Divorced Couple Looks At Their Wedding Photos

In 2016, over 800,000 couples divorced in the US. How many of them stay friends?
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[@princetonshot]

She looks like she has been crying so hard before they turned the cameras on

[@lrmcdaleno3301]

Sally May hes like meh , and just nervous to see the women still loves him.. in his little mind thinking lets get this over with

[@moinakbhattacharya878]

That's very correct, woman's voice and eyes never lie

[@kat-yi4fd]

Sally May I feel bad for her. She probably told her herself to get it over with and tried to stay strong.

[@moonstone_motivation]

This breaks my heart

[@bobaroo11]

In her voice you can tell

[@rayasvoicepudding2257]

She sounded like she's trying to convince herself that she's ok.

[@adrianoricafort503]

💔💔💔

[@user-xy7le4nb1p]

*But she's not*

[@zaifitzgerald2734]

She still loves him

[@Sarah-eh7bw]

I dunno, some things are both upsetting and ok/bearable at the same time. She’s still mourning the life she imagined she’d have with him, but I don’t get the impression she truly regrets the split.

[@zee5057]

Her expression and the way she talk... she wanted to burst in her emotions but want to keep them.

[@chioniwilliams8]

This lady is still clearly in love with him... you can see it in the way she looks at him

[@lise-annedore8935]

He teary also. I wonder...

[@howcomeihavesubs]

True

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

You can see how she's Suffering!! Not a good idea!! Make NEW friends!

[@pc9467]

@@lise-annedore8935 I wonder too. I think it's about re-establishing a connection, but the connection never really left.

[@MsTinkerbelle87]

That’s how it is sometimes:( you’re soulmates but living together just doesn’t work.

[@mattkinsella9856]

This was difficult to watch because of how much she still clearly loves this dude. He needs to realize it's not easy finding someone who would still look at you the way she does, despite everything.

[@torrellallen3165]

Or maybe she needs to realize that maybe he just isn’t the one for her, and instead of sobbing over him, she should find someone who is as much in love with her as she is with him. And ik it’s easier said than done, but it’ll only make it harder the more you stay stuck in the past

[@tromboner6061]

Pretty sure if the divorce was initiated by the woman, people would still be blaming the man

[@licioussamuels]

There's a reason behind the divorce.. that guy didn't just wake up and decided to kick her out.. y'all gonna sit here and act like she's an angel sdupid beta ferggots

[@wildhonorablerose4249]

@@torrellallen3165 he needs to realise what he said and she needs to realise what you said

[@sothathappened]

he doesn't need to look at his life through the lens of YOUR opinion. he doesn't need to realize anything. it's HIS LIFE.

[@TheRamon81]

She looks like she’s been through some things since the marriage.

[@cann4222]

Definitely. Shes changed so much physically from the wedding pictures to now. She looked a lot better back then. Not so much now. Hope she is ok

[@Utubebieber96]

It’s chemo, you can tell 🥺

[@user-go4sh1rv5l]

TheRamon81 yeah I seen that right off the bat and my heart shattered. She’s really beautiful and needs another light go fulfill her darkness.

[@youtoo2233]

She's probably more emotionally distraught than anything which often leads to people not taking care of themselves as good

[@melodiechartier5173]

You Too its not about not taking care of herself she look sick, she might have other preoccupation then looking good...

[@ElphieMusicChannel]

She’s struggling not to fall apart through this entire thing :(

[@lorisol8132]

LeahBeth Evans Ikr. It was so hurtful to see that..

[@GiveGodtheGlory2]

Absolutely.

[@ausetlashes4243]

Exactly she even complimented him but he didn’t do the same.

[@jessemwakajumba9582]

He effed up. You can tell she absolutely adored him and wouldve stuck it out.

[@ellesreviews8367]

Painful.

[@BinaryTechnique]

Bruh I literally shed tears for this woman. You can feel her pain through the screen...damn that was intense. O'Lord have mercy on me and never let me hurt someone like this

[@sinabagherisarvestani8924]

damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ? The problem is girls have too much rights , that is the main problem I think and its the elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about

[@kontessadous8397]

Such a lovely thing to say! I was expecting to read “oh god please don’t let this happen to me”, but no! I’m sure that you won’t and even if you do, you will be be extra careful with handling it, and that’s because you’re already worried of hurting the feelings of another human being!! I may not believe, but God bless you!!

[@georgiadevero355]

@@sinabagherisarvestani8924 It's because we don't have enough, but boys have too many.

[@sarahhobson5263]

This poor woman, you can tell she truly cares for him even still. I pray she gets the man she deserves.

[@Lalo-dh8xq]

Same for him.

[@rajeshmishra6852]

She won’t

[@LKARYA-gu9hg]

And he too deserves someone who has time for the relationship🥺

[@sinabagherisarvestani8924]

damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ?

[@EmilyGloeggler7984]

It’s up to her and if she or he doesn’t want anyone else, you should respect that.

[@ccmania473]

I am terrified of being with someone for so long only to have them fall out of love with me...

[@karenalejandro3585]

CC Mania we never really fall out of love per se’, one simply just stops trying to find or look at the things that make them in love in the first place. Love is a choice you make everyday and if that person you were with says they have ‘fallen out of love’ it simply means they are done choosing to love you everyday.

[@laurelmatson1766]

Karen Alejandro Exactly, love is a choice, not a feeling.

[@DrNiloufarhayath]

Laurel Matson man , yes

[@trnigyul]

Happened to me after 12 years , the hard part is I loved him the same and was extremely happy in my marriage. The pain is THE worse...but life goes on, slowly but surely Im getting there, I am wayy too fine to waste on solitude.

[@user-xx4np7kr7e]

Omg me too I am crying

[@601jone]

Shes clearly still in love with the guy.

[@timtim9404]

@Mohamed Saad username checks out

[@solprevendido5764]

@Mohamed Saad no one arguing you here man...what happened to you? Haha

[@natalieperalta9113]

Mohamed Saad LMFAOOOOOOOO who broke your little heart

[@loidawhee2772]

Mohamed Saad what’s wrong with you...

[@stephanieu5817]

Mohamed Saad What does that “fact” have to do with this relationship?

[@grateful1929]

I literally feel her heartache. I went through this also. 😢I had 3 children and 20 years of marriage with him. He left me for his mistress. That was 23 years ago. It still hurts at times but not as bad.

