Do this if they don’t text you back 

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Francesca Psychology

Francesca Psychology

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@srivastavashivam949
@srivastavashivam949 Жыл бұрын
I feel like it's reverse psychology. Just because you gave yourself the permission, now you realise how stupid it would be to actually go through it.
@peaceofmindofpeace1650
@peaceofmindofpeace1650 Жыл бұрын
Yes .Taking back control by letting control go/giving it away.
@Teeconsultingg
@Teeconsultingg Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@glamourwithjabreon3164
@glamourwithjabreon3164 Жыл бұрын
Right 🤣
@bracha874
@bracha874 Жыл бұрын
Haha right on
@MJG159
@MJG159 Жыл бұрын
Exactly I tried 😂 that’s exactly how I felt! Like Ew it’s not that serious 😂😂😂
@lalehbryanskrenes5692
@lalehbryanskrenes5692 Жыл бұрын
Detachment is the key. Not, not caring, but realizing there are greater things in life than this attachment. Find peace in accepting what will be will be... To be honest "detachment" is in fact attachment to the Creator which is greater than any thing or anyone. That is true peace.
@real_hello_kitty
@real_hello_kitty 5 ай бұрын
right
@chrisross-fd3fo
@chrisross-fd3fo 4 ай бұрын
my wife and i never spent a day apart in ten years.. ultimately past unresolved trauma was our undoing...but if either of us had ignored each other in the beginning we wouldnt have gotten together long term...because if its who you want to be with THE PHONE ALWAYS WORKS...it just does...they know it we know it.the text function works..if its a day and a steamroller crushed it.use a friends phone..the library , neighbor, no excuses...if not it technically is a relationship built on lies
@silentowl2812
@silentowl2812 4 ай бұрын
🪶
@Poodle_Gun
@Poodle_Gun 4 ай бұрын
That's why everyone is on psych scrips
@SamanthaJames-d4j
@SamanthaJames-d4j 3 ай бұрын
Amen
@morselsofgold
@morselsofgold Жыл бұрын
REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY! When you hear how ridiculous it sounds to "let someone take over your mind and ruin your day" you'll naturally go against letting that happen!
@rs5570
@rs5570 Жыл бұрын
I think Abraham Hicks thing is a hoax with the “channeling.” Please.
@trayv7230
@trayv7230 Жыл бұрын
Bro, couldn't even think about the man anymore after hearing "ruining my day. "
@mika_9
@mika_9 Жыл бұрын
@morselsofgold exactly!!!!
@petergulvas6553
@petergulvas6553 Жыл бұрын
i dont agree with this, you need to learn to control yourt thoughts, it might not be important in this case but it might be in other more serious situations
@danaparfitt2491
@danaparfitt2491 Жыл бұрын
​@@petergulvas6553well ya😂lol your brain wont fall out, draw a line buddy its your brain duh
@inesshiro2890
@inesshiro2890 10 ай бұрын
this is really refreshing. making space to feel these emotions exhausts them. the only way out is through, we can't escape our feelings.
@philiprennert7730
@philiprennert7730 Жыл бұрын
If I text them and they don’t answer with in the next 2 days I delete the chat 😂😂😂 Out of sight out out of mind
@elisabettabubola4927
@elisabettabubola4927 Жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t t even wait until the first day
@ahsanfarooq980
@ahsanfarooq980 Жыл бұрын
us bro but i delete in 2 hours🤣
@peaceofmindofpeace1650
@peaceofmindofpeace1650 Жыл бұрын
I do the same or I delete their nr if it feels to disrespectful. To give myself closure.
@bracha874
@bracha874 Жыл бұрын
or just block !
@SunilTravel_vlogs
@SunilTravel_vlogs Жыл бұрын
Same here 😂😂 ✋
@jodiburnett6211
@jodiburnett6211 Жыл бұрын
I love this! Lean into the sadness and grief and let it ruin your day….for as long as you need to. And then go outside and play and laugh at all of it! Thank you.
@streber193
@streber193 Ай бұрын
You missed the point.
@SpagettyCraft
@SpagettyCraft Жыл бұрын
Don't get addicted to people. Just really do your business and understand in a stoic way that not everyone you like will like you back. Work on yourself, set goals and work towards them. There is approximately 4 billion men and about as much women on earth. Just seeing every single one of men or women for 1 SECOND would take about 126 years. You WILL find love, but first, find YOURSELF. Be patient.
@autumnskye5010
@autumnskye5010 Жыл бұрын
Very well articulated
@aryanyadav3942
@aryanyadav3942 Жыл бұрын
Woww to be honest Your words makes my day ❤️
@RLH_ITALIA
@RLH_ITALIA Жыл бұрын
Awesome!😊
@ikrammahdi7381
@ikrammahdi7381 Жыл бұрын
👏 👏
@ma.theresaconcepciongerial744
@ma.theresaconcepciongerial744 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Well said.
@samanthaclark1547
@samanthaclark1547 Жыл бұрын
I found this about 30 minutes ago. I cant believe how better I feel and so instantly. Wow, thank you so much
@NEOSPORIN7777
@NEOSPORIN7777 Жыл бұрын
6 hours later my heart doesn't hurt like it had for the last few weeks. thank you.
