Does Dad Owe Ex for Kids' Sports Leagues? | Part 1

[@MarvinForte]

It's never a good sign when JJ starts with the defendant.

[@susanstribe4914]

Never! 😹😹😹

[@payton0427]

I swear

[@oreolover9321]

Yep I was like oooo she's in trouble

[@lob1248]

Really really not good 😂

[@rabbit3212010]

Lol. That's so true!

[@janus9824]

Started off questioning the defendant? My popcorn is ready! Wow! They went through a divorce, he signed the house over to her, while remain living there for 7 years after the divorce, then he moved in with her mother next door for an additional 2 years? That can be taken as for 9 years he stayed as close as possible for the wellbeing of the children so they can still think things are normal until they come of age, or the defendants mother understood the bigger picture and did what was necessary for her grandkids as a father is needed in the household, not the government.

[@kyoto32001]

so her mom sided with HIM in the divorce? that says a lot.

[@podsmpsg1]

Yup. Shows she's not too stable.

[@Wayniesgirl]

Or she just offered her help in any way to ensure he was still able to see his kids everyday for the good of all. It doesn't mean she "sided" with him

[@Fickets]

@@Wayniesgirl it more than likely means she sided with him.

[@moniqueengleman873]

Sounds like they tried to make it best for the kids.

[@ruefullysage]

no it doesn’t.

[@latinalegend2000]

it hurts seeing a grown man being micromanaged by the controlling mother of their children just as much as a controlling man would be to his wife. him moving in with HER mom speaks volumes.

[@MrCamp]

I love watching these videos because it just reinforces why I’m working everything out with my wife forever. I can’t imagine having to sit down and ask who’s paying the Little League registration this year.

[@queenjocelyn4711]

I’m happy you can…I tried but it was tumultuous and volatile…wishing you guys happily ever after 🫶🏾

[@alex1vid]

"Don't play with me!" Yeah - JJ knew what was going on all along. That woman lives in an echo chamber of her own friggin' head. She justifies every awful, petty, small thing she does and lies about. "They're MY tools" even though they aren't. "It's MY house, they're MY kids." That her mother was open to him being right there suggests that he wasn't an awful, rotten person. But I suspect the ex really resents it to her core. What a miserable person.

[@DGrant86]

Judge: He gets his tools back! DO YOU UNDERSTAND?? The way she leaned up and tilt her head down 😂😂😂😂

[@sparrowhawk5673]

It was very Cooperative I don't understand why she found it necessary to emphasize the statement

[@GoIggles92]

⁠@@sparrowhawk5673Apparently, in her response to his complaint, she tried to say he abandoned the tools and they’re no longer his so JJ had to let her know that that’s not how that works.

[@wilsonsmanz]

Sir, you have to do better than that. Come on dude. She purchased the house, you moved in with her (married). And then after the divorce she got the house, Understood. But then you move in with her mom??? Then after that you move in with your girlfriend?? Dude when are you going to have your own place!!!

[@didintleSA]

It's so disgraceful. What a mooch.

[@MsDulcecandy87fan]

And he paid no rent at her mothers! SMH

[@bellalegendre2644]

It's ridiculous. He should be able to get his own place to live without living off of women.

[@DreaDior]

Never! Few men can function without a woman

[@ruthann2051]

I'm thinking he probably couldn't afford it because he was paying child support.

[@TT.x8]

“Don’t play with me 🗿” 😂

[@kennadi1125]

LMAO

[@alicialittlejohn6542]

Poor dude he’s obviously just tried to stick around and stick it out for his kids

[@runningawayvagabond5876]

Anyone else catch that he moved in with his new girlfriend in 2014 which is right about the timeframe when he was not allowed to get his tools and she became combative in her communications? Jealousy is a b!tch.

[@patperez8223]

Exactly. Even worse, he still with that girlfriend.

[@normagallagher7432]

And a bastard!...lol

[@Transformers2Fan1]

@@patperez8223 how's that worse?

[@The_Noblesse]

​@@Transformers2Fan1 means its a serious relationship

[@Transformers2Fan1]

@@The_Noblesse again, how is that "worse"?

