Disappearance turns into Anniversary Murder | The Case of Emily Ferlazzo

[@CoffeehouseCrime]

Additional video this week - I will be covering two more parallel cases that went unnoticed over the time of Gabby Petito's disappearance... This one is tragically similair. Look after each other!

[@MFBURNS7909]

Maybe you could eventually do a vid about my dear friend Erica Evelyn Escobar and her friend Lucien Bergez RIP 😢 They were murdered by a piece that was released from jail early. Let me know. Ty and take care

[@ssj99gohanisthebest48]

Extremely eerily similar is an understatement

[@mrk7201]

You do a great job

[@TheShannieD]

This is my favorite channel on KZbin and gives me a reason to look forward to each Monday. Thank you for the extra video!!

[@RossMcL1961]

The case of Lauren Cho is another less covered story, last seen 26.6.2021 then remains found last Thursday in The Yucca Valley after walking away "Emotionally distressed" from an RB&B gathering of friends. Toxicology reports pending, I'm sure your style would do the matter justice.

[@SplashAttackTCG]

Didn’t hear about this one at all. The Gabby Petito case took over everything. Thank you for sharing this!

[@jennifercarr9111]

So wild that this case is so similar to Gabbys case

[@samantharedden3906]

Agree with you. I also never heard of this case...so tragic

[@Kayla-dv6jj]

@@jennifercarr9111 fr. It’s so similar

[@milicadjordjevic4498]

Don't blame Gabbys case. Blame the media.

[@pacogerlo4850]

@@milicadjordjevic4498 I agree. There were even some news reporters that were correlating Gabby's ethnicity with the attention her case received. Meanwhile, their own media coverage centered around Gabby's case. What about this one? They are the same people that claim they fight against discrimination whilst blaming other "privileged" ethnicities for their problems.

[@marksgirl8295]

I’m rather taken aback by the shocking similarities to Gabbys case. It’s “almost” identical. It’s beyond sad. Rest in perfect peace Emily.

[@merci1619]

That's what I was thinking.

[@markharrisllb]

The similarities are eerie and equally disgusting disgusting, they even looked similar. The only real difference is this guy's family didn't hinder any investigation.

[@doxasophosmoros]

Its not uncommon at all, domestic disputes are the highest cause of homicide!Lol ... none of you even knew this ?! The gabby petitio thing was suss in the way it covered up the China war on us all ( the world , happening now and for a long time building up.. communist Mao Zedong plan was always to be fully realised )to cover up Biden's incompetence. I'm an Australian and I see how pathetic the USA is now after the fake election results... And its another distraction for that....... It shouldn't be that hard to figure out if you have a brain.. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🙄🙄💢💢🙄😑😑😑😑.

[@Pitoonya]

Thinking same. In fact, I'm starting to believe that this guy was literally trying to copy Brian Laundrie.

[@doxasophosmoros]

@@markharrisllb you have no idea what his family did or didn't contribute. Leave Brian's family alone.... a domestic murder is not uncommon ffs. And family trying to avoid getting involved is also, not uncommon. None of us have any idea what trauma they too, are going through. So lay the hell off. Brian wasn't Mao Zedong for God's sake... ( who China still worship as a country btw). There's bigger issues than people's private lives and domestic murders are the least shocking if anything.. still horrible and I couldn't and wouldn't do it.. but its chilling enough for me to watch the stories lol.. same as you ! But its not like they ran concentration camps like China does. So c'mon , get some damn perspective .... And enough about the gabby Brian stuff , and their dysfunctional relationship . Both were pretty narcissistic people , hence why it blew up instead of one persln walkong away (which is how abuse normally is disappated ;and I would know, being an actual victim myself and of a few people, and I never had a supportive family ... ) It was never interesting or unusual to begin with ! And real victims don't live on KZbin 🙄🙄🙄🤦‍♀️😑nor have that kind of narcisstic personality as gabby did, but i need to get back to work before I try to educate you on common sense, let alone on basic human behaviour and psychology.

[@GabrielFlies]

Your channel is popular not only because your story telling is second to none, but because of the respect you show the victims and the morals that you derive from the stories. Many crime shows trivialize murder and focus on entertainment, you focus on the story itself. Keep up the good work.

[@KarenanneT]

Perfectly said 👌🫶

[@ngutjiiUriiIkaa5745]

I will second you on that 😊

[@A.Girl.Has.No.Name.]

When a husband or boyfriend (especially one with a history of violence) claims their partner "walked off" after an argument, you can undortunately almost bet it's not going to end well. Rest in Peace Emily and Gabby. (Rot in hell Joseph and Brian!)

[@ExtraterrestrialExcrement]

Yup,we had a fight and she took off... Okay,here we go again.. Heard it 100 times before in TC cases. 🙄

[@jeremiahlarkin1134]

AMEN & AMEN To all that KILL THEIR MATES!!! ROT IN HELL 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@Kittykat81572]

We got lucky Brian rotted in real life too after being gator food ❤️ We at least got that

[@TylerG60]

If the cops had done their job and arrested Gabby like they should have it would have most likely saved her life.

[@gardenfairybabe]

@@TylerG60 why would they ever arrest Gabby?

[@am2382]

The fact that it happened less than a month ago, Adrian bringing us cases I barely know 💯

[@juwenayu8913]

Agree!

[@moskii-kb8un]

The only beef I have with coffee house crime is..i wish they had more videos..this is done very well.good narration and production...

[@jeremiahlarkin1134]

@@moskii-kb8un Me Too! I LOVE ❤️ his Site!!!

[@jonmoxleylunaticlikeme7653]

Alot of ppl have been murdered or attacked in this time.

[@bethdefrancesco3200]

Was thinking the exact same thing!

