Demand her RESPECT, not her approval

[@realestatewithaarontrevino]

The Italian mafia movie Elliott is talking about is called Bronx Tale. One of my favorite movies. So much wisdom about life, death, business, friendship, etc. That movie always helps get my mind right.

[@701delbronx8]

It’s a liberal movie

[@zen-ventzi-marinov]

Very good movie indeed!

[@ingrained2train]

You said something that really hit! I’ve been doing inner child work and one thing I realized is my dad never affirmed me, never made my feelings valid as a kid, a shut up and do it mentality. He always spoiled my sisters, never told my youngest sister no but always told me no. I realized it led to a lot of issues as an adult however one that I realized and Elliot made it a point here is that I spent my whole life chasing validation from women, simped at the highest level for women who didn’t deserve it, toxic relationships, all for that validation I never got I went through a process to work through this but man I wish I learned this 10 years ago, would’ve saved me a lot of money and stress

[@thomasgrabowski2202]

"You want her loyalty" You want her respect" Amen brother.

[@yousseflahbabi3842]

I was actually thinking about that this week.. I saw my lady check out quite quickly when I would talk about my new business and I didn't know what to make of it. Now, it's quite clear. Thank you Elliott!

[@xBlackSeedxghost]

Appreciate what you're doing over here Elliot. This video was facts

[@profanotherletter4346]

Elliot is right, the last thing you want is your woman womansplaining to you how you should do what you do

[@Alexander-qd7nj]

I disagree. She could offer a perspective that you have not considered

[@daemondost7168]

@@Alexander-qd7nj a perspective rooted in feminine energy has little value, a man does not need that, you missed the entire point of the video.

[@Alexander-qd7nj]

@@daemondost7168 little value is still value. Also, not everything females say is rooted in feminine energy. A female can still offer a man advice that a man has never considered, and it could be useful. I think you missed the point of my comment.

[@DanielHernandez-sg3xu]

Yo Elliot! Thank you for the straight talk. It is vital this type of messaging reach more men. Remain strong and please be humble like Christ. Praying for you- keep it up!

[@yaboyjonez9476]

Nothing but truth spoken here! Strong Old School Elliott vibes here mind you haven't been here in a while. Great to see you still helping us men out here. Thank you!

[@mustbecome]

King Elliot! Thank you brother. This is really good advice and we appreciate having philosopher kings like you (as Plato rightly said we need). Thank you for providing the value that you do to the community and making men strong again.

[@BruceWayne-rb1mb]

Elliott speaking truth in a time where truth is hard to find.

[@noblegamer8740]

Thanks Elliott! My wife and I are 30. I’ve got an extremely loyal and feminine wife but I have been hung up on this for a while. I’ve been thinking of starting a side gig and hope to make full time with cultural/philosophical analysis and entertainment with video games since it was such a large part of my youth. She is vehemently against anything related to video games and fights tooth and nail any time I try to be honest and tell her about this passion of mine. I’ve taken these as signs to continue to focus on building my family (we have 4 children with a 5th on the way next month) and my bank account. I still hope to bring this to fruition some day.

[@alexm6715]

My God bless you, your wife, your children, and your coming child!

[@ibrahimismail7881]

@Billy Gates why would video games be feminine? Probably childish yea

[@luislam96]

The value in this video is absolutely insane. Thank you

[@monkeyninefo1577]

Hey E, just to correct you about the movie. Biker scene is not from Goodfellas, it's from Bronx Tale.

[@fitforlife95]

Thank you for these yo eilliit video again.

[@ZeroFloat.]

I liked the last part of the video that we should burn the bridges and dive in and feel the pain of figuring out the life we have.

[@spiceguy94]

I love so much your uploading on KZbin again! I've learned so much from you in the past and can't wait to learn more. Appreciate you Elliot!

[@alexsomo2503]

God bless this man glad I found this channel

[@J1gtbfanpage]

1:45 it's true . I've been thinking all that time that my wife was suppose to be interested in what i do .

[@Kristoffceyssens]

God speaking trough your mouth. Thank you.