[@sinabagherisarvestani8924]

damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ? The problem is girls have too much rights , that is the main problem I think and its the elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about , ya some guys are cheaters and they have like a 100 girlfriends but its rare , girls are usually to blame , girls complain too much , stop complaining man , life is hard . Much respect to the guy and former husband in the video, what a great couple , wtf would you break up ? its cleat that she isn't in love with him but his in love with her , again its the girls fault

[@untitle161]

I’m sorry that happened to you.

[@abdullahal-shimri3091]

He’ll leave the mistress too.

[@TheBoneVampire]

This is why I quit being a wedding photographer after 10 years. Half my couples kept getting divorced, and I spent a lot of time with them and their stories of love. Then I’d hear their stories of falling out of love. Over time I thought my job was becoming pointless, then I slowly begin to hate it, hate the wedding days. And no couple deserves that. The last straw was when one of my cards malfunctioned and the couple wanted to sue me because I lost like 10 minutes of their precious day. Fast forward to now, they are divorced. So I guess I don’t have to feel guilty anymore. Present day… i shoot real estate, and it pays the bills! No drama with couples and their families. A much better fit for me. 😊

[@stankssmile5865]

Emotions hormones and commitments are temporary, human ability to promise and commit itself is flawed

[@WhiteRabbitDreams]

Just a suggestion, but maybe not keep up with the couples you photographed? Maybe just think of their wedding shoot as their happy day and leave it at that?

[@sophietucker3163]

@@WhiteRabbitDreams yeah I was thinking the same? I have never met a wedding photographer who gets personally involved with clientele....just stay professional, right? And move on...

[@pearlsswine]

You were hired to take wedding photos and you lose them? Smdh. Just go back to being a McDonald's cashier. Never mind, you'll probably end up losing all the money in the cash register.

[@Scrapbooking.CreativeMemories]

😮

[@maysamohammed5840]

The way she was holding her tears was painful to watch, this is actually heartbreaking.

[@ghazalburhani]

Yeah

[@aashrayaumakanth22]

Yeah. The whole time she looked like she was about to burst into tears... Painful to watch 😢

[@ChaN-ks3ov]

She is already teary-eyed and red nose. I couldn’t just hold my tears watching her.

[@LauraLopez-jr4ie]

She has noone in this life, and her drunkard husband left her too

[@manny7318]

I watched this just screaming to myself, 'You idiot, can't you see how much she cares for and loves you?!' It'll hit him one day if it hasn't already. By then it will be too late.

[@taylorjenkins4517]

She looks like she just did the divorce so she wasn't stuck with someone who no longer wanted to be married to her. Her eyes are full of pain. His demeanor is totally different.

[@lizachitwood3369]

Darkstroy 2099 what a jerk thing to say !!

[@JG-tk7cn]

This was a depressing video to watch, but I did LOL at this comment.

[@clip012]

There are pain in her eyes. I was recently dumped like bad fruit after 11 years of on and off relationship. I am teary only by looking at her.

[@tfk5566]

clip012 Im so sorry :( After such a long time, its so hard they knew so much about you, events that happend bonded you, dreams built together, etc etc. The pain is not comparable to other relationships, and you will sort of look for that person in others. It will take such a long time to get used to. But I can promise, once you get over it, you are no longer affected, the pain somehow disappears, and you will find a strength you never knew. You can love again but this time, you will love deeper. Focus on your mistakes, improve them. Take the time to see things from a different perspective. Turn to Knowledge to better yourself. What is a mature person? When is it ok to be angry? If youre a believer in God, turn to Him. I did. Sometimes, my past comes back unexpectedely, randomly, but it doesnt leave me in pain. I just see how much i have changed and i know that person cannot hurt me anymore. Life has taken me in another direction. It took me a solid year and half to finally be free from suffering. I was left. I was broken. And I rebuild myself. Mostly alone. You can too. I wrote this to you, so you know you are not alone, and what youre going through you will overcome maybe not today, maybe in a year or 2. But you will and you choose who you become. You choose how the pain molds you. I wish you the best and wait for you to one day be free like many of us.

[@jakeoswald8017]

Taylor K completely true and very sad. Often divorce isn’t wanted by both parties (obviously)

[@crystallyzert148]

Leaves his wife heartbroken... leans on her to get thru the divorce.. lol

[@rantsandfaves]

That's just Cruelty

[@rflo458]

I thought that too. She didn't get the opportunity to have a clean break when he turned to her when he couldn't cope and hit 'drank too much'. They both need a clean break. Tbh, I wonder if either of them can move on after what I've observed.

[@sinabagherisarvestani8924]

damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks

[@miranda13c]

@@rflo458 Yea I agree. There’s so reason for them to get close again as “friends” now after being divorced and apart for an assumingely long amount of time. That’s just asking to make everything messier than it already is and unnecessary pain for the both of them.

[@tromboner6061]

This comment has the same vibe as "she used me as a friend and now she wont even sleep with me. this is betrayal." What do you mean by "leaves his wife heartbroken"?? No one should have to stay in a suffering relationship because the other person loves them. It's literally called emotional abuse. If she is heartbroken, she should have put more effort into the marriage. Everyone is entitled to their choices.

[@loisprince9013]

she deserves nothing but happiness. this was so sad.

[@sinabagherisarvestani8924]

damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ? The problem is girls have too much rights , that is the main problem I think and its the elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about , ya some guys are cheaters and they have like a 100 girlfriends but its rare , girls are usually to blame , girls complain too much , stop complaining man , life is hard . Much respect to the guy and former husband in the video, what a great couple , wtf would you break up ?

[@daustin8888]

You didn't need to add anything after the first words

[@lev2914]

Awwe she can't even look at him...

[@God_For_A_Reason]

@Happy Panda gotta be some high quality marijuana

[@mikaku]

OK I'm heading home to hug my wife

[@emmaothorell]

That's the best comment on here

[@mkvgovernorrecords8642]

Good luck

[@AP-jg1mh]

mikaku please cherish her 😭

[@yzkehelabrahams]

🤧👏👏

[@alexandrahuertagzz3798]

Yes!

[@NM-zh3ee]

“We didn’t feel married we felt like roommates.” Then date each other again and ignite the spark again. Sounds like he got lazy and gave up and she’s still so hurt. She deserves better.

[@blessa9182]

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[@blessa9182]

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[@blessa9182]

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[@blessa9182]

He is indeed a problem solve contact him!!

[@josiecat8080]

Agreeed

[@Celestial710]

My husband divorced me one month ago after 11 years together and I feel this is me now. I feel so broken and let down for someone who I have always been there for and supported.

[@charelynmullaneda3018]

Im sending my virtual hug for you ❤️ everything will going to be all right may not be now but soon 😊

[@Celestial710]

@@charelynmullaneda3018 Thank you

[@competenceinmotion6426]

Are you sure?