[@everybodyyogastudio212]

When I’m feeling sorry for myself being single, you bring cases like this and suddenly I feel lucky, grateful, and blessed 😇 🙏

[@maddie8415]

There is something about dismembering a person's body...particularly the one of a person you claim to have "loved"...that is so monstrous it's hard to comprehend a human could go through with. I can picture a human losing control and taking someone's life in a rage, as evil as that is, but when they go on to do something like this it's truly a special kind of evil. Also, in this case he didn't seem to do it as some elaborate coverup or to hide the body or anything, he must have just wanted to destroy her :(

[@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim]

If I even accidentally scratch my sister or bump my mom or step on my dog’s paw My heart starts hurting. I can’t imagine going that to my soul mate

[@Cami-dc9iu]

Dahmer said when he is about to dismemberd a body he switch off himself, the humanity in him and all his feelings and look at the person he is about to cut up as an "object"

[@stevebarker7552]

Where the CCTV of the purchase of the essentials that always accompanying these videos : Hoody wearing man enters Hardwear store. Buys : Bin bags Duck tape Shovel Bleach

[@AsWeSpeak154]

@@stevebarker7552 Not just any hardware...Wal-Mart.

[@sixwinggies5733]

@NI GGER oh shit thats actually a really interesting thought. Fucked up as all hell but interesting

[@rullmourn1142]

I salute his friend that did the right thing, and turned him in to police. Whose house was the van left at.

[@cdd4248]

I wondered the same-

[@rullmourn1142]

@@cdd4248 ..Maybe his sister's house, idk.

[@kevincostas272]

Always refreshing to see, too many of these stories have people covering for murderers, SA etc just bc “they’re friends” 🙄

[@beckyweaver5981]

If you don’t speak up but you know your friend killed someone, you may be next. Think about it. The only thing standing between them in prison is you.

[@ChauncyCharm]

I wouldnt snitch on my friend

[@gabriellamiles6348]

THANK YOU FOR BRINGING ATTENTION TO THIS CASE. There was not enough news about it and it broke my heart. From the locals, THANK YOU

[@StefanMedici]

If my wife and I get in an argument and she gets out of the vehicle and says she's walking, you know I'm following her and asking her to get back in. If she really needs a break, I'd tell her to take the vehicle and I'll make my own way.

[@stoppit9]

Or at least get her to wait until you're somewhere safer!

[@ElaAusDemTal]

Exactly...I went through the same situation (Back then 20something me had a short fuse and a stupid senseless argument ended in me hopping out of the camper in a huff) and my boyfriend followed me slowly. There even was a concerned couple asking me if I was aware of "that long-haired man in the RV" stalking me. This embarrassed me very much - after all, he was just worried and I made him look like a creep. I made my way back to him and, quite sheepishly, asked him if I could come back in...he just looked at me and answered "As if you have to ask!". While watching this case together (the above mentioned scene happened 25 years ago), we compared "our" RV situation with Joseph's account of things; we both thought it was a crock of 💩.

[@8all8at8once8]

@@ElaAusDemTal I love stories like yours ☺️❤️

[@dallymoo7816]

That's rly nice

[@alexforce9]

@Fires And Flowers he is simp. The only reason a woman would do that is if she is SURE that he will follow her slow and beg her to get back inside. Why we must gather to women as they are little childern?

[@joyjohanexo]

This was truly heartbreaking, poor Emily. No one deserves to be a victim of domestic violence and the statistics worldwide are truly terrifying. I respect Spencer for coming forward with that information as soon as he did because there are so many who never do. I'm so sad for Emily's family and cannot even begin to imagine their pain. This world is full of pure evil. May she rest in eternal peace.

[@braetonwilson4296]

RIP Emily. What's up with so many young women insisting on hooking up with men old enough to be their fathers? Seems so creepy and wrong to me. Is it because they didn't have a strong father figure in their lives?

[@simrdownmon6431]

interesting...@ 12:45, he said acquitted instead of accused. Not a big deal but surprising considering this is a murder p o r n channel.

[@seyma-qj4jr]

@@braetonwilson4296 i’m a psychology major and for as far as i’ve heard from my professors; the whole daddy issues part doesn’t always have to be the main reason why women prefer older men. actually, evolutionairy both men and women prefer younger partners because of us subconciously relating young age to more fertility and that is benificial for reproduction. however, women tend to still prefer older men because they know older men can often provide for and take care of her and her future children. still, it doesn’t always have to be because of this, it can also be two souls finding each other and the age is just a random fact, not a decisive factor.

[@braetonwilson4296]

@@seyma-qj4jr What you wrote makes sense but this older guy was a tattoo artist, I doubt he made that much money. She could have found a much better provider.

[@seyma-qj4jr]

@@braetonwilson4296 no, i totally agree with you!! i kind of replied to your comment while thinking about women in general, not the victim in this case. this man definitely had many red flags, didn’t look like a particular carer and i wonder what poor emily saw in him :/

[@leigh-anndesousa9307]

You really honour the victims you cover. Never lose that empathy. Love your channel 😊

[@stephaniesealy9375]

I love the fact that you are reporting on under reported cases. Don't get me wrong, Gabby deserved justice, but so does every other missing soul regardless of gender, colour or any other life choice, vocation, persuasion, occupation or belief. Thank you. Another great upload, clearly told narrative and easy to listen to voice. Thank you for all of your hard work! Stay safe out there!

[@Itsbearguy]

@Stephanie Sealy So very well said! I totally agree with you! Stay safe and well.

[@stephaniesealy9375]

@@Itsbearguy Thank you for your kind comments! I hope you and yours stay safe and well too! 🙏🏾

[@Itsbearguy]

@@stephaniesealy9375 👍😊

[@Cynnas]

Omg...The Gabby case wasn't broadcasted everywhere because she was a white woman. They had her YT footage of the trip and police bodycam footage of them after a fight right before she went missing. They also have a man on the run through many states which makes it a national story and then his parents took off. Tell me how many missing women cases involve an active man hunt for the suspect through many states? 🙄

[@denisrailey777]

Gabby died because the Police missed all the Red flags when pulled over. Gabby should have split there. Sad red flags missed.

[@LaceyTripp95]

How can you kill your wife and then casually go eat breakfast with your sister? 🤯 that’s so scary how someone you thought you knew can just snap and turn into a monster.. Edit: also he obviously felt no remorse since he dismembered her!! He tried to cover up his actions.. he didn’t love her. You can’t do that to someone you love. He’s sick.