[@fashionandfrags]

Had to see who this Elliot Hulse guy was after Aaron Marino gave him a shout out on How To Beast’s channel. Said he reigned over the manosphere or something like that and thought it weird I never heard of him. Elliot looks like a third Hodge twin.

[@teamtash]

Thank you for always speaking truth, Elliott

[@juevosrantsyoutube]

Great video, ole uncle E!

[@ayaz12yearsago23]

@ᴇʟʟɪᴏᴛᴛ ʜᴜʟsᴇ 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Feldspar__]

Tell them Elliott.

[@segmann3]

Dont demand respect people, earn it. Shes not supposed to fear her authentic behaviour around you because you as a man isnt always perfect and you wont always get respect. If you demand respect, in reality you just dont wanna realize that you have weaknesses and you force her to act like she admires you 24/7 which she dont and it is weak to avoid this by forcing the respect.

[@loveoverhate7503]

Sounds like you don't know there is different types of respect. Your talking about appeasing someone's ego which isn't real respect. Maybe fear based respect at most and real loving person doesn't want that kind unless the world's mad and there is no other option (that would be rare).

[@segmann3]

@@loveoverhate7503 what is your argument? I am saying there cant be no demanding of respect. Did you disagree with that or no?

[@loveoverhate7503]

@@segmann3 you can demand respect. If the respect is not what you deem worthy you walk away. If have to use other means to demand respect its not worth it.

[@loveoverhate7503]

@@segmann3 you can demand without force. Your last sentence makes it sound like force is the only way to demand.

[@vb2806]

@@loveoverhate7503 demanding means it wasn't being given and that means either you are not worthy or she doesn't see the value. In both cases leave.

[@MoneyAli75]

Life coaching n content creation ..the next Elliot

[@breatheeasily4013]

If you are frustrated like I was, just DO SOMETHING in the good way.

[@CarTorqSA]

Good Ol’ Elliot is back ! 🙏 Much love

[@mikeysolo6319]

Can one be truly respectful without self respect? 🤔 💭

[@breatheeasily4013]

🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

[@ydiabO]

No.

[@ayaz12yearsago23]

good question

[@theacneclearchef2952]

No.

[@jackrobertson5423]

Another great thing to point out is how we get Father and Mother love from Jesus, our maker. He tells us that all he needs to be proud of us is that we have faith in him and not even Satan is separate from his love, (as he demonstrates during the 40 day fast when he was tempted by offering Satan his hand in redemption) but also he will tell us the brutal truth and never lie to us. I dom't think it is possible to fully overcome this human need in our lives on earth, but we do need love from both. That's why we have Christ, because a man shall leave his parents to become one with his wife but that is a union with God also, and the path of initiation is being initiated with God and receiving his love on both sides

[@jurgenchristiansen6075]

Thank you brother.

[@SpecialRey4319OGGUY]

Man I love this topic 🔥🔥🔥

[@diegonayalazo]

Thanks E

[@noracarvalho8323]

EARN her RESPECT..Done!..lol😆

[@angelvillarreal3648]

‘Ol uncle E. Respect man.

[@kinGsaL1515]

I liked that thumbnail, it looked good.

[@BeDynamic2]

Thank you sir it's very insightful.

[@reydotcom5568]

Agreed, you don't want her in your business... Also, he needs to let go of that love language bs... No reason to self restrain and compartmentalize, .. All that is feminist/betas bs

[@knowledgeofhealth7821]

Thanks uncle E

[@samuelcharles7642]

Thumbnails been looking good

[@MasteryOrder]

Entertain yourself with other ideas as well. If you enjoy challenging ideas and if mastery and masculinity are subjects that interest you, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel. Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire. We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well. Looking forward to your points of view. All the best to you!

[@tomasjonas3067]

One thing is to write a comment, other thing is to make a video or say it face to face 😅

[@neevshriker9458]

Very spicy!!!! Love it!

[@livingweaponnightmare]

A man that finds a God ordained wife ought to marry immediately as Elliott did because now he has no choice but to succeed.

[@roblowe1133]

Yo Elliot I literally bitch smacked my girl after watching ! Finally after years, it works gents

[@markcarroll6252]

A Bronx Tail bro... Sonny is the guy.. Sonny and his guys.

