Let's analyse these two ENFJs

[@SaraMBTI]

3:14- "hand" not ,,head"- my bad ;)

[@chantalx388]

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[@SaraMBTI]

@@chantalx388 Serbian language

[@chantalx388]

@@SaraMBTI Thank you 😊🌹

[@t5396]

@@SaraMBTI can ENFJs appear introverted, quiet, reserved? Is that common?

[@SaraMBTI]

Yes. I made videos that are representing different types of each type. I am an Enfj 4w3 and I think that I am ambiverted.

[@lucca.c1788]

As an enfj i prefer to call it mutual cooperation in the goal of elevating vibes rather than competion 😂

[@february1796]

Exactly. ENFJ here and I never do it in a competitive way. It's just me trying to maintain the positive and joyful vibes 🤪

[@jennyft4055]

Exactly! I felt deeply misunderstood when she said they were "competing" to tell "the best story" or joke xD. That's not what's happening! It's ping-pong: your story, my story... It's a form of bonding: "omg, we're so alike, the same thing happened to me!" and getting psyched about this closeness. Your wording is on point, it's really about "elevating the vibes"!

[@lucca.c1788]

@@jennyft4055 Shucks you're to kind, ur making me blush.

[@jennyelsie]

Yes so true! As an ENFJ I am RARELY competitive over much of anything, but definitely not in communication. The spotlight DOES make me ackward, which is all the more reason I'm not competitive in the conversation: I don't want the spotlight.

[@diplomat2623]

Agreed!!! ENFJ here!

[@stefanycarrasco6245]

I'm ENFJ, and I really hate making people feel uncomfortable, so I usually give good feedback even if they are saying bullshit hahahahah! Loved the video!

[@valentina7182]

HAHAHA me too xD im ENFJ

[@sophie-pw7eh]

Same! Enfj gang ✌️

[@snackpack3787]

lmao I love the irony of your statement

[@PowerRedBullTypology]

@@poojan6279 I do not think INFP's like "fake" compliments. In fact, they often express they dislike it at least (but maybe they secretly do not care?)

[@Kristina-fr8jh]

I do the same although I'm an INFP :D

[@carolinahorning]

It’s not a competition at all It’s a flow ENFJ here

[@jhoseelinbermudez1996]

TOTALLY I'm an ENFJ and I guess thats what the expectant think because if they do that to someone is that the focus to, but we don't care competition we care people feel heard, comfortable and valued.

[@Revelwoodie]

Hi! ENFJ here. I would be careful about reading too much "competition" into what is going on. When Jennifer told her own misheard lyric anecdote, for instance, she wasn't trying to "one-up" Emma. ENFJs always want to validate the person they are with in a social situation, and a common way for us to do that is with a "cool, me too!" moment. By sharing her own misheard lyric anecdote, Jennifer is demonstrating to Emma that she is interested in the topic Emma brought up. Same thing with the turtle stories. We are reluctant to just change the subject, because that feels like it would send the signal that we don't find what the other person said to be worthy of discussion. So we will engage in participatory behavior, like, "Oh, you had a siamese cat when you were little? My Aunt had one and I just loved it!" Translation: "Yes, I am interested in what you just said about siamese cats." And the more insecure we perceive that the other person is, the more we will do this, to reassure them and demonstrate that we are engaged. My husband is an ENTP, and he often misunderstands this behavior when I do it, and also thinks I'm trying to "one-up" him sometimes, lol. I assure you that isn't what we are doing. (At least I'm not, lol, perhaps it's different for others.)

[@Bookooky]

So true! Really agree. -ENFJ

[@jennyft4055]

YES! Every word is on point! I was bothered by the competition analysis, which is simply not true for ENFJ. It's exactly what you described. I don't know if it's an ENFJ thing of just a me thing, but competition makes me unbearably anxious. I avoid it at all costs. I would not keep a conversation going with someone I feel I'm in competition with.

[@kami2727]

I'm an ENFJ too and I 100% agree!! At least for me that's what I've always done. Also yeah I really try to steer clear of competition too because I think it tends to lead to conflict

[@jennyelsie]

100% true!!! I'm an ENFJ and I totally agree with your assessment!

