DISCUSSING SOMETHING IMPORTANT | VLOGMAS DAY 3 | Lydia Elise Millen

[@KS-kf3xb]

When you first get your puppy, he will miss his mummy and brothers and sisters for the first few days. Containing the puppy at night will help to keep them secure and stop them getting lost in an unfamiliar area. We have always used a crate for the first few weeks, putting their bed inside and covered the crate over so it’s nice and warm and dark for them. After a few weeks you can try them without the crate. I think that your puppy will do well in your utility room. It’s small enough to make them feel safe. Try not to shampoo puppy too often as it washes the natural waterproofing oils out of their coat. Just drying feet and undercarriage with a nice towel will keep them clean after a muddy walk. Good luck with your puppy x

[@louisemon]

Husky owner here and I completely agree with you. This is sound advice. : ) My husky (now 5 yrs old) still has her crate in the kitchen (never closed) but has a cosy bed in it and blankets over top and its her safe place that she still uses a lot. Especially if its noisy or thundery out.

[@onlinecomment]

Crates..sounds terrible. No wonder the puppy misses it’s siblings. All my puppies never looked back once they arrived, because I let them sleep nearby and started with “its own bed and place” training when it was the proper time and they were grown up a bit.

[@charmiesham]

poodle owner:) we did the same too. we also wiped his paws after each walk outside, just so no mud or gross bits stick in between the paw pads that can cause skin issues. the main thing is consistency, which can take months! so excited to see your puppy 🤩

[@julieparker9581]

Had dogs all my life and personally completely disagree with putting them in a crate to sleep for their entire life. It’s good for them to have a spot for their bed and get to know the bedtime routine, but equally nice for them to move about a bit at night if they get too hot/cold etc. Each to their own though! ❤️

[@mirahhaus]

100% agree. I think its important to crate train any dog BUT to isolate them in a crate at night for sleeping is in my opinion is not kind, and can also create "nervous" behavior.

[@CoxyBieber]

Disagree my dogs all were trained to sleep in a crate, their own space, now they still sleep in there even with the door left open at night you will find them in there xx

[@mirahhaus]

@@CoxyBieber I think its important to crate train, and mine often sleep in their crates but I never lock them in the crate per say.

[@Lovecharmaine]

Yes 🤍 I completely agree

[@ClaireMcD]

Agree. It would be torture for my dog to sleep in a crate. He sleeps in a bed next to our bed.

[@SuzieBonaldi]

Just catching up on all your vlogmas today and OMG THE INTRO IS EVERTHINGGGGGGG. I'm obsessed!

[@HaleyCairo]

From someone who has trained multiple dogs and currently working with K9 professions... Dogs confidence and stress levels are something to be heavily considered when training a dog. They communicate and comprehend things completely different then humans. Confidence is one of the most important things in raising a happy stress free pup! Crates provide a safe space, where they create a "den" like environment. Dogs are pack animals and a "den" or crate is very natural for them. It really helps them have good sleep as well, especially if you cover the crate at night. Also with having a cat you want each animal to have their own space :) Its also a great way to work on their obedience. A confident pup, usually leans to be more willing to work and try to please you with obedience. Lastly you definitely will want the pup contained at night for their own safety. I truly hope this didnt come across wrong! Just wanted to share my experience! I know you and Ali will do great!

[@ljss123]

The dogs I know who are crate trained tend to view their crate as a safe place. I also know dogs who aren’t crate trained and they are fine. My friend’s dogs are better behaved and don’t go as crazy’s when she’s at work now they have their crate (according to her neighbors). I don’t know anyone who crate trains solely to avoid accidents.

[@chloepaton5115]

We never crate trained our dog, just taught him to go in his bed and he knows this is his safe space. X

[@annekahodgson7450]

If you are getting a dachshund like I suspect you might be, crate training is the best thing you can do. They often have back issues and need crate rest and if they arnt used to a crate this can be very distressing for them. So ignore all of the negative comments which I'm sure you will anyway. Love from a fellow dachshund mum xx

[@TheRosyPosey]

We’ve crate trained both our dogs, and all our friends have. It really helps with separation anxiety too, helps with potty training and we find it hugely beneficial. It also allows them to have their own “safe space” where they can chill out/sleep etc. Our dog voluntarily goes in, it is his bed etc. and where he can switch off when he wants some alone time. There is scientific research behind it too. And speaking to your vet can be super helpful!

[@theresiatrolke]

It’s illegal in Sweden to have your dog in a crate unless it’s for transportation...

[@artsyweirdo]

Move the rocking horse into the siting room. It would fit the vibe of the trunk and fireplace etc

[@sharnahawkinsroberts7259]

With my parent's dog, we tried to crate train her and she hated it so much (it caused her so much anxiety being locked into a small space) that we gave up after a week or two. She was so much happier and more well behaved without it x

[@Heatherjo951]

Hi Lydia, Little tip for the new pup. I’ve found that in the beginning while transitioning their food they tend to have a bad tummy and giving them a small amount of puréed pumpkin helps wonderfully. I used canned pure pumpkin for my pups. I like to keep a can on hand for those moments of a bad tummy or vomiting. It helps firm up the puppy poos and helps any nausea go away. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! Can’t wait to meet the new addition to the family!

