Discover YOUR Authentic Beauty-Personal Harmony & Style Analysis Janet Jackson & Catherine Z. Jones

[@dennaamalia3264]

I'm jealous of these celebrities getting such a style analysis with tips for free:'D

[@naomia472]

Frrr I kind of wish she did actual ppl that aren’t celebrities so we can see how to apply this on ppl who aren’t in the Hollywood scene....

[@sarahs.9678]

@@naomia472 She does! It’s on her website. It’s not cheap, though. 😝

[@naomia472]

@@sarahs.9678 f- welp that sucks :/

[@nadiakurdi4373]

You made me laugh😂

[@sandrabooth2934]

As a Black women I really appreciate seeing your choice to use a Black women as an example. Very helpfu, please continue to incorporate a variety of ethnicities in your videos.

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

100% will continue to showcase a wide variety of individuals from different ethnic backgrounds! Thank you for the feedback 💖💖💖

[@raynatumbeva780]

It would be better to say woman since women is plural. I don't mean to offend you, you're free to coreect me if I make a mistake too!

[@cocoblue012]

Second this , I did not realize I was associating weightlessness with ethnicity because Im used to seeing it in media as a certain trope and black Women are often typed opposite of that. I am often told I am soft spoken and can be very shy but just mentally had a block that I could have any "weightlessness" until seeing the example today. That is absolutely my fault but, seeing diversity especially when certain stereotypes are so strongly enforced in media can be so helpful to the viewers.

[@sarahs.9678]

Great point!

[@DearStephanieX]

@@cocoblue012 wow you said it well, I agree ❤️ happy to find this video too

[@indigocarra2762]

I'm a Theatrical Romantic in Kibbe with high contrast (pale skin, very dark hair) and I tend to feel most myself when I wear things in Weightless silhouettes and lines but with Depth colors and fabrics :)

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

YEESSS! I SO this! It’s so fun to see where the balance is between weightlessness and depth. And it’s not always done or the other....but it’s more about balancing with each ✨

[@elizabethblanford8569]

I’m a TR with pale skin and dark hair too!

[@elizabethblanford8569]

j k I’ve found the same, I also like having light clothing next to my face (so when my curly hair falls down on it you can see the details) with dark everything else

[@marleyen]

Yes!! I agree so much 👍 TR's assembling here :D

[@athenaesmaeli102]

I’m also a TR with high contrast... but I donot think I look good with stiff fabric like leather... also I wish she talked about how to do makeup for both lightness and depth?!!!

[@Astr0629]

Thank you so much for this, you have really given me a deep insight into essence without racially rigid, sexist, or stereotypical tropes that sometimes even insinuate some types aren’t as sexy, or intelligent, or desirable, or pretty. Thank you for promoting that no type is good or bad, just unique to the individual. I am excited to dive deeper into finding mine and I plan on booking a consultation. I love how in depth you are.

[@lybo1581]

Totally agree👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

You’re welcome! I can’t begin to tell you how grateful I am for your feedback 💛💛💛💛 And I’m beyond pleased that you feel warmly welcomed on my channel 💖

[@starminoui]

I don’t know if it’s just me but I’m realizing I have always naturally gravitated towards what works best for my body. I’m a FN with high contrast so I like tousled hair, unconstructed silhouettes, deep color palettes, and rich textures. It’s just interesting to learn *why* I choose those things and why it works for me. Very well done!

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

We do tend to gravitate towards what’s most complimentary, but sometimes we can veer off track by alluring imagery and celebrity influences imo

[@kickitlikekirra]

I've been experiencing the same revelation. Certain shapes, patterns, textures, and prints I've always loved and others I've always been repulsed by - even if I love them on somebody else! Diving into yin/yang harmonies and body types has shed so much light on the process that I wasn't even aware had been guiding me. ***Fellow FN here, with medium-low contrast. 👋🏽🐆

[@dp2404]

Same! But I regularly tried to follow some trend or look that I liked on someone else and regularly failed 😅 SN high contrast with cool undertones here 🖐

[@dp2404]

@@elyssa_aesthetic I have been meaning to create a color pallet for my wardrobe to help me when I shop, but you did it for me 😄. @3:48 lower left, that is me. I took a screenshot and will use it for sure!!! Great video!

[@lindsaybrower9550]

How tall are you?

[@emjay4477]

As someone who acts and models, I see way too much of myself in photos and videos, and I can see when I look good or not so good/natural, but never really knew what was changing my look. When you talk about Janet Jackson posing, it was like a eureka moment- I'm the opposite. When I do a "soft innocent" pose, i look forced, and kind of mousy in some way. When I look more intense or mischievous, I actually end up looking more natural and youthful. I think that means it is key for me to keep some kind of "weight" or boldness. I am also high contrast and struggled to figure out what "natural makeup" meant for me, until I realized I could keep my colors a bit darker and it would still look less over the top than nude colors. Even though I'm in my early twenties and can pass for a teenager, I just look worn out and stressed when I try too hard to pull off the "innocent" look- unless I do it "my way". Thanks for an awesome video!

