Deborah Cox - We Can't Be Friends (Official HD Video)

[@pjgamingboi769]

once you start with these old songs you cants stop

[@Datdudekat1]

Decoda Nottage true!!!! I’ve been at this for 2 hours!!!

[@rachelleevans9661]

RIGHT!!

[@mckainentertainmentnetwork5116]

Facts

[@dorothyreynolds6989]

Yup so true

[@michellejorden1539]

Facts

[@shurvellawilliams324]

They don’t make music like this anymore🥰

[@jeanettestarling7181]

Agreed

[@anniehill4165]

At all..and its sad to see really 😢

[@empressartsllc]

❤ What you said!

[@AmiliaSmith-o7g]

I love this song

[@michaelqueen7368]

Gcfddddddxxcc b

[@samb9072]

Not only did they kill it vocally but the acting deserves an Oscar. That was a whole movie in 4mins. Even the video production with the photos. Highly underrated!

[@chevon6697]

Agreed. Music videos back then were really little movies. I watched a throwback Keyshia Cole video and was stuck watching like it was a real movie scene. Cheers to a great time in music!

[@AyooMissK98]

This is the comment I was looking for 🙌🏾🔥

[@boeoneal290]

Absolutely correct

[@tdevone9003]

Absolutely

[@lisaclarkson7628]

Anything that makes sense is highly underrated.

[@ipelengkhanyi4623]

As a black South African, I'd like to say thank you for all the black Americans for the impeccable RnB songs ❤

[@rachybaby72]

Deborah Cox is Canadian, FYI.

[@FluffyPancakeNinja]

Regardless of Deborah Cox's Canadian origin, I want to express my appreciation for recognizing Africans who find themselves in different lands through no choice of their own. 🥹 I understand that some Black individuals, or those who prefer different labels, may not always acknowledge their African heritage. From my perspective, I believe that one's nationality has no bearing on their genetic origins. Whether you were born on a continent or have spent X years on or off it, it doesn't change your genetic origin. It's perplexing that some Black individuals face this issue. I discussed this with my mom, but she didn't quite understand my point. I tried explaining it by saying, "Many Asian people have been in the US since the times of slavery, yet when you need to identify them physically, what do you call them? We call them 'Asian,' right? So why is it different for us? It seems like we are the only people suffering from what I now call 'racialdismorphia.'" In any case, I feel it's important to recognize the rich musical heritage of Black people across the globe. African people exhibit immense talent, love, and soul, and they have created stunning art despite the historical challenges our people have endured and continue to face. Even though we were forcibly taken from our homeland, we have developed new and unique cultures and music styles that serve as a testament to the creativeness and resilience of Black African people.

[@anonymousanonymous2577]

​@@rachybaby72honey she is still African American

[@rachybaby72]

@anonymousanonymous2577 No, she not. She Afro/African-Canadian....

[@rachybaby72]

@FluffyPancakeNinja *I hope your loooonng comment wasn't directed at me because you would have aimed and missed...* Hun, it ain't that serious. I'm simply saying Deborah was born in Canada and not the United States. I'm not talking about her phenotype. 🙄

[@tonyberry5348]

The most powerful, emotional break up song ever. Anyone who has loved and lost should be able to feel every single note and lyric. “Can you look me in the eyes and honestly say you don’t love me?” Wow... just wow.

[@tomjones7192]

G the biggest woman in the world show a big picture of the woman the biggest woman in the world

[@salaamniyyah628]

I love this song. It's timeless.

[@indiawilliams9345]

U no it real when u feel every note of a song #when music had a meaning 2 it r made feel sumthing

[@nneamakamordi2031]

Many would not be able to...they'd be breaking down like RL in the kitchen.

[@nathanwilkins511]

I'm boutta cry

[@thelifeandtimesofcarman795]

This song will never grow old. Whoever the writers was wrote from the heart. When you love someone like that, you can’t go back to being friends.

[@shantalbin-ali9986]

For sure🥰💛

[@storm4567]

Yes❤️

[@thomasgibson1028]

Facts

[@nelliebellie2222]

😭💔

[@dozerpozer3206]

It was written by Shep Crawford and Jimmy Russell, Shep is a Grammy Award-winning American R&B and gospel musician, songwriter, and record producer best known for Whitney Houston's "Same Script, Different Cast", Deborah Cox's "Nobody's Supposed to Be Here", Tamia's "Stranger in My House", Sisqó's "Incomplete", and Kelly Price's "As We Lay".[1] He is the founder and pastor of The Experience Christian Ministries in Los Angeles, California.[2]

[@dwayne601]

They say history repeats itself, I pray to God 90s RnB comes back!

[@donikquac]

dwayne601 tell me about

[@satonyakitchen2679]

dwayne601 it will be patient...

[@jeannettajohnson376]

Right

[@Justnessafanow]

Me too ☝️🏾🤗😘🇯🇲

[@nyasiam.2819]

Yes lawd 😫

[@YeaImStacie]

Songs like this makes me wonder what are we really doing in music nowadays… the bar is so low

[@hermanwiley5331]

YOU MUST BE ...

[@Cooliganify]

"Can you look me in the eyes, and honestly say you don't love me" still gives me chills to this day. They both killed this song.

