Defying Brain Cancer: Why We're Not Giving Up On Our Daughter

Would you bring your child home to care for her 24/7 on life support systems, when doctors have no hope for recovery? When Singapore undergraduate Sing Yu was diagnosed with Gliobastoma, the most aggressive form of brain cancer, doctors have her 3 to 6 months of live.
Operations, chemotherapy and radiotherapy failed to defeat the tumour. So her parents brought her home, determined to nurse her back to health with the help of a homecare nurse from Homage. Three Christmases later, Sing Yu is still hanging on. "As long as we never give up on her, there will be a day of victory," says her dad.
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[@cindyhuiqing8610]

I like how her boyfriend is still next to her when she have been through this pain! That is what i call true love! Those are the type of guys that all girls must deserve! No matter what she is still beautiful to me! She is a strong one! I pray that she will receover asap and achieve her dreams asap!

[@card1y3]

cindy huiqing u cant recover with glioblastoma. 0.1% recovery rate :( the only thing u can do is to survive for a longer time

[@Girlypop_Plays123]

@@Sirandyyyy rlly?

[@quateho4329]

@@Sirandyyyy hello can i ask is she still surviving? Do you mind telling me? Thank you.

[@quateho4329]

@@Sirandyyyy ok thank you for your reply 🙏 😄

[@PAOFFA877]

@@Sirandyyyy Your comment really impacts me, this family is sharing such painful story and you make a joke about it? What do you have on your heart? I'm sorry that you must have a such miserable life to make a joke of situation like this.....

[@nha8909]

The fact that her slight movements are actually just reflexes and the parents think it’s a sign of improvement literally broke my heart into pieces. Nevertheless, I still believe in miracles. Get well soon angel

[@mustwereallydothis]

The worst horror of GBM is the fact that it traps a perfectly healthy mind inside a body that no longer works. Despite how it may appear, that poor girl may well be completely conscious. She may be using the slightest bit of control she has left over her body to communicate with her family and caregivers. In her place, I would hope I would be granted the mercy of belief in what limited abilities I possessed.

[@AlexandraGulkoHyman]

Like locked in syndrome or encephalitis and already dead

[@lailavang1506]

sooo I had to point this out because it made me really mad. In the first couple of seconds the nurses were just trying to get the girl on to the bed and the father was helping like any father would. out of no where one of the nurses told the father to just not touch the girl and back off. like no! the father had the right to help, it’s his daughter for god sake. now thinking of it, it’s making my eyes water because of the way that lady acted towards the father. all he is trying to do is be their for his girl. the lady could have stated it way better than just that. so rude !

[@andrea9797mdd]

Laila Vang I felt the same way. Thank you for pointing that out.

[@yoink3821]

But it might be something urgent the helper needs to do

[@rlee3538]

The nurses need space to do what they need to do to save a patient's life. A hovering parent only makes things harder and makes them take longer when seconds can be the determining factor if somebody lives or dies. They could have been a little nicer but it's their job to care for the patient.

[@amalyoj4]

i understand how it kind of hurts but this is their job they did the same for my aunt she wasn't allowed to see her son in icu and when something urgent comes like the heartbeating is low or something loke that they scream at her face but yah this is what are they supposed to do anyways if that was their reaction it means that they care for the life their saving

[@Beetledraws13]

I agree that that's their job and it's ultimately that they just do it... but still they could have done it in a nicer way...

[@raynec7099]

made me tear when her dad said, "even if its 2 blinks it is goid progress." shows how much they care for her

[@19apri74]

the nurse at the first seconds was soooo rudeeee

[@mallary1012]

Bestie Production ikr

[@andreagarcia3934]

Yes she sure was. Those are her parents. Atleast treat them respectfully, there is a certain manner that you should address someone especially as a health care provider. If you would prefer the parents to sit so u can do your work faster ask delicately. Remember this is a fragile time for them as they feel that at any time they could lose her and it is in a parents instinct to help their child. Especially since im sure that they have been trained in her special care needs and have been doing it for quite some time now. Rude people should not work in jobs that require them to interact with others. I would have made sure to file a complaint and had the nurse switched. To be honest the first thing that popped into my mind was, if she is showing lack of compassion and care for the parents, how would she treat her defenseless patient when she becomes angry or frustrated. This is how abuse starts in hospitals and nursing homes.

