Divorce | Why.

Thank you, Lily ( / cupcakecovertops ) for giving me the love and strength to make this video. Here was her video: • Random act of kindness... I am sorry that I am such a mess in it and it's all over the place. This is the main (yet only two of the many reasons for my divorce (for example it doesn't include his girlfriend, the money he stole from us, ALL of the lies, oh the list goes on)). It was VERY spur of the moment but has been on my mind for quite some time. Hopefully some more refined videos will be up next (-;
The point of this video is to share my story. I have my experience to offer and hopefully I can help someone with it. I NEVER planned to make this video. I was hoping that he would change and it would be a point of time that was simply passed by. But with 3.5 years under my belt with it, it's becoming clear that it's not changing. MAYBE this video will help him if he sees it. I could only hope. In the meantime becoming an advocate for other people in this situation may be the best (my boys included… they've seen first hand the effects. My hope is that they can help others too).
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[@goldenboyi1989]

Why is this weeping woman being recommended to me every single day i turn on KZbin??Why???I dont care about a divorce and i dont want to know.Please leave me alone

[@goldenboyi1989]

***** Good tip, just so weird that a 3 year old video keeps popping up on everyone's channel

[@ChrisPhoenixMusic]

And yet watching and commenting on it increases your chances of getting more similar recommended videos. Learn to click the "not interested" option and stop complaining?

[@ChrisPhoenixMusic]

So you are insulting someone with an opinion, then? I'm not the one lacking a clue here. lol Eat your words, please. Thanks, bai.

[@MrOwolabi77]

Try removing it from your history .

[@gdfdfgdfgdfgdfgdfg9398]

Googles AI has turned into a weeping woman.

[@samlodestro2850]

I got about 6 minutes in and realized, "Why am I watching this. I really don't give a fuck"

[@Tomahawk1999]

wot do u give a fuck about? where to get the next high? dumass

[@bethisgg5653]

damn bro, thats sounds good. thats all it takes to make a man happy.. bt girls... fuck my life.

[@swoosh50]

+Brad Turner I was thinking the same shit man. Especially from q emotionally vulnerable woman

[@Janes2000]

Wow! What a douchey comment...

[@swoosh50]

+Janes2000 it's true

[@akshats599]

This was 6 years ago. I hope you are at a better place now.

[@pratiktembhekar1996]

hope she gets healed and move on.....and become a better version of herself and be happy .

[@_zina9054]

Damn i just realized that

[@okimahitt7413]

Ugh. Just seeing this now. I hope she’s happy now🌹

[@i-fart-in-elevators]

Divorce... hehehehehehehe

[@azrael3758]

I been dealing with this same addiction for the last 20 years with my ex-wife. She told me she's been using our whole relationship and that got me thinking how much did I really know about her and I realized I loved her potential more than I loved her.

[@sleeplessgamingct4227]

So she was using for 20 YEARS...and you didn't notice? Are you blind?

[@addya4011]

@@sleeplessgamingct4227 what an ass you are. Do you have any idea how sly and calculated some people can be

[@backpain100]

@@sleeplessgamingct4227 They say love is blind. I think we should be more understanding and not be so critical. It's hard to let go of someone sometimes.

[@makeyouquit911]

why the fuck is this on my recommended?

[@naomisantiago5803]

same wtf

[@candicechavez9440]

seriously wth youtube?

[@makeyouquit911]

lol i clicked it to hopefully get rid of it

[@candyjones2671]

same for me lol. your post is soo funny

[@briannaspaghetti5117]

same xD

[@PaoteKid08]

People act like divorce is such a bad thing. Marriage is just a relationship. Some relationships work out and some don't.

[@PabloSanchez8]

Drug addiction is a serious thing. I grew up as a child in a similar story where my mother was also married to someone that had developed a drug addiction and she did struggle after she left. She focused on her kids and all of her children including myself are great people with good careers. You will find love again and if you focus on your children they also may have a great chance on making good choices in life. As for the person that is the drug addict. you must be a distant support system so that they can have the reason "Why" they want to become addicted free.

[@brandynettleton1658]

Well, that's kind of the problem actually. We live in a society full of people who think that just because divorcing is doable that it's completely ok to just marry and divorce whoever whenever. That's not really what it's for. In a situation like this, obviously it's better to just make a break and move on, but like abortion not being birth control, divorce isn't your safety net for marriage.

[@PaoteKid08]

No one said anything about a safety net. Personal happiness is above all else in my opinion. This situation of course is different but every relationship has it's circumstances. So I don't see a problem with divorce. It's just a break up on paper.

[@leavesofbooks131]

Ansar Andino If there are kids involved they usually don't see it that way.

[@LittleMachine89]

No see marriage is suppose to more than a BG or gf. It's suppose to be for better or for worse. But you also have to really KNOW who u are marrying cuz it's suppose to be one person forever.

[@ashleygarcia8486]

My dad was an addict throughout my entire childhood, I lived with him at one point when I was about 12 and I'm still trying to heal from the abuse and trauma he put me through. I'm glad you're protecting your kids

[@bingbong2697]

Watching my husband left me videos an I'm not even married 😭

[@BinaryTechnique]

Preparing yourself for the inevitable. Smart woman!

[@theekaa7705]

@@BinaryTechnique why are men like this

[@twinklestar620]

GYPSY JEWS 😂😂❤️❤️❤️ well, you will learn stuff and make sure you don’t make the same mistakes these divorced people did

[@cIiffe]

Dr Ogbodu The Spellcaster lol

[@allthingskaylaa6025]

Me too lmfaoi

[@Morricker]

To anyone who randomly got recommended this video from youtube, did you notice the video was from 2014? What the actual fuck youtube

[@loganfrey_]

Megablaze That's what I said like "Why is this old video being recommended?"

[@ashzole]

Megablaze youtube is pushing a pro woman agenda, anti men campaign, all dudes watch each others back

[@letrat7021]

this is so random... i dont even watch vlogs and this suddenly pooped up in my recommedations

[@halo-clutchgaming506]

and we both clicked it! 0_o

[@sleeve51]

"Pooped up in your recommendations"? YIKES!

[@letrat7021]

yeah well... whats done is done

[@Killerpro-qh4cf]

lol Right?!?

[@MegF142857]

Popped on mine too, so strange. Hope she is okay now. Well, guess my click adds to the view count, but only watched a couple of minutes. Good luck young lady and your family.

[@alouiciousdeverdander9152]

Went through this with my ex wife... married 19 years... half that time she walked a slippery slope with meth and heroin... I invested so much of myself into her... into her dreams... and she let it all go to hell for drugs... I never felt such betrayal... last four years were the worst... when we were younger I put her through nursing school and she made really good money... I worked full time and took care of the kids almost entirely so she could sleep and take care of herself since we relied so heavily on her income... eventually she lost interest in me, the kids, our lives... she started cheating extensively... she spent so much time away from us it was like we were separated... she lost her nursing license and shortly after that we became homeless... I was able to buy an old RV which we lived in for about a year until the state took our kids away... that was the final straw... I decided to divorce her... I got the kids back but irreparable damage has been done... I moved across the country and started over with the help of family... I haven’t seen her or talked to her in over a year... she has nothing to do with the kids... my 16yo talked to her a couple months ago and asked her when she was going to straighten out her life and move to be closer to them... she told him she wasn’t going to because she was happy being a junkie and living on the streets... drugs are demons, man... once they get their talons in you, you’re unlikely to survive unchanged... this is the real pandemic of our times... stay strong and live for your kids... they will be your redemption

[@Potato-rc3sj]

Stay strong

[@babyhandgrenade4004]

Oh my God I'm so sorry you've had to go through that. I admire your strength for getting through that. My son's father is an alcoholic and was abusive and I could relate to your story. He has no interest in going to rehab and has bipolar disorder type one and will not take his medication or go to therapy. I ended the relationship a year ago because I just couldn't take it anymore and there was no way I was going to let my son grow up in a dysfunctional household. Hugs.

[@lizberrios3593]

Oh no. Reason Why I left my babydady. I left him after 11 yrs. He didn't want to change or get a job. He was getting to be so abusive.

[@homehouse2305]

You are 100 percent right drugs are demons will take over the user body n say n do horrible things. Help your love one specially with prayer to God Jehova. And then with everything else hopefully that person it's willing to fight back to recover everything ask for strength from God and you will receive it with LOVE.

[@JH-gd4qv]

I’m a recovering pill/heroin addiction. But have been clean almost 6 years and happily married with a 2 year old daughter. Thankfully my wife was patient and stuck with me. Addiction is a disease and can’t be cured but it can be treated and you can live free. If I can do it anyway can. If I started using again I would leave to not put my family through it but for today I’m clean. When I get cravings I think is this few moments of feeling good worth loosing my wife and daughter over and it’s not.

[@sk3586]

He didn't make enough money huh? Money that he made was "missing"? Terrible husband! He had a hobby and did not do what you wanted all the time? Terrible husband! "Such a jerk".

[@oscarm891]

i see alot of comments saying. "men, dont get married". i dont know why. when the guy is the one who fucked up. People who cheat on their partners are pathetic lowlifes :/

[@taunoctua245]

+oscar martinez No marriage, no cheating. Women should avoid marriage too, and get a job. But really, having children is the bigger screw up.