[@shaybaeevolve119]

Deborah is a song bird and he held his own against her. This song is soooo beautiful ♥️

[@mauricehenry9131]

killed it dead dead dead... good music

[@glenhunt5563]

Black team God trust God our Father 2 team God trust God our Father 2 team God trust God our Father 2 team God trust God our Father 2 team God trust God our Father 2 team God trust God our Father 2 team God trust God our Father God trust God our Father 2

[@glenhunt5563]

Blue team God trust God our Father 2 team God trust God our Father 2 team God trust God our Father 2 team God trust God our Father God trust God our Father 2 team God

[@glenhunt5563]

Boy team God trust God our Father 2 team God 🙏 trust God our Father 2 team God trust God our Father 2 team God trust God our Father God trust God our Father God trust God our Father 2 team God trust God our Father 2 team God trust God our Father 2 team God trust God our Father 2 team God trust God our Father God trust God our Father 2

[@MrKs757]

When Deborah sings " Can you look me in the eyes, and honestly say you don't love me??" is the best part of this song to me. She really sang that like she meant it

[@pandorasbox6607]

Yes she did!!!

[@bleesedbythebest]

yes sends chills!!!

[@TheHellodazzle]

+Korey Sylver Yes... real tears at the end lol

[@miyapaff4842]

+Monique Jolley tklzmalamsinsisns okay now you're in a cruise ship but I know you're not going to keep on calling me and call kspajsaiajwishwshsjeosjspskpwkepekokeoekeowkwowkowkwowowllwolwpsloslwlwlwowkslwlslwoskiskwosksokwoskwowkwwkoakwaooakwoskwokw to all jskmakklzl!alka!alzlzkzkzkakaa!sls!spls lz zppLLPLlapakzpzkxpkpzkzlkpslapalspslpzlzpala XL!! sls!s lz zla L z Lslslz!aplallza!spalap!a okay okay you okay so your Mother's Day me or my mom is there cuz I know how you feel but you're not going to my mom's I'm sorry that I a

[@maggien4926]

+Korey Sylver word

[@chasnikole7197]

One of the best duets ever. Good music.

[@matthewalexander7524]

Ember Michelle.sister u got that one right on the money.Im a old School guy.With Old school values. Love old School Ballards. When u sing to ur lady.As it should be done.Love be a Gentleman

[@Quietonset]

Don't y'all miss this type of love.

[@mobfigureempirerecords4884]

Yes everyday fr

[@Pocahontasaolcom]

Yes I do this will always be a classic and I'm still listening in 2024. I never stopped listening to it though.

[@AnnMarieMcKay]

Every single day......the best ever.

[@Louisianasfinestshay]

Most definitely

[@lyniyahmystique1907]

🥹

[@twodollars2]

Still playing in 2023...will always be one of the best duets ever....👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@lolaruffin6249]

Yes please 😊

[@dbeloved02]

Facts

[@connectwithericalynn9197]

July 2023 ...playing this song

[@shanellholley115]

2023 and still love this song❤

[@sammalone1350]

Hayle yeah

[@itslaroneppl]

Dare I say it?! STILL A BOP IN 2019!!!!

[@darrylwarner2133]

I crushed in the shower the other night.

[@treg489]

Makes me wanna sit in the shower and cry, this song is more of a musical number than a pop song to me. The feelings are so intense and you can hear the pain in their voices.

[@prettymya26]

Yes you may

[@terrenceransom912]

itslaroneppl 2019 I Totally Agree With You Whole Heartedly!!!!!!!! MY BROTHER👌🏾👍🏾👊🏾✊🏾💪🏾☝️🏾👏🏾✌️🏾💯📚

[@sweatybelly]

Classic! 💓 💓 💓 tears 😭😭😭😭😭!

[@kiaraj9711]

I'm still listening in 2018. This song is timeless.

[@wesing6777]

Kiara J hell yea yo

[@taneishabartley900]

Me 2

[@marlinwilliams3470]

Kiara well I know how you feel about this kind of music. Because it explains way more than we can or could imagine

[@charlesl.nemons3021]

Kiara J ,I'm with you, love can be timeless,but as adults GOD,helps us move on,but we don't have to forget

[@iSpeaksFacts]

Charles Nemons the. !K -43

[@reallife0728]

AFTER ALL THESE YEARS I STILL HAVENT HEARD ANYONE SING " CAN YOU LOOK ME IN THE EYES" THE WAY DEBORAH COX DID!!!!!!!!🎤🎤🎤🔥🔥🔥🤎🤎🤎

[@curlycee4185]

This damn song will have you mourning a relationship that never even existed 😩😅❤️ Edit: I did not except this comment to go off like this 😂

[@kelvinhooks9399]

Facts, Music like this goes straight to your soul. This is real music

[@rikayapartlow]

Facts!!! Omg 😩😂

[@curlycee4185]

Yup!! start hitting them notes, and it’s over 😩😂😂😂😭😭

[@natashamoorman676]

🥴🥴 lawd have mercy be sounding like a hit dog mourning that none existent relationship 🤧🤦🏾‍♀️😂😂😂

[@adonayours9606]

Omg let them bee it's not meant why hold on to something you never had or will ever get like why????