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

So glad you had an “ahha” moment! And it sounds like your unlocking your unique balance 💖 Love hearing this!

[@goosebump91]

@@Kpower very good observation!

[@ifetayodavidson-cade5613]

Thank you for choosing Janet Jackson as an example of weightlessness! It’s also encouraging to hear that you are able to take constructive criticism and to note that the principles you discuss are inclusive. TBH, I think that the idea that blondes with blue eyes have weightlessness overall is why some people characterize Taylor Swift as a (Flamboyant) Gamine type rather than her numerous characteristics that suggest she has a Dramatic body type.

[@somebody7070]

Dude some idiot typed Taylor as a Gamine type because she's puuure yang ..ppl forget that body type and style are not the same thing And yess there's weightlessness in everything ( not just light colors ) , just my 2 cents lol

[@AudreyCoyne]

This was absolutely fantastic! Channeling the balance of my own depth and weightlessness is something I'm diving into more lately and this is so enlightening xx

[@truegritcouture]

Indeed!! 🥰🌸

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

Thank you! I’m glad it’s opening up a new approach to play around with 🤗

[@sharonsvendsen6959]

I really like how you find all the beautiful things in people!

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

Omg I WISH people could be a fly on the wall in my consultation Zoom calls!!!! Sometimes I get teared up because I really start to see the beauty in my client. The yin/yang method has forever changed how I see personal beauty 💛

[@hettiegrubbs]

This was the best description of yang and ying essences that I’ve seen on any fashion channel. I wish I had found this video two years ago 😊

[@realpixywixy]

i so appreciate how much care you put into these videos. i love them all because you are deliberate about everything you say, which goes to show the amount of thought behind your ideas. i find them truly fascinating and original. thank you for all the work you do!

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

I deeply appreciate this feedback 💛💛💛💛 Videos like this are definitely a labor of love and it’s encouraging to know that they’re appreciated

[@mgparis]

This is the best style analysis video I've ever seen! I love both Janet and Catherine, and I love that you included videos of them talking. Well done!

[@cianap.281]

I'm really enjoying your latest batch of confident, thoughtful videos! I definitely enjoy hearing your personal take. I also like that you went out of your way not to equate fair complexion with weightlessness. Now that I think about it I can think of a lot of fair skin + hair people with depth of essence-- Bowie, Greta Garbo, Michelle Pfeiffer, Uma Thurman.

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

Yes! Personal contest and coloring is just one part of our total interrelation ✨

[@secbc79]

I was today years old when I learned Catherine Zeta-Jones is Welsh 🤦🏾‍♀️ lol. Lovely, lovely video. So much fun

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

Thank you! Yeah, I’m sure a lot of people would guess many other origins before Welsh 🙃

[@CheySie]

So glad to see a new video from you. I apperception choosing Janet for your analysis. Would love to see you tackle men in the future just to get an idea of their style and how that could mesh with a partner/significant other. ❤️

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

Men are definitely on the list! I have a laundry list of videos but I decided to start with a good foundation of these types of videos. And now that things have somewhat slowed down in in personal life I can make more than just 2 videos a month lol 🤞🏻

[@preciousypenguino]

This was waaaay easier for me to grasp than essence or body typing! I can see very clearly the mix/match with textures, prints and colors for myself ... probably 60% depth, 40% weightless 😊

[@AmbieKat]

Thank you. This helps me understand a lot. I associate depth with sexiness but some of the examples of Janet helped me understand how I can do sexy in a weightless way, which is what I am.

[@unneighborlyarcades6356]

I really like that you include voice in your analyses because I do believe they are such a large part of a person's vibe. Just think of the silent film stars whose voices were revealed not to match their on-screen personas when talkies came in. (I've read some accounts that say such stories are rumors, and others than say they were true in some cases.) Think of how voices are chosen for cartoon characters. It's all so very interesting. All in all, it's important to put all aspects together, otherwise something can look off even if we follow one set of rules (be they for our coloring or our body-types). I recall a blog somewhere that reasoned Cate Blanchet was an ethereal rather than a dramatic because the "dramatic clothes" didn't suit her. But of course, it was simply because the colors and (possibly) patterns weren't well-suited to Cate Blanchet. For myself, certain makeup looks and hairstyles that should look good on me (if my belief that I am FG is true) don't. It makes you realize just how unique every person is.

