Different types of ENFJs

[@SaraMBTI]

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[@onlinelovexx]

I love ENFJs. You read people like a wizard, it's magical. I also love your high Fe, it's one of my favourite cognitive functions.

[@sarajackson1615]

❤️

[@TL-ch1xd]

🤗💜🙏 ENFJ 1w2 here. Quite hard on myself so thank you. And feeling disappointed at how I this last year interacted with some others and treated a couple of people that really mean a lot to me, and I think deserve better. Thank you for the warming compliment about ENFJs. Getting back up in the horses saddle and will try to not be so harsh and ego. Wishing you a good, rewarding and happy life sweet soul! ☀️ May I ask what personality type you are? INFP perhaps? 😁 Just for fun guessing

[@onlinelovexx]

@@TL-ch1xd You're welcome😉 I am not sure about my personality type, but one thing I know for sure is that I'm not an xxFP. My enneagram is 3w2, tritype 368, so/sx. That much I can tell you. As for MBTI system, I know I use Se and Ni. I go back and forth between ESTP and ENTJ. Much love💗😄

[@shambhavisharma2592]

You made me feel so good about myself! Thank you ♥

[@onlinelovexx]

@@shambhavisharma2592 You're welcome 💗 ENFJs are the best, don't let anyone tell you otherwise

[@glitterbatman3864]

Infps who love to watch enfj contents raise your hands. I know you're here. - a fellow ixfp

[@nnn-v6w]

isfp :)

[@dianamations9371]

YEEES!! My boyfriend is an ENFJ so I’m just casually watching these to study his mannerisms XD

[@evedotcom]

busted. Just learning about the future love of my life, nothing to see here

[@dankr7009]

Not an ixfp but an infj watching this to see which is my enfj gf

[@iwrongic]

shhh

[@dezzkookie6907]

I’m a ENFJ 3w2 and also I’m studying law. The video describes me so well😂

[@Maria-ir1wq]

Dezz kookie I think Jimin is an ENFJ too

[@siska_yuri]

@@Maria-ir1wq yeah , I get that a lot , thinking back he gets a long with everyone since the beginning and he was close to them all more than other member hhhh (m V bias BTW )

[@qualitybeats9416]

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[@qualitybeats9416]

Ekrjr rkr r

[@qualitybeats9416]

😯😯

[@Toothily]

As an ENFJ 4w3 myself, Helena Bonham Carter is so goshdamn relatable.

[@SwedishTourist]

I’m an INFP who needs lots of ENFJ friends. Oh, and a ENFJ partner, please.

[@yeahmuddah8]

Jag är ENFJ och kan talar lite Svenska också…

[@kathytavoularis5487]

@@yeahmuddah8 ivh

[@ela-li1vi]

I love infps soooo much I want to protect you at all costs :')

[@carissanami5824]

ENFJ 4w5 here 👋 but I honestly never really understand my enneagram personality 😂

[@sandradibiaso7316]

Oprah is definitely an ENFJ.

[@vardhman]

Seeing emma stone and rashida jones made me so happy lmaooooo

[@lunapotter7006]

Proud to be an ENFJ ❤️❤️

[@avinashzoom]

ENFJ*

[@ThaleiaFantasy]

Wow. I was looking for the ENFJ I know, and was like maybe this one, maybe this one, nah. And then at the last one, I was like, ah ok this is like literally her. :D Good job as always!

[@dextinited.6277]

Nice idea. I would like to see the different types of INTJ next.

[@qualitybeats9416]

Isetoriy toyitor

[@qualitybeats9416]

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[@qualitybeats9416]

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[@renukawalawevithana3374]

Kate Winslet was soft spoken. Wish she was here as well...

[@velox5598]

Any 8w7 ENFJ's? Yes! This is what happens when you play a lot of Sonic when you are young haha!

[@JesusChristForEternity]

LMFAO

[@Dani-jo9yr]

Me! Finally got it right that make sense: 8w7 social, not 2w3🙋‍♀️👍😁took a while but it’s right.

[@_VISION.]

8w9

[@nikoletacude8721]

Any 7w6?

[@diplomat2623]

I’m an ENFJ 8w9!!

[@catharinamariatheresia1626]

ENFJ 2w3 here and Oprah Winfrey has always been my biggest example in my life.