[@deniserichardson4816]

Who’s still listening in 2022? This is a true timeless love song ❤️ They don’t make them like this anymore

[@camillebracy5366]

I. Am

[@sandrillahayes4619]

So true

[@azaniakyon4401]

No they don't....damn break ups were harrrrd

[@AlannahBMorin]

🙋🏾‍♀️

[@ladybugradio1988]

Which is crazy because my cousins and I loved this song so much when I was little and now that I'll be 34 in 7 months it's something about the climax in Deborah's verse that melts my heart.

[@gfears6982]

Dear R&B, We Miss you! With Love, 2020

[@lolosmith8446]

This is a lie or more people would actually support these artists but they don't

[@traciescott1871]

You betta say it!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💃💃💃

[@autumnsmom1117]

Say it loud for those in the back📢👍🏾✌🏾

[@lisarosario429]

Hurts my 💕. And man bands. Where did they go? Did the Kardashians f*ck them and made them crazy?

[@لوجين-ض2ذ]

Why were he now l dont now Because lm from araq 😭😭

[@NovahStar3021]

It’s 2024 and it feels like it just came out❤

[@cydneysmith7895]

Am I the only one who thinks that Deborah Cox is just GORGEOUS! I would kill to look that timeless.

[@reallife0728]

NOPE😍😍😍

[@tonyaingram4412]

My Deborah 😍❤💋

[@tonyaingram4412]

@@termellgriffnitermellgriff2752 My Deb

[@roccopaolino463]

No she is stunning and talented and sweet

[@shayethomas637]

I feel all the pain in this song

[@MsCole2012]

Every damn word 💯💯💯

[@cataleyagreen-polamalu6701]

Same here

[@dynettawashington4564]

I love you too much......its too real

[@ericahearon9885]

I feel you

[@tonyknight6521]

I feel the love and pain

[@mamanemcakesandtreats3974]

One of the best collaborations ever in R&B! 😍😍😍😍 Some real S---!

[@mrsallam1]

Shonna Latimer agree ❤️❤️❤️

[@Myveteran]

Yes it is...

[@tonycherry8576]

This song is really deep.

[@SinethembaGumede-ij4qu]

2024 who with me here🌹♥

[@sinder-mariepascalpatterso1663]

Right here ❤

[@jenolasmalls3178]

🙋🏾‍♀️

[@blkbeauti05]

Right here🥺

[@amosthornton9337]

Me man this is so me right now

[@richardhunter7569]

Present!

[@morrislumb6031]

when you love someone so much you just can't be friends

[@MyzMeJamie]

I tried to explain that to someone but they didn't understand. Now we haven't spoken in almost years. Some people love harder than others.

[@doubletrouble57]

Morris Lumb 0

[@christoandries7117]

Morris Lumb happens alot

[@stormeyash4530]

Morris Lumb to me that just means they didn't love u like u loved them !! Cause I can't just be friends

[@krystlethomas6896]

Morris Lumb so true though

[@marcson33mn]

Ok, so I started from "You by Jesse Powell" 🙄🙄 That was 22 songs ago. This is addictive

[@aconater]

Marc Nel same bro I’m about 25 songs in myself

[@mevishamiles5327]

Me too that crazy lmaoo

[@CaeruleaphileBlue]

Same

[@badhoney]

That's the way it be. U just get lost

[@MsSkupsie]

Lol! We understand!

[@gradyrenix4645]

Pride is the sign of a foolish man or Woman...I'm sure plenty people have lost the loves of their life just because they was scared to admit they was wrong or didn't want to forgive someone for them being wrong... UNCONDITIONAL LOVE...it hard to find...If you Find that in Someone...Never give up...It's very rare

[@datdudefitz8684]

Unconditional loves only exists for children and our parents. To expect that from a romantic partner is setting yourself up for disappointment.

[@reallife0728]

@@datdudefitz8684 SPOKEN FROM A DAMAGED & BROKEN SPIRIT!!!!!

[@reallife0728]

SPOKEN TRUTH MR. RENIX!!!!

[@theblackdaria_]

I wish more people understood this...

[@gradyrenix4645]

@@datdudefitz8684 not true..I got friends that love me without conditions....and I'll be alone before I accept anything less....if u choose to settle...thats on u

[@leonardletsoara234]

2024 is still my JAM

[@GunbladeRevolver]

Right? Just looked at this video again and it's those genuine tears they both shed that really hits

[@realbrown3723]

Deborah is so gorgeous and incredibly underrated. It isn't all about the whistle notes but . . . at 3:23 ! Haven't heard female singers hit a note like that. RL is my boy!

[@alishajordan364]

Red

[@glenhunt5563]

Jeal children 29 fly go 🏘️🌆

[@stacyray]

@@glenhunt5563 W . I CC

[@jaybarnes8720]

Chante Moore can still hit that same not too

[@realbrown3723]

@@jaybarnes8720 Another beautiful and underrated songstress.

[@Tam...]

It's almost 2am and I can't stop clicking classic 90s videos smh...damnit KZbin!

[@cvd5656]

girl I feel ya! I'm a 3rd shifter and I'm up on you tube until 6am listening to 90's R&B. I can't get enough. 💞🎶🎤

[@nikkinicoleoutlaw4611]

...powwww....me too girl.....im a ngt shift correctional officer on a slow night....on youtube zonInG!!!

