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Death is unfortunate a part of life that we will never escape. sone deal with grief in different ways. loosing a child or parent is the hard storm we will ever encounter in life.
The good new is, with time it will get better. Trust that it will be okay.
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[@catrinafarmer6693]

I love judge lynn toiler no one can take her place or fill her shoes

[@kaylahawkins]

Yes, she had so much wisdom to impart.

[@michelehen9457]

NEVER EVER......!!!!!!!!

[@nhiocazafargupta6560]

You never lied !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@oraldinepoellnitz3905]

These are powerful words,and well said , I hope that I too will die in the right order. Mother's shouldn't have to bury their child. /children. The children should bury their parents that's the right order. 😇🙏

[@freddiemontanez8461]

I agree, no one can take her place or fill her shoes.

[@frankochapman2347]

This is why I miss her being on the show so much knowledge facts and game to share a true OG

[@kaylahawkins]

yes, she really had lot of knowledge to impart. I miss her on the show.

[@lb1798]

Her Mother imparted SO much wisdom to Judge Lynn....I loved when she would dispensed the little "nuggets of knowledge".💕❤💕

[@kaylahawkins]

Yes, she have so much wisdom. I just adore her.

[@francessjean5861]

That part really touches me. She's right on!

[@cmariajohnson860]

I love her she’s my favorite Judge! I miss seeing her

[@jimoyler1780]

I love my momma and I miss her so much.

[@GoodVibesNewlevel2023]

Good advice

[@joannawofford]

Amen yes

[@charlescummings1128]

She has always been an intelligent and classy lady. Yes, we miss you.

[@shygirlcomplex]

I miss her on divorce court , she was beautiful brilliant wise .. ❤️

[@marybass3673]

My mother went home it'll be a year in April now it's just me but I'm dealing with it because surely it would piss her off if I stop living. I miss you Momma I love you so so much😭😭😭

[@kaylahawkins]

Sorry about your lost. Death is a beast, that's something we are never prepared for.

[@originalfoxylady4520]

Bless up, lady. I'm still living by the positive life lessons of my Grandfather, he passed 1985. 🙏

[@kaylahawkins]

Happy to hear

[@eleshiasmith7594]

😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 Thank you. I needed to read this..

[@kaylahawkins]

@@eleshiasmith7594 welcome, thanks fir watching

[@winternightsky6945]

I tell my kid, I'm not always going to be around but I need you to be able to stand on your own without me. But I have to do my part to give you the best chance to get there, so that means I have to get up no many times I get knocked down in life.

[@KAM-rl6tz]

❤️

[@pambeforethestorm9784]

Ii absolutely Love your comment, I feel the same and tell my kids the same thing, but your comment somehow gave me some peace if that makes sense, the wording is beautiful, thank you 😊❤

[@DrStellOO]

This 📌

[@letticeh4938]

@@pambeforethestorm9784 l

[@kalimbaayinde25]

AMEN ME TOO.

[@lenisestephens3977]

I so wish they bring Judge Lynn back. Excellent advice!

[@empressbracey572]

I adore Auntie Lynn. Her wisdom is priceless.

[@kaylahawkins]

Yes, she is a wonderful lady. She will be gravelly miss. I learned so much from her. Thank you for supporting my page.

[@frannymcclendon1768]

I love her and her show.

[@yolandaprice6830]

I know how you feel I am the only girl we listen

[@lauramartinez6693]

@@kaylahawkins the

[@bretttate2488]

I needed to hear this message ….. giving strength to move forward.

[@BlackJack271306]

That part where she said “Cause it would piss her off”…. Yes 100%

[@ms.gracefullybroken8724]

💯

[@fdgd9998]

No parent wants to bury their child. Being a parent is challenging, buts also rewarding. The time you share, conversations, hugs and kisses makes up for the bad times.

[@kaylahawkins]

Death in its self is painful. Life is very precious, my heart breaks for the parents that had to bury thier child.

[@tyriecemcnary3717]

Yes because my 7- year old Jing titian tell everty day I'm thevbest themother in the world even whenvivyellat him or give him a SPANKING BUT I do ask him why do I have to yell or spank him hellsay because I don't like to listen I can ask him how many times I told youvto stop this is a good half to hour of him running around the house jumping off stuff

[@leahhayes8256]

Selfishly I still don’t want to even think abt living without my mother 💔💔

[@hoodprotocol7076]

My exact sentiments 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@roobzlil276]

One of the Greatest piece of knowledge I've ever heard (collected) THANK YOU❤️

[@kaylahawkins]

Welcome. Thanks for watching

[@alonzoneloms5651]

I love that about her also! Judge Toler gives it to you straight. No chaser! With passion/love.