@rushiljain9423
@rushiljain9423 Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@lindadesenclos1565
@lindadesenclos1565 Жыл бұрын
😂😂wtf lmao r u guys serious
@calabiss4672
@calabiss4672 Жыл бұрын
feminine ahh 😭
@watchmenoftruth5238
@watchmenoftruth5238 Жыл бұрын
What a load of rubbish this is
@crystalfelicia793
@crystalfelicia793 Жыл бұрын
​@@calabiss4672thats a man wtf
@latifah-su6vh
@latifah-su6vh Ай бұрын
I don't really know how to thank you Dr Oluwaseun for your great spell you're great at your work I thank you for bringing my lover back with your love spell Dr oluwaseun 😊
@latifah-su6vh
@latifah-su6vh Ай бұрын
He’s on Facebook
@1disciple66
@1disciple66 Жыл бұрын
Instead of fighting it I gave into it and it stopped me from wanting him. I gave him permission to to feel what I feel and let him deal with it😂 Thank you🌷
@tPeNnAcallmebyyourname
@tPeNnAcallmebyyourname Жыл бұрын
@Kevin Greaney youre on your period?
@tPeNnAcallmebyyourname
@tPeNnAcallmebyyourname Жыл бұрын
@Kevin Greaney the fact that you bothered to response shows how hurt you were
@tPeNnAcallmebyyourname
@tPeNnAcallmebyyourname Жыл бұрын
@Kevin Greaney einstein. And you say i had the kindergarden response💀
@tPeNnAcallmebyyourname
@tPeNnAcallmebyyourname Жыл бұрын
@Kevin Greaney thanks buddy
@alexhopestranger7386
@alexhopestranger7386 Жыл бұрын
​​​@Kevin Greaney if u, a random guy care enough to write this comment, why do u think some other person, who personally knows her doesn't?
@KaiaWebster-yk2sh
@KaiaWebster-yk2sh Ай бұрын
Thank you Dr Oluwaseun for helping me solving my love problem. I will never forget your favor for the rest of my life.❤
@KaiaWebster-yk2sh
@KaiaWebster-yk2sh Ай бұрын
He’s on Facebook
@ellarodems3524
@ellarodems3524 Жыл бұрын
in the beginning i was so passionate but i thought abt him all day then I honestly got bored. I thought abt him all day until i got bored of always thinking of him
@SharifD-PaletteAnArtdsb
@SharifD-PaletteAnArtdsb Жыл бұрын
😂
@ST-wc9ws
@ST-wc9ws Жыл бұрын
That happened to me too 😂
@dant8162
@dant8162 Жыл бұрын
Boredom is a girls kryptonite
@manumanu5326
@manumanu5326 Жыл бұрын
😂😂 same
@krishnasatapathy2088
@krishnasatapathy2088 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣😅
@NamalAlexx
@NamalAlexx Ай бұрын
I just can't stop thanking you enough Dr OLUWASEUN or bringing back my lover to me...... really appreciate sir😊
@NamalAlexx
@NamalAlexx Ай бұрын
He’s on Facebook…
@albertoleecarranza9477
@albertoleecarranza9477 Жыл бұрын
Just you saying it made me feel better. I give too much power to people that don't appreciate my time. Thank you.
@gemspiritmessages2754
@gemspiritmessages2754 Жыл бұрын
If a man is interested, he will walk on hot coals for you. It takes a few seconds to text. If he doesn’t, he’s just keeping you as a back up plan. 😢♥️ Only when we respect ourselves will we have the love we seek.
@Martyn_Wolf
@Martyn_Wolf Жыл бұрын
Tell that to dozens of people who don't bother to text back 😂 they still won't text back
@Sunnyfield323
@Sunnyfield323 Жыл бұрын
@@Martyn_Wolf that’s not the lesson or the goal . The insight is you don’t need Someone like that in your life would be unwise to except someone like that in your life
@scottysteadman5063
@scottysteadman5063 Жыл бұрын
Asking for friend ! Does this work both ways!!
@ibrahim_-_-_
@ibrahim_-_-_ Жыл бұрын
@@scottysteadman5063 yes it does
@drmontano9414
@drmontano9414 Жыл бұрын
if you treated him badly and you expect him to respond like a puppy dog . This wont work lol
@Skeeeyeeee
@Skeeeyeeee 2 жыл бұрын
This is the first time I’ve genuinely smiled today, thank you so much. I felt a rush of energy and happiness
@nankanjafoundation
@nankanjafoundation Жыл бұрын
😊😃this girl
@queenvirgo2082
@queenvirgo2082 Жыл бұрын
Someone that actually understood the mission
@ssimarsimar2395
@ssimarsimar2395 Жыл бұрын
Same
@khuld5
@khuld5 8 ай бұрын
Omg likewise
@Iluvcinnamorolll
@Iluvcinnamorolll 2 ай бұрын
Yes😭😭😭😭😭😭 Now I believe reverse psychology works😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@JMarshallYTTV
@JMarshallYTTV Жыл бұрын
It works - I tried this with my ex after a few days of obsessive thoughts. I decided just to be with the thoughts and let them take their course - they began to fade quite quickly! Thank you.
