That first guy is a toddler in a suit. He kept making it more about her and less about the kids and his lack thereof. He was more dead set on putting her down and making her look bad and trying to make himself look good. Sickening. He made up an excuse to leave his kids for 2 years to do what he wanted to do.
@AbranCumba4 ай бұрын
Oh be quiet
@PinkyGirlstyle2323 күн бұрын
Truth!
@margo60229 ай бұрын
The first guy: " It's all about ME, ME, ME" Seems very selfish and narcissistic.
@afilthycasualsguidetomma21002 ай бұрын
You use that as a trigger word but it’s an actual mental disorder lmao you can say selfish but narcissistic disorder is diagnosable
@sharond64217 күн бұрын
I don’t know. I think he’s just plum crazy. He makes zero sense.
@thatssopinky9 ай бұрын
He keeps claiming mom doesn’t know what love is because of their failed relationship when her focus is the kids… he is deflecting the fact that he doesn’t know what love because he left his kids.
@lovelylyricist35059 ай бұрын
Her focus weren't on the kids! She purposely did NOT take his calls because he didn't want her. She said it out her own mouth. She wanted him to WANT HER too and when he didn't she hurt the kids by not letting them talk to him.
@merleneprice92019 ай бұрын
First guy is manipulating sitting there like his dress for a wedding 😂
@thabsmkhize24819 ай бұрын
I noticed that too 😂😂😂
@Zorobbabel9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@taleidasmith44289 ай бұрын
I think he bothered that suit from the show
@lavoniaholloway12459 ай бұрын
@@taleidasmith4428eh I mean, even when their sons be criminals and whatnot, black mothers always tell their sons to keep a nice suit in their closet. Some listen, some don’t lol. Dude came in with a tatted face but tried to dress to impress 😂😂
@Butterfly-cl6wb9 ай бұрын
He was trying to make sure she knew what she was missing...😂
@GodessIsabelRaina9 ай бұрын
1st guy got on my lastAZ nerves. He knew those kids were his but needed a reason to leave🙄
@amandawallace1059 ай бұрын
100% Narcissist
@brazil66229 ай бұрын
Exactly!!@@amandawallace105
@blulicious29 ай бұрын
Right. He doesn't want the responsibility of fatherhood because of his so called "rebirth." He's on this fake quest for love/life that jailbirds always discover when they locked up. I'll bet he's already back in jail.
@goodgirl1709 ай бұрын
That ww looking at him like he stupid.
@augustineabram15459 ай бұрын
He didn't need a reason.
@lovelymarie13669 ай бұрын
The 1st guy was so annoying. I think he loves to hear himself speak!!
@PinkyGirlstyle2323 күн бұрын
Honey YES! A narcissist who lives to hear his own voice. Notice the emotional detachment after reading the letter. No response.
@aliciagreen70359 ай бұрын
A MOTHER LOSING A CHILD IS SOMETHING THAT YOU NEVER GET OVER. SEEING HER CRY REMINDS ME OF MY MOTHER WHEN MY BROTHER PASSED AWAY. HE HAS BEEN GONE FOR ALMOST NINETEEN YEARS. NOW MY MOM IS GONE. I LOST HER IN 2022 FROM ALZHEIMERS AND A MASSIVE STROKE. I THANK GOD FOR HER. IT WAS AN HONOR AND A PRIVILEGE TO HAVE HER AS MY MOTHER. I PRAY THAT THIS MOTHER AND DAUGHTER CAN HEAL THEIR RELATIONSHIP BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE.
@thabsmkhize24819 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@MAKINGULAUGH29 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@scorpiocara67989 ай бұрын
My grandmother lost 5 over the course of a little over 3 decades I know exactly what u mean
@marysmith37639 ай бұрын
If you go on DNA she doesn't have the ability to love. This is why people should stay in their race. Technically those are not his children because their blood doesn't mix. she is Eukrayotic, he is Prokaryotic.
@PerryGyalTyngz9 ай бұрын
Same as my mother when my brother; he's been gone since 2010. And today's his birthday.