[@keegs1961]

doing it on a full moon no less,loll

[@almoq8]

I'm glad to hear I ain't the only one! Am I stuck in the past? No, these songs are just too good to forget about!

[@Kimmyj30]

I'm guilty of this! lol, all I listen to is 90s and earlier. 90s R&B is the best!!!

[@YoudontknowMimi]

I done fell down the rabbit hole....this is the music that came out RIGHT when I became an adult. And here is the real deal about this: 1. Deborah Cox is and has always been SEVERELY underrated. She should have been bigger than most of what we have in the industry. 2. No time period can compare to this one. 3. This song has been stuck in my head for almost 21 years 😫🤦🏽‍♀️

[@allthingsrosieee]

Say that again and again! Unmatched!!!!

[@maurinechaney6866]

R&B at its finest ❤

[@KalihaRoane]

Kaliha girls friends boyfriend double love you ❤️ and out room kaliha the Song lyrics lipmocseaco kaliha 🎉 McDonald's 12pm lucexh and kaliha rone bbblipmongo

[@KalihaRoane]

Boyfriend double love 😗 night ❤️ RnB song lyrics lipmocseaco kaliha rone

[@naveenbokhari]

When you start watching one R&B video and end up going for a few hours. Time machine.

[@termellgriffnitermellgriff2752]

Good Luck 😃😃 Just wanted 😘🌸🌷

[@reallife0728]

DOING THAT RIGHT NOW!!!

[@Missladyy91]

That’s funny that’s me right now

[@lightskinchyna9514]

Me currently !

[@sandrajohnson-walsh4786]

Doing so right now this Sunday night February 27,2022.Mesmerizing music.Keep listening tracks after tracks

[@ChocolateMocha-nm7wl]

the best duet ever from the 90's

[@MsCole2012]

Yesssss

[@ebonyjohnson2820]

yess it is

[@kawatsurasworld2710]

®︎dぎい

[@JPusername]

No? RnB is emotional for a select few however there were better songs from that decade, hell, there were better songs in the 20's...

[@jutishawilliams8339]

SexyBrownCoCoA 202

[@MzFields76]

We Can’t Be Friends is the best song for a couple who still love each other!! I just can’t get over you!!

[@nathanielstewart4743]

LaTonya Fields u right about that

[@dhstarboi1555]

Love it

[@ronaldevers4296]

Im sorry I ran around on you Baby ..Im sorry...it won't happen again....Me;:..I know it won't...not to me.. from you...If you loved me how could you do that,,,,Are you that weak?...Was it worth it,,,? Cause Baby...You sure ain't worth me...tricks are for kids...Sorry,,,NOT SORRY...See you on TV one day...and yellow tape...

[@annyaanderson4703]

This song is the national anthem for it

[@keynadaswesleymalone6937]

Me Right Now 😔😥

[@nontobekonxumalo338]

Back when men could actually sing without autotune. Amazing voices were at display.🙌😭

[@Thomas-VA]

You leave tpain alone, usher already made him sad

[@reallife0728]

ABSOLUTE TRUTH!!!!

[@caseygreen1464]

Tpain actually has a great singing voice.

[@CarlySmith001]

And women

[@bigboi9289]

Nothing beats old school R&B this new generation will never understand

[@arondiarobinson6450]

Big Boi .ko

[@arondiarobinson6450]

A

[@beautifuldreamz8698]

Yup

[@mikelowry2865]

When you really love and care about someone, you have to let them go and hope that they find love, even if it's not with you. Set them free so they can fly. It'll hurt but eventually you'll heal. I hope love makes it's way to everyone thats dealt with a broken heart.

[@matthewalexander7524]

I get u but im old School I fight for what I wont and belive in sister

[@mikelowry2865]

Matthew Alexander it’s nothing wrong with fighting but you can’t force anyone to be with you that doesn’t want to be with you. Let them go!!! Find peace and love within yourself so you can attract what you are! Maybe that person will come back or someone better may come into your life. Wishing you God’s love and peace brotha.

[@matthewalexander7524]

@@mikelowry2865 I totally get u there.u have to let go.but before its dead.i try for a bit.may not work.but thats what old School Guys do.Ive loved me for a very long time know.There may come back.maybe there dont.one thing I've learned.is don't live with Regrets.cause it can Eat away at ur Heart and soul Wishing u all the Love and care and peace. God Bless You

[@briannichols159]

Real talk 👍👍👍

[@lisarosario429]

I know you're saying the truth but after all of these years something in me carries this pain. Something in me needs to stalk you.

[@ianCole-et4xc]

The song hits totally different as you get older😩

[@krissie7951]

Okayyy

[@tyronebledsoe4048]

What up

[@tanaybrown8331]

Listen can I tell u about it

[@kenahill7128]

Yes it do

[@215sinakia7]

You ain’t lyin! Omg

[@johnitarobinson6103]

Who still listening in 2024? ❤❤

[@hellobrooklyn1371]

This is my ride home after work music

[@johnitarobinson6103]

@@hellobrooklyn1371 same here

[@TheChamberRoomExperience]

Funny I was in the kitchen and I heard the song. I didn't even recall who sang it. so I looked it up. WOW

[@jenolasmalls3178]

Me

[@TheChamberRoomExperience]

Did you see this LIVE? @@jenolasmalls3178

[@TheOnly_Samontra]

They sang their throats off. The emotional rawness of it all...Always loved this song!!!❤❤❤💯 🎵

[@sabrinastevens4533]

💯💯💯💯

[@thepompafilliannetwork]

Me too❤

[@keneshabruce5089]

Me first time hearing it

[@zeldastrachan1460]

Struggle negative or not Keith or not who I mentioned

[@Giselle_Glam594]

Especially D.Cox

[@PHASE324]

The Chemistry they had was Crazy!!

