Did we KISS before marriage? | Q&A

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the Webster Family

the Webster Family

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@bethfaithful7818
@bethfaithful7818 3 жыл бұрын
The fact that you admit to kissing before marriage and fighting early in marriage makes me love you two even more. The image of perfection on this platform is dreadful and we need honest, real people who aren't afraid to show life.
@ErinRipka
@ErinRipka 3 жыл бұрын
I have never understood why kissing before marriage is a problem for so many Christians. When you get married, you are marrying a man, not a boy. You are both adults, and you should both be mature enough to keep healthy boundaries, yet allow some intimacy as well. Kissing doesn’t have to lead to sex if you are both strong in your convictions. My husband and I were engaged for three years before getting married. We did a lot of cuddling and kissing, yet still waited for sex until our wedding night. The fact that we had some level of intimacy together before that night made the wedding night much more comfortable and natural.
@genxis6097
@genxis6097 3 жыл бұрын
Erin R, because kissing can lead to other things, even for the "strongest" of couples, and Christians believe in avoiding the temptation to have sex before marriage. For most couples, it's really hard to wait for sex, especially once the kissing and such begins. You do make a great point that introducing some sort of intimacy (kissing, cuddling) before marriage makes the wedding night intimacy less awkward, or not awkward at all. That said, if a couple is trying to stay pure until marriage, the safest way to ensure that is to just wait 'til marriage to do anything physical, in my opinion, except maybe hand holding. Ha ha. ;)
@genxis6097
@genxis6097 3 жыл бұрын
Oh, also, many couples get married at a very young age, which means they have barely entered adulthood. That "man" is barely a man at that point, and there's no one more fired up for sex than an 18 year old guy. Know what I mean?
@ErinRipka
@ErinRipka 3 жыл бұрын
I hear what you are saying, and it’s true that each couple needs to decide what they are comfortable with prior to marriage, but I still struggle with the idea that a couple must go from 0-100 on the intimacy scale on their wedding night. It’s a huge jump, especially for a woman. It’s just my opinion though, and I realize that what works for some might not work for others.
@genxis6097
@genxis6097 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, it definitely is a huge jump. I'm thinking, though, that most of the time the order of things would flow naturally, especially if the couple can't wait to get to it. I do realize dipping a toe in might be better for some as opposed to diving right in. Again, you made great points.
@racheldeselms2515
@racheldeselms2515 28 күн бұрын
It can lead to other things. So you have to be careful.
@maryleve4793
@maryleve4793 3 жыл бұрын
I love how John said, we must put God first in our marriage for all relationships to work and be happy! God bless you guys!
@letitbe7108
@letitbe7108 3 жыл бұрын
Alyssa responded to the question of wanting a boy with complete class and sweetness by turning Miss Macy around and showing her to us. Absolutely perfect example of how to convey your feelings 💞💗❤❣🙏🥰
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@DawoodTvOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
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@DSE233
@DSE233 3 жыл бұрын
@@DawoodTvOfficial You shouldn't advertise ur own channel on someone else's.
@georgesage2153
@georgesage2153 3 жыл бұрын
I love that you covered about homeschool kids still having friends. That is a huge misconception about homeschooled kids.
@susanjcumming1961
@susanjcumming1961 3 жыл бұрын
Alyssa I'm your older than your parents buy a few years if I could offer just one advice that I'm seeing with my nieces and nephews is this keep them away from social media and limit their TV watching and be fully aware Do Spot checks if they're away from you getting lessons or my friends Etc and make sure that they're learning what your family values are. I can't tell you enough absolute heartache we're going through right now children in this day and age that hair through high school and they're turning away from the church and the values they were brought up I knew that when social media started coming out that without the opportunity to monitor what was being said to them that there would be a problem and I was right sadly I wish I was wrong. I love your family and the Duggars so much and we were brought up in the same very strict family I want to change anything not one single thing it's today it's just pray pray pray.
