DL Hughley on Having a Child Outside His Marriage, Baby Killed by Boyfriend (Part 9)

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In this clip, DL Hughley detailed the very emotional story of his child that he had outside of his marriage. DL spoke about the ordeal and how his son died at the hands of the mother's boyfriend. He said that the tragic death weighed on him but he kept the entire thing a secret for years. DL went on to explain how he confessed to his wife and the unlikely relationship or arrangement that his wife and the other woman had.
Later on, DL talked about an experience he had with an older woman when he was just 13-years-old.
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[@vladtv]

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[@ricolewis2949]

djvlad 🌟 RESPECT FROM LOUISVILLE KY MY GUY! U MAKE MY WORK DAY DRIVING THIS TRUCK BEARABLE VLAD 🌟

[@fanoboss]

D.L. is not sane. He is one messed up dude. I feel sad that he is looked at as a role model and that he has more fame and money than someone like Mo'Nique

[@aliciad.6088]

Fano More Why would you make a comparison between MoNique & DL?

[@atlsongbyrd6084]

Damn you gotta be careful what you ask for who would've thought that the baby would've died

[@christopherdavenport5763]

Where is metoo and the docuseries on these women? That was rape! The adult women should be held accountable.

[@cdhardrick]

You don't normally hear a man admit to being cowardly and making very bad decisions under pressure

[@weareuniqueforareason7503]

I thank god for creating me with the understanding to, leave an open judge free zone, for my man to tell me whatever, rather good or bad, no matter how much it hurts, all I ask for is honesty and no lies. We can heal the pain along the way.

[@cynthiacrawford1573]

Truth

[@lisatryme3518]

@@weareuniqueforareason7503 Stupid

[@weareuniqueforareason7503]

@@lisatryme3518 Your parent's must be stupid too, cause I'm sure they loved your dumb ass through your fuck ups too. This space for a judge free zone does not just stop at a relationship (leaving the other party a choice to stay or not), it's what should happen PERIOD if a person wants the honest truth from ANYBODY. Being honest not easy especially when it hurts, I don't care what the situation is or who it's coming from even a child. Clearly your not open minded, your SCREAMING it so loud without even saying it. Re-read this comment till it doesn't go over your head.

[@lisatryme3518]

@@weareuniqueforareason7503 That was mean. I’m sorry. Let’s be friends🤗🌹🌸💐

[@legbarael4174]

His honesty is really refreshing. You can see him still working through things.

[@karisay347]

legba ra el exactly! He seems so down to earth and “normal”

[@carolynrog3rogers339]

@@karisay347 no he's not he paid that man to kill his kid he didnt want his life innterupted and his wife to find out are the press its all about the Benjamin's money show people who they really are now money it self is not evil but given to the people who has and evil heart it could bring in dirty harvest i liked dl hugely but after hearing this hes guilty ass hell that outside baby was a menace to him and the mother if you notice the was still paying the mother even with the baby been long dead why because she didn't have the baby to through in him and his wife face so I guess she told them she'll tell the tabloid oh no that couldn't happen even his own wife was paying het now go figure.

[@karisay347]

Carolyn Rog3Rogers wow, I had no idea. But how do you know?

[@thejonesexperience]

+Karisa Y She literally has no knowledge of D.L.'s life/family.. This comes from a person in the circle...

[@jamilfox525]

Human beings we are

[@permafrost0979]

Damn.... We're always so worried about protecting our girls from male predators--as we should be--but our boys need to be protected too

[@empress5846]

YES

[@permafrost0979]

@SARA nobody warns their girls about sleepovers, being out alone at night, young to the bathroom with a buddy, staying away from strange men, etc?

[@juliearuna9021]

Sad but True

[@nyokabimutua7180]

This is for sure

[@brendajackson13]

Absolutely! All children need protection!

[@rastachandolo9766]

When DL said “I didn’t feel like I had the right to revenge because I wasn’t there for my child.....” that some real man shit.

[@newyorknewyork8107]

Buddha Simpson talk on it buddha!

[@elnorawilliams8384]

Auntie fee

[@damitrimoore]

james harm but wouldn't seeking revenge be an attempt at self satisfaction because he wasn't there.

[@damitrimoore]

james harm imo that's not your duty. That's a short sited way of thinking imo. I've never had anyone close to me murdered tho so I can point fingers. I agree with vlads stance. Why cause more harm to yourself and your family by spreading the energy that just took your loved one? Again I understand I just think it's like running headfirst into a wall.

[@damitrimoore]

james harm he admitted to being a punk didn't he? And then said he basically didn't want some facade ass reunion with a child he never knew. Showing up at the thirteenth hour for redemption wouldn't make him any more or less of a man/father to the kid so what's the point? Put resources into a past due failure out of pride lmao nah bruh that a heavy moment for sure but your a failure regardless in the situation. He's obviously learned at least a little if he was that honest about it.

[@Moorfeeeus]

“I feel a lot of things, I feel a lot of things” Man... He’s really hurting.

[@katevans9570]

He's in so much pain. This interview hurts to watch.

[@AllFatherVEGETA]

Vlad doesnt help at all

[@PoweredByEnvy]

@@AllFatherVEGETA he never does.

[@laumay7364]

He feels guilty. And he is.