[@sugarcaneplain2097]

💯💯💯

[@krissie7951]

I swear, could've thought that they were actually a couple

[@naturegirl2110]

@@krissie7951 I think they were at some point

[@SkammLykelee]

@@naturegirl2110 They never were. She was happily married.

[@coppersulphate002]

@@krissie7951 they are excellent actors

[@JEightyOne]

Can we just appreciate Deborahs arms ?💪🏾 Yasss queen!

[@zinaryjohnson5281]

So toned..

[@TaylorSancho]

Fr

[@OhhhCandace]

Lml that's exactly what I was doing whole video 😂

[@nicolemorris3275]

Chile 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Pink_celeb420]

Facts I was dead saying that to myself

[@naimahthomas1035]

The music from my era 80s,90s early 2000s will never be topped especially if I'm going by what's on the radio nowadays. I'm grateful for growing up during those days of loving, emotional great music with a message, story sung by God Gifted Talented artists not studio manufactured 🙏💯❤🍫👑🖋🎤🎼😌✌.

[@ms.barnett7122]

Imagine you both love each other but know that you can't be together :(

[@amberadams673]

Sis , I'm going through it now

[@tierrafryar8383]

I know thus feeling all too well

[@jakewillis5376]

Which know about that school 4real

[@leslieparks6738]

Dude😣

[@versatile3373]

I'll never, ever find another love...

[@MajorLBeats]

Rnb will never be this honest and passionate again .

[@cbanks1980]

nope.

[@MagnusMG1]

Sadly, I think you're right. R&B as we know it, is all but dead. The stuff that's passing as R&B today just sounds like pop music to me.

[@monileo0724]

I agree :(

[@huni26]

its quite sad.... this is how its suppose to be

[@hypergurl2020]

that makes me sad

[@needoc4639]

I don't care what nobody say, I'm a guy and love this song. Classic songs like this never get old. This is real r&b.

[@Blacksheepp660]

Facts

[@KIGHT3]

🙌🏿💯

[@chrisgreatness6953]

Real Talk 💯💯💯

[@kelleyhoward1372]

Nee Doc YES IT is that is why I LOVE songs like this

[@kelleyhoward1372]

Nee Doc ME TOO AS WELL THIS WAS MY WEDDING SONG BUT I COULD IT DO IT BECAUSE OF MY EX HUSBAND CHEATED ON ME

[@YoditDeet]

My cassette player was constantly playing this song back in the day!! Checking in - 2023!!

[@shaylabrewer5]

I miss music like this😭

[@laurancebaker99]

I agree with you Shayla..

[@shaylabrewer5]

+Lau'Rance Baker Right!👌

[@ChocolateMocha-nm7wl]

girl me too makes me cry😭😭

[@robertserrano4133]

Many of us do. At least music like this continues to live inside each one of us. What I do miss more than those times back then is the ability to record music without all present day complications. Nonetheless, I enjoy all the memories these songs awaken.

[@melissawinn2823]

same I miss the old days

[@MrMorridem]

"How dare we greet by shaking hands" Man that's a tough line 😲😲😲

[@camillebracy5366]

Yes. Indeed. That’s. A. Tough. Line. So. Is. Deborah. You. Know. RL. I. Know

[@mstamara9988]

Very but stuff like that still happens

[@camillebracy5366]

Yes. It. Does

[@Giselle_Glam594]

DAMN

[@xldjvista]

Grieve not greer

[@thatauthormommychic2139]

It's 2020, I'm here for this song...true R&B at it’s best!❤️

[@bubblegumgubblebum]

That AuthorMommy Chic truth!

[@reneefrance6921]

I was a teenager at school when this came out. Those days when you fell in and out of love so quickly. Those were days.

[@Theonly340]

Mariah Carey tried with the excellent Caution album and failed. 😢

[@thatauthormommychic2139]

Wilhelm Lima that’s why I’m still enjoying old R&B like this one from Deborah Cox and RL ☺️

[@matthewalexander7524]

@@thatauthormommychic2139 so bang on that Sister.Old School R&B.Is in my Heart and Soul For keeps. Its all I Listen to.Old School Love Ballards. U cant beat them.U gotta treat ur Lady as ur Queen. I know no other way to be.im a Gentleman

[@dashconceptz]

The way this song was written aint never been another one like this (at least for me). I love this duo

[@WhtvrMe]

Shep Crawford wrote this. He has wrote some of the best songs from the 90s like also Deborah's Nobody's Supposed To Be Here, Incomplete by Sisqo, Stranger In My House by Tamia... ❤

[@dashconceptz]

@@WhtvrMe wow...love all of those songs you have listed. he was truly gifted

[@SukanyaGiling-mu8nh]

That would explain why they all have this type of aura about them❤😭😭​@@WhtvrMe

[@Richgirlchanel]

I PRAY THAT RNB COMES BACK BEFORE I LEAVE THIS EARTH.

