Does she really care if I lose my erection? Tips to stay hard!

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[@CaitlinV]

New Course on Getting and Staying Hard As YOU Want is out now! www.caitlinvneal.com/hard-as-you-want/ check it out

[@opelozz]

Hey , which doc I should see if I’m not having morning glory , not a home doc?

[@opelozz]

Have a great day! You doing great job!😊

[@charles-hr7ir]

Any videos on being able I stay hard during sex after at least the first ejackulation. I'd love to go 3 times like I used to with my wife again . I was ready for a round 2 one recently, but I saw she was used to round one only, so I didn't ask .after reading her emotions. Used to a one timer. First gear . Made me think . What if I couldn't last . I sure felt ready, though . Any tips on going over and over again, those round 2s or 3s are better oragazems than the first bang

[@S-rn6xn]

Women need to be more compassionate. They always make it about them instead of even thinking if the guy is ok. Anxiety kills me

[@adler9213]

As long as your trying to get approval from the woman your always gonna be on the brink of increased anxiety. Quit trying hard to please women, they can sense this and will sue it against you..

[@AdelleM1068]

@@adler9213 dang this shit real af

[@vhayashi7369]

Wow... You need to pick someone better. Real women are not like that. It's mutual. Most men make it all about them. I've experienced 13 years of it. Took me 8 years to find someone who isn't selfish in bed. If we think it is always going to be that way then it will be.

[@S-rn6xn]

@@vhayashi7369 you’ve just said real women aren’t like that then said something Similar to what i said but about men 😂 at least women can have sex no matter what, you don’t need to rely on a muscle being erect to be able to. It’s a lot of pressure for guys

[@TJS78]

Women shouldn't shame, and if your woman is, time to talk or leave. I don't shame when it happens, because women sometimes can't get off or have issues getting aroused and etc. I wouldn't want to be shamed for having struggles, and I'm not the only one. If you have consistent issues with women shaming you and not having compassion, you should change the women you are engaging with.

[@kikkpod5887]

Thank you for the advice, perfect timing where I just experienced this for the first time

[@DeETex0308]

After my heart attack 5 years ago betta blocker BP medical almost cost me my sanity and a marriage to an incredible woman of 30 years for this very reason. After years of many tears and fears by both of us we learned to build a strong solid relationship build on love and compassion. A year ago I stumble across the major root cause of my ED by sheer accident on KZbin. And with the medication corrected and the incredible coaching from Miss V we are having the time of or lives. Thank!

[@CaitlinV]

Thank you for sharing! I would love to learn more about your journey! You can email me at [e-mail]! Thank you!

[@spicer6666]

Hunny how do you not have 1 mill followers yet let’s go guys follow this queen!

[@jaffo5150]

I really love what you do and I love how you do it if I had quite a bit of money I would definitely be a patreon please keep doing what you do

[@BettyNFriendz]

Love and respect your content. Helps more than you know ✊🏼💪🏼

[@CaitlinV]

Thank you!

[@andrewparker6574]

Another great video, Caitlin. Thanks. And that nail polish! lol

[@jessewait2931]

Wish id found you sooner, probably could have helped save my last relationship.

[@garyzornow9084]

Hello Caitlin; Have you ever done a video on position dependent erectile dysfunction? Thank you Gary

[@DarylMcGuire-he6vm]

I needed this, thank you

[@harrycordell6123]

That was really good .thankyou so much😊❤

[@banksofbarcelona3893]

In this video we reached the summit as we learned from it. The lesson taught by ours truly Caitlin V, so here is the royal majesty, we all got to be, fully educated as our erection will last like me. So if we hold with our hand and just handle, with emotional power, erectile dysfunction will just cancel. Period! Thanks for your support. I'm always here for you!

[@chrismunz8262]

Thank you for helping me clear that.

[@ErectileDysfunctionHelp]

Thanks for the vid!

[@Largeagegaplove]

Thank you for making this video

[@rwlodarczyk]

Sound advice! We do many of these.

[@Patrick10274]

Caitlin is a genius Goddess

[@CaitlinV]

Thank you!