[@LexingtonCards]

I had separate bedrooms (crates) for my dogs which worked well. As they got older the doors were kept open overnight and also when lots of people were around, they could go and lie in their own space. It is important that if you do use a crate it’s not ever used as punishment and that it’s close by you overnight so you can take your puppy out to do “pee pee”. If your puppy messes on the floor, it is always your fault for not watching it close enough. Good luck with your new baby boy he will bring you great joy xx

[@celiadarier7293]

Hey Lydia, I have 2 puppies and I didn’t crate trained them. I think it’s cruel to leave an animal in a cage. However I would suggest that he has his own little pen area where he can get used to for eating or sleeping. I do think that dogs are a family member. Mine both sleep either with us or just next to our bed and it seems like they feel safer there. They naturally started sleeping next to the bed when they were a couple months old. Go with your motherly instincts, always give him love, and everything will be fine!

[@jessicamatheson3929]

I think as long as your pup has his own special area, you’ll get the same results as crate training. Just don’t use it to discipline him! Honestly, no matter what you decide he’ll be okay.

[@mann7298]

reading the comments it seems like both ways have worked. maybe would recommend her to not crate train the dog as it already has a safe space in the utility room and if majority of the dog owners around them have not crate trained their dog, they can advice to ask regarding not crate training close by. i dont think there are any bad things regarding not crate training and havent seen anyone mention any so could be the easiest decision for them

[@lynnelyons2330]

I’ve had 6 dachshunds and none of them have ever needed “time to themselves” ..... they are usually very needy/clingy. Wonderful little dogs.

[@Sbs349]

Lol, agreed. My two are currently laying either side of me!

[@lilyjamieson1585]

I think lydia might be getting a dachshund because I remember her saying ages ago that they were her fave breed 🙊

[@onlinecomment]

They are hunting dogs originally, no surprise.

[@SuperBell04]

Type of dog food is depending on their breeding... For raw food, VET recommends for the big dogs rather small dogs. It’s also true that dod doesn’t pee on their bed as you can train him/her to do personal agendas both indoor (set at certain area) and outdoor.... so exited to see your new members.

[@natashaarvanitis332]

If you decide to crate train your dog ,he's going to have to be in your bedroom so he can alert you when he needs to go to the loo. You can't put him in a crate all night and leave him in the utility room. Also the puppy is going to probably be quite lonely and insecure during the first few nights having been separated from his mom and siblings so be prepared for some crying and lack of sleep initially.

[@DrenchedInPink013]

Dogs do pee in their beds. AND a puppy needs someone to take them out throughout the night every few hrs

[@simone24sc]

Not always, my dog never peed in his bed and was fine till the morning to go for a pee

[@DrenchedInPink013]

@@simone24sc yeah but it is possible esp with a puppy

[@RuthFishwick]

We crate trained our dog five years ago and it was done within 8 weeks. She was trained and no longer needed it. I actually don't really remember those days that well tbh because I'm so used to her taking to her bed when she wants breathing space! She sleeps in her bed in the kitchen every night, happily. It's all trial and error but I don't think it's as bad as some people make out! Loving vlogmas so far! Have a good week xx

[@byilana9169]

I crate trained my puppy for the first month and a half and now I let her sleep wherever she wants in my apartment, besides my bed, and she is sooo good. She doesn't cry to go out in the morning she waits for me to wake up now!

[@emilytwible2882]

Hi Lydia, I grew up with my dogs being crate trained as puppy’s and then took it away as they got older. We kept our dogs in our utility room but to alleviate worries of them chewing/ getting into areas they shouldn’t be, they were in crates as a puppy. But then when they got older they just slept in their bed. It’s helpful because then if we had to have our family look after them, we could take them with their bed and crate and they knew it wasn’t anything to worry about. I think it is personal preference and you will work out what’s best for you. You could also get a book about the breed of dog you’re getting and that could help with information specifically for the breed and how to handle it with them. Good luck with it all and I’m sure you’re so excited xx

[@sarahandrews6971]

I crate trained my rescue dog when we got him at 7 months and it was the best thing for us. We made the crate 'magic' - every time he came into the room there was a treat or a new toy in it and he grew to LOVE it. We never forced him in his crate, he went there to chill and it was also a secure place for him to be at night time, alone and in the daytime when you need an hour to do something. We hardly ever even closed the door. It's handy for toilet training in the beginning and also when you know they need to rest in the daytime, when they're running around overtired, being young and over-excited. We travelled a lot with our dog so having him comfortable in the crate was great. We haven't used it since he was around 1 and a half - he's 3 now. I would definitely crate train any dog I get in the future. Good luck - it's such an exciting time ahead for you!

[@TheMicheleWang]

I love how the pheasant on the kitchen island looks like he’s supervising the tree topping process 😆

[@Kris-jh9pf]

I thought the same thing, it made me laugh 😆

[@clairehawkes1112]

I liked him on the tree! They so rarely get up there usually on the ground I liked his elevated position and hello Michelle, nice to see you here in the UK

[@82court]

We never crate trained our pups. Ive had 4 puppies (5 dogs altogether) and we always had their space in the laundry. We would put puppy pads out when they were young for them to use and they quickly learnt to go out for “wee wee”. I also took them to puppy school and further training which was great for both myself and the dog. I don’t think I have ever regretted not crate training ....they have always been ok.