[@oscarm891]

League Of The Storm​ dude what the fuck are on about

[@oscarm891]

League Of The Storm​ kid stop fucking talking to me -_-

[@oscarm891]

Yeah you fetus

[@oscarm891]

League Of The Storm​ very -_-

[@Aiycee]

I'm really appalled by the people defending this man. My own father was/is an addict. He was (and still is?) addicted to crack. You may call it a 'mental illness', but it is a choice. He chose to take these substances knowing that it would ruin his life and the lives of those around him. I cannot believe that people would classify it on the same level as things like depression, schizophrenia, psychosis: things that people cannot control. Anyway, as soon as crack came into the picture, my dad began stealing from my mom, he wouldn't come home, he put me in VERY dangerous situations, smoked crack with me in the house, brought me to his dealers place (my mom at this point was oblivious to his addiction, as addicts are incredibly manipulative). He beat my mother, and when she realized it was all because of the drugs she left him. But that didn't stop him from breaking in a week later and beating her again. When he went to rehab, the counsellors told him (like they do all addicts) that nothing is their fault, and that they should forgive themselves, and that everyone around them should forgive them, too. When my mother went to counselling, she was also told that she should 'forgive him so they could move on'. Rehab, and the countless times he went, never worked. You should NEVER 'give addicts a break because they're sick', because it only enables them to make bad choices. I myself was addicted to cocaine for a period of time and although I am 100% okay now and I never "ruined" my relationships, I can say that I put my poor mother through hell a second time and it is one of my biggest regrets in life. It was her 'no bullshit' attitude that kept me from ruining my life. Addicts are not like normal people. To this day my father lies about how long it's been since he last did drugs. He claims that he doesn't do crack anymore, but he 'does coke at parties', and is also an alcoholic instead. I've seen how an addict can ruin a family when left to run amuck. This woman did the right thing, and cutting him out was the best thing for her and her kids.

[@IvyShields]

Very very true, it was best for the kids and her. But, he does need help, and drugs can never overpower love. I'm sure her boyfriend cares, even as stupid as he was, I can't imagine him not caring if her and the kids died (sounds depressing but yeah) and I think that's what people is trying to say :)

[@tronclay]

so based off everything you just said... YOU made the choice to start taking cocaine and in your own words that means you took "these substances knowing that it would ruin his (your) life and the lives of those around him (you)"?? And again, in YOUR OWN words you said the best thing she could do is cut the guy out of her life... so you think YOU should have been cut out of your families life?? Or does all that apply only to this guy and your father and not yourself? You cant have it both ways. Either all three of you are evil drug abuser who don't care about your families or none of you are...

[@Aiycee]

tronclay No, it very much applied to me. I'm happy that my mom threatened to kick me out and threatened to revoke my rights in the household. It forced me to straighten myself out. She kept me under the equivalent of house arrest, I was watched 24/7 and was not allowed out of the house. I didn't ruin anyones life, though, that's the difference. My attitude changed, I was much less hospitable, but I was never abusive, manipulative, I never stole, etc. If I had, my mother would have kicked me out right away. It is not her job to clean up my fuck-ups after everything she did for me. I knew what I was doing when I took these drugs. I did it as an escape, and I did it in hopes that I would die. Luckily my family's attitude snapped me back into reality. And if it hadn't, I would be dealing with the consequences. It is not fair to torment innocent people. My father is scum. He put me in dangerous situations, put my mother in financial/emotional distress, damaged me emotionally, and still has the audacity to expect me to forgive him. The problem is that every time he was forgiven, he took that as his incentive to find sneakier ways to do what he was doing. This man needs help, yes, but it is not her job to suffer and allow her kids to suffer for his mistakes.

[@tronclay]

Tea Cloud As long as you admit you are as much of a scumbag as he is for taking the risk that you would both ruin your families lives, then we are on the same page. You seem to blame your father for all your actions, its obvious by the way you keep bringing him up. Does this womans husband have the same luxury of blaming someone else? Who knows, all we know is what ONE person in a bad relationship claims happened.

[@Aiycee]

tronclay I wasn't blaming my father for anything really, merely pointing out how his stupid choices negatively affected my family, and how this woman's situation could have turned out a similar way if she had of 'just forgiven him and moved on'.

[@gameshot586]

Never stay with liars, cheaters or abusive people, but most important Don’t be one😝

[@babyhandgrenade4004]

Very well said

[@gameshot586]

Shibli Rahat lol what? 😂 Why do you think that?

[@xavarrowww6]

@@shiblirahat111 that’s me except broke , thank god I’m not down baf

[@rodrigosolo3241]

@@shiblirahat111 he is a good man and holy

[@kurtrussell5228]

Never judge a story based on one side, how about that

[@sandella11]

I have no idea why this popped up today...but I watched you. My life was pretty much like yours.i raised my kids alone and got rid of the drug addict I was married to. I’m still here...50 years later. Life has a way of working out. Good luck to you.

[@FatManLeather]

I don't really know why I clicked on this video. I got divorced in 1988 (separated in 1987) because my (ex) wife decided that having a family wasn't important to her. She started drinking and doing drugs and "having relations" with several guys while in college even though she was married with 4 children. I did all I could to keep things together including dropping out of college. Anyway, long story short, I met a wonderful woman that was willing to take me with all the baggage (I was fighting for custody of the kids). We married in 1990 and had another child together and now have 7 grandchildren. Most folks would say a man couldn't have a clue where you're coming from but I assure you I do. Be strong and continue to do what is right by your children. Hopefully their father will get it together and be able to be part of their lives. My parents divorced when I was 5 and my father wasn't in my life so I can relate to what the kids are going through too. God Bless you and your family, Scott

[@nmx7087]

Really cute

[@KillerM1979]

Wow Scott!! That gave me goosebumps. I'm glad all turned out for the better for you.

[@eclipsegamers3372]

That's what happen to my family my mom left me dad with 4 kids :(

[@FatManLeather]

DutchKnifeGuy Thanks Mark, mom did well with us kids and was able to keep it going.

[@Isaacego]

Great.

[@LordTwaddle]

Why do people commit to having kids when they're going to divorce? This day and age people are failing relationships so often I'm not even going to have one let along consider kids. It's much easier

[@bluejeansrcool]

^^preach

[@summerstar143]

I'm 99.99% sure she didn't enter into her marriage thinking "hey he's probably going to become addicted to drugs and make our home a dangerous place to raise children" and marry him and have children with him anyway.

[@JVIPER88]

***** It doesn't seem that that was the case with this woman and her family, but there are people out there who have a child when things aren't going well in the relationship, thinking that a baby will fix it and bring them closer together again. It happens regularly.

[@tetesworld]

People don't get married and then think "Oh, I'll divorce, no biggie" NO.. things happen.

[@Rachthepisces]

Did you not watch the whole video? She said she never could fathom a divorce ever and that's why she tried for so long to stand by his side. Question for you... you marry the love of your life, you are together for 10+ years... lets say not drugs let's say he starts beating you.. physically abusing you, or not that just the verbal.. do you stay with him forever letting your kids see him hitting or constantly yelling at you calling you a bitch a cunt yelling in your face, really do you want to put not just yourself, but more importantly your children through that? Having them constantly stressed worried scared? or would you rather take them out of that situation and let them see their dad or mother who is doing that abuse? You never plan to get divorced, you don't plan to do drugs, you never set out saying im going to get addicted to this or that.

[@latifahgordeeva6198]

I'm alone now and I'm the happiest I've ever been.

[@crystaldiamond3256]

Me too!

[@keanureeves1172]

Season greetings from PRINCE ANDREW EDWARD the DUKE OF YORK,Your profile look adorable and i believe you might have heard much about me,I hope to receive your response. Thank you!

[@crystaldiamond3256]

@B AA keep it that way until GOD blesses you

[@crystaldiamond3256]

@B AA I still will pray for those broken women and miserable women that they find GOD and know what true love is. God bless you and have a happy Sunday.

[@amajuoyigodswill3805]

I feel a bit sad about the attitude of divorce indisciplined men pose. I need a serious relationship and I pray that I live forever with whoever she may be

[@southparkepisodes5877]

*It's 2020. I just came by to drop a word of support for you and your journey and your decision. I have 100% empathy and respect for your decision and your circumstances. I think you did the best, most loving and selfless things for your family - both your ex and your children - throughout this whole situation.* *I am embarrassed for our species by the cheap hit piece video/s criticizing you a while back; by far some of the most misogynistic, ignorant, disgusting, ridiculous, vile sentiments I have ever seen. You deserved the opposite energy sent your way, so I am really sorry that happened, and I hope you and your family are well and healing and on your way to thriving in spite of everything.* *ps - KZbin should be embarrassed to have stuff of that magnitude of misogyny and ignorance on their platform. Anyway, sending love and positive energy your way. Best wishes to you.*

[@MacLoverForEver900]

joining everyone, why the fuck is this in my recommended????? its like 2 years old

[@AntWrig]

Yet, you still posted.

[@200991602]

It was on mine too. I thought how odd! I was looking at sports videos! LOL!

[@GabrielleLawson1989]

jesus, 245 people bothered to scroll down and complain. If you're that pissed about it do something instead of whining like little bitches.

[@chrisangeluk]

ahahahahhaaahahahahahahahahha thats so ironic

[@zyanhd1892]

Why was this depressing shit recommended to me?

[@IFIXCASTLES]

ZyanHD I was looking at chicken raising videos and this popped up......wtf!

[@theylivewesee1674]

haha I know

[@IFIXCASTLES]

Hahaha

[@zyanhd1892]

I was watching video games

[@gamingtaction1978]

Damn I was too watching video games like WTF !!

[@boogitybear2283]

Sweetheart, I guarantee when you’re both in your 60s you’ll be so glad you’re not having to change his diapers.

[@goddessshella664]

Hello I can recomend you to someone that helped me restore back my broken relationship and he can also help you as he did mine too

[@goddessshella664]

Contact him via WhatsApp

[@goddessshella664]

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[@mousseva]

Bad memory is related to trauma and trauma repetition compulsion. I'm the same! ❤️

[@lioydwilliams1850]

Teodora Smith,your lovely smile can make the news

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Teodora Smith, you deserve better 🙏🙏🙏

[@SonicUndergroundL0L]

There was a young woman called Jen who had 2 kids but no men. She had no skills, but plenty of bills so she cried on youtube to pay them.

[@jray551]

This is awful. you should be ashamed of yourself.

[@Rcc6214]

I don't know how the hell I ended up here, but this is brilliant. Thanks for the laugh Mr. Smith

[@SonicUndergroundL0L]

lel

[@KingOfAceZ1]

yeah, the truth is awful isint it?

[@slutmonke]

The crazy part? Look at the view count. The plan looks smart. because of that amount.

[@dominickmasonry3878]

I need to hear his side of the story.

[@macrick]

Best comment ever.

[@twistedwrists2354]

Dom Dominick no it's always mans fault!!