[@theaccountshandle]

Y e s thank you! This is what I feel and do too!

[@AEHudg]

They look like best friends with their own language and inside jokes.

[@carissanami5824]

I am an ENFJ. I did sarcasm and sometimes I need to tell people that I was joking

[@Kristina-fr8jh]

I'm an INFP and people almost never get it when I say something sarcastic smh :'(

[@SabrinaOrlicki]

I am an ENFJ, and I love these two. Finally know why! 😀

[@stephanieh5478]

Same, love Jennifer Lawrence! Now I know why.. she's like me- ENFJ

[@g4tinz706]

❌❌AKIL THE MC IS TUPAC ❌❌

[@Aero1818]

Same here

[@lukehebert8959]

As an ENFJ, I am SUPER awkward but I try to make people feel comfortable the whole time or at least stay in a good mood.

[@icyvera]

so relatable can i share this comment on an image in my we heart it account? i can delete your name if you want to

[@tutsebhatu6495]

same

[@octoberbabybee]

I love ENFJs so much, they always make everyone feel so welcomed, I just ahhh i love that so much!! it's such a beautiful quality (infp here)

[@koizu5324]

We love INFPs a lot too. Good to meet ya 😊.

[@snowjae9380]

Enfj here! And I adore INFPs :)

[@individualthoughts4427]

ENFJ's are really my favorite out of the 16 personalities.

[@linana5053]

What is yours?

[@Olivetree80]

I always thought they were similar, but hadn't considered that they'd be the same type. They're so comfortable around each other! Nothing seems incongruent.

[@SaraMBTI]

Ok, where have you been all this timeeeee

[@Olivetree80]

@@SaraMBTI

[@user-iw6cu9oz8y]

At times, an ENFJ checking the vibe is almost like echo-location for us to understand how close we are to connecting with the other person.

[@thotiana6583]

2:57 “Just imagine one more ENFJ here or four ENFJs, five, six, seven, eight…” That sounds like a dream come true 😂❤️ -INFP

[@sabrinapitt1466]

Ive been an infp in a room of 3 enfjs and an enfp, it's very overwhelming, though I can vibe with them individually

[@rizzaespina686]

This actually makes me so happy! I need a ENFJ friend 🥺

[@artemissrijan473]

Hiiiii

[@rizzaespina686]

@@artemissrijan473 hiiii I like you videos!

[@artemissrijan473]

@@rizzaespina686 Thanks! But those videos were made when I was younger, next year I'll be remaking other videos! :)

[@rowanfinley293]

Where are you from?

[@rizzaespina686]

@@rowanfinley293 Houston tx

[@15minutestoread97]

I want an ENFJ best friend! I think I would feel so comfortable with another ENFJ. I'll have to keep searching :(

[@ghaddamagged7190]

I'm here, and I'm ready

[@theducter4593]

I'm an ENFJ but my best friend is an INFJ, XNFJs usually get along quite well

[@ACDBunnie]

@@theducter4593 I'm also an ENFJ whose best friend is an INFJ! And so is my ex. And so is a new friend from work. Honestly, I'm close to so many self-proclaimed INFJs that it's hard for me to believe it's the rarest personality type lol

[@theducter4593]

@@ACDBunnie yeah same, it's hard to believe it's the rarest type when they're all around us

[@hanismastura1827]

I'm an ENFJ and I found an ENFJ friend in 2015. She is amazing! We got along so well. If I have a problem with my bestfriends which are INFP, ISTJ and INFJ, I will talk it out with my ENFJ friends. :)

[@MizzDaniaWorld]

SO INTERESTING THAT THEY HAVE SIMILARITIES LIKE IN EVERYTHING INCLUDED VOICE TONE.