[@ItsAllLove4Real]

Keva Holmes I'm praying with you sweetie🙌🏾

[@williemcdowell79]

Keva Holmes this was r&b I keep praying the 90s will return

[@melissaM2386]

Agree

[@boblakely242]

Keva Holmes me 2.. it's a lost art form. you gotta connect.

[@siyrahboo]

totally agree and praying

[@TammiAlways100]

I been in love with this song since I was a kid and it never gets old. This is when music was music.😘😘😘❤️❤️

[@medinajoey40]

yesssssssssss

[@mommyandlittlesons4685]

Tammi HatersAreWelcomed [0+poor lad

[@crystaltalbert5804]

get their veggies

[@stephanienoneya3170]

Yaaassss 🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@bambibambi1004]

Tammi HatersAreWelcomed girrrrrl what me too

[@mauricecooper9763]

Hard to believe it's been 20 years since this came out. I still love it!

[@krissie7951]

Maurice Cooper I love it and I can't sing at all but I promise I be singing like it's my song. I'll never ever find another love like you

[@layziefngroovy]

Maurice Cooper omg!! I feel old now!!

[@alexiatherealtor]

Seems like yesterday :)

[@jcook251]

Maurice Cooper and it still sounds good..wow!!!

[@shamikamcfadden4967]

Maurice Cooper WOW! I’m older than the song itself

[@jabumkhonta]

When RnB was still RnB mannn..we were so blessed to grow up to such soulful and timeless music 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

[@LaurenDevin]

This is the only music video that has ever made me cry. So intense. That bridge! Ugh

[@jasmineb8045]

yesss

[@Fiskgyrl2]

Really? What about that Aaron Hall video 'I miss you'?! That one gets me everytime!

[@sexxygeno]

yasssssss tears

[@sexxygeno]

+Fiskgyrl2 yes tears

[@cbanks1980]

ikr.

[@MrSeanPix]

It is so sad and painful when you love each other so much but know the relationship is toxic. Always loved this song!! What happened to Deborah and RL?? BOTH TALENTED!!

[@myrabrown776]

Heard all before

[@reginajohnson8534]

MrSeanPix "Its so sad and painful when you love each other so much but know the relationship is toxic." - THIS! Sad but true

[@barbarabryant8509]

To hear these two sing this song, it's like your soul and heart colliding and exploding, that shit hit you in your soul. I so love this song.

[@barbarabryant8509]

Simply wonderful, as always, and I hope you are the same, thank you. 😊

[@PorchiaP.]

2026! I know we not there yet, but hmu, when u still bumping this ❤😂

[@djewels2954]

All da time

[@robertwashington3124]

y don't people fight for true love anymore?

[@SirN8speare]

Because people are getting complacent with the bare minimum

[@reneetaylor55]

@@SirN8speare Well Said👏👏👏💯💯💯

[@stephaniecrumpton2133]

@@SirN8speare I love that comment

[@wordplay5881]

Because all the music is about molly & percocets these days

[@envymee405]

It probably wasn't love. If it was real, true, as you said, then what happened that you have to fight to get it back. If it's cheating or lying, the person CHOSE to do those things, you would think knowing it could/would jeopardize the relationship....

[@ladiblue03]

This song got me caught in my feelings 2019

[@nneamakamordi2031]

Me too !😫

[@verapaige7915]

Me too

[@lashawn6264]

Me too

[@fuse9]

saaaame July 2019!

[@tiffanysmith9549]

We can’t be friendsssss 😥

[@minniemullins3521]

Music like this will never get old( side note... Deborah was in the gym...thoes arms 😍😍 )

[@matthewalexander7524]

Minnie Mullins.My Sister ur so very right

[@seliamcdonald3441]

minnie Mullins that’s what I just told my daughter 💪🏾

[@MarqueWitts1987]

I looked at her arms and thought the same. 😊

[@shans930]

I remember my ex asked me why we can’t be friends and I played this for her. 15 years later, we spun the whole block and getting married in 5 months ❤

[@micklexl1715]

Congratulations... May God bless and prosper everything y'all put y'all's hands to do.

[@debijohns4718]

Yes

[@debijohns4718]

Yes

[@Chelle7104]

Congratulations ❤Blessings

[@BabieGirl954]

🥰

[@princesspoetess775]

This hit different when you actually going through it. 💔 4 months later and I’m still going through it. Thanks for the likes and comments.

[@flightyy441]

Factuals

[@yahsaves7298]

Yes🤦🏾‍♀️😥

[@ChynnaTheIsraelite]

Yes 😥😔

[@TokioTokeRedd]

yes I agree

[@mamabear2329]

For me it's been 12 years married with kids but there's this particular person(my first love) I can't get over 😥

[@devotedone]

My daughter: "What is this?" Me: "Real music"

[@purpleandgoldbeautybycheia]

Amen

[@jmax8963]

Okayyyy

[@loveystar78cloud46]

Bless her heart. 😊

[@latoyataylor403]

😁

[@brandonanthony8190]

Yes

[@MsChelleBaby24]

The hardest thing there is to do is to try & be friends with someone you know you truly once loved & may still do deep down inside.

