Not Dating Trans Women = TRANSPHOBIC - Playback | Reaction

[@Sabs_222]

If choosing not to date someone who is transgender makes you transphobic, so be it! At this point, people are just finding reasons to be offended.

[@user-tk4gr9zo7t]

Nope. As long as you don’t have a general problem with cis people dating trans people, it doesn’t make you transphobic at all. Many people are getting caught up in the lie that nuance is dead and that life’s all about being offended these days period, but it’s way more deep than that. Tinfoil hat conspiracy freaks will do their best to convince cis people that everyday trans people are offended by us cis people wanting to date cis, but it’s all fear mongering and lies. Any sane person, regardless of whether they’re trans or not wouldn’t make a stink about your personal dating preferences. As long as you don’t impose your preferences on others ofc.

[@Sabs_222]

@@user-tk4gr9zo7t I personally do not care who anyone dates.

[@bryanbelcher5785]

Nobody is going to make me date a man or a transgender . And that doesn't mean I'm transphobic this new Society is not going to bullie me into dating someone who I don't want to . We could be friends we could be Associates but that's it

[@99thJediWarrior]

That's pretty much what they want. They want you to offend them, even when you aren't trying to be.

[@ericb9252]

@@99thJediWarrior Refusing to date someone because they're trans IS transphobic

[@wig99]

at the end of the day, i don’t understand why they want to be with people that don’t want to be with them instead of finding a partner that truly accepts them as they are.

[@BillieB.]

Unfortunately it comes from a place of insecurity...as a trans woman myself I am familiar with the reasons. But I totally agree if someone is not into you, why are you trying to be with them in the first place?

[@wig99]

@@BillieB. exactly, as long as those people don’t disrespect you and invalidate your existence then i really don’t see what the issue is.

[@Da-Iceman.]

Especially for who they were born as.

[@nalid6484]

@none4301 It just doesn't happen to trans only .. Females go through it too

[@BillieB.]

@@wig99 👏👏🙏

[@JessicaLopez-xb7fp]

I’m trans 🏳️‍⚧️ and I completely agree with everything Dee says, trans women are TRANS women . And women are women . We have some similarities but we are not the same .

[@BillieB.]

SAME, coming from another trans woman...so tired of these people (especially non trans) creating problems for our community....

[@RagnarLoudpak]

What are the similarities?

[@BillieB.]

@@RagnarLoudpak Well one similarity is brain matter, trans women with gender dysphoria have gray brian matter that is also found in biological women. This is one of the reasons for the disalignment in the brian creating dysphoria, and why trans women can relate to women closer than men (even though we are still biological males). If a trans person doesn't have gender dysphoria, they simply aren't trans it's not scientifically possible...no matter what the media and delusional "trans" people say.

[@RagnarLoudpak]

@@BillieB. interesting. Ima be honest. I wasn’t expecting any type of scientific answer. Ima look into that. Appreciate it.

[@user-ms3tn2pj5r]

It’s actually factually incorrect and has been debunked for years now. The study you’re referring to also compared homosexual males brains to heterosexual female brains and found similarities. A gay man isn’t a woman. Stop bastardising science and manipulating it for your own talking points

[@SSJKDotsSanctum]

Dating a trans woman doesn't make you transphobic. Now if you turned them down and started being extra saying some slanderous stuff towards then that's some hate. Still everyone has preferences even trans individuals. Some people only like to date in one specific culture because that's what they prefer to be romantically invested in.

[@fly1ngpapaya]

Maybe trans women and trans men should date each other 🤷 Otherwise by their logic they're transphobic.

[@wtfheim]

@@fly1ngpapaya trans men & women do date each other ...

[@cjjackson2423]

@@wtfheim yk what I can't even wrap my head around that 😭

[@fly1ngpapaya]

@@wtfheim not all. That's my point.