@thatssopinky9 ай бұрын
Ew, when he was asked about what he missed about his kids, he named the what the kids gave him “love, respect, etc”. Nothing about THEM.
@bettyblues92509 ай бұрын
Yep, I noticed it was ALL about him ....
@lonagwegweАй бұрын
Narcissistic behavior
@lonagwegweАй бұрын
@@bettyblues9250I was just expecting he would miss their laughter, seeing them happy, giving them hugs , playing with etc but nope dude miss how they love him, respect him because it’s all about him
@wynterstormy56409 ай бұрын
To say u miss the respect ur kids give instead of saying their smile laugh personality is crazyyyy
@peacelily77519 ай бұрын
I believe that he was the cheater, that first guy. Some men seem to think that all the effort in a relationship should come from the women.
@mzmagnolia29409 ай бұрын
The second story broke my heart. Mom was dealing with trauma and the daughter as well. I feel bad for both of them.
@Tinih-nd8rr9 ай бұрын
The 2nd case shows how desperate women can be to be in these relationships. It’s okay to be alone and have peace.
@lavadabell27375 күн бұрын
It's because of how hard her life has been. I hope she took his advice and having an easy life now.
@PeggyRabbit329 ай бұрын
That furst dude got on my nerves!!
@GodessIsabelRaina9 ай бұрын
He knew those kids were his. He needed an excuse to Santa Claus🎅Ĥ0Ĥ0Ĥ0😊
@TrinaWitDaRedLips9 ай бұрын
He got on everybody’s nerves that watched this episode 🙄With his silly ass 😢
@scorpiocara67989 ай бұрын
@@TrinaWitDaRedLipsno the woman got on my nerves she ain't no good. Keeping the kids away from him bcz he dont want her trifling ass
@kimcannon93409 ай бұрын
While the child wrote his father about his pain, he said, "You know what hurts ME. Ninja, you're an adult with children. Yes heal but stop sacrificing those children
@Renee3029769 ай бұрын
The 2nd guests really touched my heart. I felt both of their pain 😞
@Irene-yd2sv9 ай бұрын
This man looks like he’s been stressed out since birth with them eye bags 💀🤦🏻♀️
@dominiquejenkins54959 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 not since birth .. my imagination to vivid for this comment
@KeelaHughes.9 ай бұрын
He talks the way I talk my dreams. Slow asf.
@thabsmkhize24819 ай бұрын
@@dominiquejenkins5495😂😂😂😂 ended me too!
@deborahrollins70719 ай бұрын
Lol
@Irene-yd2sv9 ай бұрын
@@dominiquejenkins5495 🤣💀
@_ndimamadu3 ай бұрын
The first woman needs to live her life happily and never allow him to come back.. he aggravated me
@TrinaWitDaRedLips9 ай бұрын
The 2nd story really made me sad 😢💔❤️🩹I’m praying for them both….. Lord please bring them into a healthy relationship filled with love ❤️ & peace ☮️ They both deserve it 😢
@Briski839 ай бұрын
That man is sick!!! He gaslights her. He slick hates her and berates her… then acts like it’s out of love ❤
@cashbaby26able8 ай бұрын
The first case really proves you gotta know who you have a family with
@SonjaElizabethTeal9 ай бұрын
He gets to "tour the world" yet has children that need him? Must be nice. Looks like she got the same Black Man....
@danadane54979 ай бұрын
Wow this show really helped me with some issues of my own with my sons
@yvonnebrendamiller63059 ай бұрын
My mom gave me a furniture bill, which yes I was upset at the time; but I am grateful now cause it taught me how to manage and be responsible with my money.
@egujuga9 ай бұрын
there are better ways to do that but, ok.. to each its own
@yvonnebrendamiller63059 ай бұрын
@@egujuga Again I appreciate my mom for giving me a bill, what I didn’t mention she was saving the money giving to her for me. Also the furniture became mines in the long run. Yes, as an young individual in society today if it’s not planted in us we feel like our parents should pay for everything.
@joannsolano10949 ай бұрын
First couple, wow. Dude has some real issues within himself, my personal opinion. He's all about me, me, me.