@TheJaiNetwork
@TheJaiNetwork Жыл бұрын
Just find another person to focus on.. ain’t nobody got time to let another ruin your day. Everyday is a blessing and rejection is protection
@BabyFaceRose
@BabyFaceRose 9 ай бұрын
🫶🏼❤️‍🩹😭
@annaraven5520
@annaraven5520 4 ай бұрын
Focus on yourself
@alejandrop.s.3942
@alejandrop.s.3942 2 ай бұрын
Not being texted back is like if you're talking in person and they just give you their back and walk away. It's really disrespectful. I immediatly lose interest in people who behave that way, they just show their true colors.
@wen7915
@wen7915 Жыл бұрын
It means you need to embrace the pains.Because sometimes the more you go against it, the more intense it becomes
@peaceofmindofpeace1650
@peaceofmindofpeace1650 8 ай бұрын
Yes like exposing therapy
@paolaneubert6784
@paolaneubert6784 Жыл бұрын
In order to let go, you need to accept. Once you accept and allow, it goes away
@sisid6295
@sisid6295 Жыл бұрын
it is simular mind game like we want something what we can not have mostly cus we can not etc
@MsCutepandalove10
@MsCutepandalove10 Жыл бұрын
This is very true, I actually did this a long time ago with a situationship I had and it absolutely worked. I came back and tried to find this video so I could try it on someone else and I gotta admit! In the spam of 9 months this man is constantly texting me, and begging to be with me. This is very powerful, it was very instance and passionate. Lots of fighting, and strong emotions. He even told me he loved me you guys! It was too much for me and I actually ended up breaking things off and it only got more complicated. I am being dead serious. Why would I come on this video and write this long paragraph!! It is absolutely real and be careful what you wish for ! I barely knew the guy and attracted a very possessive man into my life. Smh! Lesson learned lol
@musicallife3981
@musicallife3981 3 ай бұрын
What did you do?
@Izabela-ek5nh
@Izabela-ek5nh 3 ай бұрын
Maybe you didn't understand the video :)
@musicallife3981
@musicallife3981 3 ай бұрын
@@Izabela-ek5nh yes I did. But what she did, she didn't mention. Did she lose interest and then he came back?
@AutumnRainWish
@AutumnRainWish Жыл бұрын
This worked for me once. I got bored thinking about them all the time obsessively. It happens, trust me.
@tammystours5171
@tammystours5171 Жыл бұрын
Haha
@AVINASHSAHU-fx8tu
@AVINASHSAHU-fx8tu Жыл бұрын
This magical Girl knows how to get the work done . Once and for all your advices are very effective I feel less burdened . Thank you Miss😊 .
@alyssaabella444
@alyssaabella444 Жыл бұрын
It works because every single time I feel the pain I'm getting stronger and I'm slowly learning to deal with it 💗💗💗
@crystalpixley7690
@crystalpixley7690 Жыл бұрын
I love this. And give yourself permission to take it personally, too. Give yourself permission to assume there’s nothing in that person’s life that should take priority over texting you at this moment. Give yourself permission to always react to everyone as though they have perfect mental health and free time.
@TheHunterofWarriors
@TheHunterofWarriors Жыл бұрын
If a girl doesn't respond to my texts, I have a life so I have other things I can do. Get a life. If you are completely dependent on one person, you don't have enough going on in your life. Find friends, find hobbies, fine points of interest, explore the world around you. Life is too f****** short.
@spiritualbadbabebossbitch
@spiritualbadbabebossbitch Жыл бұрын
That's not true. You can be thinking of a person while doing hobbies, doing anything really besides 1 min of free fall during a skydive. But you can even start thinking about them again once your parachute opens
@TheHunterofWarriors
@TheHunterofWarriors Жыл бұрын
@@spiritualbadbabebossbitch why would you do that? Why would you perseverate on a lost cause? If she's not talking to you, there's a reason she's not talking to you. Move on. Let it go. Get a life. There's more important things to do than perseverate over somebody who's not interested in you. You're welcome to your truth as I am to mine. I don't grovel. I don't need to. I'm maybe blessed that women have always come to me easily and I pick and choose. Women have tease me that my standards are too high but my high standards hasn't stopped me from meeting brilliant and wonderful women. Anyway, you do your thing man. I hope it works for you.
@spiritualbadbabebossbitch
@spiritualbadbabebossbitch Жыл бұрын
You missed my point. Its all good
@TheHunterofWarriors
@TheHunterofWarriors Жыл бұрын
@@spiritualbadbabebossbitch I am sorry I missed your point. I did reread it. And I just don't think about the person like that and it doesn't matter if I'm climbing a mountain or I'm in the middle of a boxing match or I'm in the middle of mixed martial arts match. If I'm hiking through the mountains I'm present I'm there my mind is there. The woman who's in my life will either be next to me and if I'm alone my mind is what I'm doing in that present moment. I'm sure you have an important point and like I said I'm sorry I missed it because it would lead to my own personal growth and maybe a wider perspective on the subject. Thanks for your comment nonetheless. Carpi Diem. Lol. I just realized that I'm cooking dinner that I have been accused of not thinking the woman in my life. Like they will text me or call me throughout the day and I don't do that. I will text him or call him at the end of the day to see how the day went but it does have to do with the fact that my mind is elsewhere. And if we break up it is hard on me but I have moments of reflection but I never perseverate I don't think of going back I just think of the loss. I never had a woman break up with me and maybe that's also the difference? Anyway I appreciate your comment and it will give me something to ponder as I finish cooking dinner tonight. But, by the time 8:00 rolls around my mind will probably be wrapped around whatever book I'm reading and the ideas presented. Have a good life kiddo. And thanks for the feedback.