[@thelaww3653]

@@laumay7364 fucking dunce. Yes he feels guilty but no one can see that far ahead, he was young too. What happened to his kid, is NOT his fault but yes he will always feel that.

[@atseabreeze]

This is exactly why I DON'T TRUST ANYONE with my kids. I don't even let them go to sleepovers.

[@tierrasanea9560]

Exactly. I know from experience that people are motto be trusted. My kids father and I don't play that ish.💯

[@kelligarcia312]

Same, they’ve never ever had a sleepover

[@poorhouz5051]

Exactly I am the same.

[@drmonica2k1]

I literally just finished a conversation where we were saying the exact same thing.

[@randomchizz8668]

💯

[@AkosuaFire]

I got mad respect for DL’s wife. She handled that situation with strength and compassion👍🏾

[@shbt8875]

Akosua Fire something so hard to do.. if your a strong woman

[@katricejohnson6164]

Akosua Fire she sure did!!

[@lapacesiaconvoi]

he has a son on the spectrum who did very well in college. his wife probably helped motivate their children to achieve good things. my mom called out my aspergers to embarrass me throughout my childhood. it just made everything more difficult. how he can still perform while all this is going on is beyond me but thank God he lucked out with a good wife.

[@tokenboken5099]

Giant Dwarf EXACTLY!!! LOL

[@jmurdock8303]

She surely did

[@michaels.8244]

Damn, there’s a lot of pain in this world.

[@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect]

joshua19942 why? No excuse for killing a baby regardless how it got here. By that logic, DL's wife should have killed the child's mother too, but instead chose compassion.

[@vw1649]

Yes indeed...

[@sunshineloveyasharal4768]

To much 💯

[@lionelkennedy1394]

Real talk. Everyone has a story and a testimony. You never know what someone has been through in their lives when you meet them. Sometimes, you still don't know the half of it until many years later. Everybody has been through some difficult stuff in their lives. That is why I try not to judge people, because you just don't know.

[@lionelkennedy1394]

@@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect Agreed. Absolutely no excuse for killing a child. He didn't ask or choose to be here and it was completely out of his control as to how.

[@bomkyo52]

“Every time something good happens to me, I think about that” ....really hits home

[@pinkgypsytees]

It’s his guilty conscience, that makes him think about it….Some of these celebrities will do ANYTHING to achieve success…SMH..

[@amaxo7165]

What’s heartbreaking to me is the amount of men who have been abused but don’t see it like that. It plays apart in there actions as an adult too, promiscuity, drugs..

[@irenernfuturemsn7689]

So true

[@yolandacasey66]

They are taught to revere the abuse like a badge of honor. Not thinking of the effect it has on the childs male psyche. The behavior changes them so significantly. Most grow up resentful towards women. They didnt experience normal sexuality and emotional value of their partner which plays a serious part in why relationships for them are really hard to be in. They can become emotionally void and detached from human touch and even dislike and distrust the love of a woman due to the wrong introduction of an emotional and intimate relationship. Look at our youth and if asked most will tell you they were introduced to sex at least by 12. Sadly a lot were at an even younger age.

[@kingcassius2586]

@@yolandacasey66 weren't not "taught" to not see it as abuse.. we just don't. More and more women are just swallowing the idea that men have to be "taught or brainwashed" into feeling how we feel. We just don't. When these hot teachers sleep with 14 year old boys.. not one of his male classmates is saying "Whew! I'm glad it wasn't me". Of course it's still wrong but boys just don't feel like victims in those circumstances.

[@goddesshof8809]

@@kingcassius2586 yes y'all are. Why? Because both women, as well as men are taught that women are not inherently sexual predators or a danger to others in that specific way whereas it's been drilled in society that men can be rapists and child molesters. It's the sexism that is taught. The subconscious thought that women can't subdue a man in any way, shape of form.

[@kingcassius2586]

@@goddesshof8809 here's the obvious thing that you and many women overlook: You're SPECULATING the male experience. You're speculation has absolutely no weight on actually being a male. I really experience being male, you're just speculating.

[@charlesblack9959]

Respect for a man being honest, especially in public.

[@fluffypinkglitterwingz8082]

Hopefully he uses his experience to teach other people how to handle relationships. Alot of people get into relationships when they're not ready and when they're not done experimenting.

[@markrickeshiawilliams9189]

Yes, especially for him to admit he prayed for the "situation" to be lifted off of him and then when he knew the baby wasn't going to make it he felt sorrow and relief. But when asked how he felt about losing his son now he just said I feel things. It's like as a father clearly he'd naturally feel a lot but knowing how he handled it when his son was alive I think it was respectful of him not to put it all out there to get a lot more attention for himself or put a positive spin on it to try and make himself out to be a good guy hge just told it like it is.

[@michellejade3272]

From infancy, I’ve taught my son about sexual predators. Sons need to be protected just as much as daughters.

[@laraoneal7284]

@Michelle Jade God bless you for being so aware and teaching your son. So true boys are victimized as much as girls.

[@laraoneal7284]

I can’t believe how many boys who have been molested. Much more common than anyone will admit. And yes VLAD was totally insensitive and ignorant to laugh.

[@rickilake4838]

What does these comments have to do with this video. Did anyone care he was happy his baby was unalived!