@Laladuh2159 ай бұрын
I first guy is very dramatic.. and he knew those were his kids🙄 he just didn’t want to take care of of them. He’s not ready to be a father 🤷🏾♀️
@asiaryan86399 ай бұрын
I didn’t know you could take a sabbatical from parenting lol
@chaseabageav65119 ай бұрын
CODY WALKED OUT Expeditiously!!! That suit is sharp
@tiddlebop72779 ай бұрын
You can tell TI is his idol. He's trying to dress up and sound like him too.
@tlioness9 ай бұрын
She is crazy ain’t no way I could listen to him talk all day 🙄
@tiBoomer5 ай бұрын
🥴🥴🥴
@VintageVera3 ай бұрын
Why in the world would she even want to be with this guy ever?
@naanra3019 ай бұрын
The first guy: he got on my nerves with every word he said. I didn’t get what he really wanted to say. But as he started reading LMAO😂😂😂 Sorry but seeing and hearing sb reading loud tells me so much!
@LaydAkGaming7 ай бұрын
Karamo was spittin this episode
@shareesejohnson71049 ай бұрын
It is never a child's responsibility to financially help their parents when they should've been the ones who were supposed to save their money or have a savings account of some sort to finance themselves!!
@lavadabell27375 күн бұрын
That's I'm your household! Not for everybody. Having kids pay bills teaches them responsibility to prepare them for life, which is our job. My friends who parents made them responsible for a bill grew up to be great with money and I'm horrible with managing my money cuz my mom didn't make me pay bills. I had to learn the hard way
@boopeepope56-ey5gz9 ай бұрын
The daughter held a mother's place. Over seeing everything
@thabsmkhize24819 ай бұрын
First couple, you can just tell that there were red flags with that guy in the first WEEK of the relationship and this lady decided to stay with him 9 years and have two kids by him. I’ll just never get it. That man hasn’t matured emotionally since probably the age of 11. He absolutely could not empathise with the mom nor with his kids. Talking about “I took a sabbatical” have you lost your damn mind? You think you can take a sabbatical from parenting?? And still come back looking and acting like that?? Waste of the damn kids’ time. Argh, so annoying.
@kourtneyrenee084 ай бұрын
For sure!!! He didn't just get like that in the last year. Those red flags were waving and she ignored.
@thabsmkhize24814 ай бұрын
@@kourtneyrenee08 absolutely 💯
@AbranCumba4 ай бұрын
@@kourtneyrenee08oh shut up
@joycewilson70459 ай бұрын
The greatest healing is when you can step away from everyone for a while to innerstand the man in the mirror. One of the major issues in life is when people continuously place other things around them to keep them from understanding the "whys" in their own life.
@Mandalas129 ай бұрын
Understand ☮️
@joycewilson70459 ай бұрын
@@Mandalas12 Innerstand is a saying...
@kimcannon93409 ай бұрын
Kids still gotta eat/ sleep/ live... communication, with over-standing is key, then show some gratitude
@joycewilson70459 ай бұрын
@@kimcannon9340 Amen, yes for kids...Not always for adults...
@pollyannaprinciple58609 ай бұрын
That woman looks traumatized. What looks good ain't always good for you.
@candacebutler70119 ай бұрын
So he said F his kids right?
@sistahspeaks98169 ай бұрын
20:28 idk how she dealt with him so long he aggravating
@zahirahjahmad25308 ай бұрын
Yes he is, I know children need their father, but this man’s presence has the potential to ruin these kids mentally and emotionally
@AbranCumba4 ай бұрын
@@zahirahjahmad2530oh shut up
@thizz70748 ай бұрын
Went to school together...he must have been a teacher and her a student
@meganh40119 ай бұрын
This first dude is something! He act like he is the man but he's just a juvenile delinquent. I wasn't really paying attention when it first came on. I thought that they were talking to somebody who was in their 20s. Or teens even! Can you imagine talking about your husband like I think he was on house arrest then? I will never be uttering those sentences because if my husband goes to jail, he ain't my husband anymore. nice tattoo in the middle of your forehead by the way like that.
