Does My Ex Really Know What They Want?

[@omegasirius245]

There's nothing more stressful than relationships.

[@peteypablo8687]

Truth

[@carolalexis691]

Facts

[@walkertranger5746]

It’s really not that difficult. How about treat others as you like to be treated. Think of others interests above your own. If both parties strived to live by that motto …. It wouldn’t be as stressful .

[@RicJG7]

And also another big thing: be willing to accept counsel and be corrected, everyone is growing and progressing so realising this will help you to be patient with eachother. The relationship will always be in progress. There are many times where we've offended or hurt so best not to react when it happens back to us but just to be patient and overlook the offense if possible

[@SaltySeaCaptain]

@@walkertranger5746 if you think women (no matter how amazing they are) won't eventually stress you out you're delusional.

[@EileenSloane]

Hey Coach, I just wanted to say that my ex came back after four years. I was shocked, when we ended things he was 100% sure he didn't want me. He went out of his way to make the break-up as painful as possible for me. Four years later, and he reached out to me, sent me flowers, teddy bears, bought me a small piece of land in Ireland, a long letter telling me how sorry he is and how he regrets losing me everyday and has changed oh-so-very-much. Too bad, I never thought I'd get over him but I've found a loving partner since who treats me better than I ever thought any man could. It gets better, it gets much, much better, but only when you go no contact.

[@kristenbutler6557]

I fully expect this to happen to me as well, my instinct tells me this. But like you I have found someone who's better, knows how to unconditionally Love, which is something I didn't have with the narcissist. I know coach Lee doesn't like the word narcissist, but he was one.

[@02314066]

Can I have your bit of land please 🙏

[@crazyanimeloveable]

An island damnn😅

[@komalbashir7782]

After 4 years lolz

[@evolicious-x]

well duh. youre a female not difficult to grt an ex back. guy will always want you around to.sleep with

[@paolanamuncura8879]

During No contact I realized that my ex is an unestable person, not only that but began to see all of his flaws.😬

[@DNikos7]

Coach, 18 months after our third and last breakup, I ‘d like to say thank you. I learned that during the five years of our " relationship", she had been lying, cheating and leaving me for other men, and playing the love card when she was getting dumped. I’m a doctor, she left me to flirt around again, failed and now she is getting banged by a young waiter, who obviously has no feelings. It’s just sex. Thank you for teaching no contact, and saving my dignity. Escaping her web and finding a better woman was a godsend gift.

[@Js-wd6dr]

What a nut case!

[@jasongabb1671]

@Sonia Fernandes I know, i was good to my ex, she split with me 4 times in 6 months, every time a different reason. Played games, cancelled weekends away, said she loved me then changed her mind. Stood by her when her best friend died of Covid in Nov 21, listened to her cry in the early hours of the morning.. Then she tells me after Xmas, that she doesn't see a future with me, yes she finds me attractive and likes my company, but can get that with other people.. What a fool i am... Day 35 of NC.

[@jasongabb1671]

@Sonia Fernandes Hi Sonia, thanks for your reply, it's comforting to know other people are going through similar tough times. I do think this is it though for our relationship, she tried the friends route but i politely declined as per the video and i said we are good together. I still think she's grieving from November, i also thought i was her rock, but i guess not. As mentioned she reached out once and i was polite back, but nothing since. She was very cruel when we split up, again textbook from coach Lee's video on the subject. How you feeling and what's your story? Jason

[@a.kamileon]

Find a woman who loves God

[@jasongabb1671]

@Sonia Fernandes Sounds like you just need to have a good conversation? It really does sound if you guys are good for each other and there's been a falling out?? I think you can resolve it, i really do..

[@gorillastrap6181]

"Mayn this break up is the best thing that ever happened to me 😭" Coach Lee cracks me up 😂

[@peteypablo8687]

I listen to you every night before I go to sleep and wake up refreshed with some hope

[@aminumagajiscience1782]

WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹👇

[@nezryt]

the timing for this video is so perfect...

[@nickleavitt2671]

FOR REAL

[@AldinaJ.]

hahsh yess

[@dleng505]

Agreed !

[@selwyncrawford3494]

Facts!!

[@Sarahh_]

I’ve commented on so many of your videos . I’m so annoying but… every question I have I find a video for on your channel. It’s insane. You’re the comfort we all need in this time, thank you from the bottom of my heart Coach Lee!♥️

[@livbeyond]

Coach Lee, I first listened to this via Spotify where I follow your podcast - but then I listened it here on KZbin, too - because we need to listen to your content again and again - and that is how we learn, and heal, and grow! Thank you for your LIGHT, Coach Lee! 🙏

[@celestenova338]

Day 1 no contact. We live together and I’m binging on these videos. This is like the 5th “breakup” and it feels very sure. I feel like I’m dying 💔 wish me luck UPDATE: Think I experienced buyers remorse 😭 gave in too soon. Things were looking promising and my anxiety got the best of me and I pushed my ex away. I’m beyond hurt. Please stay in no contact everyone. Seriously you don’t want to feel the regret I’m feeling right now. I’m finally giving up 💔

[@costanzacostanza3048]

it's gonna be ok darling i feel that

[@revelationx9852]

How are u doing ?

