6 things narcissist enablers say to you

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[@patrickdankwajohn1191]

I'm an attorney who does divorce work. One way to deal with the enablers is to ask them "why do you think it's in my best interest to do what you're suggesting?" This questions reveals that what they're telling you to do is not in your best interest at all. I've had my own personal experience with flying monkeys, and this question has worked every time.

[@truthmerchant1]

"Be the bigger person". Translation: Shrink yourself to fit the narcissist's agenda.

[@susanlarson8788]

"There are two sides to every story." Not when it comes to abuse.

[@anabellee1225]

My father and my sister are narcissists. My mom is a big time enabler. When I confronted them, she said, "we fed you we raised you, did we sell you as a child?" She thinks I have to be grateful because they didn't commit humantrafficking...

[@cuddlyarmadillo1306]

My favorite: "they told ME they're super sorry about the bad thing they did to you". Cool, funny how they consistently neglect to tell me directly.

[@Autumn_Forest_]

Seríal killer: Gets caught killing people.

[@angelbowen9107]

"At the end of the day, we’re still family"

[@jennifercraven2637]

"You two never got along." As if it were a mutual problem vs dealing with one person's bad behavior.

[@catwalkster]

" they are still your parents " is a big one.

[@biancavandermeulen9684]

“Why are you so negative and stuck in the past?”

[@Al........]

The main thing I hear is that we are all told "you're too sensitive".

[@hiccuphaddock4279]

My favorite, "you can't live in the past.... you have to let things go..." Even when the behaviors have never stopped.

[@tebmot]

They'll say: "He loves you, he just doesn't know how to show it..." Crap like that...

[@wynnyx7071]

I blocked my mom from my life, and everyone is telling me how in pain she is. No she isn't. She just doesn't like the optics of appearing like a bad mom whose eldest child wont talk to her. For real reasons.

[@natsmith3067]

“You shouldn’t have made him so angry.” My mom enabled my dad’s narcissistic abuse out of fear. I was labeled the instigator growing up because I had the audacity to question my dad’s skewed version of reality.

[@butterflymagicwithhottea9291]

Enablers will say that they don't want to pick sides so keep them out of it by not talking to them about your perspective. It shuts down and ices out the person who is suffering.

[@josephuk2609]

“She did the best she could”

[@quaintprintsboutique]

From my sister:

[@jamesbryson9542]

"Love everyone" "turn the other cheek" "I don't take sides" "make peace" "the truth is in the middle"

[@Falconlibrary]

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