Do Dumpers Hurt After a Breakup?

[@alijaber2623]

Never trust someone who leaves u when u're broken or feeling bad. NEVER. NC should be a preparation for No Return.

[@Djessjazz]

I was the one that walked away and I’m still hurting and its been a long time I don’t think I’ll get over him but I wont break NC because I don’t believe he’s changed so yes your absolutely right

[@fuzzypanda1684]

Depends why she left you. If she left you for a normal reason, she probably misses you. But if she left you FOR someone else...unfortunately, all of the interest and attraction that she had for you evaporated the moment she met him, and she's not feeling any pain because she's already with him. No matter how hard she worked to prove that you can trust her or how many years she stuck by your side... understand that EVERY girl is capable of losing all interest and attraction for you in an instant if they meet a guy who gives them butterflies. I was with a girl for 3 years and I trusted her more than anyone I've ever known. She told me "I'm not gonna hurt you, I really care about you and would never hurt you" ONE WEEK before she left me for a guy she met that same week. Never. Trust. Anyone. When the girl you truly believe would never leave you leaves you without warning, it WILL destroy you.

[@youtuber148]

This had been explained beautifully thank you.

[@haihai5293]

Very good video.

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you very much!

[@ct6707]

So, I am coming back to the channel commenting this cause these sort of comments from people who have gone through the entire process have always given me hope when I was in ur situation. If you have been desperate and needy after your break up don’t worry too much. I haven been there and I took desperation to a whole new level. I basically thought I fucked everything up. Eventually I realized I need to stop what I was doing (constantly reaching out, asking if she is seeing someone new…). I haven’t done no contact at that point. So I tried it with all my heart. It was hard and it was very difficult to not text her. But looking back now I know the person who actually needed the nc was myself. I first went through even more pain (NC) before I finally felt better. And guess what? She reached out after two weeks of NC (that was already a few moths ago). Right now we are having contact on and off. She told me she misses me some time ago. Have we gotten back together? No. At this point I am not even sure if I want her. I am seeing things now for what they are. And I am thinking if she can also grow in herself I might give her another chance. BUT, I told you my story because I want to tell you NC works. And trust me it is more important for you, than to get ur ex back. When you stop obsessing over it, things will be fine and to be honest chances are you will have a chance to talk to them again, even if things look bad right now. Tips for NC: Whenever you feel like reaching out remember all the times u reached out and it backfired real bad, so theres no harm in trying NC. Do Social media Stories. They will watch. Actually get active and do cool things, whatever makes you happy, but don’t fake it! All the best to you all and remember it worked for me and many more.

[@Jes2758]

Hey Coach Adrian! I really hope you see this message because i wanted to give you and your team a big thank you, but especially you coach Adrian I found your guidance the most helpful. My ex broke up with me a month ago and i followed your no contact method for 1 month and followed up by sending a letter. She didn’t see it until 1 week later and coincidentally we “ran” into each the same day she saw the letter. We talked for just about 2 hours in the car and obviously lots of feelings were expressed, but we both admitted we haven’t healed yet. She said she’s still not okay with herself, and I left right before she started crying. So I’m wondering now if I should just go back into no contact? I wanted to reach out to her next week to wish her happy birthday, and I kind of want to pickup the conversation from there but i feel like that would be a bad idea what do you think? Thank you for all you do coach Adrian your videos have helped me in more ways than you can imagine!

[@rivalchavez9250]

I already let go. Me and her have fun together but she doesn't want me back. She just rented her own home.I guess she's only nice because of the kids.

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for the comment. Sometimes it can take time. Partners need time to be without, sometimes this can be a partner seeking their own independence. It just depends on the situation and circumstance and the past experiences. Give it more time and focus on yourself during this time. Thank you, Coach Adrian

[@Peter-mo3pr]

This video sums up everything I'm seeing in my wife. Changed hair, tattoos, decorating the house, new friends and nights out. I don't recognise her since she left me.

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

How's the communication?

[@mickcheez6868]

What if the dumper unfollowed you on every social media platform saying they need space?

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

It's normal, a lot of people needs space after the breakup.

[@nakitsawashington6032]

Thank you for this.

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

You're welcome!

[@talialara3854]

Hi Adrian I been listening to you for two years after he broke the engagement , few months after I found out he met a woman ave few months after he got engaged lol. What is the logic here we weee together for more than 10 years , any comments?

[@heartff7444]

After no contact I tried to be friends with ex but she said no,what does it mean but she didn't block me

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for the question. This is a valid question. It would depend on how much time has passed what the basis of break up was and how best to communicate with your parter depending on situation. We are here to help strategize, please consider 1:1 session so we can assess better! www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Thank you Coach Adrian