They feel bad for a second and then the guilt turns to rage. The more you love them, the more they hate you.
@winnieamar936828 күн бұрын
The more you love them ,the more they hate you. Yes, absolutely my experience as well. But I don't understand why that happens. I wonder if it's because it activates their shame.
@nicoletteCA28 күн бұрын
They are deep down angry, resentful and miserable. You think you want to be in their presence so badly and then when you do, they are cruel, shallow and honestly empty people. They love & hate YOU because you’re not any of those things
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@nas802729 күн бұрын
they know they treated you badly, they will use some incredible mental gymnastics to tell themselves that you deserve it
@watchonly132129 күн бұрын
My narc said he didn't know the smashed window, my bleeding toe, the flipped tables, the holes in the wall, the perpetual mess in the home, the yelling and swearing at me and his 89yr old mother etc scared me and affected me negatively and blamed me for not telling him about it. He hadn't worked for more than 10yrs and said I should have nagged him to get a job if working was so important to me. He said he had it worse as a child and this is nothing.
@nas802729 күн бұрын
@@watchonly1321 Why are you trauma dumping on my comment? You need to accept your part in all this that you let that person do this.. Next time someone gets violent or abusive, you'll know what not to do. Don't date any more losers. No more referring to this utter scum bag as "my narc" either.
@motowngirl589126 күн бұрын
Your delusional They care about nothing
@user-ss8fc2yz2q28 күн бұрын
Why won't they take any accountability for what they do. They project everything on to you. It's totally ridiculous.
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@nappyfries29 күн бұрын
I think for my last narcissist, he would feel bad in the moment but later on was able to justify what he did bc he talked himself out of the shame of his actions.
@AmandaStreet44429 күн бұрын
The way he describes his cognitive ability to know he was wrong, but not being able to “tap into” the sadness of his own hurtful behavior is eye opening and really sad, but also freeing in a way.
@ivonkwAn644329 күн бұрын
They only feel bad when somebody will figure them out 🙈
@vivianMarvin-z6k26 күн бұрын
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
@Jennyfenty-n1b26 күн бұрын
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
@vivianMarvin-z6k26 күн бұрын
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
@Jennyfenty-n1b26 күн бұрын
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@Jennyfenty-n1b26 күн бұрын
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
@vivianMarvin-z6k26 күн бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
@MajorieRoyal28 күн бұрын
I am actually doing compartimentalisation with him.. No choice... or else I keep wanting more, trying more... feeling sad etc.. so I had to pack everything of him, memories, his actual existence and put it in a box. I cannot manage or process it all and I don't think I'll ever be able because makes no sense. :( So...
@HippieZippy23 күн бұрын
How can they regret something that in their minds never happened. It's all in your mind.
@gerger567028 күн бұрын
I don’t think so. It just keeps getting worse
@TuerlingsTim27 күн бұрын
No, the only regret is that the selfish goal not succeed.
@KVille6528 күн бұрын
This is the 2nd video of yours that I've watched. It is so difficult and mind boggling to comprehend the narcs mindset. Mine almost completely destroyed me. I am tryn to find the right psychologist so that I can heal. Putting all the shattered pieces of my heart and soul back together seems impossible but I'm trying
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@lorimiller726128 күн бұрын
They have a choice but they just don’t want to make the right one !!! Then they have to deal with their crappy selves.
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@angiebrown652429 күн бұрын
Some narcs feel very sad alone
@motowngirl589127 күн бұрын
Who cares, they don’t deserve be even breath air
@juliejohnson148127 күн бұрын
Because they are weak they will have your replacement before the final breakup. No tears will be shed over you so why are you crying over them?
@candacemccoy68128 күн бұрын
You have really helped me on my healing journey thank you
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@Jayforeign329 күн бұрын
i dont speak to people anymore
@RawMotivations28 күн бұрын
Yes you did here ;)
@Jayforeign328 күн бұрын
@@RawMotivations im stating my opion
@Jayforeign328 күн бұрын
@@RawMotivations but i dont have any friends no colluges no nothing dont need em never wanted them
@jmang595328 күн бұрын
Dear lord, ty for your work. 🙏
@user-kh4nw8qm4p27 күн бұрын
please say her as well mate as i was abused and controlled by female narcisist
@williamtiffee379928 күн бұрын
Excellent, and enlightening, video. (I've watched several others... but you were really: "in the zone" on this one, Ben!) Subscribed. 😉
in the workplace my boss closes the door and his attitude changes i tell my co workers and nobody believes me why does he do this to me is it hate ?
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@motowngirl589127 күн бұрын
They CARE ABOUT NO ONE OR ANYTHING a except beer
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@danicapopovic-backo589320 күн бұрын
Ben, you are making so much sense. Do you provide one on one for someone going through theraphy with a narcissist?
@RawMotivations19 күн бұрын
@@danicapopovic-backo5893 yes I work with many people in those situations. Https://www.rawmotivations.com/breakthrough
@MC-mk6gs28 күн бұрын
Never
@jodieop89327 күн бұрын
So much information and insight here... so worth listening to a few times... thank you