@livb324
@livb324 3 жыл бұрын
So true! My homeschooled kids are so social!
@FLP90
@FLP90 3 жыл бұрын
Homeschooled kids a lot of times have more social interactions, with different people too rather than the same group of people on one classroom.
@susanjcumming1961
@susanjcumming1961 3 жыл бұрын
Alyssa when you said a lot of the fans thought you were a snob, I didn't think that just different than all the rest of your family. You're both incredibly beautiful, you got married very early, and you move to Florida and had a large house. What really showed me who the two of you really were was when John came home from work, Alyssa you packed Ally and would go clean businesses at night and you both work so hard on the cleaning and did a phenomenal job. I felt really bad for the misconception. I was proud of you two and knew you were hard workers, never complained and did what you had to for your family. That's when I had the utmost respect for you two. I was glad that we got to see you more on the show. And know on through your family videos.
@mimis105dobbins3
@mimis105dobbins3 3 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful and hardworking family.God bless you all ♥️
@rlvmommy4106
@rlvmommy4106 3 жыл бұрын
I can't believe people thought she was a snob...I think she is so sweet...I wish I was her neighbor.
@catherinemccausland6979
@catherinemccausland6979 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been married 25 years, raised 11 kids and your answers were awesome❤️You are such a sweet God centered family that I can watch with my teens and feel good about!
@aprils3289
@aprils3289 3 жыл бұрын
Y’all have a precious family! I love how you answered the question “will you keep having kids until you have a boy.” We have 6 daughters and we get that question all the time. We love and wanted all our girls. God gave us exactly what we needed. We would have loved a boy if we had one but we love our girls just as much! Prayers for your sweet family!
@doditomancak7728
@doditomancak7728 3 жыл бұрын
Yall are so REAL! People don't realize if you don't stay humble, you can't see the Lord! Love your family
@christineb.5929
@christineb.5929 3 жыл бұрын
I loved how honest you both were. You aren't afraid to not sound "perfect". Being genuine and real with your audience is the number 1 thing!
@marlasturgill8306
@marlasturgill8306 3 жыл бұрын
My husband and I have been married 30plus and I have to say you guys gave some great advice. One thing that we promise one another was never go to bed mad, you know you’re not promised tomorrow.. Always put God first in your marriage, that’s what worked for us... I love your channel you guys have a gorgeous family....
@elizabethsheppard5191
@elizabethsheppard5191 3 жыл бұрын
John is cracking me up! Good sense of humor!
@melissam.8838
@melissam.8838 3 жыл бұрын
Been married over 20 years and that’s great marriage advice!! ❤️ Y’all have a precious family! This was so good!! 🥰
@michellemorris9679
@michellemorris9679 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve never perceived you as a snob, but I do enjoy watching you here on KZbin because I feel like it’s an opportunity to get to know your family more authentically.
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@DawoodTvOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
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@givengrace3162
@givengrace3162 3 жыл бұрын
Well said
@susiesantino5625
@susiesantino5625 3 жыл бұрын
I didn't think Snob either just more of perfectionist and everything is like so kinda person.
@Osaka40510
@Osaka40510 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with taking time to decorate, you have to feel out the space. But considering you just moved in with 4 little ones what you have done so far looks great! Also thank you for acknowledging that some of the post baby weight loss is attributable to age and metabolism. Some women probably needed to hear that. Maci is super cute!
@ukeleleladysadie86
@ukeleleladysadie86 3 жыл бұрын
Laughed out loud when you said “a lot” to the kiss question 😂
@sunnysunflowers95
@sunnysunflowers95 3 жыл бұрын
@@abigailreames3268 at the very end, the last question
@DawoodTvOfficial
@DawoodTvOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
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@thejazzybug17
@thejazzybug17 3 жыл бұрын
I am so glad to know you all are so blunt about things in y’all’s lives. Thank you for being transparent.