[@rwhite0196]

exactly...

[@daradiant1]

Going thru it as I speak.

[@VMARCHON10]

+Chelle Bonner (Conversations With Chelle) Geesh

[@VuittonDona]

my life🙌

[@lifesgreat9692]

+Chelle Bonner (Conversations With Chelle) love is the greatest force in the universe the supreme creator thats why its so hard

[@suekenablack8230]

I love when she hit that note and arch her back

[@garrettgordon9250]

L

[@SuperRuthie27]

The emotions in this song is powerful like damn

[@camillebracy5366]

Deborah. And. RLS. Emotions Are. Real. Not. Fake. When. RL. Soul. Tasting And. He. Got. Emotional. I. Did. Also. Brother is. Real. Powerful. And. To. The. Point

[@zeldastrachan1460]

Negotiate Brunei agent Labatt iehwhhw a while he was mentioned Krissy me already reporting

[@DaddyTre65]

Props to R.L. for doing an excellent job singing with that soulful powerhouse Deborah Cox!

[@camillebracy5366]

Yes. Props to. RL. He. Killed. This song.

[@camillebracy5366]

They. Both. Deserve this song and. There. Flowers 🌸

[@teej4621]

They sang this with so much passion and acted it out so well I thought they were really in a relationship!! 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@simonemcleod5926]

They was they broke up

[@MelisaJoy73]

Like Beth Hart and Joe Bonamassa, "I'd rather go blind"

[@kristidraine4543]

They were in a relationship

[@kylelangston5526]

Facts

[@janiceblair1236]

@aelisia simmons just happened hurt bad

[@davidortiz8705]

3:14 my God, it hits so hard 😫 🎶🎶🎶. These two were amazing 👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼

[@ritahill8430]

I miss this type of music

[@SuperDetroit9]

How DARE we greet,by shaking HANDS?!?

[@jamesyarbrough6581]

I know~

[@tyron302]

Debra Cox is probably my favorite unappreciated talent from 90s r&b. She can sing with the best of them AND was fine!

[@Jermainesqueeze]

There are some raw emotions in this song. Deborah Cox had tears running on to her arm. It's a damn shame how r&b music has been pushed to the back burners by theese radio stations.

[@mahoganymarz2693]

Not just the stations these artists don't make quality music anymore

[@charlesgriffin8746]

True

[@jamieseegars124]

That is so true these new music stations don't know what good music is and that's the truth 😥 It's so sad to say I feel sorry for them!

[@wshelby83]

I cried at the last part

[@jjrruuiizz3844]

@@wshelby83 SUCH POWERFUL VOCALS AND EMOTION. BROUGHT A TEAR TO MY EYES ALSO

[@rodneyfranklin9528]

THE BREATHTAKING VOCALS OF DEBORAH COX WITH ONE OF THE GREATEST DUETS IN R&B MUSIC HISTORY!!!!🤎🤎🤎🔥🔥🔥🎤🎤🎤💯💯💯

[@aconater]

This song kicks my ass something serious emotionally......damn🥺😫

[@KimberlyWilliams-yk5ds]

🙏🏾❤️Hang in there God will send a love that heals💪🏾!

[@teeseay2001]

January 2019 and this song still touch my soul

[@Opinions-galore24]

Man.... same here. I started crying like this my relationship LOL

[@nikkigoodaz1013]

2019 and still love this song Like if you're singing along!!👍🏽🇨🇦

[@dennisknight570]

Love this song

[@DawudIhsan-ut9zh]

Ranked one of the greatest 10 love ballad duets of all time! This is truly a classic and both artist enjoyed making it

[@lakiagriffin7737]

When Deborah hit that high note at 3:15 😭 I felt that in my soul 🙌🏽

[@dearrab.walters]

Here we are in 2020 Like where are the songs with a story ?? Give me a duet or somethin’ 😩 Where are the guys willing to sing on their knees 😂

[@theohoy2370]

They are long gone

[@lynellemurray7491]

@@theohoy2370 so true

[@aarmstrong110]

@Littest bit on the Block Keith Sweat he likes to beg👍🏾

[@redMafiamuzik]

You took the thoughts right out of my mind🙏🏾❤

[@lizmarvel6744]

RIGHT!!!! I miss when music videos was more than just the club

[@kayek9086]

No matter how many times I watch this video I never get tired of it. One of my favs

[@rosalinagarcia2328]

Me too!! i hear it over and over.

[@videos_1237]

“It don’t seem fair . For everyone to just go on I tried and I can’t do it cuz I’m still torn” 💔 story of my life

[@ashleymitchell2887]

Cmon I can't be the only still feeling this in 2018.😍😘

[@carolyncoley3838]

Ahhhh Yes! Deborah Cox was/is still one sensational singer!!! I miss her...thank God for these great tunes...REAL MUSIC!! 💯‼️

[@angiedillard1895]

2019

[@terrenceransom912]

Ashley Mitchell, HOW ABOUT EVEN IN 2019 ME TOO MY BEAUTIFUL BLACK QUEEN😀😘👌🏾👍🏾👊🏾✊🏾☝️🏾💪🏾👏🏾✌️🏾💯📚

[@vontisecarter8675]

You not

[@ashleyhunt3858]

I still love this song in 2019!