[@eurekandavani5089]

This woman is unbelievable, he signed the house to her and she had a problem his tools were there? Unbelievable

[@yolandascholten2012]

He found a girlfriend and got a life….the ex-wife couldn’t stand it!

[@jeanprice2514]

Scorned woman who can't stand the fact that her ex has a new girlfriend. Get over yourself lady.

[@bourehimacamara6195]

I’m guessing we’re all at lunch 😂 given the amount of views this video got in minutes

[@junab3743]

One of the joys of my day. Sitting here scarfing down beans and watching my JJ.

[@EM-oy4mh]

It's like you know me haha

[@zkarebear]

Judge Judy lunch club!

[@denisefisher5678]

I'm English so time they come on it's breakfast for me 😂

[@Poeticfloetic]

@@junab3743 *scoffing.

[@lob1248]

She looks like she could be his mother 😂🤔

[@virgo7956]

That's what I'm thinking 🤔

[@gunslingah2]

Ikr 🤣😂

[@phily8093]

Really? I don't see it. Maybe if he took his wig off, you'd see it differently.

[@nunyabiz6925]

@@phily8093 lol😂. He looks like he woke up after a serious bender

[@kweenbrook]

@@phily8093😂😂

[@faithfuhlllness]

i love when JJ says “cops an attitude” lol

[@BrooksDunn]

Of course, she keeps saying “he was living in MY house after we divorced” she acts like he was being a bum and moved in with her when they married. Like most other divorces, he probably was screwed over and she got everything but the debt.

[@RocLobo358]

That's not how anything works

[@yangtzeling7468]

The plaintiff has a nice face 😂

[@jthomas4791]

Being that they were able to live together for so long after marriage, im sad they really called it quits

[@lisafink98]

Not all divorces result in the spouses hating each other, many are capable of co-parenting in a friendly way. Usually, the hate arises out of betrayal or money or both. It’s always good for the kids of the parents can remain friendly, wish that happened more often.

[@lisafink98]

@🦋Timileyin Destinee🦋 Yes, for sure.

[@queenbee3647]

My ex was tolerable...but then he had girlfriends whispering in his ear. Then he became an idiot. Havent heard a word from him in 23 years!

[@lob1248]

Happily divorced and I mean that. We had a a child and we both attend sports, agree on most things, and maintain a united front even when we disagree. Are we best friends? Not really, but we both love and prioritize our child. He didn’t ask to be here

[@michtig]

The only thing good for the kids is for the parents stay together and raise them adequately in an adequate home. Broken home upbringings have never-ending reverberations of the poor decision to have children you can’t build a family with. Then comes the parade of boyfriends and girlfriends and their kids, and the split holidays, the divided attention, the missed events. It’s chaos dumped on children who didn’t ask for it and have nothing to do with its origin.

[@michtig]

@@lob1248 why have a child with someone you’d happily divorced with?

[@dogloverjb6873]

Too many men get the bad end of the divorce financially. He signed the house over to her.

[@thaomay17]

I no its irrelevant but the lady (ex wife) in blue looks like she could be his mom or older sister.

[@wintercame]

I think it could be relevant.

[@stfuyoutube423]

I have a feeling being married to her would be quite unpleasant.

[@Mary-pg3lu]

Why he didn't moved in with his mother, instead of your mother?

[@imwatchinberniemac]

Her mother stayed close. No idea where his mother lives

[@eldorado1244]

Mary go back and listen again, your question will be answered

[@Kimi1968ful]

That question was answered about 20 seconds in.

[@tomlemery8490]

The answer is within the first minute of the case.

[@betrayall1011]

I know a few people that even though they got divorce still live together because both parents wanted to remain 100% involved with their kids. One of them was a co-worker of mine He took out a loan and built a little cottage in the backyard so that he would always be there whenever his kids needed him.

[@TheSarah730]

2:37 “pay careful attention to my question” 😂

[@metatown5820]

She sounds like a mean woman. Poor guy.

[@NanaPapa123]

Lives with ex wife for seven years (the agreement was until he could find a place of his own) Then not even finding his own place, but moving in with her mother? Way to stand on your own two feet!

[@Wayniesgirl]

If it was just so he could still be involved with his kids every day, it may have been a sacrifice. Don't be so judgy

[@Fickets]

@Betsy Brower something tells me you’re a misandrist.