[@patrycjab3]

my behaviorist suggested crate because of my dog’s separation axiety. now its her safe space, i definitely suggest putting a blanket over the crate so that the dog feels safe and cozy! but im never locking her in her crate so that she doesnt feel obligated to be there.

[@dukey7]

Crate training is really up to your lifestyle and preference. As he will be having a utility room as his area he may not need one? He has a room instead of a crate. Just a thought. Crates generally are used for safe spaces for the dog. Can’t wait to meet the new little addition. If you chose to feed a raw diet I highly recommend Poppy’s picnic.

[@misstrcarter]

If done properly, crates can become a dog's safe space. If they are anxious, lonely, scared, they will go to their crate. It is like a cave for them. DO NOT USE A CRATE AS PUNISHMENT. We used to keep a towel over our dog's crate so it could be dark and muffle sound. Except for when she was a puppy, we never even closed the door to her crate. When my husband went on business trips, she would steal one of his shirts and mope in her crate with it. We miss her but are not emotionally ready for another dog just yet.

[@jancoco2227]

I have a crate for my dog. My previous dog never had one but my latest dog has real anxiety when left alone and ripped my walls to pieces so after trying so many calming methods that didn't work I was advised to get a crate and have never looked back. I only use it when I go out but she goes in there of her own accord. So I would decide once you get your dog.

[@LaaraLouisa]

Please please please keep anything that smells away from your dog. If our nose can smell it, for them it's just overwhelming! They do not need to be shampooed with any fragrance and they do not need to sleep in a "fresh" smelling bed.

[@anne-mari]

couldn't agree more

[@supremebiscuitable]

We crate trained our boy when he was a puppy. It was invaluable at the beginning, gave him a safe place away from any dangers and also kept our furniture and belongings safe from puppy teeth! The door was kept open during the day so he could take himself to bed if he wanted and was only shut if we went out briefly and overnight. Once he was a little older we started leaving the door open all the time so he had the option of the crate or elsewhere. He now very rarely uses the crate and we will be getting rid soon but I am so pleased we crate trained, it was useful when we first started going out in the car or if we stayed away somewhere different as he still had his usual setup. You’ll make the right decision for your family and your puppy - best of luck xx

[@rubydutchxo]

Feeding ur dog raw food (especially meat and bones) is honestly fantastic for them! It’s the best thing I ever did for my dog. But like crate training it’s always important to do research and read as much as possible! Can’t wait to meet ur new arrival 💙💕 x

[@nataliewinzer6802]

Both our pups went into crates when they were babies they loved it and found it such a safe place. It’s kind of their little cave especially if you put a cover over it. When they get to about 1 1/2 we let them loose (after chewing stage) but they do have the option of going in the crate in the corner which they tend to do with the door open. It helps when we are visiting family who aren’t particularly in favour of dogs being loose

[@kimvoogel4652]

I work in rescue, it’s done more for dogs who have had no training every n older or got separating anxiety. A little crate training is not bad thing as you can crates for cars or ready for vet appointment like getting the chop ect xx

[@theHelicase]

I just love the intro. It puts me into the Christmas festive spirits everytime I watch it! I've watched the longer version in your first vlog probably 10 times because it's absolutely gorgeous. Thank you for doing vlogmas, it's really wonderful to watch during lockdown.

[@AnaSantos-jq4yi]

You must watch the Quenn’s Gambit! Is just wonderful!

[@werozel9944]

I admit I am hugely against crate training, never done that with any of our family dogs or with my amazing, the one and only dog now but I guess this also depends on your puppy. When he arrives you will just see how the things go with him and adjust your ways to the puppy's character - after all, you will all have to learn about each other and make things work for you, and you only 😊 Also - I just CAN'T WAIT for the puppy to arrive!!! ❤️

[@Sbs349]

We crate trained our two dachshunds to prevent them from hurting their backs running up and down the stairs whilst we’re at work.. we put the crate by the big windows and put blankets in there- they love it! They either sleep all day or they watch the squirrels in the garden

[@xxkatharinaxx8138]

You can‘t leave your puppy alone in the utility room the whole night!🙄 The first weeks he needs to pee mostly all 2 hours.. after playing, after drinking oder eating. Although he will miss his mom, brothers and sisters so he needs to feel safe. The best is to keep him directly beside the bed. He will make noise if he had to pee and so he will learn fast that peeing is only allowed outside :)

[@niiaexx5804]

I have 15 week old pom. We have crate trained just to keep her safe as she’s so tiny and she seems really happy and cosy in there and sleeps through the night. When she’s older we will keep door open so she can sleep where she wants etc ❤️

[@sheilamc3339]

I've been watching you for a few years now. I just love you. I am so excited your getting a puppy. You and Ally are going to be the best parents. Nothing warms my heart more than seeing a wonderful pet owner.