[@whitneyd6827]

4:44 yes, I know *exactly* what you mean. We love attention precisely because we want to spread smiles and happiness to everyone involved and we know we have the skills to do that, but we somehow often feel undeserving of the spotlight and it can make us come across as a bit awkward. Oddly, though, I think this is part of why people find us to be charming. Many different types of people find it easy to relate to us because of this dichotomy. Our confidence in our social skills yet humility about using them makes us very... human. This interview made me smile because it's exactly how my best friend (another ENFJ) and I act together. It's never a competition for attention, we just love playing off each other and catching each other off guard with an unexpected witty joke or dry sarcasm

[@BrittnyOBrien]

I LOVE the spotlight if it's to make OTHERS feel good...but HATE it if it is "about me"...accolade, etc. For YEARS...the thought of being a Bride "your day/center of attention" ...literally the.worst.fear.

[@milacruz3970]

I always thought they were a bit too much. Turns out I'm an ENFJ too 😆

[@EmyN]

I disagree about the competition segment, we just want to fuel the conversation and connect with you, as in like "oh we are talking about this? Cool! I have one story about it too, I'm interested", I guess people might see it as competition but it's really not lol. Great video 👍

[@jhoseelinbermudez1996]

Not competition but partnership, we engage and enjoy to give people validation by understanding stories. Maybe the personality of the expectant is introvert or just in her eyes for her to do that engaging is to compete, but we ENFJ don't care about competition but engaging, it's not about "seeking attention " it's about making other people feel heard, validate and part of the group, thats why we adopt introverts. LOVE ❤ MBTI FAMILY ENFJ siblings💗👑

[@ilona6328]

You should do this kind of video for every type! It is very interesting how they interact.

[@TruthSeeker.John8.32]

ENFJ has tons to talk about. It's like sitting in a comedy talk show.

[@ElizabethWalters-yk4ui]

YES its a never-ending battle of trying to listen to the person while also trying to be heard

[@alibird7924]

Dude, you’ve become my favorite MBTI channel. Your videos and analysis are awesome ❤️

[@SaraMBTI]

Sending you love

[@johnniedilangcruz9287]

This was great! Typology became easier to understand this way, w/o too much jargon and detail w/c can be very confusing. This was spot on for me as an NT type.

[@SaraMBTI]

Thanks a lot :) I am glad some people love this style

[@KaymakveMimi]

As an Enfj, I always confirm people around me because I don't want them to feel awkward or uncomfortable. It's tiring sometimes because you can't find same confirmation from others. I feel like I care others feelings more than they cared their whole life.

[@estrella8815]

two INFP's please! :)

[@Replenishyourheart]

I've recently found out I'm an ENFJ. This Convo between these two is so comforting. Feels like I'm home.

[@a.k.1217]

yay, I'm first! this is really interesting. seeing two of them in one frame is making clear that an enfj-body-language exists. also kinda creepy how distinctively in sync they are haha. what a sight to see if there were a pack of enfjs jeez! overall they looked awkward. I mean, of course, I wouldn't want to compete with such charming other enfjs. *wink wink*

[@safichii]

INFP here and happily enjoyed this ENFJ goodness content.

[@Add__1]

Great analysis ! Yeah I had previously thought emma was an ESTP I guess because her Ti is very well developed. She also seems to be a more mature and self aware than Jennifer (not pushing the whole competition thing)

[@heatherbryant4197]

I like this new style of analysis. It would be cool to see an INTP and INFJ interact. Also maybe an INTJ or ISTJ, and even more interesting to see them interact with an Fe dom, for contrast.

[@aboveus5438]

Yeah i really want to see an INTP AND INFJ interaction, like in a movie too

[@kenia7601]

I love your channel. Can you please consider doing an INTJ and ENFJ video

[@artemissrijan473]

3:02 That would be a mess?? That would be an absolute blast!!🔥🔥🔥 I'd love to be part of such a conversation!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Maya_Ruinz]

Absolutely love these two, I would totally have a blast being a goof ball with them.

[@jezlinpaulino6874]

As an ENFJ I hate when people try to make it into a competition or try to make it seem competitive. If anything it’s like let’s add more more to this pile of shit called stories or entertaining people. I never see anyone as a competition if anything I have an ego complex. My biggest issue when in these type of situations where I feel like someone is trying to spar with me, it’s to assert dominance I kind of crush that mentality they have. & I try to be very very aware of any limiting belief I have about ppl JUST incase I don’t treat the as an equal. I get what you’re saying about Jennifer and Emma‘s dynamic base of just body language and I think with how they talking and interacting but they’re both actors idk if it super clear here the dynamic, “alpha”.