[@mtj5758]

I pray he doesn’t go off the deep end because the pain and depression is obvious. We still love you DL

[@ChrisControversial]

The title alone gives me chills and depression

[@dannymacktheoutlaw4261]

Christopher Smith It's not even suprising anymore

[@Yawdan]

Don't get depressed at it. It's messed up, but don't let it destroy your life too.

[@crisv3283]

I got a friend whose mother tried to kill him, this didn’t surprise me at all

[@nikk7045]

Y’all sad as fck for sympathizing with him

[@letlovereign]

exactly

[@robbdogg861]

Did not know D.L. was tatted like that.

[@mikeandmars2345]

me to I was looking dam this nigga could be on the cover of ink magazine

[@theblackmanwholaughs6670]

mikeandmars2345 I'm really surprised he hasn't been he would make a good cover story with the bevy of topics that it could be about... and with him being so heavy in activism and social issues and being what some would call a role model it would help to fight the stigma of tatoos which is something Inked magazine likes to do...

[@mikeandmars2345]

+Dion Taylor facts

[@Kit.E.Katz45]

RobBeenHood Not a good look.😖

[@robbdogg861]

Hahaha on everything.

[@soulsleepers]

yeah, molestation of young boys by grown women is real. society views it differently though, sadly. speaking from experience. some think its no big deal because you’re a boy but its traumatizing too.

[@Parvati1981]

Yeah, I discovered that babysitters molesting little boys is a lot more common than I thought. But the men usually don't seem to see it as abuse, because they mention it so nonchalantly.

[@DreDaGreat1234]

Wish it happened to me . Happened to my oldest brother

[@pantha266]

Is it traumatizing? I think it's cool for men to say that these days. But I have similar experiences and can not relate it to trauma. Did you need counseling for it?

[@Jojo77020]

Not cute at all! They planned, targeted, then molested! Those grown women were pedophiles just like a grown man that molests young girls.

[@bronzebomber814]

It's the same. your male children need protecting just as much as the female innocence lost is innocence lost

[@KAMALAISHERNAME]

"Hard life" is written all over his face....especially underneath his eyes....

[@simonjones1491]

Called drugs

[@TheAntidoteCandle]

Facts

[@curvydeals5660]

@@simonjones1491 no so. DL is not a drug user. He does work 24/7

[@terrellmassey1092]

Not getting sleep people with money can't sleep good most got implants or injections to get rid of them

[@KM-oy5yh]

💯💯💯💯

[@mizzyfit_334]

DL interviews are so good

[@soultaliban]

Spasiba! Vlad.

[@kimberlywilliams3780]

MizzY Moss Yessssss!

[@jimfocus3128]

MizzY Moss nope, it's T. K

[@mizzyfit_334]

jim focus i fuck w/ TK but he be bsn sometimes

[@jimfocus3128]

MizzY Moss just my opinion

[@devinmckinney7716]

D.L. Hughley kept it💯💯💯💯 real man!!!

[@stacib1199]

Wordddd

[@stacib1199]

@Voice of Reason8071 Voice of Reason8071 ummmm thank uuu. Nd havent been told in a min. Ppl too scared to say someone looks good. I appreciate u. Nd fyi...no photo shop pic here

[@stacib1199]

@Voice of Reason8071 Voice of Reason8071 text? How

[@stacib1199]

@Voice of Reason8071 Voice of Reason8071 DELETE

[@fluffypinkglitterwingz8082]

How did he keep it real when he cheated on his wife and got some other chick pregnant? That's what some people call real? That's why the world is so fucked up and deceitful people are respected. Keeping it real is having respect for your wife.

[@LWWM]

Do. Not. Ever. Leave. Your. Wife. They don't make people like that anymore!!!

[@jazzyj904]

Don't cheat on or disrespect your wife*

[@talktometv9393]

@@jazzyj904 vice versa

[@ObservationalRhetoric]

@@talktometv9393 Real shit

[@Chef.91]

she’s another Rasheeda 😂

[@susiesue5408]

It’s some man hungry women out that will put up with anything. SMH

[@thebrother682]

Death and life is in the power of the tongue!! Watch what you pray for family .

[@lovejay3157]

The Brother PLEAD THE BLOOD OF JESUS over you, your family, love ones and friends Life and Health daily and have FAITH in JESUS CHRIST. GOD BLESS.

[@thebrother682]

@@lovejay3157 I'm sorry bro but I don't believe in Jesus or any other mystery God. But if you do that's cool I'm not here to debate you .

[@minkxz8037]

@@thebrother682 ??? Then why are you quoting the bible? Who do you pray to? If you don't believe in any Gods, what was the basis of your initial comment. Very confused.

[@thebrother682]

@@minkxz8037 my point was be careful what you pray for . Because no matter who or what you believe in it can manifest. And that was an African proverb first long before it was placed in the bible.

[@minkxz8037]

@@thebrother682 ok, thank you

[@sunkissedbrownsugga9704]

Can we talk about how much of a class act his wife is! She really handled things like a respectable woman.

[@Nirobiscloset10]

Really...🤨

[@niaedmonds3342]

she showed how much of a doorm@t she was. lmbo

[@eblount87]

@@niaedmonds3342 amen

[@xotwistedt8812]

@@Nirobiscloset10right? Smh he cheating & praying his child dies🤦🏽‍♀️ but let’s praise her for not going upside his head or taking him for everything he got

[@Nirobiscloset10]

@@xotwistedt8812 Exactly! He disrespected his wife so badly. Karma got him! Made his own wife cleaning up his cheating mess.

