Difference between INFJ and ENFJ Personality Types

What is the difference between INFJ and ENFJ personality types? Well, both can act like one another, but they have different vulnerability languages. The INFJ shows vulnerability by putting their emotions out there or by expressing their feelings outwardly. The ENFJ by deepening a relationship with someone or with an idea and sharing personal theories and insight with others, even though they could be wrong. The XNFJ personality types attract visionaries and diplomats with a strong sense of fairness and independence. But the ENFJ is normally a detective solving riddles and figuring out patterns while dealing with the concerns of people and of morals and right and wrong. INFJs are typically philosophers who reflect on life and death and on their purpose and identity. Both can be inspired by the others personality traits, but both have a different code. Learn more at www.erikthor.com/infj and www.erikthor.com/enfj
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[@JivanNavij]

I still can't tell if I'm an ENFJ or INFJ. I feel like when I'm feeling good in life, I'm an ENFJ. But when I'm not feeling so great, I'm an INFJ. And I feel like I'm an ENFJ only if I like the crowd that I'm in.

[@ErikThor]

Well, what matters most is who you are when you feel good - - when anxious it makes sense for an ENFJ to act and feel introverted.

[@Mabeline16]

Jivan Navij me too!!

[@twistedhippie7608]

I’m with you on this!

[@kaylaandreano4556]

Check out CS Joseph’s comparison of the two. Check out more comparisons out there. One way to tell us apart. If you are an ENFJ, when stressed you will do these three things: 1. Have an FE-SE Loop (you can search for info on this) 2. Or really stressed, have infantile TI completely take over FE as your sole driver. And have the worse logic ever, but have it just take over your Fe, and then you are very cold and think you are right, but infantile Ti is most likely not right, and just shit the other person down with cold inaccurate, righteous logic. Becoming practically the opposite of the Fe dominate that an enfj is! 3. You forget to use your Ni. So you realize that you haven’t taken enough time alone! To feel your intuition, that you are bogged down by what others think, and tell you what to do, going out and childishly having too much fun with people and food and adventures and sensations. For INFJ: In stress. 1. You have an Ni-Ti loop. You withdrawal and over intuit and over think and over intuit and over think. On the inside of you your thoughts and intuition are having a ping-pong match. It’s like sliding down a dark vortex inside of you and knowing/feeling all. When Ti is in the child position, what it thinks is always usually inaccurate in the way that a child can be just so transparent. (With ENFJ having this in the infant position - they aren’t as accurate and it can go wrong). If really stressed, than Se will take over Ni, and the INFJ will ignore its intuition and think they are good as going out there and partying, drinking, perhaps something sexual, or sensual, food, any sensation, but this basically just making poor decisions, thinking we can handle it and we are good at the life on the edge, or escaping in any sensation filled way.., and we can’t handle it, so it’s harmful to us, all whist we ignore our intuition. 3. We ignore Fe. We can be so wrapped up in ourselves and inner world and doing surface level Se still, that we realize what we really need to to feel better is to maybe spend time with family or dear friends or do something for someone else, tend to someone else to feel good, as a healthier way of escaping our intense inner worlds.

[@radhakmartin]

This is how I feel.

[@Revelwoodie]

As an ENFJ with a philosophy degree, I'd like to lodge a formal protest against the thumbnail.

[@Diandra-]

I am a ENFJ haha and I too am very interested in philosophy

[@MarinaGalstyanCovers]

I'm also an enfj with ma/ba in philosophy!

[@koizu5324]

I often have philosophical ideas but it never stays in my mind, I throw em out at parties or whenever it gets triggered. I never really think about it deep unless somthing triggers it. It really feels wierd.

[@johnmorgeneier7748]

I'm an INFJ Actor, same thought.

[@becomethestar]

I'm philosophical and becoming a metaphysician. My ex infj wanted to be an actor and made movies with a friend. I gotta say every INFJ and ENFJ video by nearly every creator are way off 😅. These 2 types are too intermingled imo.

