When Cheating Turns Into Murder | The Harrowing Case of Jayde Panayiotou

[@CoffeehouseCrime]

We're heading to South Africa for a more traditional True Crime Case today. I'm trying to expirement and improve the microphone audio, music and video quality again in this one, let me know what you think. Have a good week all, and stay safe! - Adrian ☕

[@toasterman9195]

@Coffehouse Crime do Marvin Heemeyer (Killdozer)

[@twitchywitchygirl_22]

Sounds great Adrian! Love your work!

[@mrsg9268]

Could you cover Lindsay Buziaks murder!!!? She was murdered where my parents live and it's still unsolved

[@richiegao6909]

I don't hear anything different, always sounds great. Stay safe too.

[@SarahSmith-mu1wc]

Great job as always Adrian. Both the case and the sound were excellent. It's no wonder your channel has grown so quickly!

[@kanoucomet]

Why couldn't he just let this sweet woman go so she could live the life she deserved? He was so selfish, so damn selfish

[@KennethDJBIG]

@@casualSimRacer3312 you 💯 %correct that divorce cost is no joke 💲💲💲💲💲💲

[@PinAnims]

I came to the realization that letting someone go and not stringing them along comes from LOVE. People who are cheating like this man do no love the other person, they're not looking out for that person's best interest, that's why cheaters cheat and don't just break up, they don't care about that other person like they think they do.

[@Jay-hp6pu]

@@PinAnims They want it all. It’s much better to have a wife at home for all the domestic stuff and have a side piece for fun. Sad but true for many people. Many woman do this as well though. It’s not just a man thing.

[@000petar000]

@@casualSimRacer3312 You forgot that his father literally gave him an ultimatum, if he wanted to inherit anything from him, he needed to stay with her. If that didn't happen, i believe there's a good chance he'd just divorce her. A greedy person like him will choose to kill his wife or his father, and he chose the wife because he already has a mistress and didn't want to spend more money on her.

[@cb3514]

Chris wasn't willing to give up that inheritance. His father was loyal and loved Jade, & demanded his son be a man of honor. Oh how I wish Chris was as honorable as his father was 😢.

[@harrietallen2040]

Why couldn’t he just let her go. She would have found a wonderful man who appreciated her.

[@elaynerc]

The father would have disinherited him if he did. It was all for money in the end.

[@MicoB1022]

Because his father would have disowned him, remember that the condition was if he kept cheating on her or left her to get with his mistress, his father would disown and disinherit him. He was basically a greedy little bastard who never really cared about Jade.

[@Chill-mm4pn]

Exactly Harriet. He didn't deserve her.

[@thumbwolf]

Why did he buy gifts for the side piece. Side piece gets mcds your main girl gets the gifts. This dude got the game fucked up!

[@beetlejuice4357]

@@kokogo673

[@stacie1197]

He didn't need to buy her a reptile, she already had a snake!

[@CoffeehouseCrime]

Ooooh, burn! I love that haha

[@e4unow421]

😁😁😏

[@stacie1197]

@@CoffeehouseCrime Thanks, it seemed fitting lol

[@shaunokeefe7162]

LMFAO...good 1

[@PaleHorseShabuShabu]

Aww, don't talk bad about snakes!

[@Syd448]

Hearing her letter is so heartbreaking. She didn’t want or cared about expensive gifts, she just wanted her husband to love her 😔

[@dianeosborne2147]

That’s all the little shop girl mistress wanted….she didn’t care about sleeping with a husband, she really wanted a nice bag..! How shallow….I really hope this beautiful educator of young minds, this improver of lives, haunts her for the rest of her days…so very sad…the husband is a piece of shit, fancy going out for burger when you’ve got fillet steak at home..!

[@fernandoborges4593]

That guy is worse than scum.

[@jcymngo]

Yes, the mistress would have for sure dropped him if he couldn't give her material things. Men complain the can't find good women and over and over these guys fall all over themselves for the women that use them and cast the genuine ones to the side.

[@taylorpresley4604]

I want both, lol. But, have neither.

[@deepg7084]

So many people in this world are dying of loneliness. This guy had a loving father, a loving wife, and he threw it all away because of greed and a meaningless affair. Life really isn't fair. RIP Jayde.

[@Yggdrasill8]

Many guys dream to have a loving wife, yet he killed her. She just wanted to feel loved, instead she suffered a horrible death. World is unfair, but at least he was caught and his life is now over.

[@nicoledoubleyou]

Dying of loneliness? Maybe wishing they weren't lonely but it's not like they're starving

[@deepg7084]

@@nicoledoubleyou I disagree. Loneliness leads to poor mental health. There's a reason why mental illnesses and suicides are up during the pandemic. Not to mention the increase in drug addictions and overdoses.

[@cherb_soco1891]

@@nicoledoubleyou scientific studies have shown that people who live solitary, lonely lives, die younger. Those with a companion/ spouse live longer.

[@drebk]

It wasn't even a meaningless affair... he could have just broken it off with his soon to be fiancé.

[@whotfamitho]

This poor woman. She has such a kind face. All she wanted was for her husband to show her attention and affection but, nah, he effing murders her instead. My heart breaks for her.

[@markie1232]

Lol

[@selfishstockton6123]

Lol

[@jenniferloving9054]

Same.

[@jltaco85]

Well in a way, he DID show her attention. Just not the kind she could have imagine!

[@markie1232]

@@jltaco85 lol

[@sayuriakaya548]

This is such a sad case... imagine rather having your wife killed than just saying: hey I'm not in love with you anymore and I was cheating on you... horrible

[@destinysdesire2536]

Yeah she died not knowing he was having an affair.

[@sayuriakaya548]

@@destinysdesire2536 yeah she probably had a feeling that something was wrong but never got confirmation...

[@ywjhyhy]

it made sense to him because his wife would’ve taken half of everything after a divorce and he needed money for his side chick, he should’ve just ran away and left a note

[@lone6718]

@@ywjhyhy I think it was more serious to him that his father said he would disown him if he didn’t stop the affair AND if he divorced Jade.

[@wordplay1415]

Funny the girl looked Iike a run down version of his beautiful wife

[@bethromero6981]

My niece was murdered by her husband who had been having an affair for 2 years, so this story really hit home with me. Thanks for reporting this tragedy with your usual compassionate resolve.

[@wandertree]

I'm so sorry for your loss. It was an evil thing for him to do!