@rocketmom60
@rocketmom60 3 жыл бұрын
Kissing before marriage is perfectly okay. Don't feel guilty or bad about it at all.
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@DawoodTvOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
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@kristinerickson8350
@kristinerickson8350 3 жыл бұрын
Agree. Biblically there is nothing wrong with it.
@maryleve4793
@maryleve4793 3 жыл бұрын
But we all know that kissing can go too far and other things get involved that The Bible says is totally wrong in sinful!
@Omatimestwo
@Omatimestwo 3 жыл бұрын
@@maryleve4793 That’s why you stop at kissing! Lol.
@aaronvasquez1995
@aaronvasquez1995 3 жыл бұрын
Biblically kissing before marriage is wrong.
@charitywelch7877
@charitywelch7877 3 жыл бұрын
I went through Christian pre marital counseling and they said exactly what you said: God first, your spouse second and everything else will fall into place in terms of relationships.
@kellyfisher4251
@kellyfisher4251 3 жыл бұрын
If your child isn’t number one always and forever I will never understand that. Stay, happy and healthy. Lots of virtual love xx
@catherinewindow6157
@catherinewindow6157 3 жыл бұрын
My kids always come before me no matter what
@laurindalacourse9213
@laurindalacourse9213 3 жыл бұрын
I love your honesty with some of these questions (kissing before marriage, and how your first year married had some conflict and fighting as you learned to navigate being with someone else). It’s just real and even though it can be hard to talk about, my husband and I met at 17 and have been married 10 years this October and our first years together we had to learn how to communicate. People tell us now how our marriage is so perfect (which obviously no marriage is), but we spend a lot of time and hard work centering God in our marriage and learning to communicate with each other that has allowed us to be that funny couple who can joke around with each other and avoid most of those big arguments. It’s nice to see you guys having fun and relaxing more in front of the camera (I know my husband and I would be so shy talking about our lives in front of the camera). We have 2 girls and 1 boy, and people always asked us if we were going to keep trying for a boy. It actually made my poor husband so frustrated when we found out our baby was a boy and people would tell him, “you finally got your boy!” Because as much as he loves his son, he doesn’t enjoy how that makes his daughters feel, like he was sitting around waiting on God to send him a boy and they weren’t good enough for him. So we really relate. I almost feel like we have to have a 4th baby just to show people we didn’t stop having kids just because we got a boy 😂
@michelle3445
@michelle3445 3 жыл бұрын
Y’all are really relationship goals. I just love how y’all interact with each other. :) Thank you for sharing your story with us. I’d love to hear how y’all met, about the courtship and engagement. Also the wedding.
@judyshepplt3086
@judyshepplt3086 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your wonderful family with us! Alyssa and John I’ve told you this a few times now that you were a bright light in a dark world. I appreciate your Honesty and Christian values. 🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦❤️❤️❤️
@cynthiajones4803
@cynthiajones4803 3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree that you were filmed to look snobbish. However, through this platform we have come to see how very sweet, real, and lovely you REALLY are!!💗💗💗
@DawoodTvOfficial
@DawoodTvOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
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@simplymemj7370
@simplymemj7370 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve never felt that at all. My vibes always been she is more calm more low key.
@kimberdavis1427
@kimberdavis1427 3 жыл бұрын
She does come off as snobbish on the show but she isn't. And John comes off as never talking/relevant on the show which isn't true either.
@christiabreeden7777
@christiabreeden7777 3 жыл бұрын
It's so obvious he's a great dad!!
@ahinz100
@ahinz100 3 жыл бұрын
I can not get over how much Maci looks like Allie! you all have such sweet girls
@immadreamer3697
@immadreamer3697 3 жыл бұрын
4 weeks is impressive to remodel. Your blessed to have such a big family to help on all of life's endeavors and after you have a new baby. Your parents did the hard work but it has benefited all of you kids as you have your families ❤️. Love your mother, Kelly, so much. And Alyssa you are a lovely person it's so nice to see you on here.