[@solegonz762]

May your next chapter be very kind. Make sure to be ginger with yourself. Hope your feel these virtual hugs!

[@Celestial710]

@@solegonz762 Thank you

[@radiiantstarr1801]

She looks so defeated 😔

[@elizabethfuller5508]

Ramona Ramdin-Mercedes 😞😞😞😞

[@juliennedelfin]

'cause she was the one inlove :(

[@juliashireen6195]

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@indiaa.110]

She looks really Bad

[@Alien_civilizations]

This girl cried shitless before this show started airing. I feel so much sympathy for her, who suggested this video to me? Now I i've one more soul I'm feeling sympathy on

[@treasurem2491]

Man😣

[@aphroditevlugh7431]

😭😭 this made me cry also

[@refilwemay8138]

😂

[@latishamitchell52]

@@refilwemay8138 Oh

[@DK1original]

She doesn’t seem okay

[@allthingsnu4673]

What really stands out to me is that when he proposed to her he said, "I want to spend the rest of my life with you" and then later divorced her instead of working to fix whatever was wrong in the relationship. Lots of people say the words, "I want to spend the rest of my life with you" when they should really add "as long as I feel like it" or "as long as you're still attractive to me" or whatever because that is what is really in their heart that they aren't saying. They both seem like really sincere people who care for each other but I think she cares more. He threw her a curve ball and it doesn't seem like she did anything to warrant it - now she's left with all of the emotions to deal with. I don't think it's healthy for her to try to maintain a friendship with him because she seems to still love him and would reconcile if he wanted to. If there's no chance of him sincerely wanting to reconcile and stay with her, I think she should move on and find new people. Seeing the date of this video, hopefully she has by now.

[@1969bogdi]

Exactly! You can’t be friends if you still love him

[@stankssmile5865]

This is why the futility of hormones and emotions not long lasting with partners baffles us, it's a special Kind of craptastic reality different from friendships and family relationships turning sour, nothing lasts forever that's why our ancestors made stronghold rules for marriage

[@jmc8076]

Nobody gets married with the idea of potentially divorcing (well maybe the wealthy and famous) but we’re human not prefect and life and people change. It would be more cruel to stay pretending he feels the way she does. More fair and easier on both to let go at least for 6mths to heal esp her.

[@rnlocsjackson9280]

Marriage isn't all about love. There are times when love will not be enough. Thats when commitment, loyalty, and the promises you made before God and witnesses come in.

[@mehrozzafar7368]

Thats absolutely correct

[@jasondias7011]

💯

[@dyahkurniawan1970]

I like this words..

[@rabeccawandira190]

That's so true. It was so dissapointing to hear him say that work got in the way and they rarely saw each other that's why they fell out of love.

[@jonnapouncey98]

Yes, I’ve always said this.

[@sarahp1996]

That kiss on the cheek at the end, I felt her heart crack 💔😭

[@vanessamartinez4232]

I could have never done that. It broke my heart in pain only by seeing her do that 💔

[@siennaxoxo329]

Same 🤤😭😟

[@rflo458]

@The Meek? How did you come to that conclusion?

[@furyroad028]

@@rflo458 bcoz mostly women cheat . she looks like someone who is regretting of what she did . just to not damage her image , he might have not told about the cheating story here and also his the reason he told for divorce doesnt seem legit.

[@rflo458]

@@furyroad028 Do you have a specific article you can refer to in order to back up your point regarding women cheating more than men; I would like to read further into that. Regarding this couple, if she cheated, I doubt he would do a joint video or meet up with her. I'm sure he'd be more angry and dismissive if she had indeed do that, but at this point it's mere speculation.

[@Tracy_Motel]

That lady. I can tell shes tearing inside and my heart just broke.

[@thisaccisuseless9010]

Ikr

[@bustydusty4473]

The dude as well

[@alfonsodiaz434]

So damn hard to watch this

[@samd8100]

Shabby Dawson Are you related to Shane?

[@ferdynand2402]

Yes I felt that too :(

[@joycemaynard2519]

This is sad. Why go through this moment? She looks terribly sad.

[@alaaaaa4132]

The sad reason is all for him, she still wants him even if only a friend.

[@sinabagherisarvestani8924]

damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ? The problem is girls have too much rights , that is the main problem I think and its the elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about , ya some guys are cheaters and they have like a 100 girlfriends but its rare , girls are usually to blame , girls complain too much , stop complaining man , life is hard

[@mrcupcake5309]

My wife recently left me, the amount of pain you feel and attempting to keep your composure is the hardest thing ever.

[@katydid1600]

Mr. Cupcake, Once you come out on the other side of the pain, it really does get better. But it's not overnight.

[@supermushroom3175]

I feel your pain. I'm 39 and my partner of 5 years left me. It's almost been a year. It's gotten better but I sometimes still wake up in the middle of the night where a rush of memories flood my mind and I go into a panic. It's a hard road but someway or another we must accept our new reality and realize that we must not be dependant on someone else for our happiness.

[@mandyellis876]

I’m so sorry for your loss and I wish you all the best moving forward.

[@taniskaborah4564]

Hold tight.. Things will get better ❤️

[@Destiny-hm3fy]

Try strippers club

[@LoomGeek]

You'll never know the value of someone unless you lose them. This was so meaningful.

[@G_Lady]

You actually know... You just didn't know you'll lose them.

[@notjin2109]

that’s not what this vid is about though

[@anitawong139]

Truth 👍

[@___honey]

Loom Geek t

[@hamatee3175]

Loom Geek That doesn’t apply to my dad. He had a domestic violence incident with my mom and they don’t get along.

[@denysemcalister7082]

She is clearly devastated by the breakdown of her marriage...poor thing

[@glamgirl7779]

denyse mcalister I know poor girl 😭

[@SCG08]

This experiment was just torture for her :'(

[@victoriasvanity1644]

Heartbreaking to see the emotional pain she was feeling show through her every move and expression. 😢

[@homemovies1961]

its seemed like he had to chase her, and he grew on her over time. then once they were married her love kept growing and his diminish SAD :(

[@dab0331]

homemovies1961 she probably became more demanding because she wasn't truly attracted to him. That's what

[@banjotiki3910]

Bro, stuff like this convinces me everyday that I never want to be in a relationship.

[@michaweir3372]

He is too impulsive. Proposal came quick, then wanting a divorce. Better off without him. He’s too selfish.

[@MaryJane-tp3qd]

Seems like it huh but they where married for ten years..

[@garywarnick4288]

Two to make 1, 2 to break 1.