[@kaysense6136]

I agree with you Betsy!

[@Wayniesgirl]

@Betsy Brower Well, whoopdi do. I got divorced and remained friends with my ex. Maybe you're the problem. And I've raised 5 sons that are all great providers and strong men. I'm no snowflake just because I tell you that you don't have all the facts from these short clips. I remained friends with my ex, but I did not want to stay married to him. That's ridiculous. We know he had a shop and was taking over a business. We know he provided the entire time up until he moved with the mom. And he still provided somewhat. Maybe she was the one making his life hell. Did that even occur to you? That HER mother would allow him there he must've been doing something right. It sounds like they both tried to compromise for the kids until , who knows, maybe he met someone. She didn't like it , so told him to leave. The one thing that really passes me off about divorced moms is that they tend to think they can decide to take away time with the kids from the dads. She probably kicked him out to punish him and the mom decided to help him so he could still be close to the kids and get on his feet. Either way, you don't have all the facts. He WAS working, WAS involved with kids, WAS paying , and DID get his own place so YOU can get lost

[@tomy4453]

@@betsybrower2523 Lol, you're not a great judge of character in man yourself from your story. But I'm sure you were a joy to be around; I assume you're still alone? LOL

[@Evie0526]

My man looks stoned 😂

[@mcc_1993]

He looks tired.

[@horiiizons161]

@@gojiberry7201 he is the plaintiff dumb dumb

[@QueenCityHistory]

Could also be medication too.

[@mikeyisbombable]

@@mcc_1993can you blame him? Imagine dealing with the defending all those years 😂 I would be hella tired too

[@mcc_1993]

@@mikeyisbombable I know. I feel bad for him.

[@r.r911]

4:29 The expressions on the two ladies' faces in the audience when the Plaintiff admitted he lives with ex-wife's mother and does not pay rent. Maybe he pays in other ways? Lol 😆 🤣 I would never have my ex's parent live with me if I were divorced.

[@rowan64official]

I noticed that lol and same

[@anonanon8974]

LOL at the very end! People really ARE allergic to answering questions!

[@sydhsydh1084]

Lmao i bet he also didnt pay rent living in his girlfriend's house

[@wezzman1]

She only had a problem when he found someone new....😂

[@michn1222]

Where’s part 2??? So he only stopped paying for the kids when he moved in with the gf??! What a winner 🤣😂

[@Teddybeardb85]

When judge Judy says don’t play with her I love it when the defendants end up playing with her 😂 no they get whooping cushioned.yay

[@yolandascholten2012]

Another case of people who make their own lives so much more complicated than it has to be.

[@manuelsoares9698]

I hope he got something out of the divorce... Both their names were on the home and now it is only in her name and she makes it very clear every time she says, "my house"...

[@carmenblk440]

He got 7 years living in her home

[@Valexia683]

SHE bought the house. this guy is a bum. He lived in his ex girls house, then moved in with her mothers, then now he stays at his current gf house.. Never has his own place. bum alert.

[@manuelsoares9698]

@@carmenblk440 The one that he formerly owned? Most men gain nothing from marriage and lose a lot more than women in a divorce, here is proof of it...

[@manuelsoares9698]

@@Valexia683 You're assuming too much. Both their names were attached to the house so he must've been involved in the purchase. Her own mother allowed him to live with her so he must've not been a bum since the former mother-in-law has no obligation to provide him a home. Seems the ex wife became furious when he moved in with his new girlfriend.

[@manuelsoares9698]

@@Valexia683 I wonder if you would say the same when in most divorces, the men have to move out of their own homes, even if they paid the majority of the mortgage. He seems very involved in his kid's life, that is not a bum in my books...

[@meganlewis2424]

"Potting around", geez JJ how old are you? Lol.

[@Notmishnoob]

Is Byrd on his phone during court?!😂

[@LostPlutotarian]

😂😂😂 probably thinking, "I'm done with this sh*t."

[@fanfare78]

Lately... always

[@22161]

I miss Byrd

[@patim5953]

He got to live pretty cheap for a good while.

[@podsmpsg1]

He should have moved in with his mom instead of her mom. His mother-in-law is gonna side with her, not him, as would be expected.

