Deinfluencing the Internet's Viral Products of 2023

[@thefinancialfreedomgirl]

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[@cocoa3202]

Hi idk if you already have but can you maybe donate to climate change or Palestine aid? Can you also do a specific video if you haven’t already can you do a video on gen alphas obsession with skincare or on unrealistic beauty standards in general?

[@Hoppy_is_a_bunny]

Yeah I never understood the Stanley cup obsession. I mean it’s cup🤨 Like I can’t help but think what does that say about us as a society if a CUP is trending so hard that folks are losing their absolute minds over it. Thats completely insane to me.

[@gabriellegay4097]

The "water bottle trend" is especially annoying since they were meant to be a sustainable alternative. I have two water bottles (one for home and one for on the go) and didn't spend more than $20 for the two of them. I use my water bottles until they are no longer usable.

[@jin394]

yeah, like I understand if someone wants to upgrade from a plastic reusable to a stainless steel since the latter holds onto less bacteria, or if someone wants a few for holding different liquids (water vs coffee/tea) or locations, but throwing out or completely stop using an old one makes no sense to me. Shelling out the money for a brand name also doesn't make sense to me because the off brands work 99% (if not 100%) the same but I'm not as mad about that.

[@meganwall4405]

I have a small collection of water bottles, but that's cuz they are different types of water bottles. I can use the one that fits the activity I'm doing. I also buy nearly all of them second hand. I've only bought 2 brand new and they are the ones I use the most

[@Scott.Sandifer]

@@meganwall4405 I have a collection of glass water bottles, but only because it allows me to cycle through them, and wash them all at once. I only trust glass for its total neutrality / non-reactiveness to whatever I fill it with. Theoretically, stainless steel _should_ be equally non-reactive... but you can't always be sure what you're getting. Bonus, I prefer *seeing* whats going in my mouth!🤣

[@laurelinvanyar]

I have 4 dishwasher safe water bottles I've been using in rotation for years and have zero intention of buying more. The whole idea was to cut DOWN on disposable plastic!!!

[@joshKozak]

Smartest person on the internet is this girl right here lol. But yeah I agree it defeats the purpose.

[@Aelffwynn]

When you brought up influencers saying, "I bought the viral ___," I finished the sentence with, "so you don't have to." Because that's how I treat those videos. I vicariously experience the trend, and then I don't care anymore. Sometimes I forget that's not how it works for a lot of people!

[@michaw.2168]

Exactly 💯

[@CRU22]

I've seen the Stanley Cups pop up all over campus as a college student and I was tempted to get one. Then I realized I didn't want to hold it in my hand everywhere I went just to show people that I had one. When I saw that clip of how badly it leaks, every ounce of desire just fled from my body. Waiting for these to go the way of the Hydroflask.

[@donghye1004]

i've had my hydroflask since i bought into the trend four years ago and i think it was worth the purchase. it's definitely odd and offputting to see trends with water bottles, especially since they're supposed to be sustainable.

[@willistan3562]

yeah, the hydroflasks were being hyper-marketed at colleges a bit aggressively. to be fair though ... they are actually a pretty great bottle. I've only had to replace the rubber handle after 5 years of daily use.

[@glitteryvieweraltray4369]

I have the flap-up style Stanley waterbottle. It's not nearly as bulky as the straw model and it doesn't really leak, the only time I spilled was when I accidently flapped up the flap in my backpack and flipped my backpack on it's side. Obviously don't buy things just to show it off though, it's still heavy to hold in my hand even when I do carry it.

[@jochenkraus7016]

"Then I realized I didn't want to hold it in my hand everywhere..." I think that's a very important thought when deciding whether to buy something. I have in mind a way to use the product and how it will work there but it might turn out differently in reality. E.g. I won't use a kitchen gadget if it's super annoying to clean it. Or I might keep using the smaller lower spec camera instead of the bigger, better one because it fits better in a certain bag and is much less weight to carry around.

[@Aelffwynn]

Hey, these things are all fine if you'll actually use them for a long time, like they should be used. I'm confused at college students with Stanley cups though. I thought they were for parents and office workers who aren't always walking everywhere. I have a couple of travel mugs because they're very convenient for drinking water all day without worrying that I will spill all over the computers or expensive inventory, lol. I have reusable water bottles from my college years, and I still use them for travel and errands.

[@Zm4rf]

Usually i just get to pretend to be superior by "never downloading tiktok" but now i can be immune from impulse purchases (which I am terribly susceptible to)

[@zombietrash416]

Awesome. We can both be superior together.

[@creamypeanutbutter7769]

Me three!

[@JustAlex1795]

"No TikTok" gang rise up!

[@seadragon1456]

Does it count if I never had TikTok but got sucked into the TikTok realm on KZbin a couple times. Those stupid restock videos got me.😂

[@ariannedekker6932]

This was my plan too but KZbin shorts got to me 🥲

[@PeaceStandsxo]

I purchased a Hydroflask two years ago as a birthday present to myself, and I haven't felt the need for a new water bottle since lol. You really just need one water bottle that does not leak and keeps your water cold and that's it.

[@ItsJC-gu3jz]

fr!

[@RonniiiiBabe]

I would even understand a few ones, if they are different and for different purposes. For example: 1 big one for a long day at work or at university/school, 1 smaller one with a sports closure and maybe one for when the other one is in the dishwasher or a really light one for hiking or one that fits in your bottle holder at your bike or whatever. But nobody needs so many IDENTICAL bottles. I have one big insulated bottle with a disposable lid (sports closure and a normal one) which I use regularly and a cheap small plastic one for longer bike rides because my regular bottle won't fit unfortunately.