[@mandyellis876]

@@MaryJane-tp3qd or they were living in the same house for 10 years

[@esthellakomerl8084]

Yes.. Agreed

[@bogusmcbogus2637]

Your comment about a total stranger is too impulsive. Whoever you're with is better off without you. You're too selfish.

[@Jessicasouterspace]

She said I don’t have a lot of people, I don’t wanna lose this 😭😭😭😭

[@dl5fse990]

Seidy l.p. Yeah dude, I don’t have a lot of friends, so even if things get bad I can just move on and forget because if I don’t then I won’t find other people

[@LM-li7pd]

I know right! I want to volunteer to be her friend. 😭

[@scaryonline]

Jessica K i dont have either

[@scaryonline]

Jessica K lol

[@Anonymousey44]

Seidy l.p. same

[@amstevens23]

She's broken, she looks hurt. 😢💔

[@yeezy5333]

Simp

[@zee5057]

Extremely.... base on her physical appearance and the way she talks.

[@abdullahal-shimri3091]

She's shattered inside

[@kiitsune4]

@@yeezy5333 why? She’s sad she’s still shuttered inside

[@casualb3at534]

So basically he didn’t even try to make it work. So rather than get another job that could save the marriage settle for a divorce. Mmmmmm lame.

[@mrjanssen3856]

Lame for real....

[@momo23461]

He basically said he just didn't want to try anymore in the marriage. also he proposed at a concert when he was drunk like bruhhh 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️😫

[@treetop2842]

Indeed.

[@ryokohonda4619]

To be fair she doesn't deserve him

[@weatherboy2965]

Ikr it’s not that hard to get another job with different hours

[@rubynoordermeer6787]

“I proposed after one to many drinks” Ouch

[@momo23461]

Exactly what I said yikes 😬

[@steffigavin9152]

Yeah. That was very telling.

[@sinabagherisarvestani8924]

damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ? The problem is girls have too much rights , that is the main problem I think and its the elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about , ya some guys are cheaters and they have like a 100 girlfriends but its rare , girls are usually to blame , girls complain too much , stop complaining man , life is hard . Much respect to the guy and former husband in the video

[@gurdi]

She looks and sounds as if she was on the verge of crying at any moment during the whole video

[@darrylthompson7509]

I think she cried before she got there I can tell.

[@donovandawkins2608]

She did cry but that's what happens when you sleep around after work unfortunately

[@jessicamerced9116]

It really breaks my heart when two people divorce but only one of them wanted it 😔 Edit: Wow thanks for all the likes y'all. I came back to this video because I remembered how deep it hit me. I'm not married and my parents are still together so I've never experienced a divorce but this video, still, makes me cry like a baby.

[@lalagirl211]

Jessica Leon Thats why i nvr ever will marry someone Kids is okay but kids can make you miserable too

[@CharXALaMode]

😔😔😔

[@demilevine2458]

I Am Happy And I Deserve It loool, what a funny way to put it

[@thelorax2908]

@@lalagirl211 This is why I'm planning on *never* having kids or getting married. That's my decision. I'm OK with dying alone lmao

[@cimbrito]

@@lalagirl211 You are talking about misery but you seem pretty miserable yourself what's the point on going on with life? I mean for what do you live your days for? I am not trying to be mean just want to understand your point of view.

[@N5692233]

It didn’t need to end. He gave up too fast

[@LauraLopez-jr4ie]

Yep. And he is a raging drunk.

[@Lalo-dh8xq]

@@AR-pv6fvI understood the entire story in 3 minutes. Yeah that's not how things work.

[@tromboner6061]

I won't judge him from a 5 minute video. Moreover we never know how things were. NO ONE SHOULD STAY IN AN ABUSIVE OR SUFFERING MARRIAGE. He could have cheated but he broke up 👍🏻. Moreover comments are against him from women cuz they empathise with the lady's tears n cuz they are taking this personally. However, women divorce for frivolous reasons allll the time

[@sinabagherisarvestani8924]

damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ?

[@jerryprice9573]

@@sinabagherisarvestani8924 why are you posting comments everywhere like a bot

[@caligal2010]

She needs to move on and stop seeing him, stop talking to him, grow her hair out again, put on makeup, and go out for a drink. She needs to stop loving him because she still does :(

[@CLee-oo9yl]

Very obvious that she does, but sometimes there's nothing you can do about it. Sometimes you carry a torch for someone for the rest of your life

[@mairinmazzieshearysmith6642]

Why does she need to grow her hair out and wear make up?

[@caligal2010]

@@mairinmazzieshearysmith6642 because that will make her feel better and lift her spirits. She is in depression and she needs to let him go and move on.

[@blipflipped6680]

I so agree. Complete No Contact is the ONLY way she will truly heal and move on, day by day, little by little. The more you stick with No Contact, promising to yourself to NEVER break it under any circumstances unless you have kids together, the less your heart will hurt, and the less you want to be around your ex (think of your ex like a cocaine addiction - cocaine is not good for your body, being around your ex is in most cases not good for you, you'll get hooked on them, anxiety and sadness will consume you,band who wants that?). My ex is still one of my best friends. I am healed. We just talked a week ago, and I felt nothing but peace, because I went no contact and healed. You HAVE to take care of yourself.

[@bibinthomas5282]

@@caligal2010 so u clearly said she's unattractive,can y'all please stop intruding in other people's life

[@zahraali7905]

It seems like she never wanted the divorce but he was ok with it . That is real painful

[@arsalan12345678910]

Yeah exactly, If you have someone that loves you your suppose to stay and you fix what there is with each other. Thats what a true man would do.....Only reason would be he wanted to be with other women.

[@safiya1363]

Onion Face I noticed that too actually Though it’s sad to say, she probably is better off without him

[@tumadre9689]

maybe he was just nervous?

[@asmrlacedwithpearls4310]

Or maybe we don't knowing anything about their 10 year marriage based on a 4 minute video???

[@nocomment3677]

Yeah I got the impression that it was one of those "grass is greener on the other side" type of things for him. 'This isn't good anymore so it needs to end altogether' as opposed to 'this isn't so good anymore so it needs to change.' Sucks cause she sounds like she was blindsided by it. Many people give up easily not realizing that all relationships will ebb and flow and at times need more effort than others to be fulfilling. But as long as there's still real affection there, which it seems like there is, then it can be improved.

[@makwandeizipho950]

She was glowing before marriage. The divorce broke her so bad. I wish she could pick her beautiful self up and let him go

[@FransceneJK98]

Yea she hasn’t aged well.