@britneywilliams78819 ай бұрын
Last one gave me chills.... I've been in the young ladies shoes. And no matter what it was not my job but I made sure that when I was able to work and do I helped my momma with everything. Gas, food, rent you name it. My momma was my world I watched her go through so much. She's GONE now but I'm just glad that before she left she knew what it was liked to be appreciated and loved just because. It was not easy but I Defiantly got through it.
@TruDaira-z3i9 ай бұрын
I felt everything with the mom and daughter story whewwww
@PeggyRabbit329 ай бұрын
This mother needs to understand that she made the decision to take in her sister's children. She made the decision to have the children she had. It's not her daughter's responsibility to help her raise her children. Then you are willing to reconcile with a man who threatned to off your children. Wheew..the cycle of trauma
@lavadabell27375 күн бұрын
Yes but the daughter can be understanding to her decision. She did it out of the kindness of her heart. This is what family is for and what family do! Everyone chips in and help. The problem is obviously the men she chooses. You can tell she's very broken on the inside and terrified of being alone cuz it is considerably hard to handle all that alone but hopefully by how transparent she was being, she is ready for a change and gets better
@charliefreeman8429 ай бұрын
This is a good episode of Karamo with a double DNA 🧬 mystery.
@coolest6239 ай бұрын
Karamo chooses who he wants to really help with counseling and what not because he quickly bids farewell to people he doesn’t want to be bothered with
@AmLetoure9 ай бұрын
You first have to want the help then be at a place in your life (within yourself) to receive it. Otherwise, it's a waste of time, effort, and resources. Sometimes help in the moment is simply planting the seed.
@MarthaKayUganda8 ай бұрын
I'm sure by the time you watch him you should be able to trust his judgement 😁
@everrgreen1229 ай бұрын
Imagine taking a “sabbatical” in a whole other state when you have two kids to take care of. All this man was talking about was himself. He had so much pity and understanding for his feelings, but not a word about the kids he abandoned. Nothing wrong with taking care of yourself as a parent, I actually applaud it, but this guy just doesn’t feel like being a father. I completely understand why that woman was so cold towards him. Dealing with his big feelings and constant rambling must’ve been torture.
@thesugarcase74319 ай бұрын
The first dad is so immature and a poor excuse for a father.
@Briski839 ай бұрын
Every time karamo says something to him he has to say something back… I… I… I.
@taytriggs90659 ай бұрын
That woman is beat down. My mom was in he same toxic ass relationship for over 20 years. He was an alcoholic and drug addict but he wasn’t violent. He was irresponsible and progressive very sick from alcoholism. He died last year. Their relationship ended with them both cheating but still living together. I was away at college and my sister were also adults. We repeated toxic relationships and realized our lol never talked to us about relationships at all. So I talk to my daughter a lot about not repeating my mistakes.
@NomzamoKhumalo-x5n9 ай бұрын
Africa needs More of you!! Think about that....
@rhodiahicks44599 ай бұрын
Its never your childs job tonhelp with bills
@goodgirl1709 ай бұрын
If they over the age of 18 and live with you that may not be true.
@RosalynnAnne9 ай бұрын
I definitely agree. My parents never made me do that.
@gem42949 ай бұрын
I wanted to help my mother with bills. That's what family does.
@rhodiahicks44599 ай бұрын
@@goodgirl170 keyword I said child and even then most 18 year old are just graduating. If they leave them bills still gone be there
@Kylers-Mommy9 ай бұрын
When she told her mom "I felt it too" I started crying cause this hit home with my mom growing up. When she said she had a financial mom instead of an emotional mom whew ! But my mom and I relationship is alot better now . 🫶🏾
@desteepooful9 ай бұрын
He's focused on their relationship and she's focused on the kids 😒
@Dnay-yy9kv8 ай бұрын
My son dad does that , like why you worried about me worry about our son
@margaretkeah43989 ай бұрын
Dear my dear daughters! Run away from guy number 1 type!!!!
@jaisaidso60278 ай бұрын
That first man was annoying af!
