Does Dating Experience Even Matter??

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[@windhelmguard5295]

if someone has been in many short term relationships that can mean a few things: -they are the asshole. -they are a poor judge of character (to end up in relationships with assholes again and again) -they are smart enough to see the writing on the wall and part on good terms (or bail out of a toxic relationship) before they become dependant on it. -they are not interested in going long term and they know it.

[@szarwi]

Jeez, getting together with someone who is horrible at judging people sounds so freaking exhausting. Even worse when they get extremely defensive about it. Just imagine trying to explain to them how this person they befriended is a weirdo in more ways than one, and potentially being called a manipulative asshole for trying to help them.

[@kennethxu1789]

Smart enough to see the writing on the wall? Don’t think that most people who’ve never been in long term would be able to do that

[@doodlegame8704]

@@kennethxu1789It takes a maximum of 3 months to get to know someone well enough to know whether or not they are hiding a significant part of themselves they don’t want you to know about. So you really can’t know for sure if a relationship is going to work until you’ve been together for a couple months. I don’t think it’s all that crazy.

[@gab1888]

@@kennethxu1789 it is real I have done that two times. Shortly after we started dating I have seen a lot of lies. Before we had similar political, social views but two months in, the dude becomes highly religious and anty lgbtq. Like you don’t change your views to completely opposite ones, in a month. There were also more lies. Sadly, you will never know if you are lied to until somebody will slip up. And how do you continue a relationship like that, when somebody lied so much from the start ?

[@princesserika9899]

Let me add more: - They don't feel ready to commit - They are simply not meant to be because of differences - Misunderstandings - Circumstances that might affect their relationship And honestly, I dated twice in my life. One was a bad one, he was a player and I even found out from my friend that he was flirting with her and so, we break up and never spoke again. One was a good time. We were very different from each other and the spark doesn't glow anymore. It just fades. I consider it a good time because I can never forget the times where we started off as friends and they had a crush on me and we begin hitting it off. My last relationship for 4 months.

[@mr.sushi2221]

I think what Connor said about compromise is very important.

[@azevedo1046]

I'm mid 20's and never been in a relationship at all. I just never had the chance to, that isn't something to be concerned about. Being in multiple relationships pretty quickly, or have a high body count (that weren't in relationships) is the concerning bits.

[@maradri03gaming9]

Same

[@D_Jilla]

As someone who's 30 and hasn't been in a long term relationship, I appreciate you guys for understanding it's a nuanced topic. I think most girls in the dating market, if not all, would say it's a red flag. Me personally, i think it's a yellow flag.

[@alixnight5318]

For the right person, it doesn’t matter. When I met my bf, he was 30 and hadn’t been in a relationship with anyone before. It wasn’t a red flag for me because I saw that he exhibited a lot of positive traits such as being extremely self aware, strong communication skills, and being incredibly empathetic. Few women want to teach a man the basics about how they want to be treated in a relationship. If you’re mature and have your shit together, it’s not as much of a red flag

[@D_Jilla]

@@alixnight5318 fascinating! Thank you, kindly, for this insight!

[@MBukhariOmar-y3e]

Its true tho, basic things as open the door (car, etc) pull the chair let her sit those simple things are enough I would've say the bare minimum to how to treat a girl.

[@DoNotLookDown]

Imagine ever being in a relationship.

[@sukottotsukeshi.]

Let along trying

[@ozgurtopal5080]

Key word imagine

[@Dmonsterparedes0625]

Bro there’s this Salvadoran restaurant I love that has umbrellas open indoors at each table to make if feel like your at a resort , superstitious persons would pass out dead

[@aurthurpendragon1015]

My argument against that Connor said si that it's equally likely that it's a person who's a shit judge of character. I think we've all known at least one person who would constantly make friends or get partners that are terrible, but they can't see all of the obvious red flags.

[@TommySkywalker11]

Games with falling floor tiles have conditioned me to never feel comfortable stepping on cracks

[@safaa9654]

Im 24F and never been in any kind of relationship (the most i've gotten was a 3 week situationship lmao)

[@D_Jilla]

That's rough, buddy.

[@piotr004]

OP - it's much better than to surrender under the pressure to do it with anybody just for the sake of doing it. I can definitely say A LOT OF MEN (myself included, almost 29 years old and never in any relationship, because I literally despise hookups, and intimacy should be only with someone you love, otherwise it is just worse and more risky version of masturbation) would value women like you highly, like a "wife material". Actually, it's sad men like me can't meet any woman like you, to the point we joke that winning a lottery is more probable.