[@icequeen1439]

DL Hughley: “He killed a kid” Dj Vlad: He killed you’re kid?!” Wow the the difference in that statement. RIP BABY🙏🏻 🕊

[@tyreup3494]

Not that serious he saying somebody that killed a kid

[@quadashatoler8453]

Powerful statement

[@theprophet7482]

Yes. But DL said he feels like he had no rights to the kid and basically only got the girl pregnant. So his mindset was that it was only a kid. But Vlade spoke Truth. It was his kid.

[@BabsW]

Your* kid

[@kemartini]

His detachment to his baby is disturbing. The mom gets treated like nothing after suffering and he’s the one that cheated! He talks about it like it doesn’t matter.

[@502kingpaul]

That’s heavy. Dude lived a crazy life but he’s still here doing well 💪🏽

[@youngb6137]

502 KINGPAUL Right

[@MsColetha]

Rest in peace little baby🌷

[@kenyawalls2255]

I bet the side chick was like dang he told his wife 😂.

[@dontdomeboo81]

The fact she wanted to put on life insurace and the kid ended up dying like wtf!

[@sandrasteele976]

Good observation, I didn't catch that. Chick sleeping with a married man, different man in the house shortly after giving birth, receiving money after the fact, sounds like a real pyscho. Talking about life insurance involes somones death...Cheating husbands pick the worst types to throw away thier vows for.

[@Qtpiejustaskyaman]

Yeah I thought life insurance instead of insurance sounded odd but she could have been trying to know him off for money too.

[@carolynrog3rogers339]

@@sandrasteele976 he paid the boy friend to kill that baby thats why he look tore the fuck up he's guilty as sin its eating away at him he didn't want this to get out and that other woman was still jujuing him and his wife for money and they gave it to her fatefully she was black maleing them now he telling all except of the part he played on his outside kids death he's a fucking murderer i kid you not listen to me now i know what I'm talking about watch the interview again and open your eyes and see m

[@Ladybugsbee]

Yep, no telling what her plans were. Did she have the boyfriend do this because she assumed she would be big paid. She lucky she caught the right husbands wife because I wouldn’t have gave her a dime

[@nikkistahr7105]

@@carolynrog3rogers339 ooop, i never even thought of it😣😐😑

[@ChanceJolivette]

i could watch dl interviews all day long

[@boujiebarbie3198]

I could too. I love that guy😗😗😗

[@tlig]

Do you have a job?

[@RealLadi228]

me too

[@bxgirl2930]

Chance Jolivette me too I couldn't never really get his comedy but I really appreciate this side of him and his honesty he is like the uncle everyone needs in thier family to go to for life questions!

[@stacimillner4427]

Yes me too. I always loved DL

[@moedigga16]

He talk about the kid like it’s not his .. smh

[@s.holmes613]

Did he ever get the DNA test? I am wondering cause he mentioned it. It seems like he just stopped questioning after the baby died.

[@othersideof8mile]

Real men admit their mistakes

[@reynoldfleming5052]

Been down that road. Some situations differ though Its tough an the emotional effects never go way. Its like being on a roller coaster sometimes! Smh

[@MJ-wi7oo]

Real men have enough self-control to know that there are going to be consequences for their selfish decisions. Stop using this man's lack of self-control as an excuse to justify your selfishness.

[@krounsaville3359]

Truth

[@deeward729]

God will Judge

[@deeward729]

Amen

[@StuUngar]

I have been in a similar situation. I had a son when I had just finished college. I was angry at both the mother and the baby. She already had 2 kids and was from the wrong side of the tracks. Plus, she had no education. I wanted to he married when I had a child and for sure I didnt want to be married to her. I thought I had put in all this hard work going to college and now I was going to be stuck struggling for the rest of my life because I was going to be taking care of all of these people. It wasn’t the storybook life that I had planned. I hoped and wished it would go away. I secretly hoped she would miscarry and I absolutely hate admitting this now, but I hoped they would move away, some dolt would marry her and adopt my kid, something/anything to remove this situation i didn’t want. I was selfish and I was a coward. I even told my dad I didn’t want anything to do with them. Luckily for me, I had a good dad who set me straight. His mother and I are still together. I helped her go to school and she became a medical doctor and I got my master’s degree in business. I have the best son I could ever wish for. I hate looking back and knowing that at one time I didnt want him. If God exists, I will have to answer for that. But in the meantime, all I can do is be as good of a father as possible and hope that is enough to make up for who I was.

[@lilsamantha1]

Wow thats deep. Man

[@Britneyluvsya]

I teared up a little

[@AC-qo8oq]

😱😱😱😱😱 that was a shocking turn of events.

[@StuUngar]

T Miller The crazy thing is, when we started out...I was the one who was “up here.” 8 years later and she has surpassed me...I’m a competitive person and frankly, there’s a side of me that’s jealous because if shes an MD, I feel like I shouldve been a specialist. But it is what it is, and I couldn’t be more proud of her. She admitted to me once (though I don’t think she would admit it today) that she set on her journey for me. I do like to think, even if it was subconscious, that I recognized something special in her. We had been off and on for a long time before she had my son. She was always special, I was just programmed to be a dick and hold peoples’ born situations against them. Special individuals come from all walks of life and talent and drive does not discriminate. If she had been born to a rich family, she’d have been a brain surgeon.