[@richelle890]

Agree

[@Yeorena]

Bestie Production she sure was I was so angry

[@lamjm2701]

Ikrr!!!

[@sOnlight67]

This is my mother's story. 😢 A vey healthy 65 year old female. Suddenly dizzy spells, and severe headaches. The doctors told my mother there wasn't anything wrong with her for about a year. Then one day her speech was slurred...they told her it was stage 4 brain cancer. She was operated on, and came out ok. She was healthy again. Then in a few months the doctors told her the tumor came back, and they operated again. She had a stroke, did chemo and radiation, and died six months later. Her six children loved her, and took very good care of her, but it wasn't enough. 💔

[@snakebitepellehue]

I’m so sorry for your loss. Always keep in mind that you did absolutely everything you could. ❤️

[@sOnlight67]

Gaby Champion thank you.

[@flanuwu5114]

God... I'm so sorry for what happened 😢💔

[@caratdeulseventeen-sarangh2979]

sorry for ure loss , stay strong for the sake of ure mother , im sure she would b happy to see u smiling :))

[@cazz124]

Lucky to have her for that amount of time, my husband died within a year of diagnosis

[@09kswong]

Dear all For those who empathise with the parents Have anyone thought of the girl feelings ? My late Wife was exactly the same as the girl. Brain tumor to brain cancer. It is hard to let go. However , to see one’s love one to suffer and being torture. It is beyond one’s comprehen unless you really been through it. Brain cancer have no cure. Chemo and radiotherapy can only prolong the life to live and suffer. When the doctor told me that to let go my Wife and let her end her suffering. Though very very hard to let go..I let her go and passed away in my arms.

[@GG-sk3tw]

Thank you for saying this. The parents are mistaking her reflexes for communication. This is terrible that they are dragging this out like that. She has lived 3 years only because of life sustaining measures but what kind of life does she have? My aunt is dying from brain cancer right now. Stage 4 glioblastoma means you will die. My Aunt chose to have quality over quantity and not do anymore treatments. I just can't imagine her dragging it out. She wants to spend what time she has left coherent and aware for as long or short as she has. To each their own. I am so so so sorry about your wife. God rest her soul. ♥️

[@pinkmonkeybird2644]

My sincere condolences to you. I cannot imagine losing my husband in such a difficult way. I respect your opinion, and you have every right to feel the way you do, but respectfully, so do Sing Yu’s parents. They are caring for her well, and that’s how they are dealing with their personal tragedy. You aren’t wrong, and neither are they. I watched my mother lose her battle with pancreatic cancer far too young, and I myself almost died several times this year from bone disease, so I do have some understanding of the devastating choices you have to make at the end of life. It’s never easy, and it is always painful. I do disagree with those who say Sing Yu is not conscious. She responds to commands and attempts to communicate. When the young nurse tells her to relax her hand while she is bathing her, she does so immediately. You can see her moving her mouth while listening to her boyfriend on the phone, you can see her respond purposefully to her father doing range of motion exercises for her. She may be helpless and unable to speak, but I do not believe she’s in a vegetative state. She may still have wants and needs. As her parents said, we know GBM is a death sentence, much like my mom’s Stage IV pancreatic cancer was, but choosing how and when to give up fighting is the patient’s and family’s personal decision. I’m very sorry you lost your wife; I can’t imagine the suffering you still endure. I do wish you find happiness and healing.

[@user-oh6wb5rj2q]

Exactly, same thought. I saw her pain in her tears.

[@sebastian7814]

Terribly sorry to hear, but you had done the right thing and there is a day you will see her agian

[@PinkyPiuer]

Her parents are strong and positive. Her character most likely similar. With family so dedicated and cheerful, i believe she would have chosen to fight on as well.

[@rwwarOB]

So touching, I've had a difficult year but this family reminds me of the power of hope. I really wish their daughter becomes well.