[@Samanthaledesma1997]

I feel like enfj’s are more intuitive (and express their wisdom a lot) but follow their feelings more vs infjs who have more feelings but follow their intuition more. Just what I’ve observed from ENFJS around me

[@Dani-jo9yr]

Samantha Ledesma bravooooooo 🤩🤩🤩✅💯💯💯Spot on!!! Thank you 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️

[@kwamenyame1277]

Wow... I’m an ENFJ and my best friend is INFJ. He tells me that I talk a lot. But everything I say he wants to listen to and take in cause he gets a lot of wisdom out of it. But he is always drained after our long talks.

[@advantphoenix7892]

@@kwamenyame1277 This is me; I love talking for long durations of time and rambling about topics without being interrupted. But at the same time, I love listening and gaining wisdom through other people's experiences. However, I usually don't feel drained unless the conversation lasts longer than three hours somehow.

[@mooh2802]

They say ENFJs are the most emotional type

[@advantphoenix7892]

@@mooh2802 I disagree, people with Fi at their first function are objectively more emotional. If you were to say something that directly contrasts what they believe in, they would get emotional and defensive. And this goes for ESFP and ENFP who have Fi at the second function. ENFJ's like myself are emotional but over time, I've definitely learned how to get better at being more stoic and less emotional.

[@terseduck]

This is the clearest explanation I've ever watched.

[@nathanf300]

As an ENFJ, this is the first time I've felt accurately described in a video without stereotyping. Thanks for understanding!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@koizu5324]

I think most people got facts about ENFJ right, very open, sharing, caring, sensitive often misunderstood people.

[@piratealeks6865]

"trust yourself, no one knows you better than you do" 100% this

[@SabeloNada00]

"The Hero journey" .. love it.

[@hannahm4078]

As an INFJ married to an ENFJ this is way too accurate 😂

[@thanj27]

INFJs can probably express quite clearly what they don't like or don't want for their lives. They can articulate what they don't envision for their lives. However ask them what they want to do in life and how they are going to do it, and it will be a struggle for them.

[@sebelasips8694]

I'm an ENFJ and this is the best explanation ever! Thank you 💚💚💚

[@ErikThor]

You're welcome, take care :)

[@bethiciaprasek1008]

INFJ. Started out testing as (in free tests) and identifying strongly with INTJ. Didn't pay much attention to MBTI in those days plus as a scientist it made sense I would be INTJ...until I kept trying to bring people into my big ideas/patents and committees. To the point that several people in different aspects of my work life were telling me at the same time that I need to be less focused on others and less sharing in case someone stole my ideas. WHAT? Especially because it wasn't all from similar sources, I decided to experiment with being more self-centered. Lasted less than 2 weeks. Horrible. Motivation and productivity at work productivity plummeted. But how could so many people I trusted be wrong? They weren't. I needed to focus on things that helped others but also HELPED ME! Life changing lesson! Obviously INFJ and regularly identified and tested that way for decades later. But invested significant time, especially later, in being more extroverted. Meeting with a friend at least once per week (except Winter), and organizing get-togethers. Several extroverted friends praised my ability to get diverse teams/individuals together better than they could. Oh my, am I turning into an ENFJ? I pondered it. LOL! No way! As an ex-coworker/friend put it, "If you have to work at being extroverted, then you obviously aren't a natural introvert." Related is that I hit work burnout recently due to getting the help I needed (after being close to burnout due to not getting help I needed) but in the form of an employee who actually takes more time than she helps. She is getting better, but she is way slower than others I have worked with. People both support and laugh with me that I currently have a PLAN HOW TO CHILL (taking an actual lunch break, limiting after work hours, etc.)...planning being often the opposite of chilling. Those Simpletons. 😎 So glad I can laugh at myself.

[@chakkaphak]

excellent as always Erik. This ENFJ feels very understood by you

[@sammijo667]

Being a ENFJ I tell everyone I know to do the test. All my friends are INFJ we always have multiple things to talk about and the conversations never end.