[@jameswhalen4903]

More sound advice for both partners. Well done

[@felipemendozaholguin4232]

Pl

[@steveleeart]

I apologized 🥺 one time I started crying, just deep sobbing cause I’d been stressed and having issues with depression, she felt bad and asked and I confided in her and she held me close, kissed me, and was really nice. I remember my head laying on her chest, hearing her heartbeat, feeling her hands caressing my hair as tears slowly streamed down my face.

[@steveleeart]

I woke up with morning wood today which was nice as I’ve had difficulties with that cause of my depression, and when I’m depressed I eat junk which has resulted in me developing high blood pressure and diabetes. I’ve been eating better the last few weeks as it’s bothered me a lot I can’t even jerk off. I haven’t been with anyone either in a long time. My ex was a serial cheater and even tho I forgave her when I found out we never got help for any of it. We should have gotten counselling. When we’d try and do it I’d concentrate on forplay, going down on her, fingering, anything but penetration cause when I did I’d be like an inexperienced teenager and ejaculate almost instantly. We were last intimate in January 2013 and she left in august 2014. Since then I’ve tried hooking up with a guy as I’m pansexual but I couldn’t perform there either and we ended up just laying in his bed naked talking for an hour before I left. I now know I’m demisexual too which is why I can’t hookup off tinder or grindr etc. or at a club for intimate group stuff I went to a few times. All I could end up doing was masturbating, couldn’t play with anyone which sucks cause I’d like to. Not that I’ve tried often in recent years… I haven’t, can’t even get a date. Which adds to my anxiety and feelings of low self worth, shame, and that makes me choose bad food and the cycle continues. 🥺💔🥺💔🥺

[@CaitlinV]

Thank you for sharing!

[@flxfdh9775]

Hey Steve, also thanks for charing! How did you proceed the situation/your relationship?

[@steveleeart]

@@flxfdh9775 we still continued seeing each other. It was awhile ago. We ended up growing apart but still had some exciting times. We chat every now and then over text maybe a few times a year. My last relationship wasn’t so great - the one I described above. This year I had a stroke at end of January and was hospitalized for part of February. It impacted my right side of my body but it didn’t read as stroke as while my right side felt like my foot was asleep, I could lift hand and arm over head. My face wasn’t droopy and I could talk. So I didn’t go in right away. I actually woke to both arms feeling like they’d gone to sleep but my left arm came back quick and I thought the other side might come back by morning. It didn’t so went to hospital… it sucked cause I also got shingles. I am eating way better, cut my carbs and I’m almost full keto… I’ve also done intermittent fasting. I’ve been overweight so long and I’m starting to shed it. Since the stroke I’ve lost about 15 pounds. I’m in physio now and introducing more exercise. I did a lot of yard work yesterday. I was worried cause I wasn’t getting erections but those are coming back. There’s a woman I follow on Instagram and we chat and she’s had an onlyfans so I actually subscribed to it and she has just solo play but it woke me up so to speak. I felt so relieved I was able to enjoy myself to orgasm. I thanked her actually 😁 and we still chat. It’s weird usually porn doesn’t do a lot for me being demisexual but I had a connection with her from months of chatting. And I knew she had a OF but did feel a bit guilty at first. I shared that with her though and she was grateful I shared. Anyway… I digress. I’ve been chatting with someone who I went to university with years ago, I still had our chats from 15 years ago. She’s been liking my posts about my stroke and depression, hearting them and commenting regularly on them. I forgot we chatted so much back then. I ended up dating the cheater though and she ended up with someone else. So I shot her a hello over direct message today… so we’ll see.

[@user-xo4om8qv6m]

Have some self respect

[@conspiratornot2215]

Caitlin, you are truly beautiful inside and out. This is yet another great video. As someone who suffers intermittent ED due to health issues, I agree the body doesn't lie. Most of the time, when this happens, I take a break from trying intercourse and resume my oral skills. Many times, this gives the time for the nerves to reconnect, and my erection will return. I use my senses of sight, smell, and taste to override my nerve issues. I am just sharing this because I know there are others who suffer from the same issues as I. Thank you for helping so many so selflessly. You are awesome. ❤️

[@gregorygiraldo9015]

I like your attitude

[@cfavalorofavaloro6053]

I do that also my friend! It turns me back on when I do that ❤

[@stephenluke2347]

I had this problem, which included PE after many years of marriage and had no help or advice from the Dr, then my wife decided she had gone off sex and we have remained sexless ever since. Unfortunately, she refuses to discuss the subject.