[@thedon5367]

@@fly1ngpapaya trans women have hate for gay men , and i often wonder how is that even possible.😂😂

[@blueiris1542]

You can’t force someone to be attracted to you! As long as someone is not putting a trans person down and calling them slurs, then it’s not transphobic to not date a trans person.

[@nabs6784]

and it be the people who arent trans making this argument

[@blueiris1542]

@@nabs6784 That even makes this discussion even more crazier and ironic.

[@misslucyyy]

@@blueiris1542 Yes! As a trans woman myself, this only ruins our reputation & contributes to the violence trans women face. Everyone is always trying to speak for us & pitty us, which all we want to do is live in peace. Idk why people try to make this narrative that trans women are desperate to seek male approval, it's definitely a struggle and issue but if a man doesn't wanna date us cause we are trans then we simply move on, cause why would we fight for someone who isn't interested in the first place? People who claim to be "woke" don't humanize us sometimes equally to those who are more conservative. They always assume we need "saving" when the only thing we ask for is respect.

[@vladnspeedup]

It’s not transphobic for a man to not date trans woman, idk why that woman want a man who prefers a biological woman than a trans woman calling them transphobic. It’s a preference.

[@melvinhhcp3615]

Exactly

[@Unbothered92]

Because that is not a woman

[@Unbothered92]

@@Ken-wv8bt same thing.

[@Da-Iceman.]

Maybe because that trans woman us still a man.

[@hassanmehmood-qw3xq]

@@Unbothered92 ​ @D. Lewis this is transphobic. yall completely miss the point lol

[@vladnspeedup]

The people in the internet need to go a into magical paradise called outside.

[@lemonpepper853]

😆😆🤣

[@judoka.]

you win.

[@tenjahanta9456]

😂

[@ericb9252]

Cringe

[@judoka.]

@@ericb9252 to you.

[@NeedlesKane916]

I only date pregnant women now. There's no questioning their gender at that point. 🤣🤣

[@WalkerSportsLounge]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@hb3041]

They're coming for them now. Lol

[@judoka.]

i laughed way too hard at this.

[@christinefaulk6531]

LOL

[@TionDaDon]

Smart my guy 😂😂

[@consumethemilkchalice6120]

I just can’t get my mind around why do people care? what’s calling me transphobic gonna do anyway? Like why do people care who I date?

[@alexiskeys9985]

Calling you a "transphobe" does literally nothing to you, lol. All it does is help them vent and release their frustration for a split second.

[@Shadow2pointO]

@@alexiskeys9985 Those trans people are less than 10% of Trans community. You would most likely not get called a “Transphobe” unless you’re well a Transphobe….😂 Most Transwomen don’t even approach men because of safety purposes.

[@sonderson6363]

@@Shadow2pointO that’s debatable, i know lot who date men and don’t disclose that they’re trans even after getting intimate (yes they have srs)

[@trip9755]

Trans women are not women.

[@BlakeFiery-]

I’m glad Dee stands in what she says and doesn’t fold regardless of backlash or what people think If there were more people like that we’d be in a better place

[@ericb9252]

She's an idiot

[@BlakeFiery-]

@@ericb9252 how so…

[@mesh62]

I agree

[@demitriussmith741]

"Not dating someone who is blonde is blondist " "Not dating someone who has curly hair is curlist" A straight person not dating a person of their same sex is homophobic " See how that sounds? Wild

[@kiairaharbin]

Sounds crazy af lol

[@musicexplosionx4575]

THAT’S what you compare it to?

[@InvestaTO]

@@musicexplosionx4575 what about it

[@denisfl04]

it’s just a preference, I’m a gay guy and I would date a trans man, that doesn’t make me bisexual. Some Straight men would date a trans women and that doesn’t make them bisexual either.

[@lolmina297]

@@denisfl04 But that doesn't make sense because you're implying that the trans man is still a woman. Because you are a gay man, and you date a trans man you are still gay, because that trans man is a man therefore your argument makes no sense whatsoever.