@annaaylward-murphy8288
@annaaylward-murphy8288 3 жыл бұрын
The baby is so bright and beautiful. You guys are so gracious with dealing with all the questions and answering them with humor. John is hilarious.
@MzRoyalJoy08
@MzRoyalJoy08 3 жыл бұрын
Alyssa don’t tell no lies! Love it lol. You all are such sweethearts! Thank you for taking the time to do this.
@grosventre7760
@grosventre7760 3 жыл бұрын
Married 30 years & your advice is spot on! Also, a marriage is only between the couple not families, never undermine the other parent & never ever mention the D word out of anger, hurt or jest. It’s refreshing to see an honest couple on YT.
@jenAKnND
@jenAKnND 3 жыл бұрын
Sooo fun watching you two answer those questions!! And thanks for keeping it real 😄
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@DawoodTvOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
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@marciamilesramsey6405
@marciamilesramsey6405 3 жыл бұрын
Sweet sweet couple and wise beyond your years! Keep up the great job of building a strong and lasting family! ❤🙏
@judylake8464
@judylake8464 3 жыл бұрын
Maci is adorable! Thanks for answering these questions. You have the most amazingly generous little girls. I love their giving hearts,their joy of sharing, and their loving personalities.
@oi5872
@oi5872 3 жыл бұрын
Watching your family is like witnessing a miracle. I know that sounds over the top, but seeing the smiles on your girls' faces and yours, you know they are truly blessed for parents that love and respect them. Peace to all, God bless!
@cinthiacasado7067
@cinthiacasado7067 3 жыл бұрын
Baby Maci is so adorable 🥰 Alyssa your giving me baby fever so bad! I enjoy watching your channel! Have a blessed weekend ❤️
@sherriholcombe5428
@sherriholcombe5428 3 жыл бұрын
Love this video! You and John are such a cute couple. I didn't get to see your courtship and wedding on Bringing Up Bates,so I enjoy your videos on KZbin. Ya'll were so honest about arguing the first year of marriage and on kissing before marriage. So good to see the honesty from you. Thanks for sharing your family life with us. Your daughters are beautiful and have such great personalities- looking forward to seeing little Maci's develop.😊
@sherrybrewer5715
@sherrybrewer5715 2 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed all of this Q & A. Ya’ll keep it real and it’s just precious to hear how your life goes. We raised 4 children also. Twins first (boy & girl) then 5 year gap with a single boy and 20 months later our baby girl. God always blesses when you put Him first and one another next and children 3rd. John was great stating something similar to that. Enjoy all the moments!! They grow up way too fast. Our “littles” are now in their 40’s!
@nothanks0082
@nothanks0082 3 жыл бұрын
That's funny that you said "imagine having 6 girls," John...my cousins are 6 girls, spread out over a 15 year time span! They are all so close, it's lovely.
@agnesoneal7816
@agnesoneal7816 3 жыл бұрын
The baby is getting so Big she is growing . love your show and Family.
@kiragropp1236
@kiragropp1236 3 жыл бұрын
I am interested in knowing on what your chaperones did when you kissed ?? Love y’all!
@samuelymirianamaya1902
@samuelymirianamaya1902 3 жыл бұрын
The fourth child is truly the easiest! She was an angel and I surely needed that with four 5 and under. Also our first six months of marriage were a struggle, but we talked it out every time even though it took till 2 in the morning. It is truly the best marriage advice we received. " Talk until you both feel ok."
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@debbieremschel9367
@debbieremschel9367 3 жыл бұрын
Hi from Texas! You both seem so sweet and loving toward each other, making it seem so easy. What I notice the more videos I watch, is that in the beginning of y’all as a couple, you were comfortable in front of the camera and John was more quiet, and now John seems more out spoken and very relaxed, at least with the KZbin. You both seem to fit so well together. Debbie R.