[@Tified967]

Tests aren't valid unfortunately. I test as an INTJ yet I was typed by CPT as a divergent ENFJ (so Ti-Ni dom subtype)

[@kikivon3501]

Seeing as INFJ have the rarest personality type I do not think ALL of your friends are true INFJ

[@firet101]

This video was extremely helpful I had struggled for long time on whether as an ENFJ and infj you help me confirm my theory that I'm an ENFJ caught in a loop of my more introverted recessive traits thank you for the assist

[@LatIenws]

I’m definitely an infj but I feel like I come out as enfj when I’m in my “best” I like people, I love people and I love feeling like I help out. But honestly I just kinda wish people could take care of themselves by following simple principles and trying to keep peace. Keeping friendgroups and merging them is soo incredibly exhausting. Unfortunately I cannot help people without having contact. I wanna express through my art but I fear it may not affect positively to certain people. Hanging out feels like the route to go. But ugh I can last so very little… ): One day I’ll figure it out. Or I’ll create a secret account to post my art and see if anyone can sort of relate to it and it helps out.

[@heathermartin7459]

I’m INFJ and feel exactly the same way

[@tdog262]

Your ENFJ analysis is on point

[@godmode3611]

According to Linda Berens, ENFJs are primarily Choleric temperament, Dominant DiSC style, In Charge interaction style. INFJs are primarly Melancholic temperament, Compliant DiSC stye, Chart the Course interaction style. So basically you need to do test and study those 2 variants that are related across those personality theories. I have always got the first, so I know for sure I am ENFJ.

[@ErikThor]

Personally, I have said INFJs are the Phlegmatic Melancholic types. ENFJs are the Choleric Melancholics.

[@godmode3611]

@@ErikThor That can also work then. If you are choleric, then you know you are ENFJ =D

[@lowellmiller6663]

Very interesting! I'm an infj male,melancholic primarily and choleric very close 2nd.

[@melissasmith4180]

i got typed by a biotype expert as a fake fire analyzing phlegmatic so makes sense i am ENFJ lol because a fake fire woman is a fake choleric.

[@anaamore6907]

Still confused but I really appreciated this. I love that part "let yourself be vulnerable" thank you.

[@HSfox]

I score for both right in the middle. But I think I'm more infj .. great vid BTW...

[@ariasky4546]

You are so right about knowing yourself better. I have tested every NF type, yet when I looked at introverted feeling I knew that wasn't me. For a while, I was thinking that I was an ENFJ, but I'm actually leaning more towards INFJ now. I do think that I've come to put myself out there more over the years, but that hasn't always been the case, and I would say that people I went to high school with (for instance) would call me more quiet and reserved. I think that perhaps I confused Extroverted Feeling with being an extrovert because Fe can be so interested in people. At the end of the day, I would much rather recharge alone though, and even my INTJ husband will accuse me of pushing him away for some alone time. I work in a helping profession, and sometimes by the end of the day, I just don't want to have to think about anyone's feelings or needs but my own.

[@glicmathan1771]

This is brilliant analysis. I tested as an ENFJ but identify equally with INFJ. Still trying to figure it out. This video helps. Thanks!

[@0x44_]

Wow. As an ENFJ, when you started talking about the hero's journey they go through around the 3 minute mark, I really felt like you were perfectly describing me. I didn't even know this was a common arc so to speak. I'm just at a point in my life where I've tried helping a lot of people only to be kinda punished for it that I am digging deep into my cave and working on my dream, spending a lot of time alone.

[@imnotaweebyounormie547]

Yeah that’s why I don’t think I fit entirely into a personality type. Because I know my personality can change through time and experiences. Just think of it as how I would do and think personally..

[@siahjun4]

Well of course a person personality will change but this test allow you to identify what personality type you are at this moment. It's just a tool to understand yourself better I think

[@TheBananaDeanna]

Learning about all personality types is quite interesting as well helpful informative! Thank you & excellent video!

[@ErikThor]

Thanks! :) Next video: Developing Introverted iNtuition!

[@BethanyLowe8773]

Excited for this, of course!

[@jennyft4055]

Wow, excellent work! Its like you were inside my ENFJ brain 😂 I have an INFJ friend, and I also recognized him in you description. Thanks for this clear and insightful video!

