Being Chronically Single I The Unfiltered Gay Podcast Ep 19

[@willc7861]

I really love & respect aiman's honesty & openess about things

[@Aimanunni]

I love you 🥺

[@dreamliner495]

There was a time i gave up and fully prepared to be single my whole life( after went through so many episodes of meeting , dating, failing) . But I feel blessed at my 38 i finally found someone that i feel confident to go for LTR, this year is our 3rd year together, having partner at older age is very important at least for me. I feel my life is more meaningful , all of you who is still searching please dont give up yet, sometimes faith comes at the least expected time. I wish good luck for all of the gay in singapore 🎉

[@rahulthapa108]

Congrats. Happy for you. Wish I could say the same but it's hard to be hopeful when all you experience is disappointment.

[@ryankeyes871]

Where do ppl go to meet or is it online?

[@dreamliner495]

@@ryankeyes871 tindr works but can be quite frustrated becoz swiping simply cost nothing. Good luck.

[@dreamliner495]

@@rahulthapa108 i can feel you, focus on those who have potential, quickly move on from those who are toxic. I used to waste my time with delution mind "what if" . Trust me when your mr right finally come , your will know. No need to waste your time on someone not meant for u... wish u good luck;)

[@winghongcheong4776]

@@ryankeyes871perhaps audit your current social circle and ask urself if your potential partner will be found. Otherwise move on and know more ppl out of ur circle ? Just my 2 cents.

[@teohanz3089]

Kudos for yet another genuine sharing and discussion.

[@sanrio8058]

"i watch BL" 'thats not realistic' "I watch kdrama" 'thats even less realistic' 😅😅😅took me all the way out😅😅😅

[@stewartdorward6526]

Excellent video - funny, perceptive and honest - thank you guys.

[@mcdowalla]

The audio quality is great this time! Thank you!!!

[@DearStraightPeople]

Yay, thank you!

[@jsw3473]

I cherish this conversation very much. Because, it gave me an insight of the Chinese parents' mindset, regarding of their children's orientation. I also guess, Malay / Thai parents, are more flexible & accepting towards LGBTQ, in general. It must be the different culture, with most of Traditional Chinese families.

[@kknitez]

As someone much older than the 3 of you, while I agree the odds of finding a partner may seem smaller as we age, love doesn’t always come knocking during our prime years. I met my partner when i was 43 - an age most are discounted and deemed past their shelf life. We have been together for almost 10 years now. So for those who lament they haven’t found ‘the right one, I know exactly how it feels, but know that love doesn’t always follow our timeline. Until the one comes along, love and live your life to the best you can.

[@Tssss-z5i]

I cannot believe that Sean is single!

[@xxpatricklauxx]

i do agree that being single is a luxury and a privilege. currently im sitting on my grandparents and parents inheritance plus im an only child. insurance companies despise me 😅

[@AsianPride]

I love how this podcast is sooo real, atleast to me, as a gay Asian person. I think sometimes on the internet, everything becomes so fabricated and fantasied!

[@woodliao317]

here is my thoughts after watching this episode: Kieran: Rational type and i like the way u share your view about valued the sharing experience with partner Aiman: Emotional type and dont keep thinking about ur partner will die la, hahahahah, u r so funny and kind. Sean: Emotional > Rational type, reminding of myself.

[@angelliu168]

My fav team are right here. If Isaac join in then it's a dream team

[@Aimanunni]

Aww SO SWEET

[@PhoekPaulus]

You are sweet ​@@Aimanunni!😊

[@bobbobkh]

Kieren look so good today

[@ykchong1268]

Puhleeeeeeze....wait until you're in my age group then we talk. We are being shoved into Kjeldsens's tin container!!! 🤣

[@fairyyoongi]

THEY BACKKKK MISSING the other guyy

[@PhoekPaulus]

I prefer this team: "in-house" team, then invited guest that come from Taiwan, Thailand, etc at few eps ago, who think is super cringe. Sean, Kieran, Aiman, and one another guy (sorry forget the name) always fine+fun to listen and watchh

[@mildent31]

🤗Sean is jaded aiman is a romantic and kieran is just being real🤗

[@Michael11565]

Great episode ;)

[@caedanteng5417]

😂😂😂Aiman in his fantasies

[@visions30]

All of you are beautiful in your own ways lah......but if you are closed up and continue to be jaded in life you will not be found even by the ones that are meant for you. Just live life and stay open to experiences because you only live once!

[@chocolatejellybean2820]

It's like a therapy session 😅

[@Aimanunni]

It really is until they start attacking me!!

[@jamesquivey1538]

I've learned that it takes 2 "me's" to make a "we". If I am not comfortable in my own skin, I cannot be comfortable with someone else. Trying to find a relationship because I need that person to make me whole never works. Get a therapist! The other thing is being available to the other person. Open my mind and allow them to interact with me and see where it goes. If we are meant to be together then it will happen. Viewing several episodes now, I keep hearing this repeating theme about white guys and their "size". Someone needs to introduce you to black men. It's the difference between "ouch" and "DAMN"! Bring a wheelchair to the hook up because you aren't walking after!!!