[@acornbrew]

God that was like ripping skin off my arm for fun. I don't know how i got conned into watching this video. But once it started i just wanted to find out what drug he was on.Took her 15 minutes to say meth. Longest clickbait life waste. She clearly wrote this beforehand and really thought how can i keep as many details out of this as possible...but belittle my ex as much as i can to validate my life. She may even be justified, but without this martyr's back story it just sounds like narcissim. Also youtube...you never were awesome but throwing this crap into my list...pretty low youtube pretty low.

[@Bob-fz7pd]

Dom Dominick id like to hear from the good guys that single mom here pushed to the curb before she choose this looser.

[@dominickmasonry3878]

acornbrew my thoughts exactly. she'll be on Oprah with a best seller one day

[@sierrabrown5513]

I’m so glad that I came across your video. My husband is doing the same things that your ex did. I’m moving out this coming June. I was staying with him for the kids and realized is affecting the kids more then helping them. He is never around

[@lauriee5200]

Sierra Brown u WILL be fine!!!!!!! I cannot emphasize that enough...not that it’s easy, but somehow we mommas get ourselves together & take care of business. Just know that u aren’t going thru it alone...u may want to find some other single moms that can support each other. Best of luck to u. Saying a prayer for u now...

[@anilyousuf7731]

Noo... Plz sis dont do that.. i dont have any explanation for your matter... But its gonna affects alot to the children..

[@s.elizabeth1753]

Good for you! ❤

[@intermilan9731]

Maybe he wants you out. Its all a master strategy game to get his karen wife to leave on her own.

[@sunshinestatesurvival]

Poor memory often happens to people who suffer PTSD from constant abuse and elevated stress levels/ being in fight or flight mode. Your amygdala which is partly responsible for memory, is compromised when you're under stress for long periods of time like sounds like you have been.

[@mariehalsey8892]

Thanks for this comment

[@georgiosdrosinos7531]

Or it can happen from 10 other causes, you are not helping this way. She never claimed to show any compassion for whatever her husband was going through either.

[@sunshinestatesurvival]

@@georgiosdrosinos7531 she's not an addiction counselor or mental health care worker. When you're trying to look out for the well-being and mental stability of your children in a situation where you're living with an addict, you have to put your compassion aside. I lived with an addict for over 10 years who was mentally abusive, manipulative and volatile because I was so compassionate for his state... I felt so bad for him, but now my son resents me for having stayed with him for so long. If you've never lived with an addict and you've never been the other parent, the responsible party, you probably wouldn't understand her lack of compassion.

[@georgiosdrosinos7531]

@@sunshinestatesurvival What is more interesting is why you even lived with an addict for over 10 years? You are just projecting then, because in this case we have a marriage withsomeone who was not an addict for 11 years and took the woman 6 months to divorce him without even asking whats wrong.

[@sunshinestatesurvival]

@@georgiosdrosinos7531 she WAS with an addict. I don't know what video you are watching. But you do sound like a super compassionate understanding person yourself, so I'm sure you'd understand why a compassionate empath would stay with their addict husband for 10 years.

[@dwaynedibley1396]

Why in the fuck was this recommended for me?

[@jamiemonte9881]

I'm literally going to scour law books for case file/ precedence on whether or not i can sue her ass! This was an egregious waste of time and has emotionally damaged me forever, just to know that people like her exist makes me suicidal! I am not living in the same world as this fucking mess of a human being. And she's raising kids?? Ohhh HELLLL NAW! This shit needs to be stopped:) lmao.............

[@SeanChandlerTalksAbout]

I'm wondering the exact same thing.

[@davidmegamass2287]

You're probably typing the word marriage more often on KZbin ;)

[@dwaynedibley1396]

I'm not married or divorced - and have never taken meth in my life :D.

[@IonRayner]

Same here

[@withnonamemarketing]

So you married and had kids with the wrong guy..... It is sad but happens 50% of the time in the US, you are cute and seem intelligent, it's a shame I am 29, not on drugs and great with money, I would have spoiled the shit out of you and rolled around with you in the yard with the kids. I am looking for that, but dating has become a battle field of STD's and single divorced mothers in mad debt! It is SCARY out here.

[@magacop5180]

Stfu you white knight simp.

[@magacop5180]

+Bart H sorry man I read your comment too quickly. I thought you were trying to come to her defense.

[@withnonamemarketing]

***** No worries have a great day

[@T1GEVERETT]

I'm a 14 year old that plans one day to be a dad just like that. Only I wouldn't spoil too much because anyone would take control/advantage of you. But I get everything you mean is in a good way for all. You seem like a good person already.

[@michaelpark5681]

+Bart H That's nice. She's not gonna fuck you though.

[@Brittanysplittany]

God bless you, girly. I'm so sorry you've gone through this... I pray you're doing better after all this time.

[@sarahstevens8442]

Your transparency and vulnerability will definitely reach others and pull them up out of their own depths. So many people are so deeply hurt and devastated by addiction and the consequences that ripple through a family and a community. I’m so sorry this happened to you and your boys but I can tell that you are going to stay afloat and you are going to be a beacon of light fir your children and for anyone watching this and possibly feeling 10% less alone and desperate. Keep going, girl. Keep turning this taboo subject upside down. You know that you are strong because you know what you’ve been through. You are going to ok. In fact, you are going to be stronger, wiser and more capable of supporting others because of this strife.

[@QAZAZZA]

Why the fuck is this recommended for me

[@666zlatan666]

Probably because you're a terrible father and husband

[@esaw7067]

^ oh look, a feminazi

[@ganiaj87]

Damn. Yeah this suddenly appeared in my suggested videos. Hope she's doing ok now.

[@jessicaoberry3182]

Same

[@rybo510]

Ya just appeared for me too. Until your post I thought it was new.

[@ganiaj87]

@@rybo510 seriously! I thought it was recent too

[@ganiaj87]

@@jessicaoberry3182 forreal forreal!

[@ganiaj87]

@BobbyG Word. I totally felt her pain. My dad was just like her husband with the drugs but thankfully he kicked his habit. 20 years sober!

[@gregheffely3184]

Sounds like a YOU problem…

[@BrunetteNat]

Get away.

[@tamtamvercher5433]

I am going through a Divorce and typed in Divorce Vlog when I ran across this...Sweetheart I am so sorry, I have tears in my eyes for you as I watch and type this . When you loose someone to addiction, it's worse than loosing them to death because of the vicious cycle of having your heart ripped out of your chest repeatedly. I left someone that I almost married because he chose addiction over being in mine and not what still keeps you up at night... I pray for your ex husband, that he doesn't loose sight of why he call his self a man and he gets sober for his self and your kids... Wipe your eyes love, God has a plan... Always remember that...

[@agenmonmenpeace9408]

TamTam Vercher Hello my Friends. A friend of mine introduced me to this powerful man of God from Africa who really helped me. He prayed for me and now my relationship is restored. I and my husband are happy and together. Message him now on his WhatsApp number. [phone]. He his a great man of God.

[@chrisjohnson2246]

I'm so sorry I know how it feels to be lonely without the person you love, such is life I understand how you feel but life goes on, I lost my wife 3yrs ago to a terrible heart disease, I felt deeply devastated with grief, but that's the past now, time is indeed the best healer I'd love to talk to you more if you don't mind it'd be nice if you just say hi here is my number [phone]

[@georgewilliams9372]

How dear, how are you doing

[@tianalee13]

I can't get over the horrible, rude, disrespectful, ignorant, comments on this video. Like are you freaking kidding me! This is a woman in PAIN! She's sharing her story to help others. Omg this video has been in your "recommendations" DELETE IT! If you don't want to watch it DON'T! Like where has the compassion in the world gone. This woman is so beyond strong and brave and everyone who comments rude shit I wish nothing but badness on you!!!!!

[@Rocket9944]

What are you talking about?

[@tianalee13]

so many people are commenting like "why is this in my news feed" and "omg stop bitching"

[@sanjanaskrishnan1620]

Well said.

[@tianalee13]

"attention whoring" by sharing her story which will help other people. wow... it's so sad you feel that way.

[@Waltiswicked]

tianalee13 Wow!

[@TheThriftyMommy]

So sorry Jeni. Don't ever beat yourself up for missing signs. I was a meth addict and hid it from all of my loves ones. I have a video up on my channel titled "the truth not suitable for children" where I finally broke my silence about my past drug abuse. You absolutely did the right thing. I hope for his sake, your sake, and your boys sake that he can turn it around and have a good outcome. I have seen what meth can do as I lived it myself, and have seen many marriages fail for that exact reason. I have also lost loved ones to it. Again I am so sorry that you had to go through that all.

[@CandidMommy]

Your story really moved me! I commented with predictive text haha didn't work well. Thank you for sharing xoxoxox

[@davin6175]

I am so sorry you had to got through all this. I don't know how I ended up seeing this but your honesty and pain was evident and you are breave and beautiful to make this video. As a guy, I have a different perspective of course, but few answers to explain him. I don't know you, but I feel like I want to say I am proud of you for doing so much to try and make it work for the sake of love and the kids. I hope for all your sakes things have gotten better. And I am sure they have for you in leaving such an ugly abusive situation. Unfortunately, loosing his wife and child, he has lost the strongest motivator to clean up. But as we all are reminded in AA or NA or other recovery groups, the only way it ever really is going to work is if he gets to a point where he has had enough, and he is in a place where he is ready to do it for himself. He can't be getting clean for you or his son, (although it is a powerful additional motivator) he has to do it for himself, because he just can't live like that anymore. I hope that much of that abuse was really misdirected anger, shame and self-loathing, and the drugs talking. Not that he is really such an asshole. You are a beautiful, caring, strong, brave woman. And you did the right thing. So live a better life and keep your love alive. Peace, Davin.