[@fxnaidu473]

Tears came in my eyes ..im a C3 Complete Quadraplegic i got improvements after 3yr really ,now i still can't walk but i can do my work very slowly ..sir & mam your daughter will be healed god will help u

[@leechan5736]

Fx Naidu then how did you type this comment?

[@fxnaidu473]

in my left 1fingure works 80% i can type very very slowly with 1fingure

[@leechan5736]

Fx Naidu oh. Hope doctors can find a cure :)

[@roastbread]

Hello Just Saw your comment, but i hope you're doing okay :)

[@dorotheawong3278]

I heard the background worship song and cried. It’s really not easy but through all they still could say “he is Lord, Lord of all”.

[@godswordasmr1207]

Same...it's the reason why I keep going back to this video too.

[@ftc174]

:)

[@daniellemorales7260]

I cried too...

[@JustineBarnum]

As nursing student, that remark at the beginning is rude. A hovering parent might get in your way, but there are better ways to tell them to let you do your job 😡

[@calebteo8934]

Unconditional love and courage from her parents is unparalleled... Stay strong and will pray for your fast recovery!

[@liana1875]

dear Father.. heal her

[@LovingYOUXD2000]

incredibly inspiring.. i really admire sing yu's parents for their determination and will! hopefully sing yu will get well soon and go to japan!!

[@soniasohi5013]

Her tears and movements were reflexes. I feel bad that the parents believe it is a sign that she will get better....but she won't. Sad.

[@nonayurbeezwax]

Don't ever live life with that mentality. That's what's sad.

[@TsukiNaito1]

@@nonayurbeezwax Honestly, it's not a mentality. Just not ignoring reality.

[@Reiko9]

@@nonayurbeezwax well it’s the truth sadly

[@jasonups5386]

Having this Cancer is the worst thing. I have grade 3 and I am beating it for the 3rd time. Gotta keep staying positive and Fighting. One day they will have a Cure. Promise 🙏🏻🇺🇸

[@Hunter-zu9qs]

what type?

[@TheDemon3666]

I am blown away by how loyal and dedicated and loving this family and care nurse are... But I'm more sad than anything... I feel so hardcore for the family... To go through that is just... I cant imagine. But I also feel deeply for the daughter. She has NO quality of life shes, forgive me but speaking honestly, a vegetable. She cant speak can barely move and has to rely on machines to keep her alive... There is a very good chance this poor girl would like to let go and no longer be a prisoner inside her own mind and body.

[@mereej8924]

agreed with you...and i see extremely disabled people every day.

[@elrqse]

My mom is 38 this year and she has stroke 5 years ago and had one before I was born. I was k2 almost start if p1. My mother just born my lil bro ernest. Then 2 weeks later ,she was showering in the toilet,then my dad heard a scream and he ran inside and my mom was squatting in front on the toilet bowl.My dad carried her to bring to the room and called 911.then the people say nothing wrong.few days later,she had a stroke,in coma for 2-3 years. We all were sad.. and my grandpa passed away, my grandpa loves my mom and me the most.. So. Since he passed away,we kept it a secret from my mom.now its 2019, my mom cant get recovered.but we all still believe in hope.She can talk,move hand and leg a little bit, cannot walk and eat herself. And since my mom is not there for me,I feel left out...But I visit her every sat and sun.So hope u enjoy it story. #BeGrateful

[@Anton_Uchelkin]

God help her please

[@biubiu6310]

This mum is so caring she really cares about her daughter and passionate 💕

[@ritsuoncocaine4494]

This is true love and support. She didn’t give up. *nobody gave up* _her family cares for her, they strive to keep to going_

[@ray_ayy]

It seems so cruel to me to keep her alive like this. Obviously I don’t know what her brain function is like, but having to lay there, stiff, unable to communicate, for years... I can’t imagine that hell.