[@thecook8964]

Psychopath

[@im19ice3]

he doesnt even seem to remember what they were fighting about, i feel like he didnt even respect her as a person to begin with

[@msjujuz266]

You never totally know someone.

[@jcee6759]

Beyond sick!!!! Diabolical….

[@lissaylissean9940]

Considering her family were already suspicious before this happened that he was abusive, it's unlikely he was a swell guy who "just snapped." He was already a monster.

[@bvtgamer5707]

Born and raised in Vermont (live in Colchester) and I shared the missing persons broadcast on Facebook and knew immediately something wasn't right . Was devastated to hear of the circumstances and what he did to her. Such a disgusting thing to do . Vermont is such a lovely place to live we all care about each other so much here. And when crimes like this happen it really hurts. Thanks for making this video

[@JosephFuller]

Marriages soon after meeting rarely end well. I was told to stay with someone for at least a year before marriage, to see how the seasons affect the person and how familiarity affects the relationship. It is very easy for some people to fall in love and that can sometimes blind people.

[@deserthoney]

Wise advice you heed and are passing on

[@eradict]

This. Aggravated by the fact that the guy was 15+ years older. I would seriously think long and hard before tying the knot with him.

[@JosephFuller]

@@eradict Yes. In the beginning, age differences are not as apparent for some people. They say, "It's just a number." However, it's also experience, mental, physical and emotional development/baggage. Over time, little differences and slightly annoying habits can become exaggerated, causing unneeded stress for either person.

[@AngelCaz7]

agreed! i have a friend who got married to her boyfriend literally like 3 months after dating him, maybe even sooner who knows. i dont talk to her much but she’s been thru a lot n is a very emotionally vulnerable person. i hope every day that her husband isn’t a piece of shit n that they genuinely love each other that much.

[@dajewel1982]

Straight facts here

[@kaitakeda3916]

It's so important to give all missing person's cases the attention that the Petito case received. The sad part is that I saw nothing about this on mainstream media. Thank you for sharing this with us. It's good to know that there are sincere journalists out there sharing all of the stories that come their way!

[@truth4004]

Probably on the local news though. The problem is there's soooooo many missing person and murder cases.

[@skaisnotdead]

I live in NH and hadn't heard about this! I agree, it should have received more attention.

[@kaitakeda3916]

@@skaisnotdead Good to know. I dont usually watch local news but I do see and take in amber alerts. We should have more of those

[@skaisnotdead]

@@truth4004 I live in NH and totally missed it. I don't have cable so I get all of my news on the internet and missed it. I didn't know about it until this video

[@truth4004]

@@skaisnotdead That's crazy if it's not at least local.

[@BlueSpica7]

As someone who studied psychology, this relationship was full of red flags from the very beginning. I wish we could spread awareness through young people in their twenties and teen to be able to spot these situations at an early stage and get the hell out of abusive relationships. It's sad how our society manages to romanticize emotionally unstable men as "soft" and "just need someone to understand them". 40 years old is a grown-ass man, the 20 years of age gap is A LOT. We need to stop saying that age is just a number because it's not and we keep on spreading the wrong message to young people. This poor girl has been love bombarded and he married her quickly to make sure to lock her down. He made it impossible for her to see her family and tried to isolate her. I cannot imagine what her mum went through when she saw bruises on her and realized what kind of man married her daughter. If one of your friends starts a relationship with someone who is much older and the relationship is going too fast too soon, try to do something. It's the biggest sign of upcoming abuse. If one of your friends' boyfriend/girlfriend is making it impossible for them to see their loved ones do something. You could literally save a life. I am not saying it's easy, but it could help.

[@Just_abigheadnoob]

This has nothing to do with the 20 year age gap.

[@plynn136]

@@Just_abigheadnoob It does actually.

[@luanaspa4400]

Married too quickly. Females are too taken with their emotions at being love bombed. Should give a good two years to really know a person while checking out their past.

[@AstarionWifey]

@@Just_abigheadnoob uh yes it does Those gaps scream power play

[@cashewisnotanut4409]

My partner and I have a 20 year age gap.we have been together for 18 years. Also my grandparents had a 20 year age gap and my parents 12 years

[@TG-ju3nd]

Dear girls, and boys, if they love you, they won't hit you. Even if you really, truly love them, leave. You are a human being, not a punch bag. Trust me, you CAN live without them. I know it is such a romantic idea to love and heal a "broken", "complicated" person, that it's you both against the world, but maybe there is a reason why all your loved ones are against your relationship.

[@ohsuzeyq_]

If you stay with him he’ll kill you!

[@egregiousqueef7781]

Have some self-respect too. Observe how they are not with their family or even their parents, observe how they treat strangers who are struggling, or feel embarrassed, or need comforting... do they make fun of someone who tripped and fell and maybe hurt themselves OR do they make fun of them? Stay away from the latter

[@eradict]

Also don't marry someone you meet 4-5 months ago.

[@lbthir13en]

Also, even if they don't hit you, but they abuse you in other ways: emotionally, mentally, psychologically... leave. Know your boundaries and know when to spot controlling and abusive behavior. After you leave, don't jump into another relationship right away, go to therapy and heal the parts of you that make you seek out or stay in abusive relationships. If you don't, you risk entering even more abusive relationships, the cycle doesn't end until you get the help you need.

[@lbthir13en]

Rushing into relationships, engagements, marriages, having kids, isn't love, it's a huge red flag. Healthy love takes time to build and develop. Know when to spot love bombing, which is a tool narcissists use to take over you and trick you into liking them, wanting to be with them.

[@akashita]

The audacity to plead "not-guilty" after a full confession. Joseph Ferlazzo truly is a piece of work.

[@simrdownmon6431]

interesting...@ 12:45, he said acquitted instead of accused. Not a big deal but surprising considering this is a murder p o r n channel.

[@jonmoxleylunaticlikeme7653]

And people do the same dam thing when they get evidence shoved in there face makes me angry especially in the UK.