[@Panndia]

Yep, even you talking about talking to your mom makes me cry. I always break down when I talk to my mom

[@no1Wubbie]

I know EXACTLY what you are going through. I was kicked out by my ex the week I found out I was pregnant with my first child. I had the incredible support of my mother (who has the same effect on me as your mom has on you) and unfortunately lost a lot of friends during that time, so it was very isolating. I changed jobs, moved, lost all my "friends" and started to try and rebuild a life when I sort of fell into a group of amazing people at my job. They were so incredibly kind and supportive and always had my back on the rare occasion my ex would show up at my job. I made life long friends and they even threw me my baby shower! Once I realized I was CAPABLE of being cared about, even when I had nothing to offer anyone else in return, that's when I finally cut all ties with him, and started what is now an excellent life. It took about a year and a half after I left before I finally loved myself enough to not take his shit anymore. Today, he does not call or attempt to speak with his child. We now have a lovely home, I have an excellent boyfriend who loves my daughter unconditionally, and I am getting my career in biochemistry started where I should have long ago. Almost 4 years later, we are happy and healthy and safe, and the relationship seems like a bad dream that I seldom ever think about. You are going to do great. Nothing is unachievable, and you have such a fantastic personality, your boys will grow to do nothing short of idolize you. You deserve every bit of happiness, and I hope your light at the end of the tunnel comes quickly for you. You have all my support and love.

[@jillmarshall4941]

I applaud your story of moving on after an extremely difficult situation.👏

[@robertjones1704]

The difference between women and men is that a man would stick around and help his wife -- usually... not always -- but women just leave. Did you get the state to help enforce half his loss? But you "loved" this man, no? Women don't love men. They love what men 'can do for them'. Women love their children like a man loves his wife.

[@Altavilla22Mike]

You can't help somebody that doesn't want to be helped, obviously you never been through this before as a lot of us have. You can't reason with an addict, nor can you change them until they want to change. Why do you think most addicts have been to rehab like 5-10 times? They were forced to go, and soon as they get out get use again

[@chugginbeers]

LeadBlastin22 Its cheaper and easier to replace them even if they are your kids. good logic

[@mobilemechx]

LeadBlastin22 u hav a preconceived outlook on addiction...been married 25 years this year and yes had horrors in 06 that lasted 2 years......guess what my wife stayed and helped me get through my problem and we are stronger for it....divorce is NEVER THE ANSWER in my book main stream media and teachings dont push the family anymore.....bring god back and things would change pretty quick......

[@robertjones1704]

I am a drug addict. Say again? You're making up arguments that justify giving up on someone you've previously committed to. Either you commit for the long haul or don't. My ex-fiance left me two days prior my wedding. We were together for 10 years. I am not well off and was in debt, but wanted to get out of debt before starting a family. I got out of debt completely and weened myself off the drugs. It took 18 months. I did this without professional help. Mainly because I'm poor. But I did what I had to do. It doesn't matter, the ex was cheating on me anyway. The semester I decided to get back in school, despite the savings I accrued, meant nothing to her. She was worried about NOW! She didn't have any interest in my investment in my own skills, for myself, us as a family or what sacrifices meant for something far better, for much later. It doesn't matter now. The florist business I was helping her create will never happen now. Not because I'm a florist, but it's something she was very interested in. Now she sits at home with two kids in another marriage while her husband slaves as a box boy 60 hours a week at the local grocery store. I have one semester left before I graduate with a double major in political science and psychology. And I got accepted to grad school, already. It's nothing like engineering or anything, but it is ultimately what I enjoy. I look forward to my future. The best part is me keeping my writing job, fulfilling my hunger for philosophy and to continue reading, learning new things. Just because someone disagrees with the way "you, yourself" have experienced the world, doesn't mean they are against you. Just because someone acts a certain way, doesn't mean that by disagreement, alone, you will take the diametrical route. That's too simple. Life doesn't work that way. Life is complex and us humans don't like to be confronted with information that contradicts our beliefs. This forms the basis of cognitive dissonance. It interferes with the thinking processes; creates filtered data that isn't exactly correct. It's correct in that we tend to justify its correctness, but it is merely a subjective snapshot of our perception versus another. With all due respect, I will disregard your statements, because I happen to know better. You may likely conclude this is inconsiderate and or demeaning, but yes, though it is not politically correct, It is the truth -- another truth eroded by my former experience in the world; another truth, conveniently stowed away from your convictions, because it simply doesn't parallel your own choice. You knew of nothing about me. But you sure did use some great straw man arguments to conveniently defeat my message, without asking first, clarification regarding my own experience. This is straight up intellectual dishonesty through a pathos appeal; a psychological tactic to persuade others -- and likely continue justification, yourself -- that my actions are of an antipathic nature. Furthermore, this justification for belief is needed to set me up with an ethos appeal that my credibility cannot be accounted for reasonably, because my ethics and "beliefs" -- though you haven't a clue what they are -- remain inferior to yours. Confirmation bias is a bitch. Not because it's impossible to reroute the processes of elimination, but because in doing so, we'd have to actually think about how to logically get around our bias, without prolonging through a deficit of impenetrable confusion. If we are to stand in front of a mirror, we couldn't see the back of our head's. Confirmation bias is the exact same thing. We can't see our own bias. So the only way to attack it, is by equalizing the processes we go about when reasoning. If our processes turn up diametrically opposing our opposition's without applying equity to either theirs' or our own perceptions, we unfortunately haven't figured out our own bias. If you've gotten this far, I'm surprised... Like thinking about thinking, which is philosophically called "Philosophy of Mind", most people won't want to waste their time in all this buzz. Whether one does or does not, is by their individual choice; an economic choice. But the choice to stay and contemplate one's existence in the giant social dynamic is one that should ultimately payoff, given a sound and valid argument. In other words, this is one of the main reasons, society fails. This is why a government can't ever get it right... This is why humans cannot transcend their civil turmoil, because they're lazy.... and instead choose instant gratification over hard work. Good day.

[@thezanarose]

Substance abuse is a big contributing factor for divorce. Certainly when they refuse to get help. I’m so sorry for your struggles and even his struggles because he deserves to feel at peace rather than be intoxicated

[@spiritquests3970]

Keep in mind there is rarely ANY support for men. No one to talk to. And 80% of divorces are initiated by women...

[@TA12002]

@@spiritquests3970 maybe if men weren't so shitty, women wouldn't divorce them.

[@babyhandgrenade4004]

Your story resonated with me. My son's father is an alcoholic and he won't even consider going to rehab. He also has bipolar type 1 and won't take meds and won't go to therapy. Sometimes even though it hurts we know we have to let them go. I felt this. He was also verbally, emotionally and physically abusive throughout our 3-year relationship. Our son is 1 year old now but I left his father when he was two weeks old. I knew I couldn't live that way anymore and I wasn't going to allow my son to grow up like that.

[@dw123ish]

As a child who had a father with a substance abuse problem, know you did do the right thing. Your children will thank you at some point. I have thanked my mother for getting me away from that. I'm so sorry you are going through this, but you are right! There is a light. Keep making your way towards it. Lots of love and prayers for your family.

[@MathildaFlow]

True. Children deserve better than to be codependent with a drug user, even if it is a parent.

[@jessicaramireznovelo1167]

I thank your mom for leaving my dad does Crack he has my whole life I'm 16 and I have older sisters the oldest is about to turn 24 and I'm old enough to know now my mom will never leave my "father".

[@dw123ish]

Since you are 16 if there is someone whilling to help support you and allow you to go to school you have the option of emancipation also. Remeber you have the power to make your own choices and to not follow your parents path.

[@johnvonhorn2942]

Jessica Alba will probably hire her to work at The Honest Company and they'll both burst into tears and hug each other before the interview even starts. With Jessica blubbing, "you're hired!" and then both women crying even more because it's all so adorable when one sister helps another. Then they'll both make videos about sharing stories and new beginnings. Eventually Dr Phil will join them and together they'll talk through those issues and have a group hug and a few more tears will be shed. With Dr Phil looking on proudly at how much progress his girls have made. Then they'll talk about their journey on Ellen and you'll see them doing Carpool Karaoke with Corden. Then the book will come out, "My Journey - Never give up - A woman's struggle to find herself in the modern world" with a forward from Dr Phil.

[@Hallo81398]

on point xD

[@bri7193]

Lmfaoooooo

[@ChoTakahashi]

shut the fuck up

[@TVManson]

This comment made my day *insert thank you gif*

[@buddah610]

Lmao! Although, my wife comes home and spends an hour in the bathroom when she comes home and when I walk in a room she puts her phone down as if she wasn't on it. I asked her about it and she said" I think you think,I am addicted to the phone" . I said,you are! However, wtf? Time will tell.

[@jaderiafrieze1007]

I came across your channel because I’m searching for “leaving Lularoe” videos and then I here I am two hours later on video after video about your ex’s drug abuse and divorce stuff. Clearly we have lots in common and I’m so glad I’ve found you! You’re so brave for speaking up and giving other women a voice and allowing them to know it’s ok to speak their truth of what’s happening in their lives! Love your videos so far! I’m glad to see you’re very happy in the place you and your kiddos are today! ❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

[@johnfayan308]

Hello

[@bonniedeibel1546]

He will hit rock bottom soon & most likely overdose on drugs! So sorry to hear you had to go through all that heartache!

[@lioydwilliams1850]

Bonnie Deibel,your lovely smile can make the news

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Bonnie Deibel,you must be a kind being 💓

[@keraklatka914]

I grew up with both my parents using drugs , my dad ended up committing suicide when I was 14 , and moved out because my mom continued to use and I got pregnant and didn't want my baby around it , I'm now 17 and my mom passed away last year because of drug overdose , it's takin such a toll on my life , a big amount of my other family members use drugs and I choose to not be around them because I don't want my daughter to grow up seeing what I grew up seeing , but I'll be 18 in 2 months , I already have my own house and car , and doing a lot better than before , I have two younger sister and two younger brother who now stay with my grandparents and there doing a lot better now , of course we all have our emotional issues , but life goes on , I wish you and your kids the best !

[@miguelhennessy5263]

Wow what a hard life.