[@isamar3301]

Love the examples you chose especially Janet 😊

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

She’s such a special human being ✨ So tender and sweet

[@faywillowstream]

i’m in the classic family, so it’s no surprise i have a blend of weightlessness and depth! i tend to come most alive with some depth though, which makes sense as a DC haha

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

Makes total sense ✨

[@omgitsmetimes3]

Thank you for considering inclusivity in this video. As a black woman, it can be a challenge to utilize the information I learn from kibble/ body type styling videos because most of the time, I don't look like any of the examples used in the video. Love your channel!

[@KatieDevlin]

Another beautiful video - I never would have said that about Janet Jackson because she is always shown dark and dangerous, but it is so clear as you explain it! Nice work.

[@JR-sx3gl]

I am a romantic body type and have a lot of weightlessness. I am pale with cool undertone. I look great in saturated colours, like blues, greens, dark grey, black. Pale colours make me look paler and uninteresting. I look terrible in tailored, structured garments and need more softness, delicate, flowy fabrics. I absolutely agree with the patterns: delicate flowers, botanical, etc.

[@sofitocyn100]

A bit like you. Soft natural body type with what I suspect an ethereal +romantic essence. Colour palette is probably bright spring. (Ginger hair, brown eyes, golden pale skin). Pale colours wash me off. I get most complimented when I wear vibrant black, red and green. I find that lightweight materials only look good on me and minimum details in terms of patterns. Strong, bold patterns and materials overwhelm me. So a bit like you, I need light fabrics but stronger colours, otherwise I disappear. :)

[@SaadetOZTRK]

I am as 'weightless' as it gets. But i have a taste for those depthfull rich cool toned colours. Its all about preference! This was a nice video thank you! 💕💕

[@ellebannami5531]

This is SO good. Thanks for opening my eyes (soft gaze), Elyssa! ;)

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

Glad to be of help! 💖

[@adrijamajumdar1856]

I loved this video and how Janet Jackson was used as an example! Could you please also consider making a dark academia aesthetic for the body types video? Thank you!

[@elektraeriseros]

My favorite thing about this approach is the freedom to mix and match. Weightless silhouettes flatter best (and the prints and fabrics work well), but the colors and textures of depth really feel like home? If that makes sense?

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

Makes total sense!!!! And I’m reflection I should have included an example of an individual who takes from each end of the spectrum....just to help give a more clear idea of how to apply the technique. But yeah, that’s the best part about this approach for sure 👌🏻

[@lipasketch]

Elyssa! This content is SO GOOD! Instant like!

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

Thank you lovely 💛

[@eccc4315]

Elyssa, I am obsessed with your videos thank you so much for decomposing the idea of "essence", this is something I've been very interested in for years. Please keep these videos coming! Would you be able to teach us more about a Natural essence? thanks again!

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

Oh the videos are indeed still coming! So glad that they’ve been helpful t you so far ✨

[@truegritcouture]

Wow! I was completely enthralled for the whole video! I know you are very busy, so thank you for making the time to share this video. I really enjoy thinking about how to express the different aspects of my essence with my Soft Dramatic lines, and although I have somewhat of an elegant, slightly regal vibe in the way I subconsciously carry myself and move my body, I also have a pretty cheeky, playful edge to my humour! I think I can see those influences in my personal style Xx

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

I’m glad I captured you attention! I always get nervous publishing these longer videos 🙈 Your description of your balance is spot on and I can totally see the little nuances of them in wardrobe.

[@truegritcouture]

@@elyssa_aesthetic yay!!! 😂💕🌸🙏🏽

[@exdamariis]

Such a beautiful video with awesome examples and clear explanations! Never fail to impress👏🏽👏🏽

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

THANK YOU!!! 💛💛💛

[@kareng.7773]

I can't wait to see the video on your yin yang balance!!!

[@alimiyaoka608]

I've been studying your videos for a couple months now and learning a lot. But I felt like there was something else that I was missing and couldn't quite put my finger on it... when you posted this video, I immediately knew that this was just what I needed! Thank you!

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

Oh perfect! So glad it helped edge you that much closer towards your style goals!