@sherrihopkins9331
@sherrihopkins9331 3 жыл бұрын
I'm married to my high school sweetheart! Dec 6 will be 36 years and we still say i love you all the time.
@lindacollings8554
@lindacollings8554 3 жыл бұрын
My husband and I were into waiting till marriage but we kissed before!! Personal choice!! God knows your heart !!
@Nikkim17484
@Nikkim17484 3 жыл бұрын
I think Maci might be your cutest baby yet! I'm also so glad that you guys decided to start this channel because you were always the most shy/mysteries of the Bates kids/couples
@marybaker1993
@marybaker1993 3 жыл бұрын
You guys are so darn cute.i can picture you guys sitting in your rockers together when you are 80.i was married for 43 years before my husband passed away but we were not good at communication skills like you two are.So glad you found each other.
@mimis105dobbins3
@mimis105dobbins3 3 жыл бұрын
,I’m so sorry for your loss.God bless
@ashleyb0512
@ashleyb0512 3 жыл бұрын
Y'all are so sweet together. Thank you for being so open and honest with people. I am glad there are people like y'all out there for younger people to look up too. Too see marriage isn't perfect and you work at the beautiful life together by putting God first.
@JolovesDecor
@JolovesDecor 3 жыл бұрын
I found a greater respect after Johns answer regarding relationships, as If my respect couldn’t be any greater. 🥰 Y’all are awesome.
@sheritayrien6158
@sheritayrien6158 3 жыл бұрын
You are such a sweet couple and family. I love that John is very hands on with the raising of the girls. He is a great girl dad! Thanks for being a great roles for younger couples.
@sharih5741
@sharih5741 3 жыл бұрын
You are such a great couple! So very down to earth!
@Freedom-nu5kp
@Freedom-nu5kp 3 жыл бұрын
My suggestion for first time pregnancy/birth is to avoid back labor/long labor. Get down on your hands and knees, get your butt up in the air, head down (on a pillow) especially during labor/contractions. Crawling around too helps give the baby room to fit it's head into the pelvis correctly. The number 1 thing that prolongs labor or causes back labor is the back of the baby's head (occiput) is toward mom's back (occiput posterior). Babies normally start coming out with the back of their head toward your front (occiput anterior) then rotate once coming out of the birth canal.
@marymartinez8047
@marymartinez8047 3 жыл бұрын
So glad you were honest about arguing early in your marriage and other difficult times. Marriage is HARD and you constantly have to choose to love and stay committed to your spouse. So man marriages fail because it’s easier to quit than to put in the work. God in the equation definitely gives you a fighting chance, imho. Thanks for sharing! ❤️
@cindykennedy1940
@cindykennedy1940 2 жыл бұрын
It’s so nice to hear John talk so much. He’s so real and funny
@snook1166
@snook1166 3 жыл бұрын
John, I love your sense of humour. The fact that you answered some of the questions as if they were directed at you, thank you for being so real it is refeshing.
@annettecarolherbst
@annettecarolherbst 3 жыл бұрын
I think every newlywed couple argues A LOT. But then you learn things and it smooths out. Your family is so cute
@christinesmith7678
@christinesmith7678 3 жыл бұрын
Your doing a great job guys. Your an encouragement for other young families. It’s nice you share your struggles and joys with others. I feel it gives others a sense of normalcy.❤️
@dianecervantes2662
@dianecervantes2662 3 жыл бұрын
There's nothing wrong with kissing before you get married 😘👍👍 you'll have a beautiful family and a beautiful home very blessed 🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
@Liz_4Him
@Liz_4Him 3 жыл бұрын
Love these Q&A’s. It’s nice how real y’all are 🙌🏼
@mackenziash8244
@mackenziash8244 3 жыл бұрын
Love these candid q&a videos! I will say though, not everyone is religious and even those marriages can work! My husband and I aren’t religious and don’t really have relationships with a higher power and still have a beautiful, loving, happy, healthy relationship filled with gratitude😊
@michellemybelle9591
@michellemybelle9591 3 жыл бұрын
I remember thinking you were a snob... but then realizing, mostly cuz your mom saying, that you're just private. Now look at y'all! We LOVE it!