[@metsl1870]

@@FransceneJK98 supermarket? all

[@metsl1870]

@@FransceneJK98 at all

[@rabeccawandira190]

Me too

[@sandramalone3522]

I totally agree.

[@Andysaid420]

You shouldn't be friends with the person who broke your heart and wasted 10 years of your life.

[@LCmonman]

Exactly! They don’t deserve to have your friendship

[@kristinaz1003]

Exactly!!!

[@carolnahigian9518]

exactly- be glad

[@kaleycooper9111]

Im not fully with you. I don’t think they should hate each other or that she should spend the rest for her life resenting him. That’s not a healthy mind set to have and I think as long as both people have moved on, yes, they can still be good friends. Sadly, in this video you can see she still clearly hasn’t moved on and at times like these I do condone complete separation. Friendship can’t work if you hide your emotions.

[@understandthat9817]

I wouldn't say Wasted, I've been in Relationships that didn't work out but I wouldn't say they was wasted years, We had Fun and Great Times and I truly loved some of them just because I didn't end up being with them Forever doesn't mean it was Wasted. I'm Happier Now and in Very Deep Love but My Relationships before helped me get here and I thank them for the Learning Expierience. I guess you either become Jaded or Move on and Learn from your Experiences, sometimes you have to change the vision of a "Perfect Relationship" in your head in order to truly be Happy.

[@masochistic_lele4414]

Honestly this situation makes me frustrated like he and her got together because he pursued her and then made her feel so important to him just for him to be like peace And when she said she wanted to do this to save their friendship I’m just like girl stay away from this man

[@nehachatlani]

She still really loves him and it shows! 😢

[@marli8907]

It does. He walked away because he didn't wanna put in the work. Then he nearly killed himself with alcohol and came back for her to pick up the pieces but didn't even care enough to love her again...

[@nicoletaraiu1316]

Exactly 😭

[@tontosx3]

You can love somebody but still have to walk away....

[@Idk910]

Marlissa Cunningham as a guy looking from a guy’s perspective... you’re still right 😂

[@hyacinthdibley2420]

I think they BOTH still have feelings for EACH OTHER!!! OR rather, they still romantically love each other. Like it was said above, maybe the work needs to be put in.

[@abbycadabbie]

One of the most psychologically damaging things someone can experience is being rejected from someone you care so much about. I can literally feel the pain she feels rn and it sucks.

[@howcomeihavesubs]

Ikr I feel like I was about to cry as she was holding back tears

[@leenbee17]

It's something I've been through. I feel for her!

[@r.balasubramaniam682]

True.. they say rejection causes traumatic experience

[@hrtlsbstrd]

When you really care about someone, you can understand their need to end a relationship that’s not working for them, even though it hurts. When you want someone to be with you even though it’s bad for them, that’s not caring for them, that’s selfishly wanting them.

[@nanyummyify]

Ikr it's awful. awful. She didn't even like him at first and he's the one that ended it 😩! He seems like a decent dude but I really feel like there marriage could have work if some adjustments were made before they divorced based off of what he shared.

[@CarsonBobo]

This makes me appreciate that my parents are still together. For anyone out there who may have parents who are divorced or have been divorced yourself, my heart goes out to you and I hope things are as good as they can be.

[@sinabagherisarvestani8924]

damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ? The problem is girls have too much rights , that is the main problem I think and its the elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about , ya some guys are cheaters and they have like a 100 girlfriends but its rare , girls are usually to blame , girls complain too much , stop complaining man , life is hard . Much respect to the guy and former husband in the video, what a great couple , wtf would you break up ? its cleat that she isn't in love with him but his in love with her , again its the girls fault

[@peterkorpotkin6320]

Having such flimsy reasons to end a marriage, I feel sorry for the society

[@DXmYb]

Society finished long ago. The "adults" of today have no savings and are divorced.

[@delishme2]

I'm sure there is a lot more to it. They weren't communicating, they weren't prioritising each other. They no longer felt Important to each other. Resentments built, they stopped trying. There is a lot not being said, clearly.

[@sinabagherisarvestani8924]

damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ? The problem is girls have too much rights , that is the main problem I think and its the elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about , ya some guys are cheaters and they have like a 100 girlfriends but its rare , girls are usually to blame , girls complain too much , stop complaining man , life is hard . Much respect to the guy and former husband in the video, what a great couple , wtf would you break up ?

[@delishme2]

@@sinabagherisarvestani8924 Girls have too much rights ??? Wtf 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@ttownsupreme2183]

@@sinabagherisarvestani8924 Elaborate on what you mean by too many rights?

[@roentgen822]

Props to them for wanting to maintain a relationship, let alone sharing it to other people.

[@dontreadmypicture8003]

🌵🌱🌵 Don't Look At My Name 🌵🌱🌵

[@lol-wu2jl]

roentgen6 ik

[@aidansalmon2273]

roentgen6 I

[@gosiagoralka]

roentgen6 especially if they have kids together that’s the best thing they could have done ✅

[@behappy5869]

David Suave you have a generic channel, spice it up man

[@JOKE485]

She still loves him so much it even hurt me

[@mapuanindigenous3982]

JOKE485 Shut up hahah

[@meediaabid8737]

JOKE485 true :(

[@nea5254]

same heck

JOKE485 he still does too

[@prettykowaas5019]

Yea right 😔

[@anishkumar2972]

The lady deserves someone who is genuine and is mature, someone who understands staying with the same person for a lifetime needs good amounts of sacrifice from both sides, pray she finds what she deserves

[@alaaaaa4132]

Pray we all do.

[@rickoshay5525]

What does she deserve?

[@sinabagherisarvestani8924]

damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ?

[@alleyogut369]

It’s not so much the separation from the person that hurts later down the line, it’s the loss of connections and life spent with someone who is gone. Memories just vanish, never to be spoken about again.

[@ccMomOfJays]

Agree

[@amandavierling6305]

Yes. All those mutual connections that get broken or faded. They hurt almost as much as anything else.

[@oaktree1626]

I agree. My wife was my best friend and I think of all the jokes and laughter and goofy things we did with one another. Now it's gone because she left me and decided she wasn't "in love" with me anymore. It sucks.

[@blueseptember2174]

@@oaktree1626 me too.he still loves but I not in love with me. After 13 years. And I was a good spouse.

[@user-ib6do7hb7d]

I feel so bad for her... she seems so broken and still in love... sad

[@prettykowaas5019]

I agree

[@Yvaine63]

I know I went through same thing you can see the hurt in her face

[@swornimshrestha4335]

Ameenah Habibi why just her?