[@atlossam7682]

Super super sweet thank you very much for everything

[@ivanrivera7382]

You are awesome ❤

[@timsmith7112]

I used to take a break, but while on my break I go straight south to the management department and continue to hear her moan, shake and more. Now I no longer have any issues with that. I'm a switch, I can fulfill either roll to adapt to her needs. I have always been incredibly turned and excited by the level of pleasure she receives.

[@CaitlinV]

Thank you for sharing!

[@carlyrutland1372]

Indeed!!! My Baddie Daddy is the absolute best I have ever had or seen with his love tenderness an absolute legendary control of the situation an mind not to mention the way he touches my body an Soul!!!!! He has studied over the years on my sexuality an over the last year an a half with your knowledge Katlyn he has hit the moon sun an completely hit it out of the universe with orgasim squirting “never knew I could “ And completely gives me shivers an uncontrollable shaking of the intire body 🎉 an amazing smile feeling of complete satisfaction

[@waltergreen6981]

Thanks Kathy to learn

[@billw5823]

Love what you do, I wish you could use more visual aids, even cartoon style to show what you are talking about a little clearer sometimes.

[@trinsit]

These should be required classes in society.

[@drdentist2457]

Thank you ❤

[@Xavier_lols]

Caitlin you are soo beautiful ❤️

[@trinsit]

My mental block is the constant fear of being used again. My trust is broken and it makes it difficult to communicate. I'm slowly getting confidence back, but have a ways to go.

[@ericsahagun5344]

I feel you but if you're going to engage you got to find the mean to communicate It is so crucial and it's a wonderful how people communicate There's nonverbal verbal body chemistry when people say it starts getting boring after while I've never understood that because the more my lady and I did it the better we could read each other and even the more intense and free our sexual Sexploration would become the longer we were together the better it got!!!

[@BCSchmerker]

+CaitlinV *Fun Fact: Barbara De Angelis Ph.D. wrote about "riding the waves" in **_How to Make Love All the Time_** (New York, NY, USA: Rawson Associates, 1987).* I estimate that Drx. De Angelis referred to cycles of genital vasocongestion.

[@toddjenest3212]

My terrifying curse!!! I'm always mortified! I always just hope that she's into me and works with me around it.

[@xr399]

Very rarely see Yellow nails... Love em!

[@rickwilliamsvideo]

For me it was immediately noticeable with antidepressants and anti-anxiety meds. 3 weeks in it completely stopped working. Quit and I’m back to normal.

[@melvinholcer4756]

Now that is interesting. I’ll look into that because I take those pills. Thanks

[@Azhureus]

Its funny, cus sometimes we really want to jump on it, but it just doesnt work. And sometimes, the quicky is the way. We enjoy that "5" minutes quicky more, than half an hour where things just dont work at the end. Those early, beggining times where people try to be as romantic as they can be are sometime, after long relationship, just gone. Deal with it :)

[@nigelroffey8682]

Well Kaitlyn again this is a fantastic subject for everybody. I’m sorry my spellcheck is spelling your name wrong the first time that I experienced this you know it don’t on me that well I just have to get up and go and get a drink and come back and have a little chat And reengage and it works like a charm so I’ve been doing that whenever it happens. I’m a little older now, but it doesn’t happen as much as it did when I was younger because of the pressure to perform not that you know much when you’re young anyway too much Bam Bam Bam Bam and not nearly enoughBam-------Bam take a break is my point it seems to me that people think that if they disengage it’s never gonna get back together again which is a concern, but this is not true. In fact, it will be better stopping and starting intensifies I think.

[@elpasoriv]

tips ?