[@celestenova338]

@@revelationx9852 it still hurts like hell. I still cry everyday 💔

[@revelationx9852]

@@celestenova338 :( I’m 16 days in nc, and not sure what is she thinks about ;( I’m kinda ok, but can’t stop thinking about her sometimes

[@markettrader6548]

@@celestenova338 stay strong, you got this. We are all in the same boat

[@ZajcAnja]

One important aspect you never implicitly highlight is that “no contact” gives one perspective on things. In other words it helps to see the forest for the trees.

[@HitWaveMusic]

Best advice is to cry really hard for about 3 months and then move on to better things... I'm sorry for what you're going through and words can't help the pain, but that person doesn't deserve you. 😪 Time will heal your heart ❤️ Now is the time to get close to Jesus because he is the one who will never abandon you. He loves you so much that he died for you. Greater love hath no man than this.

[@Giovanni-01]

The last one is a sticky one, bc obviously if you're in NC, they obviously should know there's a reason you guys aren't talking. I also believe, ego and pride plays a big part. But also, as long as they're not blocked, they should know that, the lines of communication are open. They should know that, due to the situation, the ball is in their court to contact you

[@jdreginald262]

Coach Lee you are a life saver. I went through a very painful breakup, and I cannot stress enough how much valueble information I get from your videos, that helps understand a situation I thought was impossible to understand. Thank you!

[@kralpetarkrescimeriv.terpi6043]

Coach Lee my legend, screw Ironman, Batman and others.. Real superhero is C.Lee 💪🏻

[@GoldLeafPress]

It’s sooooo weird! The no contact rule made me go back almost 15 years ago back to when I had fights with my best friend, we got in a fight and I remember we wouldn’t talk! I was always the one to crack and go back and say “sorry” and talk about what went wrong, I remember later on, I was tired of coming back, I looked weak! I looked needy! It came to a point where a fight came up and I didn’t budge with no contact, and she came back to me! This time she was the one to tell herself “wow she’s not talking to me…what did *I* do wrong?!!!” And the no contact made her actually face her problems with the fight, if you keep going back to your friend/dumper, they won’t have the opportunity to look at their own fault and say to themselves “oh wow I messed up!”, they need to experience the breakup/no contact and see if the fight/problems were really worth the breakup and if it can be fixed! If it works with friends~ it will work on your ex!

[@nicholerenee8826]

It's been three years for my no contact with my best friend. She still won't speak to me and got angry when she saw me at her sister's wedding. :/

[@mysterio5837]

Not if the ex is an immature narcissist

[@Crooked_oak]

Pretty sure she does! 6 months after break up she is getting married in Feb!

[@InstinktzBTW]

We reconnected yesterday. I broke the no contact cause I feel I had nun to lose especially seeing her subliminally talking to me thru songs she would repost. (She’s really afraid of rejection) but she poured herself out and said she couldn’t stop thinking about when I said “we’ll never get back together because I won’t see you the same after leaving”. I acknowledged it but was reserved and strong in my response. The conversation was great, to the point, talked about her plans with me then asked can we talk later this week with the smiley face. I told her to just give me a heads up because my work has really picked up. (It really has tripled since the breakup). Thank you coach. I will continue to update.

[@hasiyaibrahim8879]

Whatzapp him now....

[@twillyallen]

I texted her about 35 days ago to congratulate her on graduating college. A big long text telling her proud i am of her. Her response: “Thank you for the kind words. I dont mean to sound like a jerk, but can you please not text me anymore? Its not appropriate especially now that I have a boyfriend”. Didnt respond to that text. Been in No Contact ever since. It was about 2 months after our breakup, and its been just over 3 months since we broke up. We dated for a year and a half. I dont know if this is a rebound or not, but regardless, over a month a later im still gutted. Its kinda clear to me that she does know what she wants. And as one final act of loving her, im going to give that to her.

[@Ohiogardengoddess]

I get it sounds mean but on the other hand she did the right thing and didn't lead you on by continuing to talk to you since she's with someone else.

[@peteypablo8687]

It’s a rebound , it will fail , move on to something better …

[@sarah.marco888]

I almost caved in after 4 days of no contact. Thank you coach Lee for helping me survive. 😭 this is so hard but I'm managing. I hope you can provide more advice for those trying to do no contact in an ldr breakup. I know it's harder than most. I saw your old video on long distance breakups and it was difficult to take in. But I do hope there's a way for us to reunite again 😭

[@cariemccart9241]

how are you? my ex lives about an hour away from me so we weren't super long distance.....would love to connect with a friend to talk about this

[@ninjarose5991]

@@cariemccart9241 hey any updates are you back together

[@ninjarose5991]

Hey blood. Sugarbaby any update sis I'm in LDR as well

[@cariemccart9241]

@@ninjarose5991 yes we are! taking things slow but he told me he loved me again for the first time since mid August, this past weekend. we had a great time....but i still sense a bit of a need to just move slow....