[@suranmichonne9519]

Ameenah Habibi Don't make it about just her, he's clearly heartbroken too. Just cuz she's a woman she gets the special treatment, huh?

[@swornimshrestha4335]

Suran Michonne i guess they think boys dont feel anything.

[@jimmitheflowerhornandfrien1547]

Wow! The pain in her face and eyes is so strong 😢 I feel so bad for her. This is way too soon to have done this. Her heart is still very much in love with him.

[@chelseajohnson173]

Kimberly Binion I know I thought she was gonna break down while looking at their wedding pictures :( my heart hurts for her

[@ILik3PH0T0]

As a guy I can tell this dude is going throught complete hell, that kiss in the end isnt intentional its necessary for him. He literally cant help it.

[@jimmitheflowerhornandfrien1547]

I hope they can figure out a way to work this out. They should honestly try to fix the problems instead of give up on each other.

[@bigswaggy298]

Mark Torrez I'm surprised he didn't get a sexual assault charge

[@mpumemsomi]

Awww she's definitely been crying 💔💔💔 I hate the fact that people divorce for a rough patch. Marriage comes with ups and downs

[@victoriawoods3231]

Not once did this man compliment her or say something nice, he took her glow and turned her beauty into sorrow. It’s cruel. She clearly loves him 😢

[@bftigdd]

she loves him soooo much its all over her face , my god its heart breaking

[@bigswaggy298]

Avram David how can you tell? I don't see anything of the sort

[@junii741]

absolutely , her voice too ..

[@celestacy777]

He loves her too you can tell

[@bftigdd]

Celeste Blakely yes he does , but she sounds broken and really loves him to death

[@miekaxiii]

Celeste Blakely he loves her too but hes moved on, you can hear it in his voice hes doing well

[@hollyken3]

this looked like the most depressing video ever and I still clicked on it

[@emmavanepps9603]

hollyken3 why did i do the same thing

[@elijahnoronha845]

SAME :'(

[@joshdaniels]

LOL SAME mood

[@anevaygalindo]

Ikr, ig I needed to make myself cry...

[@fec9496]

hollyken3 same here

[@Monica-vl9ek]

This was painful to watch, she looks like she’s still in love & he isn’t 😭💔 i hope they’re both doing better 🥺💜

[@sinabagherisarvestani8924]

damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ? The problem is girls have too much rights , that is the main problem I think and its the elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about , ya some guys are cheaters and they have like a 100 girlfriends but its rare , girls are usually to blame , girls complain too much , stop complaining man , life is hard . Much respect to the guy and former husband in the video, what a great couple , wtf would you break up ? its cleat that she isn't in love with him but his in love with her , again its the girls fault

[@jimb3093]

So many red flags jumped out at me listening to their story. It was doomed from the word go.

[@ffi1001]

There is nothing like the pain of mourning the loss of someone who is still alive

[@xaly4eva]

ffi1001 oh yea that feeling is the worst

[@vicmarshall4524]

Dear God, your comment just jabbed me in the heart💔

[@tutsybassista]

And, every person you lose-isn't always a "loss."

[@karlalovesvladimir]

OH MY GOD....YES

[@aliyanahavahope9615]

ffi1001 They lost someone who cared, while they did not. Always their loss

[@77lvg]

Its was a beautiful piece but it's clear that the divorce broke her in ways we cannot see.

[@wentzel812]

Grace Jibril you mean in ways WE CAN SEE. You can tell she is completely broken.

[@theresebockholt8041]

Grace Jibril true😭😭😭

[@karaperssonart]

Absolutely, we can see clearly. But he appears oblivious....it's horrible

[@nanamaja9350]

shes very strong. she sees the good , she values the friendship and also said 'things will be good again. things are good'.

[@gingerkiya]

It did

[@not-even-german4892]

She wasn't interested in him in the first place.... Then he won her heart.. Then he left her...

[@shook198]

A tale as old as time

[@Jaham771]

This man took a beautiful rose plant and pulled every bud and petal and left it dried a withered. He is Immature and after all this time still is and downright selfish.

[@Paige-Turnner]

Withered but beautiful. She still has so much love to give but it's been barricaded by a fortress of pain.

[@disgustinghandsome1282]

So women don't have the responsibility to pick a good man to marry? Why is it that you think she's a victim? A divorce doesn't just fall out of the sky. Looking at her haircut seems very selfish to me. No consideration for your man to look good for him.

[@ninjanibba4259]

And you got ALL of that within 3 mins of his screen time Way to be biased

[@queenbutterfly4888]

@@disgustinghandsome1282 smh

[@sinabagherisarvestani8924]

damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ? The problem is girls have too much rights , that is the main problem I think and its the elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about , ya some guys are cheaters and they have like a 100 girlfriends but its rare , girls are usually to blame , girls complain too much , stop complaining man , life is hard

[@shahana146]

The girl looks like she was crying before the video

[@Susannasweetgirl]

Just Me she was

[@mscentineonoahssecretwife5343]

Girl? She is a woman

[@_Muser23]

Just Me I was thinking the same thing. I can feel the pain in her eyes. This is so sad. :(

[@Coregame3]

She was, I was there.

[@tracybossladygreene438]

she still loves him 😭😭

[@dirtydave7567]

I think he's still in love with her, but for some reason he's afraid to admit it. Even if the issue is admitting it to himself. Sometimes we're our own worst enemy.

[@tracybossladygreene438]

Dave Morrison you have a point. maybe he is afraid to acknowledge it as of now because he was the one who walked out and now probably realize that he made a mistake.... idk I think you are right tho

[@slick914]

I'm sure they both still love eachother, but like he said they grew apart because of work and such, and I suppose they didn't want to take the risk of quiting their job

[@MonsieurCorbusier]

I think they‘re both still in love with each other, but sometimes things just don’t work out..maybe the time wasn’t right for them or whatever. things don’t always happen for a reason..

[@fsd2696]

Dave Morrison you explained that perfectly cause I always felt like most men are emotionless on the outside.

[@tifaail677]

Sorry, she deserves someone better. It breaks my heart when he said that he did this for the money.

[@arik2216]

So what ? Money is more realistic for man life.

[@iloveclubgirls]

She's clearly still in love with him. It's such a sad story...People make a lot of selfish decisions because they just lookout for themselves but they have no idea how much it affects the other person 🥺

[@linuslsc6346]

How is this selfish? When the guy doesn‘t love her anymore it‘s not his fault

[@triveni4357]

Girl, please don't want to be friends with him anymore.😭😭😭

[@melodiechartier5173]

Barrier Boy who him????

