Dexter & Lila’s Relationship Timeline 🔥

[@RamnaViaz]

I blame Lila for the decade or so between ages 16 and 26 that I spent pursuing crazy chicks 😂

[@ginao6810]

On behalf of the ladies, we blame Lila for making the “crazy chick” look so dam appealing. She was sex on legs

[@yung419]

😂 I’m dead so true

[@Some1whoRemembers]

For fuckin sure. To be fair she is a total smoke show..

[@valentina47734]

​@@Some1whoRemembersSmoke show it is

[@aegontargaryensixthofhisname]

yep

[@ReuploadArchivist]

My first “I can fix her” crush.

[@jchan9761]

lol that is a whole new level

[@LoneCat2137]

honestly same, she was first one for me too

[@MichaelF-cc8ri]

Simp.

[@ReuploadArchivist]

@@MichaelF-cc8ri tell me no one but you touched your pp without saying it

[@ReuploadArchivist]

@@MichaelF-cc8ri i bet u creep over Aster

[@Sniperboy5551]

I really liked Lila, she was playing on a similar field. She was like Dexter in that she immediately saw through his BS.

[@theroadrunner6880]

They made her psycho and ruined her imo. Like if she was a real psychopathic she should've played the long con more instead of losing it.

[@Local-Vibes4444]

@@theroadrunner6880 Yh a real psycho women would have tried to kill dexter without him knowing, she add ample chances to get up close and do it, even try to use sex or something else to do it whilst his guard is down, not trying to burn him alive with kids and a house I mean that isn't beyond what a psycho could do so I understand writers was trying to portray her as the aggressive violent obsessive type, pretty much borderline personality disorder But they could have done more with her, even doakes they killed him off far too early his character was gold and was one of the few people who knew who dexter really was too, I feel doakes wouldn't make mistake of confronting dexter alone in the middle of nowhere he was in the army and is too smart to make such a basic mistake, sloppy writing tbh

[@sparingpickle4918]

@@Local-Vibes4444don’t forget doakes had the blood slides. Left them in his car. And then flew across the world for a conversation he didn’t have to do face to face lol 😂

[@Local-Vibes4444]

@@sparingpickle4918 Exactly none of it makes sense you telling me a former marine/detective wouldn't know better? Doakes had a big ego and anger issues but he wasn't stupid the writers dumbed down a lot of the characters maybe so general audience don't have an issue understanding them but it was done too much lool They should have kept doakes around longer, he could have just took the headbutt from dexter since he's a marine so has probably had to take worse on the chin and just wait until he could catch him outside Then they could have given us a whole fight scene with them where we really see dexter karate training lol, then someone could call the cops and both of them would get suspended something like this then they could have done a lot with just that alone, they cut off characters they didn't need to for useless shock value which ultimately killed the show and ruined the ending to such a good show, a few small alterations to their scripts would see the show be a 10/10 easy

[@carljhonson6593]

I am the 398th like!!

[@hristohristov6488]

It was soo funny to see Doaxes face when she said : ' I'm Dexter soulmate!😂😂😂

[@RealBono]

He's thinking "is everyone in Miami fucking crazy?"

[@ashwaryp]

😅😆

[@Loafster_P]

Shit kills me every time 😂 bro couldn’t of had a worse day

[@PYRO_-pn9uu]

​@RealBono good pfp

[@thekamotodragon]

he's like "brooo, are you kidding me? the only other person to find me and they're also crazy! There's NO way my luck is that bad!"

[@richboyprado]

She’s criminally underrated as a character! She was an absolute ride or die for Dexter. A lot of people feel very strongly about how Dex didn’t have to kill Doakes. But it made complete sense for her character.

[@bufordhighwater9872]

She wasn't ride or die. She was mentally unstable.

[@kayleighlehrman9566]

She was rude *and* die

[@nikolay-e8l]

@@kayleighlehrman9566I think regardless Dexter was gonna kill oaks

[@unabashedlyluckynerd7148]

I love how insane Lila is She's my insane baddie

[@davida7229]

i could use a sponsor too 🫂

[@zofiaedo]

Lubiła ogień 👺🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🦀

[@gallosierra]

Lila was a walking red flag from the start...😳

[@Sniperboy5551]

That’s my kind of chick. Pray for me.