[@jacquelynhorton7563]

That was a gem of a message. We can't be honest anymore.

[@lillystockman1927]

But it's so hard, she's still with me, but mentally she's not, she dosnt know me anymore, which is the hardest, siblings don't cate, she only has me.

[@denisewright5358]

Wow! I’m in the same situation… my mother doesn’t know me anymore… it’s hard for me. My siblings just don’t care. I’m not going to put my mother in a nursing home.

[@Ladyrolanda]

We all got to go. I love each other and enjoy the ride good and bad while we’re here.

[@kaylahawkins]

So true

[@alexfrazier6948]

BARZ!!! She drops jewels fo sho!

[@kaylahawkins]

Thanks for watching

[@TrulyAGhost]

That hit hard as ish. Especially by her having a voice of a momma. Smh

[@karenhall6101]

Bring her back!! So much wisdom ❤

[@kaylahawkins]

So much wisdom. Her mom did a great job with her.

[@DrStephanie73]

She’s truly the best because she’s genuine, loving, cares about people in general, and Black people specifically. This wisdom has to be spoken by God thru her. It is practical, whole, and complete. Dispensing that type of wisdom is a gift of the Spirit, but it is also exhausting. I hope she’s taking care of herself as she moves through the grieving process with the grace we are so accustomed to seeing her display. Blessings to Judge Toler!

[@queenj1745]

This brings tears to my eyes, O how I miss my Queen Mother Alice...

[@lillystockman1927]

I never heard such beautiful words, I'm going such grief

[@ladyt2560]

I love Judge Toler. She had the best advice.. I have to get her book someday.

[@kaylahawkins]

Yes I have both her books. Amazing lady. Thanks for watching.

[@yolandahill5475]

Toler NOT Toliver 💓

[@ladyt2560]

@@yolandahill5475 My bad… meant to type Toler.. crazy spell check.. lol! I corrected it.

[@jameservin1333]

This is a real woman, our community needs more women like her , strong but feminine, intelligent but feminine, beautiful inside and out but feminine

[@Bih1stOfAll]

All of these "but feminine" is leaning into the belief that Black women are naturally masculine which is what racist yyte people spew. We don't need brothers of the same hue doing this to us. This is not a compliment

[@beb5407]

TRUTH BE TOLD 🗣️💯

[@rissyxo224]

I LOVE MY GRANDMA ...SHE RAISED ME AS MY MOTHER...BUT I LOVE MY MOTHER TOO. MAY BOTH OF THEM REST IN PEACE TOGETHER. LOVE YOU NAN AND MOM! XOXO💞😍💞😍🐞🐞🐞

[@tellnolies8530]

I miss my Granny she raised me ! But she taught me to depend on God and how to pray because after death comes Judgement and we ALL have to answer to GOD

[@rissyxo224]

@@tellnolies8530 thats right. I agree xo

[@Pats_Wal_]

SAGE WISDOM. Lord have mercy. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@dreday5067]

That was deep af

[@saphenaislam9801]

This really touched me. I needed to hear this. Losing my mom was the hardest pain I ever experienced.

[@kaylahawkins]

Sorry for your loss. I pray God continue to strengthen you.

[@paulalewis3389]

I understand because my mom passed 6 days ago!

[@tayoparkes7470]

May our mothers rest in the Lord

[@yolandahill5475]

@@paulalewis3389 condolences on your loss😩

[@whitneymaxwell7968]

Hands down my favorite judge!

[@pattylewis2707]

I love my MaMa that way Too , that got me Choked up

[@joycejoseph4151]

Appreciate the words of comfort and practical experience Amen 👏👏👏👌👍🙏💯✅❤️🌹❤️🌹❤️🌹🆘

[@msaquablue2925]

Somebody start a petition to bring Judge Lynne Toler back to divorce Court. All others are secondary to her.

[@yolandahill5475]

Facts.

[@cmariajohnson860]

Ik that has to be hard. I can’t even think about what I’d do if I didn’t have my mother. Hopefully I will never have to find out.