[@IevaKambarovaite]

I'm learning so much from you. I absolutely love it. Thanks for saying that florals are OK to wear 😊 I've always been drawn to florals, light materials, very soft fluffy garments. Thank you so much for being so general with your knowledge

[@jessicab3951]

Wow, I just want to say all of your videos are so helpful! Thank you so much! I’ve struggled so much with feeling beautiful, or comfortable with my body, especially with how my weight sat on me and your videos are truly empowering! I always thought feminine was Yang/ depth and masculine was Yin/weightlessness because our society projects ideas of what a feminine women is, if that makes sense. But depth has never suited me much, I’m weightless and it’s time I accept it. I’m also soft romantic body type (loved your description of Drew Barrymore in your other video) my body isn’t overly curved- I again assumed to be romantic you had to look like Beyoncé or someone with bbl, because that’s what we all see on social media today. I’m so excited to incorporate all of your advice into my life, I struggle however with finding draping, soft weightless fabrics to wear in winter, I’m in London where it’s cold 24/7 and I tend to cover up. I wear more depth clothes and covered up because my soft features made me appear too open to people, I’m always approached by people. Men asking for directions would somehow try to ask me out, other men would try trap me on the bus and force me to sit besides them, so much shit I couldn’t stand. I’m a very soft and chill person so it annoyed me when I had to exert extra energy to keep myself safe, I guess I never realised I was using a lot of Yang energy through clothing, hiding my natural figure to protect myself outside. Thank you so much for your videos 💓💓✨💓

[@debless9]

I'm FN with shy but goofy personality and true autumn, so my colors tend to be medium in depth. I guess maybe that's an okay balance? Why is there no dork essence? 😅

[@sarahs.9678]

Hahaha I believe the elegant word is “quirkiness”. 😛

[@GemZbabe101]

Timestamps would Help our a lot! Thank you for such detailed content 🌸

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

I usually do but didn’t have time for this video. I’ll put time stamps in the description.

[@MoPoppins]

Or chapters, since KZbin now,has that feature.

[@EleanorTodd]

my facial features and flesh are definitely more yin (pale, light hair, light eyes = low contrast, fleshy arms and chest) but bone structure is yang (I've always been larger than my friends even at my smallest weight). my personality has always been described as a down-to-earth and grounded person. I definitely have a passionate/firey streak too when I care about someone. I love and care with my entire being which I see as very yang and intense. I like structured dresses with more flowy fabric. I need the construction because none just looks like a sack on me, but heavy fabric weighs me down and looks overly sexy and like I'm trying too hard. thanks for this video! It was so helpful!!

[@weronikawronska3931]

I am TR (so a lot of yin in me), but my essence is quite yang. Plus I don't have much contrast between my eyes, skin and hair. People say I have this regal vibe around me and I know it comes from my personality, so I need to bridge the gap between this yang part of me and my predominantly yin look. I noticed that I only look good in yin colors when there is some strong yang added-both by the material texture and yang pattern. But when I use yang colors I need to soften things by giving up yang material or yang print. So difficult considering I can only buy what's available in the shops!😅 Anyway, thank you for another amazing video!♥️

[@IevaKambarovaite]

Thanks to Audrey I've discovered this brilliant channel 💖

[@TsukiNoShiroi]

i think a video who talk about make up with body type/esssence will be so facsinating ! (if you're intereting of course :) ) i'm a romantic-ingenue with hight contrast(brown hair and eyes, pinky-pale skin). My essence is youthful with some deepness. one time my friends made her usual dark make up on me. But it's looked less good on me than her (she is a flamboyant natural). On me it's look "not true" like if i lost some thing. Usualy i don't wear make up, i Don't understand what could look good on me. Some time when i try to wear liner it's look " too heavy" on my face (i have short-bushy-low eyebrow i think it's too much compilation of yang in one part of face). maybe i should tried korean make up but i have the feeling it's too light. In short, i'm lost in make up univers. lmao. PS : thank for making all of this video, it's very facsinating to learn essence/body type through of your video :) !

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

This is a topic that I definitely want to touch on!

[@YumeraChauque]

Wastch dear peachie channel about makeup archetype. And others videos!!

[@groovysecondhalf]

Fantastic Video! Red is my favorite color to wear and I get lots of compliments when I wear it. I kind of feel like I am in the middle someplace.

[@bevepr]

Thank you Elyssa for always sharing such positive content! I love how you celebrate all types of beauty.

[@angelabristow4648]

I am a Romantic body type with a more yang essence. I've found that I do best balancing that blend by keeping flowing, rounded lines with primarily light fabrics (yin qualities) and the occasional silks around my face or velvets as skirts and most importantly vibrant colors (yang qualities).

[@Aleexv33]

Elyssa I ADORE your videos! Thank you so much for this one. Can you please make a video on casual looks for angelic/ethereal essence? I'm trying to renew my wardrobe but I feel like there are so few resources that take angelics into consideration, or they only recommend haute couture dresses! Thank you!

[@tanyaeve9498]

This is so interesting, I find that my contrast and colouring has changed as I've got older. I had very dark hair and pale skin, but my hair is now silver (though with some dark streaks in it), so have less contrast. I do still gravitate to darker colours, but I need medium contrast and bright, but not too bright colours. Thinking of those ethereals, I certainly have aspects of luminous ethereals - I have been told over the years I am ethereal looking, which could be seen as weightless too. It would be good to know what you think of changing colouring as someone ages, and how that affects their style.

