Do you really love yourself? (most people don't)

[@DynamicallyDC]

🗣"If you dont become what you're looking for, You Wont Attract It!!"🙌🏽❤

[@Authenticleatrice]

Demetria Calvin yes 🙌🏾

[@Mirror_My_Ambition]

And if you are unhappy in your current state you will attract someone that is happy with your unhappiness and they will keep you there.

[@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect]

@@Mirror_My_Ambition I felt that!

[@lawanda891]

TYEECE MARSHALL hush up and keep on talking you ain’t wrong .. I needed that thank you

[@faithfullylala4858]

@@Mirror_My_Ambition girl what a word🙌

[@brittneysworld6886]

Hey Tony I tell young girls all the time and even my daughter u have to speak things into existence!!! It's already yours after u ask God for it!!! It's 2020 ladies and we are claiming our BLESSINGS!!!!🙋🙋🙋👐👐👐

[@marilynking527]

Beauty B daniels 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@sugaslim2402]

Amen

[@symphanyrae2]

Amen

[@ggpebbles3354]

I'm learning to love myself more and more everyday, it is a daily grind and I'm I'm believing God.

[@nijay8267]

💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 AMEN!!

[@cspann33]

Seriously a grind!

[@pamelafranks8]

That's all it took... Oh my high and almighty God I love myself so much I'm basically in tears,,,, at this point I don't know what to do myself I don't want to know what to do with myself I'm going to let God tell me what to do with myself I am so done... Do you know I'm trying to figure out how to walk away but preserve his spirit because he tried to do his best that he knew how to and his brokenness and I understand that he didn't have enough to tell me that I'm not the woman he desired but I'm the placeholder because he has been broken as well and I'm sensitive to the spirit... I hold no grudges I have no retaliation... But in wisdom I know to handle things in the spirit and I'm really trying to come to terms with trying to make the next steps through seeking God I'm afraid that... I know you talk about walking off and leaving a guy but I do believe in walking off and leaving and prosperity and a person spirit so that they will grow and that I can grow from the experience we both gain something from what we've been through and I'm thankful for what I've been through which makes me be a better person a god brings him back around he shows me that's him fine but I'm not going to be looking I'm not going to be chasing I'm not doing that I actually found me and your videos I haven't learned how to work this KZbin thing yet but I find you to be valuable I find you to be informative both I find you to be spirit-led I find you to have the love of god... On Christ you have helped me more than I can ever think... I wish I could figure out how you have live conversations so I can be in that I want to be in that number as the old Christian gospel song says. And I thank you, I love your wife for allowing you to do this and I know also I have a calling on my life in ministry and I knew that this particular incident right here will give me a testimony and not a test-aphony..please tell me how I'm supposed to be able to get in on these lives and when they're available cuz I know if you have it on Sunday or Monday anytime I ask that guy in a scene and send an angel before me so that I can attend and be there Tony I love you so much I love your wife for being the conduit for you to be able to flow freely without being inhibited because of jealousy or thinking that you might cheat I think you for being the godly Man to be honest about your feelings and how things happen so we can see and helping the spirit flow so that we can find our mates to do the will of God in the name of Jesus hallelujah thank you Jesus and amen

[@ggpebbles3354]

Fear of failure is crippling and it disguise itself had self hatred 🤯🤯

[@jetellison147]

Come on GG Pebbles!!!! 👏 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@bre_s9164]

That quote speaks volumes “If you look for love it will elude you. If you become love it will surround you.” That quote is enough on its own. Keep being awesome Tony!

[@elhadjdiallo633]

When you chase love it will repel from you when you become love it will surround you ......Alack of sepf love is the root cause of all suffering in this universe.. You're enough !!!!!! You're whole and complete you don't need No one to complete you !!!

[@summerdior459]

If its what you believe ....

[@howcanyoudothistome1]

Preach. I was clicking my fingers when he said.

[@wisdom6041]

“ The TRUTH requires CHANGE.” 👏🏽🙏🏽👏🏽

[@honeys.9579]

#thatpart

[@WomanofZion7]

2020 mantra: I will not try to love others to life by consequently sentencing myself to death and disempowerment.