[@naomirose2671]

I’m so sorry for your loss. I just don’t understand why people can’t just separate and move on. So very sad

[@cazcook2901]

OMG I’m so sorry. ❤

[@xuetachibana4469]

❤ i hope you have healed. I am so sorry for your loss❤

[@Ninasanz83]

I’ll never understand why people resort to killing their “loved ones” instead of just walking away from the relationship. So many lives ruined by one mans selfishness.

[@rochelleastbury3593]

Or ones who kill their ex partner just to have full custody of the kids. What does that leave the kids with? Foster care or adoption

[@Erika-hx6wd]

Bc his dad said if you leave her I will.not.give you your inheritance

[@Ninasanz83]

@@Erika-hx6wd yeah so killing her is the option?….

[@donshields2379]

@Nina Sanchez That is usually the best answer. It would save so many senseless violence.

[@ajarofmayonnaise3250]

@@Ninasanz83 yes

[@Diet_Bleach]

How disgusting is it for a husband who was already cheating on his wife that desperately loved him have her killed. There is a special place in hell for this guy.

[@TheNightshadePrince]

I hope he finds god but I'm not going to be praying for him. He very unlikable, most murders on this channel, you can find a sliver lining to them but not this guy. The comments 100% show it too.

[@marjorietillman6697]

I can understand if the family wants the husband and gang to catch a bus going straight to hell.

[@davidjma7226]

He is gonna have fun in prison. The locals love a bit of white meat!

[@CollagenExpert]

@@TheNightshadePrince tf did I just read💀

[@LunarEleven]

She was so far out of his league, too. People don't appreciate what they have. The regrets he no doubt feels, that's the icing on the life sentence.

[@yelsmar]

He had no balls to stay loyal, no balls to do this horrendous deed and no balls to admit. Such a coward

[@Catlady77777]

It's called narcissism.

[@ohno2943]

Ok

[@pink_sock]

Hey man, quit no ball shaming people. Some of us can't help it.

[@pink_sock]

@@fredw.jensen1962 Dude what???

[@toomuchtruth]

Sorry but it takes balls, i.e. daring, to carry on an affair for a decade & to orchestrate a murder. What he lacked was character, morality, care, love, gratitude.

[@OHBrand]

As a South African I am grateful you're covering so many of our stories... And amazed at how you perfectly pronounced Qqeberha.

[@ColeyMing]

Right he totally nailed it

[@chantekennedy3186]

Jayde was my teacher... And I can truly say that she was kindhearted, well-respected, and my favourite teacher. I moved over to another school not too long after being her student, and saw her a few years later (I never knew she had married) and greeted her with an enthusiastic "Hello Miss Inggs!". She asked me how I was doing and we had a little chat. A few months later I was in class when a classmate asked me if I'd heard she disappeared. I was completely gutted, and kster that day another teacher just casually mentioned that her body was found. I burst out crying. She didn't deserve the pain, she didn't deserve those frightening last moments. She would have gladly given anyone the clothes off her own back. RIP Miss Inggs

[@karaamundson3964]

deep condolences!

[@tartaninka]

Yes. Great teachers inspire....regards from Germany

[@JatinderToor20]

Awe :( so sad… I pray for you, her friends and loved ones, also her and her family!

[@Bornchiller123]

The tragedy and horror of her story is hard to grasp. Felt very bad for this poor woman who only wanted to be loved and to give love and kindness and then getting murdered for nothing. Very very sad. May her spirit continue to live within her forner pupils like you!

[@Rakel6784]

So sorry for the loss of your teacher..God bless you

[@TheGuardianssorrow]

Good on the father for seeing how horrible his son was behaving and didn’t side with him simply for being another man, and the parent. We don’t see this that often, so it’s nice to see a decent person in all this.

[@CurtisTomko7107]

It's unfortunate that he died the way that he did

[@hambone9444]

You don't see the father as manipulative? He threatened to withhold the fortune which caused the son to marry a girl that he probably would have eventually let go of naturally to then be with the girl he really wanted. This whole thing could have been avoided.

[@MBNB2393]

@@hambone9444 there’s a lot of ifs and buts there. He isn’t responsible for her death. He told his son to wise up and stop playing around and his son decided to become a killer. Not the dad.

[@hambone9444]

@@MBNB2393 Beg to differ, any time money is used as leverage, bad decisions generally follow.

[@TheGuardianssorrow]

@@hambone9444 so youre saying that the dad is what caused the girl to be murdered? And you know, not the debt the dude was getting himself into. He even stated he had her killed because he couldn’t keep up with both women and he picked her to be cut down. What on earth convinced you to think the dads to blame? You’re deflecting blame off the guy and his motive.

[@nordicdreki2068]

As a lonely guy myself, I'm touched by how sweet and kind Jayde was. She was everything that a sane man could have wanted, yet he killed her because of how selfish he was. It's honestly sickening and heartbreaking at the same time

[@mstines]

It is meaningless! Jayde was just kind and innocent. Chris could have just walked away and left the marriage (or not marry her in the first place), so maybe other men could have a chance to meet her, love and care for like she deserved. This monster claimed two women for years, and then removed one of them from this world. For no good reason at all.

[@infinitewisdom4557]

"Other men" 😄 ... come on mate. Surely she wasn't one of them.... RIP Dear!

[@Jasonlimitless]

Imaging murdering someone who gave 8 years of their life to you

[@Jasonlimitless]

@Dondolf Trumpler omb ace fighter pilot you must be an angel

[@juliacoburn7455]

8 years of self hatred. Why depend on somebody else for love,? Unable to love herself.

[@trinitywlilliamz1802]

Shitten me People's do it After 30yrs!!! Time has Nothing to do With it Just So "U" Know

[@vikingsilverspikes5286]

Um No thanks

[@vikingsilverspikes5286]

@@juliacoburn7455 wow, ok Pop off sis Let's victim blame, 😳😶

[@siyasanga_makie]

As an isiXhosa speaker, I’m giving you a 10/10 for pronouncing “Gqeberha” and “Xhosa” beautifully 😭, I’m so proud of you! Even South Africans tend to butcher those words 😂

[@Itsrainingcatsyall]

He's definitely graduated to "better than most professional English-speaking broadcasters" 🏆 I love KZbin

[@CitizenHistorian]

Am South African, can confirm I’m terrible at isi-Xhosa 😭 I was pleasantly surprised at his pronunciation!

[@dineogee110]

I can't pronounce it either I'm a South African... I give him 10/10

[@siyasanga_makie]

I had to replay that part three times to make sure I wasn’t imagining things 😅 👌🏾 he did so well

[@boondocksdragon8959]

@@siyasanga_makie I had no idea if his pronunciation was correct or not, but was impressed at how flawlessly he dropped it in the middle of his sentence without missing a beat.