[@StuUngar]

Ang Accounts Oh no, it’s not a sense of jealousy. I said competitive and that was probably the wrong word to use. It would be better described as I believe in the traditional idea of a man being the main bread winner. I remember even DL Hughley had a bit about this topic....”if youre mopping, Im mopping..Im mopping twice as much.” To be frank, I think we need more of that. We have too many grown men that are content to lay around and let their mothers or gfs take care of them. When I see guys like that, I just think, “where the fuck is your pride?”

[@havemycakeandeatitto]

Why is he so quick to comment on what everyone else does knowing he’s not 100

[@belyndacleare5782]

Much respect for your candid openness and honesty. Sorry for your loss, despite the circumstances and the mixed emotions, the lost of a child is traumatic.

[@chopsuckswiththa2236]

He seems very intelligent just listening to his interviews, I’m so sorry for what happened to you DL nobody deserves that shit

[@loviemoon4788]

Not cheating is looking better and better huh??!!

[@fluffypinkglitterwingz8082]

True!

[@Living_Legends_916]

I don't understand how someone will put in ten years into a relationship to throw it away on a new one. It is sad that a lot of these people have "everything" and still can't commit to one relationship

[@latishiabedwards1423]

Agree! Pussy is pussy, dick is dick. Why are people fucking up their relationship for some 5 minute dick or pussy. Its not that deep. We over hype sex and cheating.

[@worldmadness2566]

I remember in one of dl's comedy shows he referred to his biological father as the dick he rode in on. Well, it looks like dl took after his real father in that way. Guess the apple really doesn't fall far from the tree

[@KM-oy5yh]

💯💯💯

[@moniquewest3277]

His wife is a better woman than me, because I wouldn't have given her shit.

[@dannyhughes2680]

Ain't nothing funny about an adult molesting a child, boy or girl...i don't understand?

[@katevans9570]

I think maybe he was laughing because he didn't know how to talk about it.

[@DV-xn8xi]

You do know that people can laugh when they’re in shock or nervous or maybe guilt Etc

[@chinarogers1665]

A look of guilt can easily mirror a look of grief. Something doesn’t quite add up.. but a baby’s life was taken & that is truly heartbreaking.

[@pinkgypsytees]

EXACTLY! Something’s COMPLETELY OFF WITH THIS STORY!

[@kasondraanobi6524]

Sacrifice

[@a.k.446]

What do you think happened?

[@kemartini]

Yup he feels like he caught a break at that woman and childs expense. Notice he talks about her asking for money he’s relieved.

[@MelanatednNature]

Sacrifice

[@kaylacoffey9420]

I felt sorry for his wife. It would break my heart to deal with an outside baby. I’m pretty sure the relationship would end. We had a scare from my husband ex. She waited years to tell him about their child. Well fortunately the paternity test proved he wasn’t the father. I stuck with him through the process. I learned a lot about myself. I’m really territorial and could not take care of an outside child period! It’s selfish but it’s my truth.

[@Mikayla320]

Kayla Coffey It’s not selfish, I feel the same way. Cheating especially if it results in an outside baby should not be tolerated. I have a friend whose dating someone who cheated on her and had a baby by another girl and she’s not even allowed to be near the baby, yet she wants a family with this guy. It’s heartbreaking for me as a friend to watch.

[@kaylacoffey9420]

Lauren James Truth be told, I wouldn’t want to be near the baby. That’s what would of been the problem. I learned from my dad that my grandma was the same way. My grandfather had a side baby and she refused to have anything to do with the child. My grandfather had to see his baby outside the house. My dad and siblings never met their half sister bc if it. I don’t blame my grandma. In an ideal world people respond like DL wife. However, it would of been a deal breaker for me.

[@Mikayla320]

Kayla Coffey We’re one of a kind then. Cheating in a relationship is unforgivable. I know most men cheat but still. Your grandma was strong. But my friend is planning on having kids with him so it’s gonna be a messy ass situation. It makes no sense, the adults can’t get along so it’s gonna fuck it up for the kids. I don’t need that drama, no man is worth my peace.

[@kaylacoffey9420]

Lauren James I feel for your friend😮

[@victoriahale5254]

Lauren James wait. He didn’t cheat o. You it was his ex so the girl before you and you would still be that dramatic. Man I wouldn’t want to share a life with you. You love in a shallow way, but at least you know yourself and

[@JoankaLopez]

So nobody heard him say I asked God to take this off my hands while that baby was fighting for his life ??? He does not give a flying fuck

[@kaseyjackson1844]

He clearly didn’t care about the child

[@itsthareapershawty]

Bruh kept his wife and his life wow 😯

[@Msjasminee]

Wow.. he was getting molested 🥺🥺.. this is so sad... please protect your young boys

[@pinkgypsytees]

He stated that his wife agreed to give the mistress money under the condition that they didn’t have to take care of it…How’s that possible when the baby had already passed away, when the WIFE SUPPOSEDLY FOUND OUT???? Nope, it doesn’t add up, & I DON’T BELIEVE HIM…

[@a.2419]

Guilt and shame of the situation for all parties has them all acting a way. Its the heavy dark elepgant in the room of their lives. This is real life not a movie life colors outside of the lines

[@shauntikayvette]

D.L. referred to the baby as “it”. How can the death of your own seed be bitter sweet. He killed “a kid” not my kid...this shows how even a person you can admire can be really screwed up

[@TB-ev2hg]

Even though its quite disturbing, he's telling his truth. I've never cared for him as a comedian because he always attacked the audience. However. It takes a lot of guts to be this open and honest regarding his situations. I gotta respect that.