[@jennifersalinas716]

Well said

[@CaramelKissez]

Love.....self love comes in so many levels. I learned that some areas I need more work on. Childhood traumas, judgement from family etc etc. When anyone feels attacked I have realized there is a pain. So I try my best not to go back in forth. As much as I have good intentions, some will always read things the way they feel inside. It takes a gift to deal with ppl who you don't know where they are damaged. Keep helping Tony, your tolerance is built for helping the world.

[@tyana5836]

“I want to become the blessing instead of looking for blessings” wow what Tony said hit me

[@tamikamatthews4905]

I didn't love myself for a long time. I was sexually abused as a kid and my teen year's. And when I felt inlove. The man I love and trusted abusive me for year's. And he use to say bad things to me and tell me all the time. I was worthless and no man will never love me. Since my dad was in prison, and I was only 2 year's old and he passed away in prison, when I was 8 year's old I was always looking for a father figure and love. Now I'm finally working on self love for 2020. I feel so happy in my own skin. And God have been good to me. And thank u Tony Gaskins for all the video's u share with the world. You're truly a blessing. Have a great day you and your family. God bless u

[@missmarymack3457]

Tamika Matthews ❤️

[@tamikamatthews4905]

❤

[@sharonjennings5732]

🙏🏽🎚❤️

[@2cutedoma]

❤

[@microbito66]

❤️ sending u love

[@marilynking527]

This video had me crying like a baby. If you knew what I prayed about this morning you would understand. Thank you you are truly a God send. God spoke to me through your word today!!

[@libbymills4432]

Ain't He Faithful?! Stay encouraged and keep Shining!

[@deena3003]

This is a fantastic video. My father always said you are a Corporation. Create your job, be a business. My father worked for Ford Motor on the assembly line. He walked away from Ford Motor to start and owned a transportation business from ground up. He had many clients and thrived successfully. He didnt have a high school diploma nor college degree. You are what you think. Shift your mindset. Anything is possible, if you truly believe in yourself. Love this so much!

[@jalanamatthews6301]

Listening to this I broke down in tears. I’m so ready to live the life I want and envision. It’s something in me that still harbors a lot of resentment from family, friends, past love. But I’m ready to push through until I become love. You are truly anointed Tony. I’m so glad God is using you.

[@venusaurssf2]

A degree is homage to our ancestors who were punished for attempting to read. It is a testament to one's discipline and a heightened standard for our heirs. A declaration of the power of a mind. My degree itself is a dream come true bc I have a passion for learning &expectations of self. I don't judge people who don't have theirs; I see people as their actions. Technology now (thankfully) makes it possible to be successful w/o a degree.

[@debbie6533]

I walk away from people when they want to fight or be confrontational.

[@VintageAfro91]

“If you can become love, you can attract love.” Very powerful message & video 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@sischaadashah856]

Tony said "I don't even have a certificate, and you just took my course" 👏🏽

[@sharonbenjamin9310]

Everyone wants true love until they realize that it begins by loving YOURSELF truly! - Sharon Benjamin ❤

[@sheilaverdell1370]

i 'agree' Tony.... Be the person God made you to be. Discover your gifts. God has given us all talents and believe in yourself. Blessings.

[@charlottekaysworld1498]

All theses confirmations videos keep coming back to back. Definitely been looking within lately instead of keep shifting blame started looking at the pattern of the type of people I’ve been attracting. Needing to pinpoint what deep rooted issue I need to uproot and heal from. Thanks Tony Gaskin for allowing God to use you as an vessel! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@talicialee]

You telling your story has changed my trajectory on a lot of things. My mom moved us from California to Mississippi when I was 9 & now you can tell by the way I talk that I am from the south. I always thought I should talk in a certain manner, but it's hard because for 1, it's not your real self and 2, you have to be careful with all of your words. (Who got time for that) The only people that get embraced for talking country is people from New Orleans. People really do judge you based off how your words come out. I also appreciate you not using flattery, enticements, etc when you talk because I look at women and men who do that in their videos and I'm like God whenever I start doing videos, I wanna tell your message and get off, I don't got time for the extra. Sidenote: My identity use to be in degrees. I thought a degree meant rich, intelligent, you will never want again, etc. I'm thankful for my degree in Social Work because God is still using that to take me to my destination, but he showed me something different when I found myself degree'd and unemployed, degree'd and broke. Since 2015, I've never looked at college the same & don't let me get on student loans 🤦🏽‍♀️. Education is okay, but God don't want us bound and limiting him.