[@jul56760]

She was my teacher - bright, bubbly and caring. This is so strange to watch this, like an out-of-body experience but it was undoubtedly real when it happened. I still remember the day we were called into the school hall to be told the bad news, the whole hall erupted with terror and cries, which is why when you mentioned and showed the image of the students I feel that pain. It was truly painful. After I got over the disbelief and sadness, I was angry. I hate what he did to her because of the potential she had and all the people that were effected by her murder and I was angry for her poor family's sake. It is still a horrible part of history for a lot people but thank you for making this video though, it helps keep her memory alive. I hope this never happens again to anyone.

[@flipina]

Q

[@markmike7933]

In a world of 7 billion people? It will. Unfortunately, it will happen very often.

[@SirCrocodileRP]

@B4Y SH!T How you flipping this situation on someone who was affected by it as one of her students? You weak for that.

[@1962pjh]

I'm very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your memories of her,

[@alexandraschuster9700]

@B4Y SH!T what makes you an expert on how someone reacts to trauma?? Have you experienced ptsd, or long term ptsd? You are a soulless being. I am sure we will be watching about you soon enough on this channel. You sound like bad news through and through

[@hurryingman9071]

Although the father was a good man with good intentions, I think his threat of taking his son out of the inheritance if he left Jayde might have prevented him from simply leaving her. So, in his disgusting and twisted mind, the only way to "leave" the wife and still get the money from his father was to kill her. This was one of the sadder stories I've watched in recent times. Poor thing.

[@dimitrageorgiadi5087]

Those were my thought, too. Never should he had told his son any such thing. However, since I am also Greek, family and honor are held in the highest esteem. The father went about it the wrong way, especially when his son valued money more than family.

[@holyknight70]

Nope, don't put this on the father, the son made every choice in his life regardless of what the dad said. The son chose to cheat. The son chose to lie. The son chose to kill. The responsibility lies only with the son.

[@dimitrageorgiadi5087]

@@holyknight70 I agree ,however what the father said was a catalyst to the outcome. When someone feels cornered,he/she will do the unthinkable. That was my point. Ob iously ,the son did what he did ,but we need to look at the whole picture and come to conclusions.

[@ebayerr]

HurryingMan: And then,in the end,the only thing he got for his trouble was jail time.

[@luissolares7007]

I do not think it had anything to do with her dad . He had his businesses he didn’t need the money if he concentrated on his business and wife….he just chose mistress and had no heart and chose to kill a nice person over his problems he created

[@That_one-guy192]

Her student referring to her as "limited edition" has got to be one of the sweetest things I've ever heard.

[@knighttimewalk]

That really stuck out to me too! I was looking for other comments about it.

[@zb7293]

Uniq or one of the kind is even better...linitter means there more just like her...not that uniq..

[@ebbkea]

Have you learned to spell yet?

[@bryangibson6211]

@@zb7293 bruv what

[@carlinielsen7649]

I grew up a couple of houses from Jayde, my mom was her teacher in High school. She was such a kind, caring and gentle woman. Chris has always been a sneaky fuckin asshole and he didn't deserve her. I remember talking to my mom while we were all still awaiting the news after she got kidnapped, before she was murder, we were absolutely gutted. May her soul rest in peace.

[@MobiWanYT]

Sorry that you went through this. It was still very shocking for us in the city as a whole as well. Crazy to think that such a thing could happen

[@InspirebyKhan]

That “man” is insane. Craziness in this world

[@wijayabayumurti4143]

now i wonder, what she saw from this man, why she fell for him....

[@kelleymaxwell3875]

She was absolutely beautiful! I cried and shouted a few colorful words to describe the monster that deceived her. I pray for her to be at peace.

[@CoExist64]

@@Kensington2714 did you mean to type “…what he saw in that raggedy woman”? Hope not

[@kirksavva1748]

This is such a sad episode. She only wanted love and I cant imagine how terrified she was in her last moments.

[@erikmurray3661]

I don't understand how he could just murder her like that?

[@chaeun-woon8405]

@fook yee ok and..................she deserves someone better then him and soooooo much better. Him murdering/cheating on his wife says a lot.

[@lalagirl211]

Why can’t he just let go of her and date someone else

[@gorgeouslycaked3841]

I'll never forget reading an interview with her sister Toni, where Toni was describing spending the night comforting Chris, certain he felt the same pain as she did. Just chilling beyond words. I have so much respect for Toni who stood her ground so valiantly through all of it. A true warrier.

[@Jadekaede]

this case still tugs at my heart. I had the absolute privilege of being taught by Jayde. she truly was a ray of light. she deserved so much more. she deserved to receive the love she gave. 💔

[@katroamleft4721]

i am a bit naive in the way I hope for everybody be nice and kind and often I get it wrong...

[@sosollow]

Jade’s letter gave me goosebumps, the poor woman married for love and therefore just wanted to be loved by her husband ;-;

[@elishh8173]

Yes it's horrible. He did not deserve that nice woman.

[@nomfundomasuku2443]

@@elishh8173 he didn't at all 😔

[@notimportant9974]

The amount of care you put into telling the life of the victims is so kind

[@EWAMILENAP]

Poor Jade♡The letter she wrote speaks volumes about how genuine and precious she was. RIP

[@SirDenzington89]

People are sick man. Wanting to have your wife, who hasn’t done anything at all, killed is so insane. Sometimes there’s volatile couples and lots of resentment so you can kinda see how it can escalate to murder but this case is a whole different thing. That poor woman. I hope they throw him under the jail. She deserved so much more. Just get a divorce, or how about don’t marry someone when you’re already having an affair before the marriage even starts. Good grief

[@fc7307]

He was afraid of losing his inheritance. His dad threatened to disown him if he married the other woman.

[@blueaspenmeadow3862]

@@fc7307 By committing murder he ensured that nobody would want to give him their inheritance

[@jarednewman7823]

Bruh, Chris's voice is so infuriating. He sounds like a man who's so full of himself and doesn't think anything can go wrong in his sick, sadistic scheme.

[@neneshubby]

As I listened I just kept thinking “what a piece of garbage”

[@punksandpoodles]

Reading her letters is heartbreaking, and the friends response to what she wanted for her birthday is crushing

[@spencerp6243]

Can I just say, I audibly cheered when you pronounced Gqeberha correctly. You have done what so many fail to do and it really shows your respect for the cases that you cover

[@keotlwilemogale223]

I was looking for this comment ❤

[@samslembrouck1778]

Me too, as a South African I cheered for you! Thank you

[@taylaboscombe3613]

She was my teacher, saw her the day before she disappeared. Thank you for bringing attention to one of the most beautiful and bright woman!