[@gallosierra]

@@Sniperboy5551 🙏🤣😆

[@DjDiamstatOfficial]

😂😂😂 underrated comment​@@Sniperboy5551

[@NajiHere]

Green flag *

[@Nikitas-X]

​@@Sniperboy5551 That's my kind of chick too 😭

[@WellnessWarriors9]

"You make yourself into a monster, so that you no longer bare responsibility for what you do" is a summation of the entire series. 😂

[@randomland2775]

She wasn’t the right love for Dexter. But she was my favorite. Bad as hell. Strange. And clingy. Minus the psycho part of her, you know you’d wish you could have a lover like that. Not one who wants to control you. Just someone who doesn’t care about not being perfect and is just so attached to you because they love you.

[@BenAri18]

Lila was super chilled at first but then we quickly saw how psychotic she was 😭 she killed Doakes

[@christianmooney1751]

Lila was literally climaxing when Dexter said dark passenger .

[@johnstriker480]

Miss "Pardon my t i t s" Lila

[@edward11762]

I've had plenty of "i think i can fix her" relationship's. There's a reason 0 have worked out. It's me 😂

[@themeltedchocolate]

People who say Dexter never loved Rita clearly weren't paying attention. Although Lila did make for a fabulous villain/affair

[@Nicole-vo1rx]

If he loved her he wouldn’t have hurt her or gotten her killed. He would have left Rita alone if he loved her. He brought Rita pain and death.

[@anagabrielateixeira5793]

Rita brought the best on him, Lila make him know himself and Hannah was the soulmate

[@sumeetdhoat6747]

What about Lumen or Angela?

[@Stoicdexter]

Hannah wasn’t the soulmate

[@jamillajohnson6108]

Deb was his soulmate... Deb was hot, Dex was cold.. One coin, two sides... This is proven in season 8, when he decided to kill himself but not before pulling the plug on Deb and taking her with him to the sea, abandoning his son & supposed love.. It's also shown again in New Blood.. It's Deb, Dex carries with him and it's Deb he reaches out for when he is dying... She was his conscience and link to his humanity. His comment to Harrison after he ask Dexter did he miss her. He says with unconditional surrender "Oh.. She is always in my thoughts." He didn't even care Hannah died, he cared what happened to Harrison after Hannah died.. And when speaking about Rita, he is completely blank, saying he had moved past it... The only time he shows emotion or a physical reaction to an emotion he's feeling, is when Harrison gives him a drawing of Deb.. He damn near collapses at the sight of her... That drawing was the first time he is seeing Deb... not just in his mind... but something tangible... Harrison didn't draw a picture of Rita or Hannah, the two women his father was so "in love" with...No... He drew a picture of Deb....

[@ultimate0706]

​@@jamillajohnson6108 They're siblings

[@jamillajohnson6108]

@@ultimate0706 And? Soulmate has nothing to do with siblings, romantic feelings or sex... It's SOUL- MATE. Deeper than the physical... it is the soul... Dexter's soulmate was Debra... It was clear as day from the very beginning... She is overflowing with emotions and he is void of them... She's hot/He's cold. They balanced one another out... He never fully felt comfortable with other woman if you actually pay attention to his mannerisms. Anytime Deb was angry or upset with him and his decisions... He would cozy up to someone that wasn't those things to him. From Lila to Hannah... I would make a exception for Lumen only because Deb didn't know about Luman until after the fact.. But anytime Deb was giving Dexter the cold shoulder or calling him on his B.S. he would cozy up to someone else in order to make himself feel the opposite... It wasn't until Deb forgave him, that he would leave those he romanced high and dry... Even Hannah made a comment about it.. "I never stood a chance against her, did I" Watch the seasons again and pay attention to how Deb and Dexter interact with one another and you'll see what I'm talking about... He always put Deb above anyone even himself...

[@SCARFACEKILLER9]

You forgot the scene at the aquarium when he tricks her into thinking he'll leave with her amd when she leaves he goes "you're going away with me alright, in a garbage bag."

[@androssteague]

RITA: oblivious to his dark passenger LILA: obsessed with his passenger LUMEN: needed his dark Passenger HANNAH: just accepted it.

[@sumeetdhoat6747]

You forgot about Angela

[@Beta_Kiryu]

@@sumeetdhoat6747give good dome on the side of the road

[@Sniperboy5551]

This is what AA/NA (12-step program) members call “13th stepping.” There’s a pretty hard rule against having a sponsor of the opposite sex for this very reason, but it still happens quite often. They end up dragging each other down when one of them ends up going back, which happens quite often.

[@caldo3385]

Yup! Men with men and women with women! It's easy to see how it happens you share vulnerability and open up but they say " you wouldn't try and date someone you met at a mental hospital or a sick person". It's a disease and we are sick people, I am sick 2 years sober in AA 🙏 🙌

[@Sniperboy5551]

@caldo3385 Good luck to you with your continued sobriety. One day at a time, as they say. I’m pretty familiar with the sayings 😉

[@bufordhighwater9872]

The 13th Step isn't specifically a relationship between sponsor and sponsored. Romantic relationships are the cliche, but it can be any interpersonal relationship that occurs outside of group, other than sponsorship.