[@thegawdtheynotlikeus]

Well I'm transphobic then because that's not for me

[@wig99]

exactly lmao there’s no point in arguing with those people, if they wanna put a label on people that don’t want to date them then so be it.

[@alexiskeys9985]

Right. Like, I don't care! Lol. Call me that, then. Scream it from the top of your lungs if it makes you feel better. Throwing that word around does absolutely nothing to me, especially when they use it in instances like this where it doesn't even apply. I promise you it's not gonna hurt my feelings.

[@ericb9252]

​@@alexiskeys9985 You like being a bigot

[@lovebeefyoutube]

I knew Dee was going to go off 😭, but the girl in the video is crazy thing to tell people that they're transphobic for not wanting to date a trans woman.

[@4IS44C]

We need Dee Shanell merch that says "Girl, Go to Hell."

[@ajat3202]

I’m surprised dee hasn’t made merch

[@Unknown-individual]

Why don't you just make a shirt that says that for yourself?

[@Ries41794]

I’m a mixed woman and most men I date are white. It’s not because I don’t like black men. I actually find a lot of black men physically attractive, but I just have preferences that tend to lead me more towards white and Asian men. I don’t get mad when some men say they won’t date black women or mixed women. Hey maybe they just like blondes. Or blue eyes. Features that just aren’t common in my race. Who cares. It’s not the end of the world. I think this goes beyond not wanting to date trans. They’re pushing this because they want you to see trans women as just women. They can’t accept the fact that some people just won’t ever view trans people as the sex or gender they’re claiming to be. That’s the root of it all. You can’t change the way people think no matter how hard you try.

[@christianmindgames]

lmao I knew black men was going to catch a stray somehow

[@mirza2975]

@@christianmindgames not a stray lmao, she just saying issa fair preference😭

[@Ries41794]

@@christianmindgames black women get it all the time lol. Join the club, wasn’t trying to insult nobody though

[@thealchemist5653]

What are you mixed with ?

[@Ries41794]

@@thealchemist5653 I’m Black, White and Mexican. My fathers Black and my mother is half White, half Mexican

[@zaihussain9069]

as a man who have homosexual feelings, I don’t even want to be a part of the lgbtq community because of shit like this that is super cringe. I don’t want to be a part of the “IT THEY THEM” Community at all y’all need to find help at this point

[@kidacrylicks5912]

Not the self hating gay lmao

[@zaihussain9069]

@@kidacrylicks5912 baby, u don’t even understand what I’m trying to say. IM GAY and I don’t hate myself 🤣 I just don’t want to be a part of a cult ran by cringe yt people that’s all.

[@zaihussain9069]

@@kidacrylicks5912 I’m not gonna be part of something where someone forces me to use pronouns and tells me that trans women are real women. I’m not gonna make my sexuality a part of my personality trait I’m more than that.

[@kidacrylicks5912]

@@zaihussain9069 to conservatives we’re all the same no matter how much you try to distance yourself from trans people we’re gay and wether you like it or not you’re part of the lGbt community

[@aideneifriehew]

you can say this dumbass (I'm not like these guys I'm normal!!) shit all you want, conservatives are still gonna hate you. Turning your back on your own community is sad af lol you are weird

[@Honey-li4vu]

As a trans woman, I think it’s stupid that this conversation is so constant 😂. Trans women are not biological women, we are women who had to alter ourselves from male to female. A man choosing to not date a pre-op or post op trans woman for whatever reason is not transphobic it’s their choice. And also I wish the heteros would STOP making this a thing…. Trying so hard to be a ally but just setting us back 10 years each and every time they do this💀

[@tffy2004]

People are soooooo WEIRD

[@RapaidFire]

I like how dee hates the "it's____for me" phrase, but keeps using it lol🤣🤣🤣

[@Shadowblade_-yi5hr]