[@yeralmuzika]

Wow, you're 18 and has a kid while living on your own with horrible memories. You ought to take a week off and go to the beach while your child lives with your grandparents and just chill. And maybe try to smile :P

[@SonikJesus]

keep yr head up. yr the shit and you deserve the shit

[@BRUH-rj2dr]

My dad cheated on my mum with my teacher and they had 3 kids then he cheated on my teach with a model and had 4 kids but then he came back to my mum but she was over him and she was dating this really rich guy called max and she's not a gold digger my mums really rich so she's not a gold digger so anyway my dad got rejected from my mum so he then went back to his model gf and they got married and had 3 more kids so I have a lot of sisters and brothers and 3 mums and 2 dads and I had a gf I made her pregnant now we have a child named Jess and she's so cute but there's no way I'm marring her until I'm 26 cause right now I'm 17 and my gf is only 14

[@miguelhennessy5263]

BRUH BRUH

[@1realestatehomes]

I went thru a DIVORCE myself and was so depressed, BUT eventually I got over it.. Anyone can.. It just takes time to heal the emotional, mental and physical wounds.. Hang in there and things will change..

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

David Young I love your uplifting comment so sad story may you guy's find courage

[@pinkmarkermedia78]

Divorce is a horrible horrible thing, it takes the Lord Jesus to heal the deep nasty wounds and end the vicious cycles.

[@richardwilliams2560]

I've been separated since around mid 2014 and she hit me with divorce papers in June 2018. I never talk about it to anyone but I'm still having a tough time, even to the point of isolating myself from whomever possible, becoming unemployed and losing literally everything, sleeping as much as possible so I can escape reality for a short time, and just letting myself go completely in every way you can imagine. I've always been a go-getter, I've always worked hard, I've always refused to let adversities defeat me in any way. I can run directly into a firefight...towards rounds that are buzzing past my head and never give up short of death, but now I've allowed separation and divorce to cause me to hunker down and crumble in defeat.

[@michaelheery7427]

Big problemm is you might not know your depressed.

[@michelletolliver2891]

@@richardwilliams2560 you can't keep letting the divorce take hold of you like this it's to many beautiful women out there that I'm sure would love to love on you, Praying that you pull yourself up dust yourself off and move on💙💙

[@tinahanze619]

Hang in there!

[@lioydwilliams1850]

Tina Hanze,hope you are with a good man!

[@strest281]

I am currently divorcing my wife who i found out is a covert narcissist. It wasn't my fault and it wasn't your fault either. You are an amazing, beautiful woman. His loss.

[@Exorsizzle]

i feel for both parties in this video but that doesn’t mean anyone has the right to attack this woman for protecting herself, her financial assets and her children. the comments are so sickening. i know its youtube and youtube is a fucking cesspool of hate but come on. "bros before hoes," right guys? grow the fuck up. i'm pretty sure we were all taught in kindergarten that the golden rule is "if you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all." is this woman hurting anyone? did she post pictures or videos of this man? no. she is not hurting anyone, she is venting and trying to share her story so that other people don't feel as alone. why do you feel personally attacked by this video?? also if this video would "not stop showing up in your recommendations" OH NO OH MY GOD NOOOOO all you have to do is click the vertical "..." to the side of the video and click "not interested." its not that hard.

[@walterromanoff2953]

We live in a critical world

[@JonEnowhere]

That's..not..the golden rule. The golden rule is "Treat others how you want to be treated."

[@soelriser525]

Bob Loblaw ...nope!! She is HELPING people!! Like me!!!! She is allowed to "air out" that "dirty laundrey" that she did not create

[@CandysGarden]

Bob Loblaw I agree, we are all entitled to our own opinions. Some may want her to take this down just because of the reasons you've stated, but in other cases, we find things helpful. We find that we are not alone thru this lady's divorce journey.

[@dennissparks5893]

Dulce Amor Gamez

[@ShastaMusic]

Leaving her husband must have been one of the hardest things she's ever had to do, and people are criticizing her? Alright, well I have two points: 1: This man was someone she seriously cared about. They were together for a very long time and had a family together, so I imagine she loved him a lot. I can't imagine how painful it would be to watch the person you care about drift away like that. There really was nothing more that she could do to help him. To make something like a marriage work, you need both people fully committed. If he at any point thought that getting high and blowing his paychecks was more important than his family, he wasn't committed. He has to want to get better, and even after being offered support from his loved ones (her dad offered to pay for rehab!) he still continued to act irresponsibly. 2: Addiction is in most ways a choice. I am someone who has a very addictive personality, and I know that if I tried heroin or crack or meth or anything like that, my life would be over. I'm already seriously addicted to caffeine and cigarettes, both of which are ridiculously hard to quit. The difference between him and I is that I want to get better. I work every day to smoke one less cigarette, have one less cup of coffee, and I couldn't do it without all the support I have from my family. At the end of the day, he needed to step up and decide for himself what he really wanted, and apparently, that was meth. I respect this woman so much for sharing her story, and having the courage to leave her husband. If I were in her place, I'm not sure if I would have the strength. She wanted her children to grow up in a safe, loving environment, and their dad just couldn't provide that. I would like to give +CandidMommmy an internet hug!

[@MarisiaBonnema1969]

i dont understand why people are on her why is the woman always critized. she said she decided to do this hopefully help someone else. was in a similar situation stayed 16 years and he startrted changing siooo fast ..we actually lost our kids case of him

[@lilmissjaded1598]

It is very much a choice but drugs can have a strong pull as well. Just bc someone continues to use drugs doesn't mean they don't love their family it just means they are weak. It's hard to understand until you have been through that yourself and even then everyone is different. Some people can quit easily, some it's hard but they can still do it, and for some it's so hard it seems impossible but it isn't. The person has to want to change, ur right about that. I grew up with a father on meth for over 20 years of my life. We thought he would never get clean but he's been clean for close to ten years. It took him having open heart surgery and getting saved to stop though. I also almost married someone that was on it and I put my foot down it was the drugs or me and drugs sadly won. I loved him but I promised myself I would not marry someone that had the same drug issues as my father so I walked away. Last I heard he was still on the meth. He has 5 kids now that have to grow up like I did. It seems this problem is everywhere.

[@carmkizzle]

Brooke Mckinney "...drugs have a strong pull..." That's why it's a good idea to never decide to try them in the first place. When it's all said and done, that person made the choice to do that drug and everyone around them has to deal with the fallout. With all we know about in this world, about drugs...why even make that choice? Especially when you have SO much to lose. It doesn't even matter if he "truly" loves his family because he is still making life completely miserable for his loved ones with his addiction. Drugs can turn a person into nothing more than an ugly, mean shell of their former selves. Meth is especially horrific with the physical affects it has on people. It really is a frustrating and heartbreaking thing to experience.

[@GreatBlueKnight]

I was too high to read your full comment

[@lilmissjaded1598]

+Cee Major I have no idea why people would want to try drugs. I think it usually starts because they are around it and think I will just do it one time. Then they are hooked. Or they think Bc they've done it a few times that they won't get hooked, but eventually do. It's literally like playing Russian roulette with your life, it may not get u this time but there's always the next. People that do them are usually trying to cover a deeper rooted problem. I've never been addicted to drugs but I know that drug addiction runs in my family. Had I not of seen the effects of it first hand I think I could easily of fell into it. When I had just turned 16 my boyfriend was killed in a car wreck. I went through a dark time where I didn't care about what happened to me. It would of been easy to turn to something to numb the pain, but what people don't realize is your just putting off the inevitable. If you don't let yourself feel those awful painful emotions then you stay stuck. The feelings don't go away, you can't stay numb forever. Some people take drugs to party. If I had a dollar for every time I've heard someone say I wish I'd never done it the first time, I'd be rich!

[@williamdread391]

I am so very sorry that you had to experience this. He is sick, and has almost no control over the addiction. I lost my brother to alcoholism. Even knowing it was killing him, he could not stop. You are absolutely beautiful and obviously very strong to be able to share a very painful thing in life. God bless you and yours.

[@babyhandgrenade4004]

I'm very sorry that you lost your brother. My son's father is an alcoholic and I'm pretty sure there's something wrong with his liver and he knows he needs to stop but I don't think he ever will. I don't think I'll ever live to see the day he gets clean and sober and I've accepted that. That's a huge part of the reason we are no longer together. He has many demons that I can't help him fight anymore. It's up to him whether or not he wants to stop and get help but I'm not going to be along for the ride anymore.

[@willloveyoumore]

Can I have an upgrade now after 6 years??!! Tell me you got married again, having kids and a beautiful house wit a backyard full of flowers!!!

[@portercase]

Not sure what attracted me to your story. I’m probably old enough to be your Grandfather @ 72. I’m now a 31 year Recovering Alchoholic. I got sober but my wife & Family didn’t. So 2 years sober I filled for divorce. I looked around & said I don’t fit here any more. I believe in a Higher Power & was an active AA guy. I’d asked Higher Power for a woman who understood t Program. 9 months living alone Friends told of an out of town lady coming for Labor Day weekend, would I come over for dinner. Well, I did & we were a perfect match. She had been in Al-anon longer than I’d been sober. We commuter dated for 2 years as at 40, she got her Computer Programmer Degree, then got a job in my town & moved in😊! We’ve been together 27 years now & couldn’t be happier! Sober on my worst day is better than being a slave to a Drug! You have made t right decision. You can’t make someone Sober, they have to want it. You might consider Al-anon. It’s for You, not your Addicted X. May God Bless you & your Family. Keep doing the right things one day at a time & Your Higher Power will give you what you need in your life!

[@CourtneyLICI0US]

I'm so sorry you had to go through this, I used to use meth and it is a horrible substance, but I was blessed with my husband who helped me get through it. Once I realized after using it for so long that I was sleeping on it, not losing weight and not getting the "high" that I once did and also realizing that it was stealing my happiness from tomorrow I decided that it wasn't worth it. The come downs were not worth it and once I sobered up and made another realization that I would lose my husband so I made the choice to stop cold turkey. It was the best decision of my life, I mean I did have to switch down to another drug, but I eventually stopped altogether. I don't even have the craving to do it anymore because I'm like, "you know I don't really feel like being depressed tomorrow". I went from using meth, switched to coke and now I just drink occasionally, however just like I'm a happy drunk I was also a happy person when I was high and not aggressive or scandalous, and most people were surprised at my honesty when they asked me if I was high. I was more or less a hazard to myself. I think once he truly sobers up he will realize how much he misses his kids. All addicts do, I know that because I used to talk to the worst of them who had kids. Just keep on keepin' on, enjoy your life, enjoy your kids and once time goes by he will come back (to the kids)

[@lunahart]

Bravo to you for your strength, my dear!