[@michaelpatterson7062]

Elliot says iron sharpens iron, but the part that i'm not sure about is when he says one iron has to allow the other iron to sharpen it around 9:30.. Thoughts? I wonder if that is not the case and iron sharpens iron even when the receiving iron DOESN'T WANT TO RECEIVE IT.. Thought experiment

[@alb6804]

I am the same way. I need that fire under me.

[@theramonejones]

Subbed

[@MasteryOrder]

entertain yourself with other ideas as well. If you enjoy challenging ideas and if mastery and masculinity are subjects that interest you, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel. Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire. We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well. Looking forward to your points of view. All the best to you!

[@BobbyTomMathew]

Great video.

[@MasteryOrder]

feel free to entertain yourself with some other ideas as well. If you enjoy challenging ideas and if mastery and masculinity are subjects that interest you, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel. Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire. We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well. Looking forward to your points of view. All the best to you!

[@breatheeasily4013]

The woman I talked to hasnt DMed yet since morning. What should I do or not do? I care very little, thats the right mindset but I should care...none!

[@theflash8264]

Stop caffeine, you’ll thank me later!!!.

[@dushyantsingh7923]

Wait for 2-3 days atleast. Women sometimes play such games to test men’s patience.

[@dushyantsingh7923]

When you guys again start talking, don’t bring that up that she wasn’t replying, it would make you sound desperate. Be laid back. Good luck buddy!

[@iElia]

It sounds like the old game lol, shes tryna see if u are desperate or if u will spam text her, just keep on living ur life, and she will text u soon enough, and if she doesnt then she wasnt interested..

[@breatheeasily4013]

@@iElia Exactly. I always give people freedom.

[@n-tv5fm]

💯💯💯

[@shlomorothstein9691]

I can't even get a girl to not ghost me after the 2nd message on bumble.

[@shlomorothstein9691]

@Cheese Doodle nyggah Jaw surgery

[@shlomorothstein9691]

@@absolutetruth3290 I was never in social media, and I've been hitting the gym for 4 years now. And why can't they ghost me in real life? I'd have to get their number eventually and I could get ghosted then. It's no different than dating apps

[@nero86er]

@@shlomorothstein9691 it’s very different than dating apps my boy. You’re interacting with her more intimately because you’re in person. Stay in masculine frame, keep eye contact, and just ask questions and let her do all the talking while active listening. Show some personality and not be goofy. Do it a few times and it gets easier.

[@gemmac565]

What if you are not interested in something your husband does for work and you are supportive, but it (your husbands work) hurts your family life and he does not seem to mind that it does? My husband coaches football and it keeps him away too much. We do not need the money from this. It’s mostly just enjoyable for him. As a stay at home mom, I see the kids missing him and angry that he can’t see them each day or on a regular schedule. I am not angry I just don’t like an irregular home life. If I mention it isn’t working well for us he acts as though I am attacking him. I am praying and have started fasting for him. I wish i could do more for him to see the light? Do you have any suggestions?

[@ivbolt]

I kinda have the feeling that if your husband would be kinder you wouldn't be that interested in him.

[@yeahhhhhhbuddy9899]

Truth stings I’ve been craving mommy love. How do I get over this?

[@howelljordan3469]

Forgive her for resenting her. And forgive your dad for not protecting you from her. You will be released and your eyes will start to open and you can deal with them with true love. All is well and God is actually with you.

[@daemondost7168]

get into a survival situation. go out into the wilderness where mommy can't save you. you'll become a man real quick.

[@marksavoia3687]

Virginity and Scriptural Literacy

[@sawyerr9841]

Doing the work for it though? Good psychological and life (like plans and schedule) match?

[@Shadybiglpac]

Good video

[@samuelcharles7642]

🔥🔥

[@SandeepSabarish]

hey Mr.Hulse Im 17 feels cringe to say but, I have never been in a relationship or dates, The girl I loved ditched me after giving me so much Attention and care, I feel so lost and damned. Like the first thought after waking up is her and my day is filled with thoughts of where did I go wrong and even today morning I got dream like I have been cheated. brother it feels like Unending scar like every girl I love even If Im in a relationship with them they will cheat me if a better guy arrives, I really don't know Why Im feeling like this maybe the way I was treated in childhood. Can you advice me to get away from these kind of thoughts

[@SickSilverado1982]

You're at that age where it'll feel "world ending". Hang in there brother. It happens, many of us have been there. Surround yourself with good friends that help you smile through the pain. Hopefully Elliott sees your comment and gives you some good advice. Good luck brother.