[@Syl-Ph]

I love how he talks to the kids. Hes so good to them

[@PrinceIsot]

Never ignore the crazy eyes

[@jdubhub68]

I've had an actress crush on Jaime Murray since seeing her on Warehouse 13. She was definitely my favorite female lead after Rita and Lumen Pierce. It was necessary to the series for her to die, especially after she put Rita's kids in danger, but I could listen to her read the phone book and be happy.

[@user-dj1qp8ph6w]

I can't believe how young the kids looked back then. By Season 7, they had gotten so big and changed so much. Astor was 14 and had bangs, and Cody was 12 and had braces. The way Lila tried to kill them the same way she did Doakes was totally messed up and unforgivable.

[@israelwallace454]

Wait what and ehat did she do to Doakes?

[@user-dj1qp8ph6w]

@@israelwallace454 She killed him by burning him alive in an explosion.

[@-_MSR_-]

@@israelwallace454spoiler: She killed doakes

[@israelwallace454]

@@user-dj1qp8ph6w noooo wait i thought dexter nooo it cant be

[@israelwallace454]

@@-_MSR_- nah you guys cant ve telling the truth nah i gotya see if this is real liked dokes🥲

[@devstruction98]

This was the original Joe Goldberg and Love Quinn, I hate that both couples never got a happy ending…

[@joyboy3163]

Lila walk so love could run, same with dexter and joe but i think love is so much better than lila but dexter is better than joe like character

[@devstruction98]

@@joyboy3163in terms of beauty, Lila. In terms of how madly in love the woman is with the main character which I wish could’ve been me, Love

[@justchess4981]

You poor thing all alone-doakes thought she was talking about him😂

[@Zegin17]

Season 2 was one of the best seasons.

[@minss223]

Agreed

[@Jalewilt]

Too bad they had Lila killing Doakes

[@-_MSR_-]

We know this

[@jeromerizzo423]

I didn't like 2 and 7. I only like it when there is a big bad. I didn't consider Hannah Mackay and Lila to be big bads.

[@Zegin17]

@@jeromerizzo423 The big bad of season 2 was Doakes.

[@gaboelexo]

We men are truly dumb, im still in love with this girl. The attitude us just so hot, but shes crazy, the ind of girl to destroy your world and you keep coming back to her. And shes hot but nothing crazy, truly one of a kind of a character.

[@Sniperboy5551]

I’m only attracted to the psychos and you know what? They’ll ruin your life, but they’re very fun. We like what we like, maybe that means I’m a psycho myself. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@KirsiKastinen]

More like you're dumb😂

[@SecretTomes]

She's incredible man, holy moly. I remember seeing her in the show for the first time thinking something about her was so alluring and charming

[@funkyfranx]

Hot but nothing crazy? She’s gorgeous!

[@longebane]

Nah I’m good

[@Ultimatum227]

God I adore the Lila arc so fucking much.

[@heltongomez8865]

Finally... The Toxic one.

[@user-dj1qp8ph6w]

Lila was an arsonist, meaning she literally played with fire. That's how she killed Doakes and how she tried to kill the kids, too.

[@IronBoulder]

Its sad. If she wasnt so toxic, she could have truley been his soul mate.

[@remmy1219]

Lila is by far one of the most important characters in Dexter’s canon. If she doesn’t take out Doakes, Dexter is done for good.

[@laporteestouverte]

My god, I forgot how stunning and electrifying she looked. Absolute wow

[@zorandusic7079]

5:42 “Can I touch?” Dexter: 😐😐😐 ..okay...

[@gfc_wd0129]

Tbh I had my own Lila in a way. Definitely wasn’t fucking worth it

[@sommyaruproy8405]

They're so hot though.

[@dddove-di1xt]

still think about them from time to time, the lows were low but... the highs were incredible

[@ÑEZ0688]

The scene where she's in the shower. Her body was damn near perfect.

[@richlisola1]

Lila would have made a much for fun match for Dexter

[@Wingsaber]

If Dexter had gotten with Lila before Rita, Lila would have been such a fun partner in crime for his murders

[@drakemanism]

I agree. And she’s hotter than Rita IMO. I do like brunettes though.

[@rkirsch264]

I'd like to see the timeline of how Dexter travelled back and fourth to the cabin. One minute he's on the beach,, the next he's at the cabin,, None of that added up.