@LeshaFBaby9 ай бұрын
I remember this one..good one
@blessgg9 ай бұрын
This guy is a mess! He is selfish and cares only about him! He cant even be a father cause of his beliefs, his feelings, what he thinks about his kids mother! He needs to man up and grow up and be the man he neess to be for his kids! She should be happy he left!😊
@lovelylyricist35059 ай бұрын
I understand the mother lost a child yet that does NOT give approval for how she treats her daughter.
@nincompoop120728 күн бұрын
Its crazy how guys get so much grace for abandoning their kids to "better themselves" WHEN MAMA DONT HAVE A CHOICE We have to try to get ourselves back do tired, depressed, ect. no matter what! We have to take care of food , school , doctors appointment, dentist appointment everything. While they can just choose if they feel like it 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
@rubyjaez9 ай бұрын
“I didn’t give you less I just had less!” The daughter wants to be heard but she doesn't want to hear her mother. The Mother is more concerned with reconciling with a man that assaults her, threatens to kill her kids. Which is crazy because she lost a child. How could she want to stay with a Man who threatens to kill the children you have living? Just crazy, disturbing, and pathetic
@agp30969 ай бұрын
The daughter feels she is not being heard because the mom always responds with her sob story.
@vivlagabster9 ай бұрын
Some people are just not emotionally intelligent to realize they are their own downfall. You gotta realize what and who you’re choosing to be in ur life and sadly it affects the kids. I hope she gets the help she needs for herself and her kids
@TruDaira-z3i9 ай бұрын
This the first one to make me cry
@theofficial13959 ай бұрын
Yes the 1st young man is soooo aggy
@ShanellIsShanney9 ай бұрын
The 2nd story. Anisty 😢 I know how you feel girl. Our story is soooooo similar 💔 everything, even to the mom bf threatening to shoot her kid. Wowwww. Some moms not shit man
@boopeepope56-ey5gz9 ай бұрын
He was pickup drop off because no job. Girl say bye and move on. Stop wasting your life
@judithturner22819 ай бұрын
The 1st guy was just full of himself and had no thought for his children a right know allí got on my nerves.
@aishalubega13819 ай бұрын
His background is his real problem not the relationship.
@brendagay57779 ай бұрын
The mother said something about she had less,but you had love for those men you was dating,even though that man you was with did something to your leg,you still want to reconcile
@tiffany42054 ай бұрын
He cannot stand her. I think so less of her its crazy. He needs to be there for his children
@Bekindlove8079 ай бұрын
Mom lost a child, with a partner that threatened to murder her children, and mad that her daughter don’t wanna reconcile with him?! Girl bye !
@TheeOrg_JollyRancher9 ай бұрын
He got her pregnant twice signed both of the birth certificates then made up excuse blamed her to leave an went all the way to a different state an he said she had a lot of resources he used her an using his kids never wanted to be with her from the beginning
@leeannajohnson10089 ай бұрын
The first guy only care about himself
@empulce5 ай бұрын
The first guy is so full of himself.
@taytriggs90659 ай бұрын
“Perceived” as the bad guy not “conceived”.
@maliamahealani18663 ай бұрын
Cody is irritating. She funny af tb “just open the results man” 😂 i felt that. HEAVILY. Idk how she managed for NINE years
@MelodyBosh4 ай бұрын
He does not focus on the kids at all. He is only about the hurt he feels about her. Cody, ex-gf Brittany & 2 kids
@alexischaneltv94989 ай бұрын
Omg the 1st couple remind me of Brittany and marciano from love after lockup 😂
@aishalubega13819 ай бұрын
I got annoyed with every bit of his utterance.
@antoinette1985lynn9 ай бұрын
The first guy has some issues he doesnt love himself and is the one who had been cheating. He is very toxic controlling and abusive and wont stop talking until he gets the answer that he wants to hear even if its not the truth. How can he love her when he doesnt love himself.