[@iambutasmolcat.7040]

my gf is an infj and im an enfj, im so glad i found this video, it makes understanding our parts more clearer

[@sierracockrell616]

Thank you for all of your videos. A few videos ago I was able to better discern my MB type, as I kept testing between ENFP and ENFJ. I took a more detailed personality and the results were indeed ENFJ as I found relationships and people, resources and surroundings were all very very important to me as well as moral direction. I have a good friend who is an infj and he and I are similar and different in many ways. I asked him once if he ever got a headache after being around others for a long period of time. He actually laughed and replied “No, because I don’t go out. I don’t know how else to answer that lol” 😂 he also is more open minded than I am

[@leighlong7005]

Great video Erik! My mom is an ENFJ and sharing ideas, giving talks with people comes naturally to her. Im an INFJ and worry too much about what people think of me. What about a video on embracing/find the positive in our personality type?

[@faywillowstream]

I’m an xNFJ and I tend to be compulsively vulnerable because I crave being seen and understood the way I feel I see and understand others. But it always makes me feel really BARE, ya know? It feels dichotomously flowing and brave. It seems like there’s equal evidence for and against me being and INFJ or ENFJ. Sigh! Thanks for the thoughtful content, as always.

[@oliviamartin6963]

Sameeeeeee Dx Idk what I am

[@ChillWill281]

ENFJ here and you sir are 100% correct 🙃

[@being-Lisa]

Blown away how accurate you are on ENFJs!

[@scrubs4everr]

This is so true! Awesome :) (coming from an ENFJ)

[@rainbowlove3371]

You truly deserve an oscar for this clear explanation Keep up I love your work !

[@moonsharn]

So I’m definitely ENFJ, and thank you so much! I felt really seen, heard and understood in this.

[@ohyoufailedbusiness308]

I love your explanation, couldn’t have said it better ♥️

[@deetee8337]

this is the best video. i haven’t felt this seen in any other NFJ videos or forums, because they use so many stereotypes that i don’t fit with. but this video really strips down how our cognitive processes work. just a pure and uncorrupted explanation. thank you!

[@m33la]

Im still confused i feel like im both😭😭😭

[@guac7323]

So took me a little bit to find the word of having both Introvert and Extrovert traits and that is an Ambivert. I HIGHLY consider mysef as an ANFJ, however, I been leaning alot more towards the INFJ. Being Extroverted is so much fun especially cuz socializing can be great but I just don’t trust people like before and honestly I always been a couch potato lol I love home.

[@JonasAnandaKristiansson]

This came at the most perfect time, wow!

[@ErikThor]

Always in synch!

[@spooky6002]

So true!!! I just received a manager position and I have all these goals and ambitions. No one thought I would get my promotion because I was to independent and outside the box. When I did in fact achieve it. Everyone was stunned. I told my team just follow me. I'll handle the smoke y'all just continue to do what what y'all have always done. Be great I believe in y'all!! 🖤🤘🏻💀

[@timothyc.8666]

Thank you for this explanation! I was struggling with thinking that I mistyped myself because I talk aloud and to my sibling a lot which makes me feel as though I was possibly extroverted. But I think the self-talking was a survival mechanism that I learned as a child. Hearing you explain the differences reassured me that I didn't make a poor judgement call as to the more resonating type. Honestly, I wish I could turn off the extroversion when I am with my friends and be more introverted. Dealing with everything else, I wish I could turn off the introversion and be more extroverted. An INFJ

[@JM-gm3ov]

Wow, this was golden. Thanks for a video of this qualitative! Much appreciated!

[@HelloimJasleen]

What about enfj and infj relationships?

[@pama_mmxxii]

power couple maybe ?? hahahah if both are mature ofcourse hahaha

[@sugaaa679]

Didn't work out unfortunately

[@rahadhil1140]

I am infj and my brother enfj . this video explains everything about us

[@nathanmcgary3751]

Love your perspective!!!