[@waeeeezeeeee]

Watching family members taking care of their loved ones because of cancer truly break my heart Coz the same happened with my dad. He was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer after two monthe at the hospital, we were told by the doctors to move to palliative care. It was really hard, i felt everything was falling apart. Day by day my father just becomes weaker and weaker to the point he cant talk and just sleeps. My father was like the strongest and healthiest man ever and to see him in such a state only God knows how i felt.... Sadly my dad succumb to his illness in the early morning of 30th April 2019 at his home. I didnt screamed but i just cried silently at the corner. It is really hard for us for both my mum and i to this day. Sometimes i wonder why God take him that early but i have no choice but to accept that it was his time. Its just that, my mum and i really love him so much 😞

[@inkedblood24]

Make me feel my eczema and ocd are nothing compared to what she going through . I’m sorry I’m complaining too much when I don’t know how you feel .😭

[@babylion3263]

I hope u can overcome your disorder and emerge stronger healthier and happier... :))

[@ersarva3587]

You are strong, you got this 😊

[@talleygill6753]

Same this makes me feel like my crohns is nothing compared to what she is going through

[@asuna883]

*Wishes for someone to find a cure for all these diseases.*

[@margarbieadams8200]

Asuna there is a cure that I am sure of. if they give out all the cures then they won't make any money

[@skoualaf2715]

Margarbie Adams dumbfuck.

[@lilyanne2676]

The problem is that some part of her brain has been cut, so her body might never be normal again. Her small improvement come from some of her neuron that reconnected after the surgery but it will reach its max limit soon

[@rustamp7361]

It's very sad and my heart is crying to see beautiful girl ill

[@bikash6008]

Exactly same condition as my father .may god recover her and give strenght to her parents🇳🇵💙

[@bharathdev6285]

respect and salute to this great family. 💪💪💪✊✊✊

[@sojourner5069]

7:48 "Weak made strong in the Savior's love Through the storm He is Lord Lord of all"

[@peterlhs18]

We all many times tends to forget how fortunate we are . Thanks for sharing this video . Pray for the very best

[@darylmooyoung6414]

I hope she makes a full recovery, and that her parents will get to see it too.

[@lucywang7593]

I really hope that she gets well soon! The love and determination given to her by her parents is truly inspirational!

[@minimochi2206]

There really is no stronger love than a parent's love. She is a beautiful girl... I hope she is comfortable and that her parents will always find happiness.

[@lailavang1506]

and when the father is leaving the room just 2 seconds after, it made me cry.

[@candypop217]

how can people dislike this video? the girl and her family are so strong together ;-;

[@joshhhhhhh713]

Great family and boyfriend. She is rlly blessed. Stay strong!!!!

[@juliemathias8107]

What an amazing family, when I watched this video the strength that came from her mum and dad was plain to see, but it was the little things like her dads far away glances and her mum wringing her hands at the table that show they are in emotional pain, bless you all for sharing your family’s story I feel humbled to have been able to witness your love and strength

[@bridgetdidget8983]

The love of parents to their kids is so unconditional

[@karencheong8805]

I hope that she can recover soon and she can win this battle. So her parents will happy. Stay strong, Sing Yu. ❤️

[@bharathdev6285]

respect and salute to this great family.

[@ringofsolomon268]

The nurse is so rude. The father might disturb her work but she still can say nicely.

[@TsukiNaito1]

I hope this is what SHE wants, though I don't know. She responds when the nurse tells her to relax her hand, so maybe she's aware. But I'm not sure if that's good or bad. The parents might be prolonging her torment for their own benefit more than anything. Biology doesn't change because you work hard. If parts of her brain are dead, then they're dead. That's not going to change.

[@hanlie1588]

God will help I believe that, I really do

[@farizshzaharshah3167]

How is she?.any update from her?.hopefuly she will getting better than before.keep strong and keep fight till the end.for the family..well done and may God bless both of you.

[@muna-hy9jw]

A parents love is greater than any love we will receive on this earth. She’s a beautiful person and her parents are as beautiful for changing and adapting to help her to the best of their abilities. I hope they will somehow find a cure for this strong girl! Praying for the family!

