Don’t Be “Distracted by Their Darkness” | Marcus Aurelius on Success

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''You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.'' - Marcus Aurelius

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1. Create your teachers. 2. Stop caring about them. 3. Do what is essential. 4. Change your perception. 5. Follow nature's way.

[@alanhowitzer]

Why number 2. Stop caring about them?

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@@alanhowitzer stop caring what they think.

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[@olliefoxx7165]

Either you didn't mean #2 as its stated or you meant stop caring for your teachers. You shouldn't stop caring for those that have been a positive influence. Even negative teachers have a place, not near the heart but as lessons learned. Very odd your # 2.

[@yowhattupitzbigchungus4971]

“ Choose not to be harmed “ love that!

[@james9277]

A lesson many need to learn today

[@live2raid]

I feel like this concept can only be used in certain situations if someone was to stab you clearly you would be physically harmed and just thinking this wouldn’t stop you from bleeding. Maybe might heal your recovery faster idk

[@yowhattupitzbigchungus4971]

Live2raid lmao well.....maybe choose not to be harmed when its in your power to do so. I scream like a little girl if i get so much as a paper cut.

[@russell1841]

@@live2raid He is talking about the mental aspect of harm here. Of course, you would be injured when stabbed. You could try to not get stabbed, but sometimes it is not possible. The idea is to defend yourself mentally even if you were to be stabbed. If you are in recovery, don't blame yourself and think about what you could have done instead. Accept that it is now outside of your control and focus on what you could do to improve your circumstances. "“Let the body avoid discomfort (if it can), and if it feels it, say so. But the soul is what feels fear and pain, and what conceives of them in the first place, and it suffers nothing. Because it will never conclude that it has.” Excerpt From: Marcus Aurelius. “Meditations”.

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It’s literally impossible to not be harmed.

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You can learn something from toxic people. For example, how not to behave.

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Marcus Aurelius is the main man!!

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Well said.

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You could also admire their curious attractiveness.

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I don't get it.

[@Calidore1]

“Choose not to be harmed.“ that’s good. There is no need to be outraged or to hurt anybody.

[@jeziscricket4448]

Or you can turn the other cheek, walk away and never lay a hand on someone

[@sadokaguel1854]

Check Eckhart Tolle, He goes more in depth into that and It’s really helpful. Good luck!

[@Eternalised]

“A blazing fire makes flame and brightness out of everything that is thrown into it.”

[@PandaRehab]

Thank you for sharing. I am in the process of removing "I don't care" from my experience to avoid apathetic perspective. I am replacing it with "I am not concerned". It has been good to me, especially in social interactions.

[@kissarococo2459]

I used to be angry at politics and world until I learned this almost buddhist monk-like detachment from it. Now I am better mentally and have energy for important things. It´s not that I don´t care but I have accepted I have non control over it and to just live as I want the world to be.

[@taniachara77]

Shiva I’m going to start using that🤗

[@manufacturedreality8706]

@@kissarococo2459 Same here! :)

[@caleb1031]

"I am not concerned with your paltry actions human" I can't get it to work. :(

[@angelaloveandstars]

I do pray by now you have achieved your goal in ridding your thoughts of any harmful perspective, I personally use “ I am untroubled ( by this thing I cannot control) “and it gives me much peace in my heart and soul! Have a wonderful day and blessings!😊💜🎀

[@osse1n]

What we think of life is a perception, a judgement. We need to become observers, not reactors.

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[@DarkAngelEU]

Yeah, just observe and let politics take everything over. It's not like the end of the world is gonna happen lmao

[@osse1n]

@Admiral BLOODFIRE I salute you sir. Exactly how it is. Join me.

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@@DarkAngelEU let the world end, I'm still laughing my ass off

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Fact

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Same here!

[@kissarococo2459]

"not to trust schools but to hire private tutors" so wise, I worked in many public schools and the history teaching is so subpar I cannot tolerate being present there. Kids are just contained.

[@melaniechouette2445]

Kissa Rococo May I ask which country you are teaching in? I believe I’ve seen worse history text books--I’m from China😂

[@parrotshootist3004]

@@melaniechouette2445 UK here. Dunno about there, but there are those that say, what amounts to, that if weren't for lies, mistruths, half truths and misunderstandings our texts in schools might be entirely blank. I'm not sure any sincere investigation as to how true that is, would, be hope inducing.