[@MD-eo2wy]

Would a male or female be better for a therapist for a man?

[@yoelliott]

Male

[@MD-eo2wy]

@@yoelliott thanks man

[@vb2806]

One that is good at their job. That's like asking would a male or female doctor be better for something else. If they are good their gender doesn't matter .

[@daemondost7168]

@@vb2806 the gender absolutely matters, a woman could never heal a broken man. only man can rebuild man. wake up.

[@xXNewProdigyXx]

Elliot, would you recommend dating a girl that works at my same 9-5 job? & the job that I work at is a warehouse & is mostly just men that I work with.

[@eorozco7]

No. Unless you leave or she does.

[@daemondost7168]

absolutely not. never mix work and relationships.

[@MatthewSmith-uf6tr]

Don’t shit where you eat sir.

[@somepolishdude9853]

Correction, EARN her respect.

[@Pistolsmoke24]

After what happened to Andrew Tate, I worry about this channel.

[@CarolinaRealEstateGuide]

Burn the ships and don’t look back

[@ChristieFL88]

Love the Divine Mercy Poster. I like this guy who is in his 50’s. He acts like an alpha male with me/ towards me. But he acts like a bata male with his friends (aka he lets woman control him). I work with him. When he wants something done asap he will give me a stern look in his eyes. He expects more from me. I’m confused does he like me? I like traditional way. I am 34.

[@erbauungstutztaufgnade1875]

Good. In the New Testament there you can see that Paul edifies his congregations mostly together with admonition. But the greater part is the edification if the congregation is not proud at heart but very willing. So therefore it´s written to always admonish in love.

[@zbigniewiksinski]

problem with elliot, with all due respect, is he was and is in marriage/ralationship with ONE girl from which teenage years, you CANT be in that position and understand what "market" looks like now and how it is in currently when your 20-30 years old, how dating looks NOWADAYS and so on. hes the dude in his age, how can you relate and talk about issues of people 10-15-20 years younger in that position? its different mentality, totallly, in both sexes.

[@yoelliott]

All I'm offering are TIMELESS principles.

[@yoelliott]

Male and female nature DOES NOT CHANGE.

[@vb2806]

@@yoelliott it does, change is inevitable and evolution demands it.

[@ydiabO]

@@vb2806 i have to disagree with you. Human nature has never and it will never change. Even if society programs you in a certain way, we still have this innate feeling, both males and females, to know when something is off in a relationship.

[@JitinMisra]

@@yoelliott Elliot I would love to see a video, if you can explain why we think of previous crushes and loves that we did not pursue Bc they lacked certain values, but we still think about em, why?

[@adamj2683]

You view things so single-mindedly. Like a child. People can want common interests/hobbies/careers from a spouse for many more reasons than just wanting "mommy love" like you apparently did.

[@vb2806]

Aww poor Elliott scared of a little competition?

[@adamj2683]

Eve can be a helper to Adam in things other than baby-making (which is all your wife is capable of apparently). It's sad you have such a warped perspective. Many people have wives that have overlapping interests & careers and it creates a synergy you can't even imagine Elliott. You get so easily boxed into rigid edifices of beliefs that you can't see reality clearly or see all the beautiful possibilities of reality.

[@Scottium]

this man has gone off the deep end

[@sethhall6200]

Society has gone off he deep end. Remaining in traditional values isn't GOING anywhere

[@Scottium]

@@sethhall6200 what is a traditional value

[@sethhall6200]

@@Scottium being hard working, truthful, firm in what you know is right, honorable, faithful, and being dependable to name a few.

[@vb2806]

@@sethhall6200 yea and what about him being a misogynist?

[@sethhall6200]

@@vb2806 you're gonna have to justify that claim. It's just objectively untrue