[@KK-un7jb]

Stfu

[@keishapuryear8180]

I think he was talking from his selfish cowardly perspective at that time

[@laries9648]

It’s possible that’s how he feels most comfortable explaining it which sounds detaching tbh. He could still be running from painful emotions. This was a tragedy.

[@breel1332]

@@laries9648 exactly

[@racquelb.8880]

I love how transparent he is. I guess you never really know about a person until you hear about their life experiences.

[@AZBUSINESSOPINIONbySKUSMAN]

His wife is the real MVP. She could've left him and never looked back.

[@B4NKST4Z]

MVP or dumb

[@OriSoSirius]

Yea that’s a fact! I don’t know if I could ever do that. It’s hurtful enough to discover infidelity in your marriage but a kid too. Smh. It’s exactly why you have to REALLY think about your actions at all time. Too many irresponsible adults out here.

[@mariahyohannes]

Why are we praising this woman for staying with a man who is not even worth her time. She obviously deserves better. It’s weird that I see people applauding her for staying with a man who didn’t even have the respect or decency for her sexual health & their marriage to put on a condom.

[@j.johnson6548]

You made a good point. It's funny.. always a single woman criticizing a married woman for staying with her man... thats why y'all still single lol...News Flash.. Nobody is perfect in this world

[@mermaidprettymuch]

@@B4NKST4Z or attached to the money.

[@The_Queprint]

Blessings to our Brother, blessings to his wife, blessings to his family, and blessings to the baby mama.

[@amapparatistkwabena]

DL has come a long way. (Haven't we all?) I used to despise this brotha because of some to the horrible things he said back in the day. Somebody said, "If you know me from last year, you don't know me. I grow daily." Word.

[@AmyThrash]

Ooh I like that quote. It's so true. Going to write that down!

[@cherchezlafemmemmxx4829]

His honesty is so refreshing. They say "be careful what you wish for"

[@sagworldtv713]

This video gave me chills bruh. That’s a messed up situation. Glad he owned up to it. Even if you have an illegitimate child, things like this should be handled properly and without violence because no infant should be killed out of anger, especially at nine months old.

[@charlotteclark6061]

SagSeasonTV ...or.. ever!

[@joeshmo9766]

This guy said his prayers were answered when the baby was no longer here. He admits to being a coward for not being accountable for his actions. Why would you have so much respect for this guy? Honestly he probably helped set the whole thing up. This guy is a gatekeeper

[@godslittleprincess5454]

@@joeshmo9766 Finally, somebody with a brain. I was thinking the same thing smh

[@CathyD1976]

How can they laugh about Child Sexual abuse? ..it wasn't losing their virginity FFS It was Child Abuse end of story

[@MsAchampion]

True!

[@mahogany_chanel]

He is deeply scarred and doesn’t see it as abuse. Sadly it was. It has to be a deeply rooted issue because he doesn’t see him being raped (because that’s what it is) as wrong! A lot of men go through this mind process. They don’t see this as an issue sadly.

[@lapislazulipsavage4451]

mahoganyc miles he said he did it willingly that doesn’t mean he is traumatized and don’t see it yes the situation is wrong but there are still stages to trauma A 17 year old can fuck a20yr old and although it’s still statutory rape it doesn’t mean the younger person is traumatized He could either be traumatized or at the moment felt like the man

[@KLoosends]

@@mahogany_chanel because it's not. How are you going to tell somebody what's going on in their head lmao...

[@stacihilliard3761]

@@KLoosends statutory

[@ShayonceEpperson90]

Not him call his deceased child ‘ it ‘ 😮😢

[@biggredd1034]

This is so deep. Kudos to DL Hughley for his honesty.

[@mscj7348]

This made my heart heavy. The death of a baby that has done no wrong is gone. His honesty and being able to feel his emotions. The respect of his wife to handle there personal issues in private and not allow it to define there marriage. I completely gained a respect for DL and his wife🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@ministersonyakylegodsreali2903]

If she was 20 something and he was 13....this woman MOLESTED him!!!

[@nyaj754]

Bittersweet is a word that should have never been used while telling this story

[@ericagrier217]

He was being 100% honest about he felt at that time. It's equivalent to when a woman gets an abortion because she doesn't want a child. It hurts because you lose a child, but it's also some sort of relief if you didn't want a child.

[@tyshwan1]

This is the realest interview that I've seen in a long time I so appreciate DL's honesty, sincerity and willingness to share... And his wife is a REAL woman for understanding a mother's lost above a husband stupidity! I applaud you both!!!!

[@haywood0457]

How TF can you kill a kid omg. Heart goes out to that boy's soul. I love my kids so much. Smh. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@valeriestewart1578]

Something doesn't sound right. Why threaten and say to put your child on a life insurance policy then kill the child. So sad!!!

[@bigbossfredog.i.p3577]

Smfh, God bless that baby 😔

[@youngb6137]

BiG BoSS fRedo G.i.P Right

[@leesteal4458]

So sad, the poor kid didn't even have a dad who cared for him.