[@ll2323]

I feel the same about my hydrapeak. Which is a dupe for a hydro flask. Works the exact same.

[@PrincessNinja007]

I have an emotional support gas station cup

[@madis6780]

My German grandparents always wore Birkenstocks or that style shoe as their “house shoes”. They’re literally grandparent slippers and they became soo trendy and expensive a while back

[@sandy68917250]

Real Birkenstocks have always been expensive. My mom wore them in the 90s. I’ve had mine for 4 years and I love them they’re such great quality and so comfy ❤

[@jochenkraus7016]

@@sandy68917250 I've heard that prices increased and they moved a bit from an (expensive) item for everyday use to luxury. I hope that doesn't happen to Ortlieb bike bags and Tubus bike racks :-o That's already expensive but well made.

[@justynawisniewska1213]

I'm all for comfy trends though. Good to be trendy AND not torturing my feet giving myself bunions for once.

[@Caroline-us1hn]

I had Birkenstocks for a couple of years when I was young (literally one pair) and when they didn't fit anymore, I just never replaced them. I did love them a lot. As soon as I had my own adult money from my job, I bought myself a pair of birkenstocks and I have enjoyed them ever since... Like 3 years now.

[@EmeraldAshesAudio]

@@justynawisniewska1213 I was just thinking that. I live a cozy life, regardless of what's in style. When the trends agree with me, I take it as a win.

[@MannoMax]

Its so wierd seeing people having like 20 almost mint condition water bottles. I had one stainless one for years and years, i even welded it when it cracked once, and after it was completely through, I got a free one from work, and have been using it for like 3 years

[@PrincessNinja007]

I have a ton but they were all free company swag

[@LuLuslife05]

I never felt the need to buy any of these items, and this video just solidified that for me. I think we should all make efforts towards being more conscious consumers and engaging in suitable and sustainable practices. ☺️

[@ogre706]

If every single person in this country consumed responsibly, many companies' profits would tank or they would go out of business altogether, and that... is not a bad thing in the long run, actually. It'd be bad for the small group of individuals that benefit from the current irresponsible status quo, however, which kinda explains why they spend so much money on advertising. 🤔

[@LadyLyn1234]

​@@ogre706 this!!!!❤❤

[@dyktabuah]

my new life goal is to be annoying to go shopping with

[@Aelffwynn]

Join us! There's a lot of research involved though, so be aware of that 😅 I've never seen this person's videos before. But when she said, "I'm annoying to shop with," I thought, "Interesting! She sounds like me!"

[@amihanbyann]

Same!!! I have a friend that is an enabler that encourages me to buy this and that and another that is the "annoying" one that really knock some senses whenever we go out.

[@MelanatedHomesteadher]

😂😂yes

[@Lynn-rv4ty]

i am annoying to go shopping with but on the opposite end of the spectrum so i’m working hard to be annoying the other way

[@kristinw3610]

I feel like the Dyson air wrap’s appeal is that it replaces a lot of other hair tools (flat iron, curling iron, round brush, hair dryer, etc.). So unless you don’t already have those tools, it doesn’t really seem worth it. Plus, there are cheaper dupes on the market like the Shark Flex Style if you really want a multi-tool hair styler.

[@BlackBlood74]

Here is what I've learned after buying mine. I bought it because I never had a curler and my hair dryer was starting to shut off and smell like burning. It is awesome. It is quick BUT she is right. The hair style doesn't last. I'll go out and my hair will fall apart. My hair is short and frizzy so I can't say if this happens to everyone but after setting my hair with the dyson, I'll need to go over it with a straightener. Which is what I would do when I had my regular routine too. Any humidity will destroy that too but it is tougher. Now, I don't think $600 is worth that but I do enjoy it. A shark would probably work great too and it's cheaper. Or just a regular hair dryer and rollers. Don't know.

[@lulupomegranate]

What about the straightener option, did you try it? @@BlackBlood74

[@RikkuSWiRLS]

Cara may or may not be incidentally right about the dyson air wrap but all I can really say is, someone who doesn't even own a hair dryer probably doesn't need to be chiming in with her two cents about hair care. I don't style my hair often myself (though I do own a hair dryer) and if I were to be thinking about picking up a tool (one that I would most likely only use occasionally) I would put a lot more weight into someone's opinion who regularly styled and took care of their hair and had experience using different tools at different price points.

[@margaretliston8950]

You successfully de-influenced me from buying the human size dog bed. I had very cozy visions of laying on that with my dog watching TV but now I see that it would probably just be annoying and we can simply lay on our couch.

[@thefinancialfreedomgirl]

Yay! Hope you have a cozy holiday season :)

[@jochenkraus7016]

During the dog bed part of this video I thought that these people had a couch, often with a corner you could cuddle in.

[@mydeershikaxoxoga]

Swell Entertainment reviewed it. It's not even that comfortable.

[@gemkitten984]

Yeah, I don't know if y'all have ever felt a regular dog bed or layed on one, but it is NOT comfortably padded at all. Very thin, actually - at least for the type that the "human sized dog bed" is. I've actually never heard of this product until this video (I don't have TikTok) but as soon as I did, I thought it was the most unappealing thing ever lol. And also, what ever happened to beanbags? At least the large ones could give you some sort of head elevation if you truly don't like being on the couch lmao. There's so many better alternatives than this dog bed that will save you from neck and back aches. But at least your dog will love it!