[@GJCHSMM]

Grief is a spirit meant to cripple and destroy you...you must denounce it and have no part of it. love your loved one....remember the best of them...cry and then move on, or it will be used to destroy and cripple you. We die well and grieve better when we die in Jesus Christ of Nazareth- born again and on our way to Heaven. All this I say at the risk of sounding religious...but Jesus was right when He said.... Luke 9:60 King James Version 60 Jesus said unto him, Let the dead bury their dead: but go thou and preach the kingdom of God. He knows it is one of the most POWERFUL TOOLS of the enemy of our souls. Jesus came to give us LIFE and that more abundantly and until we leave this earth there are a lot of people who want our love, our attention and our support. I hope this helps someone. It helped me 💗

[@NalaMahal]

I miss Judge Toler on the show too much.

[@luegrantbaker7877]

Sad. That she has to tell a GROWN woman to take care of her kids

[@kaylahawkins]

Yea, but people deal with trauma differently. Kids are indeed a blessing.

[@madonnaclark4074]

A grown woman who is grieving.Greif don't ask how many children do you have to take care of.Grief can cause depression that paralyze some people. It can be traumatic when a love one dies suddenly or a adult child has to watch their mother or father die.There is no time limit on how long grieving should be.Just as sure as we all are born we all are going to die one day.And nobody knows until it you lose somebody that you love.How you would deal with it.Not making any excuses for anybody not taking care of their children. But I have worked with hospice patients and their families for 35 years.And I have seen what Grief do to people.It's like drugs and alcohol can destroy lives and family. I think she may need some professional mental help getting through her mothers death.

[@kaylahawkins]

I agree with you 💯 percent.

[@lizfirecracker2023]

@@kaylahawkins what's the name of the episode?

[@kaylahawkins]

@@lizfirecracker2023 I don't remember, im sorry.

[@kimiveymakeup0]

I love how softly but strongly she speaks of her incredible mother. I love Judge Lynn

[@jordanwoods5022]

That’s a beautiful smart woman

[@michelehen9457]

J LYNN......WE. LOVE. & NEED & WONT cha baby.....!!!!😂 IF J Lynn could just cone on TV NATIONALLY & SPEAK WORDS OF WISDOM 2 THIS COUNTRY....!!!!! 😭😭😭 SHE IS sooooooooooo MISSED & LOVED 🙏🙏🙏⭐⭐⭐❤❤❤

[@kaylahawkins]

Yes, I miss her dearly. I learned so much from her. I have all her books

[@edithgoodwin6165]

I loss, my daughter died 1st.

[@bigdre7120]

Yes, I miss my dad, but I don't dwell on the loss!!!

[@steelreserve4334]

Thank you for sharing these words of wisdom ❤️

[@kaylahawkins]

You're welcome,thanks for watching

[@kimberly0717]

I recently asked my mom if she were to leave here what would she want me to do when I got really sad. She told me to remember the good times and memories. I’ll reflect on that when I have to!

[@gorgeouswales9635]

Beautiful words🔥♥️👏🏽

[@JewelsR4ever]

My Mom tells me this all the time. She will soon be 81 yrs old and for the most part is in good health. But she says she has lived her 3 score and ten. And we will be fine without her. In my head tho, I never wanna know that life 🤷🏾‍♀️ I appreciate the judge for this one. And I just bought her book!!!

[@kaylahawkins]

She's awesome, it's a hard pill to swallow . Death is in deed a painful thing.

[@quintillabatts9472]

Trust me U will be ok. Just do what you should do for her while she's still here and when she's gone there will be no regrets. I used to say all of the time I couldn't live without mine and she would say give me my flowers while I yet live that's what I did when she left it was painful but I made it and know I think of her and all of her good teachings but I'm making it and it's ok. And I'm ok just treat her wonderful while you still can.

[@vidalsmith9160]

I love her grace and wisdom so much❤❤❤

[@loisfreeman1646]

Even though my Mom was 97 yrs young, you never get over it but you live through & deal with it. I love her, she knew that before she left this Earth. She had to bury my Sister in 2004. Just talking about her broke her up. I know she is in Heaven with her Parents, my Dad & Sister Linda. When Mom left this Earth she had total 55 grandchildren, great children & great great grandchildren. She left behind a legacy & they all loved her. I know I'll see them all in my journey when I pass.

[@adriansanders9111]

My mom passed in 2016...2 weeks after being advised she was in end stage of cancer! She was such a mom, she didn't want me to know! I knew she was sick, saw her in/out of hospital, however within 15 minutes leaving her side, she went on! Once again she won! God bless to all! Adrian

[@mariocruz6281]

Thank you so much for sharing your story. That speaks for so many of us. God Bless.