[@Aimanunni]

Can I say I went to Krabi once and hooked up with a Jamaican… MAMA HE WAS PACKING couldn’t even think to try HAHAHAHHA

[@jamesquivey1538]

@@Aimanunni I work in a very diverse company. I tell the guys if they want to try gay sex they need to start with the skinny Cuban first, then work there way up to the Jamaicans!

[@reineerjalon6842]

Nice episode, sensible and rather subdued compared to your other eps.

[@quehzac4554]

Let's go eat prata on a Sunday morning Aiman 😘

[@Aimanunni]

OK ONZ LETS GO

[@bojongkia123]

Wow, Aiman got a lot of fans here! 😅

[@85mocg]

Totally relate to aiman 18:43. Want to have someone to share life experiences with but a few closw friends says i live in fantasy world 🥲 (too much BL or kdrama i guess)

[@audreyang902]

As woman . My advice Earn more to enjoy retirement . Enjoy lifestyle , style fit and due diligent to check partners background for prolong companionship.

[@jannebrija9879]

I tell you I was doing well in my country but when I move to Europe, it is really different.

[@audreyang902]

For white guys ,thier mindset is different from Asians. Stay single is the best . Missing someone to be love is a temporary madness.Stay focus on your to achieve your stability journey of life not to be hurt or stressful mindset.

[@gl241]

My husband and I have been together for 29 years. The running joke is that I’m sticky rice but ended with a white guy. 🤷🏽‍♂️. Every Asian that I was interested didn’t want to date other Asians. 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@hongerdude]

Where can we possibly meet Sean in person?

[@greyzonee8242]

interesting perspective.

[@scyferjekoi]

Lowkey Looking for Like SEAN guy in this universe..=} Emotional Connection and MAturity is really a turn on =}

[@audreyang902]

Enjoy being drag , lgbt or ... Just be safe and not get hurt .Everyone deserv to express its freedom to last.

[@CHIvan-c1x]

Some people want good looking friend only

[@bernardlokman5442]

Once you reach late 30s you cannot tahan dealing with people anymore. Looking at all the overly curated photos and reading their profiles such as 'interest: gym, coffee, food,travel'. Seriously, who does not like coffee, food and travel? In the end, many gay men are investing themselves in things that are not interesting. Money, body and career. What else? Every second person becomes a cookie cutter guy. In the end, you learn to not to compromise for things that matter to you. Some people are born to be alone.

[@fairyyoongi]

WHERES ISAACC

[@caedanteng5417]

Once used considered SOLD 😂😂😂😂😂Aiman.

[@mildent31]

Hello sean, kieran and aiman ❤❤❤

[@Aimanunni]

Hello!!

[@CHIvan-c1x]

Some people see friend as sex object

[@jamieatelier]

We are born to be alone

[@CHIvan-c1x]

Some people do not want ugly friend

[@bbyzsg]

Dont see anything wrong being Single...surrounded by people who claim to be attached but have public feuds online etc

[@vistory]

Aiman really lives in his own head. There are white gay men in Singapore you know.

[@Rantvph]

kieren is cute.

[@yeh_den]

Don't generalise, i am in my 60, from time to time i still have people who want to have sex with me. i am not handsome and i am not lean or muscular

[@woodliao317]

so funnyyyyy

[@CHIvan-c1x]

Friendship

[@CHIvan-c1x]

It is not good for man to be alone

[@bojongkia123]

I humbly disagree. That’s nothing wrong to take control of your own life. Privacy and freedom is totally yours. 🫡🫡

[@CHIvan-c1x]

Some people do not not need sex so no friend

[@chocolatejellybean2820]

Hey Sean I'm here for you haha sure everyone's thirties are attached but for how long. Gay Guys are like parking spots they become empty sooner or later.

[@Aimanunni]

HAHAHAHAH STOP EH

[@GJ2024-indo]

All the good ones are taken and the ones that left are disabled

[@sanrio8058]

Omg too funny

[@ryankeyes871]

Hey u guys r back not the new hosts, not saying they r not good😅

[@MatteBlack2024]

The large guy does NOT appear stable. He’s going to “sweep” his head an early bald.

[@Aimanunni]

I AM CRYIBG

[@CHIvan-c1x]

Man need companionship discuss

[@rogieherman6202]

Slurping soup is why you did not date the French guy? Sorry boo boo...you wonder why you are alone?

[@johnchukwu2697]

Don't you guys like black men? I've not heard any of you mention being opened to blacks

[@odi4452]

Aiman, I suggest you get a dog. Seriously.

[@garychopping2184]

Sean and Kieren are my type reasons they are appear to look after their appearance and do not act camp , sorry aimen but way to camp, some us gay men are not attracted by girly traits.