[@kikic95]

Also dogs always want to lie on the couch so is a dog bed really that great if the dog isn’t even that keen on it 😂

[@CarysGM]

The snail products are great if you have sensitive and reactive skin. Most of what these people are shilling is garbage, but that skincare line is not.

[@Aelffwynn]

I can't be mad at anyone who has had trouble with skincare and finally finds something that works. But so many people have something that works for them already, and they just keep buying more products they'll never finish using.

[@AA13494]

do they kill a bunch of snails for that serum??? or is it just a name?

[@justynawisniewska1213]

​@@AelffwynnTHIS, ever since like 2020 skincare became something makeup used to be for some people. They'd follow skinfluencers with all the new trends, building whole collections of skincare products in the process that'd inevitably rot in their cabinets not even half used, not being consistent with their routines at all, constantly switching everything up and just using too many things at a time.

[@151kina]

⁠​⁠@@AA13494the products are made from the slime that snails produce, snails aren’t killed for it

[@Aelffwynn]

@@justynawisniewska1213 the kicker is how bad that is for your skin! It's much better to be consistent!

[@dennis07reyes]

As someone who was never influenced by this products to begin with, I see this as an absolute win.

[@ellielai4897]

I also sometimes try to stop my mom from buying useless stuff at the store. Really love your videos!! I enjoying watching them every time.

[@thefinancialfreedomgirl]

thank you!! and oof I know the struggle, it’s hard to deinfluence our parents a lot of times 😅

[@wellitsmelbell]

I remember when the kanken backpack were all the rage. I remember wanting one myself mainly because of how popular it was and all the good things people said about it. But when I finally got one for myself and tried to fit all my usual things that usually put into my previous backpack, not everything would fit. I couldn’t even fit in my water bottle and my laptop in there too. It was also hard to zip and unzip the bag. I knew there were different sizes of the kanken backpack (I think I got the medium one) but I couldn’t be bothered to get a new one. They’re also pretty expensive. I ended up going back to my previous backpack (which I’m happy with and still use it) and rarely found any use for my kanken backpack that I had to give it away. From that day forward I stopped fussing over viral products unless it’s something I think I might really REALLY need.

[@Netalula0707]

One of the things that deinfluenced me from the Kanken was the straps. They seemed so thin to me and knowing how much i carry daily i realized it would be painful to use that backpack. I instead got the Doughnut Macaroon backpack, and have been using it for 3 years now and have zero regrets😊

[@thevioletgirl17]

As someone who has cystic hormonal acne, snail mucin is something that I have been repurchasing for the past 6 years; agree with all the other products, we don’t need it .

[@currentusername3533]

Yessss

[@VictoriaMarch13]

I also suffer from CHA. I haven't heard of the snail stuff until this video and now your comment has me intrigued. I can't use anything without it making my skin worse. Which brand do you recommend?

[@nekomeow3161]

Its so amazing I only started 2 months ago but my skin already look so smooth & glowy, soft too! As for my acne cysts they are slowly healing but I can see a difference following with other treatments & products

[@Eeveecat]

@@VictoriaMarch13 quick infodump- the most popular brand for snail mucin is cosrx, but the general takeaway i believe is most important from the whole virality of it is the upsurge in recognizing that more gentle skincare can be much more effective in treating acne and irritation. kbeauty (and jbeauty, but most of the viral brands lately have been korean) in general has much more of a focus on soothing and hydration instead of the more western approach of attempting to nuke acne from orbit, which frequently leads to more irritation and more acne. I recommend doing some research into this if your acne bothers you; some channels I like are Tina Tanaka Harris, Beauty Within, AliceintheRabbitHole, and Lab Muffin Beauty Science. tldr: the viral trend was based on the concept of gentle skincare to let your skin heal itself instead of aggressively trying to fix it, and there are many products that can help with that depending on your specific needs.

[@MaryMamaAshlee]

Agreed. My dry skin loves the snail mucin.

[@BeaSolar]

I think that another piece of advice is that, while asking yourself why you should buy a product, you should really reflect if the answer is just 'it would make me happy'. Are you saying that because it would be satisfying to see all those tiktoks and think about you owning that product? (this one I myself have done). Or because the products gimmick is going to be fun to try out? Is it something you will truly benefit from and enrich your life? If people suddenly start making fun of it and calling it corny, will you still want it? Accuse me of hating fun all you want, but It's important to make it very clear to yourself the difference between a short-term dopamine rush and true satisfaction

[@10mbc]

I considered getting a Stanley thermos at some time bit it was something like 60 USD. I just got a generic stainless thermos from Decathlon and it was 10 USD. After 2 years or so, it's still going strong.

[@joshKozak]

Hey Cara thank you for making me a better consumer this year. You helped put me on to being a more responsible person. Cheers to you kid!

[@thefinancialfreedomgirl]

That's amazing to hear, thank you!!

[@davidb9806]

I remember a kids show where they had to invent and pitch products. One group of kids made a dog backpack and were roasted because putting treats on your dog is gonna get them mugged by other dogs

[@JJb0nes]

Glass water bottles. They’ve been my favourite find. They aren’t easily broken, keep your water cool and if you lose the lid they’re still useable, and they actually last, and they’re not 40$ they’re 5

[@MCHuang]

I support Cara stanning for Cheesecake Factory in a season when other girls are hating on them

[@thefinancialfreedomgirl]

I am a Cheesecake Factory loyalist for life!

