Hot Takes About The Gay Hierarchy I The Unfiltered Gay Podcast Ep 3

[@kimemerson5732]

You three are adorable, you brighten my day! 'I'm a newly retired, old, straight woman from the US, and I find your channel fun and hilarious, please keep it up!😂😘💓👏

[@thepartyoftea]

Despite us fighting for equality there is a lot of inequality in the community. A lot of the Hierarchy is physical. Good looks, tall, extroverted, able bodied, masc, and a top. Also, depending on the location, white people tend to be at the top due to the brain washing western standards of beauty. Being fat, fem and Asian like Aiman would find himself at the bottom of the Hierarchy in most places. With the Black Lives Matter movement and the diversification of how gay people are seen the community is getting wider and more accepting of more people. Lots of work to do still.

[@luissoria1572]

Preach!

[@sherrygadberryturner9527]

If I were a gay man, I’d grab Aiman and never let go! He’s so adorable! ❤

[@DesgameReaction]

No need to be so polite, just be direct, say it out since your channel is unfiltered. 😂 I think the hosts afraid of backfiring, the most right guy talks about achievement somemore, I was like ' what'? 😂 In the circle who cares about achievement. If money yes, body yes, face yes

[@dhasliesylvesto]

We used to have Gay Hierarchy without all these social media/influencer thingy, but long ago history already. It was much more "tamed" and not so chaotic in the past where you really meet people in the bars/pubs/clubs to interact face to face and know that person.

[@byron4486]

This episode was HILARIOUS! Great chemistry guys

[@Joel-ru4nm]

I find Sean and Isaac so attractive.

[@cmyk5749]

Weekend usual clubbing scene: you could see the hierarchy in place. At the top - Entire lot at their usual space aka the lounging/restricted area (most of the time, these people would be the first in line of invitations to any god damn events) They perceive as hot, good looking, good bod, well-educated/well-travelled, fashionable or rich. So these people just hang around among their social circle/leeching/using each other/FWB. Middle - The wannabes seen lurking around the above. Trying to get a glimpse/attention of anyone in the group. (Example: Palm Royale series) Would spend unnecessary money on drinks/clothing/latest gadgets/working out like crazy in the gym (nice bod but looks kinda off). Would betray their friends/lovers. Just to be with anyone in the above circle. Middle Low - The usual crazy bunch. One or two aka social butterflies, who may know the DJs/Door bitch/PR person/Bartenders...do not care about who's who or who's looking...just having a good time with themselves/friends. These are the ones without fail, the club/scene supporters...some are just crazy fashionistas aka I AM WHAT I AM. Low - Hanging around the club. Usually by the bar areas or outside the balcony looking in. Possibly alone or with a friend wearing a t-shirt/shirt, pants with sneakers. The unfortunates - Usually alone, aged and always smiling at anyone that crosses path with him. Some could be even a pervert. Hanging around the WC. ...but The ultimate highest hierarchy - THE QUEEN aka THE DRAG QUEEN!!! As soon he/she steps into the club, everyone says Hi....everyone moves aside...even those from the top social ladder/happening crowd wants to say Hi and offering drinks...free invitations, admission/entry, drinks on the house, a spot on the dance floor/podium/stage!

[@byron4486]

Very interesting take but I do not think drag queens are considered top tier in the gay hierarchy... Unless they are a Ru Paul Drag Race alumni with millions of followers, most drag queens have little influence and they are also mostly sissy so not considered attractive to most gays either.

[@sherrygadberryturner9527]

People, they are talking about their own experiences and personal opinions, it’s all good.

[@Zephquel]

IMO Aiman is right. Its "subjective" but looks is like priority. Those famous ppl are goodlooking with lean/gym bods. Famous as in sought out after alot, not just well known by ppl.

[@swjimmy72]

Everyone is beautiful and different in preferences! So plenty of fishes! My own experiences;-working & living in Europe, and those Mediterraneans are GAWD! ! And that’s what they want everyone or most at least to have that WANT in your eyes, once they take a glimpse to! Only when they are young tho, so make yourself worth, cherish and don’t go cheap! Voila

[@swjimmy72]

Everyone is beautiful and different in preferences! So plenty of fishes! My own experiences;-working & living in Europe, and those Mediterraneans are GAWD! ! And that’s what they want everyone or most at least to have that WANT in your eyes, once they take a glimpse to! Only when they are young tho, so make yourself worth, cherish and don’t go cheap! Voila. And pls pls learn to deal or cope of being rejected!! Some can’t! And that came along with spitting or « How Much »? Oe worse:- trying to test your anger limit by starting to annoy, harass and fight at last. Me; avoid groups who came to enjoy, drinks and loud!