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

Ooooooo this is SUCH a good question!!! I’ll include it in my live Q&A!

[@dp2404]

My mom used to be hight contrast. Very white skin green eyes but intense brown hair. Now her hair is completely white, which looks stunning on her by the way. So she is now low contrast. I feel like different colors suit her best now respect to some years ago. Now I like her a lot in very light cool greys, which 20 years ago would have completely washed her out. So, I think, yes your hair color does matter

[@tanyaeve9498]

@@dp2404 I am similar, but have blue eyes. My hair is not yet completely white, though. I was called ethereal even when I had very dark hair, I think it's the very cool and slightly unusual colouring.

[@cristinalattuada5322]

I think your videos are great, so well explained and thorough. I wished you included some mature women. I haven’t seen any older women in your videos. There’s also beauty in natural aging. ❤

[@estersilva7804]

what a great video!!

[@cookycandy4]

im a soft natural with strong weightless qualities (high pitched voice, naturally soft spoken, low contrast features) but with a more assertive personality (not totally authoritative, just direct). i gravitate mostly towards depth in color and prints with some elements of weightlessness in lighter fabrics (im just starting to learn how to embrace this weightlessness in my expression). i have a weird balance in my closet, but with my oddly cheery and youthful but mysterious personality i like to convey openness and surprise + i enjoy the challenge!

[@AnaMartinez-nx6hg]

Thank you for this!! I’ve recently identified this concept in my own wardrobe, and I’m so glad I stumbled upon this! I hope you can delve further into makeup and other applications for depth in the future 😊

[@LittleBabywriter]

I have heavy features as well as weightless ones. The best colors are rich ones but softened to not be so intensive. The same goes for fabrics. Slightly constructed and deliberatly shaped in clothes but soft and light and close to body.

[@Keapix]

These are great examples. I’m definitely in the depth camp when it comes colour; I have a lot of navy, burgundy and aubergine.

[@NesKimStyle]

Well done. This really helps more with my Kibbe identification.

[@martiniqueblumeninsel]

I really love your content and that I can feel that you love what you do!

[@someareroses]

Your videos are eye opening 🦋

[@VEE-rd7cu]

Awesome video. I am at a lost of my essence for the 1st time in my Life!

[@kasiekk193]

Looking forward to more of this series :)

[@carolinesuchman9723]

Love your videos! Such great analysis and your voice is so soothing :) Can you make the examples of harmonious vs. less harmonious bigger? I tend to watch on my mobile and they’re a bit small.

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

YES! Still working on getting the image sizes right for mobile....thanks for letting me know!

[@fatiq8297]

This is fantastic and so helpful! Subscribing :) I’m a Deep Autumn (I think) with dark eyes and hair, and I’ve always wondered why I don’t look that great in deep colors...that has always baffled me. I love black and dark colors like maroon, plum and navy (people around me are pretty sick of that), but when I do wear softer, lighter, more muted/dusty colors I get a lot of compliments (I look really good in camel, soft rose, light purple). I don’t look that good in high contrast color outfits. I’m still not sure what my Kibbe type is, at 5’5 I can be pretty much anything, but I’m very similar to you Elyssa (in both coloring and fleshiness of the face and body). I do have abit more sharpness in my nose (and my chin is abit pointy), and my shoulders get sharp and narrow when I am thinner. I might be TR but I don’t have the thin, structured faces seen in TR examples, my face looks more similar to SG 🤷🏻‍♀️ And I’ve been dressing DC and N all this time, wondering why I look so...frumpy.

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

Wow! This is so cool that we have a similar balance! These days I associate more with TR when it comes to the kibbe system, but I still don’t feel that the recommendations fully encapsulate *me*. I’m like a TR, SG hybrid lol My body does best with cropped lines and gripping silhouettes, but I refuse to make any archetype my identity. I can relate to a few of them, but at the end of the day I have my own nuances of yin/yang that I feel most inclined to honor. And yes, I tried to rock N lines for way too long! I looked terrible! Anyways, I’m so glad this video offered a mew perspective and new approach to experimenting with your style! All the best and happy holidays 💛

[@yomnahossam6773]

As a soft gamine with a bit high contrast I personally love both weightless and deep rich looks, I guess I can pull off both and each look expresses different part of me

[@colleenmcbride3656]

That's how I'm feeling too.

[@pamelavera2247]

As a possible TR, I’ve noticed that I feel my best in mostly weightless outfits, like a flowy and flowery dress, but with a smidge of depth coming from the colors and/or construction (such as a really tight waist). Also interesting, I’ve worn a totally light colored outfit, but the construction of the shirt and skirt were crisp and the white contrasted sharply with the pink and green. Not my best look! So it was too deep in construction and contrast of color. This is a unique perspective for sure.