[@EmiyaUnlimitedBladeWorks]

Truly heartbreaking A respectable woman who loved by their students and friends and the only thing she wished for is being loved as a woman by her own husband turned into her demise. May she rest in peace and god know that she'll always be remembered as a good person in her friends,students and her family

[@sergioramos150]

jade doesn't deserved this at all, life is too cruel for her :(

[@SignOfTheTimes008]

Sad, but people like her go after those high value guys with money and status and they have too many options and often stray.

[@spoonofsyrup]

@@SignOfTheTimes008 you are not sayig she was wrong for trusting her own husband on being a decent person, are you?

[@SignOfTheTimes008]

@@spoonofsyrup She was wrong, cause he wasn't a decent person.

[@jdovgy]

​@@SignOfTheTimes008 um it doesnt matter considering the fact that she was killed??? are u rly victim blaming cos thats what that sounds like wtf

[@highwaypatrol5543]

I lived in the same town as her and was residing there when this happened. It was so traumatizing, I remember being at her memorial service at her school where she taught , all the young students that balled their eyes out was something I'll never forget to this day. She was such a loving and kind soul. Forever rest in peace Jayde.

[@pinkrosa44]

I’m sorry you had to go through that

[@Ourbubcub]

I had mutual friends with Jayde. This story shocked so many in our town. Absolutely heartbreaking. She worked as a teacher at the school I used to attend.

[@mrs.t6462]

At the end of the day was all about money for Chris because his dad wanted him to marry his current wife and if he left her for the mistress his Dad would disown him and not give him his inheritance.

[@jeremyt2212]

Sex and greed, the two oldest motives in the world. So sad.

[@thehorrorsilk]

The letter Jayde wrote broke my heart. She had so much love to give and really did just want to be loved in return.

[@supernova11711]

My thoughts exactly. I almost cried on that part. I felt her pain and could relate.

[@BlueBARv5]

Same...Not much in this world gets me tearing up but that Hit Hard..

[@manda4134]

@@chiefconsumer9710 sorry to say relationships and love arent as simple as that :/

[@manda4134]

@@chiefconsumer9710 i think it was relevant, seeing u were commenting about jayde’s romantic relationship. And sorry to hear ur past relationships havent been great but i dont think aggression and lying is a trait harbored by women in general. Maybe ur seeing things things wrong? Or perhaps seeing the wrong women?

[@manda4134]

@@chiefconsumer9710 um wow thanks for clarifying that was all your opinion. But safe to say that i, as a woman, am not looking for a foolish rich man to cheat on and abandon. In fact i dont think im very interested in dating men at all, because to me there is much more to life than that. (Cant deny that im a frequent liar though lol)

[@kellysehoun]

Please people, just divorce. No need to steal such a beautiful life from this earth. For him to talk so calmly about murdering his wife chills my blood. Another great video, thank you Adrian.

[@Talirus]

Divorce is a messy and lengthy process. Divorce involves the government so it's never fair nor simple.

[@mswheatley]

@@Talirus Still better than literally killing a woman, dude

[@kellysehoun]

@@Talirus it is… but no matter the length it takes it’s always better then murdering your spouse. Is it fair to kill someone’s child because life is not fair or simple? NO

[@glydelchua8053]

@@mswheatley The person talking about divorces being long as a justification is fucking weirdo. Imagine thinking spending your whole life in jail losing the freedom you wanted in the first place makes any logical sense instead of just divorce lol

[@kellysehoun]

@@glydelchua8053 exactly

[@AnthonyLeighDunstan]

This is one of the best true crime channels out there for several reasons: from conception to posting these videos are produced with sensitivity, tact, respect, professionalism, and with an eye for victim-oriented heartfelt storytelling without being trite or sappy; it is biased from an “everyday person” perspective with a true fascination for crime across the world - Adrian has started from areas familiar to him but evidence of him branching out to different cultures and geographical destinations make his channel intriguing and diverse in scope, and I’m curious to see where each video will take us; his delivery is personal yet respectful, heartfelt yet factual. His direct narrator-like approach let’s us see a little of his own amiable personality which makes the telling of the victim’s stories ever more relatable. This is all in contrast to almost all other true crime channels. Thank you Adrian for your time and dedication to stories that need telling outside of the courts, prisons and media.

[@Selene_Rosara]

Chris had a life that people dream of, they write movies and stories about the life he had, and he chose to make it a horror movie. Uselessly tragic.

[@honiahakaa]

poor jade she wanted just a man who loves her.

[@wagnus1923]

Why are the mistresses always less attractive than the wife? Like cmon dude you got a dime don't throw it away for a nickel.

[@sabrinawanderer7560]

Well a garbage always is attracted to flies.. Same feather attracts each other you know..

[@knightartorias8755]

The person above me is right. It's probably the sex. But of course it's never justified to murder for that.

[@eldespenserojpynikkei9014]

Beauty is fleeting, in the end the store owner wanted someone by his side that will assist him with his business. Someone with common interests

[@lilg2300]

@@eldespenserojpynikkei9014 so why did he marry her in the first place? when they married he already had the mistress.

[@aenesthesia]

Sex. It's all about the sex 🙄😒

[@Xphilian123]

As a South African I love the respectful manner in which you cover the stories Please do more South African stories as there are so many to be told ❤️

[@traceywilson8493]

This murder shook us to the core. She lived down the road from where live and i couldn't believe this happened in our city :( RIP beautiful Jayde

[@aarons6935]

When she said in the note "i just want too be loved" i felt that.

[@ShatterTheSkiesAbove]

Jayde was beautiful. My goodness; this dude had the life most of us dream of having. Successful and with a beautiful woman by your side. Now he’s sitting in prison 🙄

[@Bunny11344]

The mistress and her fat best friend 🤮

[@monkeymayEH]

He was definitely not successful. Just living off of daddies money

[@187mrsmith]

Cheating/ affairs seems to be one of the top reasons that leads to murder between couples and spouses unfortunately

[@voidhog1028]

If im not mistaken, the top one is money/greed

[@am2382]

It's mostly caused by jealousy and lack of empathy, those are the main two reasons followed by what u said.

[@Mackenzie002]

@@bingusclub69funni wtf

[@DeezN00tz99]

It didnt happen here but a -shocking- amount of people also think it's ok to kill a cheater, like legally murder someone.

