethany ❤️, would you please guide us on knee length or long length dresses or anything regarding dresses.🌼🌼

[@DaniL-hr9xo]

Not me liking the video before even watching it🙋🏼‍♀️ To be fair I never regret it💕

[@bethanyleonardo]

🤗💛

[@aeri_taylors-version]

why do i feel so called out 🥲

[@apollsdhane3904]

Thank you for this wonderful tips on outfits ❤️❤️

[@JuliaShalomJordan]

Appreciate these short gal videos.🤍

[@AbianahAlmeida]

I’m 5’2 so im tall but I got the proportions of a midget.💀

[@lauragomezllanos2916]

You look so pretty with those jeans ❤ thanks for the tips : )