[@oldylad]

This chick ruined my dating life by proxy and I didn’t even remember her til recently LMAO

[@arYT2712]

wdym? did you set your expectations too high or something

[@francesconatalia8070]

Dextah🗣🗣🗣

[@Stoicdexter]

You guys cut out the good parts

[@INSPIRE-BOND-jc5pw]

KZbin doesn't like the good parts 😅

[@arYT2712]

lmfaooo

[@nikolay-e8l]

For those who don’t know Dexter was gonna kill Doekes anyways if you didn’t know he was a US commando and he killed a lot of people on black op missions. So in a way he was not an innocent man so in a way Dexter killing Lila was unjustified I think he should have left her alone and let her live her own life.

[@nguyenvankhanhduy3958]

The most replayed is at 13:57. We are no better than monkey.

[@12structures]

Finally!!!! Beem waiting for this compilation

[@RohanJeswal]

Dexter and Rita🥹 Dexter and Lila😈 Dexter and Lumen💀 Dexter and Hannah🥵

[@sumeetdhoat6747]

What about Dexter and Angela?

[@RohanJeswal]

@@sumeetdhoat6747 just started watching new blood, so don't have much idea about them

[@mephistopheles1765]

Dexter and Deb☠️

[@ericlamadeleine6001]

i'd let lila ruin my life lmao

[@Sniperboy5551]

Who wouldn’t? The accent helps too…

[@ladywytch129]

There'd be no "let."😂

[@gustine-m4k]

She could burn my house down and I'd say thank you, queen.

[@Razyel2340]

Everyone wants a crazy girl until they actually get one.

[@ajmalsafi13]

Post nut clarity will not agree with this statement.

[@chamoflag9630]

She is that one obsessive,loyal woman we all imagine of being with.

[@llureArt]

Sociopathic

[@cherrycamaro3577]

Perfect example of how two red flags dont make green one

[@theprolificnetwork4670]

😂😂😂😂 Best comment in here who are you 👏👏👏👏

[@cherrycamaro3577]

@@theprolificnetwork4670 imma red flag 😂😂

[@georgesavicc]

i believe in lila west supremacy

[@bop_bop_cheif1733]

prefer the toxic lila then the always complaining rita ngl rita was still adorable 🖤

[@MahiMacNeill]

Day 9 of asking for a dexters smartest moments compilation

[@Marcelo_DBZ_Music]

The fact that they gave this comment a heart means they're intentionally ignoring you 😂

[@Sam-0827]

Side note, but her outfits ate down Omg

[@Cryin98]

I found their relationship so hot lol. Is it bad I related to them so much? Not in an addiction sort of way, but more of a preforming for society kind of way.

[@gamingtime4835]

I can fix her guys… I can.

[@s.r6331]

I barely remember Lila, so thank you for this. Lol

[@rogerm3708]

Lila and Brian (Ice Truck Killer) would have been perfect for each other

[@crimsonitacilunarnebula]

Biney?

[@iiiusionzx4879]

Dexter and Lila are goals. Definitely the opposite of toxic relationship.

[@StuntmanDanHemi]

Lila was pure lust incarnate

[@akshayrao5368]

She was such an art

[@goofymusicproduction]

peak Dexter

[@Kans_20]

Day 5 of asking for dexters creepiest moments comp

[@ciframelinda5000]

Radio 1 csak mai sláger megy...❤

[@lukemoloney7566]

She was the epitome of the "hot crazy psycho who thinks I can change him" but sadly no 😅

[@Antonychief7]

I had a big crush on her as a kid 😅❤

[@Rapscallion3003]

She's so freakin hot

[@Aethelbeorn]

19:10 The real HBB could have escaped. That key is totally reachable under that doorway.

[@coachccollins]

Bruh this woman was hott 🔥

[@unwono]

I hate Lila so much it almost made me drop the show. I never once cared about what she did and what happened to her and I decided that this show was going to be awful if her choices actually mattered, so whenever she was involved in something I knew it had to go well for everyone else involved or the show would be terrible. I happened to be right.

[@iiiusionzx4879]

Your crazy. Dexter and Lila are literally goals.

[@unwono]

@@iiiusionzx4879 Goals? Like couple goals? She is insane, like actually mental and I never once thought she could even fathom caring about anyone other than Dexter and even then she was a horrible influence on him. At least Dexter follows a code and loves Debra. Also, Lila's arc was incredibly predictable and unlike other annoying characters from other TV shows her interactions with the side characters made me want to go outside and enjoy life, not watch an annoying insufferable person make a character I liked unfaithful and a dick. Lila actively ruined my viewing experience.