[@LoveJaeger]

Parrotshootist why haven’t schools fought for the right for our children to learn the truth if they are aware of the lies being taught. I mean, how does a Teacher teach against his own knowledge learned from University as most teachers have to be a master in their field, have the teachers been taught this same false curriculum or are they taught the real truth. Or are some aware of the real truth and some not aware? I just think if you don’t fight for the children as a teacher, teaching poison to young minds, weather that he teachers refusing to abide along with head teachers, or fight for s change of law. But I guess the question is, what is THE TRUTH. Sorry for rambling I have many questions, I’m a curious human being, thank you.

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Public schools are indoctrination centers, not educational institutions.

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As a creator I appreciate your words. Stoicism has helped me take from others valuable lessons; however at the same time not letting the malevolent individuals impede my progress.

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@Time to Reason I hope your new path brings you happiness my friend!

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This is some valuable info. Lot of stress comes from looking at events catastrophically.. Amplifies pain 1000 fold.

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[@KNIGHT-TEMPLARS-888]

"Choose not to be harmed " for me easier said than done🤷🏻‍♂️. I really admire people I know getting offended by others (narcissists😈)and not Do or Say anything afterward.

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Always consider your source when getting advice..Never ask a poor man about investing..etc.

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But you can ask him how he is able to survive on so little

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[@marianovallejos9861]

Oohhh maaan, i just found that "meditations" in my school's library and i read it, you aport me a lot of tranquility and now i feel my trail

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Aport? Qué formal :)

[@kinngrimm]

I read Aurelius "Introspections" and acknowledge a lot of the wisdom presented in there. Not all can be taken 1:1 into modern times with lots of knew knowledge, but there are gems to be found.

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This is one of the great channel for self-development. I'm very grateful for having it in my life. May God bless you!

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So glad you didn't let the skeptics get to you, these videos are incredibly helpful to me whenever I need them. Thank you so much for your insightful videos!

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Thank you for making this video! I learn a lot. Your calm, rational and educated manner of presenting complex philosophical issues comes as a favourite break during the day.

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As a teen and in my early 20s, I was most drawn to existentialism, especially Nietzsche. Then, I was drawn most to Buddhism, particularly the teachings of Zen Master Thich Nhat Hahn at Plum Village Monastery. Now, in my 40s, I find the teachings of Marcus Aurelius most relevant---Meditations---as well as that of other Stoics. Keep up the good work, Einzelgänger. I've seen some of your videos before; but now I'm subscribing. Cheers.

[@Comuzzy]

Im 18 and I've created a combination between Nietszche and Stoicism that's leading my life to, at least, personal success.

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I'm 17, will be writing my own philosophy soon but before that I must live that and test it against circumstances.. let's see how far I will go

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@@Comuzzy Can you explain your version please.

[@Comuzzy]

@@sfyn3496 that was two years ago, sadly I don’t remember what I did really. I ended up following Christ again, it’s the easiest way for a fulfilling and happy life. I do remember I used to meditate, nofap, and a few things more. My routine consisted on exercising in the early morning (light work, in my room before high school), going to the gym and avoiding social media. I don’t remember much because my grandma, who I lived with and raised me and taught me values, died at the end of that year. Sorry I couldn’t help, but I’m pretty sure if you read two or three Nietzsche books and get into stoic philosophy you’ll end up reaching the same conclusions as I did.

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[@sandrajovic9304]

Thank you Mr. Einzelgänger for your inspiring classes. (Teachers seem to be the theme of the day for me) All my best teachers weren't from (a) school. The school of life, where would I be without those teachers,, and some play a small part of my life but helped my recovery big. Every person I've ever met taught me something. I'm better for all of it. And very grateful♥

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I am so happy you follow your vision and share it with us !

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powerful, well-written and, immensely important words that many around the world should listen to

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Thank you Einzelgänger. This really helped me a lot during my first day back from the Christmas break in school. I was really full of fear and anxiety and because of that, I kept self-depricating myself. Therefore, leading me to be absent minded and zone out. But then suddenly I asked myself the same question from the video, "is this necessary?" And then I finally removed the mindset and continued what I was meant to do for school. Thanks again Einzelgänger!

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Do what is important and matters. This is the philosophy.