[@khaightlynn]

@@simrdownmon6431 I noticed that too. I think it was just a slip of the tongue but it is a huge difference considering this case hasnt even gone to court yet and is less than a month old. Knock on wood he is convicted after the gall it takes to plead not guilty with your wife's dismembered body in your vehicle.

[@davidmay8104]

@akashita I replace the noun "work" with you know what.

[@akashita]

@@simrdownmon6431 okay I'm glad I wasn't the only one confused by that

[@jenniferlee6955]

The picture/tribute of Emily at the very end was both touching and beautiful. I appreciate Adrian's compassionate heart. Kudos to him making the humanity of victims and their loved ones a top priority. Sometimes we all need reminding that these cases are not all about what happens to other people. All of us are only one set of circumstances away from being the next casualty. Coffeehouse Crimes has the best benediction of all the many successful, high caliber content creators I've observed; "Look after each other." Imagine a world where that happens. Thank you, Adrian.

[@OnionManSteve]

I think stories about underreported crimes are a good idea. It's good to bring awareness to these cases both for the victim and for anyone who might watch and recognise red flags in their real life, which could avoid tragedy. As far as Emily and that man? Emily seemed like she was kind, trusting, and wanted to help. I have no words to describe that piece of fermenting sewage, I'm not even going to give him the respect of using his name.

[@catastrophecookies6066]

There is no way you can watch for red flags. This is life. Sorry for giving this to you so direct, but I get tired of the "look for red flag" comments- trust me, it's insulting to these victims and everyone that argues with you in a relationship doesn't want to murder you.

[@OnionManSteve]

@@catastrophecookies6066 I have first hand experience of what you're talking about and you're right, red flags are obvious in hindsight, but are invisible at the time. What I meant by my comment was that people external to the relationship may learn from these stories, for example noticing a comment someone makes about their partner's behaviour, and rather than ignoring it or brushing it off, think back to these stories and take it more seriously. My apologies, this wasn't clear in my original comment.

[@bluebelle8823]

Can we take a moment to appreciate the actions of the friend, Spencer, here. Yes it is doing the right thing and it is what he should have done but depending how long that friendship has existed and personalities that could be the hardest thing to do. The horror of being Joseph's sister and her boyfriend. They were probably almost as concerned as Emily's family for her well being and to learn that you ate with your brother hours after he killed her... nope. Would not being getting any support from me blood or no blood.

[@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim]

Yes!

[@MayaBishopStan]

I wish some family members behave this way, bcos I will ensure he rots in jail if he's not given the death sentence

[@bluebelle8823]

@@MayaBishopStan it's Australia there isn't even the chance of the death sentence. As for the behaviour of the family... they will likely stand by him. Just the kind of people they are.

[@theangriestcatintheworld]

@@bluebelle8823 Australia? I'm confused... I never heard him mention Australia.

[@bluebelle8823]

@@theangriestcatintheworld sorry wrong video. I comment on a lot. And quite a few true crime. Not sure how I got confused here

[@mamefosua]

The ease with which people dismember their loved ones amazes me. Let's just say the death was an accident, how do you chop that person up like a piece of chicken. It's so sad

[@landang7906]

I agree. What happened to good old traditional divorce?

[@emedewey4761]

I just dont think its something us normal humans can ever in our lifetime comprehend. Its just mindboggling

[@RoMaMa923]

Never heard about tragic death of Emily. It's saddens me how highly publicized Gabby's case over shadowed Emily and other young women that were murdered by their significant other. Thank you for sharing this story. RIP Emily. People need to STOP murdering their loved one's and just walk away.

[@zoeyzed5127]

Gabby was a blogger with followers, don't you understand this?

[@cyndilantz5651]

I agree, stop these murders..

[@djihanehamdaoui2948]

@@zoeyzed5127 she didn't have much followers tbh ,her yt channel n ig went viral after her death ,her case was known because of that cop foutage days before she was killed that's it .

[@FutureMartian97]

Gabbys was publicized because they had a social media following and her dad went to the media to get the word out. That wasn't the case here.

[@AbzRaz]

I'd rather have individual case by case videos as you do now than a condensed one with multiple cases. Even if they're slightly shorter, it's more immersive and easier to follow.

[@damienkarney2251]

I second that

[@mbr0916]

I 3rd that

[@brockevers]

Adrien...you admitted this yourself in this episode. They are right!

[@allanwrench]

I like that too and each victim deserves their own story.

[@JoVasilev]

Exactly!!!

[@basedheretic4616]

I can hear her friends and family "Why are you with him?" "What could you possibly see in this guy?" every time

[@roser6963]

I hope Emily’s family can find some peace. She sounds like a smart, caring young woman. I think the world is missing out on someone amazing.

[@publicenemy4102]

Ok

[@Cadeaux_Man]

@John Howard thanks for saving me typing that lol. Nice to see one other with some sense!

[@MrMuaythai84]

Another women picking bad guy and refuse admit stay delusional that their man won’t kill them

[@seyma-qj4jr]

i can’t believe people are victimblaming in these comments underneath your comment. yes, he clearly abused her before and had several red flags but emily loved him. one tends to hide terrible things in relationships because they get manipulated by their abusive partner. that doesn’t make her any less smart or caring. i hope emily is in peace and her family will be too.

[@Cadeaux_Man]

@@seyma-qj4jr you heard about someone being cut up into pieces and being put into bags, yet your made up "victimblaming" is what you can't believe.............

[@privateinvestigator8607]

I have a short temper and can easily get upset. I have had times in my relationships where I had gotten furious, but I could never understand how a man could bring himself to lay his hands on a woman to physically harm her, let alone kill her and dismember her. It is incomprehensible and sick.

[@pietro4772]

Oppression by unclean spirits, the foot soldiers of satan the adversary, giving rise to what the medicos deem psychological maladies. He needs the Lord Jesus Christ, the Way, the Truth and the Life, as we all do. Amen.