@rlvmommy4106
@rlvmommy4106 3 жыл бұрын
She is my favorite out of all of them.
@maryannbergeron9531
@maryannbergeron9531 2 жыл бұрын
As a mother of 6 boys, I totally agree about the transition from 2 to 3 was a shocker. Each one after that was a piece of cake!!!! 😂😂❤️😂❤️❤️ honestly, each additional child was a blessing and so much easier than going from 2 to 3.
@hannon092
@hannon092 3 жыл бұрын
I think you guys are awesome!! Thank you so much for taking the time to help other people through sharing your relationship with God, each other and your family! Thank you for serving God this way! Blessings always! 😊
@Faith-dc7zk
@Faith-dc7zk 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been homeschooled since I was in 8th grade and I have friends. Lol Which I have done virtual school for the first year, this year, to play sports. You’re so right! Just because you’re homeschooled doesn’t mean you can’t have friends.
@michelleparker3119
@michelleparker3119 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve heard others say baby #3 was the hardest too. For me it was baby #2, she had severe colic from 2 weeks until 5 months. That was such a hard time. Baby #3 was a surprise and I cried for months when I found out I was pregnant, I didn’t think I could do it again. But he was my angel baby, never cried, did just what he was “supposed to” when he was supposed to do it. (Also followed the Babywise book). Baby #4, was an “average” baby, but I felt like a pro by that point. 😉 That’s where we stopped, I knew I was all the mom I could be with those 4. Everybody is different and that was my limit. Your mom is an amazing mother to that many children, she inspires and impresses me. Since y’all aren’t able to be on the show as much I’m now enjoying getting to know more of y’all here. Blessings on your sweet family! ❤️
@555MPHATripletStory
@555MPHATripletStory 3 жыл бұрын
Just wanted to clarify they have a clotting disorder.. which means they need blood thinners.. this causes clots during pregnancy and means your blood thickens which is why they need the thinners.. you don’t have excessive bleeding with this, but the opposite. The clots can form in the umbilical chord preventing nutrients from getting to baby, ultimately causing the miscarriage
@oliviasmallwood2629
@oliviasmallwood2629 3 жыл бұрын
Love this and your honesty!
@adelaidestitcher
@adelaidestitcher 3 жыл бұрын
Totally agree that 4th children are the easiest. I've done my research as the 4th child in my family 🤣. I always wanted 4 kids myself since I was really young, but unfortunately children aren't in the plans God has for me. Thank you for sharing your lives with us here in KZbin, always just a lovely entertaining time.
@ScarletDebbie
@ScarletDebbie Жыл бұрын
I just discovered that I was not subscribed to your channel and I fixed that! I wonder if Alyssa, can you do a hair Tutorial and make up tutorial sometime soon? I haven't seen any if you have already done them, so I was wondering sometime when you had time if you could do that for us? Thank you for sharing part of your lives with us!
@immadreamer3697
@immadreamer3697 3 жыл бұрын
I think you are a naturally confident and mature person and sometimes that can appear as snobbish to others. I had that misconception of you as well. So I'm happy to see more of you and see that your incredibly diligent and gifted, grounded and humble. First impressions are usually always wrong anyway ❤️😃👍
@christinamyers6959
@christinamyers6959 3 жыл бұрын
The kids friends question is one we get all.the.time. Like, yes. They socialize. Probably more than they would at school!
@buddiesvsbuddies4728
@buddiesvsbuddies4728 3 жыл бұрын
We have 4 girls too and always hated the "are you trying for a boy?" question. Echinacea root tincture is amazing for mastitis if it happens again!