17:22 Dee, I agree with you to an extent. I think what they’re trying to say is not that men are “victims”, but majority-wise/percentage-wise, men get more hate for speaking up about their sexual/romantic views on trans-women than women do about their sexual/romantic views on trans-men. Even in one of your other videos, you said that no one really talks much about trans-men more than they do trans-women, and you’re absolutely right. When it comes to trans conversations, the topics are usually revolves around trans-women than they are trans-men. So when they brought it back around to men, I don’t think they were saying that women like you don’t get hate for speaking on their preferences revolving around the trans community or that they were trying to victimize men, but more so that majority-wise, men get more hate than women when speaking on their views about trans-women than women do for speaking on their views on trans-men. Hell, even in the video of the girl that both you and AMP were reacting to, she said that she was bisexual but was only naming off her red flags in men not wanting to date trans-women, but didn’t even bother to mention her red flags in a woman if they didn’t want to date trans-men. Like I said, the majority of trans-conversations are centered around trans-women more than they are trans-men, so when it comes to preference conversations like these, men are usually the ones who get the majority of the hate for simply speaking their minds. But that doesn’t mean they were saying that women such as yourself don’t get hate either. Sorry if it was a lot 😅. And I know this video is from a year ago, but I really find your takes and videos fascinating.

[@jontaejohnson5194]

Imagine being mad at a heterosexual man/woman for being a heterosexual man/woman. 🤣🤣🤣

[@alexiskeys9985]

Go figure! It's so sad that you have to laugh 🤯😂

[@lafefez]

Not ONLY Heterosexual people. They are also coming for Gays and lesbians

[@Shadow2pointO]

Most Transwomen are straight.

[@rsync9490]

Or a lesbian for liking women or a gay guy for liking men. It's bizarre, it's obvious the trans women mostly just don't want to be alone because they aren't that desirable.

[@Margaretj13]

Way to go dee! I completely agree! Im bi too and people are always like oh your bi so if you like men and women but don’t want to date a trans person than you are just transphobic, but there is a lot more to it than that.

[@KAY4K20]

you prolly like a naturally born male and female

[@Sabs_222]

Why are people so concerned about who others choose to be with? If they're not causing any harm to anyone or being disrespectful, there shouldn't be an issue.

[@friendlywafersedits3340]

THANK YOU FOR TELLING IT LIKE IT IS 😊

[@kjalight]

I hate this type of stuff. Everyone is entitled to like who they like and not be forced to be attracted to people that they’re not. As a gay man I have seen this type of attitude a lot in my community specifically about bi people and it’s sooo infuriating. This type of mentality of being forced to be a certain way by society is crazy.

[@itsuplike9947]

Oooo this is a perfect analogy!!! Ur right, We can’t be mad that women don’t want to date us, its hard, but you know..consent exists

[@innessab7223]

Thank you for speaking on this. It’s rapey for ANYONE to be coercive over someone’s consent boundaries end of. 😘

[@ron8162]

There is no amount of reasoning that will get me to date a transwoman, that defeats the purpose of being straight

[@ericb9252]

Straight men date trans women

[@ron8162]

@@ericb9252 *bisexual men date trans woman, you literally can not be straight and date a trans woman that makes zero sense

[@ericb9252]

@Ron *Straight men do date trans women, since trans women are women.

[@ron8162]

@@ericb9252 you aren't straight if you date a trans woman. That is literally a male dating another male. If you think a transwoman is a real biological women, then you lost your mind. "Women" is not some title anyone can have, stop deluding yourself into thinking they are the same. Let women have their space lol

[@ericb9252]

@Ron Trans women are women and straight men do date trans women, just like straight women date trans men No one is biologically man or woman, those are genders and gender is a social construct. You know literally nothing, so sit down and shut up

[@heironjhofmeester4401]

as someone who is Bi and open to dating trans people,it's not transphobic if you dont want to date them,you cant force attraction

[@heironjhofmeester4401]

@@lifeoconnell8828 then they should say 'look,Im not comfortable dating a trans person but you're amazing and should be with someone who is comfortable dating someone who is trans'

[@legitjustice]

@Life O'Connell that’s why they should always tell their partner that they are trans cause what if we tryna have kids and u done have the right parts nah this why we rather have a biological man

[@TORULEZ10]

The way Dee was pointing her fingers 🤣🤣

[@nettyspeaks]

Someone told me I was biphobic for not dating bisexual men. 🙃 I was like wtf?!