[@angiewilliams10]

It’s hard. I lost mine 2 yrs ago. I only got her for 39 years. It wasn’t long enough. She was only 56. I have plenty of days where I know I’m slacking in the mama dept because losing her broke me and I don’t know how to come back from that. Mine would be mad also but she knew how it was. Her dad passed 3 years before she did, a brother 12 years prior and her 3 yr old sister on her 10th birthday. 6 months after mama left, her mama went too. We also lost my father in law a year before my mama. It’s extremely hard more days than not but I’m learning.

[@deestefmorr]

That is the best advice ❤️.

[@ЛизаАдамс-э1я]

I buried a 3 year old. My son 10 years ago. It’s not the right order. My mother is gone 29 years now. That’s ok. Children are supposed to bury their parents not the other way. But still can’t live it. Got to keep on taking card of the others.

[@joycewilson7346]

I lost my mother suddenly after her 49th birthday. I remember she would always say how proud she was of me and the mother I had become. She would always say “ looking at you and my grandkids I did something right” after being sad, angry,depressed I realized I was dishonoring her by not moving on. I then realized me living my life and finding a way to deal with it was not forgetting about her but it was honoring her. It took me a while but I got the message.

[@tellnolies8530]

I miss Judge Toler!! Yes after death comes judgement, and we all have to answer to GOD !!

[@robinnewmanburton]

My mom died in 2003. I still hurt and cry. You never "get over" the death of a loved one. You just adjust to the loss😢

[@ginap7700]

Thanks for sharing apart of your life with the world with such, grace, wisdom & transparency! God bless you Judge Lynn!# My sister from a different mother!👏🏾🙏🏽🙌🏽

[@Mrs.Adrian]

So thankful that my mother is still alive and well ❤️ if you haven’t done it in a while call your mom and talk to her ❤️

[@sarahsimpkins1311]

I'm thankful my mom is still alive my sister's and I talk to her Everyday

[@nessaj4522]

Good advice. Anyway what a beautiful set. Yes whatever you don't get to do with your love one now, do it with the person that still needs you. Rest in paradise to our mothers. And Dads.

[@adriansanders9111]

Peace my friend! Had to back up to make sure I spelled your name correct, my eyes are filled in tears! Peace! Adrian

[@relaxchill5859]

Judge Lynn your messages are so powerful🙏🏽🙏🏽💖

[@pambeforethestorm9784]

She is so graceful with her advice, I certainly needed to hear her words when I lost my mom a few years ago, it most certainly broke me all the way down, but I learned to focus on the pleasant memories of her, esp the funny ones, and that helped me to continue living ❤

[@slofloat3184]

Damn, layin down truth 👍

[@mrjones5880]

Rip mom. 1994

[@sandrabrown7888]

I don’t even watch anymore it’s not the same… thanks for the knowledge I’ve gathered .

[@marcusjones9160]

This is facts thats why I will try my best to keep my kids away from the street life

[@kaylahawkins]

Just try your best, all you can do.

[@celestecruthird7842]

I Love This Woman! And I Miss My Mother!😪❤

[@1010QUEEN7]

That's why she is so sweet and smart she had a strong woman for a mother soooooooo beautiful 😘😘😘

[@derrickjohnson6323]

You Are A STRONG WOMAN, JUDGE TOLLER.

[@rosewolfseering6066]

I'm still missing my mom but I have moved on. I did what my mama wanted and I'm still going

[@anniemo3319]

Amen, before my mom died she told me not to trust certain people. She had it so right. Miss her dearly 😭🐊🥺. Her untimely passing was something I have learned to deal with. People please love your mom. You only get one real one.

[@kaylahawkins]

So true, it get better with time

[@jwh648]

I miss my momma....I am glad she passed...My older brother was murdered 2 months after my mom passed..She would have died from that....love you Mommy

[@kaylahawkins]

Im sorry to hear

[@mariakelley2250]

Perfect for today my deceased mom’s birthday.

[@Angel-qt3xy]

Knowledgeable words,well said ‼️🇯🇲

[@teresamcclain445]

Thank you so much. I lost my mom 08 10 21 at 335pm

[@marcedwards5279]

Yeah she need a man like me or her husband 😂😂😎😎🦋

[@kaylahawkins]

Lol

[@adriansanders9111]

Omg very well said, in tears here judge toler

[@Tk-sy9ob]

BEST ADVICE I HAVE EVER HEARD GREAT JOB JUDGE 👍 👏 👌 THANK YOU FOR THAT I WISH EVERYONE COULD HEAR THIS.