[@elliemartinakapsali4371]

I've had dogs since I was very little (which we never crate trained). This year I got a maltese puppy and wasn't sure if I was going to crate train him or not! A few days after having him I realised that because he was so tiny (and will remain tiny) he actually needed a space that was his own so he would feel safe! Also crate training really helps to prevent separation anxiety and is a game changer when it comes to training! I honestly don't even know how my parents manage to do it without one! Definitely pro crate!

[@zoebradley3870]

I didn’t read the situation with Will Smith being about his ego, the way I interpreted it, she stopped talking to everyone on set in the midst of her difficult situation and it felt awkward for Will. Such a nice confrontation to watch and I loved how he didn’t excuse himself too much. They both seemed to handle it really well.

[@kslittlelifestyle8022]

When I had my dog, she was crate trained and she loved it. It was her safe zone. I also brought her to obedience school and we had a beautiful relationship especially our walks. Our walks were for walks not the toilet. And the teacher told me everything I needed to know ♥️

[@snoopybluejeans]

That little room is his crate. He's got his own little bedroom. Lucky dog.

[@kay123438]

He will chew up her cabinets!

[@therehals4830]

We crate trained our chihuahua. He went through the night very quickly. He has a cosy bed and blanket in there and water at night and a blanket over the top. He is now 6.5 years and still has his crate , door open all the time. He often goes in there if he is unsure, the doorbell goes, it’s his safe place. X

[@reneenadia]

We tried to crate train our pup but it was too distressing for her and she slept better on her bed on the floor. I’m sure it works for some people though! But we had no problem potty-training her without crate training. She was potty trained within weeks. I think crate training is more designed as a safe place for pups and not for potty training as much. So excited for you both! Dogs are the best ✨☺️🥰

[@rtan021]

We didn't really crate train our puppy but we used the crate initially. It is useful to have in case you need to leave them alone for an hour or so. You would not believe how fast they can get themselves into trouble. They can chew through the carpet, the door, cardboard boxes, etc. They will chew through anything and if they consume it, it will cause intestine blockage and will need surgery... It is good to train them to feel safe inside the crate for the times that you need to occasionally put them in it (ex. when you leave them alone for a short period of time, the vet, boarding places, etc). Our puppy is super high energy and sometimes she gets tired, fussy, and super agitated (after playtime, long days, long walks). The surrounding environment could be full of stimuli and she wouldn't go to sleep by herself. We put her in the crate and she falls asleep instantly (like a tired baby that needs to be put into their bed/crib to sleep!). But normally, our dog sleeps in our bed.

[@sarahbowell8462]

Hi guys I have had dogs all my life and never once put my dog in a crate I’m not keen on them at all xxxx

[@TKopra]

Same here, i have currently my fourth dog, now 13 weeks and none of them was crate trained. Almost nobody in my coyntry uses crates and sleep schedule for dogs. My dog learned not to pee inside at 10 weeks and never cries at nigh. Dogs get their own sleep routine fast.

[@ngm12mnn]

It seems like crate training works for some breeds/dogs, but not for all. It might be helpful to have a chat with your veterinarian about your specific breed and what they recommend! So exciting ❤️

[@simonevanseumeren8563]

Crate training also really depends on your dogs character! We tried to crate train our Border Collie and he would keep barking and howling for hours and hours, the moment we took him out he would almost immediately fall asleep and be peaceful. As he got older we understood him more and noticed that he cannot cope if he’s not being part of the party and being “locked up”. So really take the character in mind! Our dog did not respond well to it , so we didn’t feel the urge to go through with it because we saw it was right up hell for him to go in there.

[@VictoriaMaeva]

We have Yorkies, a German shepherd and Golden Retriever. The two big ones were crate trained, Yorkies were not. One of the big positives for crate training is that the dog has comfort having his or her own space that is just theres and enclosed. It is a safety thing for them to be cocooned in their crate. Of course, if you go out and your dog is still a puppy or maybe more mischievous, having a crate is great to keep them safe while you're out. It's a bit like how your bedroom is your comfort - having that enclosed space is comforting for dogs.

[@TheBurrowByTheCreek]

We didn’t crate train our first pups, it was a disaster, they always had some sort of an accident even as adults. For our current pup, we read The Art of Raising a Puppy by The Monks of New Skeete, what an enormous difference it made. Our pup is so nicely trained, who knew I could do it! BTW, puppies need to be near you at night to tell you when they need to go out. It’s like having a baby, frequent wake up calls for the first 6 weeks. Hanging a belt with bells on the door knob during the day and rewarding with training treats immediately after they do their business made all the difference. Hope that helps!

[@MediaProDana]

Yes 👍🏼 The Monks of New Skeete is legendary. My first dog 30 years ago was trained after reading this book. Thanks for the memories!