[@Jay-hp6pu]

@@SevenHunnid No one cares that you have videos. Have some tact with how you approach telling people about your stupid videos and maybe people would care a bit more. Also when you say you “educate people” it comes off as arrogant asf.

[@cventer838]

Thank you for thinking of South-Africa, Coffeehouse Crime. This case is SO sad! I've watched this one recently. Murder has no geographic boundaries, was a very cruel case.

[@themadhi-hatter6849]

So many men would give anything to have someone like Jayde, and so many would treat her like an Angel and give her everything she wanted/needed. So sad to see people that are so good be so lonely, while people like this pos guy get everything they want and just throw it away, and take away someone that deserves so much more.

[@jdsartre9520]

"So many men would give anything to have someone like Jayde, and so many would treat her like an Angel and give her everything she wanted/needed" and yet she didn't marry them. i wonder why

[@lunisnight4919]

@@jdsartre9520 well why do you think that?, is it because of personal experience or something else, also what other evidence do you have for the claim, I’m curious.

[@silverbolt9439]

People's true colors show after marriage\love is blind duh. That's why it's best no to Marry early in a relationship until you truly know that person imo

[@quartermaster2809]

JD Sarte there is something really wrong with you lol

[@marilynschmidt6400]

@@silverbolt9439 Some people get married after the kids are all grown up. Treat marriage like a business because that's what it is. Give it 5 years before saying "I do"

[@infoscholar5221]

Russian proverb: Having a happy home, food on the table, and a loving wife, seek not other things.

[@Xydorf]

Not a bad proverb...

[@btaylerpackard2475]

Yeah I'd say that's a solid life right there. Don't stick your hand into too many jars kinda thing. Lead a simple, peaceful life :)

[@rigorob4711]

opachki

[@garulusglandarius6126]

That is a great proverb, similar to what I’ve always thought.People want/ desire too much these days and forget what really matters.

[@MiraSubieGirl]

Can confirm its a legit proverb :)

[@arock7462]

It's never enough for men like Chris. Self absorbed narcissistic abusing liars are the worst! They steal your passion your joy your health and in the end if you don't run away your life.

[@xxxstellarxxx]

This one hurts. This woman did everything right. All she wanted was to be loved by her husband and she got killed for it. It’s twisted.

[@leemelvin6514]

she married a dirt bag cheater. that is not doing everything right. i hope other women will stop marrying these type of men. all it would take is going through their phone, computer and having hot women approach them when they are alone to find out what dogs they are.

[@Daniel-tx2vt]

The incels have come to spew their poison in your replies.

[@xxxstellarxxx]

@@Daniel-tx2vt So much toxicity in two responses alone. Do they think making fun of a murder victim makes them better men, or something? Like what? lol

[@higaiwokeru]

@@leemelvin6514 please go back to reddit, you won’t embarrass yourself there with the other worthless members of society who think the world owes them women

[@leemelvin6514]

@🥀Flower🥀 I am 100% positive she didn't have a hot sexy woman approach him prior to marriage to test his faithfulness. Hell, I am pretty sure she never even searched his phone or computer. Not blaming her, it's normal. Men and women make mistakes when dating. Especially women as once feelings and emotions are involved, it's difficult to make smart decisions. This should be a learning lesson to women out there. Doesn't matter how nice or good you think your man is, you gotta do everything in your power to test him and uncover everything. And immediately leave them over cheating.

[@perniesweemmer51]

I'm from SA...you really are brilliant! Your research and delivery without unnecessary hype and drama is spot on. I wish you much success!👍👏👏👏

[@barbaralamson7450]

It never ceases to amaze me how people think killing their spouse is easier than divorce. Thank for an excellent video.

[@LuciferMoringstar999]

His father threatened his inheritance so inside his tiny delusional mind he thought the only way to still get this inheritance was to has wife murder.

[@TeaCup1940]

In this case he did not think it was easier. He thought if he divorces her, he would lose the inheritance. So economically speaking for him it was more rentable for her to die. He really thought he couldn't pull this off and he could have, if he would have hired a competent hitman that would have used a mask for instance when going to the ATM or that would not have used the ATM, or that would have killed her without the motive of robbery, but would have instead made it look like it was a ritual killing or something similar, or a sexual abuse killing. Would have been easier to stage and much more believable since those things unfortunately happen often and specially in South Africa. But good they did not plan the heinous murder properly and that they got all caught pretty fast. Such a sad life she had. Not only a cheating but also a murderous husband.

[@mebeb6399]

@@TeaCup1940 he would not lose the inheritance though, the dad at the end of the day would need to pass the money off to him (even if the dad did not want to).

[@chewedw1re]

@@TeaCup1940 he wouldn’t lose the inheritance, his father gave him an ultimatum of him either manning up and divorcing jayde, or lose the inheritance altogether and continue the affair

[@arganiaspinosa9122]

@@mebeb6399 He doesn't HAVE to, if he has a favorite niece / nephew or other relative he could give it to them. There is no law that states you have to leave your money to your children. Besides it is a moot point since his son will be spending his time in prison, ironic in the end he lost the money, his freedom and his girl (the mistress). What a dummy.

[@patclark7272]

Her father in-law was the perfect example of a true gentleman and father. Taking a stand for the treatment of his soon to be daughter in-law.

[@mandarina4157]

@mwana mwega exactly. he knew his son was cheating and probably wanted to leave her, and he still basically manipulated him into marrying her anyway. it’s like the father lived his ‘perfect daughter in law’ dream through his son.

[@missondo4887]

@mwana mwega exactly had the father not mentioned the inheritance he would have just divorced or not marry his wife

[@Tee1312Jay]

@mwana mwega He is a grown man, he should have stood up to his father or killed himself, not an innocent person, if he couldn't deal with his father's interference.

[@Tee1312Jay]

@@mandarina4157 He had a choice to either stand up to his father and live his life his way or kill himself if he was scared. He's the one who was cheating, not the innocent person he killed.

[@corinaferrara1164]

Everyone keeps saying that Chris is the one who’s responsible - duh everyone knows that. No one is saying his father is responsible. It just needs to be said that you shouldn’t try to control your kids through threats.

[@Skysablu]

Proud South African, your pronunciation of Qqeberha is better than most locals. Good job.