[@ninjarose5991]

@@cariemccart9241 can you give me any advices 😓I have been in NC for 20 days and he just unblocked me on Facebook messenger but never initiated text and I miss him 💔.... I'd like to be a friend as well.... And how long did it take him to come back to you

[@Lovedrug96]

Thank u sooo much , it’s still hurt like crazy right now . Hopefully I can be strong to get over this

[@smeezhxx]

Your videos calm me down so much. Thank you Coach Lee 🙏🏼

[@wondemagna2396]

i use no contact rule, then my ex came back and again he said i don't want you.

[@gooneekim4072]

When your ex came back after breakup

[@tarunprince]

Comparing our ex to a dog and not regretting about that. You sir are pure gold 😂😂🙌🙌

[@polinakornilova8093]

That one made me laugh so hard 🤣🤣🤣

[@SEwrightification]

Coach Lee…you’re a true asset to the world.

[@agbordaniels]

Man 👨 this breakup is awesome 👏… best thing that ever happened to me.

[@welcometototalitarianism812]

Coach Lee, I love you. You are *so* funny and smart. I love the puppy analogy. Too bad you're taken (you have to be), and too bad I'm watching videos about getting my ex back. In my case, there are details about him I cannot write here. Apart from No Contact, I literally need two miracles from God. I am a Christian and this guy isn't saved. That's miracle #1. Another person has approached me on a dating app ...I don't want to blow him off...and I don't want to think God would pull me away from the person that I love.

[@cynthiaforest5840]

Coach I just have to say thank you so much following your advice is the only reason I got my boyfriend back after it seemed he wanted nothing to do with me it's now been going on 2 years since and we couldn't be happier thank you so much

[@KingFlash01]

how long till he came back?

[@gooneekim4072]

How long did you wait?

[@YugoStrange]

I used to have a best friend like coach Lee. Thank you coach Lee. Watching your videos help with my anxiety and depression

[@leotrevino5158]

Great advice as always Coach!! Keep them coming, it really helps to hear your explanation of relationships!

[@l.k.1111]

No contact 26 days today. When we got back together this last time (last year, aug) it was better, but this cycle is getting old. Like each breakup and we get back together, it is better each time. But just wish it could get better without the break away. He is a strange one is all I realize now that I am more secure. I want him back, but questioning if it's worth it anymore. Anxiety video is helpful.

[@mistyruiz9509]

Feel the same way😢

[@ThePatricenice]

All Theses are really giving you the best chances of starting a new relation with your ex - most women don t know what they are doing anyway - theses advises are working well with ex N 3 - & my ex N1 ....it listen to all theses advises daily - its awsome

[@zegeta18]

Man the timing of this video is crazy

[@sunnyyy2369]

I did no contact for about 2 weeks and then he blocked me yesterday out of the blue, I was very sad about it but I’m not going to text him or anything, I’m just going to continue working on my self love and peace.

[@itsmeli.sweetbooks3017]

Although we where in long distance, we where both doing great. He was going to come and visit. But when he asked me for that I was so surprised, I am applying the no contact is day 7. He didn’t want me completely out of his life, still sees my posts. This is so hard because at some level I know he is wondering, but I must be strong

[@jannlewandowski5540]

Hi Lee, I always listen to your videos since they are so soothing. I have moved on from my ex a while ago, but it almost drove me crazy, as I recall. He had no intentions of marrying me after 5 years, and when I left him, he didn't contact me. Instead, he met up (and rebounded) 2 wks later and married her. I feel sorry for his wife. No contact is probably (possibly) driving him nuts since I have no intentions of calling him. I only know where he is bcse of Social Media which I stopped going into over a year ago, and he can't find me bcse I moved and there is no info about me in social media anymore. I took care of myself after suffering for a while, and I'm glad I found you. You're the BEST!!

[@gyongyossypeter4485]

I am not quite sure though that you are the winner in this story...

[@jannlewandowski5540]

@@gyongyossypeter4485 I don't love him. I did win.

[@peteypablo8687]

coach Lee make a video about living with your ex during a break up …

[@KellySilverioli]

I listen to Coach Lee, everytime I get anxious wandering how is he doing? I want my ex back, he is worthy never argued or had any problems. 7 years living together it was the best of my life, his mom died and wanted to be alone...5 months now, he is hot and cold but very happy to see me.

[@dabest444u]

Hi coach, it’s been about 6 months since I went full on no contact. I did make some mistakes and tried to contact my ex here and there over a course of about 2 months after the relationship.. my ex never responded to any of my attempts. I went into no contact after that. Mentally and emotionally I feel lighter than I did at the start of the breakup… I still miss him but if he doesn’t want to be in my life, than I don’t want someone who can’t see the good in me. I’m a catch and anyone that is in a relationship with me is lucky as hell! :) love your videos! I watch them daily! just to keep me sane or to stop me from overthinking! ❤

[@charlier9563]

Did he ever get in touch?

[@dabest444u]

@@charlier9563 sorry for the late reply- I’m not too good at replying to KZbin comments lol! but no he didn’t.. it’s been almost 2 years of no contact - I’m at peace now .. what will be will be! 🙌 but I’m not waiting around anymore and I feel good about myself and my life! ( sorry if that was TMI ) lol!