[@lynnjones7695]

I’ve been at 2 events Oprah was at & I thought to myself (well, I was shocked at first) then I thought I’m here for a reason & I believe God was showing me a glimpse of great things to come...

[@iamannettec]

I love to hear you speak. Your mindset is so abundant. It’s really contagious. Be blessed!

[@elhadjdiallo633]

When you chase love it will elude you when you become love it will surround you .....

[@brittneysworld6886]

Yesss tony a degree is just a piece of papper!!! It does not validate anyone👏👏 That's right 💯💯

[@debrasankofag5506]

Greetings! Could you please share with me the differences in colors pertaining to "The Blessed Tribe" symbol next to your name??

[@gia4957]

Amen Tony! Schools should have class's that teach what you are teaching! It should be a must take class not an elective class like wood class etc.... Most children are not being taught this stuff at home. Thank you for taking your time to help other's who can't afford coaching etc. God bless you!

[@daniellerubio1183]

This video here is GOLD!! God is definitely using you to bring the message through to the ones that want to grow and listen. Your vision, humility and selflessness will continue to keep you and your family blessed! Thank you for the depth you provide and the substance you speak from! Be blessed 🙏🏽

[@nikkirowland]

I’ve started listening to your videos while working out now too. It’s funny because I truly always felt like I needed bass in my ear to get through my squats and now find myself listening to Tony and just coasting through my workouts. Knowledge is wealth.

[@cherh]

I'm working towards it. I have my degree in management and I get compliments all the time on how amazing I am. So in do time I will be managing my own business being an amazing Life Coach. Time out for building others company and they get all the credit. I'm coming TG. Be blessed 💫

[@blossom86branche70]

Clicked liked even before watching😁

[@albertinacameron3308]

Very inspiring to people who want to be in a relationship that's a healthy and rewarding.

[@albertinacameron3308]

Women need to realize that they will always be the flower

[@Mirror_My_Ambition]

Come on Tony.....this right here is the absolute TRURTH and it relates to everything you speak on daily...I hope y'all get this. Yesssssssss......the MINDSET is the key to everything....

[@truvy_5544]

Ill never forget this day, sophomore year in high school I had to sit with the counselor because they was worried about my grades (one class but that was because they used to steal my hmw) they ask me “what do you wanna be when you grow up?” I said a chemist, they laughed at me. He (assistant principal) said “you can’t do that if your grades are like this, how would you understand the stuff?” But he said it in a way that insulted my intelligence. I thought about that for the longest. I was great in science, math was something I was okay with but the teachers didn’t teach it right (kids way of learning can be different) lecturing in math class made me lose focus compare to history or science. This math teacher gave me hope, he took me out of regular class and this other teacher taught it slowly and more visuals. My grades improved but that self confidence was still low. I left that school and did online instead. I had to leave that environment and heal myself, I learned so many skills I didn’t know I can do. I cared about my mental health once I graduated I told myself “is it best to go to college right away even tho I got accepted to 3 colleges I wanted to go?” I had to take a break from school, took a year break. Now I’m looking for better colleges that is known for their science degrees. Lately I’ve been doing things I used to tell myself I couldn’t do and it really boost my confidence and made me love myself. I have so many skills that a lot of young adults my age don’t really think about that’s beneficial

[@user-ib7it2li8f]

I’m a ‘black’ speech therapist thank you for the information about slavery and learning/reading the language. I’m going to use that one in conversation with parents thank u again

[@ImWodo]

Mr. Gaskins Please talk about Self Esteem. How to raise it, fill the void, how it applies to your life; etc!

[@sha2408]

Working on my “three B’s” everyday! Everything I’m learning from you, I am applying to my life, and it is working! Thank you for your wisdom!