[@princessbuttercup8954]

@@pietro4772 🙄

[@emmafeather74]

@S G Actually no. Domestic violence is not due to mental health disorders. This is a myth that has been debunked through scientific studies on society. In fact, people with mental health disorders are FAR more likely to be the victim of violence than a perpetrator. Some perpetrators may have a mental health disorder but that may not be the reason they commit a violent act. Not every person who abuses has a mental health disorder. Most men who kill their spouses do not have a mental health disorder. This is not simply my opinion, these are facts you can verify with so much information available on this topic. Be mindful of the harm it does to people who live with a mental health disorder when there are falsehood spread about them. When we know better, we should do better.

[@Maz-zb9uf]

@S G nothing to do with mental illness

[@henrywedekind5754]

For me its the same but only with my Family. Having a short temper i mean.

[@giigity]

Thank you for sharing cases that haven’t been big in the media. I’ve never heard of this one. So sad.

[@mauriciomagalhaes181]

This looks like a manual of how NOT act in a relationship , thank you.

[@mauriciomagalhaes181]

@tom billiard first red flag right there.

[@mauriciomagalhaes181]

@tom billiard sometimes. But i think their daughter was still too young to married that guy and make right decisions.

[@mariapopa1890]

Most of the time when a man says him and his wife had an argument and she stormed off, he killed her. Ive seen this way too many times RIP Emily, she was a beautiful young woman with her whole life ahead of her, she deserved much better.

[@Abena1709]

Yes, it's rather uncanny how they are quick to mention 'an argument and how she always stormed off'. It's the same case with that guy from California, what's his name? .... Larry Millete. The sad thing is that women are time and time again stuck in such situations and don't know enough to recognise the signs of abuse. Before it escalates to physical abuse it usually starts with verbal, mental and/or emotional abuse. There really needs to be more education about abuse and what it looks like and this topic should probably be taught in high schools to help both girls and boys to recognise abuse and the various forms it appears in.

[@metamorphicme9378]

So true! No loving partner would leave you alone by the roadside period.

[@puritycourtois1724]

Yep because they want to provoke a narrative that she ran away with another man

[@chandlerhull5988]

As someone who lives in New Hampshire I’m shocked I’ve never heard of this case. Thanks for highlighting it. Rest in peace Emily

[@M4G1.]

I was so invested in Petito's case that I failed to notice other similar cases. Thank you, Adrian, for bringing cases like this into light. I hope every person who are suffering from the hands of their partner could escape their situation sooner.

[@joanbaczek2575]

It didn’t get the coverage cuz it was solved in 3 days

[@purplestareyes]

Listening to this while on break at my shift at the hospital... Hearing about this happening to a fellow nurse is absolutely horrifying. May she rest in peace.

[@barbarajohnson3876]

Thank u for working, ret former nurse, psychiatrist here

[@purplestareyes]

@@barbarajohnson3876 Right back at you. Thank you just as much.

[@vitaAutLetum]

An LNA is not a nurse, it's a nursing assistant. Sadly her life ended far too soon, she very well may have become a nurse someday.

[@kristenjustkristen9462]

I agree with Emily's stepmother when she said she just got a bad feeling about this guy. "It's something in the eyes, his eyes look crazy, and just off." Poor Emily. She was just so young! What in the world she saw in that ugly loser, I just don't know. Her family must be devastated. Not only did they lose their loved one but the monster had the evilness to commit the indignity of dismemberment!! I pray they get justice and also his own stepmother receives justice as well. I wholeheartedly believe he killed her also.

[@ligeialovelace]

Abusers can often be initially charming. They often tend to prey on people with confidence/self-esteem issues, which it sounds like Emily had. I was preyed on by a creepy older man like this and am fortunate I got away before something like this happened.

[@KimAhrina11]

ikr there's something like no future/sus....don't get it, whte people either women & men with descent look (can understand if they're really old/ below average) have poor taste when they go with others ngl

[@sparkcone]

this Joey guy is closet gay???

[@stfuplsok]

@@KimAhrina11 *future/s *decent

[@FutureMartian97]

I think the bad feeling should've been the fact he was twice her age

[@natalieschiller4785]

Thank you so much for getting other missing people’s information out there. It’s very much appreciated!! Love you!!! Love this channel!!

[@ashassassin]

My heart breaks for her family. It's so sad how often this happens. I hope the media does a better job covering stories like these in the future. Please do more of these, especially if the people are still considered missing.

[@shawnadeyo]

Wow. Unbelievable. Thank you for bringing us these stories that we’ve never heard! And for bringing awareness to domestic violence 💜💜💜

[@DerrisDerrison]

Such a senseless killing, a huge waste of a precious life. I've been following true crime and criminal psychology for years now, in that time I've seen a large number of channels in this field and I have to say that your channel is the best I have ever seen and thank you for showing the respect that you do for the victims. It's clear that you put an insane amount of effort into both your research and presentation, you more than deserve every subscriber you get, the speed of growth says everything, Anyway thank you 🙂

[@Scratpac47]

just wanted to let you know that I was browsing Reddit, and I saw your name in the comments of a question about the nicest KZbinrs to hang out with IRL. thanks for the great vids!

[@ArinaPodolskaia]

Damnnn. Emily looked sooooo happy in the photos. Just goes to show that you never know what's going on behind closed doors.

[@kinglissa2953]

I’m stunned that there are others who went missing or were murdered during the Gabby case. It’s like the world came to a standstill for the Gabby case tbh. Never heard of this case until now. This is so sad.

[@Juanita7102]

Ignorance... 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@OfWavesAndWinds]

Unlike Gabby's murder, this case was solved within a few days.

[@joanbaczek2575]

Lady it’s impossible for news to cover every murder! Grow up and stop shitting on gabby like it’s her fault. You are clearly stupid, the reason gabby got so much attention was because they were clueless as to where gabby was left! This case didn’t need the coverage it was solved in days!

[@kinglissa2953]

@@joanbaczek2575 stupid Ndi mai vako. Zidzoro.

[@kimberlyarrington5721]

It even sounds like her Gabby case

[@ghostfromanotherworld]

As a survivor of an abusive man, this breaks my heart. She was so young and had so much going for her. I truly hope he gets what he deserves . Thank your for bringing awareness to this issue. Too many people just don't realize the severity .