[@sililtatchu]

"They actually very shy, they a little bit anxious" wow i can't tell 🤣 they are extrovert. How do you know? You translate their body language. I am bad at that. N i hope u add eng sub.

[@stiken4421]

Simple way - they engage, initiate all the time during this conversation. Introverted would wait for the other one to finish or wait for a next question (hope I don't sound here as blurry as I think). But "the typing" of them needs to be done by watching more of their interactions, and I guess Sara have done it before recording ;)

[@EmyN]

Because of their body language, they are arched and focusing on facing what's on their hands, leaning on each other for support and comfort. They don't tend to look at the other people in the room, just each other, so even though they are extroverted they are uncomfortable in I'm assuming a room full of people. Bonus: I'm an ENFJ lol we can be shy and anxious but it can be difficult to believe because of our flashy exterior

[@XGoldenPhoenixX]

This was interesting, I had watched that video before and I didn’t noticed the things you said about them before you said it. I can see now that they actually are a bit awkward, I actually thought that they seemed really comfortable at first, but that is probably because they are joking a lot. I also didn’t pick up on the competition thing, but I can definitely see it now. It would be so much fun to see videos like this with all of the same personalities interacting with each other!

[@SaraMBTI]

Thanks a lot for your feedback :) I will make more of these

[@kianaspeaks]

INFP here & NOW i know why I’ve been so romantically attracted to them for the past couple years haha

[@sunflowerpower642]

I LOVE THIS so muchhhhh my sisters.

[@gordmccoll5009]

ENFJ and this is totally my energy.

[@hfortenberry]

Yes, I want to see more of this! Very interesting. Maybe one suggestion would be to let the whole video play, or at least longer snippets, so we can get a better feel for them before breaking it up into such small chunks. But overall, this was interesting and helpful!

[@Venefica_me]

ESTJ here. My boyfriend's an ENFJ, he's completely humorous, sarcastic and we're constantly engaging in various jokes and comical statements. The main difference in between our sense of understanding is that I have to understand every single aspect of the topic and the systematically organized ideas in order to get entertained. In order to get each others ways, we're evolving to smart and technical jokes and even commentary, I get to understand humor and he gets to think strategically more often. :)

[@SteppingStonevlogs]

This opened my eyes a LOT. I am going to think more about this and what you have said to try to become more aware of how I am with people and a better listener (I love chatting with people but do not ask enough questions). I also want to the chaotic good of several ENFJs in one room LOL

[@someoneelsewhere9519]

I love Emma Stone

[@KOK-sb5oy]

I really appreciate your efforts 💖 The video is literally perfect thank u 💮💖✨

[@KeiPyn24]

ENFJ. I was married to and INFP. While a good match physically, she sometimes would get my sarcasm and humor. But when she became stressed (post partum depression and self imposed unhappiness) everything I said became suspicious of motivation. As if my desire to help through questions were seen as attempts to subvert vulnerability. Or if talking in banter she became easily offended, hurt and accuse me of saying something mean spirited. I admit as and ENFJ I have a sniper scope on button pushing. I seldom use that to "kill" but do so to get the person to think. When Lizzy and I first met, I liked her "hippie vibe". She was funny and had deadpan humor which I loved.

[@yz8551]

If you’re not an ENFJ you just don’t get it. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@lei5072]

Because of this video I can say that I'm an ENFJ 😂

[@perryabruz6846]

This is so interesting seeing the theory in action, yes yes yes👌✨

[@BrittnyOBrien]

It's def NOT competition!! It's just EXCITEMENT and wanting to share with someone. ❤😂 That's all. There is NO EGO involved. 🤗

[@RCAnderson42]

Now I know why I love them both...

[@HY-td1hx]

Okay, finished the video and I am not an expert but this feels a bit off. I don’t think they are competing. Jen’s merely sharing a similar story to engage, showing that she’s listening and would like to relate. I think she does this a lot with her friends. Competition sounds a bit off track because she doesn’t try to win but wants to laugh and make the atmosphere enjoyable.