[@NJR1983]

I love your direct style of instruction. You 🤟🤙🏼✌️🤌🏼😁❤️

[@Leggir]

It happens if you have a thought that distracts you from the task at hand. If It happens, grab a magic wand or her favorite toy and finish the job. Once - twice - three times, then stay with her. Give her some great aftercare, and you're the man of the day. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[@ericsahagun5344]

Totally agree with that line of action It's always good to have toys or even a cucumber banana nearby Make it part of the adventure!

[@mikestroud9969]

#1 Rule. Stay hydrated. Foreplay. That's all I know

[@ericsahagun5344]

One of the things me and my partners would do while watching porn ... is we would turn to each other and see if we could match it and if we did we were very proud of each other and then the second and third time we try to outdo it That was an exciting and challenging thing to do and of course when we did top it we were even more proud of each other lol

[@kingkingataw7834]

Help me plsss plsss plsss plsss give me advice

[@sammako7959]

Men, do hip thrusts with heavy weight and drink fresh beetroot juice and eat spinach.

[@harrycordell6123]

And I brush my teeth😊seriously ❤

[@ericsahagun5344]

The first thing you said was exactly what I was going to say so I wouldn't go to bed with a woman unless I was really into her I was very lucky the first year I lost my virginity I was able to stay hard and not lose my heart on after that I could get recharged within 3 to 5 minutes but I have to say even today I can still do that and I'm no spring chicken now but of course the woman's desire & willingness to want to go again has a hell of a lot to do with it I'm a hopeless romantic so knowing she's into me as much as I'm into her had everything to do with me staying hard regaining my heart on and my performance throughout the whole act I'm lucky I have good family jeans because my mom said my dad was prolific up to the year he passed away which was 77!!!!!!!

[@deadnight700]

The background music is very distracting, please try not to have that or lower it

[@rickzech6490]

Let her hop on and grind it out

[@awesomeandre1757]

That’s like falling out of a car while driving. Some people should just stop 🛑 driving!

[@geno5169]

I tried Cielos before those damn pills took away my nerve vision.I’m left now with my prefer vision.can’t drive anymore or read menus

[@harrycordell6123]

I'm freaking out because I am just absolutely attracted to you❤

[@guygranger7894]

Losing it durung sex is almost NEVER the womans fault, unless she starts talking about another man or something dumb.Iy can be lots of things . Like for me just a real loud noise or if somehow there`s a man around, I`m outa there.

[@kamartaj]

Is there any connection between magical sex and rain?

[@AndrewAtkinson-ky4op]

❤

[@terryrutherford2114]

I'm sure my wife thinks he must have drank too much... Really though as I get older, drinking really doesn't effect my erection, it effects my ability to reach orgasm. My fault, my loss. Thanks for the video!

[@mikestroud9969]

You close your eyes and think of Ellen DeGeneres. 🤣🤣

[@zachgillen6549]