[@DTI213397]

It's been about 7 years since you posted this video. don't know if you'll read this. Just wanted to say I can tell that you're a good person and I'm sorry you had to endure the pain you did. It's unspeakably hard when you bare your soul to someone, and they walk by it like it's a cold gravestone. I hope the events contained in your video are a distant memory, and you've found peace and fulfillment in your life to endure nothing but prosperity for the next few generations for you and your family. Being a true friend to someone is often a very lonely experience when addiction is present. You keep a great deal of humanity within yourself, continue providing it to others and you'll land on your feet every time. I wish people could actually communicate. It would solve so much in the end.

[@johnellsworth6367]

You’re a sweet, pretty, intelligent woman; the whole package. I can’t understand how he would let you go, much less not being there for his children.

[@kevincoleman9855]

I was thinking the same, but couldn’t word it as well as you have.

[@intermilan9731]

Yeah. Because the face they show on camera is the real them.

[@dimepiece8855]

Because you only see one side of the story

[@vitorfernandes651]

You got all that from 1 single KZbin video? It takes years to really know a Person. I’m sorry but no one could tell anything from a single video. You’d be surprised at how fair people can be on KZbin and Facebook.

[@truegirl2anna]

Wow people are evil. This lady had an awful experience. Show some compassion. Dang.

[@jab7168]

you only heard her side of the story.

[@cocojbrown855]

It's 2019 and this popped up in my recommendations

[@veronicaapav8975]

This so very sad. I feel so bad for this young woman and her family. I feel her paid. I know that things will get better for and your family. Focus on your children. They are truly gifts sent to us to cherish. The poor father is also having a difficult journey. You will be in my thoughts. And You WILL get through this.

[@karinnamerino7232]

The father is not poor, he is a cheating bastard and deserves hell.

[@justcandace5701]

Just popped up in mine too. Wonder why so many people now..

[@jesusislove7289]

Same here..Germany.

[@SpiritGirlSF]

For once I don't mind saying me too! Became a cocaine dealer after losing his day job, that was the end of my being a stay at home mother, got a great job and 6 months later divorce. My 2 sons were 7 & 9 y/o and have a very troubled relationship with their father who is now dying of cancer.... should have known when he wouldn't change diapers, push a stroller or put a baby in the backpack. He didn't want to pay child support either. I so feel your pain Mama. I hope life is much much better for you. Sending you all big love.

[@DJTruth_1970]

KZbin outta the blue loaded this video & I realize this is an old video but you broke my heart. I’ve been divorced twice now & the last one was brutal as my 2 daughters & I were abandoned. I’ve been a single dad for 13 years now and it has not been easy, but we made it. I’ll watch you other videos to see where you’re at today, as I am feeling your pain. By the way, your ex is a fool !!! You are strong, intelligent, honest & beautiful inside & out. Don’t worry about your memory, we are all struggling with that these days. Thank You for sharing, I hope you’ve found the peace & happiness you DESERVE...

[@ramses8847]

I know this is an old video but lots of strength here and hope this woman is in a better place. I couldn't imagine going through something like this.

[@filips989]

Seeing the video is almost 2 years old, I can't help but join the others - why the fuck is this recommended to me?!

[@sweetlil1096]

Facts im like .... wtf why is this in my reccomended videos

[@testaccount2335]

I was also looking at home births and uncensored deliveries because I cant look at my normal sites at work

[@sneekz07]

Who cares? Just click that you don't want to see it, instead of making a fuss.

[@Tailorhartman]

yeah, wtf man?

[@marlenejojo1]

Maybe the youtube gods recommended this to us all to give her financial support from the views.

[@friendofzeus]

How do I make KZbin not recommend videos like this one to me?

[@sixesandsevensus]

it's simple -- u just e-mail [e-mail] and ask to be removed.

[@HanCholo112]

When you put your mouse cursor on the title, 3 dots appear on the right, click on that and then click on not interested.

[@scorpion07070]

Thumbs down a video and videos like it won't be recommeded as much.

[@jasonbendickson7491]

Yes, please make it stop.

[@TTMG29Gaming]

Yea same

[@jennyakasippi8259]

It is Jan.7, 2020...I don't know why I clicked on this, but know you ABSOLUTELY succeeded in helping someone...me, and in a completely different way. Thank you. I will probably never actually know you, but I owe everything to you and to God for me clicking when I normally wouldn't.

[@sammys8271]

I love this ❤️ I don't even know what you gained, but I know exactly what you mean!

[@hollygamble15]

Hearing this perspective freaking changed my entire life and, in effect, a lot of lives around me. For the ultimate better, I pray. God bless you Love, it DID make a difference in my life, YOU HAVE NO IDEA ❤️✨

[@duterteistotallycrushing4520]

Wanna know the way to keep a man?? Quitchurbitchin!!

[@shyzonzi8034]

Dr. CisScum Shitlord III, Esq. right! ? also... THEY TOOK ER JOBS!!

[@ratpais]

Dr. CisScum Shitlord III, Esq. want to keep a woman? be a man

[@duterteistotallycrushing4520]

Carlo Vault No shit Sherlock.

[@ratpais]

Dr. CisScum Shitlord III, Esq. a real man

[@elonlovesyou]

Dr. CisScum Shitlord III, Esq. Dig deeper Watson.

[@TheIrbe]

Divorce is often these days, im 16 year old guy, and my view on marriage is a no. Kids are supposed to learn from their grown ups, but what are the kids gonna learn when they see their grown up fail plenty of times over and over again with marriage. Im not saying that everybody fail, but now days less people stick together till the end. Many people tend to get lazy when they are married, thinking '' i got the girl already, dont need to anything '' , they stop putting effort in the relationship etc and that leads to divorce. Ofcourse there are plenty of reasons for divorce, but if both just put as much effort it wouldn't be these many divorces. I rather have a partner for years before marrying her. If me/she gets lazy in the relationship, me/she could be gone when me/she comes home.

[@x3omgitsme]

You sound like a very smart young man. You are going to go places. :)

[@lostallsight]

Thelrbe :Marriage isn't a fairy tale. All marriages have problems. Its when you both choose to stick together through better or WORSE. Marriage is the best adventure you could ever take. You"re 16, things will change. You will learn that grown ups are human too... the people you look up to, will one day seem so flawed... But thats all of us. Love and forgiveness will get you through. This video breaks my heart, I am praying for you and anyone that goes through problems in their marriage. I watched my parents go through something I thought I would never see them go through. My world was SHATTERED. My mother told me the only way that they would stay together is if there was a miracle from God. And thats exactly what God gave her. No one saw it coming, but Jesus saves and restores. Satan comes to kill steal and DESTROY. Don't let him. Find your strength in the Lord. Blessings

[@CasperLD]

Yes you are definitely 16

[@TheIrbe]

casperld actually not, yet, 4 november i will be 16.

[@TheHostForMyFolks]

TheIrbe im 17 and i totally agree of course it aint perfect but people dont want to stick through the tough times and many people get lazy is soooooooooooo scary

[@theredshift591]

I have a terrible memory, except for everything bad he did to me. I can’t remember how the fights started, only how abuse he was during them. Not excusing drug use, but sounds like some selective memory going on.

[@igbeudus8474]

Hello someone can help you , he was the one that helped me restore back my broken marriage

[@igbeudus8474]

Whtspp him directly

[@igbeudus8474]

+1(816)-,,,343,,,8307

[@kerrirodrigues4322]

You are so strong! This is came up randomly but I needed this. Drugs have no friends. You and your boys are safe now!

[@andreabeth2352]

I was with my ex-husband for 14 years. We had three amazing children together. He battled addiction and alcoholism off and on during our entire relationship. I tried so many ways to help him and to save our family. He did not want to change. They have to be the ones who want to change for themselves. You did the right thing by leaving. I wish I had ended my marriage sooner. I never thought I'd feel that way. I thought we'd be together forever. I loved him and watched the person I cared so much about completely disappear. It got so bad at the end that he tried to kill me and kill himself twice in front of my children. I brought that up during our divorce hearing. The judge asked him if he had anything to say in defense of himself on that. He simply said "no". I thought for sure he would deny it or at least try to make an excuse for it, but there was just nothing he could say. I was being honest. The judge gave me sole custody of the kids and said he could only see the kids at my discretion. He has not even asked how they were doing, much less tried to see them. He does not pay his child support. He got a job working under the table to avoid that and feed his habits. Sadly, he went to worse drugs. He drank beer, snorted pain pills and did cocaine while we were together. I recently found out that he moved on to heroin. It makes me sad for the life he chose. It makes me sad that addiction took over and stole him from our children. Sometimes leaving is the best thing. You're in my prayers. Stay strong sweetie.

[@leslieangela6217]

:/ post a blog about this. More women and single mothers should here about this behavior and that its more common than people think . I hate how people try to demonize women in custody battles, when its usually the men who end up failing as parents and they refuse to pay child ssupport more often than not. I hope everything goes well from here on out which I'm sure it has been better

[@leslieangela6217]

***** lmfao are you an idiot? Vasectomies are widely known to be reversable and thats why it is encouraged for men to do the procedure versus women undergoeing dangerous procedures. And dont give me that bullshit. Condoms protect against STD's and STI's and are effective 90% of the time if used correctly ("that means you have to take it correctly") lmfao. And yes you guys do feel alot so thats not an excuse to not use it either. If you want to be a bigot, uneducated, and sexist asshole that thinks prevention is solely for women that is your idiotic choice.

[@andreabeth2352]

+MikePeterson Who exactly should be taking this pill? My children were born by choice in a loving marriage. When my husband got caught up with partying with his friends and became an addict it changed everything about him. Not just with me and his children. Even his parents that were fighting cancer, it destroyed their relationship. Having children does not make someone act that way.

[@montyhades]

so people are brave for being with some idiot and even when they know they will not change still be with them?? people call that brave??? wow what a bunch of idiots to think that.. brave is the women or men who think of themselves first and leave those idiots.. those who do that are the brave ones and smart ones...