[@lisadoes]

Why hate on Cheesecake Factory? They are literally the place we choose so that everyone can find something they like! 😂

[@MCHuang]

@@lisadoes it was trending in 2023 that if a guy brings a girl to Cheesecake Factory on a first date, there would be no second date. No idea why

[@MaryMamaAshlee]

The only thing wrong with Cheesecake Factory is that they added calorie counts to the menu.

[@Keltain]

The recent trend of items/products going mega viral feels like a double edge sword. Like I wouldn’t have thought to buy a salad chopper and would have thought it was another “useless item from an infomercial I didn’t need” and then a video brought up a good point about that if you’re chronically ill and or mentally ill it can help a lot. And they weren’t wrong I used it all the time. A product I wouldn’t have even glanced at is now a daily use item in my kitchen. But that’s MY kitchen. I eat salad a LOT and for me it’s a daily use. I think that’s the real line with viral products and being mindful. Looking at your own life and daily use items. (Which is this point of conscious consumption)

[@Kikicole]

Girl…. I’ve been wearing Uggs since 2008 and never stopped- literally still wearing mine from 2014! They are quality, stand up to time, and super comfy I don’t gaf what is in “trend” I still looked cute in them when they went out of style 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@dottieland7061]

Since when have Ugg’s been viral. And stop popping up in my recommended. You’re annoying trying to tell me what to buy what not to buy! I don’t need your advice ! I have a mind of my own! I don’t need your hippy rubbish

[@lulupomegranate]

what?@@Kikicole

[@Aquaria2291]

My sister just had the soles come off the Uggs that she bought in 2010. But she's gonna take them to the shoe guy and get them resoled because the rest of the boot is still good. That is quality! Uggs forever! 😂 And yes, they're always cute. I will be cute in uggs when I'm 95, shuffling around the retirement community. 😂

[@dottieland7061]

@@Aquaria2291 I love my uggs . I have deformed ankles and they are so supportive. I never watch things like this, doesn’t she realise fashion does a 360 and I work in vintage fashion in harajuku!! So I should know something !!!

[@doxiemomma2014]

I have my original Uggs from 2005 and I still wear them to walk the dogs. And I have my 2nd pair from 2010. They are still in super good condition. I only wear them in good weather. I want another shorter slide pair.

[@bailey1368]

For Snail Mucin: If you get Milia easy, especially around the eyes, don't use the snail mucin cause it causes Milia to form faster.

[@sasamafrass]

Good tip!

[@latterdaycovenantliving]

I have actually found that snail mucin is one of the only things that doesn’t make me get more milia

[@zonteven2167]

Don’t get it at all I got it and it does absolutely nothing from ur skin and u can see 10x the results with a normal serum

[@currentusername3533]

@@zonteven2167I have very sensitive reactive skin and it helps me 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@nekomeow3161]

I started using not from tiktok it was actually yt but I found some wash and a moisturizer not (corox) bought them and really improved my skin in almost 2 months, its so clear and smooth so snail mucin is a yes for me dermatologist say its great!

[@celenachandler]

I got a Stanley cup recently but it was free, my law school was just handing them out to people one day and I snagged one before they were gone. Otherwise, I have a $10 bottle I got years ago that still works to this day.

[@sharonharris9782]

I love free things 😂

[@8luvbug]

​@@sharonharris9782 Same. I wouldn't mind a Stanley Cup if it was free.

[@thegabbybshow]

This video is awesome. I bought a Simply Modern version of the Stanely cup for half the price and it's awesome. $700 for a hair styling product is INSANE you may as well go to the salon for a blow out once a week! And let's be real, your dog does not need that little bag!! THANKS FOR THIS CARA!

[@juliajs1752]

Since I have only reddit and no other social media, you teach me what is "in" and not to buy it all at once! That's efficient :) Merry Christmas!

[@krystiesolfyre5340]

Please keep these videos coming! Love them and it really is helpful.

[@milkyuqii]

i need a video like this every day, currently stopping buying everything i see online!! the issue was real and these video’s really help a lot!! it’s harder then in thought tho, so it really can become an addiction:((

[@WeatherGirlWares]

From watching the top five Amazon products videos, I've bought the silicon bases for the metal bottles in the shower to stop the rust getting on your bath tub and magnetic hat clips for your bag which saves you having to carry your hat when you are not wearing it, and honestly these products have been so useful. However, it's about deciphering between a want and a need when it comes to spending in general. Great video, thank you for sharing.

[@julianajaxson]

The fundraisers are amazing! Thanks for being a good person! Happy Holidays!

[@tikki2340]

I wanted to say thank you for promoting mindful consumption. Possibly this isn’t the same thing, but I’ve been struggling to stop drinking soda, and that idea has given me the strength to start making better choices and to go for what I actively want

[@catsnekos5002]

Quality over quantity.

[@KimberlyMDonahue]

Proud to say I’ve had my classic style uggs for 12+ years! Yes they are a bit crusty on the outside, no they are not photographable but dang they are as comfy as the day I got them before I turned 15.