[@SaraMBTI]

Are you an Enfj?

[@morganmiller5413]

@@SaraMBTI I am, and I agree with the Above statement.

[@hawk992]

@@morganmiller5413 Me too😊 It's more like creating a nice vibe together. So maybe a cooperative one-up.

[@yuhliagelats9747]

This was so accurate as an ENFJ

[@damilaresotunde2901]

Would love to see you analysing infj like this

[@laceypennies]

If these two are ENFJs that would explain why I like them so much.

[@lm2082]

It's definitely not competition. It's mutual engagement and exchange of a great conversation of excitement overflowing from each other. Oh my goodness! I can see how us ENFJ's are confused.

[@Enigma96969]

Love these great job 👍🏻

[@becca211]

I think it's totally fine that the ENFJs dont view it as competition or refuse that it is competition at all but please open your eyes that other types see this as competition because to their interpretations via their own funtion stack that's what it feels like and therefore is valid and needs to be understood just as much as others understanding to you it is not competition.

[@hawk992]

You have a good point. There is different views on that behavior. But in the end the question is what Emma and Jennifer feel and think about the one-up situation, right? - ENFJ

[@selectman6352]

Very good analyses on these two test subjects. - INTP

[@azaryas6999]

I know this is strictly about MBTI, but an interesting fact is that Emma is a Scorpio and Jennifer is a Leo - one is more reserved while the other is a bit more outspoken. It's an interesting dynamic to witness, I think, with two different ENFJs. Thank you for the analysis!

[@bafbaas1210]

I honestly think Emma is more Esfj or even Entp (Entp's can be really playful and energetic) while Jlaw is the real Enfj (maybe even estp)

[@rowanfinley293]

I really don't get the sense that there is any competition here. I think they just are enjoying one another's company and relating to one another well. I'm smiling ear to ear listening to them banter because they're having fun. I don't see most friends have this much fun together anywhere.

[@sxyteesa0890]

As an ENFJ I think they’re hilarious 😂 definitely not a competition 🙄

[@louern123]

Is it insecurity that makes them want to keep talking ?

[@SaraMBTI]

That is one of the reasons

[@louern123]

@@SaraMBTI Do (we) really believe that certain cognitive functions can pre-dispose people to being insecure? - Look I am def. convinced that certain functions pre-dispose to ADHD, OCD, depression, etc., I just have a harder time making these assumptions for things like insecurity for some reason. What do u think?

[@medhud609]

Do it with Lisa & Somi kpop, they're both enfj too,, hh~~ but if only there's a kpopers here

[@mightymight24]

Somi is enfj? Omgosh love her personality so much~

[@SJ-ej3vj]

I thought Jennifer was ENFP? No? What makes her an ENFJ?

[@SaraMBTI]

What makes her an Enfj? I think I showed in the video what makes her an Enfj xD

[@marisalucia3629]

Omigosh such an ENFJ. She's in Play a lot. She uses her Se as a way to connect with people.

[@randomfornow]

ESFP. Se true, Se dom.

[@stephengoodson9619]

As a ENFJ I think when there is a silence or change of the conversation, there is the pressure on TV to keep a pleasant conversation going. They are trying to show off, but would be more normal in real life outside of the camera. I like people are real, and you cannot be real in this TV setting.

[@thatguybutitsactuallyagirl5384]

Funny, I'm an INFJ, but when I try to br extroverted, that's exactly how I am but I'm less likely to interrupt people.

[@Bahador_R]

Hahahahhahaha It's so funny watching them fiddling while entertaining an inconsequential discussion... Kind of like a robot vacuum that takes off on autopilot..... (INTP perspective)

[@loisrabies8713]

I want to hug them lol

[@mohamedsayed-sv8tz]

you're really really awesome, thank you :D

[@rickydiaz2868]

04:52 yeap, I got it girl! 😖

[@rebeccalalthamawi7048]

Emma stone and I are born on the same day .... scorpio + ENFJ BOTH ❤️🤣

[@optimus8740]

I am an INFJ love you ENFJ

[@montanaflipsq23]

I am an ENFJ and, oddly enough, the only two females I feel super comfortable with are INTJ's, which is the rarest personality type I think? I have wondered why that is. I have "so many friends" (of course), but can easily count on one hand how many people I feel actually know me. Is this common? Is it because we emulate behaviors and then feel like it wasn't all of who we are underneath?