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

THIS THIS THIS!!! You’ve totally grasped the idea of weightlessness vs. depth and how to identify *what type* is most harmonious for you!!!!

[@pamelavera2247]

@@elyssa_aesthetic all thanks to your wonderful video 😊

[@nicmusic1985]

I got so excited to see this video posted! Love this so much and all of your content. Everything is so thought out abs you’re so well spoken 😊

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

Thank you!!! I really appreciate you tuning in 💛

[@LaLaLo]

very interesting topic!

[@mandarinz69]

I have a yang body with yin colouring. That might explain why some outfits I've worn have just missed the mark.

[@amberhotdogsfordinner9788]

I would be super excited if you did some realistic everyday style videos for the body types. :)

[@spacebar9733]

I am so embarrassed, confused, and shook, I thought Catherine Zeta Jones was AMERICAN! 😭 I’m questioning everything right now. I’ve watched entrapment so many times. This explains many things. Anyway I love this video so much. When you put them speaking it changed everything. Also Janet in the Marilyn inspired shoot OMG! She looks amazing. And Catherine in that leather dress in the daytime says everything! Bc it really does look so casual as you said.

[@PsychicKathleen]

THank you for producing this helpful video Elyssa on yin/yang! My mind just kept jumping around through the decades of style I've been through (today is my 66th birthday :)) I would describe myself in Kibbe terms as a soft dramatic and through this video I was able to identify how very yin I am but I do have to be careful - not pastels or frills but not black angular leather either.

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

Happy birthday!!! 🎂🎉 And I’m so glad this was helpful!

[@claudiah8905]

Great video! First I thought I was in the weightlessnes category since I have low constrast in my coloring. But then I did not feel myself represented in that 😄 I probably lean more to depth.

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

We can definitely pull both....it’s just a letter of how you harmonize with each 🤗

[@claudiah8905]

@@elyssa_aesthetic it is probably a continous range ☺️

[@sarahthatcher123]

I live in a place with four seasons. It was difficult for me not to just see this as fall/winter vs. Spring/Summer. Both in color and materials. So it would be helpful to see how this same concept works across the seasons.

[@rosabelladoherty]

Loved it 🌼 It helps a lot. I'm much more in weightlessness side then depth side.☺️ XO from Brazil 🤗

[@marsouinrirou]

Very interesting video ! I definitely naturally gravitated towards depth all my life, and it's really coherent with the attributes you outlined in this video I'm wondering, where do neon colors fit into this dichotomy ? Do you see this as a third type that does not fit into depth or weightlessness ? Like the pop aesthetic i guess... Not my style of clothes but I wondered about that when looking at your video haha

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

Ah yes so neons (to me) would be a form of high tempo weightlessness. They’re very energetic, so definitely not yang imo

[@marsouinrirou]

@@elyssa_aesthetic thank you for your answer !

[@renee3384]

awesome work :)

[@miamilan4812]

I see so many comments saying “ I’m jealous….” Bla bla why are you jealous? That’s so toxic to your soul. Stop being jealous! Use what you want as motivation to keep learning about your essence, style etc.

[@hoppergrasa]

i definitely am yang, lots of depth. dark black hair, dark brown eyes and olive skin!

[@iceriahikari4707]

Thank you so much for your videos! They are very informative. I'm still working on my interrelations. My body shape and facial features leans more on ingenue, however because of my personality, voice tone and resting angry face, I have more depth. So far, what I've noticed is that I can't wear clothes that are too-crisp or tight on my body. Loud details drown me because of my petite figure. I look quite good with weightless materials but the colors must be rich and lean on to the Yang side to complement me or else I'd look dull. I think I'd try other Yang materials as well to see if they'd look good.

[@elisabethnuchowich2550]

Can you please start an ASMR series???! You're voice would be amazing for it, very soothing.

[@Sarah-tj1tq]

I'm considering getting myself a consultation for my birthday in January.

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

It’s be my pleasure! I’m here when you’re ready 💛 And happy early birthday wishes fellow January baby ✨

[@sherryedwards695]

Hi Elyessa. Great video - I love all your videos. You're a great teacher who always gives me homework, ha ha! I never really thought about depth and weightlessness, however, I must be the weightlessness type. I would also like to see a Caucasian women that I may be able to identify with. I have also been watching videos by Imogen Lamport from Australia called Inside Out Style. She refers to dressing for personality types based on the Myers Briggs Personality System. Her system is based on dressing for your personality and not body shape. Have you heard of this? And if so, what are your thoughts? Now to answer your question I suppose I naturally gravitate to most of the items you mentioned regarding weightlessness without realizing it. I do adore ombre eclipse patterns, soft muted blended patterns, anything lacey and flouncy, all things sparkly, ha ha!! Guess I was doing all of this right without even realizing it, ha ha!!