This was very helpful 🙏 I’ve been with my lady for five almost 6 years. We have an amazing sex life. We broke up for about six months. And it was about a traumatic as it gets for me. She saw someone else for a minute, but never slept with him. Now in my mind I’m convinced she did not because I don’t trust her because I just know how you guys are and I know how rebounds are. I actually did not do that. I had so many opportunities in the world but I sincerely love this woman. So I worked on myself, but I also infatuated on her being fucked by another man. Which I’m not gonna lie … killed me. Now I trust her, she is actually the only woman I have ever trusted to be completely honest , so when I was discarded blocked and had to deal with that with an abundance of other negative shit happening in my life , It threw everything off, she was no longer mind. I would look up at her when she was riding me, and think this woman will bail on me in any given moment. And then I lost it. This is the first time in my life of ever experiences and I’m being completely honest , I never had an issue because he was mine. I knew how to vagina works ,I owned it. I knew every spot I know exactly what got her off and how to go about doing it and it was comfortable and it was fun after having my heart broken to be completely honest I lost the fun and replace it with pressure. . Am I more attractive or better than this man what really happened? Did she give it a shot on the side impressed and that’s why she’s back with me.? I don’t know it’s a matter of weeks , I was blocked the time, so cause a high Fidelity situation lol and yes, for the first time in my life I have had a hard time with it , but only when I get into my head. If there’s any gap in the lovemaking to give me the opportunity to get in my head, I will drive the bus. Fact of the matter is, this is the woman of my dreams, my future wife, and there’s no one else that distracts me more so it’s definitely not her. It truly is me and my hang up. I tried communicating, but I’m gonna be honest. She is not the best at feelings, communication, and just putting it on the table. So, as you said for me to just say oh, well, this is what it is, is it received logically and she doesn’t know the true reason. Which is our sex? Life is always been amazing. Never been an issue, and since a third-party gotten to make some between six years of us being a team, it honestly fucked me up mentally , I have my entire life proud of myself I’m being a Giving The lover I don’t care if I cum , all I care about is that she is off, shivering in bed and thinking about me and only me which when there’s a third-party involved in the mix becomes a lotta pressure. I honestly don’t work well with pressure ideas to happen organically , I mean, this is supposed to be fun and engaging , I’ve never been more attracted to anyone in my life .. she is hands-down the only thing that I want in order outside of communication an attitude lol because this happened once after a very long evening, and I cannot live it down , I wake up with Morningwood I lived my whole day in that headspace , literally nobody on this planet turns me on more than her, and when we were broken up, I had women approaching me once I get my confidence back left and right, but then I have a blue she reached out , and I couldn’t be more happy but now, since I can’t get the mental aspects of her, either being with someone else, being unsatisfied, or being disappointed out of my head, which just leads to more issues like over, analyzing the shit out of everything … and I really boils down to where you are honest with me .. I trust her, but as we all know, you can’t truly trust anyone , people get drunk lol and they fuck I didn’t take that route, but I understand it . I appreciate this video. I appreciate the way that you speak because it’s not the end of the world but it was in this situation and I’ve held it over my head for a week or so. And like I said it has never happened before so it’s completely psychological. And I’m aware of this. This is a woman that said, if I ever left her, she would drive off a cliff. Fuck no I would never leave her. I love her to death but I need trust. She would always accuse me of cheating. You know what I’ve never cheated a day in my life I would break up with her before I would cheat . So now, after six months of agony, getting back together, fine deeply in love send each other sexy videos and actually having very decent sex but not to the caliber of all used to which is a high bar for me. And I’m not gonna lie. I have tortured myself all week for being inadequate and insecure. The fact is the second she pops in my mind I have a hard on , to me, despite all of her insecurities, with your complete nonsense lol I have never been attracted to someone more in my life, so yes, this is very damn near traumatizing. I mean I’m not sleeping ..I’m dwelling. And all my insecurities you’re already there from the original break up with his out of nowhere with a good if not great sex life. .Ima say great , when she splashes the shit out of me and quivers in bed , did I lose my focus because I became a second choice. Do I not believe her which sucks because I honestly do trust her. Or at the age of 43 is there something fucking wrong with me? I don’t think so because I am hard most the time when it comes to her have you . I’m gonna be completely honest there is not another woman on this planet I won’t more .. and I mean she’s beautiful, but she’s not perfect , every imperfection turns me on more than anything. I wanna marry this woman I want to live a full life with just her but yeah, for the first time in my life I have had two situations where everything was cool as fuck and I got in my head. Questions like is she really going to stick it out with me or am I just temporary? Is this really real? Did she fuck this dude? I am going to go ahead and say this is the most mysterious woman I ever met my life, but I can tell when she’s being sincere I really can’ . I love her to death but I’m not getting the same lol I show back I did for like two weeks straight and then apparently I fucked up. We fucked for a good 15 minutes or so, but I got in my hand I lost it. .🤷🏻‍♂️ but I’m dealing with mental health issues my family dying left and right, no kinds of other things that are very significant for letting go and being free. I’m not really sure why I left as long as comment I was feeling your video. I think you’re cool and down to earth and if you have any advice for me, I would greatly appreciate it because the next time that I get this woman on rose petals in my bed. I am going to crush, but if I don’t and I still have mental hangups. I know it’s over and not pressure is what’s going to stop us from going forward . We’re not all about Jess fucking it’s actually pulling teeth sometimes because it’s so important to be romantic me on the other end I didn’t have sex for times a day in public places and I was just going to get better and better and her mind, and needs to be significant an important. All I know is that I wanted this beautiful creature back in my life for so damn long and Ive infatuated on it for so damn long that now simple lovemaking and having fun is pressure. I take care of my dad. It’s at a stroke. I run my own business I tattoo for a living, which can be stressful. I had enough of that. I wanna be able to cut loose and truly have fun with each other and say OK. I’m at peace. Listen, I dig you and if you responded his comment I thought you might email because this is a situation I’ve never been through before, but I am going to pop the question and I am gonna spend the rest of my life with this woman, and this needs to be solved. Psychology is about as real as it gets .. my physical is fine. . Thank you for letting me vent. I would appreciate some response from anyone now fact of the matter is I love this woman to death, and this has become an issue.