[@linana5053]

Helena is ENFJ, now I understand why I like her so much, im female enfj too, they all give me good vibes

[@godmode3611]

I am ENFJ 1w2 and that doesnt seem common in reality. More likely in fiction.

[@TL-ch1xd]

Me too. Female ENFJ 1w2. That is quite rare (Internet told me ...)

[@hazelquart]

Whaaat? I'm also 1w2 ENFJ, I didn't know it was uncommon

[@laurasia0009]

I don't know how but I finally found you guys.

[@sanarehman9643]

i am as well!

[@LaniBanani]

Me too

[@spectronoid]

The difference that the 3 (both in core enneagram and wing) gives to them is really something

[@christineschreiber5073]

awsome idea!!! I wish I could click like ten times!!! please make a serie... that combo is amazing, I so often see how EDnneagramm and MBTI mix and how it explains a lot. This is so helpful/interesting!

[@SaraMBTI]

Thanks a lot!!

[@jaysonmuzuruk6604]

What the hell is this 3w2 and 2w1 stuff?

[@shannaneumiller2681]

TLDR: This video shows how the type differences of a second personality-typing system can manifest within the same MBTI type for the ENFJ, and that other personality-typing system is what the 3w2 and 2w1 stuff refers to. The 3w2 and 2w1 stuff refers to what's known as an Enneagram type. The Enneagram is a personality-typing system that identifies patterns of behavior and stress-coping mechanisms based on nine sets of basic human motivations. Many of the motivation sets are pretty similar, so the nine sets are arranged in a circle to be close to the types they're similar to. Each set is assigned a number. These sets of motivations are things that everyone experiences to some degree or another, but whichever set is the strongest motivator for an individual is their type. This is the first number of the 3w2 or the 2w1, for example. Here are about two of many things that define each type: Type 1 - your basic fear is being wrong (e.g. morally wrong)/you are most motivated to be right and to avoid making mistakes. Type 2 - your basic fear is that no one loves you/you are most motivated to try to earn love from other people. Type 3 - your basic fear is that you are not important/you are most motivated to be seen as important by society and by the people around you. Type 4 - your basic fear is that you are not special/you are most motivated to find or create your own personal identity. Type 5 - your basic fear is that you are not competent/you are most motivated to become highly competent in areas that attract your interest. Type 6 - your basic fear is being left without support and guidance/you are most motivated to build systems of trust with other people. Type 7 - your basic fear is being deprived or in pain/you are most motivated to keep yourself excited and occupied. Type 8 - your basic fear is being harmed or controlled by other people/you are most motivated to be in control of your own life. Type 9 - your basic fear is loss and separation from others/you are most motivated to have harmony in your environment. So that's the first number. The w and the second number refers to one type of variation possible within the same Enneagram type: a "wing," or which of the neighboring sets of motivations an individual's personal motivations is closest to within their basic type. For example, you can be a 1w9 or a 1w2 because 9 and 2 neighbor 1 when the types are laid out on the circle, but you can't be a 1w3 because types 1 and 3 do not neighbor each other (though you can have some other relation to type 3 as a type 1, whether that's through being classified with a different type of known variation within type 1, or just by being a human being and thus experiencing some of all nine of the motivation sets within your life sometimes). To go into more detail, a 3w2 is a person whose leading motivations in life have to do with being important, and the 2-wing indicates that the version of this is closer to being loved than to being special. A 2w1 is a person whose leading motivations have to do with being loved, and the 1-wing indicates that their version of this is closer to being right than to being important. Any of the 16 MBTI types can have any of the 9 basic Enneagram types and the variants thereof, but this video shows how some different Enneagram types (and sub-types) can manifest within the ENFJ personality type. The idea of the video is that all the people featured might be ENFJs, but they don't all act the same; and their differing Enneagram types give us just another small piece of the puzzle that is an individual. If you're interested in finding your Enneagram type or learning more about the Enneagram, there are different sites that have tests or information, such as Truity (www.truity.com/enneagram/9-types-enneagram) or the Enneagram Institute (www.enneagraminstitute.com/), or a bunch of other sites really.

[@godmode3611]

@@shannaneumiller2681 Mbti Keirsey temperaments also have to do with core motivators. I would put this as another layer of motivation/fear that is more nurture based.