[@eew12]

The death of a baby being called "bittersweet" makes me want to throw up.

[@BigMundo22]

@Virginia Solomon stfu... y'all complain about everything.

[@tracebynay6976]

RaMundo so they suppose to like a nigga that had a baby on his wife

[@spiritwings4592]

He was talking about how his wife handled it being bittersweet

[@angelonearth242]

@@spiritwings4592 No because he didn't tell his wife until years later... sounds more like he is saying it was bittersweet (horrible choice of word) because he didn't have to tell his wife anymore

[@patremagilbert8787]

Yea sounds like a sacrifice to me.

[@kidperk3347]

I use to not care for DL too much idk why but hes a real dude for sure

[@cjbrown420]

I had a love hate for him I thought he was ok but to be considered one of the original Kings of comedy nah lol

[@acquenetta]

Same here

[@ch1kmagnet]

Why was she asking for money after the baby passed? They have no reason to still be communicating.

[@whateverwhateva2521]

right🤔😒

[@someguyjohn6599]

She probably depended on the boyfriend financially, so once he went to jail she ain't have shit. Think about it: This woman just had a newborn baby and was ALREADY living in the same house as her new man.

[@Kemetblack90]

Pinhead Larry On The Block that's not DL's problem tho.

[@someguyjohn6599]

You're right, its not. But I guess they just felt bad and paid.

[@Forever.Remain.Nameless]

terry jones it is his problem! Had DL been in the child's life maybe she wldnt of had to depend on another man and his chlid wld still be here. He's got to own up to some of the responsibility and thank god his wife is a real woman and recognized tht and tried to help the girl out even if it was years later....

[@geminithedreamalaqua1324]

He's So Handsome & His Features Are So Beautiful, Aside From That How Sad Of A Story I Had No Idea :(

[@kiransahid5651]

Such a horrible thing to have happened. There are consequences to ones actions. And our actions can affect sooo many peoples. I def feel like D.L Hughley has been affected by his choices. He looks like a tired broken man. I hope him the woman and his wife all find peace.

[@Breakingthebond]

Kiran Sahid a leveled statement 👌🏾 good comment

[@alexisjankowski3281]

I was not prepared for the amount of tragedy, trauma, and pain in this video.

[@kenya88831]

He’s still detached to that kid because he refers to him as “it” or “the baby” instead of my son

[@AAAA-nv5cf]

The baby dead now so it doesn’t matter

[@kenya88831]

@@AAAA-nv5cf Got it

[@robertgray6310]

How the fuck it doesn't matter it's still his child.

[@reginarandle584]

If you listen to the video, he actually referred to the baby as: he (2:06), him (2:10), him (2:15), him (2:17), his (2:59), he (3:00), he (3:45), his (3:46), him (5:17), and more.

[@leggs4113]

He didn’t have a relationship with him so it makes sense. Still doesn’t make it right though.

[@MaCnAzZsHyY619]

As a father who takes parenting serious this depressed tf out of me. I feel DL on so many levels from the selfishness all the way to the mixed feelings about the prayer and then the prayer being so called being answered. As men we often fear impregnating a woman whom we have no connection with its like a life sentence. On the other hand I wanna love my children man! This is a crazy sad story. Fellas be fathers and good leaders your babies they need us!

[@mksandals9572]

MaCnAzZsHyY619 ...I pray God Bless you and your entire family. Sir, you have my respect👍

[@janedoe2299]

The world need more good men

[@elleellk6899]

GodLoveFreedom right

[@BluDrop5]

It's interesting how we, as people, fear the consequences of our actions but don't do what's necessary to avoid them.

[@elleellk6899]

BluDrop5 so fucking right!! I had to comment again, lol

[@c-power8393]

Dam 11, I waited until I graduated out of high school....lol.... That’s sad about the baby situation.

[@Dommy521]

yeah sure, you "waited"

[@kingchad333]

Dommy521 why you checking ?

[@stephthompson4512]

Dommy521 some niggas spend they time on shit like uhmmm money ?

[@aviazx1799]

T-Roy IRH all I do is work rn so I know what you mean

[@stephthompson4512]

Aviaz X nah you insisting he didn’t wait. Some people who aren’t followers definitely wait because their focus is on something important. Pussy doesn’t get your finances right. And some people actually follow god’s word. I rather him follow the creator’s word than 2/3rd of you lames.

[@AKilahVamp]

With every interview I gain more respect for DL.

[@lionaudio]

Damn. That is some pain you don't heal from

[@maryjanesbaby9392]

Be careful how you pray and ask God for things.

[@DraganBakema]

Sorry?

[@MariaTorres-mb8rb]

Amen...

[@pinkorganichorse]

God DID NOT answer DL's prayer. God did not cause this child's death.

[@a.j.8004]

Amen, be careful with your prayers.

[@winterfall6953]

Lol.. god doesnt exist.

[@johnsgirl1835]

God Bless DL for keeping it real! He's always been one of my favorite comedians

[@eugeniamcmanus5336]

I know how he feels ; be careful what you wish for, you don’t know how it’s going to come to pass. My father was paranoid schizophrenic and I was a mentally and emotionally abused preteen. I just wanted him to go away. He went away alright after killing a family member and for many many years I thought it was my fault.