[@Karlakarz]

She’s just too sweet

[@KILLAZ0128]

Triveni Thingujam what’s wrong with being friends with him

[@everettfanor1989]

Shes a narcissist. She wants to control him and hover over him forever. I bet she stalks him on social media. She will never leave him alone

[@euphoricren9309]

@@KILLAZ0128 She can never move on 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@maritessa]

I can feel the pain through the screen

[@coolcorbin5937]

Unique Blase Jesus I was just looking at Osomatsu-san right before this-

[@camryn4347]

omg. me too.

[@coolcorbin5937]

Camryn Raup Destiny

[@sandramalone3522]

I think she's the one that's truly heart broken over the divorce. This has made me so sad.

[@crystallineleaf]

she looked so broken, i really wanna see an update on her. i wanna know she's happy now.

[@paradigm_sh1ft532]

Sorry, pal. You let go of a real gem. You should only divorce a person if THEY are the reason for your unhappiness. You phoned it in because your circumstances weren't ideal? Not only that, you called her back for emotional support after the fact? She deserves better.

[@jonathanxavier2026]

He didn't let go of a real gem clearly as he saw fit to end the relationship. YOU think he let go of a gem doesn't mean he did. No you get a divorce when the relationship isn't working and it wasn't for him.

[@paradigm_sh1ft532]

@@jonathanxavier2026 it wasn't working because he phoned it in. Did life get better for him afterwards? No. He turned to drinking & then had the nerve to contact her for support afterwards. It's a total dick move. If she was abusive, neglectful, controlling, deceptive/unfaithful then sign on the line, no doubt. Can you imagine if our grandparents generation divorced each other so easily? I know I wouldn't be here.

[@nunim2496]

You divorce your spouse if they commit adultery. If your spouse is atheist and wants to leave you than you can marry someone else.

[@weaselwez9612]

Sometimes people divorce when there is no longer any connection. That means no physical, mental or emotional connection. By the way a divorce is a decision made by both partners in the end. They both still love each other and they always will. Just not in the same way they used to. So please don't take sides on this. It's not like she was in an abusive relationship.

[@Stampistuta]

From the little we know about the situation I have to agree. She is clearly in love with him and upset by the whole experience. He’s come back for support after the divorce because she’s still loyal and seems an absolute gem of a human being.

[@joysweetcandy10]

He seriously broke her heart 😔😢 Her pain is all over the screen 😔

[@smoothpotato957]

3:25 .. he says she's a terrible person, you don't know the details of their relationship

[@florentinap1339]

@@smoothpotato957 "i'm here for the money" dude...ew

[@Equanimity3]

Her: what nice things would you say about me Him: you’re a terrible person and I’m here for the money. Yeahhhh she needs to drop him and find someone worth her time

[@alaaaaa4132]

I know, what an insensitive act.

[@classicac16]

I was like .. what you just say.. ?? Here for the money..?? Hmm.. no .

[@venomenace]

Obviously it was sarcasm but not the right moment to try to be funny

[@sinabagherisarvestani8924]

damn man divorce sucks , there is nothing cool or sexy or interesting about a divorce , its not like the movies where its fun and exotic , its just a pity , its a pity and it sucks . If your not serious and you want to fool round and have fun and be immature and be bossy and selfish all the time than don't get married , stay friends , why waste all that money and time on marriage if your not responsible or mature enough ? The problem is girls have too much rights , that is the main problem I think and its the elephant in the room that no one wants to talk about , ya some guys are cheaters and they have like a 100 girlfriends but its rare , girls are usually to blame , girls complain too much , stop complaining man , life is hard . Much respect to the guy and former husband in the video, what a great couple , wtf would you break up ? its cleat that she isn't in love with him but his in love with her , again its the girls fault

[@valueinyou9931]

@@venomenace I think you nailed it. Read the room better man, not the time for sarcastic humor. And she seems much more like a 'heart' person and he more analytical. Neither is necessarily bad on its own, but can be a rough fit. All I know is it was hard to watch how hurt she was.

[@bibinthomas5282]

If i had a wife like her, I'd lay my life for her.....

[@hildaochoa9365]

You can tell she's been crying, her eyes are all puffy... she's still hurting so much. My heart goes out to you, darling!

[@Geewunner4life]

Me too.

[@poolplexer]

I see that. And im a dude.

[@poolplexer]

Feel so bad for her

[@JodiLeaSnakeQueen]

Yes 😟

[@emmy3216]

You can never be just friends with someone you were once in love with.

[@wortatwortit]

She's constantly holding tears. I hope she found someone who can make her happy again. Edit: actually it doesn't matter how busy you're, if you love someone, you'll find a way..

[@lisatheboywonder6744]

This is sad. You can tell by the pained look in her eyes that she is not over him and is still in love with him. I wish he tried making it work rather then not tell her anything at all and let them grow apart. Marriage is work and compromise, and communication. I hope they find peace and true happiness down the line.

[@athenaf8285]

he kissed her on the cheek when they pulled away, too ;_;

[@rendopatto2751]

If you actually listened to the video, he stated he wasn't in a good place, was drinking alot so ya, mental health played a big role. It's difficult to just "work on it" with crippling depression.

[@aditroll]

exactly like I thought.. she's not over him :(

[@Luna_Anonymous]

You don't know his or their circumstances.

[@pims.8739]

As I said in another comment chain, I feel like we shouldn't put blame on either of them. He valued the relationship a lot but there were reasons they decided to stop it. It's not always the case that someone is at fault and we should remember that :)

[@keelioness]

So he left her because they were going through a rough patch?? People don't take their wedding vows seriously

[@aap5320]

Literally. Don't get married if you're not willing to work through a rough patch.

[@kateimm919]

I think there were strong feelings, but there was a lack of commitment that's essential in marriage. Idk. It's really sad to me.

[@amberosburn2941]

I know American people don't

[@ShatteredHawk]

Yes. Let's make assumptions on their whole life together

[@zerjiozerjio]

@@ShatteredHawk : Thank you! I can't believe how judgmental people are about something so difficult, intimate, and common to boot!

[@fairedelapeche1300]

Lady, You need to put yourself first. That is what he did when he asked you for the divorce. He feels no guilt and is pretending to give a crap about you and the wedding. His favorite word in the interview was "I"

[@siegeaye]

I understand her intention to stay friends but I honestly don’t think it’s a smart choice. I get the impression that she still has deep feelings for him and is clinging to the hope something sparks again... time to move on, because he’s long gone and probably won’t turn back!