@heatherwoodley8244
@heatherwoodley8244 Жыл бұрын
​​@@spiritualbadbabebossbitch So true. I was able to have full on complex conversations at work with customers whilst at the same time conversing with him in my head, for months! It was like my thoughts ran on 'levels', the weirdest thing. And yes I thought about him no matter what I was doing. At least now we may have some release for a future scenario.
@c.fletcher
@c.fletcher Жыл бұрын
Ok I tried it and I honestly immediately let go. I’m just amazed at how fast it happened 😂 Thank you 🙏🏽 ❤
@cayseydouglas6603
@cayseydouglas6603 Жыл бұрын
this has been the most healing and eye opening piece of advice.
@YahuShuaisTheWay70x7
@YahuShuaisTheWay70x7 8 ай бұрын
I love how she totally used full on siren seduction techniques to deliver this message! Down to even the song choice and camera angle. Nice touch
@michaelhussey440
@michaelhussey440 Ай бұрын
yes she has all the moves for sure , I especially like the eyes moving up and closing momentarily.
@SA-ud9nf
@SA-ud9nf 2 ай бұрын
Wow! I needed this. I keep ignore my thoughts and find i cry and feel pain. Ive read you need to feel your painntill you can feel better but not keep dwelling or it toxifies. Thank you much. God bless you for all you do. ❤
@DaGoof120
@DaGoof120 Жыл бұрын
It’s called accepting your shadow self, and you’re completely right. The world always tells you to fight against your demons, but the correct option will always be to understand and accept them.
@pendafen7405
@pendafen7405 2 ай бұрын
I claim this!!!
@mihailmarcu1892
@mihailmarcu1892 Жыл бұрын
It's stupid, never give your energy to anyone who gives 0 to you
@nishthagupta1357
@nishthagupta1357 Жыл бұрын
Yesss
@SXLEOPARDSKINNED
@SXLEOPARDSKINNED Жыл бұрын
Love whoever loves you!
@mihailmarcu1892
@mihailmarcu1892 Жыл бұрын
@@SXLEOPARDSKINNED No, love who reciprocates the exact effort you are putting in. Even better, love yourself and grow until you are complete and meet another complete person. That way it's not two halves codependent of each other.
@SXLEOPARDSKINNED
@SXLEOPARDSKINNED Жыл бұрын
@@mihailmarcu1892 much needed advice thank you ☺️☺️☺️🙂🙂🙂❤️
@Chiller-pc1dv
@Chiller-pc1dv Жыл бұрын
Just because they may take time to reply doesn't mean they don't care.
@flash146
@flash146 Жыл бұрын
Is it just me? After I thought those words and gave myself permission I actually felt appalled and angry at myself for giving control over my happiness to someone else
@suevrabel222
@suevrabel222 Жыл бұрын
Nope, not just you. The worst thing you can do is give your power away and allow someone else or the thought of them, to ruin your day. We are all in charge of our own happiness. To depend on a significant other for happiness, will never work & puts way too much of a burden, upon your partner, when you're the only one who has the ability to control your emotions / thoughts. The best you gift you can give anyone in your life, is to be truly happy. Check out Abraham Hicks they talk all about it 😏
@kslucki
@kslucki Жыл бұрын
I started laughing
@abisspassenger
@abisspassenger Жыл бұрын
Yeap. I find it hard to forgive myself for being so dependent upon someone.
@THEDANILUCKSSHOW
@THEDANILUCKSSHOW 8 ай бұрын
I bussed out laughing I felt Krazy as hell ❤
@jeannievail
@jeannievail Жыл бұрын
I feel like I just took him off of that pedestal and put myself back up there, and I know I am okay, living my best life, whether I ever hear from him again or not. It feels like freedom and peace 🥰
@MrBrandx8106
@MrBrandx8106 Жыл бұрын
I felt goosebumps and a heaviness lifted.. by the way,thats a good song .i listen to it alot.
@LookmaxxingMemes
@LookmaxxingMemes 11 ай бұрын
name ?
@Somewhere50
@Somewhere50 10 ай бұрын
So true. Delve into the worst. Feel it. Hate it. Give it space and move forward with your day. Easier said than done at first. Folks with experience of NPD partners after several years, learn to master this skill. It's definitely a learned, not taught skill.
@ayshamusa9070
@ayshamusa9070 2 жыл бұрын
Very true Sometimes to get our minds to do things we need to use reverse psychology on ourselves
@Star_84
@Star_84 28 күн бұрын
Thank you❤! I said it out loud to myself! Me:"omg no! I'm giving this too much energy I have better things to use it on"!