[@qaffan2010]

I can share my experience as well. The classification or hierarchy parameters are so unreal and unfair. A gay man who is high up the career ladder and socio economy status but with no looks, un-appealing physique & simple or ugly & old may never live up to these gay high status nor to be accepted or liked....the gay society or community is a very dubious and cruel....

[@cassidylee9651]

Why Sean so stunned for words at 9.10??

[@dchey01]

It's got nothing to do with how rich or how successful career wise a person is. It's got everything to do with how sexually desirable aka How "Hot" a person is by the prevailing popular desirability standard (desirability differs in different society e.g the K-Pop androgynous look might be popular in the East, but hardly desirable by western masculine standard) When your are "HOT" you are welcome/popular everywhere, both in Cyber and the real world, the "A List/team" in gay speak.. It applies to both the hetero and the homo world. Yeah, humans are innately shallow animals driven by basic primal desires.

[@kzm9741]

More known you are. More POPULAR and talk abt u when they see/not see YOU.

[@DennisCambly]

Let's suppose there is a small group of friends who promote each other as the first. Perhaps each writes articles, does TV interviews always including their own group of piers. They've gone so far as to take credit for the work done in the community is their work. It gets to the point where people in the general community believe this in-crowd invented everything LGBTQ. How does the community break up the myth created by the group? (I'm enjoying your show. Let's get the microphones set up to cancel out the echo?)

[@Looktothestars101]

This podcast needs to improve their audio! Help them please. They should also perform more thorough research on this topic and speak to a wider demographic of the gay community (age wise). The topic can be much more interesting but sadly it was poorly discussed by the panel and the editing is confusing. From the start to the end, there was insufficient attempt to derive at a more comprehensive definition of the term gay hierarchy / social ladder. Instead, they simplistically defined gay hierarchy to mean how hot / sexually desirable/ rich the individual is. The other factors were brought up but disregarded. I would have thought hierarchy in current times is a ranking based on a combination of factors such as wealth / influence / power / popularity / intelligence / achievements and looks. It seems Sean is convinced the gay hierarchy concerns everyone but his response was edited out? Why wasn’t he given the chance to share his answer? The panel then talked about the people who go clubbing as an example. By doing so they seem to only recognise the patrons who go clubbing regularly as the majority view of the wider gay community. As such this is a misinformed / unbalanced podcast that explores the psyche of a niche fraction of the actual gay community. They could have done a better balanced podcast.

[@omega_3_998]

This convo is very, millennial ish. I think the current gen really don’t care. They are more open and inclusive … just my 2 cents. You can look any way you are but if you’re a vibe then you’re accepted

[@emperioszyrandios7667]

I always thought those who goes club and drink is “higher tier” while those who don’t club and drinks are lower tier

[@jayaprakashdq4671]

That's how u wasted ur money 😅😅... good job capitalization

[@markshippo]

There isn’t any gay hierarchy. It’s all about how popular you are.

[@lamma746]

That means there’s a hierarchy lol

[@downundabrotha]

It's Body First Booty second and Brains last allegedly

[@EliKazybek]

Ok, let's agree no gay hierarchy anymore, let's not support that and it will dissolve by itself. I think we should address to such matter as that popular gay, popular crowd... etc. there is no base for such hierarchy to exist and varies from generation to generation. I really enjoyed the video and the chemistry between you guys!

[@DennisCambly]

Agree 100 percent

[@datle2863]

Hierarchy is a mental tactic that makes people who don't have certain qualities believe they are supposed to feel lesser than people who have such qualities. It's all power dynamics. However, when the lesser people terminate their subscription to such hierarchy or ideology, people at the top suddenly have nothing, and they have to go look for other people and convince them to be the lesser people.

[@EliKazybek]

@@datle2863 I needed this today for another reason! i take it as a sign

[@kabelopaile2564]

sean is so fine❤😭

[@stewartdorward6526]

I don’t know about Singapore but in Tokyo the gay world is very subdivided into niches and you can easily be popular in one but a nobody in all the others, eg a popular bear wouldn’t get a second look in a twink bar.

[@mysterroniouscherry326]

Any kind of social hierarchy is kinda stupid and cringy to me. And it's a shallow concern to think too much about. Just listen to Aiman, as long as you are a 'people' 😂.

[@neymarzd9706]

hi guys, i suspect my friend is a gay, but he says he is not. Is there any tell tale signs? Maybe can have an episode on this too.

[@DearStraightPeople]

Hi there, it's important to note that sexuality is deeply personal and complex. If your friend says he is not gay, respect his position. He is either truly straight, or just not ready to come out to you.

[@patoises]

I want to say I love this channel and I am an old straight white woman, but I am not

[@caedanteng5417]

Is normal 🤣 i met too many atas bottom.... Can't afford 🤣

[@mysticery]

🙄🙄🙄 its always the person who thinks he knows the “correct” pronunciation that gets it wrong. Im sorry. That was a turn off. Stopped watching right at that point. You should apologise to him.