[@ash8207]

Very inspiring & sincere advice! This is a healthy & positive way to look at success. In today's modern society, we are all bombarded by the toxic consumerist propaganda that tries to condition us to think that "success" is about how much $ we make, what fancy car we drive, what big house we buy, what fancy title we acquired, what expensive clothes we wear, what shiny jewelry we wear, what great job we got, etc. All of it being shallow, unnecessary & superficial, in the grand scheme of things. All the while ignoring or downplaying all the wonderful, hard-working people, the ones that are truly successful in making their families, communities & the world a better place. As a US Army veteran, I know from personal experience that true success comes not in the form of wealth or fancy titles, but from the selfless service & sacrifice you make for your brothers-in-arms. I remember how my parents were strongly opposed to my enlistment as well. I know their concerns were genuinely well-meaning, but I'm glad I didn't heed their advice & chose my own path. I would have missed out on many incredible experiences & things that benefited my life & the life of others. Everytime someone doubts me or tries to tell me what I can't do, it only fires me up & motivates me to continue with my plan of action. What could be more stoic than that?

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Great. Clear and concise. a great philosophy for our own times too.

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thanks for the videos man, Marcus Aurelius is truly badass

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I can imagine just how sturdy Marcus Aurelius stood in the face of ultimate hardship. I can only admire him more

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Thankful that Marcus Aurelius's "Meditations" was kept and helped so many generations after him. Also, your videos are very worth watching, thank you.

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That is the best video of the channel, for me (from my perspective, lol). I loved it so much. We really need that kind of wisdom in our daily life, in a world full of noise, distraction, lack of clarity, and doubts..

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Einzelgänger, without you I may have overwhelmingly ended my life much long ago because I felt so alone. I’ve learnt to embrace solitude and learn more about living virtuously. Thank you for sharing your truth.

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Alan Watts

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open ur eyes they're everywhere

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Soothing voice, great maxims, easy explanations.

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Cognitive therapy actually cured me from depression...It was all in my perception of the world. Change your thoughts and you will change your mood.

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I had the same experience, i tell people that and they just say thanks im cured lol if only they could HEAR me.

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Thank you for going on your own path and listening to yourself to know what's best for you

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Bedankt voor je compliment!

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Thank you so much for the work you do. Stoic teachings are a light in such uncertain times like right now - and no other channel that I know of presents the teachings like this. So comprehensive, coherent, and encouraging.

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You are very welcome! Thank you for the kind words.

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God bless you friend, and all, all the best to you - my love and deep respect from Greece

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Thank you Dan, that's a nice compliment :)

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I start my day off with this every morning...

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Good video. Your third point is really helpful today.I would to see you do a comparison of stoicism to the new shows the witcher and the Mandalorian since both main characters are pretty damn stoic.

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Roger Miller Agree!

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Given here the pith instruction. Nothing superfluous. Inspiring. Thank you.

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I needed this so much tonight. Thank you for the comfort you bring me, as well as the wisdom.

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A Beautiful video. I just wrote tomorrow’s task list. Thank you for the reminder.

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Love you for all this beautiful knowledge thank you I am sow grateful and happy for hearing this great knowledge

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Thank you! words fall short to express how amazing this insightful video is! This is what happens when determination meets personal experience and wisdom! All benefit :), pain and confusion are lessened

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Thank you ever so much. What an excellent video! Being an empath this philosophy of stoicism you are sharing here, is showing up in a remarkable way a life stream to follow of tranqillity, perseverance and unshakable authenticity.

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You should make Audiobook about your book.

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I watch so many of your views of the world...thank you for the constant inspiration!

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I was just noticing how good the editing of your videos are...

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I enjoyed the video . Keep up the teaching . It's beneficial for those who hear and yourself as well . To God be the glory . Thanks pal .

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Thank you! Great video for starting the new decade

[@bibiderennes]

Thank you Einzelgänger ! Thank you Marcus Aurelius !

[@loganlaj]

Human beings are more similar than they are different!

[@middleofnowhere1313]

Toxic ppl teach you what not to do.

[@GrowthMindsetProductions]

This is one of my greatest impacts from studying stoicism: *Do* *what* *makes* *you* *happy* - *Life* *is* *too* *short* *to* *not* *enjoy* *it* =)

[@devshah1751]

So amazing video sir, thank you very much and please keep posting!!

[@carlbowles1808]

Marcus Aurelius wisdom still applies today because true wisdom never fails.

[@camronmayon8122]

We are a circle within a circle with no begining and no ending