[@TheEarthRealm]

3w2 - Thaaat's me... 😅

[@telemahostelemahou7406]

"She called it 'shining'..." :) #Ni

[@loiccooper5375]

I love enfj so much OMG -infp

[@shopgirlshoediva]

A mix between 3w4 and 1 here ^^

[@shambhavisharma2592]

I have something in common with Helena Bonham Carter and Emma Stone. Are you kidding me? ARE YOU KIDDING ME???

[@aarondavem]

ENFJ-A (1w2)

[@songjune22]

Introverted ENFJ 6w5 here.

[@hwyeb4656]

I'm an enfj but I'm kinda a combination of the types ahhhh

[@psychegirl]

I'm an ENFJ 6w7. I've seen comparisons to Veronica Mars and Elizabeth Bennett.

[@SaraMBTI]

Interesting. Your Enneagram is rare in Enfjs :)

[@psychegirl]

@@SaraMBTI Really? Huh. I didn't know that. I've tested a few times for both and I still get the same thing.

[@SaraMBTI]

@@psychegirl Yeah. I am 4w3 and that's rare too but I believe 6w7 is even more rare. Do you know your Tritype maybe?

[@psychegirl]

@@SaraMBTI I don't :( I'm not sure where to test for that and which is a good test.

[@psychegirl]

Okay I think I took one. I got 926.

[@nickhyder9141]

Justin looks.......interesting.......

[@jamesw288]

I am an INFP love ENFJs

[@curtisharrington858]

ENFJ 7w8, an interesting combo let me tell you!

[@SaraMBTI]

Want to be the guest on my channel? :)

[@curtisharrington858]

@@SaraMBTI What fun! I'd love to get involved! :D

[@SaraMBTI]

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[@spectronoid]

btw when you get to do ENTPs, in case you don't have an example of an ENTP 4w5 to work with, check out Mike Patton

[@itsametaphorbrian4997]

I am such a fan of enfj as an infp, my best friend is one. But could someone maybe explain to me what '2w1'/ xwx means?

[@n.cat.1967]

Enneagram types. You could be a type 3 with a 2 wing, or a 4 wing.

[@itsametaphorbrian4997]

@@n.cat.1967 thank you very much

[@JonasAnandaKristiansson]

AWesome!!! I'd LOVE to see some 4w5 and 5w4 ENFJs. I'm not aware of any right away, thinking about it! You know any Sara? :) Do you think Emilia Clarke is a 2 btw? :)

[@SaraMBTI]

I actually think Emilia is an Istp but she really behaves like she is an Enfj in interviews :) Hm, Enfjs are rarely 5s :) I'd love to see that combo too

[@beybrain7896]

@@SaraMBTI I think I just might be an ENFJ 5w4 mistyped as an INFJ...

[@whitneyd6827]

Idk why it took me so long to get why the 2w3 example worked but once I did I was dyingg. Me af

[@joshuamcintosh7706]

How to find your type of enfj

[@godmode3611]

You need to learn about enneagram and type yourself or have someone that knows about the system and knows about you to help.

[@marianaribeiromrg]

ENFJ 6w7 here!! ❤️

[@hbtvproduction]

Me too!!!

[@shineaudios2611]

@@hbtvproduction how did you guys know?

[@irinaimme]

ENFJ 4w3 here

[@pregerzoreo4886]

Seeing loads of comments saying that people are infps.. its basically the same thing

[@lucca.c1788]

Idk if I'm a 2w3 of a 3w2 but this is great.

[@felixssausage6662]

both my 2 and 3 are one percent apart from each other so like am I considered both 3w2 and 2w3 or am I just 3w2 (since 3 was 1% higher)

[@fluffyvampire2046]

I’m Enfj but I didn’t know about this , how could I know which one is me?

[@dellhonne1971]

ENJF 4w3

[@shomokhdeadshot4443]

Please we want different types of ISTP's ❤️❤️

[@gallus9399]

yes

[@HumansOfVR]

the one and only Oprah

[@happiesthuman-qh7xn]

Depending on the situation I'm all of them, but 3w2 is me me

[@taylorskyblue9413]

What do those floating numbers mean?

[@ryebrymusic632]

I was hoping to see a 8w7 but they’re basically non-existent. Rip me. - ENFJ, 8w7

[@EmyN]

Omg!! That's me!! How niceee

[@rere5822]

That's me! ENFJ 8w7 lol

[@vlashkinovkyakutski426]

Yes different types of INTJs!!!