@mariaruth2763
@mariaruth2763 3 жыл бұрын
It’s great you learned how to communicate so early in your relationship ! my husband and I were married when we were each 26 years old .we were both Christians for several years and very committed to our marriage; unfortunately we were both raised in households where the parents did not get along and were not Christians , who argued and fought a lot so we did not learn how to resolve issues peacefully and it’s taken most of 40 years of marriage to really do well with that and we’re still working on it but it’s not as bad as it used to be
@jaymielee1110
@jaymielee1110 3 жыл бұрын
Happy to see you guys today. Thanks for the update on your beautiful family.
@quinoasongs2507
@quinoasongs2507 3 жыл бұрын
wow, good strategy by saving the big question for last. So, with a family who believed that kisses should be saved for the wedding altar, how did you come to the decision that not doing that was right for you? Or did you regret it? What do you recommend? Do you know any couples who did save their first kiss and regret it? Just trying to learn.
@ohheytherelauren
@ohheytherelauren 3 жыл бұрын
Serious question - when would you kiss when you were dating if you always had chaperones? Also I want to hear the first kiss story if you’re willing to share it hahaha 😘
@DawoodTvOfficial
@DawoodTvOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
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@CarinaPiersay
@CarinaPiersay 3 жыл бұрын
I didn’t know you were doing a Q&A!! My long time question re BUB is why are the kids on the trampoline out of chronological order?
@livb324
@livb324 3 жыл бұрын
This was so great! I loved hearing John! He is so funny and witty and wise. I haven’t heard him much on the show probably just because there’s a lot people to film but you definitely got a keeper 🥰 I love hearing about your family!
@MissyDcherrydaisypie25
@MissyDcherrydaisypie25 3 жыл бұрын
Loved this !! Also Maci fell asleep during the video my kids were never that quick to do that
@kristinerickson8350
@kristinerickson8350 3 жыл бұрын
Great MARRIAGE ADVICE!!!
@ActionForAging
@ActionForAging 3 жыл бұрын
Haha. Yes, one CAN be a Christian and kiss before marriage AND still be in God’s good grace. Love you guys. 💕🙏🏻✝️💪🏼🙏🏻💕
@Julie-cn9eo
@Julie-cn9eo 3 жыл бұрын
I love how honest and real you guys are. Your family is so cute and Maci is so precious!!
@lisacerulli9290
@lisacerulli9290 3 жыл бұрын
Do it Alyssa & John - go it Italy - the food, the sites .... AMAZING. Amalfi Coast will capture your heart.
@tiffanymitchellsetliff5915
@tiffanymitchellsetliff5915 3 жыл бұрын
Love love love this! His blushing face and her eyes...give it away! Love y'alls honesty! Totally agree with the communication factor for a happy marriage, but I encourage any new couple or friends to try to learn about body language during communication...it says so much without saying anything. You can't see it if you are always paying attention to something else.
@misskitty1977
@misskitty1977 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with waiting to furnish the downstairs. I believe there is a interior designer called design by Casanova on KZbin and she recommends finding the one maybe more expensive staple piece of furniture for each room and building off of it. It really makes sense when you think about it because it allows a new homeowner to take their time with their decisions. Thank you for answering the many questions and John don't worry about having arguments in your first year of marriage because it lead you both into a better rest of your marriage figuring out your differences
@westcoastweird455
@westcoastweird455 3 жыл бұрын
Appreciate this video, y’all are so real. Momming is hard and it’s so refreshing when we can be honest with each other
@aventuramami
@aventuramami 2 жыл бұрын
John is hilarious and I enjoyed watching you two so much.
@nancymcdowell4799
@nancymcdowell4799 3 жыл бұрын
A new couple just needs patience. You love each other so it’s gonna work out. 🌹
@cynthiaburns5071
@cynthiaburns5071 3 жыл бұрын
I love your Q&A's. When John called Bringing Up Bates BUB I laughed so hard. I will always call it that now! Thanks for sharing!