[@AdjanaMinistries]

Hello Tony. I have been listening to your youtube videos for about 6 months. I have been working on my 3 B’s. I just signed up for your certified life coach academy. I have been listening to you and feel we share similar values and I appreciate your honesty and integrity. You have helped me so much, I am really excited. Thank you for all you do, and God Bless you and your family

[@genevasanders1883]

VERY POWERFUL MESSAGE . BE BLESSED 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@joannaabrams240]

I wasn't taught about loving myself.... I was taught, love others don't be selfish.... get rid of pride... BUT, I needed to grow as the best me possible....

[@mykaelabailey6398]

Day 3 of watching your videos & I had no choice but to be able to witness the full perks.. You're worth so much more than what it cost.. Healing is priceless.. I'm at my worst yet most beautiful point in life & you'll never ever know how much you're helping me in this much needed process 😔🤞🏻

[@gorgeousmone6151]

Yes!! I will begin to speak more life into myself! Thanks

[@kristinaherrejon7181]

You keep being you Tony. Your authentic self communicates brilliantly.

[@Passion84GodAlways]

Tony Gaskins: 1.) YOU - and your lovely accent - are your ancestors wildest dreams come TRUE!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 2.) God BLESS you and all those attached to you! 🤗❤️🙏🏾💖 3.) THANK YOU for yet another EXCEPTIONAL video!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@hmblf687]

I literally enjoy ever video that Tony shares. But I think this one right here was the ABSOLUTE BEST! So life changing if you're willing to implement it. I'ma have to make it rain in the next live. God bless you!!!

[@chanelhinds3858]

I’m sure your Ancestors are looking at you and your journey with pure joy. Thank you for sharing your life’s story, the story of your lineage and it’s strength. Great inspiring video✨ we are all our Ancestors wildest dreams.. the power of our mind and what we affirm really is life changing. Thank you for this channel 🙏🏾

[@heatherlynn3438]

I walked in love and was fooled by narcissists who “Mirrored” MY LOVE and they were totally faking! When you fall in love with a narcissist you fall in love with yourself

[@ThobileMacaws]

OMG this message hits home! First time on this channel and YES to everything you’ve said Tony. I’m 34yrs old now and been married for 6 years, it took me marriage, on and off relationships with both my parents, lost friendships, housewifery, unemployment, leaving religion and motherhood to actually love myself! I never knew loving oneself was easy and actually fun! I’m kind and loving towards myself and always treat myself with honesty and praises! Thank you so much ❤️🙏🏾!

[@dbenj8219]

Everyone doesn’t need a degree, it just depends on the profession you want to do

[@DD-mg2se]

The brokenness and level of self hate in alot of us women is what damages us. May God renew us all. Be blessed.

[@justsomeideas9594]

The 10% of the brain you were talking about came from Earl Nightingales “The Strangest Secret” I have listened to it several times, it’s a powerful message. One time I listened to it everyday for 30 days straight. I also enjoy listening to Emmanuel “Jim Rohan” too. Be blessed

[@honeys.9579]

Thanks 📚

[@justsomeideas9594]

Honey S. Your welcome😊

[@kathywarner8198]

Beautiful and poignant message, especially in these days and times. Thank you for this reminder. Be bleased.🙏🏼

[@sheshae4101]

You need to fast, pray, think better, treat yourself better, sometimes change your friends and environment. Listen to the elderly women the ones who've been married 30,40,50 years. Stop being so emotional about things or past situations. Stand in your mess, understand whatever happened, it happened and it will get better. Nobody owes you anything but you.. time is not be wasted. Talk to God daily and drink your water sis.

[@lawondalawonda4u602]

Powerful message!! I'm going to play this several times throughout the week. Thank you!!

[@lisanicolew.5241]

Wow your so open and right and I have never heard anyone speak this truth until now!!! I sent this to my Sons!!!

[@tremeekadonel9423]

I have become one of the Coaches on MyMentor.life. Thank you so much for blessing people like myself to be on your platform and use the gifts that God has placed in my Heart! You are Truly A God sent and a definition of a Blessing being a blessing to Everyone. GOD BLESS YOU❤

[@Mrsme12345]

The Father gave us the power to get wealth! Glory to God and Amen!