[@dinahbrown902]

She sided with him. Some people are fair😊

[@justanothersmith6012]

I don’t understand going through a divorce but continuing to live together for years afterwards. If the relationship has broken down to the point if divorce how are you then able to become roommates? I’ve been married for over 40 years so maybe I’m missing something.

[@shambolicrhetoric6143]

I’m guessing it was so the kids still had their father close by to help with raising the children? Obviously they didn’t love each other anymore. Some people are better off as just being friends. Clearly it worked for them for a long period of time.

[@justanothersmith6012]

@@shambolicrhetoric6143 But , why not stay married til they’re grown ? I guess if he was draining her financially and it affected her credit , it would make sense. I just worked that out in my head as I was replying to you. 😂Thanks !! 🙃

[@pontifixmax]

She just wants his tool back.

[@stuff1784]

Why does she look so old and he look so young?

[@jeannethompson4048]

She does not look young 😂

[@stuff1784]

@@jeannethompson4048 my original comment got it switched by accident lol I edited it now

[@jeannethompson4048]

@@stuff1784 😂😂😂😂

[@noone-jw7nd]

They look the same age to me.

[@NexusFantismo]

Probably obesity

[@celinas6261]

He can’t just get his own place? Moving in with all these women

[@AlchemyBae_]

She purchased the home & instead of getting his own place he moved in with her mom THEN moved in with his girlfriend…. And he couldn’t split the shared children’s cost due to his own bills….?

[@gerardosalinas6540]

He is super cute!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@kaisoisla]

Yeah he gives me hunky daddy

[@teerapatpetram]

Stuff like this is why I'll never get married lol

[@mrsweetswag]

He’s not my type but he is the exception he is very handsome

[@Empressbee79]

Did he say “welderling” company at 1:45?

[@cheriedahl3378]

Lol I heard that too 😅

[@DominicMassarotti]

Well drilling

[@minutor]

No wonder he got a divorce, look at the state of her.

[@SchuylerNoelle]

Plaintiff is very handsome 😅

[@2girly]

Don't play with Judge Judy, ever

[@kekejefferson9219]

I can't believe his MIL let him stay with her. Why is he afraid to get his own home?

[@ruthann2051]

I'm thinking he probably couldn't afford it because he was paying child support.

[@makenziecely]

If the mother of your ex thinks highly enough of you to let you live in their home, (I imagine so he could be an active participant in the daily lives of his children) you cannot be all the terrible of a person/parent.

[@NexusFantismo]

Clearly the person that wrote this has no idea what they are talking about. If CS takes half of your check...then taxes and your own health insurance, in addition to other things the kids may need outside of court ordered CS , a man can easily end up with a fourth of his check.

[@minimaxmiaandme.4971]

That man is gutless.......he should have moved out and got a life....applied for 50% custody.

[@bogibsimmons]

I’ve heard of women doing this before when a man starts to date someone else. My ex was like this. We got married young because she got pregnant but didn’t stay married long. About two years. After we got the divorce because she cheated and then started to date that man after that everything was fine we got along with co parenting but the second I started to date someone she started to become horrible telling me the sexual stuff her and the guy would do, telling me the kid isn’t mine she cheated the entire marriage, said she never loved me as well as telling me to continue to pay child support but she didn’t want me to see our child anymore. All because I started to date someone who happened to be somewhat famous because of my job. I’ll tell you when a women thinks someone else wants you they will turn into someone completely different.

[@Vanessa_Martinez]

The ex wife looks a mess she looks older than him. He’s not a bad looking man they don’t look like they’ll even be a couple.

[@bobmohk397]

The Plaintiff is hot

[@tinkiesmami09]

She looks like she could be his mom, not an ex-wife!

[@mrshorsegirl]

Don’t play with me 😂😂

[@kuttuz1]

He lived rent free after divorce for 7 years then 2 years with mother in law for free… and now found a women who has her own home. What a crap

[@Timothy-f7t]

Not sure what happened between them, but she ex wife is still angry. Let it go, sis. Let is go!