[@russcd1]

She is a disgrace to her husband proverbs 12:4 He got rid of her according to the bible Proverbs 21:19 The bible has warned men about evil females Proverbs 25:24 We can only hope she is damned to HELL !

[@robinsk5644]

A poem of the heart.... More than life itself, I love you. Beyond your wildest dreams, I love you. When you feel nothing, I love you. When you are depressed and suicidal, I love you. When you cannot face another day, I love you. When you are all alone, I love you. When no one else loves you, I love you. When no one seems to care, I love you. When the tears will not stop flowing, I love you. When there is no hope left, I love you. When you need a friend, I love you. When you need a best friend, I am here. I will never leave you child. I will never forsake you. I will forgive every wrong that you have done. I will overlook all of your mistakes. I will help turn your sorrow into joy. I will forever embrace you and hold you. If you will simply receive Me. ...That's all I ask. -The Lord Jesus Christ

[@brycegeorge841]

Amen!

[@terribowman1035]

So beautiful!

[@wendyraymond8544]

💗💗💗

[@kathybowers9787]

❤️AMEN ❤️

[@vden02]

Absolutely perfect ❤️

[@The1234fanatic]

You are really brave and strong. Thank you for being so open and telling us all your story. So many women can learn from what you went through. Peace be with you sister

[@PsychicMediumSchoolTV]

Your story was amazing. I feel for you. I went through something similar. Somewhere inside he knows that he's lost the best thing that's ever happened to him. He may not saying it. Your kids may miss him some days, but you did the right thing.

[@ricardmike5867]

Hi beautiful. I really like your compliments so nice and love to know you more.

[@5secsofspainx]

why is there so much hate in the comments? I don't understand

[@falkinable]

Yea I shouldn't be surprised... but yet still disappointed at how much hate is in the comments...

[@acuarelacona]

Me neither /:

[@ytgadfly]

because this woman's is trying to profit off suckers who view her vids, did you look at the video description? Its full of ad/paid promo links. She is trying to make a sucker out you and profit off it.

[@meganl3891]

Found the broke guy who can't get a girlfriend!

[@Ddub1083]

The power of the paid promotion... but also the weakness of the paid promotion, since many to whom it was recommended didnt seem to want to see it, and in fact left an incredible amount of hate filled comments lol. They gotta work on the paid promotion... or maybe shes just gotta spend more haha.

[@Ashley-Spillane]

You are strong mama, you're boys are lucky to have you! Hugs!

[@chelsiemay6566]

***** You're right. They would be lucky to have their father. Too bad he made poor decisions and is no longer the type of person that deserves to be a part of his children's lives. I hope that he can turn his life around for their sake but I doubt it.

[@OB1.Benobie]

I myself, I've been on both sides. I've been the addict. I've been the asshole and I've been the one who has gone through exactly what you've been through, struggling with a significant other who struggled and still continues to struggle with meth. I myself, I struggled for 10 years and had a horrible battle against heroin. It was a never ending cycle, one that I really thought I wouldn't make it out alive. I became clean 10/1/07. Throughout that time, I found myself in several different toxic relationships. It was one after another. I chose to get clean after relapsing dozens of times throughout that 10 year period. I lost everything I owned 3 times over. I did prison time and one day I woke up and had enough. I got into rehab after serving a stint in prison and decided to focus on myself. One thing I've learned, you can't beat addiction on your own. It's impossible. You need that structure and foundation to rebuild your own self worth. To be a better Father, a better person, and to become a better productive member of society. I have been clean for almost 14 years now. Within that time, I have gotten married to a person who struggled with alcohol. I broke it off. She got clean and came back to ask for a second chance. I gave her that respect. We had a child and got married and all a sudden. She turned to meth. Unbeknownst to me, I didn't know this, but before we met, She dabbled in crystal meth. She kept that from me. But she started drinking again and she was literally drinking and driving with the children in the vehicle while I was at work. I started getting paranoid about what she was doing around the children and what they were being subjected to, after finding cut straws throughout the house. One day she came home and ran the vehicle into the side of the house and ran into the house to throw up in the bathroom. I went outside to find that her vehicle hit the front porch and it was still on, in drive, while the children were still seat belted in. That day I finally put my foot down. I called the police to remove her from the home. I ended the marriage. I Filed for divorce and custody of our daughter. Our children and I lived through that long enough. I not only had to protect our child, but another child she had to another man. I had to keep them safe. Today, she's still doing the same stuff. I found out last July, she had a friend overdose in her home after her and her boyfriend ran and got them drugs. They tried moving the guy out of their home to drag his lifeless body into the alley to make it appear he died somewhere other than her home. They could've saved this guy's life, but instead, They waited 2 hours before calling the police after they couldn't move the guy far due to his weight. He overdosed on crystal meth and heroin. Then a month later. Her 1 1/2 year old son, climbed out onto their porch roof twice in two weeks. CYS was called. She's on parole for 2 3&4th offense DUI's and a drug sale and two more charges she caught in prison after smuggling drugs into a prison facility. Trust you me, you couldn't make this shit up if you tried. Now I've been fighting through custody the last 4 years. It's been terrible. But I have to do what I have to do, in order to protect these children. I thank God everyday that I was clean and sober when I had my children. I couldn't live with myself having put them through that. But what I was guilty of, is putting up with it from someone else. Trust me, what you did, is what was best for you and those children. You're strong, never settle for less. You protect those kids with everything you have within yourself. You did the right thing, because trust me. It could be a hell of alot worse. I've been on both sides. I lived it and still taking the necessary steps to protect my daughter and her other children. Battling custody is no joke. It's the hardest thing a parent has to go through, and it's even harder for a child. They suffer the most, But it's what you got to do in order to protect them

[@jordanangle9666]

Helluva story you’re a survivor

[@agnespulvera]

It’s been 5 years, I hope you’re doing great now. I’m a mess too and just don’t know what to do.

[@joshuafalade4754]

Trust in a relationship is a great necessity for a long lasting relationship however watching out for red flags at all time is also very important. Trust is hard to earn and very easy to break or lose I still remember how disappointed I was the day I discovered my wife's lie and realised that she had been cheating on me through the help of unlimiteddevicehackers who helped to clone her phone without even touching her phone all I did was gave them her phone number and I got access to her social media handles including her Facebook,Instagram and her text messages I am still deeply hurt but I am happy I have enough evidence to file for a divorce. If you also need some help,contact unlimiteddevicehackers@gmail.

[@agnespulvera]

@@joshuafalade4754 Thank you for sharing your wisdom and advice. But this is not our case. We don't have problems with infidelity. We both have access on our phones and emails. Our problem is I guess culture differences, so different point of views, personalities, etc.. which leads to big fights. Hmm we should be able to figure out what is best for us. Glad to hear you are happy and doing now. I wish you a wonderful day.

[@mackenzienicole3358]

This was such a hard video for her to make... And I'm crying for her reading these comments from asshole trolls just being so mean to her.. God bless you girl

[@age_of_reason]

bitch please. im not even gonna capitalize im sooooo beside myself. buahhaha!!!

[@veryvalie1613]

I find it sexual arousing when I see females crying.

[@age_of_reason]

You're a maniac.

[@vividly94]

When you sit here and have emotions over some random ass person on the internet that you've never known, never seen, and never talked to and you sit here and cry about it - you're probably some crazy, emotional, psycho bitch such as this lady in the video. No wonder you like her, you are just like her. So just like her, fuck off.

[@cajnjules480]

Girl, you are more wise than you give yourself credit for. Lots of us have been in dead marriages for 30 yrs or more. Kudos for you making the decision to get out with your boys when you did. No telling what could’ve happened and I hate to think of what could have. God Bless

[@fall22123]

Someone I know just went through this. From the outside, they seemed like the perfect couple... Anyway, I remember stumbling across this video years ago. Before they could sell the house, they had to pay over $30k to bring in a crew to clean the residue because he had been smoking it inside the house. Sorry to comment on such an old video. I'm glad you're happy now.

[@bernieeod57]

My ex and her daughter were druggies. The over spending, not just on drugs but luxuries one cannot afford and ones drug induced judgment fails to understand. The belief that others owe it to them. Then came the violence. (Her and her daughter on me) Not only the violence but their explanation on how I deserved the violence for not supporting their "Needs". I finally packed up, left, and never returned. Druggies are monsters.

[@miaesther9892]

Hi friend, i really understand how you feel right now, do you really need help to recover your relationship back to you??????

[@miaesther9892]

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[@miaesther9892]

Whatzap him now for help..............

[@miaesther9892]

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[@miaesther9892]

[phone]

[@rtrain67]

I've seen crazy before, don't need to see it again.

[@justinlee8881]

You know that's right. Hope it didn't cost you too much figuring it out.

[@l5llb0b]

CRAZY married me and said I drank too much. I met CRAZY in a bar, go figure... She said I pressured her for sex, but we were celibate before marriage. I coulda hit it if I wanted, but I didn't out of respect for her father as we were at her home.

[@hoodmonk]

rtrain67 I've been in so many relationships with women and the one thing that I have learned (if anything) is that most of them are full of shit, (and I'm sure this woman is no exception to that rule) I'm sure if her "ex" could give his side of the story it would paint a more lucid picture. The fact that she's disrespecting her "ex" by publicly airing their dirty laundry here on Youtub and engaging in this poor me victim porn only underscores her cuntyness. Her ex should think of their divorce as a blessing.

[@gscheben123]

She did that guy the biggest favor leaving him.

[@CraigMansfield]

rtrain67 Aye, once is enough.

[@TheWeazell]

So here is the deal: 1. How can you be so oblivious to his drug abuse? It has clearly been years. 2. What did you do to break him? A man only can withstand so much mindf*ck. Obviously he had a stable job without too much work pressure. No one in his clear mind would think: 'Oh, I should try crystal meth, that sounds like fun!' It seemed like something was missing at home. 3. Have you tried harder to get him into rehab or at least to meetings? Since he was using for a long time you can't just quit. And all that was done to help him was to make him promise and then go through his stuff... Like that would help, smh. Addicts are fragile, only with a sufficient support system they can fight the addiction. They need therapy and people to talk to. Since you still don't know why he even started using it mos def has to do with you.