[@tricksykenbbit1997]

None of these products were things I would've bought anyway, but I will say that I did fall down the Kleen Kanteen viral water bottle trend a long time ago and got one with the metal inside-lid and honestly it was the best choice because I've been using that water bottle for 8 years now and I love it. It's over a litre and it fits in most water bottle slots in backpacks.

[@dylevente]

i love you for this comment bc ever since i downsized to a bag w water bottle holders that only fit 250ml cans i have been STRUGGLING to find a thin bottle that holds over 180ml

[@RabiaSammy]

When i was a younger teen, youtubers would always promote the clarisonic face brush! its just one eg i can think of in the early influencer days. I remember i always wanted one but i was like 12, but growing up now i see how much marketing can actually affect us, bc i ended up buying a really good dupe when i was a bit older and a lot of dermatologists dont even reccomend using these brushes for many reasons, and nowadays you barely see anyone using a brush like that on their face lol. it ended up being useless and awful for my skin

[@Scott.Sandifer]

I'm curious what Cara thinks about any relationship between gender and viral products. I would imagine viral product trends are just as effective in manipulating purchase decisions of men, but I can't seem to recall as many examples as readily as I can those appealing to women. Perhaps toy lightsabers or video games or something? Still, it seems heavily weighted to one side. I wonder if that's true, or just an indication of my personal bias. Regardless, might be an interesting topic.

[@CutYourBangs9]

Totally agree with that. As a woman, I feel like most product trends I've seen have been targeted at women, usually to meet beauty standards or as status symbols. I think this is just an extension or concentration of an unattainable standard that's been expected of women for many many years now. It's really only new in how fast it moves. I can't speak much for men, though, as I'm not one. I'd be curious to see how this same phenomenon works when targeting men, and how much of it is fundamentally the same.

[@ThisUserPassedAway]

Yeah the gender aspect of it definitely has a huge impact it’s obvious

[@customarymagic]

I haven't done any research on this so I'm just throwing things out there, but I'm wondering if it's tied to the culture around gender as a whole. Women are constantly treated as high maintenance and obsessed with shopping from a young age, so I'm thinking all this influencing targeting them has something to do with that.

[@shiina29]

I think because everyone's putting pictures of themselves online now, men are also starting to get a small taste of the intense pressure women have always felt and there are viral beauty products for men, too, I think. They're far less common, though, because the beauty standards for men basically allow them you stay as they are (no makeup or major changes to their hair, etc) so they don't need any products to do that.

[@Tzinacacihuatl]

That would actually be a great subject for a video essay! I think that's because femininity is inherently artificial. Masculinity is supposed to be a man in his natural state, but to be femenine a woman needs to alter her appearance through clothes, hair styling, make-up, shaving etc. to fit her society's current femininity standard. Through time and in many different societies men have had more natural, less elaborate styles that are more oriented towards practicality, whereas women have been pushed towards a focus on appearance to a point where even in today's world where women also do practical work (we've always done it but that's for another day) even the tools we're supposed to use are "cute" or "pretty", things that enhance our overall look. It's like we're always performing for an audience, even when alone, as if we were our own voyeurs. It's kind of disturbing if you think too much about it. It's also why women that refuse to participate in this (think butch lesbians and tomboy het/bi women) are seen as "unfeminine" and accused of trying to "be men" even though they're just being their natural selves. Femininity is directly tied to consumption. You *need* stuff to build your femininity as it's not inherent to womanhood (yes they are completely different things). Think how many industries would go bankrupt if women suddenly decided to just be their natural selves... Bye bye makeup industry, fast fashion... Less money for hair stylists, plastic surgeons and shaving tools brands... It would be chaos. Maybe gay men would save them..

[@gabrielaalvesdasilva9441]

Everytime i feel like speading money, i come to watch your videos. It brings me back to reality REALLLLLLLLL quick hahaha thanks!

[@marialeg2367]

Merry Christmas, Cara! While I was watching I thought "what the heck is so wrong with this world that someone has to deinfluence you to deter you from buying a human dog bed!". Some people may call it de-influencing, I call it common sense lol.

[@EmeraldAshesAudio]

I'm having such a hard time picturing people actually buying that bed. I can see why it went viral, though. It's amusing to look at.

[@Scarletcroft]

We absolutly need more Deinfluencers on the internet in general. Talking people down from buying useless crap.

[@PrettyPrincess9609]

My previous job gave me two water bottles for free last year. I still use it to this day. I think it’s ridiculous to buy multiple expensive water bottles just because it’s trendy.

[@karsyn4616]

i wanted something that fit in my cup holder and kept my drinks cold. i also like having a big pretty water bottle. i think the real problem is when someone buys more than one which defeats the purpose of a reusable water bottle

[@Sylvelourie]

"If you walk into a thrift store, you could probably find yourself a water bottle" Are you kidding? I was just at Goodwill today and half of one side of an aisle was full of them. I took a picture because it was so bizarre to me.

[@silvermelons]

I ordered a simply modern Stanley dupe because I liked the handle and it fits my drinking habits. Also leaks less.

[@jessica23claire]

I didn't want to buy any of these things in the first place but I just enjoy your whole concept of talking us out of buying stuff we don't need. I'm trying to be better with my money and it helps to have someone talk me off the impulse buying ledge.