[@lafefez]

😂😂. They are so tiring 😭. But with BISEXUAL Men I feel like it's pointless coz THE DL COMMUNITY IS BIGGER THAN THE LGBTQ COMMUNITY. You never khow if a man is straight or he lying

[@lyHide]

Okay but why wouldn’t you date a bisexual guy?

[@vulnicuraaa]

that’s a little different….

[@charles1413]

Hm, that's completely different, you probably assume they're sex addicts. Let's be honest here.

[@antighaVision]

tbh why not

[@vincentscott2009]

I think the pint that’s being missed is that you usually don’t hear men on the internet talking like this. It’s always a girl who feels a certain way about this topic.

[@emptyteardrops]

Personally, I don’t think it is. If they started calling them slurs then it absolutely would be.

[@gloriempaka9474]

And what about when the Trans woman lied on them is it ok to use slurs then?

[@musicexplosionx4575]

@@gloriempaka9474 No. Never. Are you LOOKING for an opportunity to use slurs?

[@gloriempaka9474]

@@musicexplosionx4575 as in lied when he/she didn't reveal that after they had s**x for example is it still wrong?

[@Coco-xq7zh]

@@gloriempaka9474 that would be fcked up, not sure what my response will be

[@gloriempaka9474]

@@Coco-xq7zh got you

[@Paristhestorm]

I’m trans women I agree with dee. We all have preferences but don’t make it seem like we are desperate and all trans women are forcing men to date them

[@misslucyyy]

Litterly, and a cis girl was the one making the comment in the first place. Yet us t-girls always are being made to be these monsters who are desperate for validation from men.

[@cybercerulean5128]

i feel like this narrative kinda perpetuates the already abundant hate on the trans community- trans people don’t think like this, these are the select few that I think are promoted to fuel the hatred even more, making trans people seem ignorant, self absorbed and fickle which isn’t the case at all

[@Buddynextdoor_]

I’m Transphobic AF then

[@a.mp.m7340]

Don't let them bring hate out of you. That's what most of them want. There's some who understand and are cool with you not dating them.

[@kay-collins]

Yes I agree I can’t stand when people try to derail the conversation with that “I don’t have a phobia, I’m not SCARED of them” smh.. & at y’all big age?? Y’all really using that BS to “argument” because you can’t come up with a real argument. If they can’t have this conversation without the whole “I’m not scared of them” BS, then they don’t even need to be having this conversation.

[@mayasir1886]

This title baffles me already😑

[@Naenaezone]

10:26 this right here!! But is so annoying that ppl can’t/aren’t really speaking on this, and it’s not a transphobic statement either.

[@Shadowblade_-yi5hr]

Yeah, a lot of people tend to choose not to differentiate between prejudice and preferences. And the underlying factor is that they’re narcissistic and think the world has to be how they want it to be.

[@bijoohere568]

Ugh I am trans and I hate this. I always tell people date who you like. Some men will give you a try and some men like transwomen and some simply are not interested. All you should ask is when you have that conversation is to be respectful during the decline while also being straight forward. Being transphobic is only being slanderish or disrespectful because it isn't necessary when declining anyone trans or not.