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

Oh I’ll have to check her out! I think dressing for your personality is a great idea, but I know for me, I like tohe idea of knowing what’s going to flatter my proportions and break the rules of I feel like it

[@silverroxen2954]

She showed famous Caucasian women as examples in the beginning, Ashley Olsen, Isla Fisher, Drew Barrymore, and Kate Hudson. I can't remember the other two women. Maybe Amy Adams on the right?

[@thorathor7975]

Great video! I would love to see (maybe you already have a video) about the opposite in Depth: a blond / light hair girl who has depth and how she incorporates it. Love from Italy ❤

[@elinljungstrom3932]

I really like how you approach this! It's cool to hear someone talk about yin/yang balance in a broader sense than just the Kibbe types. :) I would really love for you to make a video about Olga's ethereals, it'd be so interesting to hear your take on that! :)

[@norah327]

Yes,I would like to see that too.☺

[@sandraoliveira2366]

Hello, how do you understand about Olga ethereals. Do you have any vídeos?

[@elinljungstrom3932]

@@sandraoliveira2366 There used to be a really good KZbin Chanel on Olga’s ethereals, but the creator deleted it and took down all its videos, so at this point I unfortunately don’t have any good recommendations on KZbin. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@dianasmith4225]

Please more like this!

[@yeminchanna4662]

Can you do a video on romantic essence like the one you did on ingenue one , cause I feel like romantic essence is the perfect combination of depth and weightlessness and depth while classic ,gamine and natural something of their own . dramatic and ingenue are too extreme . Concept wardrobe has written an article about romantic essence for refrence .( Not the kibbe one , mcjinsey/kirchner one) with Aishwarya Rai , Liz taylor and Christina hendrick . With that you tell us how to identify if we have romantic essence with modern pop culture and just everyday references / metaphor and also how to dress for it .

[@sophisticatedwrat]

I'm a deep autumn (I do have some neutral tones but overall it is warm and fits into this category). I am petite and curvy (hourglass, not overweight) and do well with rich colour and things that show off my figure (not necessarily low cut shirts and short shorts) but my personality is more quiet and shy with a bit of flirtiness and youthfulness. It's difficult because I feel like apart from my personality, I would do well in bold looks but unless they have a hint of feminity, it looks like I'm trying to be someone that I'm not. I don't have that strong woman "wonder woman" vibe about me, I'm much more soft and subtle. I'm going to be going on a binge to try to figure out what I am. When covid ends, I really want to go clothes shopping because I don't have a lot of clothing and this will be very useful. Sorry for the long comment and thanks for these vids!

[@dominator8245]

My problem as always is, that I love both ^^

[@kateannt87]

This was so interesting! Where do you think someone who gravitates toward bold, bright colors and patterns would lie? I'm thinking someone who pops in electric blue, cherry red, orange, very graphic prints... Someone like Rita Ora or Jameela Jamil when she wears her awesome power suits. I can't totally place them in either of these categories. Thanks for the great video and style food for thought!

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

Ah so this is Energetic or High-Spirited which is not an extreme of either yin or yang. Energetic pulls the high tempo from yin and the bold impression from yang.....make sense? Love this question and will definitely be speaking to this topic in the future! This video was just meant to highlight the extremes......yin/weightlessness and yang/depth and to provoke you to see where you might find them within yourself 🤗

[@kateannt87]

@@elyssa_aesthetic Yes that totally makes sense! I admittedly feel like someone with some bold and brash energy - Energetic or High-Spirited makes so much sense! And yes, does seem to draw on elements of both Depth and Weightlessness and sort of turn it into something unique. The character Brianna from Grace and Frankie is also a great example! I would love to hear your thoughts on Energetic/High Spirited sometime. Thanks Elyssa!

[@adagalant8506]

I cant figure out my type on my own. I am short (157cm) I have high voice, I am really delicate, and slim. And I have slender face. When a type matches for example my height, it doesnt match the shape of my face or my figure. But I do know that I need to wear slim pants but I can wear some loose blouse on top. And I truly love tailored blazers with dark skinny jeans. But I do not know which kibbe type I am! I am so confused

[@angelc8490]

Great content video!

[@celiatyree3658]

This partially explains why the olsen twins look so washed out in their less youthful style. I've heard many times that they look like witches and maybe not in the best way. Their earlier, more youthful and lighter carpet looks really bring out their beauty.

[@rivkaruthgolan]

I am soft dramatic, in body type, but a soft, serious natural person. Love farms and animals. Trying to pinpoint my style.