@reneebluen
@reneebluen Жыл бұрын
Gosh it worked like a magic lol. I saw this video before shower. When I was eating my dinner, he text me lol
@agapelove4992
@agapelove4992 Жыл бұрын
How about just walking away silently, keeping your head held high. Love yourself enough to not let someone change your mood
@rs5570
@rs5570 Жыл бұрын
Yeah that’ll work.
@tPeNnAcallmebyyourname
@tPeNnAcallmebyyourname Жыл бұрын
The whole point of the video is for the people who struggles to do that stupid
@Chiller-pc1dv
@Chiller-pc1dv Жыл бұрын
Or just being patient and considerate of others and their life circumstances. I'm mostly speaking in regards to people you've been talking to.
@agapelove4992
@agapelove4992 Жыл бұрын
@Chiller 88884 As long as it doesn't bring a person down to a level of ruin or stagnation, because waiting on another person to reach out can be hurtful. Common courtesy is important regardless of who you are dealing with. A person should have the respect to tell you why they aren't available to speak with you. It doesn't take up a lot of time to do this. That being said, I have a Twin Flame who didn't speak to me for almost 3 years. He was going through an Awakening. The difference is, we are telepathically connected. I can hear him in my head. It isn't like we didn't talk the whole time, just not out loud.
@Chiller-pc1dv
@Chiller-pc1dv Жыл бұрын
​​@@agapelove4992 Oh, no I definitely understand. Trust me...I've been there. But sometimes it really is just as simple as them being crazy busy and life hitting them suddenly. Family life stress, medical issues, crazy schedules, etc. Life can be unpredictable, especially when you're also neurodivergent, because neurodivergent people like myself have lower thresholds for stress. Not gonna lie the situation sucks, for everyone, especially when the person who disappeared did so because of serious life stress and overwhelm. And knowing logically that likely it's not personal and they've got a LOT going on in their life, and they always explain themselves afterwards, and express how they wanna keep this relationship going, and sometimes even with that anxiety still creeps in. I'm speaking specifically about people who aren't toxic, who try their best in the relationship when they're able like having the time and energy. It really sucks, but sometimes the best thing you can do for now is just wait and keep Remington yourself that they will get back to you eventually, and they do genuinely care. And till then, keep going with your life, and spend time with the people who are available at the moment. People with ADHD can become so distracted we forget about other people who aren't directly in front of us, out of sight out of mind is very very true for us, but that doesn't mean we don't care. Sometimes we'll forget to message back and with the time blindness on top of poor short term memory (almost feels like the thing we forgot never even happened) it could suddenly be days or even weeks later and we wouldn't even notice, because of how our brains perceive time. We don't wanna be like this and feel incredibly bad for doing it, and some go into a shame spiral and are too nervous to reply back because "what if they don't care anymore? What if they're so mad at me they yell at me? What if I ruined everything?" and overwhelm in general can also creep in. And with Autism, people can also be forgetful, but also become so overwhelmed, they kinda withdrawl, sort of a shut down and being too stressed to do anything other than what they need to do. Chronic illness can also effect this. I have POTS, so I get chronic migraines, dizziness, nausea and constant lethargy, etc. So on bad days where the symptoms are hitting very hard, I don't have much of any energy to speak to people. Heck I don't have the energy so play simple computer games. Just kinda stuck on the couch. And also...some advice to anyone who has anxiety about these things, have patience. And don't let your emotions make you say something you may regret, because that person may very well have a VERY good reason for this. Sometimes just letting them know you'll be here, waiting with open arms when they're ready to get back to you. Your feelings are valid, and there are people there for you if you need to talk about it.
@Quran4mercy
@Quran4mercy Жыл бұрын
You can give permission but still not entertain the thought . Just don't fight it. Distractions help . Helping others and talking to God helps. Meditation. journal any anger. eat well and exercise. let go let God and try to forgive.
@pinkpeacock1111
@pinkpeacock1111 2 ай бұрын
Wow! It’s called PERSPECTIVE!!!! Yes, very powerful when you realize what you’re actually doing…. and that it’s not okay!!!!
@Thebigdogzbobchannel
@Thebigdogzbobchannel Жыл бұрын
I never had someone appear in my dreams so consistently, and it confuses me. But loving this person makes me happy and I’m pretty sure this would be the one If she made some equal effort to reach out
@tPeNnAcallmebyyourname
@tPeNnAcallmebyyourname Жыл бұрын
Have you had a conversation with her? I suggest talking to her about this, discuss your expectations and give her a chance
@blessparco
@blessparco 4 ай бұрын
I agree because one day you'll be tired of feeling such feelings. In that way, it will be easier and faster to move on and heal.
@thewokeabout
@thewokeabout Жыл бұрын
Just went through this. It was wild. I was completely content in my affections. I allowed myself to think about it anytime. It felt joy thinking of them. And then I found a bunch of reasons to not bother. And then thinking of them felt like... a chore.
@TurtleIslandLady1999
@TurtleIslandLady1999 Жыл бұрын
We have free Will. To manipulate people in any way is wrong spiritually. 🔥
@Bandgeek601
@Bandgeek601 Жыл бұрын
The way she talks is so seductive, and the fact she has great advice only makes her channel more attractive. Instant subscriber.
@SS-in1ts
@SS-in1ts Жыл бұрын
Yep, so true. stop resisting and getting upset. The worry and pain will fade even faster this way.