[@karlenebelcher2395]

When they are little, it’s a place from them to feel secure and safe and it also trains them to put themselves to sleep. Our puppy Loved her crate

[@caitlinlittle848]

Crate training was difficult because our girl cried a lot the first night she was in there, but I’m glad we persisted. When they are little they are happier when they have had enough sleep, so if you can put them in the crate for periods of time through the day they will nap instead of playing the whole time. I also think it’s safer for them when they can’t be supervised. I doubt we will keep up with the crate through adulthood but right now I’m glad we have it. I used a room to close her off and a playpen but I think the sense of enclosure in a crate relaxes her instead of ramping her up haha. I think you can do whatever works for you, just don’t be afraid to change it up if it’s not working for you.

[@monikasiwa3742]

My furry baby had been crate trained but he didn't enjoy the experience that much, once we let it go and gave him a bedroom separated by a baby gate from a cat he started using it as his safe place. If you do get a crate it's better to get a cover for it as dogs like to sleep in dungeon like places. You can get a rubber base for training pads to save your flooring. Remedy is a good product when introducing cat and dog 🐶 tbh it's cat that will be more anxious about the dog, puppy will probably try to play with the 🐈, mine still does after 2 years, good luck 💕

[@kathistyles]

My two dogs aren't crate trained as it's super uncommon to do so in Germany and i personally also prefer it this way. i never had any problems whatsoever with it in 15 years. I think crate training is much more about the owners comfort than the dog's. Dogs get used to any environment and situation they grow up in quite quickly so i recommend just choosing the option that you feel the most comfortable with as your dog will happy and safe either way.

[@sophwright2805]

Crate training didn’t work for us personally at all and we have a miniature cavapoo - she ended up going to the toilet in her crate as she was so scared. She saw it as a punishment! She so much more relaxed have her own ‘zone’ instead! X

[@helenpalmer7217]

Our furbaby stayed in small pen in living area at night with her bed, and I got up every 2 to 3 hrs for first month or two and then at least once for quite a while after that. She was so good and loved her place at night. Also a brilliant reason to get up at 5am for sofa cuddles...after a year she sneaked upstairs for cuddles and sleeps at my toes ever since ..you will know what suits you all best xx

[@BeckiFraser]

My dog refused to be crate trained, point blank. After 5 nights of hysteria, no sleep and at least one of us sleeping on the kitchen floor with her out of the crate, we gave up and now she sleeps in our bedroom, next to us and I wouldn’t have her anywhere else. But it’s completely your choice, I think it’s personal preference. There’s no reason you couldn’t try it, I think it varies from dog to dog. We have a cockapoo and I do think they’re very needy. But your puppy could take to a crate like a dream. I can’t wait to find out what breed you’re going for! I’d like another one, I think either another cockapoo or an Italian greyhound. Xx

[@samanthawarren9885]

I don’t know about crate trained, my little princess is bed trained .......she sleeps between me and hubby on our bed, let’s us know when she’s tired and wants to go to bed, sits between us on the sofa, goes to work with my husband everyday, basically now our children are older she’s like our daughter, she’s a 4 year yellow Labrador btw and sooooo cute 🥰

[@KLizR777]

We tried to crate train our English Springer Spaniel. He had bad separation anxiety and thought a crate would help him. Turns out not. He would pee in his crate EVERYTIME we would crate him and not be right in the room with him. We found he did much better just being left out. He’s not a destructive dog and has gotten better when we leave. Sometimes you just don’t know until you try and see what works best for puppy and you.

[@healthyandbalanced5610]

Crate training is not something I thought I’d do, but with our puppy he liked small spaces, and he only really stays in there at night. That way we can keep him in our room, and hear him when he needs to go out potty. Puppies need to go out sometimes multiple times and we wanted to make sure we didn’t sleep through it, and cause him stress. Be we also knew he wouldn’t go in the crate. So it works for us at night. At the end of the day it is whatever routine you feel comfortable with that will work. Good luck on your journey.

[@lucyheaney9618]

Highly recommend crate trained - our dog adores the crate and always runs in when ever she can. There is nothing cruel about it whatsoever.

[@meredithcreo]

I totally understand the logic behind crate training but at the same time, he will be little puppy and feel really scared and lonely being away from his siblings so maybe you might have to sleep with him for the first few days or maybe do research on finding things you can put in the crate to make him feel comforted

[@cathygodden1877]

Our dog has a crate. We have a viszla which are very high energy dogs. When they are young, they can get themselves into trouble e.g. jumping up at the hob until they are trained. They train well but are impulsive when they are little. We used the crate to keep her safe when we were cooking for example. She also sees the crate as her safe space and will go in if she is worried, such as firework night. It is dark and cosy. She is eight now and doesn't need a crate but she loves it and sleeps in it every night with the door open so she can move around or get a drink. Our decision to use a crate had nothing to do with toilet training. Consider the characteristics of the breed you are having and that might help you make a decision about the crate. Good luck!