[@fidel_soto]

Whaaaat??? That was crazy. It's a tough situation to come back from. If she can't talk it through and work on resolving the issue maybe she really isn't the woman of your life. You need to solve this issue and the only way to solve it is gonna be communicating so she better gets to it or she's gonna lose it!

[@clashwithpokefan6867]

damn, i can't believe i read all of that

[@williamjsingleton5240]

She’ll cheat again. Most women are cheating sluts but a few are faithful and true. If she was with another guy: she is a cheat. Sorry, it’s just part of life and the reason for STD’s

[@user-xo4om8qv6m]

Cmon man really

[@zurielsss]

Too long, can’t finish reading But you need to go online to type up sth this long about your love life. You obviously have issues, she is also not healthy for you if you need to do this long passage. She is toxic and you need to acknowledge it and love on

[@bradbarley6639]

For a guy that has never has to worry about the "tire going flat" in the past... it can be pretty dang traumatic though...

[@hydratanksamari]

I never thought Id happen to me, key is to not freak out, assure your partner knows its not them, and be willing to adapt if junior doesnt want to get with the program

[@danielgunter1448]

Sorry katland

[@mima5205]

Yes, she does care! Women feel unattraktive than, shut down and go for someone else! The only way to get over it: be honest, talk open to her, Tell her, how much you care for her

[@bryankeeling1315]

Maie be x bynot begg7n. Mutts❤😢hell8 yt?🎉

[@thatguy1475]

What if her breath stinks or sweat? Can't stay hard!!!

[@horaciohernandez598]

Mints and a towel

[@thatguy1475]

@@horaciohernandez598 are we there to clean or enjoy ourselves? Am no janitor!!!

[@karlgunn1209]

Remember certain meds will cause this . After I had Covid 7:19 it seems to happen More often .

[@demonfox0958]

One of the issues I've always had that causes problems in the bedroom is a LACK of sensitivity. While other guys blow too soon, I have a problem with getting enough stimulation to blow at all. This started from the first time I had sex at age 23 - I could not finish, which caused quite a bit of confusion on my part since movies and stuff depicted first time sex as guys blowing real quick. I believe this partly due to circumcision when I was born. I can keep going for quite a while which my wife does NOT like because she gets too worn out and hurts her due to hip surgeries. She'd rather I go quickly but I cant always do it. It helps to think about other women, some porn scene, or whatever to get myself to climax. Sometimes I just have to stop due to exhaustion and loss of erection and try again some other time. Viagra helps to maintain an erection but not necessarily with sensitivity. What can I do about this problem?

[@danylbekhoucha6180]

Masturbate with almond oil to get used to friction. That is what I did to fix it, this is called delayed ejaculation.

[@vinnylamoureux1187]

Are you using Zoloft. If you are, you can screw all afternoon with out shooting. I once had this misfortune. Also check any other meds you are taking. Any kind of pain meds, or anything at all that has anything to do with your nervous system. Same goes for herbal medications. Good luck to you. You are not alone.