[@aysanalikhanloo9813]

Im an enfj 1😁

[@pyschologysection2552]

ENFJ-A 2w1 heree!

[@b.n.nachiket7727]

Guys im an ENFJ 7w8 , helloo 👋👋

[@aleeza3001]

What does the number and w mean? Please enlighten me thank you. hahahha ENFJ here

[@aaisha96]

Do you think Jessica Chastain is an ENFJ??

[@zzzcocopepe]

i think mbti is a blend. And you can fall into different types. emma stone is more ENFP and Rashida is more ESFJ. But they could both easitly be either one. Kate Winslet could be INFP. and Helena Bonham Carter could even be INTP.

[@winxclubstellamusa]

No, that’s not how the cognitive functions work.

[@zzzcocopepe]

@winxclubstellamusa it was a theory formed by Carl Jung. He never proved it and nobody else has either.

[@winxclubstellamusa]

@@zzzcocopepe no, it has been proven by brain scans! It’s much more than just a theory. It’s painfully obvious that you don’t understand it, so it’s best you don’t talk about it.

[@siska_yuri]

I think m more like Emma 3w4 even tho I can slightly relate to the others too hhhhh

[@av9706]

I am an Enfj 3w4 hehe

[@marcelaribeiro8785]

i'm a ENFJ 7w8 but have no idea what that means

[@SaraMBTI]

You're probably more energetic and fun loving than most ENFJs. You're enthusiastic and realistic.

[@user-yo9yz5wf9z]

I'm ENFJ 7W8 TOOO

[@marcelaribeiro8785]

I’m sometimes mistyped as ENFP, can that be a reason?

[@user-yo9yz5wf9z]

@@marcelaribeiro8785 i think so cause i do too but as an ENTJ

[@alexquista]

I'm ENFJ-T

[@christina2071]

I think my friend is an enfj 2w3 so/sx with a 271 tritype

[@anic4938]

Omg I'm like Ophra

[@toyang..]

3w2 lmaooo

[@angel8659]

Hey! Will you be doing this for ENTPs? 😀

[@KaymakveMimi]

How come I'm 7w6 Enfj...

[@Sal_Fx]

What the meaning of these numbers and consonants (4w3, etc) people are writing?

[@Sanfun14]

What are these numbers like 3w2?

[@bellabrieeee]

They are enneagram types

[@lucy__v]

I’m an ENFJ 4w5, but is that rare since it’s not in this video?

[@carissanami5824]

yeah, enfj 4w5 are rare, enfj 4w3 are more common. I used to think that I am 4w3 because I like to work with a bunch of people and as a group, but after some evaluations I realized that I'm more of 4w5 because I see creative process as an individual work; such as planning, thinking, designing and such, but as an extrovert I prefer to execute my plan with people. I also doubt that I am 4w3 because the wing 3 means that you need an approval for your creative works, but I don't really see it as a necessity. I think 4w5 are doing it for just a personal reason. also, I'm a type EII in socionics 😆

[@lucy__v]

@@carissanami5824 yeah that actually really makes sense to me. I like working in group projects and naturally take the lead but I’d rather be working alone rather than having to consider everyone else’s ideas and wants when it comes to creative ideas.

[@teobabarti9751]

3w2!

[@ilijakrivokapic338]

Cisto sumnjam da je barem polovina od ovih licnosti ENFJ. Opra je verovatno ESFJ-a,Kejt Vinslet mozda INFJ-a,Trudo isto ESFJ... Pozdrav od ENFJ-a 8w7.

[@SabrinaOrlicki]

What does the combination with w and numbers mean?

[@dddffssdfsdfwesdhfdf]

It’s their enneagram type and wing-so 3w4 would be enneagram 3 with a 4 wing

[@HuReLeeNose]

ENFJ 8w7

[@JesusChristForEternity]

Same!

[@Dani-jo9yr]

🙋‍♀️✅💪😁

[@rere5822]

🙋🏻‍♀️

[@joshuamcintosh7706]

It turns out I took the enneagram and I got 8 but why does it says 2w3 and that stuff

[@yasleep]

There are subtypes within the enneagrams for example type 4 has wing 3 and wing 5 that stand for Assertive type 4 and Turbulent type 4 respectively. Such subtypes are in most enneagrams :)

[@_VISION.]