[@KermitHands]

We went on break 26 days ago. We were talking everyday for 2 weeks until my friend found her on a dating site. She said we should just break up when I told her about it. Went back to get my bed and stuff and we talked for a few minutes. We said we love each other and we have a good connection but i don’t think we are compatible. Been in no contact for 2 weeks. I miss her and it hurts. Your videos really help me get through the day thank you coach lee

[@throwback8167]

Time is on your side stay strong and focus on your purpose and better yourself while apart.

[@keepgrowing9941]

Notif squad here! 🥰 Attendance check: PRESENT, And representing PH 🇵🇭 Done liking and will watch, excited because of the title as always. Thanks, Coach! 🥰❤️

[@SEwrightification]

the last part...they will never feel it unless you allow them to feel that they cant get you back. Facts!

[@tommys6596]

My ex felt hurt due to something. When I saw her last to get something of mine. She said "even if we get back together, ill feel jaded" "you think I wanted this? to be alone in my 30s" I feel like some space will help us and I'll try to reach out in a few months

[@kvs7876]

My ex girlfriend left me 2 months ago .She saw me out at a restaurant watch a football game. Later that night around 11:00pm she sent me a message saying “ Glad your football team won” . I replied an hour later “ hi and thank you (her name). It’s been 3 weeks later no response from her. Breadcrumb??

[@urvashisingh2135]

Exactly !

[@nikhilgarg1326]

Are you guys together now ?

[@karankumarofficialid]

More long distance relationship ex back videos pleasee

[@kokiekok7698]

Coachlee❤ 7 months after break up and I'm breathing perfectly fine😅🤣

[@daryljonesfoster4102]

But yet your here 🤔

[@kokiekok7698]

@@daryljonesfoster4102 is there any problem with that? I just love watching coach lee😂 it helps me though

[@daryljonesfoster4102]

@@kokiekok7698 helps you with what ?

[@kling8460]

I hope it’s not 7 months till I breathe again…

[@TheEdmon3]

Your advice is helping me get stronger each day. Thank you! I’m entering

[@debbieelder5140]

Is she back??

[@JayDeeChannel]

I broke up with my ex, she dumped me. It’s been 2 weeks. I’m aching bad. I hope this no contact stuff works. We had a good 6 months.

[@Jessyy159]

Stay strong💪💪💪❣

[@terrie778]

Jessy, I know this process feels difficult. Try to listen to different videos from Coach Lee each day, or repeat ones that catch your attention. He has a soothing voice and comforting message that can help you through this process of No Contact. Its how I got through unexpected breakup my ex surprised with out of nowhere. I made My choice in the end and I am stronger than ever. Thank you Coach Lee for your Kind, Powerful & Incredible advice. 🥰

[@peteypablo8687]

It works , I used it 3 times without knowing years ago , I’m doing it now while I live with my ex … I’m sure she’s talking to someone on instant messenger Facebook , she’s always on her phone , but when I set next to her she has her phone out close to me like nothings going on … weird

[@khakimmalekov888]

I've missed this one..gives me strength..

[@aminumagajiscience1782]

WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹👇

[@fredsystra7584]

They will tell you they are “set and stoned”… they will tell you all these other things pretty much meaning there’s no chance… No contact will force them to fight with themselves (and the things they told you) when they become curious about you and there decision. This will pick at them forever if you had a good relationship. Staying in no contact gives you the best chance… or in other words gives you the best odds of your ex losing that mental battle with themselves when they think back on the relationship

[@zeyadahmedsamer3443]

I have been 5 month of no contact..but i will stay strong and won't break no contact

[@livbeyond]

Proud of you! Keep it up! ✨

[@zeyadahmedsamer3443]

@@livbeyond thank you very very much ..... its very sweet from you ....you made my day❤❤

[@GoldLeafPress]

5 months is long. Doesn’t sound promising.

[@zeyadahmedsamer3443]

@@GoldLeafPress yeah maybe she is in a rebound or its like 80% probability to be in a rebound....i begged and pleaded alot that's why the relief period became longer

[@zeyadahmedsamer3443]

@@GoldLeafPress but i still have hope in god❤

[@stay4pf845]

You need to drop more videos , I waiting for your videos for so long

[@nashnyakudya6732]

Coach Lee you are hilarious I am so glad I stumbled upon your vids

[@lucakroon8868]

I'm on day 11 of no contact and its difficult. Coach your videos are a great help to me. Everytime I want to reach out I think of nc and all the things you taught me. Staying strong for my selfrespect and to respect my ex, we will both be better people after this.

[@celiohelder1]

Same. Day 14 here. Even though there was never a break up in my case; he just made a decision not to talk to me and work things out

[@cherryt1790]

Stay strong, dear

[@lucakroon8868]

@@celiohelder1 we'll get through this🤗I hope you are able to spend some quality time with yourself and have happy moments to push you forward.

[@celiohelder1]

@@lucakroon8868 I hope you stay strong too! Many blessings and happiness to you! You deserve someone who’s not gonna give up on you.