[@Galatorm]

I have a similar condition, and also think I lost a good level of sensitivity due to circumcision. I can go on for hours without coming, and while it can be neat for some women, several will also be done after about 15 minutes of penetration and cry that they couldn't make you come that fast and blame you for not being aroused enough or the like. Now, what you can do about it... First, lower your porn consumption to the bare minimum. You said it helps you if you think of something else, meaning your level of arousal is low, because either you consume too much hardcore porn, or because you are not having the type of sex that arouse you. Second, practice mindfulness meditation to reconnect to your body. It is quite possible that you don't feel enough stimulation because you are in part disconnected from your body and too much in your head. Third, practice Kegel exercices. They are good for your sexual health and help maintaining a better erection, meaning better stimulation. Fourth, consider a therapy. Traumas, anxiety and guilt can all cause delayed ejaculation. Weiter they are thibgs you are aware of or hidden into your subconscious, it is quite possible that there are things in your past that are creating a barrier between you and your libido. Talk to someone, preferably a professional, but if you can't afford it, open up to someone else. Maybe even an artificial intelligence if you don't trust any humans to keep your secrets. Other than that, try to communicate with your partner so that she is aware of it, that she know it's not her fault, and that she offer compassion rather than grief. Playfulness, enthusiasm and joy are your best ally to defeat anxiety and cold rationality that amper your sex drive.

[@geno5169]

I took Cialis to help with my erecting.those damn pills took away my optic nerve vision.all I have now is prefer. But my sex drive is much higher than my wife ‘s.. I tell her i love her sexy curves. But i think she thinks she’s too heavy for me and for sex

[@geno5169]

I subscribe to men’s yoga.there really great for erecting and for everything else of our bodies

[@bartva3720]

My wife has an extremely low libido ! ! ! What now???

[@roberthidalgo3105]

Thank goodness i have a good woman who understands this happens.

[@CaitlinV]

Thank you for sharing!

[@danielgunter1448]

Sorry

[@balbinooller2119]

👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@drewgrace7859]

👍

[@andrewfairchild7797]

I haven't found women to lack compassion.

[@tommcwilliams3057]

Just happened to me and guess what......She's gone 😢

[@bin4ry_d3struct0r]

There's a cream for ED?

[@whatsup3519]

How did the attitude of premarital s.x relationship change in USA and other western country. How did that taboo went away?is there any cultural reason behind it? Expecting video or your reply on this topic

[@TheRexTera]

It’s because of the sexual liberation of the late 60s and birth control becoming easy to access.

[@BLACKstar4Real]

Supply and demand in my opinion, in this sense it would be the capabilities of a man. Physicality speaking the only definition given power as a concept of power and conquest, would be what a man can can and acquire. Since a lot of people forget that culture is created and not something that has to be upkept, it’s automatic that the masses get intuned with the easy or basic concept on what culture is, becuz let’s face it, these things that we create as definition such as relating, is an individual and specified way of living between the parties that help endure the waves of life. It’s changed because of the environment, and the lack thereof genuineness. The genuine part would be the knowledge and knowing that you’ll get tired of anything and we all come to the same truth that it’s a choice to live a certain lifestyle, and certain lifestyles come with non-verbal consequences.

[@kriscynical]

@@BLACKstar4Real How did you manage to type something THAT long and still say absolutely nothing?

[@texastuffs4589]

Bakri

[@LorenzoF-ei4pt]

Very interesting, until recently I hadn't realized that Mario updated his favorite way to tackle ED and it's a relief! Although what he previously suggested was pretty good, it was a real pain to follow... I just go'ogled the latest in Mario’s Thunderous Erections, it's so much easier and potent now!

[@DanielS-be5zi]

Pretty good stuff, I just realized that Mario updated his favorite way to tackle ED and it's crazy! Although what he previously talked about was pretty decent, it was difficult to follow, I just go'ogled the latest in Mario's Thunderous Erections, it's so much simpler and potent now!

[@briandouglas8959]

I'm about 3/4 away through and I still don't understand it's how you are an expert in this line of talking about sex why should I believe you used to be a doctor used to be a health provider something and p*** doesn't count if that's what you did

[@attilaczirmes3016]

It depends how much money you have.

[@spookerredmenace3950]

i always found i could keep hard if i was dating the woman, if it was just a fling then i found it hard to be hard, i guess i had to be actually loving t he woman lol

[@christophercriss5888]

Why is it always what woman want ever think maybe men want something different from a woman

[@MrSupervillin]

Eat well and work out like you boss is the devil.