[@neociber24]

I know people that are in bad relation after other, they tend to blame it in the ex. Although you may not be the shit person, you are unable to get the red flags. After so many relations I think you should learn to avoid those persons.

[@MrGreenJester]

I wanna listen to the conversation, but I'm just too focused on Garnt spinning that pen in his hand 😅

[@gracus13]

as a 30yo who never been in relationship despite trying my hardest ... i just feel like damaged goods nobody wants

[@callader-6815]

What does “trying my hardest” actually mean tho? Have you been working on yourself, going to the gym, exploring your own hobbies WHILE trying to approach women? You gotta do both at the same time

[@superblaze4949]

To Connor’s comments about hating someone who wouldn’t bother playing from the get go because they know they’ll lose, more than sore losers, legitimately how is that even fair for them? Like they know they are a sore loser, so for them to choose to not want to engage because they know they’ll bring the vibe down if they do, isn’t that them recognizing their issues and choosing to not bring the problem by putting themselves in that position? I just think it’s a little unfair to hate on a sore loser even more, for choosing to not to put themselves in that position from the beginning.

[@hand3536]

its a clash of personalities clearly connor is the type too enjoy winning even when its an obvious mismatch

[@texmexlink]

Well I think it’s important to tackle that problem of being a sore loser so that you can enjoy playing games with others. It’s important to be okay with losing, especially when it’s just for fun

[@buvvins6687]

One superstition we have in germany is that you do't wish someone a "Happy Birthday" before the actual birthday. Rather frowned upon to do so and if a german does it i would ascribe malice.

[@excruciatingorgasm9976]

Does the same apply after one's birthday or is that fine?

[@D_Jilla]

Germans taking being on time to great levels 😂

[@SoundsOfTheWild3]

Not really. Personality matters most.

[@manganimesYT]

i cant keep my eyes off garnt spinning his marker, and now i hope future viewers cant either haha

[@JetstreamKage]

huh, i'm 31 years old and have only been in 2 relationships and both were less than a month long, since turning 30 I've been looking, but unable to find anyone even when setting my bar really low. as in not too overweight, not a mum, and 4/10 at minimum

[@VulcanXIV]

Unfortunately those 3 things are exactly where the bar starts to go "really low". Your bar is exactly above that limit lol

[@ZabZabZabie]

Great more content to end it all to.

[@excruciatingorgasm9976]

Hell yeah!

[@AlliandoX]

What if you’ve never been in a relo for normal reasons like not clicking with anyone?

[@Slays_Media]

It absolutely matters. Dates bring more dates. Ask anyone who has been around and they'll say the same as I, that it's a numbers game.

[@DenshaOtoko2]

Four-leaf clovers and Horseshoes are good luck?

[@DenshaOtoko2]

Nobody eats Squab or pigeons anymore because of the Bird Flu.

[@DenshaOtoko2]

8 is a lucky number because it sounds like riches in Chinese. Red is the color of luck and marriages, blue is masculine, and so is black. White is the color of death. Certain jobs or careers are highly valued and so are frugality and thriftiness.

[@ellenmcdaniel1550]

One red flag for me, when it comes to friendships..is someone who can't or won't make fun of themselves. If you can't do that, you are too sensitive for me!

[@aldrinvendt5525]

Gonna go ahead and fire off a loaded question. At what point does “believing superstitions” become just “beliefs”. Like…is praying, or any other religious practice, a superstition? Cuz as an atheist, the line is blurry at best.

[@Ash_Wen-li]

Never been in a long term relationship Yellow flag. You really need to know more about them to know if it's bad or not. Not the best sign though

[@D_Jilla]

Fair!

[@TheCreepypro]

it does but not as much as you would think

[@splashafrica]

Your parameter is wrong a year + isn't long enough some people stay in the honeymoon phase for 2 years straight don't ask me how but I've seen it play out

[@Ash_Wen-li]

Superstitious Beige. Not really a fan of them but if you're not constantly impairing my life I can get over it

[@Shmigo22]

This comment section is so sad

[@DenshaOtoko2]

Pork is the favorite meat of Chinese women. The most popular American brands are McDonald's, KFC, Coca-Cola, Costco Starbucks, and Apple, especially the iPhone. I iPads and Disney, Star Wars, Marvel, particularly The Avengers, Transformers movies by Michael Bay, and The Fast and The Furious movies.