[@jpj0123]

I love with “it’s not a firm grip, it’s gonna make you trip” - will think about that every time I buy shoes from now on

[@user-sh3xo1gj7q]

The first second made me fall in love with the concept of a croissant lamp haha I have decent enough lighting in my room already, but if not, I'd have gotten the urge to get it 😂😂

[@beckahcruz7463]

I have been obsessed with water bottles since 2014. At the time I worked outdoors all year long and the idea of my water staying cool in the summer was brand new. I was obsessed, but only bought two for work and then was gifted several more. Its been a few years since I bought any new water bottles. I finally caved and got a Stanley when i saw they have a leak proof version. It has a screw on lid and straw that folds down. This actually works for me and my lifestyle. I really wanted a larger bottle that could also fit in a cupholder. I use it everytime I leave the house. I love the color I got too. That being said I cant help but feel a little embarrassed by it. I feel like a joined a club I dont want to be apart of 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@flanthief]

I'm glad I've never heard of Stanley cups till right now, or really most of these products. Shows my low screen time this year is more than just a number. As for the Uggs, I've always just simply liked them, minus their shitty ruber sole. I still have a tall pair that I've had since 2011 and wear regularly in the winter. Take care of your stuff guys, it can last if you maintain it ❤️

[@seadragon1456]

I have OG tall chestnut Ugg’s that were made in Australia. They have the rubble sole with thick ugg logo imprinted on them. My brother paid $300 on my 16th birthday (9 years ago.) I wore the heck out of them as a teenager and they are still in awesome condition today. I consider them vintage now so they only get to go out a couple times a year. I LOVE THEM!!

[@meganmoore2826]

I love this content! And I also have a Stanley cup that I love 😂 I received it as a Christmas present from someone who knows me well, and I use it all the time. But I’m never mad to hear someone deinfluencing unnecessary purchases or to promote more intentional consumption ❤

[@persephone.rincon]

honestly tbank you so much for these. im not one for trends but i did have a shopping addiction to fill the void and burn cash. im in a small credit card debt so hopefully i can pay that off soon and be done with all the frivolous spending i used to do and save my money for something i actually may need in the future. im doing great so far ❤️🤧

[@smaylien]

ur videos are so so important rn! everyone getting cash for xmas is gonna go out and buy a buncha shit w it in the new year and ur helping everyone be more mindful :D

[@iambatman9420]

Cara - I love your thoughtfulness and your calm delivery! Thanks for making videos on this important and interesting topic :)

[@MrTentaclesHasAllTheTalent]

I am so removed from trends that I actually thought the Stanley Cup was some sports tournament before this video. 😅

[@virginiamcdaniel7248]

I recently bought a new water bottle, but I had started watching this channel beforehand and used what I learned here in thoughtfully purchasing one. It's a glass water bottle that has time and measurement markings on the side, two different lids (one with a hole for a straw, one with a yarn handle), a metal straw that came with it, a steeper for fruits, and a nice colored rubber protective covering. Thought process behind purchasing that I took away from here? It's reusable and probably better for me than plastic. Although it doesn't always keep the water completely cold, a fridge and more ice is a very easy fix for that. It's the only water bottle I take to and from work, as it's very much a desk bottle since it is glass, but the protective rubber cover helps with grip and helps a little with durability (I'm also cautious with it anyways and not tossing it to random places). That being said, the clear bottle with time and measurement markings were something I was looking for since I am making the effort to drink more water daily. Knowing my own habits, I tend to drink more of whatever is in front of me when there is a straw and I'm not having to worry about unscrewing a lid or flipping a cap. Ergo, a bottle with a straw to encourage drinking more water was a must. Do I use my other lid? No, not really, but I have it in case I do need or want to use it. I also don't really use the steeper, but it is an option if I decide to put fruit in my water at some point, or make the bottle of water iced tea instead. The only real downside I've experienced thus far is having to handwash the bottle, but it came with a good sponge to wash it with that reaches all the way inside the bottle. Price of it? Less than $30. I've had it for over 3 months and haven't had to use a single other water bottle aside from going to the gym.

[@michelle48]

I got a hydroflask a few years ago (I am fortunate in that I didn't pay for it myself but I asked for it as a holiday gift) to meet a specific need - I needed a leakproof water bottle big enough that could hold enough water for a long hike and was insulated so the water wasn't boiling 2 hours in. Now that I have that water bottle, along with a couple smaller sized insulated water bottles that I got for free from work, I do not have any more need for water bottles. When I see videos about water bottle trends, I sometimes feel self conscious that I did get a hydroflask when it was popular, but when you said to examine your why and if it's related to trends, I felt better. I had a specific need and I knew through the reviews of this super popular bottle that it would meet my needs. And that's okay!

[@amyc8349]

I would love to see more of these videos de-influencing specific products like this!!

[@KaiH-o8f]

I have the Ugg’s. But there the middle high ones with bows and there very comfortable

[@Emilyweasel2023]

I love my Ugg boots/slippers and the airondack boots are so comfy and good for walks in rainy countryside

[@olgacano9789]

I recently started watching your videos. I'm impressed with how a like we think, I just can't put my thoughts into words like you. Love your essay videos!! We are just here on this earth for so long, I don't know why we are so obsessed with accumulating things we don't need

[@christiechung9039]

I have had my Dyson airwrap over a year now and haven't regreted my purchase. It makes my hair exactly how I want it with minimal time and effort. I don't even think about how much money I spent buying it anymore and I can't live without it. I would rather have one quality product that do the job well than penny pinching and going through a few cheap dupes hoping to find one that works.