[@JetxPistol]

I love how Dee speaks her mind

[@nottodayimbusy7146]

If someone says your transphobic or you having any kind of phobia that means to have an irrational fear of something I don't care what you meant words have meaning you can't just change the definition of words to fit your narrative because you want to

[@KAY4K20]

Lord I’m a Gay female and I’m not transphobic at all , I just like to have a natural born female as a lover is that hard to understand to people😂🤦🏾‍♂️

[@Xxsorafan]

Girl just find a man who is okay with it. As a trans woman trust me, there are more than enough. Also it is a shame there is a stigma against men dating trans women, but hey men confident enough to push past that stigma is just my type anyway

[@manny123957]

There’s a lot of us guys who like trans women but society calls us gay for liking y’all I guess I would be called bisexual but I don’t really see as that because I’m not into dudes who look like dudes I’m definitely into women of all types with or without a vagina idk what does that make me cause a lot of dudes would call me gay but I don’t see it like that cause I’ve never had thoughts of fucking the homies.

[@Xxsorafan]

@@manny123957 you like what you like and that’s all there is to it. Is it bi? Who knows. A feminine soft man is still entirely different from a trans woman because a trans woman will have female secondary sex characteristics even without the big surgery. People will say you’re gay or see you as less of a man or whatever else but it is what it is, their minds aren’t changing. you can either give in to that pressure or go out and see who you like and who makes you happy. Nasty people will always find a reason to demean or belittle others anyway.

[@manny123957]

@@Xxsorafan true you right gorgeous.

[@manny123957]

@@user-tu1rw1uz4i that’s your choice bro you missing out bro think about it like this bro it’s not gay if you can still pull real bitches with vaginas and are always the dominant top.

[@TheGreatRobertCharles]

@@manny123957 😅😂😆

[@begginertechtuts4942]

Preference overrules everything, even if things can be "tried" out. Still, choice still stands above the "phobic" aspect of this topic. Now, those that don't respect others for their choices and sexual orientations, etc, is something else entirely. Respect is something that is taught, and can be earned in certain circumstances. This issue is so simple, but people keep milking it for lesser reasons than the "low self-esteem" argument. Like come up with a better argument or just leave people alone with their preferences. Time will tell and will allow us to move forwards, and that means shit shouldn't be forcefully shoved in front of our faces like it's other people's obligations to operate on the same behaviours and character traits like people who exhibit things not exactly desired by some people.

[@jaycomplexkidrandle1889]

Unless she is ts herself, then her deal-breaker is just as crazy to me. Why does that even matter to her if the person is supposed to be dating her anyway?

[@mztweety1374]

Thank you Ms. Dee. Thank you.

[@JeremiahWalton]

I agree with your beginning rant but if they exclude only 1 race when it comes to dating then there is some kind a deep hatred happening.

[@hw6271]

"YOU DO NOT HAVE THE PENIS THAT I WANT!" Gawd dammit got me cry laughing over here lmfao

[@melvindavis7508]

I appreciate you that’s the difference. People who like the opposite sex get judged today all the time. I have a lot of people in my family who date the same sex. They don’t look at me differently because natural women & I don’t look at anyone different because they want whatever they want.

[@cjjackson2423]

Heavy on the them acting like there no difference like cmon now. This why I love her 😅

[@hw6271]

"WHEN IT COMES TO SEX...WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DO?!" 🤣🤣🤣

[@kingkeesietv]

He’s not beating around the bush, he’s naming so many examples to make the point that , being trans is only a single trait. For that reason it’s illogical to automatically hate them or for them to assume we automatically hate them.

[@111rowanpearl]

i’m so sorry but this is getting out of hand so am i transphobic for being straight?

[@blakesilvermark1]

No

[@fatkidwithfudge]

Why would you want to shame people, into dating someone that they don't want? Maybe I'm missing something, but that seems like a bad way to start a relationship. But hey, maybe that's the new thing and I'm just old. Slander and social pressure as a jump off point. No way that will backfire and go bad.

[@BillieB.]