[@damienkarney2251]

I’m glad to hear that you are a survivor and not still a victim.

[@heathertaylor6315]

I like how you express an emotional connection with the victims and express compassion for the life. I like the background music choices mood setting of your videos

[@karlhans6678]

Hey, want to ho camping?

[@amandagirard6236]

NH resident here. I live in a town close to where this happened, and I heard about Emily's story a few weeks ago on the local news. So sad to hear what happened to her and I hope that her family can find some peace and closure in the situation.

[@yukiefromoz2573]

Wow, this is very eerily similar to the Petito/Laundrie case. Thank you for covering some of the "non-popular" cases that we would never otherwise hear of.

[@beth-annrock237]

I came across your channel a couple of weeks ago!!! I am absolutely hooked, can’t get enough!!! You do an excellent job, covering these cases!!

[@seireine]

I always listen to your videos while I draw as they give me motivation to finish up. So, thank you, Adrian for your hard work and we appreciate the effort you put into researching these cases. ^^

[@kt1122]

Yes, I do the same!

[@ExtraterrestrialExcrement]

What Do You Draw? I'm Curious Because I Draw As Well. 👋

[@Idk-qg7hb]

Will you do for commission??

[@seireine]

@@ExtraterrestrialExcrement Hi! I mostly draw in an anime style, but I'm willing to try realism drawings someday.

[@kt1122]

@@ExtraterrestrialExcrement I'm a graphic designer by trade, specializing in flat vector and icon designs, but when it's personal illustrations, I draw in a bold, cartoony style with content that's usually humorous or a little political.

[@SageK253]

I'm glad to see you bringing attention to lesser-known cases, and am looking forward to the other video.

[@orangge386]

I still can't understand how someone can do something like that to another human and she looked so kind...

[@b00mshucka635]

Thanks for bringing exposure to more unknown cases. They're always fascinating and a great watch!

[@houdinisroad]

It is crazy to me that anybody could ever lay hands on a woman! That was like one of the first things my parents ever taught me and I have two little sisters that love to wrestle but I would always let them win, now they can actually beat my ass. Stay safe and always listen to your parents

[@eagle-2headed843]

Stay safe and take care of each other!

[@annoyingeyefloaters2162]

Some women kill their own children

[@WolfStreak]

@@annoyingeyefloaters2162 Wow. Where did that come from?

[@powpowouchy5]

What happened to gender equality. I don’t want to hit anyone at all, but in a situation where I feel I’m being threatened and I need to defend myself, I won’t hesitate regardless of gender. I know this isn’t a good look to post on a domestic violence case, but “don’t hit girls ever” is an absolute that can considered to be quite reductive in womens rights

[@Autumnpearly]

I teach my teen son not to hit women BUT if one continues to hit him I told him to lay her ass out. I'll bail him out. Men get abused too.

[@ainiel7602]

How can you have the strength to dismember the body of someone you love? I can't imagine doing that without going completely insane.

[@joanbaczek2575]

Actually the murder is more insane than the dismemberment. You obviously don’t value human life if you are more concerned about the dismemberment than the murder. Like saying it’s okay to kill just don’t be too icky about it? Duh

[@johnbullerjahn884]

I think he was just about to board the crazy train but then again you don’t have to be insane to kill and dismember someone. I took one look at him and he scared me right from the get go.

[@nuljacalvo7712]

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[@nuljacalvo7712]

@@joanbaczek2575 s qndql

[@Im_Iconic-Youre_Ironic]

​@@johnbullerjahn884 How are yall getting this shit from looks??

[@cassandraterry6172]

Right before you posted this I was just searching to see if you had posted a new one. Sadly I seen nothing new so decided to change notifications to tell me when you post and then close KZbin. 17sec later I get notified ❤️ favorite channel

[@Medyo]

when the camper was mentioned, can't help but realize the parallelism to Gabby's case. Tragic losses indeed.

[@boogs417]

Thank you so much for taking the time highlight these victims stories as well. It’s always baffled me how certain cases such as Gabby’s become national media while there are other victims out there are being overlooked. There shouldn’t be any picking and choosing when it comes to seeking justice.

[@MuseVT]

Thank you for covering lesser known cases. It’s so horrifying that disappearances are so common that it’s impossible for them all to get the coverage they need.

[@nerdtrxsh]

Another incredible video Adrian, Emily was such a beautiful soul - it's heartbreaking what happened to her BIG yes to more under-reported cases!!

[@SashaandCale]

As soon as I saw the photo of him my blood ran cold. I believe eyes are the doors to the soul and his eyes read "Abuser, murderer." Something didn't look or sound right with him. Poor girl she looked like such a kind soul that gave that piece of garbage more than he ever deserved. RIP sweet girl 💙

[@happydudemarius9404]

Same, those are some cold and terrifying eyes.

[@stephenbrand5661]

He just looks like a typical Arab American man to me!!

[@vincent67239]

Don’t judge a book by its cover. Judge them by their murders.

[@itskindofafunnystory...3237]

Many murderers have eyes very close together.

[@gaynorberry5759]

His eyes have no soul

[@journeysalkebulan]

Joseph stayed away from Emily's father side of the family and only met then once because he knew that they knew something was wrong with him! Also look at his eyes there is no warmth!

[@thecook8964]

Psychopaths isolate their victims from family & friends, the better to manipulate them

[@abena3607]

Yeah. His eyes are empty

[@gordonaliasme1104]

Like a dead fish 😶

[@JorgePetraglia2009]

Journeys Alkebulan : There's no reasoning on your statement. Just take a look at the pictures of Paul Bernardo and Ted Bundy. Their eyes are pretty warm and many women found them even attractive. Being unattractive and having piercing eyes is only good material for the cheesy Hollywood movies.

[@wren6547]

They actually stayed away from her father because she was estranged from him (for good reason) well before she brought Joseph to meet him.