[@knownasL]

Hi, I have a question. If I remember correctly you uploaded a video over a year ago in which you showcased the cognitive function for each type with either stars or movie scenes. Did you take it down? I’d like to see it again. It is my favorite video since I loved the scene with the introverted intuition.

[@SaraMBTI]

I can't remember :( describe that video pls. I want to remember

[@knownasL]

Sara MBTI there was for example “introverted intuition” and showed a movie scene in which an adult man had visions of the future where everything collapsed. He was then asked “how do you know?” And he responded “I don’t” Not every cognitive function was with a movie scene, but introverted intuition was definitely. Some of the other types had scene of an interview for example. But it was a video in which all 8 cognitive functions were showcased ☺️

[@alanoud-2680]

Do like this for ENTJ please

[@SaraMBTI]

I will:)

[@HY-td1hx]

Sees the thumbnail YESSSSSSS MY FAV ACTRESSESSSS WITH THE SAME MBTI TYPEEEEE

[@lucca.c1788]

Love this thanks

[@PSLegend999]

I'm an INTJ 5w4 and I feel very anxious while watching all the Fe mumbo jumbo going on. It feels competitive as well as hospitable which is extremely conflicting to me for some reason and there is a level of cringe or awkward momentum that I can't really put a finger on. That being said I would still want to see 20 ENFJs in the same room just to see what would happen.

[@aces.zaldua3558]

ENFJ!! I feel like i have a really similar personality with Jennifer Lawrence. Plus we're both Leos, same with barack obama 😍

[@lauracruz2021]

Wow, so on point! :)

[@sebastienbaer808]

Jennifer is ENFP, her Ne and Fi are so obvious, she dont care about fitting in and embrace her weirdness and explosion of idea. Eric Wen did a good video about her typing.

[@louern123]

Fantastic analysis .

[@tidypeaches]

Neither of them are ENFJ. Sorry. But interesting assessments. Idk. Behind the scenes they are entertainers, and incredibly sensory oriented/ SF types. Jungian theory does not go as in depth with "S" types.

[@4thNebula]

Both were very Se playing with their hands. Seems that Emma Stone more masculine (not sure which function does that but it makes (to me) Jennefer appear more likeable and less charismatic). To be fair, both are light years more charismatic than many including me.

[@xeathenia8539]

Emma Stone is ENFP and Jennifer Lawrence is ESTP. Both are commonly mistyped and unfortunately trying to make the enfj label fit them this way is ineffectual analysis.

[@Anne-pd2hk]

The perception that there is a competition going on is really odd to me. It speaks more to the person who made this video than anything. I just see two people vibing off each other while doing some awkward creative assignment with paper elephants. They are bonding in this weird moment the producers put them in, and they have each other to hold on to, making something potentially weird into something fun.

[@wcsaba8320]

Very interesting, I like body language analysis!🙂

[@h3arty]

Excellent

[@ris4430]

Two enfps please if u dont mind hhi

[@arthurbelljames]

INTJ and ESFP please :D - INTJ

[@IAmEmmaElaine]

ENFJ 3w4 SX please!

[@milanl4838]

I want to see istjs .I’m always confused whether i am istj even the tests turns out I am.

[@SaraMBTI]

Stay tuned;)

[@gabriellavictory3080]

Well done!

[@omarala7608]

TI ? NI ? WHERE DO I FIND EXPLANATION

[@cybertron1000s]

Emma is ExFJ. Jennifer is ESFP.

[@ghlee2300]

I like it

[@HoosierCallin]

Please get a new microphone, it sounds like someone is riding an electric vacuum powered motorcycle in the background ;)

[@SaraMBTI]

😂😂😂