[@brandonohara4122]

@@celiohelder1 good luck to both of you I'm on day 38. I'm not reaching out. F that No point. Not begging someone to come back. She was all talk.

[@shraddhashete4357]

Compare your ex and dog and not sorry for that, man I LOL'd, thank you for the positivity coach Lee, i come see your videos whenever I feel down and it just makes me feel that everything will be good again 😊

[@monicac.4030]

Coach Lee!!! You gangsta with it!! Not even sorry about dog comparison! 🤣💪👍✊🤜😂🤛👊🤙👌☺️

[@MVProfits]

Almost 3 years after the breakup, chatting with an ex, and nope, she does NOT know what she wants. I don't mean about me, but about relationships in general. She openly wonders if she even wants one, just fill a void once in a while, etc. I think both men and women have internalized the "disposable apps/movies/etc." aspect of modern life unto their lives in general, and how they see others. As sexual tools, as temporary companions, etc. but no true pair bonding. I know for some it's taboo, as if men and women were equal, but it's way more common with women who've "dated around" a lot to have lost pair bonding abilities. They can easily date again, and I do mean easily, but their chance for a true relationship is slim to none.

[@nurseheart9044]

I really like your sense of humour, you are the best, Coach !!!!

[@tansz8092]

Coach Lee--You are the BEST!! This channel has kept me sane over the last 2 months!!

[@tannascreative6130]

Yep

[@Shadow-sl8wj]

COACH Lee, thanks a lot for your wonderful advice, I was not sure what was going on between me & my boyfriend. Now I know, what happened. But I didn't beg him . I feel nothing anymore. I 💞 listening to u. God bless 🙌 🙏 🤲 u.

[@tcarter_cartert]

Thank you! You didn't sign off as you normally do...I like it!

[@claudinemontreuil747]

Thank you coach Lee you are a Good Samaritan send by God to help heal broken heart god will blessed you abundantly and your family😍

[@Mexican12180]

so my ex broke up witfh me because i had trust issues and i was accusing her and i understand now how she felt everytime, but i never meant to hurt her and my intentions were never to harm her and i explained to her that i never meant to accuse her and make her feel guilt, and told her that i couldn't sometime find the right words needed and i asked her questions constantly and i feel terrible because i loved her so much and this was something that i never wanted to do, i truly did love her and i was slowly changing but we broke up we were together for a little over 2years and we honestly had a great connection, she said that i made her feel special and we had some very special moments and deep talks about our life and even went on vacation together, but ive been doing no contact for almost 3 weeks and i still miss her, she recently deleted one more picture of us but still has 2 pictures of us on social media when we went on vacation, i hope there is still hope and i just honestly want to be with her again,ive been also focusing on myself but i still think of her,i hope we can give this one more shot,i sincerely apologized the last time we spoke and i told her it came from the bottom of my heart, i just hope she finds it in her heart to come back and remember the great memories we had

[@Mexican12180]

she had a rough childhood and didn't trust men for the longest time and in her previous relationships, they used her for her body and she thought i was gonna do the same but i didn't, i honestly thought she was a great person and showed her that physical appearance is nice but thats not what i see in a person and i fell in love with her not her appearances and made her feel so special in a way, i just really want her back and make things better,i was there when she needed somone,i was there when she was going through tough times and motivated her to do bigger things because she was so timid before, and i helped her achieve so many great things, before the break up i helped her with her first semester of college and helped her sign up because she was scared and i didn't know how and she was scared to ask the counselors,but i helped her and encouraged her and helped her when she was struggling with money,i just hope she sees that i did so much to help her and be there for her,i loved her with all my heart and i hope she sees that we could have worked things out,i just hope we do get back together

[@zeyadahmedsamer3443]

Thanks my favourite coach for being there❤❤

[@silastsar9554]

She said she loves me but don't know if she wants to be together

[@jannlewandowski5540]

Silas, if she said that, she doesn't love you. If you love someone, you want to be with them. Move on, and find someone who REALLY loves you!

[@ryankyser5243]

I just started no contact last night. We have never not talked more than one day, in two years. This will shake her.

[@thrillb213]

Update ?

[@nickf9392]

Take people at their word, if they want out....then they are out. Nothing good will come of trying to hold on to some one who is wanting out. No need to invest any further in that...good bye.

[@wasiubarakatadesile4384]

MY EX RETURNED TO ME WITH THE HELP OF DR OJIE A GIFTED SPIRITUALIST WHO CAN MEND ANY BROKEN O RELATIONSHIP AND CAN ALSO MANIFEST YOUR SOUL MATE ALSO TO YOU, I STRONGLY ADVISE YOU TO SEEK HELP FROM HIM, 💜💜💜

[@wasiubarakatadesile4384]

WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹🌹

[@snakespider3080]

Hi coach Lee! Thanks for your amazing videos! But what to do If my ex still tries to reach out every 2 days? I try no contact her for 3 weeks now. I don't contact her first, stay distant, live my own life, prepare for graduate exams and waiting, but she reaches out to me via messages very often, every 2 days. I try to stick to your advice and reply only polite but close ended messages, but I think that this way I will only stay in touch and so she doesn't feel breakup, don't find out world without me and I will stuck at this point. Please what should I do with that? I want to reverse the tables... Thank you so much and continue with your amazing videos...hope you reply

[@politicallycorrect8288]

I whised her a happy bithday, and yes, it is useless. It was a moth ago and it was the last time I knew something about her. Also I have healed a lot and I don´t feel pain anymore.