[@SarahGKing]

Joseph is the guy who did mine and my mother's tattoos. Nobody who knew Joseph and Emily would ever imagine he was capable of doing that to Emily. I'm still in disbelief. Emily was the sweetest nicest girl. I feel so heartbroken for their poor dog Remington, for Remington is probably so confused on where her people are in what's happening. Now, every time I look at my tattoo I think of this tragedy

[@ayandakhumalo8692]

I am so sorry that you are always reminded by the tattoo on your body of this sad tragedy. May you find healing 🕊️

[@CelebDelaCreamTvShow]

it must be hard ..I feel for you hun because tattoos are so personal ..I Personally would remove the tattoo just to stop the jinx of being attached to this sort of wicked man..

[@Sniperboy5551]

He looks like a real winner

[@sparkcone]

this Joey is a confused gay closet junk

[@stfuplsok]

@@CelebDelaCreamTvShow jinx of *being

[@imdoneplus]

You’ve done a wonderful thing bringing more attention to these cases. Thank you so much for all your hard work.

[@FluffDove]

I'm thankful to hear about a case that wasn't covered at all by other news outlets. I do hope you do more under-reported cases such as this one!!

[@Zeldalover14]

Thank you for sharing an underreported case. During the Gabby news coverage, all I could think about was how so many native women in NA never get the same coverage. It's like the media latches on to one and they become the heart of a nation while so many other families are left struggling to get their loved ones looked into. It must be so tragic for the families to see the unequal treatment between cases. Thank you for bringing this to light.

[@Zeldalover14]

@Over It yikes someone's feelings are hurt

[@lillianphillips3760]

I love ur videos and in particular, your compassion and humanity ... which is not easy to show during such topics, but u do it flawlessly ... thank you ❤

[@chaundraknechtel8818]

Aiden, thank you for delivering these tragic stories in such a genuinely kind way. It breaks my heart for Emily’s family, for Emily herself. For ALL the loved ones of the cases you share, it brings me some comfort that there is someone sharing their stories so these victims can be known and remembered, and not lost to time.

[@user-xz9fw6lk3p]

I have to confess, I don't usually pull up a chair and have a coffee, I often have tea instead. I apologise for my treachery to the Coffee House but the Tea House sends their regards.

[@madam417]

You need more likes 😂

[@WouldntULikeToKnow.]

Coffee makes me ill so it's always tea for me! Have a good weekend!

[@janetDT1904]

I'm with you - tea all day erry day

[@residentidiot9694]

So no room for Juicers then eh? Eh?

[@asteria118]

@@residentidiot9694 I'll accept you.

[@dizzypenguin6509]

I’ve spent my entire life living with an anxiety disorder. Not once have I ever been even remotely hungry following a panic attack. This man didn’t have a panic attack after he killed her, he just wanted sympathy and the benefit of the doubt.

[@ShaeNik]

Which he absolutely did NOT get! If he truly had an ounce of emotional intelligence or sanity, his panic attack should have come when the thought of picking that gun up hit his brain.

[@lostinmyimagination7485]

Agreed. Anxiety attacks make me want to vomit so eating is the LAST thing i could do. He was full of shit.

[@itskindofafunnystory...3237]

I believe he had a panic attack after he killed her, but i feel no sympathy for him. It would be natural to have a panic attack after you just shot your girlfriend, especially if you had a personality deficiency like he obviously did. He had to keep up appearances, the restaurant was a convenient way to do that.

[@droomzy]

@@ShaeNik yes!! I've had panic attacks before & I couldn't really breathe, let alone eat away my nerves. and what kind of anxious moron doesn't think through the act of murder, but *does* realize how dumb of a choice it is after he made it????? & there's no sole argument (least of all with a spouse) that can lead me to ending it by ending their life 🤨🤨🤨

[@Littlemissdirtbag]

Speak for yourself. I have severe panic attacks and they are so exhausting that I do have to eat something after because it takes everything out of me. Just because you don't get hungry after a panic attack doesn't mean everyone is just like you. Thank God we aren't like you.

[@ilicarriedoll2843]

I'm so fast! Again another case I haven't heard, thanks Adrian!

[@CoffeehouseCrime]

Damn, you are. Coffee on the house!

[@ilicarriedoll2843]

@@CoffeehouseCrime Toast

[@The_Punisher_969]

How do you do it 👀😄

[@ilicarriedoll2843]

@@The_Punisher_969 The notification literally popup when I was grabbing my phone so I immediately decided to watch 😂

[@The_Punisher_969]

@@ilicarriedoll2843 fastest hands in the west over here 😂

[@idagustafsson3441]

Thank you for sharing this, their stories deserves to be heard to! I'd love to see more videos on cases that aren't as known👍🏻

[@whiskersnbeans]

I'm a NH resident and I can't believe this is the first I've heard of this case. Please, do continue to bring these lesser publicized cases to light.

[@cew89]

Same!!!

[@snowblindart]

I love that you chose an "under the radar" case. Thank you for all your work and research.

[@WhatWouldLadyCarolinaDo]

Thank you for the updates. I love watching your KZbin Chanel. You present things in such a clear, easy to understand manner. You don’t drag it on, just trying to fill up time. I just found your Chanel about 2 weeks ago and have watched every video you have out. Please keep them coming!

[@skreemqueen756]

Such a sad case. I hope Joseph is held accountable. I hope her family gets the answers they need and justice is served. Great work Adrian for being this case to everyone’s attention.

[@ecthelion222]

Every time I hear “missing last seen having an argument with her husband” I know the outcome is usually, and sadly them being killed. It’s rotten.

[@tommypemberton3400]

Already got my coffee let’s go 🙌🏾 why am I so excited for such an unfortunate tale 🤔 must be the impeccable narration 👍🏾

[@marcusjay8103]

Always appreciate the editing, presentation and attention to detail with every CHC content👌🏼 Keep up the great work my man! Never disappointed with your uploads.

[@chrisbennett6236]

I live in Vermont. So this case has been in the local news. But now thanks to you it will get international attention and hopefully a full resolution. There are still too many questions that aren't being answered.

[@cottingham09]

I think you should definitely do more cases that are under reported. Every victim should have a voice!

[@Knosferatu]

People are blessed with so much and throw it all away over something trivial. Appreciate your blessings folks. Prayers goes out to the families.