[@danielseb6176]

My gosh her mother is very strong woman she's always ready to fight along with her,when parents cry it really hurts

[@plk_0626]

God bless you sweet, sweet girl. May you come out fighting and healthy. Made me cry. It's so heartbreaking. I've grown up asking why do the worst things always happen to good people. I know God has a plan for each of us, it's just understanding it all.

[@srivaylan2631]

From early 2013 to October 2014, doctors did not suspect her frequent headaches. How competent a handful of local doctors is!

[@mariayoung8860]

My brother passed from a Brain Tumor. To see her parent’s love to will her back to good health is so beautiful. They will never give up, because of the love for their child.💕

[@ninithuya]

Their just amazing parents!I am so happy for the girl!The parents have hope no matter what!Hope she gets better❤️❤️❤️

[@karlchandran4631]

If you look in the dictionary for the meaning of the word "suffering", it is the state of a person or thing that suffers. But in their situation, I see such spirit and drive to push on with life. The "fight" that is shown, is the ability to endure whatever the circumstances. Cancer is a terrible enemy, and yet they do not yield to the enemy! I send my sincerest love and regards to the family in the video!

[@myth5870]

I really hope that she gets well and is able to achieve her family's wish. 😭😭😭💪💪🏻💪🏻

[@paolasistemas6746]

The father is everything

[@botheringu1595]

I have a mother with NPC cancer stage 2b to 3 . She was diagnosed in 2016 . When i had the news.. my life totaly dark ( first reaction) but then i standup to make sure mymom strong enough to face this.. 3 years passed and My mom show a very positive progression throughout her session.. I feel her parents deeply... its not an easy task to take care of patient in this condition.. but they all so strong and i pray god will ease them. Insyallah..

[@SkyEaglespirit]

These parents are the strongest, most positive parents ever!!

[@bongoof7211]

Lord bless Sing Yu to be healed

[@becanonymous9458]

She and her family are truly inspirational, I wish them all the best and to keep up their spirits. It really makes you realise how fast things can change, and how much we need to learn to appricate the now.

[@neelufer85]

I could watch this video it made me cry badly.. this is the worst part in any parents life...

[@nganhahuynhle452]

I was cry for this news ..the love of parents to child nothing can compare ! Miracle will come , i wish the best for your family !

[@amystabenow1189]

how can you with mere words describe the love. our words are such a weak way to express how so very much we love our children. what we do is soldier on. and with every breath and every beat of our heart is a silent "I love you. I would die for you". and even with the last breath and the stilled beat it will continue whispering I love you.

[@rosebud0391]

I wish her a peaceful and pain-free passing soon. I understand her families love but this way of life after having such a full life. I wish she could communicate. I feel she would say this if she could.

[@xmz-hq7dd]

Is there any way to get in contact with the family? I stumbled upon Martin Pistorius Ted talk and is currently reading his book "Ghost Boy" on how he was being trapped inside his own body for 12 years, unable to communicate despite being conscious, and miraculously his condition improved and he had a chance to connect with the outside world through communication device. If Sing Yu can respond with blinks and turn of her head, I hope and pray for her that there will be technological advance that will help her to at least communicate with the people around her.

[@zs9499]

Hey,have you found a way to get in touch with them?I would like to know where she is too.

[@sanvednasharma]

i realllyy hope she recovers ❤️ more strength and power to you

[@chiranthnadig9833]

Such an inspiring story.. Such great parents! God give them strength!

[@nora-yw4rd]

I like the point that she is VERY BRAVE TO GET THROUGH ALL THIS!! Her parents must me proud !!

[@eimespina633]

How is she? Hope she and her family and still fighting. God bless them

[@andrewtorres301]

You have to find the strength to let her go. This is not how someone should live, a vegetable. Let her have a dignified death and be at peace with it. I was in the same position as the parents with my mother. I decided to pull the life-support, and my mother died within 15mins. The power of goodbye will bring you inner peace.

[@sebastian7814]

Exactly those are simply machines breathing for her and pumping her heart, I wouldn’t consider her alive

[@selmashabazz887]

This was two years ago. I hope she’s better now!!

[@Bevlyn123]

Really sad to watch. Does anyone know if they made any follow up video's ? Would be nice to see how she's doing.