[@PowerRedBullTypology]

I think the problem with Extroverted Intuition types is not that they do not 'dare' to invest themselves or commit themselves to their ideas, but rather that they have *an extremely short time they are actually interested in their own ideas* . They are novelty seeking types that love to explore new ideas, but when the novelty wears off, their excitement and drive wears off too. Types like ENTP are quite daring, so that is really not the problem, but rather that they have other new ideas that already grab their interest and do again give them that 'high' instead of their older ideas that no longer do. In a sense they're *novelty-seeking-junkies* Unlike types like INFJ's , Ne-users care less about being wrong or doing something stupid. Ne users usually are fine with making mistakes, because they know they are pretty much testing stuff out the entire time. That's the whole point of the function. They like to explore and try out stuff, and a part of trying out new things out is to fail. Ni types tend to avoid failing a lot more because they would feel incompetent, and will do their best not to fail and be prepared for whatever is coming, because they have that one singular vision they want to achieve. However, Ne users are more like children who learn things, and fall and get up and it really does does matter much to them at all... I think that part of this video is really viewed from an INFJ (Ni) sort of perspecitve, and copy+pasted on a Ne user, while their goals and fears are completly different.

[@niawang540]

As an INFJ and living with an ENFJ, what you said actually makes sense!

[@margaretjudice8944]

Great information! I am an enfj.

[@mrigaankamuch]

As an ENFJ, this description is the one I've identified with the most.

[@meteoldrago9506]

All my test show above 80% on the ENFJ qualities with the extrovert always being over 90% so I don't doubt lol

[@solarestone]

I don’t agree with the thumbnail, but as an ENFJ with chronic depression I typically get called a: pioneer, trooper, leader, Batman, personal therapist etc

[@supersoldier9000]

Great video. Really liked how you finished it. I needed hear that so thank you.

[@shauntelstovall1582]

After watching this video I can definitely tell I’m an ENFJ. No doubt. Thanks for this video!

[@sanderp9768]

"Thinking about things for a very long time but never doing anything about it" This is something my mother was never able to get; always referred to me as phlegmatic and too passive for not being able to put anything into action. I always ponder so much over how others would react, what the best approach would be, what they'll most likely misunderstand, how I should avoid this, rearrange that, know exactly which parts they'll have trouble following through, and then form a decision by taking possibly everything into account, but still have others dismiss me for being insensitive because of their inability to see how any other outcome would have been way worse. Nothing sucks more than being told "you don't care" about things you spent so much time thinking about. Also, I've read that having aux Fe can make discerning your own feelings inside very difficult and that the shadow Fi will often call out the person for "not having an identity, not being able to tell your own feelings apart, not being able to stand for something" and I honestly relate to that a lot. I have a very hard time typing myself because I probably go in too deep with my analysis so I keep seeing the reasons why "this may actually be that" or "what if I answered that question differently due to xy". I simply can't make out what I'm feeling, struggle putting it into words or seeing it clearly, and when I attempt to do so the shadow Ne comes through and starts making up the possibilities on the spot, which often don't make sense and don't even align with how I feel. I feel insecure making a statement I'm not certain about, and the more inconsistencies I see the more sceptic I become :/ At times I'll be quite charming, outgoing, very fluid with my movements and generally operate better in larger groups (pointing towards enfj), but when I'm not taking my pills I get to the point of appearing socially inept and very awkward with both body language and word phrasing, and 1v1's with people are extremely difficult.

[@lukehebert8959]

When I started going to the gym. I was the only one there in my whole school. I KNEW that I’d eventually start showing some progress. Nobody hung out with me and they never texted me. Now people are noticing my progress and I’m making friends now! I’m definitely an ENFJ.

[@janetzinati1190]

Thank your for that clue at the end and I will do more to make myself vulnerable to learn more about my purpose I am btw an INFJ♥️🙏🙌

[@smathew8810]

Enfjs seem like a better match for infj's, than Entps.

[@lavendairea.5219]

As an INFJ, I’d say INTJs are perfect for me, ENTJs and ENTPs secondly, and ENFJs thirdly.

[@HandeIcyil]

I’m more feeling like bouncing back in between ,it depends on mood or on the situation itself .