[@peterwhimster]

Loosing an erection is nothing to do with the relationship.

[@bestrong1240]

I didn't watch the video. I would say it's from stress related things in your life if your boy don't stay hard or your just tired or coming off drugs or on drugs

[@6548ww]

She needs to help the man stay hard 👍

[@krakaman8861]

😛 My TONGUE is ALWAYS HARD! 😛

[@todtepfenhart7655]

Exactly! Where there's a will there's a way!

[@michaelh4978]

I’m 65 years old and start having anxiety every Saturday knowing I’m going to have sex with my wife that night. Sadly she puts “no” effort into sex. NO attempt wearing lingerie, nylons or shoes! Why when it’s only going to come off or wearing that isn’t comfortable! I’ve given up!

[@felipebecerra2177]

Had some long relationships, and one of the things kept the fire up was to being Active on those preparation details, like telling her how text a couple of days before the date, also buying a dress I wanted to see on her and lingerie. Also different scenarios, like a hotel/airbnb, places you both enjoy and feels like Exotic kinda thing. (Obv budget friendly, but do it on purpose, it’s for Your delight). I reward her behavior when she follows up, also her smell, her attitude (which goes with pre warm whispers/txt, a “hunter” kinda stare here and there trough the week… it’s like cooking slowly at your Own taste 👌. Hope it helps!

[@OrlandoholidayExplorer]

I can't comprehend how you can be aroused, inside her honey pot and go soft. Then i realize you likely think "am i going soft, is it...oh its falling out...and it does. If you are fit and your heart, BP and circulation are good the only reason you lose wood is the fact you expect it to happen any time.

[@teddyzamba1396]

Maybe if the woman brings some of her friends over, and they strip and have a pillow fight, the diversion can be quite arousing....nice...!!

[@dirtlump]

Good Video.... however, something must be more common than I've ever heard of. 'Lose" their erection ???????? Do you intend 'after' ejaculating ? forgive me here..... but isn't that a fairly normal condition for most after ejaculating ? But if you mean 'losing' their hard on .... prior to ejaculating while still having sex... I have no clue how that happens unless coitus is otherwise interrupted somehow ? If anything, I find the longer I attempt to postpone my orgasm... the harder it is to eventually achieve it, which can be quite frustrating ?

[@powskier]

I guess this proves the kind of hairstyle you doesn't affect your ability to make good videos. But, irregardless, she's got a really bad hairstyle. Otherwise, great video with common sense advise.

[@lulucheng5408]

My girlfriend and I really just watches your videos, just to fantasize about you.

[@bingo1232]

What goes in all stiff and hard… and comes out all soft and mushy? Bubblegum!!!!!

[@briandouglas8959]

You get a thumbs down

[@USA99999]

Women needa move dè àss a bit more...

[@stevelane1956]

It`s very annoying, I must be at that age when this happens sometimes even with the blue pill!

[@harrycordell6123]

Love those toys

[@notreallydavid]

Boner would be a good name for a dog.

[@fugazi32]

Stop watching porn and live healthy!

[@briandouglas8959]

Again what makes you an expert do you have a doctor degree and health used to be a psychiatrist something you have to have some type of background besides if you did p*** horn doesn't count

[@TomMcDonaldatYahooDotCom]

Blah blah blah more useless information to gain subscribers upvotes

[@LostNavigator]

And yet, here you are!

[@TomMcDonaldatYahooDotCom]

. . . . .... Along with you 🤣 i said "SUBSCRIBERS" - duh

[@michunreal1]

@@TomMcDonaldatYahooDotCom we

[@TomMcDonaldatYahooDotCom]

@@michunreal1 yaaaah - "US" 😉

[@stephen1464]

Sometimes if I start losing it, my girl just sucks it for a bit till I’m completely hard again

[@todtepfenhart7655]

You've got a good girl there.

[@Paleotech1]

Finally gets to the point at the 6:00 mark………but no useful information…….

[@sircorkysriley4904]

YEP