[@TaylorColemanAdams]

We’ve crate trained all of our dogs. Yes to the point you made about using the bathroom where they sleep. At the early puppy stage, it can help speed up potty training, because they won’t want to use the bathroom in their crate. There also is some research to suggest that as den animals the smaller space is comforting to them. In our experience, we were able to potty train our pup within a few weeks utilizing crate training. I think crate training may be more common in the US (which I didn’t realize!). But having a space like the one you have set up would be a perfect size after crate training to help expand their area and increase trust (ie not chewing on furniture or other unwanted things). Best of luck either way! I was SOO excited to hear you two were getting a pup! 🥰🥰

[@kris-tiff]

Crate training doesn’t have to mean you lock them in the crate. I just trained my dog to learn it is his safe space. It is warm and dark so on nights that he is cold or a bit scared (like fireworks night) he will opt to go in his crate, otherwise he sleeps in his other bed. We toilet trained him a different way, not using the crate to teach him to hold his bladder. So there are different ways to use crates

[@lucydosremedios8745]

Very exciting that you are getting a puppy! It’s great that you are doing research. Growing up I’ve always had labradors in my family and I now have my own miniature dachshund. We had never crate trained any of our labradors but I found that it is what worked best for my dachshund. Honestly I believe you have to see what your puppy’s personality is like and what will suit him, every dog is different and you can’t always plan ahead which methods/ways you are going to train him before you see his character and how he responds to different things. Crate training can be good to help them be toilet trained faster (dachshunds are a known to be hard to toilet train and certainly took mine longer) but also help them have their own safe space inside their crate. The breed is prone to anxiety and also seperation anxiety so in my dog’s case the crate is her calm safe space where she can go sleep and relax. Most likely the puppy will not be happy at first sleeping downstairs on their own, you’ll have to take baby steps and adapt and see how things go. I guess what I’m saying is that it’s great you are doing research and you should know the different options but don’t be set/decide something until you meet your puppy and see what approaches work best for him as every dog is different!

[@stardustandpeonies276]

Lovely video Lydia. Your trees are gorgeous. As for your coming puppy, if he has the whole utility room and he is safe from getting into things, that's sounds like a good alternative to crating. The point of crating is that when they are on their own, they are safe from getting into things. If you have an alternative that is great. We always had our dogs in our utility room at night and they were all fine. But one very important thing you may want to consider is what you are going to do with him in the car. Consider a crate in the back of the car or a special seat with a harness that is hooked up to the seatbelt system. Especially if he is little, then he can look out and if you have to stop suddenly, he will not be thrown. My mum's little yorker loved her car seat as it was the only way she had a view!

[@aspen8110]

I feel like crate training is fixing the symptoms, not the problem. If the dog pees or destroys stuff when the owner is away then that’s a behavior that needs to be addressed instead of just putting them in a crate so they can’t do anything. But I know some dogs really love their crates, so it’s definitely a personal preference like you said.

[@sharronr]

Crate training is so great because you can also potty train them at the same time. You take them out of the crate and take them to the spot you would like for them to go see. As you do that they will be potty trained. Just remember puppies are going to wee the minute they wake up. I’m so excited for you.

[@AC-gm1rs]

Hey Lydia! We crate trained our pup but I think the most important thing is that they have their own space! So if your pup has his own little room to go to that should be perfect!

[@ElleParkin]

Crate training is great because he’ll feel safe there and it gives him somewhere to be if there’s ever a situation where you need him contained for his safety. But from dog mom opinion: your dog won’t want to be in his own room alone, he’ll want to be with you. They’re pack animals...they sleep with, cuddle with, and feel safer with their pack (which is you).

[@petragalloway8356]

I am studying to become a dog behaviourist. I think crate training is a must. The puppy will be at the vets or travelling abroad at some point in his life and it is a useful skill for them to be used to being in a crate.

[@georgianastern4887]

Crate training for when they are young is extremely valuable. My dog is almost 2 and stopped sleeping in her crate around the one year mark. But because we had her crate trained as a puppy, she is very cooperative to go into the crate at the groomers and vet if she has to. I think that it’s very beneficial in training early on and then they can come out of the crate when they mature. Also for food, we love Royal Canin. It’s quite expensive and I’m not sure you can get it in the UK but if you can, it’s breed specific and very good.

[@Mar-iy8il]

Congratulations on your new puppy!! You might consider putting him a crate for the first little while so he feels safe. Later you will find he puts himself to bed in it. Its also good so they are comfortable in one for when you are travelling and going to the vets. Visiting friends too you might bring a crate along. He can sleep with the door open too once he knows its his safe space. Excited to see the new pup. Good luck!

[@Sunn637]

Our Louis was crate trained at the beginning,we would say “bedtime”and he would get to the point that he would take himself off to bed!we would drape a light sheet over it. I think the idea is that is like a den. Then around 4 mths old he was so well behaved and trustworthy we could let him sleep wherever he pleased!he loves the end of our bed! Toilet training we basically spent every hour on the hour for eight weeks going outside and saying key words “go wees” or “go poop”. We had very little accidents! Now he will literally go when asked even before a car ride so it pays off to put the time in the beginning! We have always been able to leave him inside when we go out and he is such a good boy! Hope that helps a little! The first eight weeks is the trickiest like having a baby but it doesn’t last too long!💕🐶

[@jillianwickham31]

Your Louis is such a good boi. Would you be willing to tell us which breed he is?

[@Sunn637]

@@jillianwickham31 sure thing,Louis is a Cavoodle so King Charles crossed with standed poodle.

[@jillianwickham31]

@@Sunn637 Thank you. He must be very cute!