[@jacewritesowo1902]

I saw the thumbnail and was offended. Actor? I think not. -ENFJ I say my opinions bluntly whether people get pissed, or not. Progress isn't made by being a liar. It's only through openness that compassion and trust and growth, can truly be formed. Edit: It's interesting that Scorpios are often ENFJ's, or INFJ's.

[@lucca.c1788]

Star signs are not valid

[@marciwahl4331]

I Love Astrology.

[@Miluielle]

@@lucca.c1788 they are but they are way more complicated then just your sun sign. The enneagram is the one I find with the least validity. . .it's like bad astrology.

[@swansong-oi2yz]

Hmm, maybe the reason he refers ENFJ as an actor (In a good way) is we are adapting on others personality to make them comfortable. ENFJs are very flexible and we easily pick up personalities of others, just like an actor portraying the character that was given to him. That's why most ENFJs, including myself and the ones that I encounter don't know who really they are and thinks they are fake, but that's just how we (ENFJ) works.

[@nicolasdanek4225]

would be cool to see the difference between the ISFJ and ESFJ types.

[@d.k.4217]

Me and my cousin are having a difficult time figuring out her type lol. We both are truly ambiverts and are extremely similar, but after and couple of months of typology research I am quite confident that I’m an INFJ. I thought she was too but she took a few test and after some not so accurate results (including ISFP and a few ENFP), the test where she tested as an ENFJ made the most sense considering that they are the same functions with a different stacking. The only thing that isn’t fitting is the whole good guy friendly profile thing. She is often perceived as “cold”, “unapproachable”, or “standoffish”, even more so than me. She also might not do too well with sudden change and is not going to be the one to take on a leadership role in a situation, in fact she often ask me to do it. However, she is more upfront about asking people questions and getting to the bottom of their feelings and opinions on things. She is also less reluctant on expressing her honest opinion compared to me hence the dominant Fe. She focuses less on her intuition than I would as well and is more grounded in reality. I want to add that she is less likely to be mistaken for a thinking type than I am. I am often confused for being an INTJ amongst our friends, even by my friend who actually is an INTJ.

[@loganlove9986]

Have you considered looking at the Enneagram for further enlightenment?? She may truly be an ENFJ, but take a look at the Type 8, and tell me how it goes!!

[@nrmlyaroy7135]

Highly informative video it was

[@thehilaryglow]

I don't think I'm either one of those, but rather a combination. And I believe I'm not the only one, as us humans are complex and there are many different aspects to our personalities. My past, my upbringing and background, my experiences and the people I've known so far, all these make up the person that I am. I can easily express myself at times, or avoid it at all costs at other times. It depends on the people I'm with, or if I want to be among other people at all. My mood changes according to what I want my day/situation to be. I'm very organized and structured in my work, but only if I make my own rules and stick to my knowledge. I tend to work alone and prefer being a freelancer, however, I like to meet different people and work outside in a dynamic-but-quite-silent environment. I just set up my mind, goals, activities and daily routine according to what I feel like, or according to a certain goal I want to achieve. Therefore, there are times in my life when I'm busy on a daily basis and having a chain of thought not to be broken by anyone else, and there are times when I like to chill and receive vibes from everything around me. And sometimes I just stay home with myself, indulging in some fun alone activity just like now, watching psychology and personality videos, writing down my thoughts, having good time with myself, learning a lot. Yesterday I was more into communication with strangers, and the day before I went on a short family trip. Today I feel like being alone, and tomorrow I want to be out with friends. That's how my life is, it's all about different rhythms and intervals - sometimes high, sometimes low, sometimes outside and sometimes at home. So I can't really judge myself according to one or two personality types, and many of the questions on the test are often make me click "neutral" because I can't tell if I'm necessarily one way or the other. I'm usually a combination or on a different scale of my answer according to my situation in life or my relationships with people. I don't think we can, or should, box ourselves into one type of personality. We're constantly changing and our lives are constantly evolving.