@Klitavox
@Klitavox Жыл бұрын
made me realize my worth
@deb4312
@deb4312 3 ай бұрын
Excellent advice holds truth. Control your thoughts 💭 or someone will
@rusjkastepanishina6780
@rusjkastepanishina6780 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for such good advice. After 3 hours things get better😊.
@nadashaogden-becker488
@nadashaogden-becker488 2 ай бұрын
Haha, yass! Hearing it out loud is EXACTLY what I needed 😂 Thank You!
@Earthtime3978
@Earthtime3978 Жыл бұрын
No text? Feel the hurt and then never text again. There’s pure power in not needing them. You win, and in rare moments they may come back to you. In that case you send them a “who’s this?” text. Surprised with insignificance, they’ll suffer ever so silently.
@EcoworksFL
@EcoworksFL Жыл бұрын
I don't even bother ask "who's this" I just leave them on read.😂
@Earthtime3978
@Earthtime3978 Жыл бұрын
@Kelvyn Clarke elaborate
@cottoncandace7704
@cottoncandace7704 Жыл бұрын
My situation was a bit different, he rarely texted me himself, usually I was the one texting him but he always texted back (sometimes really late) What does this mean? If he was interested, wouldn't he text himself or just he likes the attention I gave?? Why guys send mixed signals 🙄
@Earthtime3978
@Earthtime3978 Жыл бұрын
@@cottoncandace7704 That’s extremely rare. Typically a man doesn’t send mixed signals. You wrote “guys” do this.. Definitely not accurate .
@cottoncandace7704
@cottoncandace7704 Жыл бұрын
@@Earthtime3978 I feel like attention seekers do this They may not be interested but they thrive off of the attention they are getting..
@victoriawilkins5028
@victoriawilkins5028 Жыл бұрын
Thank you lady, I needed that dose of reality 👊👊👊
@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes
@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes Жыл бұрын
If you sent text to an INTJ, give him/her the time to reflect. We can take a lot of time to process informations, and texting back. It's our functioning.
@vhayashi7369
@vhayashi7369 Жыл бұрын
Find multiple people to talk to ... That's what I do. Don't put all your eggs in one basket and just live your life! Don't wait for anyone!
@doyoueatrocks
@doyoueatrocks Жыл бұрын
I would never marry a woman that had multiple men trying the locks
@gailverville4793
@gailverville4793 Жыл бұрын
BINGO!
@gailverville4793
@gailverville4793 Жыл бұрын
​@@doyoueatrocks you wouldn't even know...lol
@Chiller-pc1dv
@Chiller-pc1dv Жыл бұрын
Is this about romantic relationships?
@にちはHYPERSPACE
@にちはHYPERSPACE 10 ай бұрын
​@@doyoueatrockssexist
@rosiemirshafiee3509
@rosiemirshafiee3509 Жыл бұрын
I am going to try it to see if it works I really want to make it work because I am really tired of waiting and hoping to see the change I believe the only person I can change is myself and nobody else thank you 🙏
@abaddierey
@abaddierey Жыл бұрын
I give in to my taboo thoughts AND actions. Sometimes I let my inner bratty child say some rude shit to someone who isn’t showing up how I want and I don’t care. Looks bad at first, but I feel relief inside. They can be mad if they want to. In love, typically he always comes back, and a lot better behaved too 🤷🏾‍♀️💋
@Maria-0017
@Maria-0017 Жыл бұрын
If a man is due to text me and he doesn’t, I just block, for me I want a man from the get go to treat me right, and if he’s starting off FLAKEY, then he’s gone!
@leelunk8235
@leelunk8235 Жыл бұрын
MARIA, I AGREE.I BLOCK WOMEN ALL THE TIME BECAUSE OF THAT
@ohdear2275
@ohdear2275 Жыл бұрын
I agree.
@nishthagupta1357
@nishthagupta1357 Жыл бұрын
Exactly yes
@thisgirl5918
@thisgirl5918 Жыл бұрын
Why block if he isn’t messaging? It’s just a reaction which shows they bruised your ego
@alyssawoodman
@alyssawoodman Жыл бұрын
​​​@@thisgirl5918 No it's taking your power back
@chanchimmy5368
@chanchimmy5368 Жыл бұрын
it works. and you are the best psychologist i have ever seen. you really know what I wanna know. if I'm struggling from my problems, everytime I visit KZbin, there, one of her videos are there about how to solve my problem. ( sorry for my English, I am not a native speaker )
@jaythenihilist4689
@jaythenihilist4689 Жыл бұрын
The number # 1 driver of attraction for women is anxiety. If she knows she can have you anytime she wants, then she doesn't want you. If she's not texting you, then don't text her. Be willing to walk away from any relationship or potential relationship. If she liked you enough, then she would be texting. She's not, because she doesn't like you enough. Accept it, and move on.
@strangetimes5724
@strangetimes5724 Жыл бұрын
Actually, insecurity and anxiety has destroyed my marriage. We will get a divorce because ultimately, I do not want to spend the rest of my life in such a horrible state. His attempt to keep me in a constant state of anxiety has only driven me to wanting nothing to do with him. It did NOT make me want to go on loving him, and is was a massive turn off.