[@kimstrickland4401]

Highly recommend crate training. Hubby is a veterinarian and he always coaches new puppy parents to use a crate from the get go. Dogs like to have a "den", it makes them feel safe and secure. It's their place and they feel safe there. Also, if you need to tuck them away for any reason (someone visiting who is uncomfortable with dogs, etc) then they don't mind being put in their crate. We've had dogs for 35 years and we've always crate trained. As they get older, you can make a decision whether you need it or not, but as a puppy....highly, highly recommend it!

[@luvurab]

I don’t have a dog now but do doggy-sit for friends. Those who have a crate for their dog never close it. It is a safe place for the dog and may be warmer for them than sleeping elsewhere. Plus if someone else ends up looking after your dog for you it helps big time for them to have a safe place to retreat to, especially if they are unfamiliar with the surroundings or if the dog-sitter has other animals. My friend’s dog, Riley, loves his crate. He particularly heads there when TV watching is happening and he is looking for a bit of piece and quiet. 😊

[@cheche2174]

Regarding crate training we found it helped them feel more secure but there are pros and cons and whatever you decide will be the right thing for your dog. What we did is put a T-shirt or item of clothing in the crate which had our smell on them (for want of a better word) and it helped them feel more secure and would snuggle up to it. Just an idea but you know what will suit your lifestyle. Good luck - you’ll love and enjoy every second!! I could never see myself without a dog now. Oh and we only had our dogs in crates as puppies until they gained in confidence etc. xxx

[@mrsnailpolishfreak]

We crate trained our first dog and are crate training our second dog at the moment! It’s usefull so they don’t have accidents during the night! Ofcourse a very yough puppy has to go out at night, but from a couple monts old, they can sleep through the night! It’s also usefull when you leave for a while, that they can’t ‘destroy’ things during the first months when they want to bite everything because they get their adult teeth! It’s also a small safe space for them! We stop using the crate when they are trained if they have other safe spaces to relax! it’s also usefull if you want the puppy in your bedroom during the first weeks, so they can’t walk around all night or jump on the bed(if you don’t want them to) But in your case, with the small room the puppy will have, I think that will do they trick as well! Both can be done, it’s mostly preference and how many rooms/spaces you have to section of a part for the puppy😁 Lots of love!

[@reneeferreira4994]

We have a 7 month old puppy and I bought him a little sheep that we call Lamby and I put it in the bed with him and now he loves it and carries it everywhere he goes! It comforted him so much and he hardly cried at night but we did have him in a crate in our room.

[@vraicielvraiciel6021]

They definitely potty in their crates... Your pup will either crate or not. My shihtzu just wouldn't do it, and it was an emotional thing for him (he wanted to be right up in my grill at night). My other mix loved a crate, but he would potty in it. Emotionally for him, the crate was comforting. Your new baby will let you know! You can't really prepare for this new soul, they are just as unique and amazing as each human you meet. I can't wait to meet them, and I wish you so much joy together.

[@roseannachristoforou2493]

Vet student here - don't wash them too much - twice a month max is fine! :) as little as poss really - better for their skin and coat xx

[@twishamohin]

I'm really happy you can now talk about Lynx with a smile on your face now❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Kolious_Thrace]

When it comes to dog train...the better option is to attend a certificated dog trainer! Certificated trained know to train each breed of dogs! Some dogs are more trainable than some others, some dogs are smarter than others and this helps the owner and the trainer! I had a Rottweiler, we went to a dog trainer. Even though some people believe that Rottweilers are lethal and dangerous dogs nothing happened with mine! Rottweilers are in the Top5 of the smartest dog breeds! I strongly recommend to have a trainer! Someone that knows from dog behaviour and not trust random people that happens to have a dog, because many of owners are treating wrong their dogs without even known it! *Food* I don’t know much but we need to be careful with raw food because some foods are dangerous for our pets! Whatever contains sugar, whatever contains cocoa and chocolate, food with tiny seeds like kiwi, fruits like grapes, oh grapes and raisins are DEADLY for dogs My vet told me what food can or can’t my dog eat! If you haven’t a dog before you should ask the vet the categories of human food that can kill a dog!

[@megandixon5635]

Hi! We have a golden retriever and he had a crate - it was a really big crate big enough for a bed, food/water area and toys with an emergency puppy pad and it had a blanket over the top for coziness. We did it for him to have a safe space and to eliminate any danger that could occur if he was wandering about at night! He felt very safe in his crate, when he first came he didn’t even cry he settled so quickly and I think that is because he had his own safe space and it wasn’t too daunting. Getting a puppy is so exciting and really excited for you!!! I’m a bit behind on vlogmas so I’m sure that I’ll catch up tonight! Best wishes xxx

[@OskarAwards]

Dog owner here: 1, crate training: yes .. it gives them a safe space / best if you put a blanket over it (like safe cave) and a place to be alone if they want to be (later on) 2, please don't wash the the dog every two weeks with shampoo.. it'll only dry out the skin and make it flaky (dandruff).. do only if needed (smell) .. water is just fine 3, don't BARF (raw feed/cook for) the dog if you're an inexperienced dog owner .. you might not now if your mix has the right/enough nutrients for the dog (whereas puppy food does have the right mix) Xo

[@felicitasadam2301]

We always had dogs and have never crate trained them. It‘s weird to me to shut them in, especially when they‘re puppies (also I hate the idea of caging an animal). I get not wanting the dog in the bedroom (I don‘t mind, but it‘s a personal choice), but dogs are very human focused, so I‘d consider a baby gate in relevant areas, so the puppy can still see you and know you‘re there and then place beds where you‘d like him to sleep.