No, you're not just old. They're just insecure...this is coming from a trans woman 😂

[@Imjustspeakingmymind]

Nah it ain’t no new thing

[@legitjustice]

@@BillieB. and what are u then stop age shaming

[@BillieB.]

@@legitjustice What? How am I age shaming lmao, at this point you're going to need to start eating grass 💀

[@akira753]

No one has the right to get mad at someone for not wanting to date them it's their right that to me and this is my opinion is almost like trying to force yourself on to a person

[@RichTake]

Dee is right: A trans woman is a trans woman, and a woman is a woman. There are men that date women and there are also men that date Trans women.

[@KillaEd313]

Loved dee’s takes in this vid

[@lakissilyndaniels822]

People are so lost these days. It seems like everything is backwards what’s right is wrong and what’s wrong is right😢

[@imcostovers1332]

Dee went off 😂

[@bluesneakers]

omg 2:52 when he said "im dating you why tf does that matter?" lol thank you Im sorry, unless the person Im dating is saying off the wall crazy shit about another group in the process, I couldnt care less who theyre not attracted to. i dont need them to be attracted to anyone else. Some people in our generation be doing too much.

[@vante2129]

These just be projection videos this person was probably rejected and instead of taking it with stride they think you can be shamed or guilted into liking them.

[@malachijonathangittens8247]

even as a gay man its stupid that we make this a big thing

[@asrorig]

honestly, people have the right to their preferences. if someone says “I don’t wanna date a dark skin person, I don’t wanna date a heavy person, I don’t wanna date a light skin person…” whatever it is, no matter how shallow it looks, it’s your right. be honest with yourself. lying to yourself will get you literally nowhere. cuz what if you end up in a relationship with someone who’s not your type because others told you it was wrong? now you and that other person are unhappy. just go with who you like, without degrading who you don’t like.

[@kujghyvulj]

Thank you Dee!!!! 🙌🏾

[@krmxyz]

6:50 not “y’all have seen” LMFAOOO

[@Lavenderskullz]

It’s okay to have preferences, I feel like transphobia has more to do with your perception and attitude towards trans people, rather than if you find them attractive or not. If you think about like sexual orientation, you can be a straight man that doesn’t want to date men romantically, but that doesn’t make you homophobic. Why does not wanting to date a trans person automatically make you transphobic? It doesn’t make you respect them as a person any less, you just don’t want to be in a romantic relationship with them. Also what Dee said about the penis! I was gonna leave that as a comment but I didn’t want to be vulgar 🤣🤣🤣 guess that didn’t matter

[@jbark678]

Hard agree with the phobia thing. It's more accurate to compare it to the way hydrophobic is used than the psychological term.

[@Imunovlogs]

"we're debating reality atp" lmfao

[@laeyla-rd5sy]

I think the main reason why “SOME” trans people have problems with people saying they wouldn’t date them is mostly because of understandable insecurities they have.. I couldn’t imagine the feeling dating as a trans person but it’s stupid to expect others to want to date you and forcing it will not change anything other then bring more hate towards the community.

[@Bnny123]

The title is crazy

[@ynswrld2130]

Trans women are trans women no if or buts they thought so hard for they’re identity and now they tryna disregard it bffr

[@kingkb54]

I get these points but I think her Point saying being a trans man is not flexible it's technically wrong cuz technically a trans man can meet everything you want but it's because they're trans you don't want it so it's just on the same level as being short you don't want to be with a short person but like you said over time that changed I wouldn't be surprised for a lot of people who dated trans people that same logic wasn't said that I warmed up to that person

[@BillieB.]

This talking point is getting tiring can we just move on and let people be delusional 😂 It's the same narrative over and over again...