@Verteune
@Verteune Жыл бұрын
Lmao good luck with that if you are dealing with women. Above 24, we have lived far too long to even bother entertaining someone who only brings anxiety in our lives, when we know there are other men out there who will not play games.
@karencooper3428
@karencooper3428 3 күн бұрын
Genius, as soon as you have permission, it stops becoming a need
@BlickWinker
@BlickWinker Жыл бұрын
Oh yes. This is true. I called it surrender. 😌👌🏼 It's okay. You'll be okay. ❤️
@bernarrshelton2692
@bernarrshelton2692 Жыл бұрын
Surrender sounds great
@FlyGuy_TV
@FlyGuy_TV 18 күн бұрын
It is psychological and spiritual transfer of energy. The energy from herself to the desired person she's thinking about. In return the person will feel the emotions that she felt And every thought you think about them..
@elizabetalace
@elizabetalace Жыл бұрын
Funny, I allowed myself a thought that the person, who left me, was probably in fact the love of my life and it's just never gonna work, what I tried to deny. Interestingly, today I feel more at peace with it.
@konsyansnou8623
@konsyansnou8623 Ай бұрын
Something I told my self after my first bad break up that give me the strength and motivation to move forward is this:"I won't and refuse to give so and so this satisfaction where she can tell her friends that I'm down because of her" and I'd made it an everyday mindset and one day I got better
@Belawithnoalcohol
@Belawithnoalcohol Жыл бұрын
I usually go to pinterest, collect all the savage quotes and save it on my camera roll. Everytime I have the urge to text, I read and scroll the quotes hahahaha
@daniel-xt3tp
@daniel-xt3tp 3 ай бұрын
Or, you can send them a love message, then text ‘oops wrong person’ then they will DEFINITELY text you back.
@madisonimogen1028
@madisonimogen1028 Жыл бұрын
Food. Food does not text. Food is in my fridge. Nutella is in my cabinet..food does not need a phone..love food..
@wisebuilders7070
@wisebuilders7070 Жыл бұрын
Merry Obesity 😌
@jeremyhorn5357
@jeremyhorn5357 Жыл бұрын
You have any Gryphon
@madisonimogen1028
@madisonimogen1028 Жыл бұрын
@@jeremyhorn5357 absolutely. That's my field. I breathe it. I also specialize in sarcasm. Are we done here?
@Cataz308
@Cataz308 Ай бұрын
F THAT!!! I will never allow anyone to disrespect me …I’ve been there , I stayed quiet and reassured myself that IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN AGAIN AS LING AS IM ALIVE and standing.
@kenzi.h
@kenzi.h Жыл бұрын
Geez!! After hours from telling that, I confirm that I don’t give a f anymore!!!! Thank you ❤️
@ORIGJIN
@ORIGJIN 2 ай бұрын
What u resist persist so yes acknowledge, allow it and let it go because our thoughts aren’t ours and everything passes.
@trinat8026
@trinat8026 Жыл бұрын
Reverse psychology🔥🔥
@egar5027
@egar5027 3 ай бұрын
I did it! ( in practice too😖). The whole bloody weekend i was checking every 5 min for his text, looking at his pic, building him up in my stupid infatuation!😤. Then on Monday as soon as he texted me to mess up with my head again I realised how stupid i was. Blocked, finish, lesson learned. Thank you young lady. ❤
@queenkyra4881
@queenkyra4881 2 жыл бұрын
She's sooo pretty 😍 . I love her eyes 💙💚
@drawnstarasmr
@drawnstarasmr Жыл бұрын
larry
@JeremiahWallace-j3n
@JeremiahWallace-j3n 3 ай бұрын
I tried this and they ruined my life thanks so much for the advice it actually works!!!😂
@wildcraft8143
@wildcraft8143 2 ай бұрын
Wow thank you 🩵 this is so refreshing and nice to NOT see toxic positivity surrounding this issue. Surrender to the feelings instead of temporarily escaping. The only way out is through.
@vegetableautopsy3551
@vegetableautopsy3551 Жыл бұрын
This is also a self discipline issue.
@c.santos1685
@c.santos1685 13 күн бұрын
I can't believe she's an actual psychologist with a degree
@zharifa293
@zharifa293 Жыл бұрын
Long time ago I found your tiktok and I found you on KZbin, can’t thankyou enough for your existence ! ❤
@ClaireBennetLives
@ClaireBennetLives Жыл бұрын
Just found this. LOVE IT
@1.RRR.1
@1.RRR.1 3 ай бұрын
I have this person I respect a lot. We started becoming friend and I noticed his 'true' side later on. I dont mind it at first. But im pretty concious and an observant person. He always being rude and making a barrier when it was with me. But being so nice to others. The things that piss me off is when he did text me regarding important stuff. When I replied, it always 'on read' and never an answer. Despite I saw him almost all the time with his phone. I always gets on my nerve. But soon I try my best to remove him from my life.
@nyonyowin5887
@nyonyowin5887 7 ай бұрын
I was still happy with my own imagination even if I didn't get the messages. After few days I had heard they will get married .it made me so lost and I didn't know how to heal my broken heart. I'm getting better now except teary eyes. Yet, I'm still sad and crying someday. I know it's a temporary so I m keeping myself strong.