[@2013LPN]

His wife is real. I think she was giving money not only to help this lady but to also protect DL’s image. His success is her success and their children’s survival and advantage. That’s a good wife. She handled it well and he knew to let her.

[@LisaLisaCJ]

Ok blackmail money. Hush money

[@MSALL-co8bf]

So many in same situation. Least he man enough to admit. Now that is a real man. Help them Lord.

[@tbonezful]

My goodness. That fact that he can even talk about this, the amount of bravery just wow

[@Godislove9273]

Well, it was easy because he never built a bound with the child. He wasn’t there, at all. He referred to the child as “a child” not “my child.”

[@cjohnson_]

His wife needs to step. He been dogging her forever. What is the point??? And these comments are why men will continue to walk us women like dogs. Yall in here giving props and shit.

[@blackqueen5201]

He and his wife were young lovers I thought

[@cjohnson_]

@@blackqueen5201 ok???? is that supposed to mean anything?? Serious question

[@vmlksm9]

Exactly, it’s so embarrassing. Our community is filled with male identified women

[@geem2409]

Wow!!! I went through this with my ex. I can’t and will not tolerate cheating let alone a outside child. I stuck by him while they were going thru the paternity test for moral support. And for him to see what he was about to lose. He did in fact father that child and I did in fact leave him . Which I was going to do if it wasn’t his.

[@sandraruiz2212]

His wife was paying the other woman after the child passed away? Was that like some sort of reversed child support? That is strange. 🤔

[@sandrasteele976]

Hush money, he was growing his career....????

[@sandraruiz2212]

@@sandrasteele976 oh that makes sense

[@kiam6769]

Sad...the other women should pay

[@sadecherrelle6884]

Sandra Ruiz his wife is nice. I wouldn’t give a hot damn. He paid his child support and at the end of the day, he told his wife and that’s all he needed to do. He doesn’t owe her anything.

[@monica62888]

@@sadecherrelle6884 yea I wouldn't have gave her shit ... sorry

[@williamrunsatlanta9491]

“Everytime something good happens in my life I think about that moment” wow he’s held that guilt for awhile.

[@knt32347]

He said he was a scared kid? He was old enough to be married. He wasn’t a kid

[@billcosbyspillbottle8652]

World Traveller I’ve met 40 year old children so i beg to differ 🤷🏼‍♂️

[@monij8743]

I said the same thing...

[@aaronalder3423]

You’re still a kid in most ways at 23. Your brain isn’t even fully developed, not the frontal lobe which is responsible for decision making and executive functions. Did you really ponder this before commenting or just jump straight in with this?

[@aaronalder3423]

Virginia Solomon negative. The man owned up to his decisions. The fact of the matter is the human brain isn’t done developing at such a young age. Just because the law says you’re an adult doesn’t mean you are especially in the area of decision making.

[@knt32347]

Aaron Alder dude. He was at least 25 when he knocked his mistress up. HE WAS AN ADULT.

[@shaquayposey9878]

I could sit and listen to him for hours.

[@sandrapearson7328]

This is why I love him..his authencity. To own it and grow from it.

[@candicel.7696]

He Was Honest 🙏🏾😢❤️His wife Forgave Him and Hopefully the Mother of the Baby forgave DL and everyone heals

[@aloeleaf9789]

Where's his autobiography? That 8 minutes was very interesting.

[@theresewalker3055]

The realness in his situation is so outstanding. I know in the moment it's a lot to take in but I hope there is forgiveness in it all. It'll make you grow so much. His honesty is so evincing. Godspeed to the child's mom and everyone.

[@pauldavis1963]

This sounds like Denzel Washington's "Fences."

[@cfboldman]

Paul Davis actually August Wilson created fences it's a play. Denzel just made it into a movie

[@CallmeMrTibbs-kx7bx]

I know a few guys in this situation and can say not a single wife left them. There was plenty of fights and shit being torn up, but in the end they worked it out.

[@CallmeMrTibbs-kx7bx]

I could be wrong but I don't us as men would do the same if our wives got pregnant by another man.

[@godivaone3891]

Oh wow DL, prayers go out to you and your family.

[@madeoflove8341]

You just know when its authentic. Much respect for DL and his wife.

[@onceuponasavage]

Has DL always been this tatted up? Look like he about to drop a album

[@1thetvzone]

No

[@fredhall6525]

He's got one thing right. He was a coward for not protecting his son.

[@keishacarr3063]

Shout out to DL's wife for handling that situation the way she did. He clearly should have been scared of losing her.

[@jazzyj904]

Don't congratulate women for sticking around for mess like this. There is no rewards for this.

[@lilsamantha1]

I lost all respect for Hudley when I found this out. A straight coward. Had that child not die he would have never come clean on his own

[@UpUpDnDnLtRtLtRtBAStart]

Was never a King of Comedy.

[@shannongeorgiapeach76]

It just goes to show you that you never know what pain other people go thru in their lives. Such a sad story.

[@TheWrapUpNYC]

The realest part is him saying he PRAYED for god to take this off him and he did it in the worst way... god / universe works in the weirdest ways. God bless him, the wife and the child’s mother....

[@justinmcgee5154]

What an arrogant thing to say.! God never heard that prayer. If God acted on the situation it was to save the child from a life of misery and pain. People need to get over themselves and get over this ridiculous celebrity worship.