@Hannah-gj2zs
@Hannah-gj2zs 3 жыл бұрын
I hope everyone has an amazing Friday 💛
@darlabingham7730
@darlabingham7730 3 жыл бұрын
You too !!
@DawoodTvOfficial
@DawoodTvOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
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@RileyMommie07
@RileyMommie07 3 жыл бұрын
Our 4th made me want a 5th.😅 My expectations were sooooo low after the transition to 3. It was probably the most difficult season of our life together so far. Number 4 we had a 3y9mos age gap and it was heavenly. That said the minute I held our fifth, I knew I was going to enjoy the goodness out of him and that we were done. ☺️
@holiday-td6hx
@holiday-td6hx 3 жыл бұрын
You two are sooo cute. Out of all the kids from your family Alyssa, you're my fav. Here's another ??? So, how many of your brothers & sisters that are now married KISSED prior to getting married (besides you & John?) Do you know? Admitting things that you've been asked just really shows how relaxed and totally honest you two are. Raising kids, to be honest, is hard work, but truly worth it. Making sure your kids know that if they mess up and are honest with Mom and Dad really helps them to know you trust them. We always told our kids "Just be honest. If you've done something wrong, don't worry, it's okay. We all make mistakes. The important thing is that you HAVE LEARNED from it (the mistakes) Our sons didn't drink or smoke as teens however they always told their friends if they did drink to PLZ call and our kids would pick them (their friends) up. Surprisingly our house was the house our kid's friends hung out at.....because they knew they could talk to us without judgment. It's so important to do what you've promised. IF you tell your kids you won't be upset if they do "XYZ" and you aren't upset, it means so much. They then know that the next time they mess up they can be honest with you. I laughed when John said "No, we aren't rich, we have 4 kids, come on! " Keep up the great videos. I love it that you share your busy lives with everyone. God Bless and Happy Mother's Day Alyssa!
@Blueoct69
@Blueoct69 3 жыл бұрын
My family and I have been watching. We are on season 5 or 6. I’m 51 years old and we are from PA. We are absolutely enjoying you all. It would be a pleasure if we ever get to meet the whole family. Love you all and can’t wait to see what the other seasons have in store.
@allamericangirl6254
@allamericangirl6254 3 жыл бұрын
Love the answer about having a boy! I have 5 boys 10 months - 14 years and we are about to have #6. People ask me if i want a girl, I would love a girl but at the same time I know what to do with a boy! Y'all are such a sweet couple!
@shawnawilliams6536
@shawnawilliams6536 3 жыл бұрын
Thank yall for being honest,real and candid with your answers.
@designdoctor247
@designdoctor247 3 жыл бұрын
The show should send you to Italy for an anniversary. We didn't get to see your honeymoon 😢
@janschleiger6544
@janschleiger6544 3 жыл бұрын
You're such a beautiful, Godly couple. And those little ones, be still my heart!! Just adorable. God bless you!
@michelledion8847
@michelledion8847 3 жыл бұрын
This was really cute! Sense you’re such a busy bee Alyssa, I think it would be cool if you renovated furniture yourself. Make custom stuff...your house has so much character and I know I’d love to see it;)
@kenzie9200
@kenzie9200 3 жыл бұрын
I used to watch your family's show and I've never in my life seen such a beautiful family all of you are such good looking people!!
@garywarkentin8859
@garywarkentin8859 3 жыл бұрын
Children are definitely a blessing, remember that!!💕
@virginiastoneking6661
@virginiastoneking6661 3 жыл бұрын
I love you guys. I cannot believe that anyone could call you a snob. You both are the most genuine people. Boo to all the rude haters out there. Shame on them. Much love and blessings from Kansas city Missouri Nonna. 😘😘😘
@danah6765
@danah6765 3 жыл бұрын
Love the advice! Glad to know your normal just like the rest of us ☺️
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