@Cat_in_Spacetime
@Cat_in_Spacetime Жыл бұрын
😬😂😂 why is this so romantic???
@khadijasiddiqui9691
@khadijasiddiqui9691 Жыл бұрын
😂
@Moonshine668
@Moonshine668 Жыл бұрын
this is insanely cute and romantic 😍
@Alasreservadas000
@Alasreservadas000 2 ай бұрын
Totally true, embrace it and it will go away
@michellerosa54
@michellerosa54 Жыл бұрын
DAMNNNN I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS 2 months ago 😂
@empressher
@empressher Жыл бұрын
when and if they do text back 🤣 just keep going doing ya regular routine 😂 and cash ya ✔️✅ checks !
@catherinendiritu6604
@catherinendiritu6604 3 ай бұрын
It works amazingly..I can attest!the pain is no more,am at peace now!
@galinsamuels3129
@galinsamuels3129 Жыл бұрын
I knew it, the more you detached yourself, the more distant it gets between yous,it even got me to a point,that I'm starting to feel cold towards him, but the moment when I reverse my heart ache back to him what he has caused me,i can c the difference how it affects him. This does work,so I don't go for the detaching anymore... because it drifts us further apart, and once I've reversed it back to him i even feel better immediately, saying to myself I'm not going through this pain alone that he has caused me,he should feel the pain to...it work's, because he tells me out of nowhere that he is feeling sick..
@janebraun4482
@janebraun4482 Жыл бұрын
wow, and I agree. I think he is in pain too, like me. Somehow I know.
@galinsamuels3129
@galinsamuels3129 Жыл бұрын
@@janebraun4482 I've been hurt 💔🔪 before, so I said to myself that's it, I'm done with men...i don't deserve this kind of treatment, when I give my honesty and all to one person.. for more than 5years i have kept myself clean.saving myself for the right man just to get hurt again...he loves me but here's this 1girl doing her thing 🤔🤔 making him blind towards me,but I trust that GOD AND THE UNIVERSE will bring us together because nothing is stronger than the BLOOD OF JESUS 🙏🏼 honesty is the best policy ,so I'm waiting on GOD TIMING.....IS THE BEST TIMING, stay blessed, much love 💕 me 😘
@djicebreaker80
@djicebreaker80 Жыл бұрын
Yes very true, it’s about the energy your giving to receive, for them it’s take’s time to re bond with some you hurt, but the at least we are on talking terms now a good start
@briighthimself
@briighthimself Жыл бұрын
This applies to every other aspects of life
@timmy3199
@timmy3199 6 ай бұрын
Omg U are the O Sweet Angel 😅, I’ve been overthinking that he pulled away n whole day checking on him lately but then just in instance I watch this and felt a ton better .. this are magic words ! Thank u ❤
@nonobridenono9965
@nonobridenono9965 Жыл бұрын
Why I allow myself to let this person take over whole myself and energy?
@lillostich5795
@lillostich5795 Жыл бұрын
Dont do it the first advice is more better dont pick the second or else youll end up pedestelizing them😂 distract yourself by texting more than one girl it will make you forget the girl who ignores you.
@murderessmarbie
@murderessmarbie 3 ай бұрын
Wow. That was shockingly incredible. Like in a few seconds I'm right as rain. ❤ TY
@annemuller4499
@annemuller4499 Жыл бұрын
the result: *I got so confused thinking about his shoulders, his cute eyes and his cute nose* ... that I banged the bathroom dor against my head - now I have a lump on my forehead. Not such a good idea to permit me to think about him
@Arcadi4.44
@Arcadi4.44 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@scottstone1475
@scottstone1475 Жыл бұрын
you got issues
@brittanybrooks430
@brittanybrooks430 Жыл бұрын
🤣I'm not laughing at your pain but this made me giggle because it's totally something that would happen to me too 🤣 and just the irony here. Talk about getting a wake up call. Here. Here's a door to the face now wake up! Hahahahaha 🤪 Hope your lump has gone down/away by now!
@brittanybrooks430
@brittanybrooks430 Жыл бұрын
​@@scottstone1475 I got 'em too 🤣
@darylsabandal6637
@darylsabandal6637 Жыл бұрын
Just text him, believe me
@L6FT
@L6FT 26 күн бұрын
This is actually truly listening to your emotions instead of fighting and suppressing them. We often unconsciously let our emotions run the show, however when we consciously let them do what they do we may realise that they aren't rational enough to run the entire show. Kinda like putting a child in charge of managing everything, at first they may be happy, but at some point they'll want the adult to take charge and help. Emotions vs rational, child vs adult.
@khaledmohamed745
@khaledmohamed745 Жыл бұрын
⚀what is the name of the background music ???
@larryappelbaum2245
@larryappelbaum2245 Жыл бұрын
Wow, that would certainly be an empowering statement for personal growth. Ironically so many people do this on an unconscious or subconscious level, but to bring it to the conscious level is like taking an elevator ride to the top of the Empire State Building! Bravo! 👏
@rubenwong9574
@rubenwong9574 Жыл бұрын
looking at one of their picture helps i belive mabey it kills the need of wanting to see that person and it reliefs neediness
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