[@yolondambrowm9803]

She looks old enough to be his mother

[@GloriaYtuarte]

Will help soon

[@aspenquiroz7281]

The kid is the next Messi

[@reynaolvera7526]

JJ loves her some family court cases. As she would say “my bread and butter.”

[@stashiatracy]

Some women and children beg for a co-parent and dad who would live with them despite a split, or move in next door to them following a split, to help keep her and her children supported and afloat. Instead, this woman just tried to micromanage and control him. If you have to get divorced, she had the best case scenario with a co-parent. Flushed it down the toilet.

[@christinebrument6851]

Living with her mother???? Case over even her mother sees her for what she is.

[@RemyJustice97]

This man has the darkest 5 o'clock shadow I've ever seen on a real person

[@nicolepost2461]

Yes he does

[@eileenm.1413]

Is he wearing a hairpiece? Inquiring minds want to know...

[@bo2720]

I think so but looks pretty natural at the same time. He's not bad lookin if you ask me

[@Chula92]

Don’t play with me .. don’t play with me !! 😮

[@judithwilber2540]

why did they even get divorced lol...he has a hairpiece also lol

[@larissap3547]

I’m stuck on the fact he stayed with ex mommy in law for 2 years…. Why ?????

[@norma5044]

You are right she hasn't aged well.

[@MeMe2luvn]

I thought she was his mom at first 😅

[@ThePedrocorte]

I am trying to rich out paramount too see if I could include Portuguese translation on judge Judy videos. Please help me out guys

[@binkytube]

Women games don't ever get past Judge Judy. Lol

[@Haze1434]

Sounds like he got away.

[@sothathappened]

he must have cheated.

[@chiro98]

You sound like a female who was cheated on…don’t assume all men cheat…if he cheated why would mother in law let him in her house?

[@chantelspencer3439]

Or she cheated? Why would you assume that? Maybe the stress of life made them incompatible?

[@BadgerCheese94]

I doubt her mother would have welcomed him to live with her if that was the case

[@axtaxt8372]

It’s no problem to give the tools back BUT she never gave them back when he asked for them…PETTY

[@writeart7636]

You no longer gave her your money, so you don't have an obligation to take care of your children. But seyah...

[@terencewoelke]

I am guessing that David Kincy is Jefferey Dahmer’s bro that changed his last name. 😅

[@gayhendrie84]

isn't that part of the child support??

[@joepkortekaas8813]

Looking at these judge Judy videos, you get the impression, that two-thirds of American women are overweight or obese.

[@frenchgirl75000]

On comprends mieux le divorce

[@91kermit]

She looks like his mother.

[@ilaser4064]

They weren't her tools, just like the house wasn't hers. But yeah you get divorced and piggy wants everything! How generous of her to allow him to stay in the house they purchased together and I have little doubt he paid most into...

[@anndeecosita3586]

He said at 2:12 “When SHE originally purchased the house it was in both of our names.” Sounds to me like he was saying she put the money down for it so why assume he paid more into it?

[@jjmah7]

wait, that dude married HER?!

[@msenglish8382]

Dam this is a good one

[@momsterzz]

Bitter EX wife is not a good look on you lady

[@jessicapearson9479]

Judge Judy needs to shut up and let people answer her questions!! Not everything is black and white or a yes or no!

[@Hi-vp3zu]

He is really handsome

[@Lenasevilla-yb4ei]

😂😂😂😂

[@bigtrevdogglbc]

They are both sad

[@gtsound12]

They get divorced. 9 years later the man decides to move on with his life with another woman and now she is trying to make his life hard lol

[@sassytrini]

She's bitter

[@DanielleA2023]

Hes a Very handsome man

[@Lenasevilla-yb4ei]

😂😂😂😂

[@miguelortegagomez.3338]

🇵🇦🌷🕛🌎🕯️( (( . . ⛔🕹️⛽🙏 Happy New year Friends,judge judy God bless You,thank You so,so much,no Good English,sorry.👏💐

[@watchmanonthewall14]

Many years after the divorce, I see a man that still keeps up his appearance, and I see a woman who looks like she is eating the proceeds of child support like a manatee.

[@KAKE-26]

DILF!!!

[@DiscoverPlatinum]

He's very attractive and handsome. Wow...daddy! I'm not sure what there would be to fight about if I were married to him!