[@politicallycorrect8288]

@@samuelisogon3723 no thanks, I'm good

[@alexandraness1388]

Hey 👋, coach Lee !! Are you back ,happy to see you 😚 x

[@RealCoachLee]

Alexandra, I never left (;

[@Aek1985]

Coach lee I broke up the no contact im an idiot after 2 weeks and I understand I didn’t have to do that and I started from beginning I hope is not going to be leit for me and her from now on no contact I’m going too trust the process

[@jannlewandowski5540]

Aek1985. I'm glad you decided to go into NO Contact. When you complete the process, Coach Lee has a workshop which is excellent and you can join.know it's really difficult and I've certainly been there. I don't know if you are aware, but Coach Lee has a live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's an incredible learning experience that I just can't say enough about. It focuses on saving a relationship from a breakup/separation and then keeping it after. It includes a coaching call each month for 6 months. You can talk to Coach Lee's team about it. I think the person for this is named Johnny and you can make an appointment with him to talk about it at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I think you'll agree that it's an incredibly eye-opening and immensely helpful experience for you.

[@Lina_5_]

Coach Lee I missed you ! ❤️

[@nurseheart9044]

Coach Lee, saved my life!

[@farzanaantu1137]

I was in on & off NC. Every 2 days I was texting him. But slowly I started to feel no temptation to text them n every 6 or 7 days he would text me with some excuses. Then he started to confess his feelings n how miserable he is without me n we met in person after 2 months. But he still doesn't want to get back. But he kept getting upset that I'm open to date new person while he kept getting upset about it n kept saying I deserve better. Why this confusion and what to do. He also wants to keep talking I assume as he insisted to be friends n very curious about everything in my life

[@jannlewandowski5540]

Farzanav ANTU , I would definitely let him go. He doesn't want a relationship with you, yet he would be upset if you found someone new. That makes no sense at all! My opinion only is that he's just USING you, and I wouldn't tolerate it anymore. Go live your life and keep away from people like him. Big hug for you.❤❤⚘️ I suggest Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you which will help you immensely myexbackcoach.com/ebk

[@maricardanao887]

What about my fiancé who broke the engagement because he fell “in” love with another man but tells me he still loves me and wants us to be friends? Claims that before he actually be romantically involved with the guy - he decided to end our relationship as he doesn’t want to cheat on me. ☹️… I am confused and lost. And thank you Coach Lee your videos are helping me move on… one step at a time… I am still a work in progress…

[@RealCoachLee]

I am doing a SuperChat at 6 pm central which is in about 3 hours here on my channel. I’ll be answering questions live and you are welcome to ask this one there.

[@eii1999]

Hi Coach, I need help. My ex who dumped me is moving fast with his new girl just two months after our break up. What does it mean? Is she a rebound or something else? My ex is posting her on his story but is hiding it from me.

[@uhhuhhoney4087]

Same. He blocked me and is posting this new girl but I never reached out to him after cutting it off or say anything. He blocked for no reason and started posting a new girl he’s been with for a year or so now with her 2 year old. What does this mean

[@theprolificnetwork4670]

I actually had to clap out loud after this video excellent points 👏👏👏👏👏Bravo !!

[@wasiubarakatadesile4384]

MY EX RETURNED TO ME WITH THE HELP OF DR OJIE A GIFTED SPIRITUALIST WHO CAN MEND ANY BROKEN O RELATIONSHIP AND CAN ALSO MANIFEST YOUR SOUL MATE ALSO TO YOU, I STRONGLY ADVISE YOU TO SEEK HELP FROM HIM, 💜💜💜

[@wasiubarakatadesile4384]

WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹🌹

[@robertwhitehead5886]

She has reached out and we were in limited no contact phase where I followed Coach Lee's instructions to a T. However, in doing this she started getting angry that I wasn't chasing her and actually started acting like I'm the one who broke up when she even started dating some guy she works with. I haven't heard from her in 4 days this last time after I rebuffed going to her house to help her with some minial task. I think now shes pulling a No Contact on me. Wth. The thing is each day It seems I am losing the desirer to get back with her. That's a little scary to me to be honest.

[@jannlewandowski5540]

Robert Wh. ALWAYS follow your "gut feeling." It may be scary, but it's true. You're better off without her! Good luck to you. ❤

[@Josee2486]

Less than a month later I found out she had another guy. Im done

[@MissShanette]

What about if they are helicopterring you on your social media stories? I’ve maintained No contact and haven’t seen any advise in the emergency breakup kit. Any advice?