[@4kdanny385]

@《Lore》 well no shit

[@paxsmile]

@@4kdanny385 😂

[@unathidyani971]

So good, for a Brit 🔥

[@unathidyani971]

@《Lore》 Duh 😂😂😂😂

[@norbertsitko947]

If you are truly South African i have a question. Why situation in SA went from the economical oasis of africa to looting paradise and becoming civil war zone in matter of months? Im really curious and trying to understand the situation because i saw some videos and it's chilling what is happening there right now.

[@monst3rslay3r2]

Wherever Jayde's soul went to when she died, I hope she's ok. Rest in Peace, Jayde. You deserved to be in a relationship that didn't involve cheating...I hope you're ok, wherever your soul ended up.

[@Aerylithe]

On behalf of the Greek community, we don’t claim him. I’m deeply sorry and embarrassed. Rest In Peace sweetheart.

[@priatalat]

To the depths of the Aegean with him

[@VioletJoy]

Everyone is their own person and should be judged accordingly. It's silly to categorize people.

[@Sumo-san]

My goodness, you are beautiful :)

[@anti.bctards7376]

@@VioletJoy Yep, no matter how hard OP spins it, he will always be of Greek descent. They can’t decide if he’s Greek or not, as he’s born into Greek heritage

[@mist9798]

@@anti.bctards7376 Yes, but his ethnicity is of no importance and other Greek people shouldn't be judged off of his horrific actions

[@BeautywithWhitney]

I remember this case. The entire South Africa was in shock when we found out it was the husband all along. In a society where femicide is so rife, we as South African women can never fully feel 100% safe. Not even around our loved ones. Another interesting case to talk about would be Uyinene Mrwetyana

[@nate1717]

And despite this the government's priority was to change the names of internationally recognized cities to appease the native population.

[@greedlike]

Thats an issue only you face

[@alanrobinson4224]

Thanks for info about Uyinene, I really hope the family sued the SA Post office so bad!

[@BlueEyedMomof378]

@@greedlike I doubt it's an issue only they face. Just because you don't have an issue like that doesn't mean that nobody else does. I'd wager there are millions of women in this world that feel that way.

[@cbz5283]

Whenever I think about her, I start tearing up. I was at the march held for her and GBV. I truly thought this might be a moment South Africa would stand up against the rape and murder of our women. But sadly she is just another name to add to the long list of women who were destroyed by our society.

[@zaraJoestar]

It made me sick to the core how he talked in cold blood with his bouncer as if what he killed was a mere insect not a person he loved and been with for years. Rip, Jade You didn't deserve any of that...

[@laurenstuckenberg7554]

I am also South African. I enjoy the stories you do of our country. I am so used to hearing American and British stories that we have all heard a million times before, especially us true crime lovers. This is so relatable and well researched content, please do more. We have many interesting cases. Check out the 'Modimolle Monster', possibly a little violent, The British honeymoon couple, that was an arranged hit, Anni Dewani, very interesting, Jimmy Maketta, Henri Van Breda

[@YY6301]

As a South African, this was a devastating crime. The murders of Jayde, Anni Dewani, Uyinene Mrwetyana and Judge President Bernard Ngoepe’s 4yr old granddaughter broke me 😢💔

[@Joy-TheLazyCatLady2]

I don't understand how a woman can go along with an affair with a guy who is obviously in a serious relationship. Their relationship is "secret" and is carried on in hotel rooms and in the bed where his wife sleeps? Eww. I don't get it. My ex had an affair and even brought her into my home while I was at work. I wasn't desperate enough to stay with him.

[@shaunokeefe7162]

Because she also was a douche!

[@Joy-TheLazyCatLady2]

@Jennifer Rose Bruce you are talking about a woman who is sleeping with a married man that got married AFTER the affair started and has probably told you some BS about how it's a marriage of convenience, or my wife and I don't have sex often and I don't enjoy it when we do because it's not you 🙄, or we don't have sex because my wife hates sex, or any number of other BS lies and this mistress BELIEVES everything he says. She's obviously not very bright. Unless she really does know he's the killer or she is very much involved in the murder, her biggest crime is stupidity and unfortunately, there's no jail time for that offense. 😂😂😂

[@behabtwa]

@Jennifer Rose Bruce prosecute someone for having an affair? is having an affair against the law? 😒

[@kadzo6614]

It takes two to tango. Smh..the shares equal BLAME!!

[@greywalker505]

@Jennifer Rose Bruce But suppose the mistress wasn’t even aware of the guy’s marital status, that she was being strung along much like the wife?

[@mimiimsecond8579]

"Friends and family were in tears, Jade's sister almost collapsing... And Chris was there too."

[@asilahmed2338]

I didn't notice this 😂 Very subtle

[@NyxyPixie]

Gotta love his humanization of the victims and the subtle savagery of his shade XD

[@lauramaclagan7349]

its actually amazing to hear someone put so much practise and work into saying many of the words many people struggle with, also thank you covering this case, I'm a South African and I had no knowledge of this event

[@scratcheddisc9129]

I can't believe he killed his wife for another woman. How selfish.

[@libraempress2069]

Now he won’t be with anyone 👌🏽

[@leeboy26]

@@libraempress2069 Oh I don't know he might meet some people in the shower.

[@earthlunatics9145]

How do you know that’s why he did that? There were probably other reasons as well or he wouldn’t have cheated to begin with. Maybe he’s just a really sh*tty person.

[@chakenbacon]

The way he humanizes victims of crime at the end is another thing I love about his videos. We dive deep into these murder cases, and with our fascination we sometimes forget. These true crime stories are not just stories, they’re real and so are the victims.

[@jgheysenj]

That is the reason I continue to choose his channel for true crime

[@DripTac]

Such a pure hearted woman, I feel so bad for her. She got so unlucky and fell in love with this trash can.

[@Sepo123]

Coffeehouse crime is eloquently delivered. Thank you Bro. You are doing an awesome job. Love your content

[@libbyjameswatt4111]

Feel like a proud parent seeing those subs rise as an early viewer, that’s our Adrian ☺️

[@Vstar87]

I found the channel at 10k subs it’s blown up congrats to him 😊

[@KH0LRA]

Now that you said it, his channel has totally grown well! Was introduced to this channel from my brother last May and his content is just amazing! Deserved 🖤

[@CoffeehouseCrime]

And it’s all with thanks to you early folks! Thank you for sticking around!

[@bellewhitmire4067]

I watched the very first episode and have been hooked every since.. we do love our Adrian !

[@jackreacher1074]

"These gifts to his mistress included a Chanel bag, an expensive watch, a large contribution to a new car, and....a reptile -- the creme de le creme of mistress gifts."

[@samiecarr1885]

Chanel gotta have her Chanel! She's got the perfect mistress name.🙄😔

[@j.g.junior9835]

The reptile was himself.