[@lokieec.r.p.swarrior8740]

I will never understand how a love one can cut up a person that he supposedly loved over a argument . This was his wife. He had declared love to her in a courthouse wedding. OMG taking her head off Seriously?? The acts human beings do to one another truly scares me!!

[@thecook8964]

Psychopath- cannot feel love, uses the word only to manipulate people.

[@thelegofam4310]

Please follow up on this case as the murdered step mother brings another dimension to the story and possibly his case. Thank you for the great content!

[@Phil-xz5gv]

I'm looking forward to every monday cause of your video. I'm surprised that you upload more than that and I'm glad :)

[@CoExist64]

You’re good, love your content and the way you bring it to us. You’ve grown immensely! Keep it up, we love ya!

[@lindavenne8038]

Just subbed to your channel Adrian, it's amazing! I really appreciate how you tell the story of the victims with such respect and empathy. P.S. To anyone living with an abusive partner, I know this can be diffucult, but please love yourself and care for yourself enough to leave that toxic relationship. YOU ARE WORTH HAVING A BEAUTIFUL LIFE! ❤❤❤

[@wyattcarter6755]

“She met Jason who was twice her age” oh yeah he did it. “Jason never really got along with her family” THE HUSBAND DID IT

[@eradict]

@@sabias3932 He's sus from the get-go

[@NoodlesWithLipstick]

This is why I always feel sus with big age gap relationships. Most of the time they don’t end well.

[@lica1598]

Newsflash "THE HUSBAND DID IT!" Who is Jason??

[@omukhana]

This case sounds eerily similar to the Gabby Patito one.

[@leatherface1136]

This happens all the time, it's not that eerie. It's just sad.

[@hannahhunt8389]

Sir, thank you SO MUCH for your remarks about the domestic violence increase. You raise awareness regarding dangerous & unhealthy behaviours through all of your videos and I think that's really important work. Thanks for all you do.

[@helenawarsinnak]

I thank you so much for posting this video regarding domestic violence! I myself, when I was in my early twenties with a guy that not only physically abused me, but mentally abused me as well. I know what other women/men are going through in this situation....we think that our partner will change...they'll say sorry to us after it happens and say it will never happen again, but it does... it ALWAYS does!! But sometimes that isn't the only reason why we stay with the abuser... sometimes we stay with them because financially we don't have enough to make it out on our own or we're afraid to leave them because they say they're going to hurt somebody that we truly love in our family or a friend of ours and we take it serious enough or we stay because we simply love them and wish they would change because of how much we truly love them...so they are some reasons why we stay unfortunately. But I truly dislike when people who have never been in a situation like this say: "your so stupid, you should have just left!!" Etc... well, first off, thank God that person that says something like that has never been in an abusive situation themselves, and secondly, I'm so glad that that person is strong enough (*or shall we say, thinks they would be strong enough) to be able to leave a situation like that. You can never judge another person until you actually walked in their shoes!! But I truly wish for any man or woman that is in abusive relationship that they can find the strength to finally pick up and walk away to a place where they will be completely safe before the mental and the physical abuse gets way worse or god forbid it ends up deadly.🙏

[@anonime9628]

When I was younger, I've also juged others for staying with or loving abusive person.. Until I fell in the same situation twice... 😢

[@jbiehl8478]

Thank you!!!! Thank you!!! Gabby’s story was tragic. She seemed like an angel but it sickened me to see all the other victims whose name wasn’t Gabby get barely a mention if any by any social or media platform. It’s a sad testament that some lives do matter more when it comes to society’s interest and concerns.

[@sarahcullis1464]

Can you imagine her family seeing all the attention Gabbys case got, while their daughter, just as precious and deserving got relatively little interest, heartbreaking 💔

[@Jonaduh]

Your videos always remind me to be cautious as a woman. Thank you. This case was again very tragic, my love goes out to the families!

[@Kari.F.]

It's the underreported cases that need to be told. It must be agonizing to have a missing loved one, and not being able to get the media attention needed. People can't be on the lookout for people, or form significant local search parties, if they don't even know that someone is missing that needs to be found. It's an added frustration for family and friends in an already desperate situation, and also very sad. This poor young woman was just as loved and important to the people who loved her as Gabby was to hers...

[@Zenbee723]

After listening to a few dozen of your episodes, I find this one to be the most jaw-dropping. He killed her, then nonchalantly went out to eat with his sister? Makes me wonder what the sister witnessed across the table from her......

[@hollib3900]

Very nice touch at the end with Emily's picture and info. I love that you covered this case and would love to see more underreported cases. Especially cases featuring more Black people, indigenous people and POC as they tend to be reported on less in mainstream media. Thank you!

[@torachan23]

Dammit, I JUST finished my coffee when I got the notification. Guess I have to go get another one :)

[@am2382]

Unless if u wanna risk yourself being extra hyperactive, then go ahead 😂

[@Jenny73415]

Here you go ☕🥄

[@marymichael8556]

Go for it and enjoy! Y go, Guuuuuurl! 👍 😉

[@marymichael8556]

U go ... not Y! DUH...

[@pattibramley3911]

Before I even knew what he did, I thought to myself, “what in God’s name did a pretty, well adjusted smart girl, see in that man who was twice her age and downright creepy?”

[@jay-sk5ql]

Damn i was thinkin the same exact thing

[@User-gj3rk]

Wasn't as well adjusted as we would think🤔🤔🤔

[@kikialdrich4574]

It’s so crazy how these controlling men get these girls out on “get-aways” to relax. Seems they both had different ideas of what they wanted to do with these young women. So much like Gabby’s case. Predators. So terribly sad.

[@hannabanana592]

I was just thinking this! I wish women that experience DV never agree to go off into the wilderness or isolated areas for a "vacation" with their abuser. This is so sad

[@jeanneann3545]

with Andrew Tate and other incel influencers on the rise, I have no doubt such cases will only continue to increase in the future. And men had the gals to say we women are overreacting and picky, when we often become the victim who lose everything in the end.

[@djihanehamdaoui2948]

Gabby ,this girl ,lauren cho ... Very similar stories