[@SaltySteff]

This current batch of people are the most pathetic, saddest, miserable people in history. This is beyond sad. Figure out your life, stop making excuses, and work hard. Life is hard and always has been. Half a century ago, it would have been considered extremely unusual and pathetic for a man or woman in their 30s who is still deciding what to do with their life.

[@TORITHEGUMMYBEAR]

I only believe in one superstition. Having anything underneath your bed is bad luck....That's why my mattress is on the floor 😅 My grandma used to terrify me with that

[@DenshaOtoko2]

I meant bed.

[@DenshaOtoko2]

Left-handedness?

[@hylianfelldragon1308]

7:00 So basically religious people

[@moaen1]

Bro💀?

[@notuxnobux]

You becoming a woman

[@DenshaOtoko2]

Just Feng Shui like face your bad towards running water and have your window face the setting sun in the west and your door facing the rising sun in the east and no sweeping outside the door on Chinese New Year's only sweeping in and lion and dragon dances and firecrackers scare off evil spirits and burn Hell notes and incense and give oranges and beer to a dead relative.

[@JustAnNPC69]

Lol 1 year is not a long term relationship 😂 3 probably is but not 1

[@Ash_Wen-li]

Partner that can't handle losing Red. That would be insufferable

[@Ritsu362]

Lol “you should figure your shit out soon cuz you’ll be past 40”. That seems kinda weird to say. Kids aren’t for everyone, it’s not like it’s something someone has to decide to have, especially women where it’s a massive responsibility on their part. I don’t think there’s anything wrong for someone who is in their 30s to try to focus on themesleves. I don’t want to hear that stuff from bachelor Connor lmao

[@bsd1158]

most educated people these days decide too late and have horrible fertility issues or even end up unwanted childless

[@drp7751]

It makes a lot of age complications between parent and children, as someone who is in the same boat it's kinds tough when your parents are nearing retirement age and you have to continue you study

[@spicykaraage641]

depending on the country having children must be encouraged. Especially those with low birth rates.

[@Ritsu362]

@@bsd1158 that’s better than having 10 kids too early when you’re still working at McDonald’s and haven’t finished high school. There’s nothing wrong having kids at 40, it’s weird if you’re having at kids at like 60

[@Ritsu362]

@@drp7751 yeah but you’re kinda looking at an extreme. Connor is saying people at age 30 should already decide on having kids, which is weird since Connor is 20 something and still hasn’t decided yet either. I get how it could cause problems if someone wants to have kids at 50, but I don’t see a problem for a 30 year old to have kids at that age

[@D_Jilla]

Superstitious. So basically every horoscope girl? Then red flag 😂

[@luigitaku1018]

I sure hope it doesn't

[@gerdanbombales]

Finally a topic I cant relate

[@saltype17]

Trash Taste: There’s no right time to lose your virginity. Also Trash Taste: If you’re over 30 and have never been in a relationship, there’s something wrong.

[@Hold_it]

They specifically set the rule that they are not talking about people who never been in a relationship, before they answered.

[@saltype17]

Seems like a small technicality to me, but just call me stupid then.

[@shaunriordan493]

I really hope some of the people in this comment section get therapy. You shouldn’t be as angsty as a 13 year old when you’re in your 20s or 30s.

[@aminsoussi2354]

Dating as a whole is unhealthy and should be avoided. Most people nowadays date for fun (mostly for intercourse) without any serious commitment which is why most people that date break up so fast. They are simply not serious enough to have a serious relationship plus you don't even have any legal right over your partner as a so called "boyfriend/girlfriend), like if she/he had an accident, you can't even go in because you don't even have a legal right simply because boyfriend/girlfriend is a silly nonserious relationship with no real contract. That's why marriage is the only correct answer.

[@mr.sushi2221]

Okay buddy.

[@eureka5701]

chill

[@Dorma_]

You know you can't magically know if someone is right for you, which is why people date. If being in a relationship doesn't work out, then getting married to them wouldn't work either. Some people don't want serious relationships, but many people do, so communication is important to figure that out. And you shouldn't want things to be serious right away, as you should both see if you're compatible together, which takes time

[@scrublord7922]

Bait or bad take?

[@shaunriordan493]

Good luck