[@thankyouforfavor8396]

Amen!!!This message is so POWERFUL May you and your family be blessed!!🤗🤗🙏🙏❤❤

[@jdilla7142]

🙏🏿Be Blessed🙏🏿.

[@Nurseaholic]

I often get told that my chill face looks like I’m “mad” although I’m just working and focused. Men love to tell me to smile & others ask me if I’m okay, but once I open my mouth to speak I’m kind & smiling. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Have any of you ladies or men encountered this constructive criticism or observation??

[@yvetteaustin9155]

yes i get that all the time and it's disheartening to say the least, i even tried to look in the mirror to see what others see but of course i don't recognize anything, i'll be fine and nothing's wrong with me and just like you said i'm just focused on what i may be doing at that time. I try to make myself smile more often but it feels fake and i'm not fake or phony, although i do smile when i'm with my friends and family or some co-workers on my job but yes i experience that quite often

[@lmcth]

I’m always told I look mad all the time and to smile but I’m working on my resting face

[@Naturallyshe77]

I have a resting or serious face. Ive got told plenty of times oh ur so serious, u need to smile, ur mean etc.. at one point it really effected me and I began to become really insecure It felt like ppl would judge me on how I look meanwhile Im really jst chill, laid back and quiet. I also did some self evaluation because it would be numerous of ppl saying the same thing so i thought maybe theres some truth to it. So now, im learning to smile more and to just love and be myself despite what ppl think of me

[@lcjones4682]

Yes I’ve been told that many times. It’s annoying. I try now to smile when I walk past people.

[@Nurseaholic]

LC Jones thank you for your reply! I smile all the time lol but I just don’t walk around with one plastered on my face 24/7 lol

[@Here4theComments_]

You better bring this good word, Tony!!!!! You are speaking nothing but the truth. Amen!!

[@donnajeffreys8252]

Tony has a very anointed way of saying the word LOVE 💙

[@Mila-md2wx]

So on point with this message!! If only everyone knew the power of self love and believing in themselves!! Lord the world would be so much better!! Thanks Tony, keep ‘em coming! I’m listening brotha!!

[@kenishalperkins]

Oh my goodness I’ve always wanted to ask you if you tried to changed your accent on your older videos/podcast videos. We love your accent !!! Thank you for sharing !!!

[@EarthGurl08]

Speak Life over yourself

[@aishiaspruill2454]

Tony ur videos, ur gift, ur ministry has set me free in the area of heart healing..... Especially concerning relationship so I send positive vibes, blessings, & appreciation to you my brother!!!! Pls keep on in the wisdom of God 🙏 Aishia

[@karenwalters2007]

I learned a life lesson when I was younger but I never forgot what I seen I’m from New York the Bronx it was a BLK woman in Harlem she owned her own Salon me and my cousin would go to Harlem to get finger waves this was very Expensive hair style back then I’m 51 now I was about 20 21, the line to her shop was out the door It was like a factory in the chair ok now out the chair NEXT that always stuck with me Ive had my own business now for 4 yrs I can not remember exactly when In these four yrs. when I understood how she as making more money and charging next To nothing in other salons finger waves was 30-35 dollars boom The person charging the most is not necessarily making the most money She was making way more then those other salons BC Say she did 100 Finger waves in one day the other salons maybe did one finger wave a week The products I sell can go for 2x even 3x the money but I keep it affordable for Everyone so now I’m servicing both ends of he spectrum, instead of only one end of the spectrum...ONE LOVE ❤️

[@logikgirl12]

Preach! All I heard in my head was Michael Jackson's song "Man in the mirror" 🎶 may he rest in peace

[@donnajeffreys8252]

I save some of Tony's videos then listen to them again or whenever I want to. This is definitely one I've saved

[@guidedspirit7933]

SO GRATEFUL for you Big Brother Tony.💪🏽💚

[@breewelch5982]

Be blessed, I think this video just radically changed my whole life!!!🤔

[@MariaCM2024]

This is the answer to my questions yesterday..TY! Stay blessed Brother Tony. I pray daily for God to give you more favor and blessings..God is Real! TY LORD FOR THIS ANGEL U have sent to us!

