The narcissist only misses what you can do for them. They’re all about self!
@braniofan78945 жыл бұрын
I was the one that got discarded. But as time went on I realize that rejection is God's protection!
@stephaniesomer59345 жыл бұрын
Yes they miss you-They miss what you can do for them, give to them, and they miss controlling you and making you miserable...
@petertran89683 жыл бұрын
The narcissist, the person that you’re with is only the body, the soul is keep and controlled by the jezebel evil spirit, you much forgive and prayed to free the soul, and exposed this evil spirit to cleanse out the earth, it is not the person who is causing you pain, is the spirit inside of them. You much understand this truth..🙏
@lorimartinez87275 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I was married 26 years!!! He started a relationship in 30 days! This is a huge indicator of his character. His family is like whatever about it. They talk to me like if I was married to him for a year. They downplay everything like it's no big deal that he is dating this downgrade. I have been no contact since September. He downgraded. She is unattractive. I deserve better.
@sociopathsurvivor71295 жыл бұрын
Lori Martinez what I always find even more amazing is how none of their friends or family even see anything strange about being in a new relationship so fast. As far as I’m concerned, that shows they’re just as bad.
@anthonywelsh49795 жыл бұрын
I left her but it’s not easy I’m heartbroken 😭 , 7 yrs for nothing ! it’s so hard , why do they want to destroy you ? When all you’ve done is loved them cared for them gave them everything? They don’t even care ? It messes you up mentally , I feel like life sucked out of me , please God help me 😭😭thank you for these videos thanks 😢
@TT_Hot_Topics2 жыл бұрын
I hope you are healing🌻
@Mišolinka865 жыл бұрын
I did it!!! I feel so proud and so much better than before! One year no contact because I wanted so. It was hard. I cried a lot. I was depressed, sad every day. But.. just 2 days ago I found out how strong I am. I was walking to my job, and suddenly he stopped with car next to me and tried to talk to me. All nice and sweet. I said: please go away, I dont want to talk to you. He was surprised by that, but then he drove away. I was shaking. It was not easy but really I didn't have any wish to talk to him. I'm repulsed by him.
@TheMwendaa4 жыл бұрын
Yeeeeesss girl!! Well done!
@sailormoon2434 жыл бұрын
@@TheMwendaa thank you. I feel better than ever 😁
@MiisZChyNa5 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you. I haven’t left him yet, but I know I will.
@sarahmarren87615 жыл бұрын
I've been 4 weeks now! Pls be strong enough to leave 😘 I'm feeling so much better like I can breath again xx
@manalazmi90564 жыл бұрын
4 months no contact 😁
@TheMwendaa4 жыл бұрын
I pray you walk away ASAP Amen!
@aquarius72234 жыл бұрын
No, they miss your energy that they were stealing from us. I told my ex narcopath I was done yet, turns tables. I told him I know his mind and black little heart is on someone else "yes and it IS your fault" was his answer. LOL! Take him boo boo, I miss myself and now am healing. It is not my fault or yours, they will see exactly who's fault it is once they finally see you are GONE. I respect the dead so, can't treat them like that, just remember how happy they were to throw you under the bus and tell you its because of you. You will laugh and be indifferent. Once I killed off his persona, he showed me exactly who and WHAT he is.
@KaylaKM5 жыл бұрын
Two months?! LOL my ex narc was already “love bombing” and basically in a relationship with a new supply 3 days after I broke up with him. Mind you during those 3 days after I broke things off with him, we were constantly texting back and forth about how much we loved and missed each other and we are going to get back together and take things slow.. and he had already had sex with the new supply at this point (“3 days!!!!”)
@narcaway5 жыл бұрын
That sounds like typical narc behaviour, I hope you have moved on from him and the new supply. You don't need that kind of toxicity in your life!
@chriscrandall60765 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I appreciate you sharing your information. I left my narc 3 years ago, and through meditation and family and friends support. I have finally been able to move on. With no closure, it was difficult, but I would not return to that toxic man. I am so much happier. Namaste
@narcaway5 жыл бұрын
Once you learn and accept that closure comes from within it is much easier to close that door and move on. I am ecstatic to hear you are happier now! Keep up the great work ~ Amy
@sda99955 жыл бұрын
Look on Facebook says alot about narcissist but don't if it going to hurt u stay away! No narc don't miss u I'm much better off with out him love my freedom!!🤗
@msjdub77675 жыл бұрын
So needed this now 😁 I luv ur wrk and all the info...Im learning so much
@narcaway5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your support 💗
@zsazsastratton5 жыл бұрын
LOVE YOUR CHANNEL. WHY OH WHY WOULD I MISS A HORRIBLE PERSON??? I LOVE MY HAPPINESS TO MUCH TO MISS A MEAN SPIRITED INDIVIDUAL. JUST STAY STONG, IT CAN BE SO VERY EASY TO GO N.C.❤️
@annavasilyeva48415 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!! Thank you a lot for your support 😊! Your videos are really helpful and supportive:)
@joeq.public2814 жыл бұрын
Your videos are very good. I like how you take clinical situations and dissect them in a very casual manner, making it easier to understand.
@narcaway4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I'm glad you find them helpful.
@daniellemorse69292 жыл бұрын
My ex-narc had someone during the 30 days of no contact but I believe she was already in the picture. Once again have gone no contact and staying that way for good. He is a sick, twisted individual who destroyed a person who truly loved, adored him, and did anything for him. There are no more chances.