[@jaydstein]

1. She trusted him. 2. He's a grown-ass-man, you are being ridiculous. 3. You can't help someone when they don't want to be helped.

[@sarahtaylor1954]

1.) If someone does not know much about drugs or their effects, it would be easy to not notice. Probably wouldn't notice until behavior and appearance start changing, and even then you may be in denial. 2.) saying that someone drug use must be someone else's fault is completely laughable. As a former drug addict, it was no one else's fault. Sure I was depressed, but it wasn't any one thing or person. It was my own mental issues. And once you get into it, you can't stop without going through horrible pain, it's a vicious cycle. 3.) Knowing people who have been to rehab seven times and didn't quit until THEY wanted to... Your trust in rehab over individual desire confuses me. You have never been in this situation, you weren't there, you don't know this woman yet you are judging her and how she treated someone you've never met or been privy to.

[@sarahtaylor1954]

And another point, I didn't even fully understand why I did drugs... How in the world could someone who has never been around drugs or addicts understand it?

[@oestrada4586]

You know noting about addiction and drug use. let the grown ups talk

[@sp0rtbilly77]

please educate yourself about drug use

[@nicolettewelch6026]

Oh honey I’m so sorry you had to go through this and your children! My heart is with you stay strong for those kiddos ❤️

[@Brionesweekofeagles]

Thank you for sharing your story. I’m sorry you and your family went through all of that pain. I’m currently going through this with my wife. We have 3 boys together and one day she just got up and left the boys and I. Causing me to quit my job and be a stay at home father. In the beginning she claimed she left because of me and convinced everyone that’s why she took off. I was devastated because she moved right in with some guy. I had suspicions that it was because of drugs. She even told me that she loved him and has seen the boys maybe 16 days in 10 months. A few months ago she admitted she was on meth and now she is saying the drugs have a grip on her. I’ve kept my vows to her and this marriage this whole time. I’m a Christian. She is now saying she wants to be my wife again and wants her family back but she isn’t doing anything to prove that. She’s cried to me and said how much she wants to stop many times but still there is no movement. They are both drug addicts and have nowhere to live. They sleep at hotels and in her car at times. I don’t enable her by any means. I did start the divorce but letting go is still hard because I have this little hope that she will stop the drugs and get clean. Ive learned she needs to want that change. I don’t let her come around our boys because I don’t want anyone on drugs around this family. I explained to her that I would hope she would do the same for me if she was in my position. She’s missed birthdays and our oldest sons first day of school. Slowly I’m gaining the strength and courage to follow through with this divorce, but letting go is the hard part. Despite all of the damage she has caused, I still love that woman unconditionally. Maybe it’s because the thought of starting over or who would ever want to take the responsibility of being a step mother to 3 boys. She took my pride, heart, and confidence when she abandoned us. I have been working on myself and I am feeling better. The pain i have for my boys is unbearable at times. Especially when they ask about her. I wish this pain and devastation on no one. Your video gave me some light in my life and thank you. I tried finding your email but I couldn’t find it. I’m praying for you and your family.

[@buosame737]

He is the best when it comes to recovery ex back💔💔😭

[@buosame737]

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[@nyuh9564]

April anyone? 💀 2019

[@tla5887]

Yep

[@stefanierojas6493]

Baby Yazzy 😂🙋🏻‍♀️

[@toylex]

Yes me!

[@po150pa5]

Ya

[@tre8201]

💀

[@sonjaharris2313]

It takes the wind right out of your sails to have someone who you love choose drugs or alcohol over you. Stat strong and keep your children safe

[@yiruilungpame1924]

Who watching this video in 2022???

[@rahim1404]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feeling's. It certainly helped my friend go through her divorce while watching your story. Truly an inspiring person you are!

[@theamazingchannel470]

I'm a married man and I support this video. And yes, this video does help. It reminds me that my actions affect an entire household and that I can either be a blessing or a curse for my family. It reminds me that being a real man is putting the family and their happiness and well-being first and foremost. To all you little boys trolling...... grow up and act like men!

[@wisetongue]

Agreed! But they will never be men. They will only be trolls in the skin of humans. its part of the problem the planet has. people have forgotten how to put themselves in the shoes of others. The planet has become a cesspool of vanity and other deadly sins.

[@TooMuchMiddle]

How is it that this is one of the only rational, not completely hate filled comments?!?! I'm also a male, and it really saddens me, the hate this poor woman has endured here. All she is doing is trying to shine a light on a terrible situation. Catharsis maybe? I don't know. Either way, I lose so much respect for the male gender every time I visit KZbin and read the comments.

[@TishaPerez214]

+Jesse Smith I think a majority of the comments are from young kids. Under 25 who still have a lot of growing up to do. I'm with you guys. This is real life and posting it on KZbin isn't just about gaining attention or ruining someone. The young ones really think they know it all but I bet it won't be long before we see their names crying on KZbin trying to get emotional support from others that may have been through the same thing. I really think they gave no clue of how their hateful comments can make someone feel. They're the ones looking for attention. They're sick and twisted and immature.

[@aarondeck1884]

Ok, you're stupid too. The guys wife couldn't be bothered with getting her husband help for his addiction because she was too preoccupied being a victim.

[@TishaPerez214]

+Aaron Deck don't assume shit you know nothing about. Stfuda

[@KURDTC0BAlN]

What the hell, I'm in 2019 and i NOW see this?

[@KH-xl5il]

*WELL UR THE ONE WHO FREAKIN WATCHED IT,AND DONT SAY"U WATCHED IT TOO U WANNA KNOW WHY? BECAUSE I CAN*

[@KURDTC0BAlN]

@THANATOS FANATICOS dude i'm just pointing out how i'm getting a recommendation for a video that was years ago, there is literally no reason to get mad here, MATE.

[@zeneca9232]

lol Lolo *what is making you so ragey*

[@KURDTC0BAlN]

@@zeneca9232 just kids who don't belong here (the Internet)

[@zeneca9232]

Yeah, lol. :)

[@queennefratiti69]

I'm just seeing this in 2019. I have lived that life and leaving was the best thing you could do for you and your babies. My son was only 2 when I left (he is almost 21 now) and it was already starting to effect him. It's hard to leave the person you love so much but they are no longer that person. They are a mean selfish version of it and no amount of love and caring will change that. Much love.

[@chrisjohnson2246]

I'm so sorry I know how it feels to be lonely without the person you love, such is life I understand how you feel but life goes on, I lost my wife 3yrs ago to a terrible heart disease, I felt deeply devastated with grief, but that's the past now, time is indeed the best healer I'd love to talk to you more if you don't mind it'd be nice if you just say hi here is my number [phone]

[@jamesmcgill506]

I put up with a very dysfunctional so-called family for way too long. I lost so much for decades and dealt with a lot of issues that are solely mine but I know where its from. God bless you and your boys. It takes a strong resolve to do the right thing and not let the druggie/drunk get you down. I became a drunk because of the crap in my childhood, just celebrated 42 years of sobriety, now 65 yr old but what a horrible mess that even sober I was put through hell. Don't do that, break clean restart your life and live it. This guy is in total denial and probably if a speed freak he has less than a few years left. Don't get dragged down because of it. I ran into to video but pure luck, usually don't like getting into these issues but thought I would comment nonetheless.

[@deliciousdiva5400]

This is grief. You lost your husband. His body is there but the entity inside is something else. I pray you're all better now.

[@MrRobertmwright]

Wow. I've never heard it said like that. " The entity in side him is something else". So true!!! Thank you

[@alycefleck985]

You are a beautiful soul I feel bad for you and your boys but sweetheart keep your head up you are a beautiful woman and you will find a good man eventually I will keep you in my prayers

[@Aeon1019]

Deliciousdiva5 YES, AMEN *Addiction IS a DEMON*

[@Aeon1019]

Robert Wright I Call them *THE WALKING DEAD* .... sad

[@mramerica6229]

THE ENTITY INSIDE. HAHA HAHA HAHA. DO YOU DO DRUGS

[@IIIspirit]

why you tube said i wanna watch such videos?

[@kwahlman]

Based on what you previously have watched? If it isn't you can correct KZbin by saying you aren't interested.

[@IIIspirit]

so i watch strategy game lets plays. Maybe You tube thinks divorce is a strategy game? Oki i look how to tell YT what i like watching then, thx for the tip

[@kwahlman]

IIIspirit No, KZbin doesn't think a strategy game is the same. Press "not interested" and "tell us why" and it will tell you what video triggered this.

[@IIIspirit]

hey great found the button. Interestingly there was no other video shown that relates, so maybe google tries something out on this one.

[@tjsfireball]

google has been testing new software.. same with google maps, if it doesn't have enough data on certain areas, it will take you through those areas to get more information even though it's not the fastest route. they are trying to see if people will notice and if they can change what people watch/are interested in. Same with facebook and twitter.

[@whitewolf6730]

Bless your heart! Just discovered you today. Been studying for the last few months on various marital breakup reasons. Terribly saddens me! Hard to watch your statement. Wish I could have given you a big hug and made lasagne for you and your kids or something....I will subscribe to your channel, I am a Christian, married, but I for some reason the last year have seemed to encounter lots of these sad situations. Most recent was infidelity, but I know substance abuse is a bad one! Whether alcohol or hard drugs. I do not drink, smoke, nor do I even think about abusing prescriptions of any sort. I hope you keep to your wise path of no “Substances”. God bless you Sweetie!!💫❤️

[@igbeudus8474]

Hello why havent you contacted dr tuda who helpe dme get my ex back recently without stress and delay

[@igbeudus8474]

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[@rossmorebaz]

anybody who has been through an abusive relationship and then divorce will understand completely .. I see the pain in your eyes and i can feel and understand what you have been through coz ive been through it myself .. Thank you for making this and im so sorry about what you went through ...Hope you are doing well now X sending you and your kids lots of hugs and prayers and love.. You are Beautiful and strong and I hope you find someone who deserves you X