[@Lilzi_FC]

Honestly, that boy confuses me so much. I can usually read him, as I can with most people I’ve known for a prolonged time, but ever since we parted ways I’ve been getting really weird signals. I can read one thing about him clear as day - he doesn’t want to lose our relationship completely. And by that I mean he likely wants our friendship back. I can’t do that though, I feel torn into a million pieces whenever I see him, let alone speak to him. I began no contact before I even knew it was a thing, it just seemed natural. I just can’t tell if he’s looking for our friendship to return or if he just feels pity, but I do know he wants to know me again, most likely not romantically. Though fortunately, I’d met someone new, someone who I feel a connection with. So now, if we want any chance of ever getting together again, we’d need to reach out soon, before any relationships blossom with this new person.

[@MyChannel-1111]

Does no contact work in online relationships?

[@mrgaretito74]

Hey coach, really enjoying your videos!! I was with a girl for 4 months with the best Connection in chemistry I've ever had with someone in my 48 years, and she said the same thing. she is 42. Valentine's Day she told me that she loved me. 8 days later she broke up with me via text. I think she is avoidant. Has this happened to anyone else? I love her so much! Been in no contact since that day. Here is her text message breaking up with me: Her: I appreciate what you've done for me. You are good man. But something not work for me in this relationship. I am so sorry it doesn't work . I feel this way. I am honest. I don't know what to say.. I didn't answer phone call because I know I am going to say painful words. I want to take my time and found right words to explain myself. But the point is.. I don't feel to continue this relationship. Again I am so sorry . Thank you for everything

[@TheBcrlove]

So cold

[@WishesandWonder]

Similar thing happened to me but my girlfriend wanted a break. She told me she loved me and I was her perfect partner the same day before she broke up with me over text at 1:00 am. I was shocked and she said some really cruel things to me. We were no contact for 5 days then she reached out and told me she will talk to me soon and she’s praying for everything. I’m expecting the worst now. It hurts but I’ve been going to therapy and making changes in my lifestyle to better myself regardless.

[@fire12731]

@@WishesandWonder I’m sorry that happened . I hope it turns around

[@fire12731]

@Gareth Evans update ? I hope it’s turned around for the positive

[@WishesandWonder]

@@fire12731 thanks I appreciate it

[@FacciaBella901]

Why can’t I just date Coach Lee? All my problems solved 😏

[@tannascreative6130]

Unless he decided to dump you...I think he would have the edge. Just sayin' :-) He He.

[@TheHawaiigurl20]

Get in line girl 😉

[@ameliel8792]

Lol bit harsh that he snubbed you there

[@megalitzsmith6346]

Exactly!!! 😊

[@James-yc7fc]

OooOo caught it early. Thanks Coach!

[@billclay5188]

My fiancé of 9 years left me start of Oct, we have 3 kids together two of them under 2yo. She was completely finished with me and it broke my heart. I made all the textbook mistakes even though I was binge watching your videos. I was sleeping on my mothers couch for a few months and going down to help with the kids alot and we had talked about trying again. When I made an appointment to go and view a house for myself she said why dont you just come back and stay so I did. She had been out a few times partying like she never gave a damn about me whioe I was in the house looking after the kids and I asked her if she had slept with anybody on the nights out and she confessed she did and that it was a horrible experience and only wants me. Now I'm back with her but the whole thing has left a sour taste in my mouth. Any advice for me Coach? Thank you for all your videos they got me through the hardest time og my life.

[@Katalmach11b]

Hey, I'm not coach Lee, but I can tell you my own perspective. I dumped my gf 5 months ago because we weren't working things out. We fought constantly. I immediately tried to get her back, and made all the mistakes. Begging, pleading, crying, spying on social media. She wouldn't budge, so to fill a void, I hooked up with someone. And felt like shit. I told her about it later. I explained how I felt, how she was all I wanted, and it was a mistake. We still aren't together, but we've gotten really close lately. More and more romantic I reactions are happening between us Believe her, man. She probably does regret it. And I seriously doubt she broke up with you for no reason. Don't let it sit though. Talk to her about how you feel, constructively. Go to couples therapy, a professional can help you through this

[@billclay5188]

@@Katalmach11b Hey man, I appreciate the time you took to reply. Hope things work out for you and your girl. I am trying to look past it and remind myself we are only human and make mistakes.

[@peteypablo8687]

Make sure you pay attention to her wants and needs , you have to be her bitch … Keep building up that romance , that’s what I missed out on, women want us to get it ..

[@dpwood420]

I feel your pain brotha, my fiance of 14yrs walked out on our 12 yr old daughter and me Thanksgiving night, just said im done an walked out. She got into a rebound with lesbian, but insists she's not gay or bi, she's straight. 14 yrs it's a long time man, it's hard to just move on or let go. She's been coming to the house alot more now the past 2 weeks and hanging out talking. So it's a start. Good luck brotha.