[@Aj-me8mo]

That's actually true because I gifted my mistress the same things and was shocked when I saw he gave her the same gifts .

[@Vuleherself]

As for Reptile 😂

[@Irunwithscissors63]

It was the GHDs that got me 😂

[@wendynoble6545]

I have a rental apartment around the corner where the couple lived. My tenant saw husband and co-conspirator speaking together in the street and reported this to police. My tenant ended up moving out because tabloid journalists started bothering her at home to get some sort of scoop from her.

[@Folknfunk]

😲

[@MissMxoli]

Wow ,I'm watching from South Africa you said Gqeberha perfectly!!!love your channel even more...you really work so hard to give insights of the locations and people you talk about. Very thorough and respectful done always.

[@Dude_with_beard]

Was also surprised how he pronounced it

[@roscluaran]

Such a horrific and senseless murder. A very tragic case. All for nothing. Greed, lust, and money.

[@Littleheartz-y1t]

And cowardness too

[@theodoragreveniotis9495]

I respect the father for saying to end the affair, its sad it wasent enough :( Why cant they just choose divorce :(

[@coolyeh1017]

From what the video presented it is because Chris cared more about the inheritance than his own wife. Remember, his father learned of the affair and did hit Chris with what made him squirm, disinheriting Chris if the affair continued or there was a divorce. Admirable of the father to do so at least.

[@selfishstockton6123]

She’d get half in the divorce that’s why

[@toomuchtruth]

Divorce courts as setup now incentivize murder. Same with life insurance. Sad reality. It seems like most spousal murder cases involve these 2.

[@theodoragreveniotis9495]

@@toomuchtruth its so weird to gamble ur life like that , live rich vs live in a jail cell ....

[@Killjoycatsever]

@@selfishstockton6123 they weren't even married when her FUTURE Father in law told his son to end his affair.

[@riakozi]

He actually said "Gqeberha" so perfectly!!! I am DEFINITELY SUBSCRIBING!!

[@frostyfreeze7213]

No fr he killed that pronunciation yoh

[@zanempilointegratedwellnes7929]

Never been bothered to comment.. But when he said that name.. It got me checking if he wasn't South African by any chance... ✊

[@ezrolly9898]

He got Xhosa right as well

[@justnone9809]

your channel is so respectful and well done. thank you for covering the cases as you do

[@samiecarr1885]

Imagine picking that bit of rough Chanel, over Jayde, a smart, caring loving and beautiful wife. This man had what most men dream of. A loving family, a good business and a stunning wife whose only wish is to have you home for dinner. 💖💖💖

[@sevillem5343]

That's how it always is. I am so thankful I got out unscathed. But I feel bad for Jayde. You can tell she was a wonderful person by seeing all the pictures.

[@darkodarko9]

lol diss on the mistress.. how do you know that she wasnt caring and loving as well? :) im against cheating and never cheated in my life.. but if i did it would be my fault only..

[@samiecarr1885]

@@darkodarko9 You are right, it is the fault of the person cheating. But you still have to have a lack of empathy and be an immoral person to sleep with a man who has a lovely wife at home. 😔

[@darkodarko9]

@@samiecarr1885 not really.. u fall in love and u dont care what he has home :) its on him to deside.. the only thing thats bad is maybe that she didnt make him devorse.. it would be much better for all sides

[@genxmum5569]

@@samiecarr1885 he probably told the mistress that his wife was a total batch and were actually separated. That's what my ex husband told his mistress

[@datman3416]

"All i ever wanted was to be loved, fully and completely" ugh i feel ya, it aint easy in the world today. Everyone is so vain and superficial its so hard to find real true lasting love

[@CharlieApples]

True lasting love was never easy to find

[@datman3416]

@@CharlieApples I agree but in a world where a replacement is a friend request and a message away for most people nobody wants to stick it out in a relationship to make things work. True love isnt a perfect relationship, its a relationship where you push through the inevitable tough times and build together

[@CharlieApples]

@@datman3416 A replacement is a friend request away? What?? Did you recently get dumped or something?

[@datman3416]

@@CharlieApples Nope havent been in a relationship in a few years im just commenting on how society is nowadays. Decent looking girls have 300 simps commenting googly eyes on every picture on social media lol I dont think what i said is that hard to comprehend bud

[@invadermaythe1st]

This woman got murdered and all you care about is your own love life? Get a grip.

[@jasonhorton]

Starting binging this channel recently, after this one I have some catching up to do!

[@ron2383]

You will not be disappointed, most are interesting cases combined with great presentation. Enjoy watching.

[@lj7169]

Well there's only a dozen videos so the binging won't last long! Lol.

[@brightonbonnie]

Love when you find a new channel to binge x

[@idontwantanysubscribers1157]

He uploads 1nce a week

[@michaelbronson7410]

Anyone got any other channels to recommend? I also watch mrballen & jcs..

[@EssenceEtienne]

I’ve been binging your channel since it’s popped on my recommended to me for a week now and I just have to say I love how well researched and respectful your channel is. 🖤

[@kendramandisa]

What a disgusting, selfish, cowardly man (if he can even be called that). His poor wife, she deserved so much better! She was absolutely gorgeous and sometimes reminded me of Shanann Watts (not sure how to spell her name). Both ladies deserved so much better, rest in peace gorgeous ladies!!

[@alicelopes4693]

Never date a Chris!

[@bsqwahlE]

@@alicelopes4693 hadn't considered that, great advice.

[@selfishstockton6123]

So only gorgeous women deserve better? That’s fucked

[@rebeccajordan4491]

I thought the same. Her resemblance to Shennan was striking.

[@kendramandisa]

@@selfishstockton6123 how the hell did you come up with that conclusion? Your own personal thoughts? I don't get it...

[@tahraholloway3363]

As a fellow South African this was amazing coverage on the Jayde Panayiotou case, you did your research so well. I hope to see more True Crime stories covered by you guys that come out of South Africa :)

[@CoffeehouseCrime]

Thank you Tahra! I have another SA case on the horizon.

[@tahraholloway3363]

@@CoffeehouseCrime aah that is fantastic, can't wait to watch it :)

[@shattered0717]

Poor Jade I know how it feels to love someone and not be loved when they are supposed to love you. It is a terrible way to live and an even worse way to die, unloved by the man you gave your heart to. This is such an incredibly sad story betrayed by that sorry snake and a sorry woman.