@1tundra115 жыл бұрын
He will miss the sugar momma I was..he has nothing waited and waited on the promises to get his shit together..glad my daughter got me to see the light and realize he was a leech..his looks are gone, back busted no decent vehicle ,to take a date on ,had to take my car always, very little money but from odd car jobs...living in his motor home I was helping him restore...he must be panicking..with all the strikes like that how will he get a women with her shit together like me plus who put up with his b.s. give him a home help with grandkids he watches has be a good grandma type like me....no way in hell
@Mawmawsoffherrocker4 жыл бұрын
Do narcs ever go years without someone new???? Mine went only 2 months after an almost 3 year relationship.....we were getting married 2 months before the breakup. He moved on (which broke my heart even though I kicked him out) and erased me like I'd never existed. Sometimes I think I may have been the narc, but even after a year, I'm still grieving. I even dream about him and her!!!!!!!!
@TT_Hot_Topics2 жыл бұрын
Focus on yourself so you can heal 🌻
@NathalieBee5 жыл бұрын
Excellente analyse 👍🌞 thank you Amy 🌞👍♥️
@bobhunley87945 жыл бұрын
I left the Narcissist and walked away from romance. My brain doesn't want it but my body starves. I should say her not it. I thought I had a coach advisor and he got dogmatic judgemental on me so I exed him out. And he whipped his Farrah hair. Dont get me wrong I have my path but it's personal and sacred and dogma free. This cat freaked me out. The hair thing was trippy. I was making a card for my mom and dad yesterday being an artist and the advisor calls frantic and when I said no his demeanor changed. Spiritual terrorist. I might as well join a goth movement. I noticed agnostics are nicer people. They don't use a deity to excuse bad behavior. Bob. Nice to see your vid.
@jannlewandowski55402 жыл бұрын
YES THEY MISS YOU! They miss using and abusing you. They miss the money you gave them and things you bought them. Sure, they miss u a lot!!!!
@jennbaking63264 жыл бұрын
thank u. it brings back my authenticity. i will take all ur advice. God bless
@bobhunley87945 жыл бұрын
Its like what the Beatles sang on Abby Road at the " And in the End"..the Love You take is equal to the Love , you make. 🎸Bob
@krisgantalao97324 жыл бұрын
yeah.. theres no time she told me what is in me that she like o love, she answered not about how I am as a good person but she answered “bec you care and love me”
@MsHayley7774 жыл бұрын
love your videos....it helps me alot
@narcaway4 жыл бұрын
Glad you like them!
@LumpOfClay15 жыл бұрын
I'm just over 4 months free!
@raccuia15 жыл бұрын
Great news
@suewhite71992 жыл бұрын
A few months? That's nothing. I met my ex within three weeks of his getting dumped by his previous girlfriend. He obviously hadn't gotten over it even though they had only been together less than two years. I doubt he has yet. I thought he would be a good partner as he had previously been married for twenty years, and as far as I can tell it was a pretty good relationship. I think he actually does miss her. But according to my estimate he was in a new relationship about a month after she died. He just can't be alone. He'll take anyone who will have him. He ought to miss me though. I gave good supply! :-D
@ageeblue7525 жыл бұрын
yes i was the one who left the nac...............
@damianooi82614 жыл бұрын
Is it possible that a married narc still wants his/her supplies to keep in touch with them? Mine told me she wants to be with me even though she is marrying soon
@narcaway4 жыл бұрын
Of course, the bigger the harem and fall-back supply, the better for them!
@joemadonna91645 жыл бұрын
I love your videos they've been so helpful. But would you please change him to them!
@paulacussins3415 жыл бұрын
I went no contact Dec. 14th he was engaged Dec.20 th and got married today March 6th. WTF ? I was with him for 15 years ,until this last affair I walked away. We never lived together or married because I have custody of grandkids and he always said he didnt want to raise kids. I am still hurt but I understand now everything makes sense. Wish I would have figured this out sooner.
@stylist62 Жыл бұрын
Thank you😭🥰
@hodatarek1195 жыл бұрын
I got it you mean he's behaving like a drugy persons looking for any substitutes right?? Ok can you talk about that on your next video? Thanks for sharing
@kccurrie16815 жыл бұрын
Try 5 years with Narc and literally new supply in within hours as she flew down states away and was under my nose at a fundraiser we were working on over 2 years. They can have each other. Did me a favor now that I look back
@janettesainz73565 жыл бұрын
I don’t think this man never love me or things that care or love him but we better off so all you say is very true and yes same here when I met my ex he had barely separated three months out of his previous relationship who he had children with but yeah they play the victims when I meet oh so true wow
@martinthemartiann3 жыл бұрын
thank you. really helpful
@narcaway3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@stevet47684 жыл бұрын
I have a question. I actually ran into my ex-narcissist in a parking lot. We were facing each other in our cars. She couldn’t even get out of the car to say hello. Instead she pulled out of her parking space and took off. Why would she leave like this?
@narcaway4 жыл бұрын
Maybe she is no contact with you.
@stevet47684 жыл бұрын
NarcAWAY why though? I’m not the narcissist.
@stevet47684 жыл бұрын
NarcAWAY btw. I love your videos. It has helped me
@stevet47684 жыл бұрын
It really doesn’t matter anyways. Probably for the best.
@toddtomaino7165 жыл бұрын
He and him. WOW
@narcaway5 жыл бұрын
Or she and her :) Much love friend ~ Amy
@julie_6322 жыл бұрын
AMEN!!!! 🙏
@dianedorney66375 жыл бұрын
6 months FREE....yipeeeeee
@kimjarrett10035 жыл бұрын
so helpful
@loulou12354 жыл бұрын
Strange video. You left the narcissist. No hun. I was discarded.
@narcaway4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the comment.
@johnlittle27175 жыл бұрын
He or she!! Y is it automatically assumed it's a male????
@hansfrugte58145 жыл бұрын
Dont talk always in the "man " version
@narcaway5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Hans - I am trying to be more mindful to use "they" instead of "him". Thanks for your comment ~ Amy