Defining the Relationship: Timing the Exclusivity Talk- Dating Advice

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@blancaperez1850 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for this video. I swear your in my head. You are helping me tremendously in understanding what it all means and how to react/respond.

@SusanWinter 4 ай бұрын

Blanca, thank you for sending me this message. I sincerely hope the information within helps you have the conversation you need to have.

@SusanWinter 4 ай бұрын

HUGE THANKS to Lance, Richard, Alex and Jytoti for your superchat contributions!

@janaholla6652 3 ай бұрын

Dear Susan, your advice you give us throughout the years are so precious .. the value is beyond my words .. Thank you. We love you 🌷💕

@sue6307 2 ай бұрын

I did this! Gosh,after like 12 dates in under a month, he got so scared of commitment he ran. I definitely wish I had not brought it up.

@sue6307 2 ай бұрын

I also had a guy who flew in twice from Tennessee to California just to take me out and he was extremely into exclusivity and only wanted to date because he only dates 1 person at a time.. extremely serious about me. Until he suddenly told me that he had taken some girl in his Hometown out on 4 dates in like a week and "oops never mind". I love your advice Susan but really sometimes people are just so freaking stupid aren't they??

@mesCheerios 4 ай бұрын

This intro is really interesting...so in the free love era of 60s and 70s people didn't get into situationships? It seems like it was even more undefined and potential for that should have been massive even if the word situationship hadn't been coined yet?

@SusanWinter 4 ай бұрын

There were certainly sexual entanglements and experimentation. But the most notable difference between the 60s and 70s and the 2000s hook up culture is that the baseline was commitment. At some point. With someone. And that the experimentation was more of a rite of passage- for some but certainly not all

@mesCheerios 3 ай бұрын

Thanks for responding- it's really interesting to think about