[@briannakimick]

For me it’s not natural and effortless to be out and around ppl. I’m very drained in social situations and crave being alone with my thoughts. I experience trouble sharing my abstract theories but what keeps me from doing it is the fear of being judged and naked like you said and I’m like people are thinking I’m stupid and are judging me. I love processing and being serious about my ideas. And can commit to theories and hypothetical possibilities just a fear of being judged and naked.This sounds like more of an INFJs fear of vulnerability?

[@annagrace2422]

I love this video thank you!

[@kaylaandreano4556]

Point around at 11:00. Thank you Thor!! This is helpful to me so much!

[@Marinaemmarose]

As an ENFP I’ve always found ENFJ’s the most compatible match (more than INFJ’s) ❤️‍🔥

[@ali-sleimanchehade6129]

Tured out I’m an ENFJ-A / ENFJ-T and I dyslexic with ADHD with an IQ of 130 and yet I feel an outcast and alone! I’m lost and don’t know what to do or how I should do it and where should I start!!

[@joshuamcintosh7706]

Find your tribe and the friends that naturally connect to you by you being yourself.

[@LinYouToo]

9:40 I tend to fluctuate right in the middle of E vs I. But, I do put ideas out there and commit to them, follow through and make them happen. And if I’m the decision maker I make the decision fast normally. Including starting my own company. Yet there are times when I’m in my own head too much with introspection. I guess I’m a little bit I and a little bit E.

[@bbeyza8666]

finally i got it, thank you!! i'm enfj:)

[@Laura-et2xj]

Thank you so much.

[@xtalking2501]

Great explanation, thx :D

[@D8099.]

HOLY SHIT. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO. My tests constantly bounce me back and fourth. But your explanation makes more sense than any other person talking about the types on KZbin and believe I’ve watched everyone. I rarely ever seek external advice unless it’s from a book. Or in this case, your video. Advice I’m comfortably seeking alone. Now I know. And shit. Now I know I’m im the infj weirdo. ARENT we most likely to become homeless because we’re unwilling to accept reality or something? 😂

[@Dani-jo9yr]

Perfect 👌 me- enfj

[@koizu5324]

As an ENFJ having an INFJ friend, we sometimes feel like having the same brain. We have almost everything similar. The only difference is kinda like the drive, i tend to experience things and learn from it, while he is like more think everything in brain before going out there. More like i use my Se lot more than Ti while he uses Ti more than Se. So i regret using my Ti for the Se things I've done, not taking enough time to make that decision. But he is like regretting for missing out on opportunities.

[@TJOluic]

I wish greatly that people would understand how the hierarchy of functions serve one another in specific patterns rather than expect progressively sealing, almost random usage. I believe, though, that this is a natural byproduct of a greater population of Ne/si and Si/Ne users than Ni/Se or Se/Ni (though many Se/Ni don't involve themselves as much in psychoanylytical theory out of practical means, I assume.)

[@hellotherealien]

Do you have a video on my personality type? Im both an ENFJ-A and ENFJ-T. GREAT VIDEO BTW. Thank you! Much lightlove namaste 👍✨✨🤔🦄🤗✨✨👍

[@paraflax9198]

Exact same here! Cheers

[@Teckno72]

Some people are doers and do not get tired of the people they are with -more ENFJ SOME people enjoy people but at a certain point they want to be ALONE with themselves and their thoughts -more INFJ 😏

[@Tified967]

That's got nothing to do with extroversion. In & ex pertain to how we primarily take in information not how social we are hence why types mistype people. I know plenty of very social INFJs. I'm an introvert but a cognitive extrovert

[@faysmith7248]

I'm actually both. I battle with emotions and intuition alot. I have to pause and decide if I'm emotional or logical lol before I act out.

[@madisonworley931]

I think I am the same. But I’m not sure how to be as definitive about it as you are

[@ShaXCwalk]

Please make one for ENTP and ENFP.

[@imnotaweebyounormie547]

This is soooo fucking me. I’m like 12 percent Extraverted and 88 introverted

[@austinalexander238]

I don’t understand the difference in feeling and intuition

[@onionwings5207]

As an infj I would like to do somethint big but would not want recognition for it

[@HurricaneRainbowOG]

It's a synergy, not separate. Exactly

[@TomeRodrigo]

ENFJ here

[@mathgineous8919]

I'm an ENFJ also ima subscribe 😁!