[@Aquaria2291]

That's how I feel about the Revair. I got mine on sale for like $400, which sounds psychotic for a blow dryer. But it's honestly been a godsend, I'm no longer afraid to do my hair. 😂 And considering the savings for not having to go to the salon for blowouts and trims, it has already paid for itself. Some things are just worth the investment, but you have to be thoughtful about it.

[@mandyblex-iv1sc]

All of these trends have passed me by, without noticing. I think it’s a good sign 😂

[@Opioidmoon]

I never wanted any of these in the first place, but was curious to know why others were going nuts over them. Thanks!

[@rose-co1xz]

That’s it! Store my ashes in my teal yeti cup I got for Christmas in 2018. I love her

[@rudolfrainer]

Although I can't say much about fashion, trendy products and these kind of things I have to say that I like your videos and your motivation behind them. It's great to see people on the other side of the spectrum when there's so much wrong with our world.

[@combatcarl]

As millennial without tiktok, I wasn't compelled to buy any of those things yo begin with, I just like watching caras content.

[@aslaltnklc9845]

I did jump in with the Stanley cup trend in late December because of that viral video and Stanley's reply to it. I just loved that they cared enough to acknowledge how good of a PR that original video was and decided to reward her with a new car (which is also a pr move on its own but at least it's sth positive). However, I really didn't find that tumbler/quencher product very useful so I got myself a small quick flip from them which is just as cute imo and I can actually carry it in my bag without any leaking. It also made a positive impact on my water intake which was a plus. I understand the hype but I'm sure that trend is gonna die off in a minute and especially people who don't drive won't bother to carry that huge cup with them. In addition, while the Dyson Airdrop may be a little easier for people with disabilities bc you don't need to move the device as much as regular hair devices, I think that price tag is not it. I used one before, it looked beautiful when I first did my hair but the curls didn't hold over 5 minutes and I have thick hair that holds curls as if I was born with them. The friend who let me use it never has any curls nor perfectly straight hair in any of her photos which makes me think that the device doesn't really give you a long lasting hairdo.

[@briansundayatc]

More deinfluencing!!! MOAR.

[@MamaTrauma]

My local thrift shop has a whole shelf of outdated Starbucks tumblers. Wait long enough and you'll find what you're looking for. As far as human dog beds I wonder how many have broken up relationships because of the lack of close snuggle time and intimacy?

[@prettygeekchic]

I love the rise the "human-sized dog bed". I feel like a lot of things like this were once just tools in SpEd that are SO EXPENSIVE. Them going viral have made them much more affordabe for school districts, therapy offices, county programs, and private residences/homes for kids and adults who need that deep pressure. Where some medium districts could afford one or two that was shared within the highest need classrooms, now multiple classrooms can have them. Influencing can have a positive influence in terms of helping people find what they need, though there can be a lot ads and crap to sift through first.

[@MissGreenTeaLady]

I got a Yeti water bottle for Christmas in 2017 and she's still going strong. Had to get a replacement lid after dropping it on concrete but aside from that, it holds water and works fine. I also still have my old Nalgene from the 2000s that I use when I go hiking.

[@Justme_elizabeth]

I needed this. Just in time for sales. I now can rest at home and not worry about shopping ❤

[@DisneyDahling]

Thank you for helping me put my shit together this year Cara! I have a long way to go but I think 2024 will finally be the year that I save up my emergency funds since 2016!

[@macy725]

Yeah I don't buy products pushed by influencers. I prefer people that have like 20,000 subscribers and are doing a review of something they've actually owned.

[@Tzinacacihuatl]

Or people like this channel's star... Anti-influencers 😂

[@noonunoon]

I love the deinfluencing vids. kinda slap my impulse buying self in the face. need moreeee of this thanks. your content is always quality.

[@MeatballDragon1]

What a great series, keep this "Deinfluencing" going!!

[@Aquaria2291]

I'm with you on all of these except for the Uggs. As I always say, Uggs till they bury me! 😂 I don't get the Tasman hype, but I love the mini and short classic boots and the Alameda slip on sneakers. Which incidentally, last longer and are more supportive than any other slip on sneaker I've purchased. I was an Ugg girl in 2008 and 2018, and I'm gonna be one in 2028, 38, and 48. It is how it is! 😂

[@roden70]

I hadn't seen any of the products you mention but that's because I'm hardly on social media (except KZbin). I have 1 bamboo waterbottle and that's because in the media they said it wasn't healthy to use an empty waterbottle over and over. I don't do trends and I detest fast fashion. We need more de influencers like you because I saw a video about what 13 year olds ask for christmas and I was stunned to see things like Dior make up and expensive skincare.

[@Max-OCATCBuff]

So glad I'm the type of contrarian jerk who will avoid things because they are super-popular. Airbuds? No thanks, my skullcandy wireless headphones work great. Stanley Cup? Weird to type that, but my Polar Bottle still holds needed water after three years. And yes, Feliz Nochebuena to all. I love these videos, and most consumerism is so crass and embarrassing to all involved.

[@aquacrystal03]

same. the more popular a product is. the more I am averted to buy. I don't like owning the same things as other people😩 ik it's not a good mindset to have, a bit of pick me but it saves me money so I take it as a win😹

[@MelanatedHomesteadher]

Yep yep

[@silverlining9439]

That's such a cool and useful type of video! I'd be happy to see more of those from you especially when I was a bit interested in buying some of these products. Thank you because now I truly see that I don't need any of them.