[@andreea7822]

Your channel is a blessing!!!🌼🌼

[@toyab1213]

I’ve been doing a lot of studying on Manifestation this year. This video goes along with the principles of Manifestation. I’m claiming Growth for the year of 2020! Thank You for your videos they are truly a blessing ❤️.

[@misscleo_]

Having a great self-concept is soooo important. Great video!

[@mixedindian8355]

I’m in tears, I feel validated... my ex came into my life and now that he’s left. His horrible messages remain.

[@TheSophisticated186]

Man that's so true... building on your own

[@lydiagreen584]

The main reason why I listen is BC of your accent. Reminds me of my relatives; my folks are from Mississippi but I’m from Michigan. I 💜 that!!!!

[@dreakillings9576]

Thank you I definitely needed to watch this video 2x! This was very helpful to me💪🏿

[@luli8307]

You speak so nice before I knew it I was completely in. It really touched me not even reaching the middle of the video. And I paused yours to do as you told self-evaluation and wrote that down. No other video ever made me do that. The programing and how easily it can be created and inherited you explained that beautifully. I just wanted to stop by, giving you my appreciation and thanks, because you've reached out to one soul.

[@donnierichardson3294]

The scriptures say "So a man thinketh to him that's how it is."

[@la_julz]

Thank you for living your purpose Tony! 🙏🏽❤️

[@DD-mg2se]

Oh yes..your energy is like that. Cool, calm, direct and welcoming. I can speak from what I see and feel. All you do is out of love and the betterment of others. That's what your energy says to me.

[@LiveandLove45]

GOD is Truly in You. Be Blessed. Thank You very much.

[@monnea2407]

Oh wow!!! I was just talking to one of my friends yesterday about this very thing!!! U have to be what u wanna attract👍👍👍

[@joannnunes4222]

Mr Gaskins you are a tremendous blessing your interpretion of what you teach is so moving instrumental and applicable for living life Thank you and God bless you and your family

[@kathyserchion1241]

Thats what i have to work on myself

[@tisha812]

Lord knows I needed this word today! 👍🏽🔥

[@BUTTA408_]

I truly love myself.

[@mariewalton7079]

Still praying for our men and women. Tony thank you for your time and wisdom. BE BLESSED!!!!

[@michellebattle6356]

Hello. The concept of self-love in a biblical sense is a tough one. God wants more for us than for our thoughts to be consumed with picking apart parts of ourselves that we are insecure about- we were created perfectly by God. It pains Him to see us so insecure about ourselves. See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him😊 I will share with Mr. Gaskins readers scriptures that brighten my heart..may they purify and be a blessing.

[@weareallone6148]

Thank you, Tony for encouraging People to Dream Big!

[@99imelda]

This man needs to be protected at all costs , spitting wisdom sentence after sentence.

[@knowyourworth2213]

May God pour forth out every blessing He has for you!

[@iamabundant7821]

I meditated on Exodus chapters 3 & 4 this morning and while meditating had a similar thought about Moses and how he saw himself verses how God saw him and then stumbled across this...Great addition to my morning spiritual and personal development! Thank you Tony and God bless you, your family, and this ministry, in Jesus’s name!

[@thenutritariannurse9074]

I see now why Tony is blessed! Someone else would be charging for the nuggets he drops on his videos. Great relationship building!

[@NursingHubPro]

This was one of the best entrepreneur videos EVER! Thanks Tony G!

[@microbito66]

Mr. Tony Gaskins.. You are saving lives.. I hope you know that! ❤️

[@quandreawilliams8835]

Be Blessed

[@mimisjourney3688]

Now this is what I needed ❣️ more videos about ‘self’ improvement/growth pls. Love all your videos from the UK 🇬🇧

[@abbiecd16]

Truth requires change

[@aliciamartin5501]

Thank you for that teaching!! May God continue to Bless you and use you!!❤️❤️