[@rythpanda5271]

I pray for your daughter .. have faith .. god is their to protect her ... I. Be strong and have faith

[@abbdabb6219]

The parents are in total denial....very sad

[@prathiksha5571]

Kids don't take care there older parents but see to parents their children remains always kid and they are asusual present for them I love and respect my parents after seeing this really am touched

[@shabsuh]

I like how Mdm Goh accepts it patiently ... 😭

[@lipisaha7382]

Having a both Parents is blessing! Here,from Here you can see an example.

[@susananderson1071]

They are a strong couple. I hope their wish comes true.

[@mereej8924]

my heart breaks for this poor girl..and of course for her parents. i do not see her recovering. has she been asked what her wishes are? is she crying because she wants to go?? i say this not from ignorance but just my own situation..which of course is different. but my husband had a massive stroke..he is locked in but has some hand and arm function. he was asked if he wanted to be fed and he blinked yes. he still makes this choice 8 years later but it is his choice. i just hope someone is advocating for this patient.

[@luisfarias3942]

so beautiful....God help this beautiful angel and her family...lots of love xxx

[@chongyoumoicarlot9692]

It's a touching story, never give up! Parents love for you in unconditional! Hope oneday you are able to move on your own, standing up and to hug your dearest parents and friends! God bless you!

[@ivystephen]

I will pray for you little girl. God is always with u. You will be healed.. bless you dear.

[@pammyyap3309]

What type of brain tumor? I was diagnosed with a neurofibromatosis type 2 I was operated twice and undergone radiation too 😞😭

[@kaylim4433]

One sick can turn a person completely ... stay strong ❤️ god be with u always and heal you from all the sickness

[@euphoriajk5487]

❤🙏 prayers! May God bless you all! We love you Sing Yu! You always have a special place in our hearts no matter what!

[@trevbermi1684]

Man, this is so sad. I'm literaly crying watching this.

[@kaisadillas8554]

Stay strong Sing Yu,I hope you get better!!God will help you!!!

[@Garfield_cat393]

I am touched. Hope your girl will be well one day!

[@itzdanoobgirlplayintiffany3453]

Keep Fighting!! GBU I hope theres a miracle because she kept fighting and her family never give up....

[@peterlhs18]

Please stay strong....many people will pray for all of you .. God bless everyone in the family

[@choowybear4352]

Legit cried when i heard the song Cornerstone playing in the background.

[@grrrrr219]

I feel my chest aching seeing them suffering 😔 just keep on hoping and God will be at your side always... 💕 prayers for the family...

[@ellethu22]

Fighting sing yu! Stay strong and believe in miracle sweetie. You have such loving and supportive parents by yourself every step of the way. Wishing you a miraculous recovery so that your family can travel to Japan together ❤️

[@NickanM]

She died 4 years ago.

[@JustCakie]

Such incredible parents. I can only hope to be a parent that loving one day

[@Garfield_cat393]

I hope all goes well for the family. Reminded me of my own father who died of brain cancer 6 months after diagnosis. Couldn’t be operated on due to location of tumour.

[@alukardFE]

She is not coming back. Her soul left, this is no way to live. Poor girls and parents. Wishing them all the best.

[@sarac8284]

Does anyone know if she is still alive? Since I see this was made 3 years ago...

[@rose.6022]

No matter the pain you can do it no matter the weather I will walk to you no matter the pain I will care no matter the cost I will pay only to keep another soul alive and living

[@maureentan4928]

Fantastic parents! God bless them n Sing Yu n grant them His mercy, strength n grace on their journey of hope.Nothing is impossible with God thru Jesus Christ!

[@deepthijohn1547]

Does anyone have any update on her? Hope she's with us !

[@tanmk4834]

God... save this kid! She deserves to survive!

[@bakusya96]

They are in denial, i doubt she would have wanted to live like this

[@sarahimran946]

Non of us knows. Maybe she doesn't want to live like, but maybe she does. Maybe she wants to keep fighting

[@ronellecoetzer2850]

What positive and heartwarming video. Also a very inspiring story. Get well soon