[@virtuallydee2262]

This was spot on as a couple of these were on my “maaaaaaaaybe I’ll give it a shot” list. You just talked me out of Uggs and Dyson.

[@crh.hedgehogs]

This is the first time I've seen you. I enjoy the soothing sound of your voice, I'm subbing ❤

[@ancientneophyte8322]

You are speaking truth. I remember my teen years and the feeling of affirmation I got from buying a forest green Gant shirt with a locker loop. That went away just as quickly as I started paying rent. I never did figure out why the locker loop was of any value. Keep 'em comin'

[@cinesanders8522]

I realized how influenced I was this year when seeing the only thing I didn't get was the tiny backpack (my dogs are tiny) and the dyson (even with a coupon, it would've been a $200 purchase I couldn't explain).

[@HeavymetalHylian]

Instead of buying an air wrap, get a salon quality heat protecting spray with medium hold, and a set of velcro rollers with clips. If you let your hair completely cool in the rollers, your hair will keep its shape for 2-3 days. You can use any old curling or flat iron as long as it’s heating your hair up, and then cooling down in the roller. If you let the curl cool without a roller for support, gravity pulls and stretches the curl.

[@Slippin_fred]

This was a good video. I didn’t even know about the dog backpack. I don’t have social media and I think one of the Pro’s of it it being easily influenced and shown trendy items, I think if anyone is struggling with overconsumption of trendy items , they should take a break from TikTok for sure ! Also for the Ugs I don’t see a major problem like the other items , if someone thinks ugs are cool looking like how I do I think that’s fair but buying every color would seem obsessive 💀. I hope you have a great Christmas :)

[@smishdws]

I personally think one nice water bottle you love is nice though. My one and only bottle is a premium-branded steel insulated bottle. $14 on sale, so much easier to clean than normal bottles, neutral and minimalist with basically invisible branding, very premium-feeling, and always a joy to use. I guess you just gotta be careful not to get carried away with chasing trends and buying more than you need, but this is otherwise a big win in terms of daily pleasure for me.

[@adrianghandtchi1562]

6:19 the leaking is the main reasons why I did not want those kinds of water bottles. I still have my water container from 2020. Still holds ice.

[@vvitch-mist20]

I spent $13 on my metal water bottle, and it doesn't leak. It was on sale, but even at full price it was like ~$10 less expensive.

[@swiftiexx526]

My mom has the dyson air wrap and I tried it and it's terrible. It didn't hold my curls at all and it's so loud, especially if you're holding it right next to your ear. The air it blasts out is just as hot as a straightener, but now this hot air is being blasted on onto your hands. It's also difficult to work with and understand and I got burns on my scalp. 100% not worth the $600.

[@kirstypoppy]

I'm so grateful I'm obsessed with the 40s/50s/60s/ where they made everything last, I do really cheap meals for myself, I buy second hand clothes, I've learnt to sew. Very basic, but still.. I love being cheap, I'm not tight by any means, I just like the best deals. I used to be a spender. Very badly, but I started watching shopping hauls to get my shopping fix😆 and now saving money gives me the high shopping once gave.

[@lulupomegranate]

How does that work for your overall financials? Are you able to save more, invest where needed?

[@kirstypoppy]

@lulupomegranate absolutely, I have over £2k in my savings, I never ever thought I could have that much, whenever I get paid, I put it all in my savings & just draw across what I need.. or I put £200 in a week, in my bank, and try to live off that. Sometimes, I have to dip into it, but the majority I just keep adding.

[@adrienneb.4710]

I still have my Hydroflask and use it. It has taken a beating being dropped but still holds water and keeps it cold.

[@RhiReviews]

I have 3 pairs of Ugg boots - 2 pairs I’ve owned for 10+ years (longer style boots, and one pair has a proper outdoor/rubber sole). A year ago I bought a shorter ankle style pair. I honestly love my ugh boots and don’t care whether they stay in fashion or not 😂 - which let’s face it, will come and go many times (I’m 38 and they’ve been in fashion at least twice in the last 15ish years haha).

[@raniressler]

I purchased a $20 glass water bottle with a silicone wrap which wasn’t completely necessary, but I didn’t like the plastic taste of my old water bottle. I don’t plan to get another one until this one breaks. It came with two different lids so it’s perfect for at home and on the go! As for hair care, I’m a sucker for wanting more hair stuff! I decided for my New Year’s resolution that I’m not going to put heat onto my hair (except for the occasional need to dry my hair). I’ve been learning how to do heartless curls with my bathrobe tie! They actually turn out pretty fantastic! The only downside is I can’t wear my bathrobe the way I like🤣

[@Lynn-rv4ty]

i understand having a handful of water bottles even if it’s just for yourself bc they need to be washed and i don’t always have the energy to do that so i’ll either not drink water or drink out of a disgusting bottle, it is nice to have A FEW options to make sure im staying hydrated until im able to wash them all again

[@bigboldsoul]

Not the human dog bed being in my Amazon wishlist girlllll

[@geokowalski314]

8:43 the kid straight up throwing their doll killed me

[@Hhhyyookii2233]

8:16 * Uggs are made with animal cruelty, the animals suffer terrible pain when their fur is taken from them for these shoes. I think that's why the price is actually justified, which doesn't make it morally okay.! 🥺😭

[@jean4157]

Confession. I bought the dyson airwrap and love it. I think I bought a refurbished one. Can’t believe how fast it dries. My particular hair works great with it. But I admit it was a crazy purchase