[@kaylahawkins]

No one escape death, that's hard truth of life. Thanks for watching.

[@fredajohnson506]

That's so beautiful this so true God bless you

[@pinkrackslove]

Lost my angel in 2013 I miss her 🥲

[@tinalapoint9294]

That’s beautiful advice 💯

[@kaylahawkins]

She's smart lady

[@carolynkidd9533]

Taking the 1st step toward forever 🕊️

[@curtiswilliams9249]

Experience is the real school.

[@crystaldennis3823]

❤️❤️🙏

[@MzVonnie4187]

Mercy 🥺 Such words of wisdom! I miss my mother & Loved her soooo much!❤

[@shantelltaylor74]

AMEN I MISS MINE I WISH I COULD CHANGE A COUPLE OF THINGS JUST FOR 1 HOLD DAY..SHE TOLD ME IM GOING TO PASS AND AS SOON AS THEY CAME TO GET ME I KNEW IT I FELT I SAID MOMMY GONE 😢😢😢

[@shantelltaylor74]

Thank you

[@joyferg5791]

I needed to hear this. Thanks Mom🌹👑

[@cherriwomack7829]

Amen thank you Jesus Christ amen

[@carriebell5929]

Beautiful knowledge..💛

[@nanof3593]

She is the best.

[@kaylahawkins]

Yes, she's remarkable

[@marciabuchanan-blair776]

Love this Judge Toller she is correct

[@SequoiaMoonSpeaks]

She is amazing and gives great advice. I just love her! 💜

[@kaylahawkins]

Yes, she's really smart. Thanks for watching.

[@tommyhubbard5733]

Love you ma'am. I feel your pain

[@paulalewis3389]

I buried my mom 2 months ago (3/5/2022). I REALLY needed to hear this! It hurts like hell!

[@reddsharp5581]

I pray 🙏 that God give you peace . Me and my family lost my aunt on 3/1/2020 which affect us all but most my grandmother. My grandmother and grandfather had 10 children which my mother is one of the 10 . My grandfather had already went to glory back in 1995 which was to young to understand what’s death . When we lost my aunt is was hard and it affect my grandmother so bad because just like judge Lynn say children are to bury their parents . Fast forward losing my aunt was very hard especially to my grandmother and during this lost our family still try to be strong . On 01/26/2022 my grandmother was in and out the hospital due to minor things such as gastrointestinal problem and then the big hit a respiratory condition which my grandmother was as strong as a ox at her age of 90 years old our family pray and had faith God will get her better to go to rehab and bring her home to us but her and God had better plans on 2/21/2022 he called her home where she not suffer anyone any more , she is rejoicing in the kingdom, and she’s there with my dad , godmother, aunt and my grandfather which she will always tell us as kids she missed him so much but she knew they will met again in the kingdom. Since her lost our family hasn’t been the same as we had just lost my aunt on 3/1/2020 then my grandmother on 2/21/22 in addition her birthday was coming up on 04/03 now we are about to go through Mother’s Day without her and my aunt . Lost them still feels unreal to the point I have to say to myself their out of town just to feel better . My grandmother was the glue to our family as well to others . She was a woman of God loved but many such as family , church member , neighbors and others . My grandmother has always taught us it’s ok to cry out to God he hears you and pray even if you don’t know what to say or how to pray give all your worries to our heaven father above 👆 because he’s a mother to the motherless and a father to the fatherless . I leave with I am not going to say it will get better ❤️‍🩹because it’s going to be hard but always remember to pray , cry out to God and most of all your mom will always be watching over you from the heavens . I pray you find peace and strength through this as me and my family is still trying to find peace and comfort but we will never give up on it . But always remember in the Bible ” Matthew 5:4 “Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.” Psalm 34:18 “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.” This is in fact true 🙌🏽🙏❤️and you will get through it 🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️❤️🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@paulalewis3389]

@@reddsharp5581 Thanks!❤🙏🙏🙏

[@lc2296]

Thank you. Very timely

[@overcomerchosenestherfavor4968]

Oh she's so awesome! I missed you alot on TV Judge Lyn Toler ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@TeranIcer]

Judge laid it all the way down ...

[@jamiemichelle1291]

I lost 😥 my daughter Heather. I miss her every day. Death could not come sooner

[@kaylahawkins]

Sorry to hear

[@KreativeSoul]

Awwwww I’ve never seen her cry🥺🥺🥺