[@ninaelizabethdewitt]

I know. That feeling

[@It-is-me...Melsie]

I hope in her final however how long that hell lasted for that she didn't know her husband had arranged it. What a monster.

[@jlkitz1775]

Choosing murder over divorce, leaving - a truly broken mind. Sad 💔. His father was a good man for calling out his son's s***. What a beautiful city; thank you for another great video ✌🏾

[@johnkim4686]

Omg this is so so sad. Especially after listening to what she wrote in her diary. All she wanted was to be loved and a normal family. God bless her soul, and rest in peace.

[@sevillem5343]

I held back tears the whole time.

[@johnkim4686]

@@sevillem5343 Me too. I literally was crying for several minutes after what she wrote in her diary.

[@juliacoburn7455]

She lacked self love.

[@bluefox9019]

Sad to see. She seemed to be a great person by all personal accounts. That guy is pure evil.

[@brianstephens2875]

Wow, extremely heart breaking for Jayde , her family, and her Father in law.

[@sandrakeselisammons860]

I love your videos...no unessasary drama, no dramatic pauses!

[@doranvee5944]

Why does cheating turn this way? Is killing better than divorce? How does murdering even enter one's mind?

[@UmatsuObossa]

Selfishness

[@ZentaBon]

Desperation and frustration. It can build over many years. It's sad what one's brain can seemingly justify simply given their living situation.

[@TyCollage]

Fear, guilt, selfishness and pride, you can divorce your spouse for the sweetheart but the spouse is still alive to show people what kind of a person you are. Mainly selfishness and pride I feel though, and it's petty and unfair, a loss is a loss, deal with it if it's your fault, live with your bad decisions and in this case the loss of the father's inheritance. All he had to do was be a man, take his loss and move on it's not like his father would stop loving is son.

[@AnimosityIncarnate]

Well usually it's the other way around, Chris watts is the only other example I can think of with the person commiting the cheating commiting the murder, it's usually the other way around

[@selfishstockton6123]

@@toxicpunkette then he’d have to fork over half of everything

[@rdrvryt]

Lort I was just sitting down with my tea thinking to myself “man I wish there was a new CHC video to watch.” And BEHOLD, you deliver.

[@voidhog1028]

when youve seen every single JCS video and CHC and now you just wait

[@johnlawful2272]

He'll never run out of material with this planet

[@ryusei9941]

@@voidhog1028 lmao that's so accurate

[@adityakulkarni7685]

He posts every Monday

[@greenroad9548]

If you love true crime, I can also recommend "That Chapter"! :) Almost as good as CHC Videos!❤

[@rosariccardo3529]

Another South African here - you did a great job, pronunciation and all. I'm impressed! And I look forward to more South African stories. Sadly, we have quite a few.

[@polyglycerol3968]

Sadly? thats a good thing.

[@jaeyd4]

@@polyglycerol3968 smooth brain.

[@rosariccardo3529]

@@polyglycerol3968 happily for true crime junkies, but sadly for the victims and our society

[@ElizeEspin]

I'm South African and I wasn't prepared for how you accurately pronounced the vernacular words... well done!

[@eyewai]

My heart hurts for Jade. She did everything right, she had a kind heart with a pure soul. I hope she gets her justice..

[@jdsartre9520]

"This woman did everything right" Well...except for marrying a cheater and killer

[@appledoreman]

How could anyone marry while they're conducting an affair?

[@prepaidtrash5552]

He had an affair after

[@appledoreman]

@@prepaidtrash5552 Check 3:45 - 3:54. He was having an affair during their engagement.

[@appledoreman]

Viewing it kindly, with their wedding imminent, he may have put an end to it & then started up again, who knows?

[@ChaosAOE]

@@appledoreman Because of his fathers threat, he didn't want to risk being disowned because he was by nature a selfish and heartless individual. He didn't love Jayde but it was in his financial interest to keep her around as a shield to fend off his father. Rather than realizing he had what could only be described as a perfect life with a loving wife and successful job he desired more which in the end ultimately led to his downfall.

[@hippoafrojagger1392]

some people just lack empathy to a great degree.

[@USNMelDaria]

I know exactly what the wife was going through because I went to a similar situation after I quit my job and helped my ex husband establish his own business! But one thing about me is when you show me who you are the first time I believe you and I filed for divorce a week after finding out he was cheating and had his mistress pregnant. I got 50% of his business and my kids and I have moved on!🤷🏽‍♀️

[@XyThree]

🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿❤️❤️❤️

[@roynique5218]

Smart lady

[@nOt24seven]

Except Jayde didn't know about the affair smh why would you even bring your situation into this when this woman was killed for a senseless reason! He literally paid the pos mistress and her bestie with gifts to keep them quiet and stupidly chose to have his wife robbed/killed to cover up an affair and money problems.

[@lizsteeds6697]

That’s why some men kill rather than divorce ffs. The type of divorce that divests him of half his assets and an ongoing chunk of his income. It’s all about the money unfortunately ... are you just gloating at others misfortune ?? You being clever and all ...

[@pinokio3785]

Thats the trend in america lol.

[@FLOSSYTREADWELL]

It is very depressing to know that Jayde no longer breathes the same air as us, yet that monster waste of space still breathes & is a drain on society at large. Nevertheless, I am glad I saw this episode as it does keep things real & being aware helps us to keep safe.

[@MichaelMiller-xj1ti]

This channel is the cure for Mondays.

[@WowJustWow37]

Especially when I ought to be working! 🤫

[@chrisyoung8301]

Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays too!

[@turf8999]

“Garfield!” , Jon moaned

[@maritfaye212]

So true Michelle,😃🙌🙌🙌

[@garym2760]

Adrian is........😘

[@lisemindila2584]

My cousin was taught by her and also her netball coach. She’s still dealing with the trauma of her murder

[@teenat511]

You read her letter to herself and I fucking cried. She put on paper EXACTLY how I felt at my most depressed. Ugh. May she Rest In Peace!

[@DC-ki7ej]

Sending you lots of hugs and good thoughts that you don't ever feel that way again. 💕

[@teenat511]

@@DC-ki7ej you woke up today and chose compassion. Thank you! ❤️ I’ve done a lot of introspective work, I don’t need validation to feel my worth so much anymore. Light and love to you as well!

[@DC-ki7ej]

@@teenat511 that's amazing and I'm so glad. 💕

[@smartbanter]

Thank God no one murdered you! It's a lot of work pulling yourself out of the darkness and even though others can help you, you ultimately do it yourself. Stay strong and keep caring for yourself and those who love you!

[@felixbrown4760]

yeah same bro