[@alaasalah5882]

I did the test one year ago i was ENTJ then i did it again yesterday and i was ENFJ which i found it more accurate and close to me, my question is can personalities change in a short amount of time ??

[@Tified967]

Tests aren't accurate as they're predicated on behaviour not cognition. I actually test as an INTJ whereas I'm a cognitive ENFJ divergent Ti-Ni subtype in CPT

[@MD-in1jv]

I have bipolar and come up as either ENFJ or INFJ depending on my mood at the time of the test.

[@Tified967]

Tests are invalid as they're predicated on behaviour not cognition

[@homy5757]

Well. When you say INFJs just think seriously but do nothing, I tell my self:"Oh, this is me, certainly" and then you say ENFJs buy drawing desk and sit to draw things out and think they are able to do it but didn't recognise it hard for them" OMG it's ME too It's so hard for me to confirm i'm an INFJ or an ENFJ. The test give me 46 scores for IN and 45 for EN. LOL😂 But it fits me to say i'm afraid of vulnerable :(((

[@Tified967]

IN & EX don't pertain to how social one is the the Jungian sense hence why tests that are predicated on this type people incorrectly. I'm an cognitive extrovert but test as an extreme introvert

[@madisonworley931]

Okay now I’m still confused. I’ve also tested between ENFJ and INFJ. For context, my grandpa is an INFJ, and my sister is an ENFJ. Which is even more confusing for me. My sister is definitely the type to have big dreams but not be willing to do the heavy thinking that comes with that. My grandpa is a by the book INFJ. He has long and dramatic self reflection. I love both of these aspects of these people. But I am not like either of them. I share some qualities and have always drawn similarities between my grandpa and I. But I am an ambivert. So I guess I’m somewhere in the middle

[@ErikThor]

You can be :)

[@zenchiassassin283]

Nice

[@idlestrawr]

So in conclusion, online I'm an enfj and irl I'm an infj :"

[@supersoldier9000]

Get. Out. Of. My. Head. -ENFJ

[@themightyspartan1012]

To me I feel like I’m xNFJ depend how I feel.

[@wngdhssr]

I got infj-A first, and then enfj-a on my second try. I do ask people what they think when ive already voiced out my opinions, i do alot of the times feel like everyone is against me. At the same time 5 years ago i was very detached. So um help ¿

[@wngdhssr]

I do often tell the people close to me what i want and what i feel.

[@yourvirtualdad]

you only live once, nice shades btw

[@Mute2024]

That’s odd to score as both an extrovert and an introvert.

[@kikivon3501]

No they are called ambiverts. The key to knowing which one is you, or the one you lean towards more ask yourself this question. How do I recharge mentally? Does the thought of being alone for a whole day feel like a punishment or a reward? Does prolonged interaction with people energize you or does it drain your energy, and the way to recharge is down time or alone time?

[@Mute2024]

@@kikivon3501 then score as an ambivert or does the test not allow for it? I’m an introvert through and through.

[@CoriLiz]

Wait a minute.... isn’t ESFP the actor/entertainer?

[@ErikThor]

Well, Extroverted Feeling is very expressive, that's how I use the term. I also believe ESFPs have strong extroverted feeling , so the title makes sense. :)

[@kemieshrobb9524]

Are you an infj?

[@Anick8]

kemiesh robb no he just fakes it

[@classylilsassy6911]

One is outgoing/out spoken one isn't. And thats supposed to be the difference or the way there brain works.... SMH i redone this just to make sure I didn't word something wrong I think almost everybody is introverted or extroverted depending on who they are around.

[@Tified967]

Nooo that's not what intro & extro pertain to in the Jungian sense it's whether we take in info proactively or reactively. I'm a cognitive extrovert & very socially introverted

[@classylilsassy6911]

@@Tified967 is that reply to me? Probably not I normally don't have a notification if I am not tagged but every once in a while I will so I don't know lol 🤷‍♀️🤪🤦‍♀️🤭

[@emailgothacked]