[@lawstshane]

Phobic means afraid that’s why they r using afraid it’s the definition of the word phobic: “the fear of “

[@tomitankengine]

What dictionary are you looking at? Because every dictionary I've seen refers to a phobia as a fear or aversion to

[@imaniluvsu1]

This shouldn't even be an argument because we shouldn't be concerned about who someone else is dating. I think that if you're speaking from a place of love and support then what should be most important is that the person you care about dates someone who treats them with respect. Not worrying about who DOESN'T date them because they're transgender. Lets mind our damn business.

[@chuckrambo4401]

Not excepting someone not excepting your lifestyle is transphobiaPhobia

[@VI.VIII.V]

Can these folks stop with the gaslightling and policing who ppl date ? If I don't wanna date a fat person I'm somehow fatphobic. If I don't wanna date an older person I'm somehow ageist. If I don't wanna date a short person I'm somehow heightphobic. If I don't wanna date someone with a disability I'm ableist. Date whoever you want, people need to stop worrying about who others are or aren't dating.

[@JohnDoe-zo6tu]

Protect Dee at all Cost!

[@NinjaskKing]

There is this great thing called consent

[@TheIcemanthomas]

People need to look up the definition of a phobia. It’s the FEAR of something. They keep using phobia for things that they shouldn’t. Not wanting to be around someone trans doesn’t mean u FEAR trans people. Embaciles

[@kingdomlwandle1148]

I'm trans myself and I 💯% agree with Dee. Let's not forget that trans women aren't really women. They are men who Identify as women. And some straight men don't want to date people like that, and that's ok.

[@j.t.270]

Dee is hilarious lmao😭😭😂😂

[@JailBr3ak3r77]

Lmao Dee's clips are wild 8:04

[@hyro4568]

Lmao I love Dee bruh she too real

[@TynamiZ]

3:50 took me out

[@bofao]

My sister said preferring to date someone of the same skin color/race was weird. I said “what if a black person wanted to date a black person” she then said “well i guess thats not weird..” i can almost guarantee she only thinks its weird if a white person wanted to date another white person.

[@charles1413]

On another topic, women that don't date bi men makes me want to vomit. It's always either rooted in insecurity or they assume that individual is addicted to sex which is highly offensive.

[@TheGreatRobertCharles]

They just don't want to be with a nasty mf that's all

[@charles1413]

@@TheGreatRobertCharles I didn't know I was a "nasty mf". That's nice!

[@MrTekKnowledge]

Her: theoretically things you're a jerk if you won't date trans people Also her: will think you're gay if you actually dated a trans person. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Minxven2121]

I don’t need it to be labeled but I I personally think looking for your psychological preference is not bad ( people see shit diff based on their experience) [ I think transphobic questions are good to see who they don’t want to date bc some men don’t disclose their “transphobia “ to get wit more women [

[@orlanderhenry8416]

Trans is not being a woman and any man who is sexually involved with them are gay no apology

[@alexanderranderson]

this is a stupid comment cos i am a gay man myself and would not date a trans woman, im not attracted to women. those men aren't gay.

[@crystalnaranjo]

I'm convinced this is Satire, cause aint no way.

[@UnplayedGaming]

It is transphobic and saying not wanting to date black people is racist is wild

[@mauriceblount1662]

Gender and preference are TWO different things

[@itsuplike9947]

Honestly an opinion. Personally, idk. I wouldn’t treat someone in a hateful way, but at the same time i have my preferences just like they have theirs. Ive heard many trans people say they wouldn’t date another trans person which is kinda odd but wtvr. Unfortunately they aren’t the only ones either tho. A lot of gay men have an infatuation with said straight men.. and you know how that turns out lol. MOST IMPORTANTLY.. dating a trans person does not make you gay, lesbian, etc.

[@melvinhhcp3615]

There must be a lot of trans women. Every man doesn't want to be Malik Yoba.

[@toneyrobinson4974]

Dee speaking facts

[@Vloneworld25]

Thnnnnnk you deeee

[@bryanstoudenmire]

Phobic means fear phobia=in fear of

[@emeraldcat8984]

It also means hatred of