[@layd33gangsta]

Loving Vlogmas so far! Every year it gets better and this year despite the pandemic, your content is still lovely! My family never crate trained their dogs. But now that I have my own, I have crate trained mine just because it is good for them to be comfortable in a crate if they ever need to go into one. Now that they are adults they hardly go in their crates apart from feeding times and if I have people round that don’t necessarily want my 2 massive dogs around them. And because they have been trained there isn’t a problem for them and they are not stressed about it. You’ll be fine! You’re doing all your research and you’ll be a great dog mummy! X

[@threepets3]

Crate training makes housetraining much easier. We have done it with all 7 of our dogs, but once they're fully housebroken we don't put them in their crate at night or when we go out. For us, it's always been a temporary thing while they're puppies in training.

[@alice-katehunt8662]

We crate trained both of our puppies but we don’t lock/shut them in. We put their bed in the crate and a warm fluffy blanket etc then put the crate in our kitchen with the door open with puppy pads down. We put a baby gate on the kitchen door so their not locked away and honestly both our dogs have loved their crates and will happily take them selves to their crates and snuggle up out of choice. Like others have said its about what works for your lifestyle but some doggies like their crates and they give them a secure safe spot that’s their own. Hope that helps. Can’t wait to ‘meet’ your little fluff!

[@tonidean5843]

We crate trained and my dog doesn’t always sleep in his crate. He loves his bag that we use for travel and will go in there on his own if he wants space and we never remove him from it unless he wants out. It’s his space for when he wants time out from everything. It’s so good when we go away or to other people’s houses because he knows that’s his spot.

[@joconnor2717]

I’ve always had dogs in crates,we have got a large one ,it has there bed down one end and enough room at the other end for the puppy pad.they won’t pee in their bed and there is only enough room for them to use the pad,you can then use a small piece of the soiled pad on top of the pad you are putting by the back door,puppy will pee where his scent is.this is what the breeder suggested and it worked a treat.you could ask your vet for suggestions also.good luck.you will be fine.

[@judithmelvin7392]

Our first dog, a GSD/Pit mix, we got when she was 8 weeks old and we had to have a crate to transport her. She loved her crate, would run into it every night and wait for her supper biscuit. When we added our CD , he was a year and half and hated the crate, he actually bust the door to get out. He just wanted to lie on the floor by our bed, we think his previous owners abused him. But all we have to say to him is "go to your room" and he will run into the bedroom. Both dogs know that the night time routine is going out to pee and heading straight into their beds, their bedtime command is "alright then". Crates are also handy when travelling with your dog, some places we've stayed require dogs to be crated if being left alone. It's not cruel, it's a safe place for them. Never use it as a punishment.

[@innalia]

I would say crate train! Not only does it help a lot of pups speed up potty training and create a safe space, but it can save your beautiful wood work from chewing at night! I also think it provides a moment of relief for you as a puppy parent, you can put pup in his crate for a nap and know he’s safe and can’t get into anything, damage anything! The puppy stage is tiring, but agree with others easier to have them in your bedroom until their able to sleep through the night! Potty training is fast if you prevent any accidents, by getting them outside as soon as they wake up! Good luck with the puppers!

[@sarahleppard2897]

We have found crate training to be fantastic - he feels so safe and secure in there and has never had an accident in there (we just needed to let him out once in the night for the first few weeks). I think it depends a bit if the puppy will ever need to be left alone - they need a really tiny space to feel like a den apparently. My puppy is very stressed if shut in the utility room for even 10 minutes but will happily spend a couple of hours in his crate

[@elianagomes4375]

Hi Lydia, I'm so excited for your vlogmas! I believe you both will know when the time comes if your 4 paws baby will be needing training. My dogs never needed outside help, but they need now that they are older. See how it goes don't put pressure to be perfect, I'm sure you will be an amazing dog mom ❤️

[@Mrdeedee051]

My thoughts and why we crate trained our dogs: it’s highly recommended to crate train terriers, so if he’s a terrier breed (Yorkie, schnauzer, etc.) they love it (I grew up with both). Often times it’s a safe place for them and acts as a ‘cave’ to help with anxiety and giving them a place that’s ONLY theirs. The laundry room is great, but it’s not just his space. It does help with potty training, vet visits, and even if you board him while you’re on vacation. I would highly recommend talking with your vet about this and what the recommend. Same thing with food. Each breed is a bit different. We have doodles and, because they’re poodle breeds, they have extremely sensitive stomachs and raw diets have never settled well with them. Food is a hard one! But your vet would be the very best first resource for this. So excited to meet the little guy and for you two to grow your furry fam ♥️ love from Utah, USA 🇺🇸