[@candraleann]

This made me tear up so much.. You can tell in both of their eyes that they will always love each other

[@gabozalaba]

nah

[@wopper5858]

Candra Leann LMAO ”always love each other”

[@ripabigfatoneforme]

Wopper whats the problem?

[@ripabigfatoneforme]

billbimbo but what she was implying is that they’ll always have love for each other, they’re memories will always be there. They were each other’s life once

[@__-bd9jt]

They were both nearly crying

[@Caratdeul1331]

She looks like she's trying her best not to cry in front of him. She's still in love, it's all in her eyes

[@mich3281]

Skye Choi I know and it hurts so much

[@robertk9936]

Very courageous for both of them to agree to do this being so vulnerable before the camera. Hope they find peace and happiness in their lives.

[@jillbg6477]

This makes me sad. I was recently told by my husband that he wants a divorce after 14yrs of marriage and 15yrs together. The pain is unlike anything Ive ever felt and Im not sure Ill recover. I feel like I look like that woman. When youre that sad, it shows.

[@marysingleton8442]

I'm so sorry. I will say a prayer for you.

[@sonyarowe1327]

Why does he want a divorce?

[@northendtony]

@@iameerhamza lol

[@furyroad028]

@@sonyarowe1327 bcoz see her dp. she resembles a man hating feminist so my man is not ready to take risk

[@rvh1702]

Maybe changing your hair back to a normal colour is a good thing to start with

[@annesuberbia7457]

The guy cant look at her eyes directly. I dont know if its guilt or what. But i feel sad for her. You can see that she really loves him, i mean still loves him.

[@annesuberbia7457]

@Barrier Boy i hope she's doin fine now. And moved on already. No one deserves to be that miserable.

[@gabriellaflores7563]

This has to be one of the most emotional pains a person can endure. Having to sit right next to the person you once stood by everyday and built a life with, a person you once shared your whole entire life with and now barely speak to or don’t speak to at all .. to top it all off look at pictures together of being so incredibly happy and in love with one another at a point in time. Love is painful. My heart is aching for her 💔

[@shaneandsabinatube2372]

Gabriella Flores I

[@danger450]

Gabriella Flores This was voluntary, not at gunpoint.

[@DD-ol5tp]

what about him?

[@Trollipops]

I wasnt crying watching this but your words got me good 😂

[@khai-jernchia2824]

what about for the guy?

[@cheesy.gamers5224]

I hate it how he called her a terrible person

[@tatiannazutania2212]

This made me cry. I feel like they should be together. Maybe 20 years from now, they'll find a way back to each other.

[@Sixdays_aweek]

No, he's so cold. She deserves better.

[@srikanthsv79]

@@Sixdays_aweek what's so cold about not having love? It's not like u r gonna love all people & be available to all 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@callmepistol]

He's a user

[@beautyintheskies]

I know she wants to respect her memories, her past, her ex, and her former marriage but I hope she learns what is a healthy distance to keep from him. He gave up on the marriage, and on her, and she has no obligation to tend to his emotional needs. He seems to be using her as an emotional crutch. If they wish to remain in each other's lives, they need to establish clear boundaries around emotional intimacy for both of their sakes. Honestly I am surprised they are divorced. It seems like they should have called a marriage counselor, not a divorce lawyer.

[@princessjazz5767]

i agree with u!

[@PsychologyWizard]

Thank you for that analyse Freud:)

[@addyduncan1544]

@David Stephens and you know this how? How do you know their relationship based off a 5 minute clip. Maybe he was or maybe she was. Just stop assuming like an idiot Jesus.

[@jenniferwellman5311]

This was really sad to watch, because unless I'm reading it wrong, she still has strong feelings for him. At least that's how I interpreted it. And he's kind of let go, and he's done with it.

[@bubblesjetson2544]

jennifer wellman and he prolly an alcoholic

[@naomwhyome9974]

Usually thats how men are...they dont care like women do

[@amysmith87]

jennifer wellman yeah I feel the same.

[@seandelevan]

jennifer wellman at the 5:05 mark you can tell he cares too. Just putting up a front that he doesn’t.

[@onlyslime8798]

183 likes in 17 minutes 🤯🤨

[@acebrown1527]

I've never been married, but I've been in love before and to see this was rather tough. I've had to endure situations like this, and both she and I had to be adults about it. To see someone you truly love apart from you, is something else at least for me. I liked this video, it sends a message that speaks volumes to those who still value marriage and the merit that comes with it...

[@anshikasaha2004]

That's not only pictures.. That's the memories which can't be forgotten🥺❤️

[@Tina-2016]

It looks like the divorce took a real physical toll on her. He just looks like so chill. There's always one person in every relationship who loves the other one more.

[@ferdynand2402]

Justina Rodriguez true :(

[@joyjoyjoy6612]

How do you know how he really feels

[@StormeBrownbreezybaby]

Justina Rodriguez a heart don't break even as they say

[@SCG08]

The one who loves more is hurt worse. Seems i am always the one who loves more :'(

[@cheeseball96]

This was so sad.. she looked like she wanted to cry the whole time, I can see why tho

[@tyrantonion6660]

Of course she wanted to emotionaly manipulate him and the audience.

[@sisanmcneil]

It’s so heartbreaking, you can see she still loves him. I feel so bad for her and pray to God she finds someone deserving of her love!

[@PerfumePretty]

My heart goes out to this lovely girl! She is so obviously broken and must have had her heart cried out the days and hours before the video! She looks like a tiny glas dancer, on top of a little melody jewelry box, who dances to hold up the tears and breaks one day under all the pain! HOW CAN THIS GUY NOT SEEING HER BROKEN HEART???? God bless her and give her new Love and new Happiness! 💖

[@Jellybeans720]

Her reasoning for wanting to keep in touch with him breaks my heart. I know exactly how feeling so alone feels 😞

[@johndoe5715]

I don't think its healthy for her to do so...im in similar boat rn but I told my ex to break all contact and I don't have many ppl in my life that I can can say are close friends and she was truly my best friend and partner ive had but I know to move I have to cut her out my life for now at least until ive healed...I think she should do the same

[@WIDBAU]

I agree. It feels like she’s trying to hold onto something and he has already let go. My heart breaks for her

[@babyree2901]

So toxic for her ☹️

[@Raving]

@@johndoe5715 I immediately identified with her when she said she has no people. I moved to the small city I live in now and met my now ex almost immediately. Her friends became my friends. Because of the hours I put in at work I never really made friends of my own. When we went out we would go out with her friends. Now, after the divorce she got to keep the house. She kept my Jeep out of spite because she knew how much I prized that thing. I never realized how alone I truly was until now.