[@purplemazy3548]

@david eye my ex dumped me at thanksgiving lol it’s crazy my birthday was a month later and he told me happy birthday after saying im done no talking, all of that. Fast forward to today we talk, even flirt sometimes and we didn’t have a bad relationship or bad break up but i hurt him because i told him i wanted to leave because im lonely ( he works out of state) and i would nag and call him everyday not really having anything to say and he got bored basically and didnt like the nagging and little fights. I havent asked him but i want him back and wanted to know how do i know for sure if he would want to like what made you really want to get back with your ex at the time

[@desertsn0wball]

My ex and I both work at the same grocery store. It's been about 7 months since our breakup, and she's had a couple rebound relationships since then. Our relationship was mostly good, a lot of love bombing and promising to be my wife one day. But we had poor communication. I wonder if she ever thinks about me and misses me, but idk if a new boyfriend is distracting her from thinking about me

[@babygirlfeelewis4666]

My ex contacted me after 2 months of No contact , but I didn’t realize I missed his call so I waited to call back and when I did he didn’t answer, I also sent a text but no response, was I wrong?

[@oulhadjs]

Thank you so much Mr Lee I have benefit from your knowledge and your support when I had to listen to you in my blues days GOD bless you.

[@aminumagajiscience1782]

I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems.

[@aminumagajiscience1782]

WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹👇

[@remyd1984]

im 37 and my ex is 35 and we was in a 11 year relationship. we spilt up a 1 1\2 ago when i left our home but in that time we was sleeping together and getting on very well. we also have a 5yo son. before we split up she got a new social life with a bunch of single mothers that we already knew but would be good for her and our son to have little friends! so a 1 1\2 go by being spilt up but seeing each other and getting on well. the last time we slept together was the 12th of dec and on the 16th she said we need to stop and went cold! my world turned up side and it was the first time i realised id lost everything! anyway 2 weeks go by and i got it out of her that she's talking to someone else! ive truly seen my errors and can see hers but she's not interested because of the new stuff she's feeling even tho at this point she's probably only meet him once, she's really isn't the type of girl to be sleeping around that's why i fear she's really looking at the new guy as a serious mate! i think she's a FEARFUL AVOIDANT! she's turned so cold she's unrecognisable. since that time ive worked on myself by hitting the gym and actually feel loads better apart from this nightmare im living in! what's my chances of getting her back?

[@kdog99gh]

Hey coach quick question, how long do you have to wait for a relationship to be considered not a rebound? My ex moved to another person in less than two months. Just curious

[@MVProfits]

Hard to know your gender from your name, but many women often have a relationship already set up when they decide to break with you. That's one of the reasons why they broke up with you. So it's no clue if it's a rebound or not. It could be, could be not. For men doing so, yeah, it's typically a rebound.

[@kdog99gh]

@@MVProfits I’m a guy

[@MVProfits]

@@kdog99gh look up "monkey branching" as it applies to women and relationships... When you find out it's super common, you will take what happened to you "less personally", at least be less surprised and shocked, and mostly, more ready for it in the future. Stay strong.

[@lilhoneyteddy]

My ex literally rebounded within a few weeks, five months later he proposed to her and they were engaged for a short period of time. They’re no longer together. Sometimes you never even know but if they started seeing someone else very quickly it likely won’t last.

[@nikhilgarg1326]

Are you guys together now ?

[@ireneb.5430]

I've asked before, but might have missed the answer. If this is a second breakup, and the ex has already experienced life without me, and that's exactly why he is not certain about us second time around, does any of this still apply? No contact with someone who already knows how it is without contact (and in which case, I was the one who broke up with him and came back few months later).

[@Songs-ls2pr]

Coach Lee the end of the video was so abrupt. Sis you mean for it to end that way? I really appreciate this subject tho. Very helpful. Blessings

[@bishalhasda3555]

Hey coach love your vedio alot helpful , I have a question if someone have multiple times no contact and she contacted him again and still not giving him any commitment then what to do .

[@Rbl7132]

If you are verbally physically or emotionally abused by your ex, and devalued, walk away. That's a narcissist that does not have normal emotions and lives in a completely different world than you. They will come back and you are a co-dependent victim who is willingly being abused. You need help

[@Thegasman-hc3zz]

Anyone else torturing themselves through this process?

[@vitorinaldi5038]

Yes

[@AussieGirl235]

Wats is the connection between this channel and the “Coach Craig” channel?

[@coreybart2783]

Nothing, they are just both dating coaches that say similar things

[@AussieGirl235]

Corey Bart - Nope, their videos titles and content are identical

[@edduvall210]

My ex said she wasn’t in love with me anymore but still had love for me then she said I don’t really know what I want right now either!

[@hw7674]

Oh coach lee. Its been a year iv spent a year spending time with him and kids things are good and then begging pleading etc and only now iv decided to give him what he wants. Kids go on weekends his still at his mums not got his own place and iv gone in to no contact as he said he wasnt ready etc iv got your break up kit but would it even work at this stage? He says what u say it took him a long time to leave ( my fault) so its not an over night fix His reaching out nearly every day but this is killing me we used to talk loads. Iv binged your videos for a year but thought i knew best x

[@justiseprice3144]

How do you apply or what is the best way to use the no contact rule when you live with your ex still

[@RealCoachLee]

Justise, watch this video all the way through: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5SkZWqDoq2Dlas