[@latoyamorez7781]

Damn song still makes me cry all these years later!

[@tinktinkgreen4986]

Same here

[@daradiant1]

Me too

[@msbrowneye00]

+Latoya Morez ikr!

[@MiaJ919]

+Latoya Morez Yes Girl!!!

[@draeday22]

Right ??? That's what I'm saying !!! Smh. I'm only 22 I have so much living to do I hope to never get to this point it's so scary ! ;(

[@shautyk4448]

2018 and I'm still on some 90s music mood

[@ceceliedixon2194]

i feel you!! there will never be music like the 90s

[@jennyjones4875]

Who's ur favs?

[@TheChamberRoomExperience]

I have not felt like that about anyone in over twenty years. I can barely feel that strongly about anyone. Perhaps I am just over it. I barely recall, but the more I listen, I am thinking, "Why did they break up?"??? This is such a beautiful story that seems broken but is not.

[@atrobertson1977]

This song speaks volumes to the hearts of many that have broken up with someone but they still have feelings for one another. #OneOfTheBestSongEver!!!

[@locust868]

LadyReesa ThreeDee'sMom I second that smh 😔

[@lennoxwilliams5112]

LadyReesa ThreeDee'sMom - that is so true.

[@Leavethestreets]

So true

[@bambibambi1004]

LadyReesa ThreeDee'sMom girrrrrrrrlllll repeat repeat repeat....u sho aint lyn

[@bambibambi1004]

Edwin Locust i third it!!!!

[@aaronwilliams8150]

2022 anyone??......this generation/era nowadays needs to take notes off this 90s classic....... there's no mumbling, no trap sound, no autotune....today era is str8 garbage....and as many don't know...... Deborah Cox is from Toronto......way before Drake

[@kellytireengaujake8158]

They dont make music like this anymore😍#StillListeningIn2017

[@GodKing666]

Went down an Oldies Rabbit Hole… This is arguably thee best Duet of this style and subject matter. Broken Hearted is close and, with Wanya being my favorite male vocalist is saying something! Impeccable vocals and video directing. The lyrics and message still gets me choked up. Absolutely timeless…

[@anointed2023]

Loving that person, but can't be with them. Worse pain ever. Can take meds for body aches, but nothing soothes heartache. 😢

[@katinaellison5934]

Truth

[@seliamcdonald3441]

World Love smh

[@CaeruleaphileBlue]

Facts on facts my situation

[@therealcoachRoyal]

one of the most under rated voices of our time. the only singer that could do Whitney with ease... Deborah I fux with you heavy

[@seliamcdonald3441]

Shanita Evans I don’t know who compares to Whitney but I agree with you otherwise! 👍🏽

[@coppersulphate002]

I agree! In the song same script different cast I couldnt tell them apart

[@PeytonFan1816]

"To her you're still family, and it don't seem fair" That part always gets to me! Thanks R.L and Deborah for this 💎

[@rloquent]

no prob!

[@camillebracy5366]

That. Part Gets. To. Me. Also

[@camillebracy5366]

RL. God. Bless you. And. When. You. On. Your. Knees. In. Kitchen. And. Crying. Got. Me. Thanks again for. What. You. Do

[@camillebracy5366]

Yes. Thanks. RL. And. Deborah. 💐💐

[@thepompafilliannetwork]

I was literally saying the same thing just now. I feel you.

[@believei-must5092]

The Passion is so breath taking in this video as she feels the same pain her man is feeling the very moment the plate hits the floor.... That folks.... Is 90's R&B!❤❤❤🎉

[@Mhoyte]

They just don't make them like this no more. October 2019 and this track still going strong.

[@Godsflower91]

Even the men are not like this anymore

[@danarobinson9351]

Because everybody is an asshole wit No Compassion! That's why

[@angeladavis8559]

I'm still bumping this song on today's date of: Wednesday January 17, 2018 and it's still just as sweet and beautiful as ever and as it was on day one.

[@MsCole2012]

Angela Davis June 18, 2018

[@vuyiselakokwe2484]

November 2018

[@kiaradoxchannel9871]

January 22, 2019

[@allthingsrosieee]

Thursday, September 19, 2024, 1:21 AM (PST)

[@darkdante9]

Love the part where Deborah belts out "Can you look me in the eyes and honestly say you don't love me"

[@camillebracy5366]

And. When. Rs. Crying.

[@camillebracy5366]

The. Part. Where. RLS. Crying. On. The. Kitchen. Floor.

[@camillebracy5366]

I. Love. How. RL. Says. Deborah. You. Know

[@reallife0728]

THIS R&B CLASSIC JUST TAKES YOUR HEART & SOUL!!!!!!🤎🤎🤎 I REFUSE TO DISRESPECT MYSELF BY LISTENING TO ANY OF TODAYS FRAUDULENT R&B!!!!!!

[@sherylshirely3606]

❤best song’s word EVA!!!!!!

[@fashionanarchist]

I will forever love this song even though I’m not missing anybody!!!

[@LKonandupward]

Yep, me too!