[@iiiusionzx4879]

@@unwono she’s actually really sane. She’s just misunderstood

[@unwono]

@@iiiusionzx4879 She burns her house down just to get Dexter's attention. She is not 'misunderstood', she is an undiagnosed psych ward patient

[@Huge-orge]

I understood the important role that she played for dexters interperetation on himself, but beyond her character(disliked but prob achieveing that goal)i can tell her dialogue kinda pushed the point across too much at times. Also comically evil human being

[@FF-wo7ig]

only woman who had chemistry with donly woman who had chemistry with dexter

[@Henry-kz4gn]

Dexter and lila never had a relationship, she was with Dextuh.

[@Sapientiaa]

I completely forgot about her voice. She did a great job in castlevania as Carmilla.

[@malavadofilms]

Legendary fumble!

[@knarf4083]

Damn she is good actress !

[@jyesucevitz]

their timeline is confusing. it starts with them seeing each other at an N.A. meeting for the first time. he walks out at 03:50 clip two starts at 03:55 with her confronting Dex about them breaking up. seems like their whole dating relationship happened offscreen between 03:51-03:54 is that correct?

[@crimsonitacilunarnebula]

Lila and biney is good but in dexter lila is just a lucky accidently find for dexter helps him on his 'reciveey recovery' and did indieedtly help him with 'doakes' and as we see recovery helped ensued activity like as in cleaning ties up loose ends Lila and biney couldve been a match Biney couldve been like dexter hiding and surviving but tbh if he hasdnt given out hints looking out for dexter he couldve survived more same as lila flew too close to the syne sun

[@theprolificnetwork4670]

Imagine if Lila was played by Elizabeth Hurley 🔥

[@ss_IIII]

Lila was one of the most satisfying kills in the show for me. Always thought she was so nasty. Rita was perfection.

[@brelove5613]

Loved Lila❤

[@ciudadanakane8743]

I loved loved this couple, unlike Rita , Lila is really edge and fun and dexter felt passion for first time, sad that at the end she was a psycho.

[@BeanWagon90]

Lila looks like a British Michael Jackson

[@digolaverdad7313]

Dexter had Lila in a bag when she discovered he was a killer. He should've gotten to an agreement with her. He would continue his fake life with Rita with Lila as the side piece in the shadows.

[@DukeJimbob]

Everyone says Hannah was the worst character but I always thought Lila was so much worse

[@funkyfranx]

I HATED the Rita/Dexter relationship drama with a passion, but Lila herself was so magnetic. I can see why any guy unfortunate enough to cross her path was instantly smitten, she made a great secondary antagonist

[@lukamilic]

Interesting how both characters in popular tv shows that she played in wind up dead. The other show was Spartacus

[@MetAlcboy]

She looks like a young Helena Taylor

[@vijaypratap5244]

When lila said poor thing all alone doakes thoughts im the lucky one 😂

[@iwatchpxvn2748]

Ngl dexter should've stayed with lila i knew it would've been bad but tbh i almost cried when lila died

[@mr.jameson218]

Average gooner brain

[@ConspiracistLizardMan]

- Jesus Christ, Morgan! Jesus F*cking Christ! You're the soulmate killer? - I really hate that name.

[@danglesnipecelly13]

14:03 😂

[@trevorwinn5012]

Lila looks prettier and less "pale" when we first meet her lol

[@andrewdecarles]

She would have been perfect end game for Dexter tbh

[@Cleve7]

In the past i used to think She was bad and Dexter was losing control cause of her but the only good thing she did was killing Doakes and letting Dexter live and not going to prison but when I think about it now. If Lila never did that Dexter would find a peace in prison and La Guerta would never die same with Deb and Rita It must be a reason why out of all women Dexter met (mentioning only classic 8 seasons) was not blond

[@DanCoper]

Hated that cow from the first scene

[@viniciusnaloeh1924]

lol I just realized how much she looks like thewizardliz

[@Garrettguy5]

Totally forget that Lila killed the bay harbor butcher

[@PBCurtis]

Sounds like Kelly LeBrock. Hmm... Dexter had sex with Lila right after Rita broke up with him. WE WERE ON A BREAK!! 😂

[@ElirothRepatacodo]

Is she the same actress from spartacus?

[@patrick953]

Yep, God's of the Arena

[@crimsonitacilunarnebula]

Perfect ending for Lila dexter is neither monster nor human so it's better

[@safeerahmedx]

A girl like Lila West can fix me .

[@arYT2712]

“I can fix her guys!”

[@tristan5098]

The sexual tension between these two. I think they will look good together in real life

[@brickguy209huang4]

The producers of YOU took notes how ever I like lila beter