Deceptive Body Language Signs You've Been Ignoring

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Learn to spot the deceptive body language signs people often miss. The final video in a 5 part series on body language that will aid your understanding of what people are thinking and feeling. Teaches you the behaviors liars often do so you'll know what to look for.
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@olekristianrannekleiv762 2 ай бұрын

Worth noting, psychopaths does not feel discomfort when lying, their inner world is very different than neurotypicals, they don't have alot of the signs mentioned in this video, they also are more likely to act out if not believed

@a.d.b535 5 ай бұрын

My ex would skirt uncomfortable questions by saying 'I dont know about that', 'can we move on already', and change the subject.

@kimmyxoxo5449 11 ай бұрын

Ask a question and the answer goes up in volume out of “normal” state or they give a negative responses to throw off the question….

@AwakeningLeela Жыл бұрын

I have noticed that liars sometimes gulp before they lie. I found this out because of a situation and exposure of deceptive person. One thing about these kinds of people, they are like robots, they are easy to recognise because of the patterns just like a computer they run programs. The person that has been lying about me always gulps before the lie and then scratches their face ever so slightly. I would watch this pattern over a period of time.

@MiraJune742 7 ай бұрын

My ex always took a deep breath and then cleared his throat before lying, as though he was trying to slow appear more calm or slow himself down. But it always came across as forced and unnatural. Turns out it's his "tick" when he lies

@JerrymichaelGreen-qy6tj 3 ай бұрын

The gulp is a fear response

@lisascales9582 Жыл бұрын

Well narcissist rage when caught they get mad like they may hit u

@NextLevelTherapy 8 ай бұрын

Exactly!

@CatHannahCat Жыл бұрын

What you and many others says about body language does not always apply to persons who have adhd or are autistic. I get annoyed that people think every person react or act the same or have the same body language. Stimming for example is common among persons who have adhd or are autistic and eye contact can be hard for both of them. That does absolutely not mean that they are lying.

@skitz-oh Жыл бұрын

Context is key... establish a baseline on what their normal body language is over a prolonged period of time then identify what stressor triggers them and what they do in reaction to said stressor(s).. I'm not an expert but that's what I've learned from YT

@skitz-oh Жыл бұрын

Like he said in the video, be nice and normal with them to see what they're like usually then when you bring out the heavy questions/scenarios you can see how effects them

@irlandaise5631 Жыл бұрын

look for discomfort like he said, in any context when you have a normal conversation with them.

@irlandaise5631 Жыл бұрын

@@skitz-oh exactly its just that so many women wont ask any heavy questions or give their opinions so they never get to see reactions. I get to see them straightaway because I just give my opinions on things and you can see their reactions . Discomfort on their face and they won't engage. They can pretend but the discomfort never lies.

@jecoliasjems2529 Жыл бұрын

I was thinking this as well.

@GammahRae 2 жыл бұрын

I've learned the most from your videos about this topic

@CoachJohnBush 2 жыл бұрын

I'm happy to be able to help 🙂

@fairyqueen1321 Жыл бұрын

even if a person is relaxed an u ask em a question they will still lie in ur face an Deney it an say that its all in ur head crap talk...if a person is a liar they are a liar doesn't matter what mood u ask them in..an wen u do ask em an they feel that u caught em out they will jst end up screaming an yelling in ur face an say that they didn't do anything knowing u no that they did...

@keithnichols1366 Ай бұрын

So true or say thhey dont want to talk about it! Especially in a gf/bf relationship

@iamtam8244 Жыл бұрын

Subscribed. 1.78k subs right now. Keep going! So many great videos❤Thank you.

@arielperez797 15 күн бұрын

I read somewhere that the first born has a higher chance of being a psychopath. The older sibling usually does seem to lack emotions compared to their younger sibling. Some even bully their young siblings. For no reason...for fun.

@lupaswolfshead9971 5 ай бұрын

correction body language is not universal. Autistic body language is different to neurotypical body language.

@banana72 3 жыл бұрын

I love your videos, you have so much knowledge and expertise

@CoachJohnBush 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, I really appreciate that.

@feliciajoy2264 10 ай бұрын

TRUTH

@Bighedass_ Жыл бұрын

Amazing

@jimmyv1753 7 ай бұрын

So I had to come back because I’ve been watching these lie detector videos. The one I just watched after this one said their Number 1 thing to look for is hand gestures. Excessive gestures mean a person is being deceptive. They say excessive hand gestures is how people will release nervous energy when lying.

@skathwoelya2935 6 ай бұрын

They might just be releasing nervous energy for other reasons. They might have Asperger's syndrome (autism). People with AS are notorious for exaggerated hand gestures/body language.

@BeauOldridge 11 ай бұрын

I asked my chick some questions and literally did the complete opposite so I think she’s not lying like my mind thinks

@maxpower1337 10 ай бұрын

Wow

@biancabackatit 6 ай бұрын

Is Iyanla Vanzant deceptive? #IyanlaFixMyLife

@sweet2sourr 2 жыл бұрын

I am dating someone who constantly rolls his eye and I just don’t understand why he does it so often.

@CoachJohnBush 2 жыл бұрын

It's difficult to diagnose with so little information, but it's definitely not a good sign. I don't know the context that this person tends to do it, but generally it implies a lack of respect for the other person involved and often a feeling of superiority of the person doing the eye rolling.

@zx6rstunt Ай бұрын

Does he wear contacts? Could be the reason

@agape843 Ай бұрын

I think it’s called contempt.