Where is the 8w9 ENFJ?

[@Dani-jo9yr]

OR 8w7 social?😁

[@_VISION.]

@@Dani-jo9yr I'm an 8 so too haha

[@Dani-jo9yr]

@@_VISION. 🙋‍♀️😆🤪😜

[@_VISION.]

@@Dani-jo9yr 😱

[@hiyaiya2265]

I’am an ENFJ 1w9, have no idea whats that means.

[@SaraMBTI]

It means that you are perfectionistic and idealistic type of Enfj :)

[@hiyaiya2265]

Thank you :)

[@LaniBanani]

See Heather Graham

[@zeynoppwjwkdhdk]

Enfj 7w6 😀🙂💀

[@winxclubstellamusa]

Isn’t Helena Bonham Carter an ENFP?

[@ambers9755]

Who's the last one in the video?

[@alexios4392]

I'm looking for ENFJ girl. Just for talking :D

[@danzi268]

why not a boy if it's just for talking

[@Julia-ey4zd]

check out the cs Joseph discord service

[@alexdg8223]

Thats great! I'm an enfj and yes talking is really fun with one of those enfj's 😆

[@alexios4392]

@@alexdg8223 Let's talk :D

[@alexdg8223]

@@alexios4392 ahaha alrightt! Anyway, what's ur mbti type? 😆

[@laylastory91]

enfj 9w1 👋

[@EmyN]

No ENFJ 8w7?

[@rere5822]

🙋🏻‍♀️

[@f.j.9391]

I'm INFP 9w8 so I can see why ENFJ 2w3 should be my match lol

[@qualitybeats9416]

😍si. Mamas. Comimama

[@qualitybeats9416]

si. Jade. Nada💖damira

[@papl20]

How do I know what type am I?

[@SaraMBTI]

You can do the Enneagram test online

[@papl20]

@@SaraMBTI oh thanks! Would it be possible for you to give me a link? I can't find where to do it

[@rosedebrantes28]

ENFJ 9w1 anyone?

[@SaraMBTI]

Nice! That's rare :)

[@user-yo9yz5wf9z]

Anyone ENFJ 7W8??

[@bluxpretion]

I don't even understand what is going on here

[@zoibazia2672]

I'm a 4w3 ENFJ lmaoooo no surprises there

[@khalidsahib1527]

wat r all of these numbers an Ws

[@danzi268]

why only one boy

[@SaraMBTI]

Enfj boys are rare xD

[@chri5ssamiere]

Neil degrasse tyson?

[@alexquista]

@@SaraMBTI YESS haha

[@sofitocyn100]

My mom is definitely an enfj. The toxic type

[@ShekinaS]

I know everyone here love ENFJs but HOW CAN I RUN AWAY FROM ONE HE'S TRYING TO FIX ALL MY LIFE AND TRAUMAS AND HE'S SCARING THE SHIT OUT ME. -ISFP

[@dazed_and_amazed1296]

😂 gurl run!

[@rebeccalalthamawi7048]

I swing from ENFJ INFP ENFJ

[@dazed_and_amazed1296]

Isn’t our inferior functions INFP? That might be the confusion

[@svetiilija4666]

first girl on the video is ESFj... same is true for Oprah Winfrey... if you cannot see that, you are possibly not ENFj yourself

[@Revelwoodie]

Well, I am definitely an ENFJ, and I cannot "see that," nor can you. I seriously doubt any of these celebrities have publicly released test results. We are all just guessing based on behavior. No one, including you, can declare the personality types of people you don't even know. We can hypothesize, in situations like this, where doing so might be useful to facilitating a discussion of typology. Which is all this video is intended to do.

[@bobertcollins3297]

First

[@SaraMBTI]

Fast

[@Carolina-cm6nu]

As an ENFJ 5w4 I kept waiting for one example, just one of my type… 🥲 but this was a lovely video, thank you for making it!

[@SaraMBTI]

Thank you! :) Would you like to be on my channel? It's rare to find an Enfj 5w4. I would love to have a video of you talking about yourself and your type

[@morganamarianana3088]

Where’s ENFJ 4w5 I wanna seeeeee that’s me

[@SaraMBTI]

Would you like to be the guest on my channel? Your type is rare and it would be good to show it to the people :)