@WWJD-MIA9 ай бұрын
He is exhausting…he must of grabbed TI’s dictionary of expeditious words 😂😂😂 sabbatical?? Sir from what?! The ink must have seeped to his brain
@Iphone.4498 ай бұрын
First guy is a manipulator n it’s all about him from he minute he walked out in a full suit I knew he was feeling himself putting down the woman because he knew those kids were his from day one he just doesn’t want to step up girl if I were you I’d leave him right there
@jrcarter91759 ай бұрын
17:03, 18:28 DNA outcome
@toysoneworleans77669 ай бұрын
Girllll the way I would’ve called his parole officer and blocked him
@noelic27559 ай бұрын
Damn dude in the beginning always curving the questions being ask to direct it to her and make it seems she is the big problem but it's him 100 percent and is in denial because no one eve told him to his see and held him accountable.
@BaileyMyLife-2039 ай бұрын
Typical jail house behavior and communications. Prison Court room tactics, doing a lot of talking saying nothing. He is a narcissistic, gaslighting controlling individual. He is in desperate need of therapy. For the sake of the mother and children, I hope that he is not violent.😊
@irisnightmar53199 ай бұрын
100% her daughter wouldn’t be there if she didn’t care. Because if I was in her shoes the immaturity anger and aggression would’ve been bad like he said what about my siblings and you still with him “it’s up forever” ong for that
@lesterwilliamsjr6499 ай бұрын
I just don't get these guest who say they all have this evidence and yet come on a talk show for more evidence.
@blessgg9 ай бұрын
Lol 😅
@demetriarincon1359 ай бұрын
The audience is so dramatic with the ummmm's 😂
@just-disgusted9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂 yup
@victoriahollister68759 ай бұрын
In the second story, the daughter wanted something from her mother that she couldn't give.
@cookieg58019 ай бұрын
This first segment. It is truly disappointing. He's clearly having some serious moments. And he needs assistance. And I hope that he can find a balance so he can get the necessary support that he needs to be a great human and excellent father and plus b and his children's life as he's receiving these services. And it sets a new positive way to handle issues to his next generation
@lynnsosocool72459 ай бұрын
Oh he just wanted out ? Girl let go do whatever he was doing
@bettyconaway2 ай бұрын
The first guy has issues, I would definitely watch him around the children and their mom ! He may step up at first but it won’t last .
@khulaniafrost83598 ай бұрын
First guy is definitely T.I.'s cousin or they shared a cell or something 😂
@6Summerville4 ай бұрын
I wish he would have made this man answer the question that he was asked. When he was asked how does he think his sabbatical affected those kids he went on a rant about what Brittany has and not once answered that question. That man just talks to hear himself talk and it’s was nothing but a bunch of BS. Nothing made sense. He’s selfish and self absorbed. How and why in the hell did she have kids by this fool!!!
@sheliagantt1489 ай бұрын
The kids will understand if the Mom will not poison their mind against the Dads. Some women do because the relationship has run its course
@nonololo4919 ай бұрын
He hates her and that’s affecting the kids its hard to communicate with someone you hurt from especially if there is kids
@wanderess4449 ай бұрын
The first man is an entire narcissist.
@lexislove6395 ай бұрын
First lady: girl cut ya losses and just move on, he talks too much he’s selfish and he hates you bcux you aren’t feeding into his ego and woes… hes not gonna be a daddy to them kids bcuz its no longer serving his agenda
@johnloway76259 ай бұрын
the first guy is such a entitled little boy in a pastor suit. He was puttin up a front with his theatrics.
@LeiMillie9 ай бұрын
He seemed slow or on drugs... something was really off about his character..
@ethelpittman1809 ай бұрын
I’m so silkka this first dude
@aishalubega13819 ай бұрын
He is just envious of his wife?
@catrevabeasley-bonner93349 ай бұрын
The guy with the tattoos on his face, girl run before he takes u and the kids out, cause once u finally have enough. You only leaving 1 way and ain't no coming back.
@kmrf278 ай бұрын
1st case; this should be happening if he was ready do go to a DNA clinic waaaaaaay before that she denied( that’s a side eye 😒 and weird from her part 🤔) But I’m glad he work on himself, and he has a looooooot to cope! 2nd case; the mother can’t help it, her situation was a compromised unfortunately! Toxic relationship, validation of others accepts… it’s a lot!!