[@ads112233]

What is the reference picture for the white dress on the left at 6:45? I’m obsessed and i want it to be my wedding dress 😍

[@elyssa_aesthetic]

Ah shoot....I found it somewhere on Pinterest ☹️ Try searching “airy wedding dress”

[@McMoldys]

Im deep in complexion but my coloring is muted so i’ve always loved wearing darker and muted colors. I didnt realize why until now

[@sofitocyn100]

This is a great video !!! I am 31 and have just found what seems to be the style I was supposed to have all these years. Anyone interested in my journey, continue reading. Maybe i could inspire you if you have similar features! I am 1,60m (5"3) with a kibbe Soft natural body type and what I suspect an ethereal +romantic essence. I look younger for my age but i am regurlarly told that i am also ageless because of the wisdom i inspire. I am no one without my black eyeliner, that defines my eyes and gives me a piercing look. Other than my artificially enhanced eyes, i have nothing striking -i look sweet but my face is also one of a kind. Not in a bad way, but i find that my face can't go unnoticed - you either love it or not. I need colour to my face to add fleshiness and to look alive -amber rose blush and colour to my lips. I look horrendous in contoured or sleek makeup. I have a forehead that is a bit longer than average, taut skin, ginger middle length, thick hair that falls in natural vintage curls, a small nose and a defined jawline. My lips are average in terms of thickness and my face is quite oval. I get most complimented about my hair, eyes and jawline. Colour palette is probably bright spring. (Golden very pale skin, ginger hair and brown eyes). Now what i have found look food and bad on me : Pale colours wash me off. I get most complimented when I wear vibrant black, red and green. Mostly black. I find that lightweight materials only look good on me, as well as minimum details. Strong, bold patterns and materials overwhelm me. I need light fabrics but stronger colours, otherwise I disappear. I also look terrible in tailored outfits. Although not narrow nor tall at all, I find that I look best when I honour my sensual body (hourglassed) with garments that make me look dreamy (mesh, chiffon, silk). Over the top sensual outfits and makeups look too bold on me and looks that are too angelic wash me off, so I find that I need a mix of the two. I used to dress laid back only, with no makeup nor jewerly and I believed that it should fit my body type, soft natural, and my relaxed personality and lifestyle, but I always looked unmemorable, girl next door to a fault. Ever since I started dressing to accentuate my hourglass and to elongate my silhouette, everything changed for the better. Without me saying anything, everybody I meet says that I look expensive, poised, collected, wise, sensual. I was also told that I looked "vintage" - like a Hollywood actress with the shape and colour of my hair, my body and my face features. And I find that I act accordingly as a result. I feel much more poised and elegant indeed now that I have this look. And that's because of the colours, textures, materials and garment styles I started wearing.

[@louisedolloff836]

What about if you are in the middle? Dark and heavy is too much and muted and airy is too little and draining?

[@allisgrace1313]

So what I'm dreaming for right now is for a stitchfit like service to exist that caters to the body types etc! Someone PLEASE create this!

[@supriyayashaswinee5347]

Can a person with absolute rounded feminine romantic yin features pull off bold, sultry yang look? How? One would certainly wouldn’t want to be limited inside a box .. instead would want to learn how they can portray themselves beautifully in other architypes without looking unbalanced. I am a full on romantic with very yin essence. I want to look bold and yang, classic and try everything… every look and look good . Can you give me some ideas?

[@sandraoliveira2366]

Vá nas lojas experimente looks que separou de referências, tire fotos, e observe a produção geral e veja o que gosta e vai observando como fica em seu corpo, e se gosta tipo: cintura marcada, peças mais soltas etc.

[@deannab8890]

What if physical attributes are weightless but essence is deep? Do I dress for my “inside” or “outside”?

[@sandraoliveira2366]

Traga pelo menos um pouco, pois somos seres visuais, se colocar muito da Essência interior manifestará uma parte que não vai estar alinhada com o seu físico, então coloque detalhes.

[@AndraCornelia27]

The thing is you can not change your essence watherver you do. Yiu don't loose depth even when you age and you don't loose weigthlesness it not just a fizical trait, like you saied it is the voie, the gaze, the manierism

That was a great video! I've just noticed I have a lot of depth about myself, and that's why people perceive me as having a strong yang even though my facial features are not that angular. I think in my essence the depth doesn't appears as much as in the physical appearance, in the essence I think it's 50/50, or at least I have some 40% of weightlessness

[@arielhoeft7511]

I would love to see celebrities like Priyanka Chopra, Simone Ashley, Lupita Nyong’o, Gemma Chan, and Michelle Yeoh compared as they all have very different essences but are so beautiful. I also see a lot of the videos on style typing are very white washed so I love seeing this.

[@querenm3303]

I have a soft and cool olive skin. My body type is soft natural , I'm trying to figure it out my essence now